Field ReportIgnoring a woman will make her want you and Focus on yourself (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by penguinfellatio

Background I have been on TRP for a little over a year now. This sub really opened my eyes into the beta bitch I was, I am not exaggerating. I am currently 18 and a freshman at a big party school (this has helped my game). A year ago I was still a virgin and a senior in high school. I will admit I am a white male, pretty good looking and have a good body as I go to the gym a lot, but I am only 5'9. I got some action in high school with a handful of girls but never full on sex until the end of senior year. This sub is to thank for that.

Now Since arriving here for my freshman year in August, I have been using all the techniques I learned on here and actually focusing on myself more than on trying to get women. I did not realize how easy it would be to get laid and make out with random girls at the bar just from dressing nicely, being well groomed, and the most important part, just talking to them like they are humans. This sub has really pushed that you should focus on yourself, and that has honestly gotten me laid several times and I was surprised to have girls hitting me up first.

Oneitis Scare This HB9 who I met back in October through a mutual friend is really just an all around chill girl and good looking. We ended up at the bars one of the nights and she grabbed my hand to dance and we ended up making out. Eventually I left to pursue other women in the bar, and then went home to my dorm with my friends. The following Monday I get a text from the girl, even though I never gave her my number, she got it through a friend who has my number. She also added me on snapchat and then we agreed to chill that Friday. We actually ended up doing shrooms together and it was really chill time. Only ended up getting head, no sex. But it really brought us closer together, she stayed the night over as well. Unfortunately, I started to get oneitis for her after this. Naturally, this killed the attraction she had for me as I really put her on a pedestal. After reading through this sub again, I realized I had to drop her. She would either come back crawling or just not come back. Well a month goes by, after thanksgiving break I am at the bar with my friends and I had seen her earlier in the night and we talked for a little, there were no hard feelings. Well later in the night my buddy tells me, bro she keeps asking me where you are. So I eventually find her and she tells me how she misses me and to text her more. I say ok I will try and then I actually went and hooked up with another girl, pretty sure she saw. I text her a few days later and she is very flirtatious over text and snapchat. This past friday she came over and within a half hour we were fucking like animals. Probably the best sex I have had in awhile. Moral of the story, ignoring girls and pursuing other women actually works. Focus on yourself and you will have so many opporutnities.

Sorry for the long post, but I have not shared anything on this sub before and thought I should. I have had so much success since being on this sub, and I am only 18 so I am pretty excited for the next four years.

TL;DR: Ignore a girl if you feel like you are putting her on a pedestal, and focus on yourself if you want to make any improvements in your life.

[–]185poundsofhatredWIP 473 points474 points  (36 children)

Ignoring her to make her chase you works only if she's interested in the first place.

[–]Extremely_Photogenic 615 points616 points  (23 children)

Absence diminishes little passions and increases great ones, as wind extinguishes candles and fans a fire

[–]RedPilledRoaster 96 points97 points  (5 children)

That’s some wise-man shit. You a Buddha?

[–]FaerieDrake 21 points22 points  (3 children)

It's from 48 laws of power

[–]RedPilledRoaster 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Hm, what is this “48 Laws of Power?” Maybe I should read it before commenting!

[–]dran2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buy it immediately. It will help you understand the world better

[–]penguinfellatio[S] 46 points47 points  (6 children)

shit never thought about it that way.

[–]deadassfinna 43 points44 points  (5 children)

Check out the book 48 laws of power. One law was use absence to create respect and honor

[–]Hourglasspony 10 points11 points  (4 children)

I’ve always thought of it from an economic standpoint; use scarcity to create value.

[–]JamzeNeu 30 points31 points  (3 children)

Little correction. Scarcity increases value,It doesn't create it.

You need to already have a good reputation/Impression ,then you vanish. That will get people to talk about you.

But, if nobody know who the fuck you are ,you don't even matter to anyone, nobody gives a shit in your absence,or in presence.

