Blue Pill ExampleCouples video reveals RP truths (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by childish_albino_

This video (sorry for the facebook link) is of a "Couples Swap Phones" experiment. The girl finds next to nothing on her boyfriends phone. But he goes into her instagram DMs and finds a plethora of orbiters being kept on the back burner. She provides little to no coherent explanation "we have mutual friends!", "I don't know him", etc... for each of the interactions. But it becomes clear she is being flirtatious, giving out her number, her snapchat, and just generally leading them on. She says that she's denied all of them, but the messages themselves reveal a different story (re: pay attention to what she does, not what she says). She's likely doing this for the validation, or to have backup men ready in case her current relationship falls through.

Remember this: Every woman will at least attempt to keep a circle of orbiters around, no matter how much she "loves you" in an LTR. The more attractive she is, the easier this will be, and the advent of social media is making this even easier. Your relationship is never safe, always remember to keep improving yourself, be a leader, and have a steady stream of dread trickling in.

[–]Endorsed ContributorThotwrecker 215 points216 points  (7 children)

Think about it this way - if real chicks were like "yo check out this pic of my tits, btw do you want dick in my mouth pls repond" to dudes all day long, you'd probably respond sooner or later. If you were down and feeling un-self assured, then you'd take the ego boost from girls ugly and hot both wanting to pay you attention and treat you like you were so interesting. And now keep in mind women are "self-assured" like 20% of the time at most.

TRP can help you minimize your chance of getting cucked, but women cheated in eras of history where they would literally be publically stoned, their children killed if the child was suspected a bastard, etc, if they were caught cheating. And they did it still, because the draw for better DNA in their pussy is strong. Women cannot risk the draw of a superior man, and with the unicorns who never cheat, there is still a guy out there for whom she would.

Best to take advantage of this. Don't try to regulate their sex drives and need for validation through orbiters. Fuck her if you want, wear a condom, don't LTR her, and let her boyfriend worry about what's on her phone. Like 50% of the bitches I fuck get that call like around past 1-2 or so that's like "where the fuck are you I thought you were just going out with your friends for Sarah's birthday why aren't you back" and she's like "no honey we just got kinda drunk so I am spending the night at Jenny, don't worry love you bye".

Don't worry about dread game, this will happen naturally if you actually fuck other women and she knows damn well you could fuck someone as hot as her next week. That's all dread is, the knowledge that she's replaceable. Just don't take her too seriously, don't make assumptions about her being this pure good girl because she acts or dresses a certain way. And keep trying to fuck other women too.

That's actually the best way to keep her faithful, but the catch is of course you have to not give a shit about her and genuinely be OK replacing her by next week.

[–]pantsoffire 41 points42 points  (2 children)

Pretty much.

Women sober are no better, moralistically speaking, than drunk teen agers. Some people have even suggested that they are amoral. Imagine that,

[–][deleted] 32 points33 points  (1 child)

Women are completely amoral, just like children. She would rather have a strong, violent, misogynist than a respectful, walking, talking, ATM. You can count on it little brothers.

This is why pimps rule the game.

[–]RedPillHanSolo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

TRP can help you minimize your chance of getting cucked, but women cheated in eras of history where they would literally be publically stoned, their children killed if the child was suspected a bastard, etc, if they were caught cheating. And they did it still, because the draw for better DNA in their pussy is strong. Women cannot risk the draw of a superior man, and with the unicorns who never cheat, there is still a guy out there for whom she would.

I think if we'd pick one phrase that sums up TRP this right here would be one of the top contenders. LOL @ guys thinking she won't cheat because he's "her best" (tm).

[–]electricspresident 126 points127 points  (24 children)

Some were orbiters but atleast 2 or 3 were previous fuck buddies before she jumped into that relationship with him and atleast 1 was a cheating experience. The camera zoomed on her face during some key moments for a reason cause there was a lot of guilt there, but no shame haha hoes gonna hoe. Even the last part where she grabs the phone away is I think some more dirty shitt was about to be discovered.

And btw another reminder newbies, that's a 6/10 ...7 on her best day and she has all that dick on her phone just imagine the ones not on her phone - ONS, travel dick, weekend dick, work dick by the time she's 25 her n count is atleast 50..... this game is skewed af.

[–]lloydj20 29 points30 points  (4 children)

I have a hypothesis: I feel the majority of women below a 7 need more validation than anything above. I also feel like majority of men shoot for 7's or below often for an easier fuck. 8's or 9's are more aware of their self-worth (this doesn't excuse them from being whores), but if 50 men hit on a 7 and say 30 men hit on a 10, the 7 might entertain thoughts with 8 of those 50 men, where the 10 would entertain 2 or 3 of those 30.

[–]WiseMonkeyGoodMonkey 10 points11 points  (1 child)

I think you're mistaken. Imo it's more that an 8 or 9 has higher standards. Ie fewer men in her mind rate her attention, hence the probability of the lower numbers. Ascribing higher self worth to these women is a mistake.

[–]fromthecrypt8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good point. Perhaps you both are right in that some of the 9s and 10s have higher perception of own worth, perhaps some «only» have higher standards. In any case I think the women who are almost a certain number are the worst when it comes to using men for attention. The HB6 who is almost a 7, or the 7 who is almost an 8.. They fall in between chairs; if they get a man they deem truly worthy, they might have alot of orbiters as a safety net for all the dread imposed on her merely through fear of in the event of a breakup having to go back down to a - in her eyes - less worthy male.

[–]buzzmerchant 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're far off the mark here.

[–]plainposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

those are some pretty specific numbers, we're going to need to scientifically test this together guys, who's down for an orgy? just as long as you're getting your dick wet.. it's all good

[–]aDrunkenWhaler 19 points20 points  (2 children)

cause there was a lot of guilt there, but no shame haha hoes gonna hoe.

