"You are sooooo not my type!!! (self.TheRedPill)

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I heard this from a woman recently as I was fucking her.

In fact, I'm soooooo not her type, she came 3 times. She sucked my dick and let me come in her.

Then she went home to her kind, loving husband who in her mind is her type

A provider who likes to overcommunicate details about his day. He is thoughtful and throughout our escapade was texting about the meal he was preparing for when she got home from Girls Night Out. A swell guy for sure.

She didn't even shower afterwards because when she gets home "We aren't going to have sex "

Anyway...This is backstory for the point I want to make. Im not blasting the slut woman. Far from it. She is adorable and just stuck with a beta and doing what women in her shoes do. I'm also not attacking the cuck. He has enough problems.

My point is that women have no idea what they find attractive.

Nature seems to have smartly hidden this detail from them because if they actually knew what got them off it would be shocking. More than shocking really....it would be bad for humanity if women could recognise and change their actions as it relates to mating.

Dont believe it?

Women stay with men who beat them, yet leave weak, soft men in droves to ride the EatPrayLove CockTrain.

Convicted felons find wives via pen pals all the time yet there are loads of incel hardworking shoegazers in every IT dept in the USA.

I could go on and on. Its an old trope that women fall for the wrong man. It's in stories dating back to the beginning of time for a reason.

Women love strength and power and dont care (or know?) if its a Super Hero or a Super Villain as long as he has psychosocial and physical dominance.

And they have no idea nor the ability to see it.

This isnt a flaw in women. It's a feature that is hidden from the world as best as possible.

Watch what they do, ignore what they say.

[–]fig-jammer 583 points584 points  (6 children)

'I don't usually do this sort of thing'

[–]championchilli 182 points183 points  (1 child)

If I had a unit of currency for every time I'd heard this I'd have well north of 20 dollars.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 129 points130 points  (1 child)

I also like it the other way around:

"OH MY GOD! What was that? Do you do this to all women?"

"Nope. You are the first one."


[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 12 points13 points  (0 children)

'I don't usually do this sort of thing'

Translation: "I do this shit a lot."

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"and i usually use a condom"

Just fucking around. Don't think with your dick ALL the time guys..

[–]aureliusbtm 123 points124 points  (4 children)

“Watch what they do, not what they say” is the realest advice out there. Guys stuck in the friend zone are blind to this.

[–]KnowBrainer 17 points18 points  (3 children)

That was a brutal lesson for me, between "don't trust words ever" and "don't judge a book by its cover".

When cutie princess buries the knife in your back for a $100,000 payday....

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$100,000 is nothing for freedom. Lucky it wasn’t ten times that

[–]Forgot_Pword 97 points98 points  (59 children)

Can you elaborate on how you convey your strength and power OP?

[–]Ketogainsmongoose 1 points1 points [recovered]

You show them your stats and your power level.

[–]Forgot_Pword 165 points166 points  (20 children)

"Wanna see my holographic Mewtwo?"

[–]TRPDigesting 36 points37 points  (17 children)

Would love to see somebody try this as a means to bring the girl back to their place.

"Oh, you HAVE to see my holographic Pokémon cards. I used to be obsessed with them as a kid, it's hilarious."

[–]123InigoMontoya123 36 points37 points  (3 children)

I actually invited a chick up to my bedroom last Summer with this line. I said, "let's go upstairs." when she asked why, I gave her a smirk and told her I wanted to show her my Pokémon collection. She rolled her eyes and followed... I don't even own Pokemon cards.

[–]TRPDigesting 21 points22 points  (1 child)

That's fantastic. Totally proves that it doesn't really matter what you say at that point, as long as you give them a reason to proceed.

The more nonchalant and lighthearted you are about it, the better the results.

[–]halfback910 10 points11 points  (12 children)

My situation is probably very different because I'm dealing with other men (women generally just don't have a fucking appreciation for video games, computer games, etc.), but I have used computer games as a means to getting someone to come back to my place.

We both liked the same grand strategy games. So I said we could play Stellaris on LAN if he wanted since he had his laptop. So he came over and we did do that. And we also had sex.

It wasn't that great because he was pretty inexperienced and tried to rush way before he should have. You know, in Stellaris. The sex was great.

[–]TRPDigesting 2 points3 points  (8 children)

That's interesting, I haven't thought about how TRP may apply in same-sex relationships.

I could see where a lot of the principles would be applicable.

[–]1ozaku7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The majority of gay men have pretty much a female logic mindset. That is why gay men and straight women are so very well friend, because they are alike. Both also want to get fucked hard by a man and be the submissive one. If you are a gay dominant man, you can fuck half the gay population within a fingersnap.

[–]halfback910 1 points1 points [recovered]

Well I would argue in many ways they're applicable in all relationships. Be they romantic, platonic, or transactional. The currencies (financial, emotional, sexual) may change but the dynamics are really mostly the same I think.

The same tactics aren't as necessary. Granted, pickup artistry and what not can be useful in gay interactions but you can do just fine without playing the game.

I wouldn't say I have social autism but I'm borderline retarded when it comes to social interaction and emotions and stuff. I can do public speaking because that's a formulaic skill that you can learn and it's only one way. But I've not been able to learn social interaction.

If I were straight that would likely confine me to virginity. But I do just fine for myself messaging anyone and everyone I find attractive on a dating app and asking anyone who replies if they want to have sex. No gamesmanship, literally just asking. Generally have sex three or four times a week doing that alone. If I'm particularly desperate I can go to a gay club, which is guaranteed sex within an hour or two if I so choose.

I compare it to fishing where you're a fish. Doesn't take much effort to get caught if you want to.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 6 points7 points  (5 children)

Men care about looks and sex, so faggots can always get attention from other faggots unless they are out of shape.

This is why faggots have zero useful insights to offer straight dudes on how to get laid by women, despite the fact that some faggots will have a lot of women who are massively attracted to them, due to the combination of obsessive care of their personal appearance, and the zero fucks they give about female attention.

Faggots can't teach men game because they don't know any, and they can't learn any from men, because they don't need any.

Faggots can't teach men how to emulate their indifference to women, because it's not a studied indifference, it's just homosexuality.

[–]NitricTV 1 points1 points [recovered]

Just gotta make sure it's over 9000.

[–]scissor_me_timbers00 1 points1 points [recovered]

I'm a level 37 mage with level 43 paladin hitpoints and a wand of disintegration at my disposal.

