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Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at me (self.TheRedPill)

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So at work we had xmas party organised in Casino..

I had this Hugo Boss blazer I bought some time ago but didn't get to wear it.. Wore it..

So after xmas party we went to a club, was at the bar talking to my colleagues, everyone knows that I have a gf.. So this random 9/10 sugar daddy craving girl comes and stands next to me, I mean she had plenty of space to stand elsewhere but her coming and squeezing in between me and my mate, her boob was pressing in to my shoulder - that was a clear sign.

Since I wasn't looking for casual hook-ups I decided to troll her, so I turned to her, she looked at me, I checked out her body and said hi, she was like hi and I think she was about to say how's it going, but I turned around and continued my conversation with my mate..

She bought two shots, and then made confused look, but I ignored it, so she tapped on my shoulder and I was like

hi again,

and she was like I bought two shots for me and my friend but she is gone somewhere, don't want to go on the dancefloor with them, wanna drink one with me?

I was like sure..

and then after we drank it, she jokingly said, next drink is on you...

I was like - I was about to order drink myself, so what can I get you? got her a drink and turned around and joined my colleagues talk

so she was still there, standing next to me, kinda dancing a bit and always leaning around my body, but I ignored it..

she tapped on my shoulder again, and was like wanna dance?

I was like no thanks, I am not the best dancer

she was like - so what you doing in the club near dancefloor area?

I was like enjoying the music and socialising with my work mates

she was like wanna socialise with me instead?

I was like no thanks

she made disappointed look and was like, what do you mean by "NO THANKS?"

I was like, you're not my type of girl

she was like why did you get me a drink then?

I was like, you got me one, I paid back with one, now we are equal

and she blew up, she was like

why didn't you say you are gay in the beginning????

I was like in the beginning of what? and im not gay.

she was like, you ugly looking motherfucker, how dare you to say that im not your type ? do you know who I am??

I was like no, and I don't want to..

and she was like, you fucking prick, fucking immigrant (I study in UK, but native Russian), nobody ever rejected me, you should be grateful I even spoke to you you ugly piece of shit..

I just turned around and laughed with my mates, and then she was like you pussy, and spilled her drink at me lol

then bouncers came and told her to leave, she screamed the same thing, like DO YOU KNOW WHO I AM? CALL THE MANAGER, HE WILL KICK YOU OUT... and they forced her out lol

I mean it's quite sad that it probably ruined my blazer, the first time I wore it, but then experiencing something like that was precious...

I mean nowadays many girls get to this level of consciousnesses just because of all the blue pilled betas give them excessive attention and make them feel superior.

When in reality, apart of their looks (mostly fake), they have no value and have nothing to give back


[–]FuckerMcFuckingberg 1271 points1272 points  (19 children)

In mother Russia, you reject girl.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 163 points164 points  (16 children)

Which is why Russian girls are so easy. They know they're not the prize and it's rubbed in their faces.

[–][deleted] 119 points120 points  (8 children)

Actually this is quite wrong, most of 7+/10 Russian girls, and girls from East Europe are quite hard and due to low economy they mostly look for guys with money.

Many East European girls, esp from Baltic states have model look, they are quite skinny and usually tall.

I have been living/travelling through EU and I know the difference.

E.g. like UK, Germany, Norway, Denmark.. girls dont really go for the money, and would seek other things in guys.

Whereas East Europe like Baltic states, they would seek guys with money/status, and wouldnt necessarily be easy even if you have money, they would play smart and act that they are hard to get to get even more lol

[–]destraht 32 points33 points  (4 children)

I like that they are intelligent but they are far too calculating and dispassionate. I recently spent some years in Ukraine and thereabouts and then Colombia was a breath of fresh air because the girls would lead with their pussies. I don't think that its one-to-one relates to money since many countries of EE are quite poor. It seems that in Colombia that if a woman likes me that she is just of the mentality that she needs to get me onto her pussy hook ASAP because any other woman is thinking the same thing and so holding out for something more is too dangerous. Also maybe they are just hotter blooded, hornier and more impulsive. In the ex-USSR so many people will think about doing something before thinking about doing it and they are just stuck in their heads. I liked both though and I'll return to both places. So different though.

[–]Troll_Name 13 points14 points  (3 children)

Genetics matter.

A lot of places around the southwest Atlantic have indigenous cultures that are remarkably promiscuous, or will even turn the males into prey. Probably plenty of reasons why we say hot to describe sexuality instead of cold.

[–]destraht 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't know about that but I think that the ex-USSR people are stuck in their heads to such an extreme level because they lived in an extremely paranoid tyranny and everyone was gossiping about the most trivial shit. I lived in a hostel in Odessa for $2/day with refugee types and I witnessed some extra ridiculous stuff. One guy was out of work but he took a fascination to every aspect of myself such as noticing if I didn't change my socks one day, if a shoe string was slightly not tied, my hair being a bit messy, my shaving patterns, etc. They are incredibly observant people because they have a mind for it and the interest is there. They think and observe forever before any sort of action and they are very risk adverse and the women much more so. They can't easily bounce back from bad decisions and they aren't good at generating real wealth and so they get stuck in this pattern of expecting failure, saying I told you so and also being jealous of others who do have success. During communism everyone was supposedly equal so if someone was doing really well then it was assumed that they stole something. If you were happy then you did something illicit or you are just stupid to be happy when things are not good. Then if you look too extra miserable then like a flock of birds they would talk shit about the person doing poorly. So everyone learned to calibrate their look to be extra gray and neutral. Also some regions seemed to have had it extra bad and mental health hospitals were used as political control. So people were incredibly fearful of appearing eccentric. Today that is just the past but probably still more than half of the population was born into communism and their old ways will follow them to the grave. This is more of just about an abnormal psychological condition of the ex-USSR people more than it is about any other place being some different kind of way.