There is no guilt whatsoever. Not then, not after they ended the relationship, not ever. In her mind she honestly believes she did nothing wrong, hence why she thought nothing will come of giving him her phone. In the close-ups she just realizes her own bullshit and was worried about being caught.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 19 points20 points  (1 child)

This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth and says, 'I've done nothing wrong.'

[–]Shariabluew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so obvious to me how hard they work to keep this age old wisdom out of reach for the general population by intentionally dumbing them down.

[–]SolarWizard 44 points45 points  (13 children)

No way that's a 7. I'd give her a 5 maximum objectively.

[–]xgozax 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'd give her a strong 6 max

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 12 points13 points  (2 children)

Her ceiling is a 5. Anyone who thinks that's a 7 is suffering form severe THIRST.

[–]SolarWizard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed. And IMO putting on makeup or better clothes doesn't magically take her from a 5 to a 7. If that were the case then the number scale would have no use as any single persons number could vary by 2-3 points on any given day which makes the whole thing pointless.

[–]dirtygarbage1974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will you guys argue about her scale imma bust on her face and get on with my life.

[–]LittleRedditAddict 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe a college 5, but wait until the well dries up in the working world - way higher comparatively. She looks ratchet tho. I wouldn't expect her to stay tight after 25.

[–]dirtygarbage1974 13 points14 points  (1 child)

Yeah but I'm about that age and mine is 50ish. As an average male, according to your math I've fucked as much as the average woman.

Are you guys just jealous? This bitch is clearly your typical air headed bimbo. That's his dipshit fault for trying to commit to that. Otherwise her sexual life has been entirely normal so I don't see that being a relevant point.

You really don't need The Pill to be unphased by this.

Unless I'm just clueless to how clueless the world really is??

[–]UCISee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The world truly is that clueless my dude. Everybody thinks women are these precious beings that never fuck because they turn down 90% of what comes at them. The kick is that if 100 dudes come at them a year and they turn down 90%, thats still 10 a year. Those were random numbers for ease of conversation, as you can see by the video, it is in reality much more than that.

Women are vaunted these perfect creatures who never do anything bad in a relationship. Note how any woman who is ever proved to have done something in the media is referred to as a 'monster' or something similar. The narrative is that she is the one off; she is the outlier. Men on the other hand are always painted as 'just another case of...' The narrative here is that this is commonplace for dudes.

[–]Morphs_ 286 points287 points  (44 children)

This chick makes me sick with her excuses and "I hate you" remarks, trying to flip things around as if the guy is responsible for the awkward situation.

[–][deleted] 113 points114 points  (28 children)

Where do girls get that from? Is it an preloaded ability? Lol

[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat 158 points159 points  (19 children)

Yep. Since men have the capability to get the upper hand by sheer strength, women got the capability to get the upper hand by manipulating men.

The girl in the video doesn't have great skills though. She should have been starting crying way before the end of the video because of "how awful he makes her feel". She didn't and so I doubt the veracity of this video. That or else, the video stopped before the crying.

[–][deleted] 73 points74 points  (3 children)

Lol like an RPG. Rogues can't go toe to toe with a warrior so they have to resort to other tactics.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Yep, pretend to be a friend or lurk in the shadows but either way slip behind them and stab them in the back when they are most vulnerable and least expect it- then blame it on the warrior for backing into the knife.

Romance is just like WOW!

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (11 children)

I'm at university and have been researching a variety of evolutionary phenomena (university is mostly a joke now, so you gotta teach yourself. Yay academic database access!). This is what I'm researching: 1) Evolutionary biology and the dimorphism of the sexes. 2) The historical and medicinal properties of psychoactive substances, and possible effects on human evolution. 3) How evolutionary pressures resulted in the widespread implementation of marriage/gender roles/family values/religion, and the implications of the destruction of these evolutionary constructs in modern society. I'm pretty busy at the moment but I am thinking about writing a book. Which topic would be more interesting do you think?

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (1 child)

  1. I believe the destruction of the family will ultimately lead to our downfall

[–]Taco_Truck_Aficionad 1 points1 points [recovered]

While you're at it, you should research the Federal Reserve System.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Federal reserve is definitely intersting, the problem is I need something that gets people ticking. Federal Reserve does not interst most people. The collapse of relationships, human psychology, the biological forces behind that, the collapse of our culture, decline of marriage--those are all things people can relate to. You toss in a little anecdote here and there with top quality research and you might have a best seller. If I find myself a succesful author in 10 years, you bet I'll drop a spicy book on the fed.

[–]Taco_Truck_Aficionad 1 points1 points [recovered]

the collapse of our culture, decline of marriage--those are all things people can relate to.

What if I told you the origin lies within the Federal Reserve?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I think you're probably right. give me something spicey to start me down the rabbit hole.

[–]bot256 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1 or 3, I think. Would be interested to read that either way.

[–]ShiftyMcCoy 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I actually think number two would be the most interesting (and necessary).

[–]SolarWizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Terrence Mckenna explores that very question in his book 'Food of the Gods'.

[–]plainposter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah her manipulative abilities aren't as strong as my mothers.. god damn she is one psychopathic cunt,.. she has ruined peoples lives because of how good she can manipulate them.. including mine. i've seen it all gentlemen.. she'll start crying in the middle of you talking if she doesn't like where it's going.. or counter accusations.. using the kids as bait.. god damn man. find you a good chick man.. don't get sucked in by these craaazy bitches

[–]LittleRedditAddict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That poor guy is a sweetie pie and she has ho written all over her.

[–]buddhadarko 53 points54 points  (3 children)

Yes. It's innate for them to avoid accountability. That is why they literally pull "excuses" from thin air that make absolutely no sense. After you bust through her bullshit, she will:

  • A: Amplify to the max and storm out
  • B: Cry
  • C: All of the above

[–]_Thurston_Howell_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Then accuse their men of flipping things around.