I can hear their vaginal juices now

[–]SovereignSoul76 1 points1 points [recovered]

YES BROTHER! Her juices will spoosh forth, like the Elven River of Forobelm!

[–]gatsmd 157 points158 points  (4 children)

For starters, you need to look the part. It looks kind of strange watching a scrawny person trying to be dominating. Because, someone my size will easily crush a person who is average size (or they could be a fighter and I could lose, so it will at least appear that I can).

Really your question is so in-depth, that it cannot be answered here in this comment box. Because in order to get what you're looking for, you have to live life.

The key to obtaining power and strength and learning how to convey it properly is;

to live a well versed life... Do things that are difficult, and things that you don't want to do because you fear them. Push your mental and physical boundaries far beyond what you thought were possible. Find a mentor who is smarter than you, better than you, and stronger than you, and watch what he does. If you can't, pull these qualities individually from different people. Then, emulate that behavior and fail, and win, and lose, and do it all again. After years and years of this, you will develop yourself enough that you will have obtained a level of strength and power most haven't. You will also have the confidence to match because of what you made it through in your experiences.

[–]Forgot_Pword 34 points35 points  (1 child)

This is a great answer. Confidence through experience and adversity is truly confidence.

[–]Rhynolicious 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I actually had a realization yesterday morning that up until now, all of my confidence was posturing. It was a constant verbal diarrhea used as a self conscious pep talk. I was massively overweight, weak, and horrendously low on Testosterone.

Now when I talk (a lot less might I add) it’s purposeful and insightful. It’s not to brag or over exaggerate shit I accomplished in the past. It’s just to be who I am.

If you want to be dominating and confident. Lift heavy ass weights, drop the body fat %, and take pride in your work.

[–]Drumcode-Equals-Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is dead on - I would have never learned how to confidently travel the world on my own by reading a bunch of Frommer's travel guides, it took actually flying over to Europe and traveling throughout the different countries, and throwing myself into challenging situations like camping out in the Swiss Alps in order to become a world traveler with confidence.

[–]Luckylancer96 21 points22 points  (2 children)

Pee on her to show dominance!

[–]OilyB 13 points14 points  (10 children)

I've read some of the answers and would like to contribute a piece - don't pick a woman who's on par with you; that'll result in an equal relationship.

Choose slightly subpar - either/or: she's shorter than you, earns less than you, laughs more easily about stuff than you do, has less of an education, but most of all: you are morally and mentally her superior.

This way you don't have to train yourself to be dominant, because she's already (ever so slightly) 'inferior' to you.

Think 'submissive' - you want to dominate? Then choose a submissive partner, one who's agreeable, and will follow your lead. An equal female partner will always try to turn up on top.

Hope this helps.

[–]irollnothingbut20s 12 points13 points  (7 children)

The only women I find truly attractive are severe, driven women with passion and discipline (pretty rare). The idea of an innately submissive woman just doesn't push my buttons. Maybe it's an ego thing, but I'd rather conquer than rule.

[–]123InigoMontoya123 5 points6 points  (2 children)

You're not alone dude. If they don't engage me on a higher level than just making my dick hard, I don't waste any time on them.

[–]MrCarepig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kind of feel like this in a way. I think i'm in a type of red pill isolation phase where i kind of feel repulsed by women knowing all these red pill truths. When i see a woman with passion and discipline i kind of respect her a little more though.

[–]Hung_Chad 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I agree, but that just means your standards for yourself have to be even higher.

[–]OilyB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There ya go. Or you lower the standards for her, same thing. It's a balance, a scale, not a black or white matter. There are more alternatives between a smartass and a nitwit.

Say you're a 7 on the smart/dominant/quickwitted/cultured/educated/experienced scale, you go for a 5 or a six. No need for a 3, that's too much.

[–]Grimsterr 4 points5 points  (1 child)

It starts with DNGAF, if you're trying to show strength and power, you're failing, simple as that.

[–]Hung_Chad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily true. The whole point of TRP is that you can consciously learn and use alpha traits. In fact a lot of “bad boy” traits that women love can come from overcompensation for low self esteem.

Of course, embodying alpha traits subconsciously is ideal, but consciously practicing will also get you far.

[–][deleted] 107 points108 points  (11 children)

My advice for you bruv. Don't have sex with married women if you want to be alive.

The most violent males are among what you call "the beta males". I know a guy who killed both wife and the man she fucked with.

Dont underestimate the betas, many of them are betas because of society, not because of their nature. When the alpha traits are suppressed, it can explode anytime .

[–]ItsNotShane 79 points80 points  (6 children)

Exactly, it's super red zone shit. Beta males like Elliot Rodgers are dangerous. Beta males who will find you and murder you without hesitation for fucking their wife are dangerous AND REAL. Alphas could do the fucking same exact shit (probably will do it more meticulously or pay off some guy to do you in) and the wife might be attracted even more after the fact. Criminal fetishism/Fear/Dangerous presence that we know women love. This man probably wasn't even fuckin beta and the woman just felt "neglected" or "lonely." How shitty of us to come to a conclusion that he's beta just because his wife is a cheating slut who probably put on the biggest front for years. Fucking a married woman is not "cool" or exciting. Only a newbie thinks this is remotely any advice. The consequences heavily outweight the reward of a 10 second orgasm. I think it's beta as fuck to think with your dick. I mean the boy didn't even wear a fucking condom AND ejaculated in her. This post and many like it pisses me off because it's so amateur,useless and makes TRP look immature and bad.

[–]DynamicPressure 36 points37 points  (2 children)

Hear hear.

What many men refuse to acknowledge is our own “conquest” nature. Some men get more turned on by shitting in another man’s kennel.

All the young, dumb, no strings attached pussy in the world and you decide to risk it all for the one with a man attached to it? A man who’s reaction you have no control over if/when he finds out.

Betas are already fragile mentally. Yeah, you’re an alpha with sick gains posting on Reddit about fucking another man’s wife right up until a .223 yaws through your brain matter because the Supreme Gentleman finally snapped.

NO pussy is that good and NO woman is worth taking that kind of risk.

Guys that prey on married women are idiots imho and in a way put married pussy on a pedestal by being willing to take such extraordinary and unnecessary risks to get it.