[–]removekebab2 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Southwest Atlantic? You mean SOUTH AMERICA?

[–]haroldpeters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no these are the sea people that live underwater in atlantis... =P

[–]Troll_Name 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Woman looking for money means woman looking for any man who has money.

It works that way in California too. The economy is being beaten while unconscious year after year, if your wallet is thicker than your fingernail then it's good enough. Seriously don't go there.

[–]Asheal88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but for those of us that have money, Russian girls DRIP at the chance to talk to you. It is like taking candy from a baby

[–]lessyes 13 points14 points  (1 child)

That's because vodka is prize.

[–]Troll_Name 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The church is near, but the road is icy. The bar is far, but we will walk carefully.

[–]FireFight 7 points8 points  (4 children)

Care to elaborate? I don't know what you mean

[–]muriXO 63 points64 points  (3 children)

From what I have seen, russian guys are very average to not that good looking. Still, most of them have this IDGAF attitude towards the very hot russian girls (maybe because they are used to them) and are very masculine, which of course resonates with the feminine girls.

[–][deleted] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

True story. Lived around a bunch of Russians in SF for a short while. The dudes are not beta. They do not give a fuck. They’re a little psychotic. Lastly they were indeed “sneaky fucking Russians”. Would not trust those dudes as far as I could throw their rotund vodka drinking asses. Still they were good fun.

[–]Troll_Name 16 points17 points  (1 child)

Russian female age 20: perfect ice sculpture with a deep mind and a temple of a body

Russian female age 30: stable wife not like western degenerates

Russian female age 35: grizzly bear

[–]kieran9323 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that's because they eat shitty diet, not exercise (EDIT: because of almost poverty, they believe that time is better spent in school/work. Many will argue with you that they're too old to become pro and make money out of it, I know that this sounds stupid, but that's the way they often think) and their budget for skincare is low. Add to that partying, smoking (more popular than in the west) and working more hours cos the economy is shit, that damages the body too.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You see comrade, in Russia girl buy you drink.

[–]TheseNthose 405 points406 points  (18 children)

How dare you reject the No.3 prostitute in all Kazakhstan?

[–][deleted] 433 points434 points  (10 children)

she not nise, she rood and gypsy and her vagjin hang like sleeve of wizard.

[–]MusicSports 51 points52 points  (4 children)

This was the funniest thing I've read today

[–]rp-Ubermensch 33 points34 points  (3 children)

In case you didn't know, it's from Borat, in case you did know, have fun watching it again. Dude's fucking hilarious.

Me and my mate always do the Borat disco dance on the dance floor

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (1 child)

my key pickup shit atm is borat accent and borat dance moves lol, girls like this shit and always laugh, i mean it can never get old

[–]TheseNthose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually bought the Borat body thong to use in a picture on dating apps when ever i get around to doing that shit again.

[–]mydogisblack9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

borat is by far the funniest movie i know

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 44 points45 points  (0 children)

But anus tight like mitten of small child

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (4 children)

LOL try rejecting a Romanian or Ukrainian hooker/dancer in London. If you dudes had half their tenacity there’d be no need for this sub.

[–]hatefulreason 8 points9 points  (2 children)

im romanian and i swear romanian women are the most stuck up i've ever seen. they're hoes but pretend they're princesses and they either go for rich drug dealers or beta bobs

[–]ZukanStorm 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Well we were rulled by comunists for the past 50 years. What did you expect? But yes romanian women are more concentrated on having a good living experience then been stuck with a beta cuuk

[–]hatefulreason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first of all, i don't understand your phrasing. second, in countries with good social safety nets women go for true alphas or people with a matching character. which is somehow better for everyone especially since you don't have to worry about basic needs

[–][deleted] 214 points215 points  (14 children)

do you know who I am??

Lmao, I always laugh my ass off when people say this.

[–]MacuahuitI 198 points199 points  (4 children)

I heard a story about some douche at the airport harassing the employee at the gate, he kept asking "do you know who I am? "

Eventually the agent behind the desk gets on the overhead and announces "apparently this gentleman here doesn't know who he is, if anyone can help him please come to gate [whatever]..."

I would Love to witness something like this.

[–]red_matrix 39 points40 points  (2 children)

It's nice to know people who work at airports still have a sense of humor. They're so depressing these days.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 24 points25 points  (1 child)

They sometimes do, but not if you say bomb, hijack, or allahu ackbar

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just yell at your friend Jack across the airport and tell him hi!

