Just the word "aggression" carries a negative stigma. As if it's a disease to avoid and eradicate out of existence. Why is that?
I would say it's because of the rule of Feminine Imperative in the western world.
Polarity being what it is means feminine and masculine qualities are diametrically opposed. To be feminine is to give, be kind and caring. To be masculine is to take, be selfish and aggressive.
Don't confuse aggression with violence. Violence is one of the many manifestations of aggression. My definition of aggression is raw masculine energy.
Approaching and escalating takes aggression, getting a raise takes aggression, defending yourself against enemies takes aggression.
Aggression is what fuels competition. You want the guy that can sell the most product working for you, the guy who can score the most points on your team, the guy that can kill the most enemies guarding your back.
There isn't a single problem in this world you can't solve with a good dose of male aggression. Mountain in your way between points A and B? Blow it up. Your body weak? Channel your aggression into iron. Your girl not satisfied? Not fucking her aggressively enough.
Aggression is what makes the world go round. The reason you're a law abiding member of society is because aggressive men with badges would show up if you weren't.
For those that would misinterpret my message. I'm not advocating for constant displays of aggression. You don't have to approach every woman you see, fight every guy you meet, or try to show off what a big manly man you are. But you should know your own capacity for aggression. Know that you're capable of approaching and escalating on a woman. That you're capable of violence if someone threatens you.
Take the US for example. You think anyone would dare fuck with us or our allies? We don't have to be in a constant state of aggression as long as the world is aware of our capacity for aggression. Male Aggression is what wins wars.
Men are measured by their ability to achieve. Women are measured by their ability to get along. That's why men don't want under-performing losers on their team and why women get rid of friends who "thinks she's better than everyone else"
Being selfish goes hand-in-hand with aggression.
I am going to sell as much product as I can because I selfishly want the biggest bonus. A woman sells as much as she can until her coworkers get jealous and won't invite her to lunch with the girls anymore.
Look in the world of business. You think the people running Amazon ever gave a fuck about how many mom and pop shops they were putting out of business? The only thing driving that company is raw selfish aggression.
Aggression comes from not being satisfied with where you are. It drives you forward by wanting to be the best.
It drives men to explore, to find new resources, to conquer new lands, to fill a never-ending desire for more.
Aggressive men seeking to fulfill their selfish desires for money, fame, glory, and the knowledge that they've left a mark on this world is the reason you live in a veritable utopia of safety, comfort, and luxury compared to every generation that came before you.
tl;dr Be aggressive and selfish. It benefits you and everyone around you.