[–]ElectricFagSwatter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised it's not some form of DLC so that women feel that sense of pride and accomplishment.

[–]Morphs_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No idea, maybe they learn it from others at an early age. Perhaps society makes them. Perhaps it's ingrained?

[–]zephyrprime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. They are manipulative by nature.

[–]SovereignSoul76 28 points29 points  (2 children)

This broad 100% would not have agreed to this, if she did not know that she could simply steamroll that guy on film.

She 'hates' him for having the audacity to questions why one guy is saying "thank you for the invite to the slumber party" and she's giving out her shapchat contact info to another guy. She's annoyed that he's even bringing it up. I mean GOSH, she even says "You know guys have reached out to me and been like 'you're pretty' and things". Don't be so insecure!

At around the 3:45 mark, he nails her down when he points out the suspicious nature of her snapchat use. Check out the look she gives him. It's a look of "How fucking DARE you..."

[–]Eydtkuhnen 1 points1 points [recovered]

"No matter what, I'll love you."

I can't describe how uncomfortable I felt when he said this. I mean, if you look at her expressions, the girl was also not that happy about it.

And I don't get how these guys think it's a good idea to take part in such "social experiments". I'd never do that, I'd even consider to break-up with my girlfriend if she insists on doing some shit like this. When I watch these kind of Videos, especially from buzzfeed, I get the feeling that most of them are there because their gf wanted it so and they didn't have the balls to tell them that it's a shitty idea. Most of these guys look so fragile and subordinate in them that I really want to puke my soul out. Who has decided that couples always have to be a pair of Hello Kitty-Sweethearts instead of two respectable persons?

[–]Rathadin 15 points16 points  (6 children)

Six seconds into the video and I've already got it paused. This is a cheating whore who is with her boyfriend for some practical reason and that's all.

Right after he said, "No matter what, I'll still love you." or whatever, he response was, "Yep... saaaaame..."

That is not the response of what that actually loves you. "Awwww..." followed by, "I'll still love you too baby!" is the correct response.

At least he was smart enough to know this though, when he said, "THAT'S reassuring!" I don't know if this shit is fake or staged, but this is why Reddit and the wider world hates this subreddit... because a lot of guys have not had more than 3-4 relationships with women; because a lot of guys don't know how to navigate these waters.

Evolution has given men a pretty shitty and raw deal, on the whole and taken as an aggregate... this subreddit upsets the evolutionary apple cart, and they don't like it.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 18 points19 points  (1 child)

Evolution gave them feminine power and feminism gave them masculine power.

TRP takes a tiny bit of that feminism/masculine power away and they don't like it at all.

This is why I think most women are fully aware of their advantage and they are fully aware that they don't give two shits about men. I think most of these THOTS care so little that a million men could die to make her left little toe slightly more comfortable and she would think that is just fine and dandy.

When I say "most" and "million" I am NOT exaggerating. I have literally seen similar reactions among my friends. Once I was ranting in front of my wife's friends about male suicide. 60,000 a year dead, probably most because of a woman. To which one harpy said: "Well women also commit suicide."

I replied: "Yes, 60,000 men and about 4,000 women, you do the math."

Her reply- and the reaction of all the female friends will haunt me forever. Loudly she said: "That is FOUR THOUSAND women dying every year and you don't think that is a big deal."

ALL the women in the circle were vigorously nodding their heads in agreement.

60,000 men every year dying is FAR FAR FAR less troubling than 4,000 women.

Fucking AWALT gentlemen. Don't doubt it or forget it for even a second.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I think most of these THOTS care so little that a million men could die to make her left little toe slightly more comfortable and she would think that is just fine and dandy."

Oh absolutely. There was a woman in the royal family of the late Western Roman Empire. She was bored/unhappy how things were going so she wrote a letter to Attila the Hun offering her hand in marriage and encouraging him to invade the empire. He gave her the feelz.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is a cheating whore who is with her boyfriend for some practical reason and that's all.

She's with him because he is tall and good-looking....he's at least +2 SMV to her. But he doesn't have a clue. "I'm so confused." Dude, your girl is a skank ho'. What is there to be confused about.

Anyway, this is exactly the type of guy who "does everything right" and then never sees the divorce-rape coming. He is BPAF. And WHAT was that high "Wuuuut?!" girly voice? Fuuuuck. Dude needs more T.

[–]smirk_addict 3 points4 points  (2 children)

I agree with you, but anytime a girl says “Awww..”’ it’s never a good thing. It’s either condescending or you’re in her frame. Also it’s the response people give when a child or small animal does something cute. It’s not something you say if you genuinely appreciate a man’s comfort and sensitivity.

[–]destraht 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Honestly though when I come back to California from abroad I often feel like just about every other man and woman is being passive-aggressively dismissive. For example I went the store to buy disposable razors and when I asked where they were the young guy says it back in a tone of disbelief while giving me a pet look. What to do? I'm larger than that guy, already into a real career, he is work a basic service job, etc but he is allowed to do that and it wouldn't ever translate into him being reprimanded. This sort of thing just goes on and on. I'd say its at least several times a day someone is rolling eyes, using a dismissive tone, etc. I'm able to work and travel abroad, I've live on four continents now, etc but punks and bitches back home just want to be passive-aggressive about lots of small things. Its definitely not a culture of respect.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"No matter what, I'll love you."

Actually, that is a tactic on his part. Women always act like "love" matters (like when I tell women I probably shouldn't have married my wife, but I was dumb, they always say "but you did because you loved her?"). He will love her. Love her enough to dump her ass for cheating is what I would mean, and I hope its what he means too.

[–]plainposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. this is a sad, sad guy in this video. she actually patted him on the head, like a dog, after he said that.

[–]PurpleDrank88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously. When she said she was mad he "like tried to turn things around" I was like wtf....bitch you literally just got nailed with all these dudes but he's the one who was turning things around?? What???