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Lmao I'ma start doing this

[–]Asheal88 15 points16 points  (2 children)

So true, the first REAL time I had a run in with this was when I was a college freshman.

My fraternity brother had a father who was a Judge up in San Francisco. He had gotten us all (like 15 guys) a big table at Morton's for the night to have fun and show off his money.

When we get there, he tells the little 19 year old hostess and she says "Oh thank you Mr. McKenna, we are clearing off your table and it will be ready in 10 minutes.

He goes, "No, I want it RIGHT NOW, do you know who I am ?!?!?!

She blinked and look at him, then looked down at the reservation sheet and said "Mr. McKenna?"

He got red hot with anger and SHOUTED back, 'JJUUDDGGEE, McKENNA!" "I want my table ready in 5 minutes.

It was ready in maybe 7 and everything was fine. But it sure was a great lesson on how NOT to ever act in life. Straight up douchebag who I found out later, came from money and got his judgeship with it.

As muhc as my father passing at 19 sucked, I am so happy that I was able to see what it is like eating Top Romin, and now owning a large company where I can do whatever I want.

I have been a mechanic, been a serer, bartender, valet, hell I even was a "sandwich artist at Subway for 6 weeks". That kind of attitude is so NOT Red Pill, it just screams off weakness and we were all embarrassed to be with him.

[–]Devok26 2 points3 points  (1 child)

The only judge I care about is judge Dred lul

[–]Reformed65 24 points25 points  (1 child)

What answer do they expect? If they do know, it's even worse cause it shows that their status means nothing.

"Do you know who I am?!*

"Yes, you are Samantha Rachel, a model at the local Victoria Secret store, you are rated by many as the hottest girl in this town, men divorced their wives over you, you are also hated by Megan Fox, the Kardashians and various models, because they too got divorced by their husbands. That's who the fuck you are."

"I...Uh...But....If...You...know...I.."

"Good day to you, THOT!"

[–]pmmedenver 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They are expecting the answer, "oh you're important? Sorry i wont throw you out like the garbage you actually are"

[–]Holyballs26 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Next time 'I'll be like' ' Yah i think I have seen yoi on tv, are you the president of america?'

[–]engine1321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My answer is almost always "nope, don't know don't care."

[–]TheWhiskeyTickler 126 points127 points  (4 children)

The takeaway from this is that, as a man you will have to deal with rejection. Women very rarely do, and flip out when it happens to them. Which is why they will almost never approach. It's not like you can read TRP, lift, and dress nicely, then women will come flying at you like some shitty axe body spray ad.

Watch any nature documentary when they show mating rituals. The male bird has to build the best nest, or do the best dance. The male walrus has to tusk the fuck out of competitors to get some walrus pussy. Shit even penguins have to find the best pebble to present to females. And what do the females do? They get to accept or reject. That's why this girl flipped out, her brain subconsciously knew she gets to decide, and OP short circuited that.

Remember that you can get chosen by a girl, but it's on you to have the frame to build attraction. Maybe OP could have responded warmly and she would have found his personality douchy. Maybe after he takes the blazer off he's got a dad bod. The point is, understand that women are choosers, and men are approachers, and that straying too far from that doesn't work well.

[–][deleted] 36 points37 points  (3 children)

Perfectly summed up mate, also it was funny to read..

I watched a lot of Animal Planet as well, and actually extracted some useful information from animal world lol...

Also another example is dancefloor, I mean guys that can dance, and have the moves, even if they have average looks/clothes, girls usually give them attention, because they feel granted being with someone that dominates the atmosphere (club = dancing, so cool moves = domination @ club)..

Another tip that I extracted from animals is intimidation e.g. someone is trying to provoke you for a fight, and you show them that you are ready to take it, and are prepared for it, their brain then develops different hormones and they start doubting themselves... Also you can scare people just with eye contact, same as a mouse can scare an elephant just because mouse has nothing to lose and is ready to take the fight lol..

[–]riot2100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goddamit, they just had a hunting sasquatch marathon yesterday and I learned nothing from that. That shit was so bad we were just watching it for kicks.

[–]GerMarketer 535 points536 points  (54 children)

I was like she was like then I was like and she was like so I was like now she was like and I was like so she was like.

Edit: just to be clear. I don't dislike the story or dismiss the effort op put into writing this down for us. Happy holidays everyone!

[–]Endorsed Contributorsadomasochrist 122 points123 points  (28 children)

User is surprisingly not a troll but instead a literal like meat head.

[–][deleted] 258 points259 points  (26 children)

pumping iron is what i like,

if it was other way around, we'd probably end up banging

she came to me and she was like sup bro, do you even lift?

and i was like yeah boy

and she was like what's ur dlift pb?

and I was like 6 plates honey

and she was like omg please take me to the house of gains with you

and i was like sure, gimme your number & ill hit you up

and she was like no baby, lets do it now

and i was like sure lets go

so i took her to my place and i was like touch my pecs, and she touched them and was like please take me rough and deep daddy

[–]pbar 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Supermarket romance novels for dudes, now there's your niche.