[–]Hourglasspony 2 points3 points  (2 children)

This is absolutely a better way to phrase it. Thanks for the correction.

[–]Redpillandrew 1 point2 points  (1 child)


Your nickname is so cool i'll use it as a title for one of my songs. No joke

[–]MrAnderzon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's some mantle above the fireplace type stuff

[–]falconpush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive nvr really wanted a tat... until reading that phrase. the amount of application this can be applied to is impressive

[–]thebadmanpuntdbaxter 18 points19 points  (1 child)

The beauty of it is that theres a lot of hers and ignoring all of them takes very little effort.

Its a relationship between narrowing your focus as much as possible where women have to work harder and less subtlely to put themselves in that focus. Its a hilarious cliche when you literally have women "falling all over you". Then you live the rest of life with a shit eating grin

[–]youkickmyd0g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I notice I can heavily influence certain people... mostly girls in proximity, but also a couple betas who've taken stabs at me when they thought I was weak. I say very little, but they shape their lives in ways that'd impress the image I let myself project. I never knew envy was actually dangerous... careful of the loomers. The girls who latch on hardest are also the ones who go the crazies when nexted. There's deep and desepeate latching, I think. The former probably only happens with more intelligent chicks who can factor the future and indirect factors into their resource extraction better. Dudes are on average probably better at waiting in the bushes tho. Desperate latching is what I think we usually think of. A bit of a tangent, but related in that you can start to smell these types like you say and it's entertaining/"awwwwww cute" when it's no longer threatening.

[–]deadassfinna 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Which is super effective in sorting out the ones who really like you from the ones that don't and are faking it

[–]francisco_DANKonia 23 points24 points  (3 children)

I've also found that many girls who are only children or youngest children have a higher than usual addiction to attention. If she is in a confined location where she cannot go away to get attention (like a job) she will start flirting with you if you are miserly with your attention.

But I don't shit where I eat so I just enjoy the attention.

[–]needsmayo 1 points1 points [recovered]

Dated a girl I️ worked with for 8 months. Accepted a new job. She broke up with me at the end of my last shift, in the form of ghosting me.

I️ did nothing wrong to her; I️ just wasn’t going to be there to give her her attention fix anymore.

[–]Imadethisforyeezys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my experience they never chase you. I had several girls making eye contact with me in uni for weeks. After some time with me not opening however, theyll begin to hate you for not talking to them. Shit one even stared at me as if i had killed her cat or sth

[–]m4rkm4n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Otherwise all the insecure betas would be swimming in pussy just because they "ignore" women in general.

[–]banjew 185 points186 points  (10 children)

Yes ignoring girls will indeed work sometimes but then again remember we only get reports when it works. Many many times it doesn't work.

I ignored a girl I was into and she, well, just fucked other men and never saw her again.

[–]SuperCrazy07 69 points70 points  (3 children)

Well, the advice isn't to ignore girls and wait around for them to want you. It's ignore them to pursue other girls and sometimes she'll chase.

[–]spaceunm 14 points15 points  (2 children)

Or you pay attention and sometimes that works too. Basically this technique doesn't work unless the girl really wants you. And then it's not really a technique at all.

[–]shortstroll 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly, if she wants you enough to chase you when you are gone, she would probably have responded to a different approach. The only exception here is if she is so super unattractive as to not have any other guys vying for her attention. Most girls will have other guys or the potential for other guys to hit on her though. You play this game and she'll just move on, even if she did like you a little.

[–]p3n1x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or you pay attention and sometimes that works too.

The term "ignore" is where the loss in context is. Ignore to a seasoned vet is clearly understood. To a bloop, it is a very misunderstood tactic.

It is about "absence" / lowering attention when it is warranted. Most bloops over invest and give too much attention, thus killing her desire. OP's story is a poor example of this, he simply stopped beating a dead horse, instead of pulling away well before *she chose to do it first. * What brought her desire back, was his "not needing her". OP admits he over invested and repulsed her. His abundance frame brought her back, not the lowering of attention tactic.