[–]twenty-sixth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not to mention it's highly unethical and in and of itself is not Alpha behavior. An Alpha sets an example, a Chad cucks. There is plenty of great single pussy to go around for one looking to plate. No reason to shit on someone else's marriage just to stroke your insecure ego, which is ultimately what it comes down to, because if it wasn't you would just fuck different pussy. Karma will catch up with him one way or another, this is just an extreme case.

[–]richpianoooo 7 points8 points  (1 child)

you are right. what OP did was not cool congrats you fucked some slut big fucking deal. no matter how bad or pussy beta buck you think a guy is never ever go over and disrespect his man hood or his honour the the core level of ones self. not the bullshit that society adds but i mean the core of the man.

[–]beta_no_mo 17 points18 points  (1 child)

Married women are NOT worth the hassle. I fucked around with one who'd already filed (saw the papers) and he still tries to fuck with me nearly a year later, even after their divorce was final months ago.

Remember this: we are all just animals and the only thing more dangerous than an alpha on the prowl is a beta who has been backed into the corner as the world he knew crumbles around him, especially when you're the "cause" of such a gut-wrenching paradigm shift. Taking away a true beta's reason for living (her) means he has nothing to lose and that makes him more dangerous than any predator.

I'll never touch a married woman again. Too many other unattached, higher value women out there.

[–]TheseNthose 1 points1 points [recovered]

I like the part where you said "I'm not attacking the cuck"

But yeah what women are attracted to and what they want are different. When you ask a woman what she wants she thinks of what what was missing from relationships from people she was attracted to.

Calling people with a bit of a dark side Psychopaths and what not shows you dont really have a grasp on things. Check out Jordan Peterson's lectures Maps of Meaning, part 2. He talks about how even people with good intentions have to do dark things in order to accomplish difficult challenges. He used Lord of the Rings as an example. Bilbo Baggins a fairly nice gentlemen but in order to keep the ring from people with cruel, greedy intentions, Bilbo has to become a thief by hiding the ring from them.

Our society is full of men who don't understand that dynamic. There's plenty of men who try to do the right thing all the time and don't understand that in order to make an omelette you're going to have to crack some eggs. Maybe that's a bad analogy but i think you know what i mean.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol it’s been a fallacy since the beginning of time. All religions preach good ends to be reached by good means, but this is simply impossible, especially with the moral decline of human society. Maybe it was possible in societies where everyone feared God thus acted in piety but as someone else said “We live in a bullshit heavy society.”

Either you accept that and learn to work with it or you lose.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My point is that women have no idea what they find attractive.

They do - but who they find attractive changes from time to time. Women see husbands at their worst - they see us fart; they see us unshaven; they see us tired; they see us vulnerable and unsure of ourselves. They see the boyfriend/lover at his best - well-dressed, in control, happy, confident. They see their boss at work at his alpha best. They see their trainer at the gym at his best.

It's the same with us too. We see our mistresses at their best - well-dressed, ready for sex. We see our secretaries at their best - well-dressed, eager to please the boss. We see our wives on their period; we see them sick; we see them in baggy sweatpants; we see them fart, burp etc.

Living together kills sexual attraction.

If I were an architect and had the money, I'd build a house where I don't share living quarters with my wife - she'd have her bedroom with an ensuite bathroom; I'd have mine.

[–]varlogmessages 74 points75 points  (18 children)

You came i her? Are you retarded?

[–]Nikelu 36 points37 points  (4 children)

You legit gotta be braindead to do that to whoever woman. Even your ltr on the pill, shit way too risky.

[–]TFWnoLTR 15 points16 points  (1 child)

Thats what vasectomies are for.

Plus, she's married. It's not like she's going to tell the cuck the truth that it might not be his.

[–]Nikelu 22 points23 points  (0 children)

STDs don't care about vasectomies

[–]alxjones 11 points12 points  (11 children)

yeah, perhaps he was just making a point. or maybe the slut just wanted that alpha seed, and make that blue pill cuck at home raise the bastard

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

R selection strategy with an attitude of let the cuck raise the little Chad.

[–]3whatsthisgarg 122 points123 points  (6 children)

A big part of this is women don't even know the difference between attraction and agitation. The feelings are physiologically identical, and women attach different emotional and mental labels to the feelings based on their cycle and what's going on around them at the time, and so on.

Men don't have "cycles" as our hormones are on full blast all the time. So we are familiar with the feelings. They can make us extremely uncomfortable, but we know what is happening, and we know how to resolve those feelings.

With women, with their monthly cycles, they don't attach reliable emotional and mental imagery and labels to their physiological signs, so they don't know what's going on much of the time.

This also explains why women choose the 2 different guys in the post, for 2 different purposes.

She wants the hawt dood to who induces the feelings of attraction/agitation, which are uncomfortable, and which she resolves by getting fucked hard.

And she wants the loving, boring provider, because he doesn't excite her feelings of attraction/agitation, which are uncomfortable, and which she resolved long ago with this particular guy (if there were any at all) by making him a beta slob who isn't exciting so that she can relax, because, shit, being excited all the time is exhausting, and women are fundamentally lazy and don't want to be excited all the time.

[–]dickinlipss 19 points20 points  (1 child)

This is the most interesting thing I've read in a while. Cycles throwing off the ability to pin down feelings

[–]JanMichaelVincent_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Check out Preventative Medicine by Rollo Tomassi. That aspect of how female attraction works is thoroughly covered

[–]SPREAD_THE_LOVE_7791 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're pumping your own shit... and I like it dawg!!!

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points [recovered]

I don't think it's purely to make herself more relaxed and less agitated constantly. What are you thoughts on this thread here

[–]3whatsthisgarg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loved that thread you made, but I don't think it's purely to make herself more relaxed and less agitated constantly.

Yeah, I was talking narrowly about sexual relations between two people. Your excellent post describes a much broader phenomenon. Are they implications of the same "mechanism" in women?

I hate the PUA terminology, so I prefer fitness test, which can be seen as a method for categorizing males, or more precisely, for letting males categorized themselves according to their responses.

If women can put 80% of males into the not dangerous or desirable category, they can relax about them (actually, they can ignore them, as they are invisible, until they become the creep).

Then the other 20% they can label their agitation as attraction, so it's not unpleasant. Or something.

[–]StudntRdyTeachrApear 83 points84 points  (9 children)

Great post.

Nature seems to have smartly hidden this detail from them because if they actually knew what got them off it would be shocking.