[–]Endorsed Contributorsadomasochrist 19 points20 points  (1 child)

Not sensitive about it. Takes it in stride. Hmm.. Will keep info in case they invent the gay pill.

[–]Holyballs26 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Lol this cracked me up. I thought I was like the only one who was like noticed this. Its really like funny actually!

[–]ItsYough123 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I don't mind it. I'm quicker to believe this story over 99 percent of the spergs who writes a field report like a thesis lol.

[–]ctrl_alt_el1te 63 points64 points  (20 children)

I feel like you gotta automatically subtract 2-3 points from the HBs mentioned in this sub's field reports. This girl was probably like a hard 6. There's no way a 9 would be that desperate for attention.

[–]thetotalpackage7 31 points32 points  (1 child)

What do you call a 9 in the UK?....a tourist.

[–]Mefic_vest 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What do you call a 9 in the UK?....a tourist.

First I was puzzled. Then I laughed. Then I felt bad for the Brits. That’s quite the burn.

[–]2Derek1382 60 points61 points  (0 children)

There's no way a 9 would be that desperate for attention.

OP is far from the first man to experience the hilarious rage of hot women tasting rejection for the first time.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (6 children)

esp for you,

https://imgur.com/a/FEGu8

here are two pics of my ex, for me she is a 9..

and what you said is wrong, i mean most 9-10 would give attention to guys they think are in the same league as them, when i was around 16-21 i was thinking same as you, believing that hot girls are some superhumans and would never approach guys...

but now when my eye contact game is strong, i have experienced various girls and know their mentality and behaviors, can notice signs and signals easier, it is very common...

Rather than that, seeing some 5/10s being desperate for attention of someone that is out of their league is uncommon, as they are usually insecure and would stay in their shell and prolly hang around with betas approaching them

[–]trp_dude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's hot. Not quite my type so I'd give her 8.5 but most guys would give her a 9.

[–]Eclectiqque 1 point2 points  (1 child)

instant positive reaction when you talked about eye contact.

you seem like a man with experience. can you elaborate some more on stuff like this?question coming from someone within 16-21 yo

edit: second question. do you think it is virtually possible to be a man with a SMV of at least 9 til the age of 21 when we can’t actually have that much of s professional success? ofc there are exceptions for this but even thes tech millionaires didn’t develop their social status yet

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

With first question, eye contact is quite important for cold approaching or getting girls interested in to you, or test the waters and see if they are interested in to you or not. You can improve it by making eye contact with strangers outside, for example I used to have really poor eye contact, I would usually turn away when someone looked back at me.. then I decided to improve it.

And when it got stronger I realised how powerful it is.. like one example of how you can do it.. try to get the moment when girl will notice you, look at her and when she looks at you smile, or just check her out..

If she is interested in to you she will check you out later, and that way you will know that she is in in to you, also you will have some sort of contact and approaching will be easier..

Few times it happened with me like you see it in movies.. like one time I was socialising with my friends at the pub, and there was another group of people, I noticed one girl looking at me so I made sure she noticed that I checked her out as well, and we basically looked at each other few more times over time, then I went to a bar to get a round and she went to buy something as well, we just looked at each other and smiled, I already knew that she is interested, so we had some more eye contact, and later I decided to test the waters and showed her a pack of cigarettes and looked at her like if she wants to go and smoke one, she nodded and I went outside so did she.. we chatted, but then her friends came out and few girls were jealous of her or something and they were luring her back in and shit, and one girl started calling everyone to go to a different place and did all kinds of things to disrupt us..

Tl;dr I got her number, we went on few dates later and banged and also dated for few months

And for second question, look wise of course, personality wise might not be yet..

Because you wouldn’t experience certain things yet and wouldn’t know how to react.. e.g eye contact, tone of voice, knowing what you can and can’t say to certain girls. Jokes girls like, how to move to another step e.g approaching, escalating to a kiss, getting her home and banging..

Also it depends on your goals, like if you look for girls to date or one night stands..

But I guess it also depends on where you live.. e.g I lived in Russia/Baltic states for most of my life, girls there have same mentality and basically they have the idea that a guy should chase a girl and prove that he is the one before she even kisses him - so from that you can extract two points

  • for long term relationship this is good because if you get a girl like that she prolly won’t be a slot and will be at some point loyal to you, but it will be harder to get her and you will need more effort/patience and take methodical approach and not escalate things too fast..

  • another point, as a short term hookup perspective this is harder, because she will have “anti slut” mindset and escalating things too fast might ruin it.. so your game will need to be strong at all levels for that.

But as I said it is different in different parts of the world.. like I have friends living in Germany and some of them are in to dating girls regularly, and it seems like getting a girl to your home on a first date is nothing major, they don’t really mind and often come on a first date..

Like in Russia, 9/10 girls will never go to your place on a first date..

But one tip I can give for personality, just don’t take things seriously and put a bit of selfishness when it comes to dating..

Like when you see a hot girl, don’t be afraid to check her out, even if she notices it.

Don’t be afraid to talk and joke with random girls, or initiate small talks..