The word "mysterious" hasn't been used around here in a while. Mysterious = tingles.

[–]ArabSigma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The point is not for her to come back crawling, the true reason should be for you to escape her orbit.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

This is...usually my experience no matter how little or how much effort I've put into it.

[–]life-is-short 2 points3 points  (1 child)

It just depends on what kind of girl you find, if she turns out to be a hoe, ghosting her doesn't work. They're just options.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I live in a high density area I'd say. Options are limitless.

[–][deleted] 119 points120 points  (64 children)

but I am only 5'9.

bitch this is the average height in America, stop acting like you're "only" 5'9 hahaha

[–]CountyOfRymnik 30 points31 points  (2 children)

I think most guys just don't notice the people the same height or shorter, they mostly notice the guys who are taller than them, so they tend to feel a bit shorter than they really are.

[–]glawkneintehn 10 points11 points  (1 child)

I almost never see anyone over 6'3 but when I do it certainly fucks with my head. Whether I'm not used to seeing anyone or if I'm just noticing they are taller idk. But it certainly fucks with me.

[–]Andgelyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro imagine being around dudes who were 6'4, this was my situation when i was in grad school. I'm 5'9 and I was the shortest guy in my class. My best friends in school were exactly 6'4 haha they were cool as hell though and are like my brothers but yeah i felt small AF

[–]Andgelyo 9 points10 points  (12 children)

Lol 5’9 is around my height, definitely not a bad thing. It’s only bad when your friends are like 6’0-6’4, which was my situation when I was living in MA. I’m so glad to be back in Jersey where I’m taller than 50% of people I see. Living around a lot of ethnics helps too.

[–]JustDoMeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try being 5’4/5’5 with friends being 5’9 - 6’0. Shits on hard mode constantly

[–]penguinfellatio[S] 3 points4 points  (10 children)

Fellow jersey guy? Nice haha

[–]Andgelyo 2 points3 points  (3 children)

JERSEY CITY ALL DAY.....sike I'll probably be moving out of this shit hole soon

[–]penguinfellatio[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

haha I am in the suburbs, don't usually go to that area lmao.

[–]Andgelyo 0 points1 point  (1 child)

South jersey? That's usually the "nice" part of Jersey

[–]penguinfellatio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am from north/central jersey suburbs, probably nicest part of NJ.

[–]Rudeyyyy 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Passaic County and 5'4 Irish/Italian. Shit is definitely on hard mode.

[–]Andgelyo 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Not on hard mode imo, you being white makes getting ethnics (especially oriental asians) easier. Also try getting latinas, a dude in my class while I was in undergrad was a shredded short Italian dude who had a pretty cute Dominican chick.

[–]Rudeyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe il go for a Brazilian because of the nice ass. But I've always been attracted to Irish blondes.

[–]LordThunderbolt 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Putting Jersey and nice in the same sentence is pushing things too far, my guy. Take it easy.

[–]penguinfellatio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true, rated one of the nicest towns in the country. Come to the suburbs in Morris/Somerset county, you will be pleasantly surprised.

[–]BrownGummyBear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Guys on this sub are so insecure about their height and race. It's borderline beta behavior smh

[–]m0rphing 20 points21 points  (40 children)

Am I the only short guy who doesn't think tall guys have an advantage? I don't feel threatened by a guy's height, it just doesn't phase me. His shoulder width on the other hand, that's a physical trait I can respect.

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (1 child)

im 6'0 and still feel like taller guys have an advantage

[–]deadassfinna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I'm 6 ft is well and I still feel the heavy presence of someone a bit taller than me, it's such an instinct feeling I can't imagine what it must be like for shorter people feeling this constantly

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (27 children)

Height is an objective advantage in attraction. It's like having a good jawline.

It's not about what you respect, it's about what the bitches crave.