This, this right fucking here! If there is ever a moment when you truly realize you know how to work women, its when you see that they are hopeless against someone who actually does get it, because they have no fucking clue how they work. The only thing they universally agree on is that many times they don't like other women. Perhaps it's actually because they don't get their own gender as much as they think.

[–]2dogsandpizza 56 points57 points  (8 children)

Women don’t like each other. They group themselves together for safety and validation.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 96 points97 points  (7 children)

Women don’t like each other.

"Don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate them."

- Al Bundy

[–]SovereignSoul76 9 points10 points  (1 child)

This, sir, is one of my favorite quotes of all time. A wise man, Al was....

[–]daprospecta 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Put some respect on his name. Al "four touchdowns in one game" Bundy.

[–]newpostnewuser 1 points1 points [recovered]

I usually like to read stuff on this sub, but lately there is more and more threads about how much girls I fuck and less stuff you can actually improve yourself. Meh...

[–]Austiny1 6 points7 points  (4 children)

Yeah I just stick to the recommended readings and rarely read posts anymore

[–]newpostnewuser 1 points1 points [recovered]

Also whats is up with the details? "I make her cum 3x. Fuck yeah!" lol

I usually don't mind some fiction/larp, but there is zero value information just right there. I'm mentioning it, because these kinds of threads are popular and I usually read them to find some valuable info that resonates with me and is actually useful.

[–]Austiny1 3 points4 points  (2 children)

The sub has been going down hill fast over the past year...He should have said I made her cum 3.5x 💦🍆

[–]Nomfwic 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Very topic indeed. Ive never met a women who knew exactly what she wanted. And if she was capable if verbalising it, it never corresponds with her actions.

[–]MrAnderzon 12 points13 points  (7 children)

What do you mean by physosocial and physical dominance

[–]3LiveAFTSOV 32 points33 points  (6 children)

You command, persuade, lead, convince, other people. They look up to you, respect you, or fear you. Physocial

Physical should be obvious

[–]Blackhawk2479 18 points19 points  (4 children)

Physical should be obvious

For any triggered bloopies reading this he means being big and strong and carrying yourself as somebody who can look after himself and others.

It does not mean being physically abusive.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (3 children)

Lean and strong > Big and strong

[–]chspi 2 points3 points  (1 child)

is there evidence supporting this? I heard conversely that being especially lean is overrated and having a wide back, big traps and big glutes is more attractive than having a six pack in general.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

watch what women do and tell us

[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's psychosocial. Not physocial

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 6 points7 points  (18 children)

And they have no idea nor the ability to see it. This isnt a flaw in women. It's a feature that is hidden from the world as best as possible.

Do you think it is hidden from themselves?

Or that they lie/hamster about it to look/feel good?

Or that they are in denial of their nature?

Or is it situational? When they're with husband, they're with husband. When they are with you, they are with you.

From what I've seen it's a mixture of all of the above, varying depending on the woman. They really do act like it's all a surprise to them though.

[–]Endorsed ContributorUrsusG 6 points7 points  (1 child)

I'm in the

Or that they lie/hamster about it to look/feel good?


I think they know full well, they're just smart, sneaky and manipulative as fuck about it.

Maybe it's because of the women I dealt with.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We disagree but I can certainly understand why you feel this way. Never underestimate the hamstet

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I really think its a blind spot and they just don't know they prefer to be manhandled and bossed around by a confident man

[–]bitchpotatobunny 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe it has to do with geographical location, or the demographic of women I've been seeing, but I've been experiencing quite the opposite lately. They know full well they prefer being manhandled (not abused/beaten) and seek it.

The last 5 plates I've had ranged from 27 - 36 and every single one of them openly admitted after the first time we fucked that they loved that I pulled their hair and choked them during sex. Even little things like grabbing their ankles and pulling them towards me during foreplay, or physically moving them into different positions instead of waiting for them to do it themselves. One of them loved having her head pushed down to gag her while blowing me. (Unfortunately she was too crazy to keep around for long, bless her soul) Another really enjoyed having her hands held behind her back and her face shoved into the bed while her ass was in the air.

These are things they openly admit and would tell me. These women know, I think they're just selective about who they'll openly admit it to for fear being judged.

[–]SomberRook 2 points3 points  (3 children)

The dual aspects of their cycle. They want to get pumped fast when their eggs are ripe and pampered by weak noodled boys before and after. It's nature and they seem to lack understanding of how they're wired.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 8 points9 points  (2 children)

Certainly they act like they are in denial of this.

Instinctively they hide this from men. There are two ways nature could make this happen: know to hide their nature, or be unaware of their nature themselves.

The reason I think they are aware of their nature is how they talk to each other and how they talk to beta males vs alpha. It's so contextual. Playing up their exploits to their friends, while playing it down to potential providers. They can't not know they do this.

And in my experience talking to women... they are somewhat aware. They know they're lieing to betas. Except in her mind it's not lying, it's just presenting herself in a certain way. The truth itself will be challenged if you tell her this ("What's truth anyway?" and "It's all relative" and "How do we even know what's real?"). They know when they're faking it to get security and resources. In fact many think this is what they SHOULD do. The world tells them "be a good girl and get a good man". So how can it be lying when they try and do this?

What they are unaware of in all of this, is how their attraction circuits are wired. They know it when they see it, they react accordingly, but attraction and what is attractive seems to be a mystery to them. Same with seduction. Not a clue for the most part. They play their bit (usually badly), but don't know how it all works.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Endorsed in part. They know. They fucking know. However nature has made them willfully blind about the details. They know what men find attractive. They know what men want to fuck. They know how to use their body to get what they want.

However, they really don't know about their attraction cues. They are almost totally unaware and actively deny their attraction to 'bad boys' and hamster it into a 'desire to reform him.'

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we're on the same page with this.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 5 points6 points  (9 children)

My thought? Who cares. It's consistent, so you can base decisions around it.

Whats going on in side her little head is not my concern

[–]pragmaticminimalist 2 points3 points  (1 child)

this- control what you can control

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have seen this, though my story was much older. I remember this chick, Rose. After party after the bar, I had a duty watch at 730 that morning, and it was 530.

Only knew hew for about an hour, and balls deep, while she tells me how great her fiencee was.

Funniest part? I didn't even care. I was more concerned about the time, I basically had to dismount, and cab my ass to work. got there withing a few minutes of being late.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 2 points3 points  (4 children)

It's consistent, so you can base decisions around it

Exactly... I buy the practical argument of "this works".