[–]icedupsmackhead 47 points48 points  (3 children)

How does she conclude that he's to blame for any of that hahaha. Mental gymnastics holy phuck.

[–]enjoy_life88 26 points27 points  (1 child)

I really liked the "I don't like how you turned it...like...like" - hamstering.exe has stopped working.

[–]childish_albino_[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was hilarious when he said "Please continue, I don't know what you mean", and you could tell her stomach dropped through the floor. Because she knew she was bullshitting and had nothing to back it up.

[–]Nomfwic 40 points41 points  (3 children)


Not everyone uses facebook lol . Here's the youtube link...

Really weak attempts to cover her track " I dont know" . With so many guys she talks on tinder, wouldn't surprise me if shes getting some D on the side.

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

She is definitely getting fucked by other dudes. Someone said "thanks for the invite to the slumber party", dude!

[–]Taco_Truck_Aficionad 1 points1 points [recovered]

This is why you don't make a girlfriend out of some bitch you meet on Tinder. You wouldn't date a hooker, why would you date someone from Tinder?

[–]askmrcia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We are smart enough to know this. But the average guy? Well when he gets on tinder what does he see? Most of the women on there saying how they are not looking for a hookup.

So guys tend to think to themselves that she wants an actual relationship. We are smart enough to see through that, but most guys aren't.

It's OK im sure this woke him up though

[–]kankouillotte 42 points43 points  (0 children)

his voice does indeed go way up when he is shocked, but generally he is ok, deep cool voice.

Thing is, physically you can instantly tell he lost the match, because he is way hotter than she'll ever be, and she still landed him, meaning she has the better game

he's probably helpless and just used to girls boyfriending him with no effort on his part ... that's a situation you don't want to be in

[–]cashmoney_x 30 points31 points  (16 children)

She lies about as well as my eight year old.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 7 points8 points  (15 children)

The master liar/manipulator you see on tv doesnt exist. They only work on the naive or those in denial or the desperate. Just doing basic research can make you immune to most lies.

[–]Dinosaurus_T_Flex 1 points1 points [recovered]

Yeah, that is not correct mate. Even experienced FBI-agents have problems detecting lies. Fuck, even polygraphs are not failproof.

[–]Gawernator 1 point2 points  (12 children)

"Even polygraphs"?

You do know polygraphs are no better at detecting deception than random chance, right? It's a facade, you and other guys fall for it still, though. Poly's are a breeze to pass. IMO

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

They are slightly better than random. But yea they are bullshit. Hence they are not admissible in court. In all the major US espionage cases, the guys passed all their polygraph tests over multiple years. Aldrich Ames was freaking out about having to take the test and the KGB told him to "just relax," and he passed.

[–]plainposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol when the KGB tells you to relax, you relax

[–]Gawernator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've worked with some interrogators that were pretty good.

[–]tenxs 48 points49 points  (20 children)

No surprise.

If your girl is even remotely attractive and social, this is very hard to prevent. You would literally have to lock her away. Men from every corner of a girls life throw themself at her, all the time. And no, you can't be the highest SMV guy on the planet.

Don't forget that women are natural plate spinners who (at least subconsciously) judge themself / get judged based on the attention and validation they can generate from men. It's like currency to them and every orbiter resembles a steady source of passive income. I am pretty sure a lot of guys underestimate the temptation a circle of even the most beta orbiters provide - via social media, it doesn't even need to be "quality attention" from alphas. For anyone in doubt or curious, I recommend The Key Logger.

Obviously your girl should never know you are aware of this or think this way. Covertly make sure she is terrified about you finding out about her little circle of attention dispensers.

[–]cantFindValidNam 11 points12 points  (10 children)

I hacked a gf's facebook a few years back and since then I've always known that a keylogger is the quickest and surest way to seeing someone's true colors. I haven't looked at the meta of hacking techniques for the last couple of years but I have a feeling that device recognition and login notification alerts being turned on by default completely neutralize this approach. Anyone knows if there are ways around this?

P.S. Apologies to the mods if this is out of line... feel free to remove

[–]tenxs 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My take on this: don't. Always assume a circle of attention/validation dispensers and emotional tampons orbiting her. If you start snooping for them you already lost, because it bothers you.

[–]1jb_trp 5 points6 points  (6 children)

If your girl is even remotely attractive and social, this is very hard to prevent

Yup. I'm in an LTR with a girl, and I'm not dumb... I see her phone notifications. It's insane because the screen is full from snapchat, texts, etc. She says that someday she wants to get married and have a couple kids, but that's not going to happen because I've seen too much. Right now, we're just having fun, I'm not too emotionally invested, and I have no intentions of getting serious or marrying this girl.

[–]Shariabluew 1 point2 points  (5 children)

LTR, I don’t know why you’re committed to this girl. A girl with social media and male friends that message her is automatically disqualified from my commitment.

Think of it this way, in effect, she gets to keep her “plates” (aka orbiters, the female version of plates) while you’re supposed to cut off your plates. Who wins in that trade?

It’s why social media is so harmful and damaging, especially to women. They always shit talk how bad porn and videogame addiction is (for good reason) but they never criticize women for their addiction to social media.

[–]1jb_trp 1 point2 points  (4 children)

I'm not too worried right now, because in my mind we're "just having fun" and I'm not too invested. As long as you're always able to walk away, you have nothing to fear.

[–]APSTNDPhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what men did for the vast majority of human history ha

[–]vwzwv 61 points62 points  (4 children)

This guy is a good example of a guy who talks in a voice way too high, how it comes off and affects his SMV and outlook.

[–]krefnasterploc 47 points48 points  (2 children)

In 200 years only this will have mattered: this blue pill faggot had 0 kids or maybe ended up raising somebody that’s not his. 0 offspring and no future generations of his DNA in his name populating the earth.

Meanwhile Achmed has 320 great great great grandkids.