[–]m0rphing 4 points5 points  (25 children)

Could be true. I usually have a good read on what's attractive. I agree that a good jawline is a killer trait. I've always heard people talking about how girls love tall guys, but from my experience they like it more as a status symbol and they want a tall guy for a boyfriend, but when it comes to who they're going to fuck, they don't care. Maybe that's some kind of hamstering my brain is doing because I'm short, but that's what I've got. Like what does a tall person even offer? Being able to pick the fruits from the trees? Lol.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (24 children)

There's certain traits that are evolutionarily attractive. Jawline, height, masculine facial features, etc.

Everyone has these traits in different proportions/amounts. Do your thing. Just because you're short doesn't mean you're, as a whole, uglier than another guy who just happens to be tall. Because you could have stronger traits in the other areas, like muscle, etc.

[–]Andgelyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the bitches crave broad shoulders too dude

[–]bboydrix 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Yeah bud I think you are. I can build shoulder mass (to a degree - it’s a Bitch but doable) but I can’t build more height.

[–]p3n1x 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You have a genetic amount of muscle mass potential also... so....

[–]bboydrix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, but with hard work and dedication, it's achievable to put some more rounder, well defined bulkier shoulders. I simply cannot add another 2 inches to my height

[–]ItsYough123 1 point2 points  (4 children)

I'm 5ft 9 and height really doesn't bother me. Had a few guys laugh when they saw photos of me with a girl and she was taller than me with heels on but I was just standing there like 'dude I don't give a fuck, I don't even think about these things'. I could tell even though they were 5ft 11 or 6ft they were actually more insecure about height than me lol. Wouldn't swap my boyish smirking face to be 6ft+ ever lol. If you own it in other areas, height, to a certain extent, is pretty irrelevant.

[–]p3n1x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about tall guys like me that aren't insecure or jealous at all?

The point should be "own it". Own the things that are out of your control, i.e. confidence.

[–]ChasingPaper26 0 points1 point  (2 children)

It sounds like it does bother you.

[–]ItsYough123 1 point2 points  (1 child)

How? It does not bother me in the slightest.

[–]ChasingPaper26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you don’t. Good. Slow morning here...lol

[–]Chaddeus_Rex -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

6'2, I think shorter guys have an advantage as it's easier to look huge with less muscle

[–]witch_pimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preach. I'm 6'6" and it takes fucking work to put on size.

[–]Gr0o0vy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 6 ft 5 and I am the second shortest guy in my immediate neighborhood :D God bless the last guy who is 6ft 3. Then there are 5 taller dudes... we are the epitome of "you came to the wrong neighborhood"

[–]ye-olde-throwaway 1 points1 points [recovered]

it's average, but keep in mind that includes the elderly, shorter ethnicities like Asian and Mexican, etc. the average for a reasonably financially well-off white male born in the late 1990s is probably pretty damn close to 6'0".

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (3 children)

Everyone lies about their actual height, so, it's complicated lol

[–]deadassfinna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Generally when average height studies are conducted they use a measuring device, they don't rely on what the subject says.. Lol

[–]deadassfinna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Generally when average height studies are conducted they use a measuring device, they don't rely on what the subject says.. Lol

[–]deadassfinna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Generally when average height studies are conducted they use a measuring device, they don't rely on what the subject says.. Lol

[–][deleted] 41 points42 points  (20 children)

This post is a partial truth.

Ignoring a woman for a period of time increases the intensity of attraction, assuming you have it, during initial encounters.

However, ignoring a spinning plate for too long will give her justification to seek cock elsewhere.

And ignoring an LTR too often or for too long will kill her butterflies right quick.

[–]AwakenedSovereign 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Like anything else it's about balance. If you ignore a girl that is otherwise "where she should be", and she takes it wrong, that's like punishing a dog for asking to go outside. Destroys the trust. All leadership requires trust.

[–]breakfastburrito24 1 point2 points  (6 children)

Anything I can do to remedy that last one?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Commit some high quality time for a while?

[–]breakfastburrito24 2 points3 points  (4 children)

I've tried, but to no avail. I think it's just time to next.