Whats going on in side her little head is not my concern

I buy that as a reasonable stance, but it's not me. I'm curious about the underlying mechanisms.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 4 points5 points  (3 children)

You can be trusted with the curiosity. Most guys in here use it as a proxy, learning instead of doing.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRuleZeroDAD 4 points5 points  (2 children)

"Your Curiosity is a Proxy" needs to be a post.

Active minds behind inactive people thought experimenting themselves to paper alpha.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I should go back and rewrite 'why is a stupid fucking question'

and it's so obvious. you can just tell when a guy is avoiding doing shit, or cutting corners to hit the top of Mazlows heirarchy.

[–][deleted] 42 points43 points  (3 children)

This is a bait post and I think people are falling for it.

[–]ChadThundercockII 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Op is an alien and I think the post has subliminal messages priming us for the upcoming invasion.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a signal to the mods and EC's. We strike at dawn.

[–]supnat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You seem to imply in your post that women stay with "bad" men because they beat them or they are in jail, but I would just like to clarify to those in here desperate enough to show "alphaness" by beating their girl, that these women simply put up with being beat because they don't want to let go of a man every other girl wants. The manipulative, Machiavellian wife beater you picture in your head likely has another girl or two to replace his girlfriend, so she will stay with him out of instinctive greed.

If a beta lays one hand on a woman, she will leave him quickly, as he has no room to mess up.

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat 16 points17 points  (1 child)

Women know very well what they find attractive. They've usually decided within seconds of meeting you whether you're worth fucking or not.

The problem is, she needs a guy to pay for food, rent, clothes etc. A good provider. A guy who is loyal and will stick by her.

But that's a beta strategy for men - if you're not hot enough that women want to fuck you outright, then you get sex by exchanging goods and services and promising faithfulness..

Alphas don't need to be loyal to a woman...because they can always get more.

The whole idea of being together with someone forever is a woman's dream. It means she never needs to worry about raising progeny without resources, because she's got someone FOREVER. That's why women go into endless raptures over it, whereas most guys are less enraptured by the idea, if not outright turned off, depending on how feminised their idea of sexual relations is. And make no mistake in the West most men have a feminised idea of what sexual relations should be.

Basically, the men women really want to fuck are usually not good providers or long term loyal - because they don't need to be, they can get sex just by being attractive. It's the betas who have to attract women by offering other advantages.

And women accept those goods and services and cheat when a good enough opportunity arises. They may rationalise it by saying "He doesn't deserve me" or "He didn't give enough attention" or whatever but when the perceived value of fucking someone exceeds the perceived value of the "relationship" they are in they go for it.

I completely agree with "watch what they do, ignore what they say".

[–]DamSon6969 1 points1 points [recovered]

  1. Coming inside a woman? Dumb.

  2. Knowingly fucking a married woman (especially with a loving husband). Dick move.

  3. Coming here pretending to make a meaningful post but really just trying to brag. You're a loser who has a lot to learn (and probably never will).

[–]scarfox1 35 points36 points  (1 child)

Meh he only made her come three times

[–]AntwanAntoon 53 points54 points  (1 child)

Knowingly fucking a married woman (especially with a loving husband). Dick move.

Oh look, more moralizing on TRP...

[–]StillRedder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jesus, upvoted highly too. Have we seen an ingrowth of subs lately? Hopefully they're not posting... ah, well, good job mods.

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

To comment on your second point:

The woman in the post declared that she would not be fucking hubby when she got home. Ergo, she needs to get it from somewhere else. All women are gonna fuck. You may as well be in the right place at the right time to be the guy to help her. Sexual strategy is amoral as the saying goes.

[–]Indubitably_Confused 20 points21 points  (3 children)

Read the sidebar again. Despite it being shitty or not, no moralizing.

[–]Nomfwic 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Comming here to comment about morals... this sub isn't about that dude.

I agree that its not wise to cum in a women but with the rest of your comment you really make it sound like its the guys fault, making the woman the victim...

I smell something blue....

[–]Trashfrog 10 points11 points  (19 children)

Exactly what I think. Having principles isn't beta and 'dominance' like that isn't alpha.

[–]MEpicLevelCheater[M] 36 points37 points  (15 children)

Having principles isn't beta.

Assuming your principles must apply to everyone universally is beta.

Do not moralize.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Having an orange isn't beta either, it's irrelevant

[–]MEpicLevelCheater[M] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Read the rules, scrub. You are not an exception, and big talk doesn't impress anyone here.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMarsupian 12 points13 points  (2 children)

The fact that you feel the need to wave around your personal morals just because someone posted about fucking a married woman is enough proof that this was a useful post.

You saying fucking a married woman is a dick move is nothing more than bragging about your perceived moral highground. It's fucking virtue signalling. Theres nothing wrong with morals or thinking fucking married woman is a dick move but it doesn't fucking belong here and nobody cares. If a post like this is reason enough for you to ride in on your white horse and morals held high might be a sign you have a personal problem.

On topic: The reason women don't know their type is because being flexible in who they fuck has an evolutionary advantage. A women whos tribe gets slaughtered by another group of which the leader is not her type better fucking change her mind real fast because that new dude is her best option for furthering her lineage. Add the extra flexibility they have between periods where they are ovulating and when they need to secure protection and resources and it becomes obvious that a womans type is as fluid as water. What she says her type is will depend on what is favorable to say in the current social setting. What her type is depends on what the current best option is for her DNA. Women will have a type to some extend based on her phenotype and bio evolutionary mechanisms to create genetic diversity but that will only create prefference between similar available options. Also as a man don't kid yourself that you are different. I can say my type is a young tight blond with a good ass but at the end of the day if my current best option to create high quality offspring isn't blond my dick doesn't care. For us it's just a different situation as we are not the selecting gender and could impregnate a whole tribe so having a type isn't really relevant.

[–]Comments_Alot 5 points6 points  (1 child)

When woman say " your not my type" that doesn't mean they won't fuck you , it just means they won't stick around to keep fucking you and they have someone who they see themselves with long term and not short.

I know his from experience and because I've done this to woman. You can fuck one and still not be interested or you can have one good one to stick with for years but fuck others because your just bored or not getting what you want, doesn't mean I'll leave the good one for a good fuck. It's ALL about type. I have a type and they may not be your standard beauty or model but they know how to treat a man and how to keep one happy but that's not saying I wouldn't fuck a 10 an a min but do I want a 10 for her body or do I want a chick who I know will have my back no matter what ? What are you after . The coin or the throne ?