Like I usually say some dumb shit and troll girls, and they instantly know that I don’t care and they kinda like it, they like to laugh and many girls like guys with laid back mentality

[–]StellarMemez 41 points42 points  (8 children)

You sound like someone who isn't banging 9's

[–]ctrl_alt_el1te 67 points68 points  (7 children)

10's only dude I don't have time for these 9's. I love rejecting them my bro. That feeling when she spills her drink at you am I right??? Fucking pound it my man.

That better?

[–][deleted] 46 points47 points  (6 children)

Bro i dont even have time for 10s, gotta give it 110% right, thats why i pull 11s now, dont even gotta try bro

[–]pbar 67 points68 points  (5 children)

Bro I lift so much I grew an EXTRA DICK. So dude my rule is like, one chick for each but they have to add up to 16 at least. So like a 10 and a 6, or 2 8's. Or this one time a 1 and a 15; never again for that, man.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (1 child)

Add this comment to the sidebar, please.

[–]Wjourney 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Double Dick Dan at it again

[–]Compeliminator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dick is so big it has its own dick and even my dicks dick is bigger than your dick

[–]Grimsterr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I figure if I tried to type a post up in Russian, it'd be way worse.

[–]420KUSHBUSH 40 points41 points  (14 children)

The reason why girls rarely ever approach (aside from the ones that do, the stereotype seems to hold true) is because every girl is self conscious to an extent and fear rejection so they wait for a man to make the first move. If they are extremely attracted they imply and add hints, if the man is oblivious they go the direct route

[–][deleted] 35 points36 points  (13 children)

Well yeah, that’s why you often see guys with girls that are out of their league, because they take the risk more often.. e.g. guys with lower IQ or guys that don’t care, they don’t fear the rejection and don’t care about anything, all they want is to get the girl.. so they risk more, but more opportunities arise for them..

Vs guys that analyse the situation and know possible consequences of rejection and have some sort of self respect they don’t want to lose.. they end up not approaching a girl that potentially could end up with them so they miss possible opportunities :D

[–]1ozaku7 14 points15 points  (2 children)

they don’t fear the rejection and don’t care about anything, all they want is to get the girl..

Makes you wonder whether they are truly so dumb, since they don't base their own value on whether they are accepted or rejected, or any opinion from some random woman.

Men who can't accept rejections have nothing going in their lives.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (1 child)

It's like with girls, if they add someone from 3rd world on facebook that send dick pics, they will start getting more and more invites, and eventually end up getting hundreds of dick pics a day lol...

my friend girl did a test, she made a fake profile and posted some girls pics there, added few indians and ended up with like 5k friend requests in few weeks

[–]1ozaku7 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What do you expect from a country where pussy is sacred.

[–]1swaglordobama 1 point2 points  (6 children)

What even are the "consequences" of rejection? Most rejections aren't actual rejections. Most guys approach a girl expecting to be rejected.

Most men are crippled by irrational fear because back in the day they could get their head bashed in for hitting on another man's girl. Guess what, that doesn't happen anymore.

Also the way OP behaved was retarded and disrespectful. Yes, the girl has a bloated ego (what hot girl doesn't?), but she was made to feel like the rejection came from a place of bitterness or anger, not because the guy was unnavailable. OP escalated tensions and got a drink thrown at him. He could have just mentioned he's taken and faithful. He has no reason to manipulate the girl.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Well nowadays there are no consequences of rejection in most ocassions, girl would say no and you go away and that's it..

sometimes she might have a laugh at you or her dumb friends, but then it is forgotten in 2 mins lol.

dont really see the point of explaining and announcing that i have a gf, saying that im not interested is more than enough, and also if i played it passive w/o minor trolling then this post wouldnt exist, and you wouldnt get butthurt

[–]1swaglordobama 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rejection causes ego death and loss of relative social status.

The ego creates an unsustainable self image, and tries to protect that self image by avoiding or making that image immune to situations that would put pressure on it. It's an extremely fragile construct and one that doesn't help you at all in life.

By changing our perspective, we can filter out fake rejection from real rejection, which is very rare.

What you did to that chick was not real rejection. It was a form of self preservation, which you later justified through backwards rationalization. Instead of being offputting and douchey, you could befriend her, get access to cool shit she has going on in her life. Hell, even throw her onto one of your single friends. You don't have to fuck her. Girls are very grateful to meet and network with cool guys. The way you handled that situation was lose-lose. You can take a lesson from it, or you can take this criticism personally and attempt another useless verbal attack on me.

In most cases the rejection has little to nothing to do with you. A hot girl has so many guys approaching her on a night out that you're just the next idiot of the night in her mind. Sometimes she alots you a small window to show your personality, sometimes she gives you nothing. Maybe she has to go meet her friends or go to the bathroom when you stop her. Maybe she is taken. Who knows.

There are too many external factors at play for the rejection to be personal. That's not her rejecting "you," it's her just not giving a fuck.

A true rejection is rare and usually just sounds like, "you're not my type, have a nice night." If you're oblivious to this and keep pushing you may get a "fuck off, dude." Considering you're not good for eachother, nothing bad comes from it. It's not a personal attack, though if you've got an unsustainable, bloated self image of an absolute pimp it can hurt.