[–]Fastjur 1 point2 points  (3 children)

The butterflies always disappear. You need to find another reason for the LTR than pure attraction.

[–]breakfastburrito24 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I thought there was way more. We had so much in common and got along very well until some random shit happened.

[–]p3n1x 1 point2 points  (1 child)

until some random shit happened.

That is life, don't dwell on it.

[–]breakfastburrito24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying not to. Thanks for the solid advice, dude

[–]Psychocist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think she's not seeking cock elsewhere, anyway?

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 0 points1 point  (8 children)

And ignoring an LTR too often or for too long will kill her butterflies right quick.

That's strange. Why do you think that is?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (7 children)

In an LTR you go beyond the first attraction phase. Games still work but require tact.

Continued romantic requires that your time together remain free from conflict and confusion for the most part.

This is hard for betas and younger guys to do. Conflict comes from frame instability and poor communication approaches, and confusion comes from lack of consistency and leadership.

Gaming time together can add excitement, but is a weak method to do so in an LTR. There are better ways to add attraction/excitement/dread in other words.

[–]witch_pimp 1 point2 points  (6 children)

I would really like to learn more about LTR RP strategy. Any resources beyond our sidebar?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (5 children)

Preaching to the choir. I have instituted it for a few years across a couple girls and always wanted to share war stories.

[–]witch_pimp 1 point2 points  (4 children)

I had a short thing with a plate over 4 years ago. Within the last year we began seeing each other more seriously. I just want to maintain my frame and make sure she doesn't sneak attack me.

I was married once and told myself I'd never do it again. But now.... Argh. I dunno.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Are you both past the butterflies? This can take a couple years for some couples. Do you both want kids? This should be a requirement for you. Does your family embrace her? This adds stability. Is she loyal as fuck (for a woman)?

[–]witch_pimp 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Butterflies definitely happened already. I have a kid from a previous marriage and she has been incredible with him (which, indirectly, shows me how much she cares about me.) And she does want kids for sure. With me. And I know she wants to get married.

Loyal? It's nuts. She makes sure everyone she knows knows who I am and how she feels about me. She is like an old fashioned housewife, cooking and cleaning for me. Never had that before.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Supportive, nurturing, and loyal... When they ready, they ready.

Question is, is that what you want? Family is underrated and underrepresented here at TRP, so it really just depends on your mission and readiness. The married red pill is another sub to consider, too.

[–]witch_pimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's what I want. But there's always that itch in the back of my mind. What if she changes? What if she stops satisfying me?

[–]Augustuscrassus 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I dunno man. Once didn't call an LTR for a week and she was flipping out to everyone we knew. it got to the point that the girl who set us up called me and said she was freaking that I hadn't called her.

She was a virgin who told me she wanted to wait, and all of a sudden let me have her the next time we hung out. This was less than a month after we started dating.

Thing is this wasn't on purpose. I remember saying I thought you wanted to wait? All of a sudden her attraction for me increased ten fold in a week. To be young and dumb again.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, a month dating is a plate. A week off increases the tension early on.

[–]clammastak 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This is a never ending strategy...ignore your plate, then ignore her as your girl, then ignore her as your wife, then ignore her grave

[–]Carson1099 9 points10 points  (5 children)

For sure, there was a girl at work I was initially interested in but found out she said something stupid that I told her behind my back to another dude. I was pissed off about it at first but decided to turn that into a dont give a fuck about it and just ignore her because I don't want to waste time dealing with a person like that.

She clearly hated that I wasn't flirting/giving attention to her like I used to and a few weeks later she went from shit testing to practically in my lap laughing at everything I said and showed clear interest. Have her wrapped around my finger and we are getting drinks this weekend although she has turned me down in the past. Major part of this was withdrawing attention while she saw me give attention to other girls.

[–]penguinfellatio[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

shit man good luck. Women crave attention, hope you are able to close.