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good point...women say all kinds of shit and mean something else entirely

[–]ItsNotShane 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Wow you fucked a random chick raw and came in her? You're fuckin weird and that's definitely NOT alpha. Keep it up and you'll be having to pay out the ass for 18 years for a kid you don't want, by a bitch you barely know. Or wake up with warts on your jimmy and having a hard time pissing. Luckily she was married. Don't do this again idiot.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP said he was fixed.

If he gets an STD, which he probably won't, what do you care? Are you trying to watch out for him by showing him some tough love?

There are entire subs on Reddit dedicated to unapologetic alcoholism and hard drug use. Go on there and tell those people they live wrong.

[–]vaporizor 1 points1 points [recovered]

I think she was trying to provoke more emotion out of you or get you to fuck her harder/hatefuck and you took it the wrong way. But who knows.

[–]bush_whackd 9 points10 points  (7 children)

Good job perpetuating the degeneracy of western values to get your rocks off man. Nothing like laying the ground work for ruining a marriage.

[–]bi_winner 2 points3 points  (2 children)

What is with IT and engineers, can someone tell me? Why do you always target these people?

[–]throwinghthisoneaway 10 points11 points  (1 child)

Can confirm, this has happened to me on multiple occasions as well. One girl was calling me small (referring to my body size) while she was riding my dick. Women will shit test even when your dick is in them. She also said it was soooooo weird how we were fucking so much because I look just like her guy friend. She showed me a picture of the dude and he looked like a fucking abercrombie model no shit, I asked oh is he gay? She said no? Frame is everything.

[–]buddhadarko 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I can confirm this. I fucked a married woman multiple times that told me straight up that I was not her type. She also told me that she did not like sucking dick, and, wouldn't you know it, not only did she drop her thong for me, but I received many blow jobs from her (and they were damn good). One blow job took place as she texted her husband in between sucks and licks about how much fun she was having at the "bar" with her "friends and sister".

This same woman is now back to playing good wife and not fucking anyone on the side. I feel this will change soon.

[–]MaxDMJ 2 points3 points  (1 child)

God does shit like that give me paranoia

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 5 points6 points  (3 children)

Sounds like a case of Freudian negation

[–]Remerez 3 points4 points  (3 children)

You know what. If you are so damn alpha and can fuck anybody you want then why fuck married women? I have never had an issue with finding a woman to spend my time with yet I have never and would never sleep with a married woman. Too much risk and it makes me look desperate. Not to mention you can lose a lot of prospective plates after making mention that you are a proud home wrecker.

[–]BANMEAGAIN009 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Look at what you started in the comments. Fucking Genius.

[–]hamstercide 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Just a question on technique, how did you pull this girl? Small field report?

[–]anon35201 7 points8 points  (9 children)

It's in stories dating back to the beginning of time

Literally. Written by men like you and me, over 2500 years ago: https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis+1

Giving it a fresh read, you can tell they knew something western civilization has forgotten in the last 50 years.

Women love strength and power and dont care (or know?) if its a Super Hero or a Super Villain as long as he has psychosocial and physical dominance.

200 thousand years ago, when you and I were small vervet like creatures in Tanzania, beating the shit out of each other in death matches while the females watched, the victor got to reproduce while the one who backed down didn't. This was just a moment ago in the grand scheme of things and unrefined females who haven't conquered their midbrain, brain stem and limbic system are still mostly at the whim of those primate urges.

I agree with everything you say, but keep looking, the woman who transcends all that you say is rare, but is out there. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+31%3A10-31&version=MSG

Women are more violent than the males when left to their own devices without western cultural influence. It's your duty as a man not to reproduce with the woman who finds the felon or the bad boy attractive. She couldn't transcend her primate ancestry, so she should find a felon to reproduce with, let that genetic line atrophy and eventually fall out of the running.

[–]mnemos_1 15 points16 points  (6 children)

the woman who transcends all that you say is rare, but is out there.

The Myth of the Quality Woman.


[–]searcher612 5 points6 points  (2 children)

AWALT can exist with a woman that ends up never cheating. The urge may always be there but she controls it. Hasn't she thus transcended that biological urge?

[–]Dead__Hand 5 points6 points  (1 child)

This is the correct way to think about the concept of AWALT.

AWALT refers only to women's biological evolved nature. But socialization can alter how one's biology plays out, in the same that environmental factors (at least in part) determine how genes are expressed.

[–]searcher612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that is how I have seen it described in the sidebar material that I have read.

Lately, I get the feeling reading posts and comments not everyone understands and agrees with that definition.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 5 points6 points  (2 children)

This is about the wish guys have for a dude with tits. Keep holding women to the standards you hold a man to, and you will consistently be let down.

They are women, treat them as such, judge them as such. Then instead of AWALT being used like you did, you treat it like it is. Picking from the best of a spectrum

[–]searcher612 2 points3 points  (1 child)

In both cases, man and woman, it is about biological urge, correct? And if they can transcend that urge, or tame it.

I read the comment, "the woman who transcends all that you say is rare, but is out there" as simply conveying a point that while the woman will still have that urge, she may not act on it.

We are, after all, judging them on their actions and not their thoughts.

Although I do agree that if one expects this from many women, or perhaps in his lifetime any women (depending on how many a particular man meets) he will likely be let down. AWALT, and the default expectation should be that they will let you down. Agreed.

In many comments and some submitted posts, it seems that AWALT is being translated to all women will cheat, all women do cheat, if she hasn't cheated she will eventually, etc.

I like the idea of a spectrum, that is similar to how I have vie women.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And if they can transcend that urge, or tame it.

We were born into the world of abundance. Transcendence and taming are pipe dreams.

"the woman who transcends all that you say is rare, but is out there

this is what most betabux believe, because they have to. They aren't, at least not in a way you would be able to capitalize on. They are in closed off religous communities, they married their high school sweetheart, and 10 years from now, many of them will be the same THOT that you met on tinder. Such is the ways of temptation.

Read the sidebar, AWALT is clear, and only gets confused when you read it through the comments written by a noob. AWALT is a description of the motivations a girl has to sleep with a dude. absolute morality is a male trait, women don't care about that shit, they just want to maximize them. This can manifest in a bunch of ways, but the outcome is not what described AWALT.