The fact is this: we're not meant to be with every girl. There are some girls who we have strong emotional, mental, and physical chemistry with, and some girls who we feel nothing with. This comes down to personality types, not looks. Sometimes you meet a stunning girl but you find her personality to be toxic. Sometimes it is the opposite. The same happens with girls when they meet guys, but girls are usually much more experienced socially than most men, so they can peg our blueprint / archetype more easily than we can theirs when we are new to approaching.

Ultimately, in any kind of relationship, romantic or platonic, what's most important is how we feel when we are around that person.

[–]yeahnahimgood 1 points1 points [recovered]

I’ll take “things that never happened” for 500

[–]Celicni 43 points44 points  (4 children)

Woulda believed it without the "bouncers escorted her out" part.

[–]Frdl 64 points65 points  (1 child)

Woulda believed it without the "and then the whole club started applauding" part.

[–]thetotalpackage7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don't think throwing a drink on someone will get you kicked out of a bar/casino?

[–]destraht 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One time at Metro club in L'viv, Ukraine my local buddies and I got a good table, juices, vodka bottle and beers and we had several 8-9s swarming our table. One of the 9s spoke very little English and was sitting next to me and across the table as an 8 who was demanding my time and she became increasingly belligerent the more I put her off. Then the hot girl next to me whom I liked a lot started soft crying because she thought that I was speaking with this other woman in English because I liked her. I had to draw a hard line with the belligerent chick and she started cussing at me and being nasty so I asked her to leave. She wouldn't leave. I asked the bouncer to make her leave and he wanted nothing to do with my woman problems and so we just had to tolerate this toxic pest (and one of our guys was into her friend). The banging hot chick next to me was acting too emotional fragile and so I lost interest and I thought to myself, WTF just happened here.

[edit] I remember that I did physically wrestle the vodka bottle away from her across the table and I felt that this was all that I could do.

[–]dongus88 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Embellished probably. She was probably a 7 and she was pissed at him. Doubt she literally said "no ones rejected me before" but she probably had that attitude. I have seen angry women throw drinks at men so that's believable.

[–]crvel 9 points10 points  (4 children)

This, no way in hell a 9 would behave like that.

[–]NYCSPARKLE 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She was a drunk 7 at a casino holiday party.

Also, no 9s in UK.

[–]strikethrough123 10 points11 points  (2 children)

9's and 10's have higher standards of behavior than other women? Are they subject to higher brain function because of being more attractive? No. They are women. The difference is that they are women that have been practically worshipped by betas their entire lives and think they are entitled to top shelf everything simply because of the validation they receive for their looks on a daily basis. What happens when you reject spoiled children? They throw a tantrum.

9,10, 5.5, 0.526, doesn't matter.

[–]Ibanezguitarrocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's more that genuine 9's and 10's simply don't approach men like this. Her actions don't line up with a 9 IMO.

Women go to great lengths to avoid rejection and at the highest levels they would never place themselves in a situation like this unless the guy was some kind of famous celebrity with huge status.

[–]Zchavago 40 points41 points  (3 children)

Touching you with her boob = sexual assault. Calling you gay = sexual harassment. Cussing you out = harassment. Sounds like she should be locked up in an equal world.

[–]gELSK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

// , All are equal. But some are more equal than others

"All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others." --Animal Farm

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (1 child)

I know right. Shit is the equivalent of rubbing your ballsack against a girl

[–]FaderOne 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Nice job bro.

This is why you gotta shop at Jos A Bank

[–]ucfgavin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That blazer really tied the outfit together dude

[–]ItsYough123 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Girls hate rejection lol. I mean we hate it too but we all learned how to handle it in an appropriate way. Funny thing is their go to insult is either 'you're ugly' (something that some guys say to girls as well which makes no sense seems they were the ones trying to hookup lol) or the classic 'are you gay?' (lovely bit of shaming. It couldn't possibly be that I'm not attracted to you lol).

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (4 children)

man y’all little pepe bitches posting fanfic stories is some of the saddest bullshit online

[–]gELSK 1 point2 points  (2 children)

// , You'd say this even if he posted a video with a cryptographically proven timestamp and a published news article.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

pretty sure you can’t cryptographically prove emotional bullshit

[–]s00prtr00pr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This should be the top comment

[–]2Dmva100 20 points21 points  (6 children)

Feminism and it's many gynocentric brainwashing efforts is mass-scale hamstering to convince men and women that women have value beyond their sexual agency.

They do not.

[–]cashmoney_x 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Um, this shit was talked about thousands of years ago. Has nothing to do with feminism.

[–]BirdManBrrrr 8 points9 points  (3 children)

IDK why downvoted, a very true statement. Women didn't magically start turning into entitled cunts after they got the right to vote.

[–]cashmoney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm smarter than most of the dummies here.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because everyone who discovers sex thinks they're the first to do so... so obviously it just started happening yesterday man.

Solipsism is like that, men get that way too, especially the weak minded and slow witted ones

[–]gELSK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

// , It's downvoted because it's beside the point.

[–]gELSK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

// , Definitely.

Normally, though, in those ages past, men could handle this shite, and even expected it.

Feminism does sort of exacerbate the problem by its influence on blooping up men who would otherwise know how to reign in the BS.