This is all that matters and is the only thing that history will record in a few hundred years. Yet we’re so Alpha bros. Literally removing every trace of our DNA from the planet and eradicating ourselves in a mass extinction event at a rate the world has never seen. Fucking base bros!

/s ugh makes sick

[–]KagedRageius 17 points18 points  (11 children)

Who do you blame in situations like this?

The BF for not keeping her on a tight enough leash or not keeping her full attention?

The GF for leading these other men on?

The BP orbiters for giving her the time of day knowing she’s taken?

[–]childish_albino_[S] 55 points56 points  (3 children)

Honestly it's basically impossible to prevent. BP orbiters are always going to try and interject themselves in your relationship, but if you're high status enough, they'll be no threat. So it's not their fault. And it's not her fault, it's just what women will tend to do. You can't be mad at him though, because at the end of the video it says they broke up shortly thereafter... you gotta think he dumped her because of what he found. Which is the proper response. Nexting or demotion to plate status.

[–]DatingCoach111 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Was disappointed with his demeanor. He's BP as fuck and lacking masculinity. It's also possible she dumped him because of further insecurity on his part.

[–]TheReformist94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly think the only way to win is to cheat and try and have your cake and eat it too. It's dirty, but hey sexual strategy is amoral.women clearly give no fucks

[–]MrCarepig 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Its just nature, there is no one to blame. Nature is unapologetic and society has brainwashed the majority of men into being a blob of blue. Red pill ftw.

[–]vwzwv 7 points8 points  (2 children)

A relationship is not a contract that can be enforced by anything but SMV, dread, and the capacity to Next.

From his perspective it's his fault assuming fault must be assigned at all.

The only contract that tangentially exists is what she sees as her side of the contract and the only enforcement is by her. This is a fancy way of saying any expectations you have of a contract are imagined by you. Knowing the rules she puts on herself helps, but eventually 'knowing' is a recipe for developing a blindspot that will leave you blindsided.

[–]untonyto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Horrible words to hear, but wise words nonetheless.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Society for not controlling the bad aspects of female behavior and for glorifying sluts and you go girlllz power.

[–]plainposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im thinking youre right. saudi arabia has controlled women through those ninja suits they wear every day and it works pretty effectively.. they still have a decent human culture. and by decent, i mean aggressive.

[–]AvatarStinky 14 points15 points  (3 children)

What seems amazing to me is that she would even agree to the experiment in the first place. Also having it recorded on video and shown on a popular Facebook page as well? What did she expect would happen?

[–]askmrcia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My thoughts too or maybe she thought that he was too stupid or naive not find anything.

[–]2Dmva100 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Always collect side pieces and fuck then when necessary while in an LTR.

Being a good man, loyal, honest etc. Is all bullshit that only men respect amongst other men. Your woman simply uses it to control your dick and will never adhere the same values on her end within the relationship.

Or just stay away from LTRs with girls like that.

[–]saibot83 12 points13 points  (1 child)

I pretend stole my ltr-prospects phone one evening while we were snuggling and goofing off in bed. I've never seen such genuine panic before. My gut churned intensely. Yup, turns out eventually she was fucking around on me. Trust your gut but also if she panics about her phone, she's probably up to no gouda.

[–]Shariabluew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When a girl I'm fucking acts nervously when someone texts her in front of me or works to hide her phone from me I usually ignore it and use it as a mental note to never commit to her no matter what she says.

However sometimes I will call them out on trying to hide it and laugh at them and say something along the lines of: "I don't care what's on your phone, just like you shouldn't care what's on mine"

This has the added benefit of flipping the script and making them curious as to what exactly I am referring to that is on my phone. I keep it vague and don't linger on the topic, instead I just move on and change the subject or start flirting with her.

It's funny because several times the girl would think that I was doing that to try and make her forget about what is on my phone (reverse mind games) and she will often interrupt me to repeatedly ask to see my phone. If she won't drop it then I take it to the next level and say "fine! if you really want to know let's swap phones and I get to see yours too" that usually shuts them down for good. Sometimes the girl will call my bluff and try to goad me into trading my phone in, I never do, better to keep them guessing.

[–]1GreenPiller 44 points45 points  (22 children)

All these guys with feminine voices now... Is it something in the water?

[–]anylegtypes 26 points27 points  (9 children)

What makes you think guys in the past all had deeper voices? If you look at older videos, there were tons of men with equally mid-range or high-range voices.

Chances are you have a perception that the "good old days" were full of burly lumberjack men with deep voices, and that's clouding your perception. Voices haven't changed much, as far back as we have audio recordings.

[–]Cant_Tell_Me_Nothin 25 points26 points  (7 children)

Chances are he has interacted with enough men to realize this guy talks and acts feminine. Maybe its because he seems to be from a very safe and privileged upbringing. He seems to be very soft.

Its not necessarily the deepness of his voice. Its the feminine inflections he makes. He acts very non-confrontational and agreeable. His mannerism is very beta. He starts off with a very closed off body language with both his hands by his crotch. He looks like a little boy sitting next to his momma. Even his girl has an more relaxed and dominant body language. She's leaning back and taking up more space.

[–]anylegtypes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was only refuting the "all these guys with feminine voices now" statement specifically, not the idea that this guy was feminine, so I'm going to take your comment as an addition rather than a rebuttal.

[–]TRPDigesting 12 points13 points  (9 children)

Get yourself a Berkey Water Filter.

There's some discussion around the idea of dissolved female contraception accumulating in the water, as most local governments lack the resources (and won't front the money) to filter out such particles.

Fluoride and other heavy metals are an entirely different matter...

But you might have people pissing out estrogen hormones and other estrogen mimickers that can't be removed simply by fluoridating or chlorinating the water.