[–]p3n1x 2 points3 points  (2 children)

there was a girl at work I was initially interested

Not smart nor wise.

found out she said something stupid that I told her behind my back to another dude.

If you don't want something repeated, don't say it. Male or female.

Have her wrapped around my finger

If you aren't already sleeping with her, it is the other way around. Don't hamster yourself. You are in her orbit until then.

[–]Carson1099 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I worded that wrong... she said something stupid about something I said. Either way, you are right. I make cocky jokes in my workplace and they reiterated into something else and people think I'm serious. In the end I don't really care if people have a problem because I am joking and that's too bad they can't humour themselves. Taken good or bad, the things I said make me look confident because I am confident.

[–]p3n1x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, just be careful with the company ink.

[–]mrcuckhold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any update on this bro ? how did it go with the girl?

[–]turpin23 22 points23 points  (2 children)

No need to ignore anyone, just don't chase, don't be needy, don't compete. Pay attention to body language. When you see a girl frustrated about being frozen out by others, tell her come over here, sit over here, talk with me. You let everyone else do the work of ignoring someone, then swoop in and save the day.

[–]420KUSHBUSH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you see a girl frustrated about being frozen out by others, tell her come over here, sit over here, talk with me.

Good strategy, shows sincerity and you being a source of comfort. Of course she may try and friendzone you but I trust everyone here knows how to handle that. Her being comfortable with you is crucial

[–]brandon36112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I think the OP was probably being too clingy when he said he put her on a pedestal and most women are going to be turned off by that. In my experience, the girls that fill the gap and I really don't care about are the ones that end up falling head over heels in love with me. The one's that I'm crazy about and try too hard and put on a pedestal are the ones that lose interest. Attractive women have men falling over them all the time, they don't want the one they're interested in doing the same thing.

[–]AstuteBlackMan 3 points4 points  (2 children)

What's wrong with being 5"9? Thats not even short.

I'm 6"2 that's not far off

[–]p3n1x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is a 5 inch difference. At 6'2, you know standing next to someone 6'7 throws you off a bit.

[–]penguinfellatio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because I was short all of my life until now. I realize now that most of my friends are around my height and I am taller than the girls I hook up with so. Mostly a mental thing from earlier years.

[–]Modiggs237891 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These comments got so juvenile. Congrats to OP their are some good nuggets of wisdom in there. Also I will agree it's harder as an ethnic (I myself am) but far far from impossible. Good luck to all the dudes out there trying to game these hoes and stop being weak minded and just suck it up.

[–]TheLaughingRhino 1 points1 points [recovered]

Pro Tip - Give a girl your phone number. Say you are interested and want to hang out. Then walk away.

If she calls, she's interested.

If she doesn't, she's not.

When a woman actually has to expend some kind of effort, then she's likely not within the "negotiating attraction" danger zone.

Two things

A) Women pick B) Women have made up their minds about you already, usually before you even open your mouth

Here's the thing. There are two kinds of sex. Transactional sex and Desire sex. The first kind is sex for resources. No effort. Deep down resentment and irritation. You are useful, and maybe she's just bored and you are just her current best option. The second kind, she wants you so bad, she wants to rip off your clothes and suck you dry.

Once you've had the 2nd kind of sex, and most guys don't, the first kind ( and everyone has had the first kind at some point), you can't go back to the first kind. The hurry up/screw you/pay me sex with the irritated look on their face while they starfish you.

My take, simply give her the opportunity to choose, a Yes or No, and put the effort ball in her court. Then you walk away and ignore her.

Never give women the option to keep trying to fuck with you for free stuff, attention, dinner, a shoulder to cry on, etc. Force her into a Yes or No situation. She either likes you and wants to give you a chance or she won't.

[–]S-Blaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends some girls are just too shy to initiate

[–]Breadbowl_Pasta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

'only 5'9' lmao guess I'm screwed by your way of thinking, I'm 5'7

[–]TRPDigesting 6 points7 points  (1 child)

The best experiences I’ve had doing mushrooms have been with people I know and trust pretty well. I’ve found that doing it around strangers can be unpredictable, but to each their own.