It's the motivations, the incentives.

the anger comes from thinking we are equal. If you judge a woman like you would judge a man, of course you're going to be disappointed. Judge a fish by how it rides a bicycle, and don't be surprised if they are shit at it.

[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It's really interesting when boiled down. Females are literally the gatekeepers to the next generation. They decide who's genes get to survive. So they should have an ethic about weeding out the felon types. You stated it perfectly, they are unrefined if they still fuck the criminal types. what's also funny is how feminism completely misunderstands this inherent biological power that the female has. The feminists try to gain power in the male sense which is never going to really work long term cuz it goes against biology. Meanwhile they forfeit their very legitimate power as gatekeepers and mothers. Unbelievable the world we have inherited.

[–]LukesLikeIt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Women just want someone to lead them.

[–]AlphaPhD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All these comments, and here I am laughing over the term “shoegazers,” that’s one I’m gonna steal

[–]Scandinavianredpill 8 points9 points  (17 children)

nice fantasy writeup. never happened. Simply too textbook redpilled. I don't believe the frequency with which you have these classic redpill experiences. Sure we all have them, but you seem to have a strong new red pill experience every week.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (10 children)

it didn't happen to me so it can't be true!!!

This is my favourite of all the crybabies here

[–]Scandinavianredpill 12 points13 points  (1 child)

I have had my share of redpill experiences, but you come up with these cuckold stories every week and tell them like they happened recently. Chances of that is 1 / 1000. good fantasy fodder for the young boys though.

[–]CuckedByTRUMP 1 point2 points  (5 children)

These guys still don't understand why people get tagged here. OP is tagged. The mods didn't tag him because he makes good fantasy writeups.

[–]Endorsed ContributorUrsusG 2 points3 points  (3 children)

It doesn't even matter: even if it's fiction, it's the kind of fiction the young ones here need.

[–]Pos26 4 points5 points  (2 children)

I used to play high school/college sports. When you’re incredibly in shape and desired by lots of women random shit would happen every day much less each week. And that’s not even trying or knowing what’s going on. From age 16-24 I’d say... about 80-120 partners in various types of sexual encounters. That’s for a white knight ignorant natural who avoided married women and people’s sisters and stuff. The bottom line. Women are crazy horny. My encounters were almost always at bars or parties with the women approaching. Well I was a boy and they were girls at that age but we get it.

Friends sisters and peoples wives/moms literally will drug and rape you if you’re desirable enough.

I’m 5’8”...If someone is in amazing shape, young, confident, and carries themselves well women will sleep with them in droves. Dear god help us all if the guy is a pick up artist, tall, or both...

Like just put yourself in a woman’s shoes. You’re straight average as fuck looking. You have no special skills or personality. You are a chick though and can get laid by some really really hot guys with just a little effort. Even though somebody more your status has locked you down the temptation is still there to screw around because you can. Take all the biology out of it, chicks can bang 3-5 levels above their grade with the same effort it takes us to land within our own grade. That’s just too damn tempting for the majority of people to pass up. They’re just human too. Everyone does immoral stuff sometimes and chicks are no different.

Don’t get triggered and upset and mad at the world. Just accept that underneath societies surface humans literally are KILLING OTHER CREATURES EVERYDAY just to survive. We have to. Fucking other people is like one of the least immoral things the average human could do in their daily existence. At least doing that we aren’t exploiting a declining resource or killing and eating another creature on this earth.

Just a few generations ago marriage didn’t even exist. Keep your fucking head straight and pay attention to those around you and try not to be so ignorant. Listen to the OP and recognize that you need to take care of yourself first THEN your SO because we’re all animals at the end of the day. Even in a marriage, even with a girl you love for decades... you need to take care of yourself FIRST or you’ll get burned and it’ll piss you off. If that’s too much to handle then you can’t handle a relationship and need to “go your own way.” Which is actually a quite nice thing to do being honest.

Anyways, that dude cooking dinner.... he might be bored as shit fucking that broad. He’s fucked her so many times it’s lame. As long as his feelings aren’t hurt and he doesn’t know any better he might not even give a fucking shit. Cool, she’s horny, he’s not. That’s just how their relationship has evolved and how it’s playing out with this rando dude posting. Try not to get triggered by it and instead use it to learn a little about your surroundings. Believe it or not, it’s not far fetched, it’s not fantastical, it’s actually rather benign and happens alllllllllllll the fucking time. Especially for this particular guy during this particular stage of his life it seems.

[–]Glad_Im_Not_Chad 2 points3 points  (8 children)

Hey, if you're so alpha, then notify the "cuck" that his wife is a cheating slut, and explain to him exactly why that is, because that, I believe, is the decent thing to do.

If you have any balls, you'll do it without worrying whether or not she'll continue fucking you afterwards, you piece of shit. Now, good luck.

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[–]youarealilincel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your full of shit when will you kill yourself?

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol, for what, the cuck to get mad and blame him? Call his wife and boss?

No good deed goes unpunished.

[–]drsherbert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do that and you become the focus of the two of them. They patch things up by finding a mutual bond of hatred towards you. At this point, the husband knows his wife is a ho, but he’s either buying time until he can get his act together without her, or he’s trying to salvage whatever’s left of their relationship. Either way, you’ll bring out the worst in both of them. Keep your mouth shut and mind your business.

Back in my beta days, I caught my girl cheating. This finally happened after she caught me in bed with another woman TWICE. She finally went to go cheat. I found out who the guy was and nearly stabbed him to death. I was later charged with ADW. You don’t wanna see the animal come out in a man. Even a beta can turn into Kimbo Slice if provoked. It’s inside all of us.

[–]GunnarX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Logically that makes sense. However, when you’re in so deep, like the husband is, your choice to be with that woman is part of your ego. So, when someone (who he has have never met before, I may add) tells him that ha wife has cheated with them, the man will instantly become defensive because the relationship/marriage is part of who he is.

It just doesn’t work like that.

[–]Niphilim83 2 points3 points  (9 children)

Yeah im not okay with this.. It makes you a total ass..

[–]ModeratorPaperStreetVilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you don't have to be OK with it,

you do have to be aware many guy are.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (4 children)

Your opinion and approval are not necessary. The show goes on and I am the star

[–]youarealilincel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not a star you're writinf lies on reddit lmfao you're a no life virgin looking for attention. I remember when i was 12 years old

[–]noaydi 1 points1 points [recovered]

Those who fail at learning to love while using ressentment for increasing their narcissism are those who fail at life. You don't want it, it's like that, no matter your rationnalization for avoiding your identified weakness (like being homosexual and stuff)

[–]insanity_wow27 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Do you feel conflicted about fucking the guys wife?