And to re-iterate, the evidence is mixed on this. But I'm paranoid enough to be extra meticulous about the water I'm drinking.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 3 points4 points  (6 children)

The only solution to true water filtration of 99.9% everything is reverse osmosis. It must be installed in your plumbing and cost a couple thousand dollars. Everything else is bullshit. Water 'softeners' lol. If you buy that and fill at ease its because you didnt do your hw.

[–]TRPDigesting 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Yeah the RO option is definitely the gold standard. The cost is a barrier, as well as the installation potentially violating a renter's agreement (if you're not a homeowner).

Why do you believe that the Berkey is bullshit? There seem to be plenty of sources corroborating the claims that it is an effective alternative to reverse osmosis filters.

For example, this independent study by Envirotek tested for the Black Berkey's reductions in Chloramine, Pesticides, Pharmaceuticals, etc. and showed at least a 99.1% reduction in every tested substance.

Not to say that Reverse Osmosis isn't a great option — just curious about your opinions on the alternatives.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Which of the berkley models is the one that had those results? I find it hard to believe they have hand portable models capable of RO results.

[–]TRPDigesting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like that particular test was of the Black Berkey Purification Element. The purification elements themselves can be installed into any size Berkey filter, I believe.

Most of the top search results for Berkey are just for the vendors trying to sell the product, but this is the official site if you ever want to check 'em out..

[–]X-Trem0 2 points3 points  (1 child)

ok, that's interesting. Got some more info on this? I'm gonna check that out.

[–]italianofamiglia 25 points26 points  (6 children)

So how do we combat this? By still going out and getting girls' numbers but keeping them as friends?

[–]X-Trem0 28 points29 points  (0 children)

well there is always the plate option. Eventually you will accept that this has nothing to do with you... is the amount of options they are presented with what matters... eventually they all will fail the test and just keep the guy as "flirting" just for fun... until is no longer fun and she is being impaled without having a second of remorse...

that's why no LTR is advised... they are all the same...

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt 25 points26 points  (0 children)

  1. Don't settle down with thots. You cannot make a ho into a housewife.

  2. Have a bullpen of your own. When it's no longer your turn with slore galore, then it's time to call up one of your own backburner chicks to the majors.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 8 points9 points  (2 children)

The redpill is that you cant, at least not without 24/7 surveillance and paternity tests (which never used to exist) which ruins everything anyway. Men are programmed to fight this futile cause for the sake of the species. Dont really bother. Always have other women no matter what. Monogamy is for fools. 'Honor' in the case is bullshit.

[–]AllahHatesFags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Secret vasectomy and nothing but pumps and dumps. Use a fake name as well so if a plate decides later on that you "raped" her she will have a harder time getting you in trouble.

[–]AdamNJH 9 points10 points  (6 children)

Fake as fuck. Why would you not delete all that shit before hand.

[–]Buncha_Cunts 6 points7 points  (1 child)

So many orbiters that she forgot about an account maybe? Or just thought BP cuck would trust her so much that he'd believe anything she made up on the spot?

[–]1Original_Dankster 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She was projecting. She assumed her BF would have a bunch of flirtatious shit on his phone too. If both were equally implicated in social media flirting, she wouldn't get in shit.

She doesn't understand that men and women think and act differently.

[–]childish_albino_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She doesn't seem like the sharpest knife in the drawer. She probably cleaned out her text messages but forgot or didn't realize he was going to check instagram DMs.

[–]BreakingRed_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like in the case of the MakeApp, it's not whether it's accurate/fake or not but how people react. See the white knights in the comments of the video going "w-well, he cheated her too he only deleted the evidence", turbo hamsters activated! These guys would dare suggest the same thing regardless of the video's validity.

[–]_DiscoNinja_ 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Orbiters are relationship plates.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A plate is a ho who gives up sex easy and men have no problem and no guilt whatsoever using them for sex.

An orbiter is an emotional ho who gives up emotional support and validation easy and women have no problem and no guilt whatsoever using them for validation and goodies.

[–]outsider-outside-out 64 points65 points  (13 children)

Bro this is fucking awesome. That blue pill cuckold dude just realized that he's indeed a cuckold. What a world we're living in..

Dude is beta af.

Chick 6/10 but still getting attn.

Ya know the truth, %100 of the chicks are doing exactly the same thing that bitch does.

[–]chemicalprogrammer 80 points81 points  (8 children)

Dude is beta af.

Disagree. He called her out while maintaining frame, and then dumped her (according to the video anyway)

[–]X-Trem0 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm with you. Trying to improve his situation no matter how fucked up it is...

[–]Yourstruly777 11 points12 points  (5 children)

That was a cringe to watch. Please can the dude just stop smiling and laughing.

He looks good but demonstrate about zero value.

[–]1htbf 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Smiling and laughing is the only way to treat children.

[–]Attila_ze_fun 9 points10 points  (2 children)

He was on Camera, do you seriously think that's all he had to say? Do you not think that they went home and he gave her a piece of his mind?

[–]TheReformist94 17 points18 points  (1 child)

All women emotionally cheat on men and attention whore.this is the female equivalent of guys at least making out with girls on the side. It's a number game you cannot win. Making out with side chicks is the least you should be doing whilst in an LTR to level the score.

[–]X-Trem0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And never keep a plate spinning too long... they will get used to it and keep on wanting more...

[–]choomguy 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Yeah, she is rough, and wil age horribly.

[–]ThickDickWarrior89 7 points8 points  (1 child)

We all know this. We don’t need anymore proof. The only question is - why should we give a fuck?

The way I see it is I have a job, lift weights and some hobbies. My time is precious. I don’t want to waste any time playing detective to see if any woman, plate or wife, is fucking around on me. If the signs are blatantly obvious- as in I catch her fucking another guy or whatever. I’ll handle the situation as necessary.

Even before trp I’ve mastered the art of letting go of anyone that crosses me. The way I view it- if she cheated on me, no matter the circumstances, then she did not deserve to be in the position she was in in my life. I don’t take it personally; I just move on. And quiet easily considering my high smv coupled with all I’ve learned from TRP.