[–]AndyUrsyna 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Add some psychological touch at the end of completely meaningless story - achievement unlocked

[–]maplemaximus 14 points15 points  (1 child)

This subreddit is going to hell. More and more unbelievable and seemingly fake field reports. :/

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

hows that fake? even though it happened to me, i dont see anything superficial and unusual lol, it's just not many guys have the balls to reject a hot girl..

i wouldnt reject her either before i had a gf..

[–]NordJitsu 9 points10 points  (3 children)

A much milder version of this happened to me. I was at a bar with my girlfriend and some friends. I went to the bar to get us some drinks. A blonde HB8 turns to me and says “hey how’s it going.” I respond, “not bad, you?” She doesn’t respond to the question and instead asks, “do you have a girlfriend?” I said, “yup, right over there” and pointed. She looks and then tells me “she’s beautiful, hold on to her.” I said “I will, thanks.” I thought it was a fine interaction.

Then she turns back to her friends and I hear her say, “that guy is a fucking ASSHOLE.”

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao. Most passive aggressive shit I've read in a while.

[–]trp_dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL. That's when you know she's REALLY attracted to you. The right response would have been: "thanks, but stop buttering me up"

[–]Hughtub 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Man this one time I rejected like several dozen 9s/10s and didn't fuck any of them. It was so cool. I didn't fuck these girls I could have who were so hot. Totes redpilled.

[–]Dat_Chad 12 points13 points  (0 children)

teach me master. I cannot go a day without accidentaly sticking my dick in a 10

[–]ztak07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So u acted like a douche and got douchy behavior in return. LOL

[–]higherpublic 4 points5 points  (4 children)

What do you do when accused of being gay? There's gotta be an elegent TRP way to dismantle that assusation.

[–]Dystaxia 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Agree and amplify. Ask her if she has a brother.

Or if you really want to stir the pot, tell her she looks plenty manly enough, that's not the issue.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

just laugh or ignore it, why should you prove not being gay

[–]trp_dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Stop calling me that or I am going to hit you with my handbag"

[–]Karmelion 17 points18 points  (1 child)

Tl;dr:

1 OP is at a bar, unavailable

2 Attractive girl compliments OP by hitting on him and buying him a drink

3 OP responds by buying her a drink and insulting her “you’re not my type” instead of a simple “I have a girlfriend”

4 Women can’t handle an insulting rejection because women are not accustomed to it

5 OP loses his coat and Girl suffers no serious consequences

Real mind-blowing stuff here

[–]campa56la 3 points4 points  (2 children)

I would of plated the ho. Why would you go to a club? To socialize with your bros in your Hugo Boss jacket?

[–]gELSK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

// , He's trying that whole atavistic mate-loyalty thing

[–]Nofap_Dutch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she's just used to every guy going full beta mode when in a range of 50 meters to her...

[–]LARandomActor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ahhh for the first time in my life I hard nexted a girl like this on Christmas. She absolutely lost her shit and you could tell it's never happened to her before - she was def. used to always getting her way.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I had a similar story , I met a genuine 10/10 on plenty of fish (which at the time was a huge red flag as why She needs to be on there ) I was bored with shit sex only In the positions she likes, her bad attitude and her no blowjobs rule so I said no , her reaction: “do you know how many guys would kill to be in your position right now”

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

lol i only met fat whales or girls with srs anxiety on pof.

My first girl i met there had at least 8/10 face, but only facial pics, so i was kinda hmm.. only facial pics = 99% whale..

i didnt ask as i didnt want to ruin it, but she kept talking about 24/7 working out and mealpreps and clean eating so i thought i might be wrong..

and i ended up meeting 200lb whale

[–]gELSK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

// , They're out there, but you have to filter pretty hard, and be in the right location

[–]mustardplug1 1 point2 points  (2 children)

This exact same thing happened to me like 6 months ago, except it wasn’t a 9/10, it was some 4/10 fat chick from my Highschool. I wouldn’t talk to her at a bar so she ended up spilling her drink on me and then THROWING HER GLASS AT MY FACE. I walked out of the bar bleeding out of my forehead, then had to explain this to the cops. Ofcourse she told the cops I ASSAULTED HER. Ended up lawyering up and had to deal with this bullshit for 2 months. Fucking loser bitches who think they’re entitled

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

lol i had to take this chick to court for being homophobic and assaulting me :D

but with 6/10 and below 6 girls, always reject me and act like im fucking ugly and dont deserve them, and then i go for 8/10 9/10 girls and they kinda like my company..

and when i was younger i didnt really know whether i can pul lhot girls so i went for like average 5/10 6/10 girls, and they all rejected me.

fuk dem

[–]ZukanStorm 1 point2 points  (1 child)

This isnt related to the topic at hand but how does a fat guy gain confidence when people look weird at you. I know that i must loose the weight and it's a slow process i feel like this is more of a mentality then looks. Should i wait until i reach my peak or just approach women daily? Living in a really small town that everyone knows everyone around here

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi man,

Yeah I used to be fat when I was younger I know that people look weird at you and some avoid contact :D

I was fat probably from 10 to 15 years, and I remember when I was 15 and lost some weight I tried to get a girl from online and she rejected me when we met :D then I gained some motivation, started losing weight and improved my looks, and finally got my first gf when I was 16, and then the pickup game started after we broke up and I gained some confidence..