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (12 children)

Why are you fuckin another guys wife?

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats his network, and she knows how to keep her mouth shut.

[–]nddz7c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen this study addressed before. I'm not sure if it's on this thread but it illustrates your point about the incongruity of a woman's mind and her body. http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/25/magazine/25desire-t.html?scp=1&sq=&st=nyt&pagewanted=all&_r=1&

A highlight: "And with the women, especially the straight women, mind and genitals seemed scarcely to belong to the same person. The readings from the plethysmograph and the keypad weren’t in much accord. During shots of lesbian coupling, heterosexual women reported less excitement than their vaginas indicated; watching gay men, they reported a great deal less; and viewing heterosexual intercourse, they reported much more. Among the lesbian volunteers, the two readings converged when women appeared on the screen. But when the films featured only men, the lesbians reported less engagement than the plethysmograph recorded. Whether straight or gay, the women claimed almost no arousal whatsoever while staring at the bonobos."

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Hahaha i can relate, when my ex was seeing someone else she still let me fuck her etc..

Now she's fully commited and has a boyfriend but she's been emailing me asking too still remain friends and wants too meet up?

Like don't get me wrong she was my first girlfriend but i'm not attatched too her anymore, i'd still fuck her because she'd do anything i wanted, literally.

She said her new boyfriend is overprotective or something?

Fuck knows man, i try keep my distance from woman, can't be fucked with them.

[–]As32b 1 points1 points [recovered]

Reminds me of a girl I had sex with: She had been living with her boyfriend for six years, she was pretty hesitant earlier but then agreed to come to my place "Only for cuddles". Later she told me that she had told her boyfriend that we only kissed, to which herr boyfriend replied: "Good thing you had a place to sleep." (She lived in another town).

[–]insanity_wow27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Only for cuddles" haha oh boy

[–]ceo_greasyduck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn she’s 23 but lived with her boyfriend for six years? Sounds like she’s got family issues too if she moved in with him at 17.

[–]ceo_greasyduck 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Only for cuddles?? How old is this girl?

[–]Solistx 1 points1 points [recovered]

Hey guys, maybe someone here has some insight, because at this point I feel extremely lost, and its really starting to affect my mental health in way.

Despite reading TRP, internalizing the concepts, I still have this innate desire for a LTR. Every time I get burned on the way. Either friendzone, or I mess around with the girl and get really fucking bored of her. In general I have such a disdain for women that I rarely want to interact with them, but I still want sex.

I'm getting so frustrated that I'm getting to the point of just wanting to revenge fuck. Fuck and dump as many as I can just to throw a bit of their own medicine back at them. I know this is vindictive and counter-productive. But I just don't know what to do at this point, the hate and anger are really getting out of hand and I have no where really to vent it. Even if I did fuck 10 girls right now, Im convinced I'd still feel just as empty.

I have my own interests and hobbies and have no issue spending time alone. But there's always this nagging thing in the back of my head that just really wants to feel genuine love for a woman and share my world with her.

Like is it really this fucking bleak out there? Even the bible with which I've had extreme disdain for, is starting to make sense to me. How do I solve this issue?

[–]askmrcia 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I hear you man. I understand what you're saying. I too have the thoughts of a great LTR in the back of my head. But then I wake up.

You have to realize that the world has changed dramatically over the past century. Hell its pretty much completely changed in the past 40 years due to all the globalization and technological advances.

Where am I going with this? Simple... I came to the conclusion that I can't or won't live like the generations before me. The thing about getting kids and raising a family of my own are over.

The only way I will accept that future is IF for some stupid reason I decide that I will marry a chick that I know will end up screwing me over and learn how to live with it. Me personally, I won't. I'm hard headed like Vegeta off of DBZ, I have my pride.

Other guys? Blue pill guys? They are fine being cucks. They are fine wifing these whores up because "that's what they are supposed to do." They are fine looking past a chick's past/current nasty behavior's and believe in the whole captain save a ho belief. These are the guys that will marry. They will tell you that "hey the past don't matter, she's with me now, and she will be with me forever." Those are the guy's that are getting married. I

I came to the conclusion that there is more to life then raising a family and having a LTRs. Typical LTRs don't work like they did in the past. They just don't. And even if you do find a good girl, there's nothing stopping her from changing on you. Hell, maybe everything with her goes smooth sailing, but the way society is now, your marriage can still get fucked up for other reasons and things you won't see coming (medical bills, losing a mortgage, debt out of no where, family causing influence on your marriage, ect...)

In today's current society, the best thing for men to do in my honest opinion is to date casually and make sure to not invest too much resources into a woman. There is no need for a man to do so because women can make and have their won resources.

[–]Solistx 1 points1 points [recovered]

It seems then, that this is just a matter of accepting a bitter truth and coming out stronger for it. Not much you can do about it but let time heal the wounds.

This shit really fucking breaks my heart. Totally shattered into oblivion broken...

[–]enjoy_life88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one said swallowing the Red Pill would be easy.

Hell, how could it be? The years-to-decades of feminine conditioning...cutting the ties is supposed to be painful and must leave behind a sense of Nihilism, so that a new perception within you can rise.

If you're going through hell, keep going. Suffering means change.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Despite reading TRP, internalizing the concepts, I still have this innate desire for a LTR.

So? Your life decisions are your own. Why would you let some knuckleheads online influence you that way?

In general I have such a disdain for women that I rarely want to interact with them

Sounds more MGTOW than TRP?

hate and anger are really getting out of hand

Whoa, slow your roll. A LITTLE anger against women and the gynocentric social system is useful- it fuels change, progress, and improvement. When it starts getting out of hand you need to step back. Women are not the problem. You can hate the game and even the game masters but hating the players is a pussy move. Stop it right now.

Like is it really this fucking bleak out there?

It's pretty bad but it is also a wide, wide world. I would go to Asia and meet some respectable peasant families if I had to do it again. With the traditional culture AND the hammer of immigration and citizenship and a houseful of babies you can hold hypergamy at bay. So I have heard.

the bible...is starting to make sense to me. How do I solve this issue


[–]cashmoney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She left out the word usual is all.

[–]alxjones 0 points1 point  (1 child)

how did you know about the parts you weren't there for?

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