[–]brandon36112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found that doing it around strangers can be unpredictable, but to each their own.

That's what ecstasy is for.

[–]pizzae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ignoring won't work if you're already ugly

[–]420KUSHBUSH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It works but it's high risk high reward

If you play your cards and they don't end up being a full house, then she will lose interest and go elsewhere to get the attention she desires. Girls hate mixed messages, and if you throw in a few mixed messages she won't want to risk rejection and just disappear elsewhere

Ignoring is a double edged sword, that is if this is part of your sexual strategy. If you ignore because it's not important then all the more power to you compadre

[–]victor_knight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she didn't care you were alive to begin with, it probably won't.

[–]DerekDiablo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely my Lad, Silence is often the best Weapon. Especially when it gets to a Hectic Fight. Never show your True Emotions, resist picking up that phone... I fuck the Bitch within the first ten times with the intention of doing everything I want with them, everything after is Bonus... Being aloof about pussy rather than showing your true Woody Woodpecker- Taxidermy episode Wolf face is Wise... Every Man is on it like that, if you act like you don't give a fuck, sets you apart. No Bitch likes a Desperate Man. Cheers Lad, Take no Prisoners!

[–]wunderwaxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone watched Stranger Things

[–]Redpillandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talking to them like they are humans.

I stopped here for a while, because this turned out to be a better advice than it seems to be.

[–]crouchPepper 0 points1 point  (8 children)

Whom’st’d’ve’ly make a sentence like you did? The header is wrong. You must’nt’d’ly’st’ve gotten more than a 600 on the SAT writing exam. I can tutor you, message me homeslic3

[–]penguinfellatio[S] -1 points0 points  (7 children)

got a 31 on ACT, in a top business program. I am good buddy, I wrote this while studying for finals. Thanks though? lol

[–]crouchPepper -2 points-1 points  (6 children)

You’re welcome, home slice. I suggest you treat women kindly and be peaceful. And I whooped your ass on Standardized Exams, I’m sure. I barely had to study for my finals, as I put in the hours through the whole semester. I think your username says it all...

[–]penguinfellatio[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Someone is full of themselves. No one cares how well you did on your finals and tests if you are a loser in the real world.

[–]crouchPepper -1 points0 points  (4 children)

How do you know I’m a loser? I’m one of the most highly respected individuals in my community.

[–]penguinfellatio[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Speak softly and carry a big stick. If you were so successful you would not go out of your way to brag to an 18 year old buddy.

[–]crouchPepper -1 points0 points  (2 children)

Why do you respond? I’m just trying to teach you.

[–]penguinfellatio[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Being a condescending prick is not teaching me a thing buddy.

[–]crouchPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bitter medicine, you’re learning... emotional response indicates positive recognition of evaluation.

[–]Aazaad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds like a typical BPD with low self esteem.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

spot on brother, but always keep that guard up no matter what

[–]LordThunderbolt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"But it really brought us closer together, she stayed the night over as well."

Why do you want to very closer? You don't even know her

[–]1Your_Coke_Dealer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good, you're learning. Welcome to TRP 102.

[–]OneTrueDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful not to become an asshole mate. Balance is key.

[–]sd4c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an old guy, I'm going to give you some free advice: fuck around a bit, but get Oneitis for NO ONE but yourself, until you're about 30. This is because your eyes, will be forever 17.

Say you're 20. You meet girls in college who are 19, 20.

They look amazing. You wife one up, get her to pop out a few kids. Fast forward 25 years and you're 45. She's 44. Do you like 44 year old women? They are nasty with a capital N.

At 45, you're in your prime, financially, socially and professionally. This is very, very attractive to young women. You can easily land a 22 year old GF.

Unless you've got a nagging ex-wife, kids to feed, etc. BUILD YOUR EMPIRE FIRST. Then populate it. Not the other way around.