[–]BreakingRed_ 18 points19 points  (2 children)

The top comment in the comment section under the video was "dude was so smart he deleted the messages xD" and it's being told by a guy no less.

Blue pill males trying to paint people guilty even in the complete absence of any evidence whatsoever just to keep their fantasy intact. This is so vomit inducing.

[–]lasttimewedidthis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbh i knew it was going to be a guy like him, with that voice and behavior before clicking the video. Girl also predictable and basic asf.. At least he was man enough to ditch her.

[–]RedPilledGodEmperor 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This chick while very fuckable isn't that hot. Imagine the amount of dudes that hot chicks get. Then people wonder why not just men, but also women are paranoid about their boyfriend/girlfriend is possibly cheating on them

[–]BonelessSkinless 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Stuff like this makes it increasingly clear I don't want a relationship. The girl has too much power. Why even fucking date nowadays? No one knows how to be exclusive anymore and everyone wants to have a "girlfriend/boyfriend" but then never keep exclusive attention and always collect 5-10 others on the side, what's the point? Just fuck and dip

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is only power when you give the power away, never fucking do that, never, once a woman knows she has power, she will use that shit to fuck you over, they can smell the fucking fear, don't allow them that power cause if you do, if they know you care, they will fuck you up while playing on your fears.

[–]Shakydrummer 3 points4 points  (25 children)

Shitty. That's why you always gotta be working on your own SMV to prevent this outcome. You avoid cheating by becoming the best option.

[–]RadioForMen 36 points37 points  (22 children)

I'm 6'4", 230 lbs, make $200k a year, been red pilled for years prior to meeting my last gf. I think I did a pretty good job. So she fucked an NFL player.

[–]BaronIncognito 3 points4 points  (12 children)

How does this even happen? Like where did she meet him?

[–]RadioForMen 8 points9 points  (9 children)

She had met him previously on tinder. I also met her on tinder actually, just later. Or maybe earlier. He was a 2nd or 3rd string youngish player. She kept his contact and eventually he or she contacted the other. I dont mind the guy, dude is living a dream, and worked hard to get there.

Technically as long as you live anywhere near a large metro area there will be dozens or even a hundred+ athletes.

Theres a reason 80s athletes used to say they easily rack up hundreds of lays, each. And the obsessed ones thousands of lays.

[–]BaronIncognito 3 points4 points  (6 children)

Damn that sucks but it makes sense. Sorry bro.

[–]RadioForMen 10 points11 points  (5 children)

Eh, I think it was the final red pill I needed. Up til then I was a believer in 'Become top 10%!!!' which luckily I probably am due to height and income.

But it honestly doesn't matter.

Sure it helps me get 6s into bed easily. But if I date a 7 or even 8, shes still hard wired to swing for the fences and land a 9 or 10.

[–]BaronIncognito 5 points6 points  (4 children)

True, it is an important lesson to learn, the stakes are even higher for high earners like yourself. I commend your attitude and your willingness to share your lessons and experiences with others.

[–]RedPilledGodEmperor 12 points13 points  (3 children)

It just shows you that ANYONE, I repeat ANYONE can get cheated on. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, your salary, how good your "game" is, she will have no problem cheating if she finds someone who she thinks is better and can hide it.

It's funny because I see people talking about how you just need to be 'alpha', yet overlook how many high status male celebrities actually get cheated on. Being an alpha chad doesn't make you immune to cheating.

[–]pridebrah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Guys need to realize the pursuit of a higher SMV is simply for your own satisfaction/fulfillment. Yeah it obviously helps with women, but some guys speak of SMV as a shield against hypergamy -- it's not. ANYONE can get hit at any time.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said my friend, as someone once said or I heard it, you cannot blame the dog for eating that nice rump steak you left alone for a few moments, it's in their nature, you can't get mad, just except it, once you except it, fuck it all, do what you want and move on, keep on moving forward and the pussy follows.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There have been absolute monarchs that got cheated on. Your SMV doesn't get much higher than that.

[–]APSTNDPhy 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Tinder. Ding ding. Red flag ignored.

There is no need for a chick to use tinder.

[–]RadioForMen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never said I was absolutely shocked. I knew it was a tinder chick from day 1. Point is, AWALT, because honestly they've almost all tried tinder. And even if you meet one at the damn library, you won't know if she already went through her tinder phase anyway.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social media is dick on tap. You can’t compete with the internet. It’s sexual arbitrage, and you’re always losing in a relationship.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On any given night if you live in a major or middle size city there are dozens of smoking hot girls getting plowed by athletes. Supposedly the quarterback of my (big 10) college would just walk up to random girls at parties and say "do you want to go have sex?" He'd just ask a few girls a night and usually one would say yes.

[–]pridebrah 0 points1 point  (1 child)

If you dont mind me asking, what do you do for a living? Impressive income.

[–]MrAgamemnon 10 points11 points  (1 child)

Nah. No matter who you are, there will always be someone better, and the grass will always be on the other side of the fence.

Now with how fast, easy and accessible everyone is, this is just the way things are, it is the norm, it has to be accepted.

[–]bluepillcarl 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Awesome video! It's like a great picture because it shows how beta he is. Almost wonder if he even likes girls, no wonder why she cheats on him. I'm sure he's a nice dude but damn if he grew some balls he could be the man in the relationship.

[–]Booeybaby420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Slut: "I didn't encourage any of them!"

Also slut: "You're cute af, message me on Snapchat"

[–]Eulerbrah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That was difficult to watch. What a fag. Seriously why the fuck would you talk in such a high voice with a huge smile with tons of “whyyyyyy” “whaaat” “you liike himm” “he liiikes youuh” And worst of all “I love you no matter what” + “I swear to god tinder is her last name” ..... son!! And that body language...... He is trying too much to win her approval and not to say something that will make her mad?? Jeez.

[–]askmrcia 4 points5 points  (2 children)

If people want to find out if their "unicorn" LTR are worth it, I suggest you do this experiment.

Check emails, social media DMs and text messages. The funniest thing is that there are so many apps where you can easily hide this stuff, but most people are too lazy to set it up.

Go into the android text messaging app, you could literally hide text messaging threads and mute texting threads. And that takes all but less then 5mins.

And if you have tinder/bumble, just delete the app (not your profile) that way you won't have notifications pop up.

[–]Sensei_Hensei 0 points1 point  (1 child)

How do you hide text threads?

[–]askmrcia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On Android you can simply hold your thumb on the text thread and select hide

[–]bot256 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I AM NOT HAPPY THAT YOU TURNED THINGS AROUND" fucking gonna rage punch the wall rn, been there so many fucking times and almost broke my kunckles punching the walls out of frustration when this shit happened to me. Same fucking story. Always kept myself away from other girls' attention to validate princess unicorn's unicornness and she always had a small army of orbiters when the female population of the world around me hardly knew I even existed. Each time I tried to call her out on that bullshit, I'd come off as an insecure, jealous, clingy, controlling, etc, etc. Fuck, thanks for that video reminder - those low creatures we are willing to give our everything for (before TRP) and their fucking schemes. Excuse me for this outburst but this is today's relationship reality in a nutshell. She ain't even that hot or anything, a mediocre looking female but boy, does she get the most out of her looks.

[–]Shaman6624 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every woman will do that to 95% (at least) of men. But if you push all her buttons (show and have the full spectrum of beta and alpha qualities a good man has) she will develop oneitis for you and she will drop them.

[–]dumbkidaccount 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the bitch is not even good looking . that fucking nose , plus the mole on her forehead

geez , that guy is such a faggot

[–]Andgelyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anddddd this is why you should have some hoes on the side ready to jump on you should anything happen. Just as girls have “in case of emergency break glass for dick(read that somewhere here)” we should have “in case of emergency break glass for pussy” LOL

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has to be fake. Who would let their partner look through their phone when there is so much obviously incriminating stuff on it? Talking to people from tinder? There is no possibility that you can play that off as being innocent.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This only applies to men who do not have their girlfriends phone password and check it randomly.

[–]theBreadSultan 4 points5 points  (5 children)

Gonna be controversial here: It's not all women. Or at least not all the time.

There is this thing some women do called "the four man plan", but as I have explained to people, it's guaranteed to find your self some beta loser (like the chump in the video).

If a woman feels she is punching above her weight / lucky to have a guy as awesome as you, they don't do this shit. Once the mindset sets in of "no matter what, I got this chump in the bag no matter what (with perhaps the exception of getting caught cheating)" - it is to quote the noble Cereal from Hackers - "GAME OVER MAN"

[–]askmrcia 11 points12 points  (4 children)

If a woman feels she is punching above her weight / lucky to have a guy as awesome as you, they don't do this shit.

Keep telling yourself that. I don't know what fantasy land you live in where guys with a lot of money, status, and good looks don't get cheated on.

[–]dirtygarbage1974 -1 points0 points  (2 children)

Actually very seldom do I hear that. Even around here.

Truth is; you don't know shit, I don't know shit, Rollo Tomassi doesn't know shit, nobody knows shit.

Until I start getting infidelity data from actual men you sappy chumps don't convince me. Interesting paradox - ain't nobody with a loyal girl gonna actually come here and tell any of you incels about it. Because you will all react just like this. So all we get is stories about cheaters. Then you shit shows are like "SEE ANOTHER PROOF". Like we have no data to even challenge this claim. Fuck sakes you can't have a scientific fact UNLESS IT CAN BE PROVEN FALSE. So everyones acting like because we have a shitload of biased data we can make any sort of legitimate logical claim.

Can't think I've ever met a wise man who deemed one man's theory as scripture and formed his whole life around it.

TRP you are right about a lot of things but I can't take anything you say seriously when you all sound like angry dry losers.

[–]RadioForMen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Steve McQueen and Carson got cheated on. You're cooler than rich, famous, good looking, race car driving, motorcycle riding Steven Mcqueen?

[–]theBreadSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those 3 things are not the deciding factor. Don't conflate loyalty to base attraction

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter. What matters is who she is fucking. Women have backup options, men have backup options (you should have a handful), and there's nothing wrong with keeping them around. Women love attention--let her get her attention.

Also, this is indirect pussy pedestal. Did you think you were going to find a perfect angel for a girlfriend? You want a girl to fit your beta fantasies about loyalty and pure submissiveness. Change your expectations to reflect reality.

[–]mismm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was cringing the whole time, the guy was shrieking like a bitch the whole video while the girl was stone cold and even defiant.

[–]Sardoveneto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the fuck you go on this kind of experiment if u know you have things like that in the phone so i would say:

1) you are stupid and naive

2) or you genually forgot about those messages becaude u dont care about people but just want validation

3) or u want that to be found

[–]inscnmya 1 points1 points [recovered]

This is why I LOVE the internet.

Step 1) You have to be really discreet on your research. Find her SSN, DOB, MMN, scan her ID, passports, get her moms info, her dads info, any siblings info. Everything.

Step 2) Use a RDP, VPN, some Socks and post all of her private shit online, using her real name. Post some nudes if you can too, also under her name, preferably to some porn websites claiming that she is a porn star.

Step 3) Ghost the fuck out of her. Ruin her life for good. Make her see who's fucking who over.

Step 4) Good luck with your ruined life, enjoy unemployment and mental problems

Step 5) Find another girl instantly, replace that whore completely with her.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, you should be motivated to improve yourself for you, not to keep the girl around. "Losing" a girl isn't even game over. We can't equate our value, happiness, or sense of fulfillment to woman.

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