I think it depends on your genetics e.g some guys look better when overweight, also depends on your height and weight.. e.g if you are like 5’8 260 lb or around it then while you are losing weight, you can maintain good haircut, maintain good or no facial hair, depending how you look.. try to find suitable clothes and then you can try.. if you don’t have much experience and confidence then cold approach on random girls might be hard :D

So while you are losing weight, I can suggest approaching girls you know already, socialise more if you can, take some classes if you have any around, that way you will meet new people without even approaching them and will have more opportunities to get girls..

[–]Raikkonen716 3 points4 points  (1 child)

ahah funny story. Me also being a Russian living in Europe and who wears Boss blazers made me enjoy it even more.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (3 children)

I’ve lost all hope in this community.

[–]FractalNerve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Experienced something similar once, but she tossed a table with the drinks on it at me. Missed me. Still I'm stupid, maybe, should have banged her. Probably for the better to not stick dick in crazy as a TRP novice. Also a 9/10, gorgeous like the girls on perfume advertisements (even the hair) but 8 if you subtract points for rejection revenge.

[–]suckmydickgamers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess you’ll be realizing you’re gay soon buddy

[–]DatingCoach111 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Sweet baby Jesus. This was a pleasure to read.

It's unfuckingbelievable how women think they can "grace men" as if they were Mother Teresa. It's mind blowing, and yet men can adopt this mindset to their own advantage. And they should.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah lol, it is even funnier to see 5/10 and 6/10 girls that manage to get some attention and start behaving like that, just precious

[–]Matthew_NZ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

TL;DR Russian has drink poured on his Hugo Boss blazer.

[–]Robocompany 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is what most women do every fucking day. If you reject a guy its okay and if it happens to you he's a prick? Bitch.

[–]Talisman64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mehn..I don't get why you are getting sticks because of your post. You could have been nicer to her but you didn't need to be. You don't have to be nice to her because she is a woman. Well,women and blue pilled men have infiltrated this thread so just ignore them. Hope you could dry clean the blazer Bro

[–]Fedor_Gavnyukov 1 point2 points  (1 child)

хуета конкретная. делать нехуй что ли?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Squat on my wayward son. They'll be peace when you are done. Lay your weary head to rest, don't you drink no more.

[–]whataccent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I was like.. and she was like... and I was like ...

I give you a pass for not being Western, therefore being accustomed to different linguistics, but I only hear chicks recite past conversations saying, "I was like blah blah, and he was all like BLAH BLAH." They do it all the time in the States.

Not being a hater, though in a world of male competition, it can always be misconstrued that way. Still not a bad story man.

[–]ahoooley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet u feel super alpha top-tier red-pilled God

[–]XXX-XXX-XXX 0 points1 point  (5 children)

For some reason this reads like it was a fantasy thought up when some chick brushed against op at the bar.

Zero evidence presented, so zero evidence needed to call bullshit.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (4 children)

what kind of evidence i have to present? carry a 360 camera built in to my hair and film everything?

send you pieces of my blazer that have her scent/DNA on it?

[–]XXX-XXX-XXX -1 points0 points  (3 children)

Not sure. Not my story so I can't say what would be evidence of it happening. Just saying your story sounds like something a dude thought up to sound more interesting than they are. Like it sounds like your night was completely uneventful and you cooked up this weird story out of boredom. Even if you discount the dialogue that comes off as a teenagers fanfiction, the events in your story sound suspect, like a poorly written movie with the script being done by a socially awkward thirteen year old.

That's the beauty of the internet, unless there's sources, citations, video, or photos it can be discounted and refuted without the need for a reason.

[–]gELSK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

// , Dude, you really want to fact check the field reports?

Maybe install some kind of camera device with a TPM linked to a blockchain timestamping system?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so envious. You should check out the disgusting pigs the media calls "women" here in America.

[–]Dragon_Garoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had value; she could recognize a hugo boss jacket and apprized the $$$$ inside it.

[–]campa56la 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I see like the penguins. Penguins wear bow ties OP, bad choice of outfit. Next time wear a tuxedo, you won't have to worry about getting hit on by 9s.

[–]0kool74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was like, you ugly looking motherfucker, how dare you to say that im not your type ? do you know who I am??

I was like no, and I don't want to..

WOW! DAYUM dude......you dropped the Tsar Bomba on that hamster!

[–]1ozaku7 0 points1 point  (3 children)

You just interrupted her, accepted her drink, bought one back and behaved like an ass. An alpha is a man that knows what he wants, he communicates clearly, stays calm and does not intend to cause unnecessary drama like you did or communicate like a autist.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Interrupted her completely pressing her core against me when there is plenty of space around the bar?

Or by saying that im not interested and dont want to dance with her is not clear and calm?

keep postin bro, i just want to see what else people can come up with :D

[–]1ozaku7 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Like actually implying that a sugar daddy seeking 9/10 would approach a student, not a wealthy looking 35+ year old? I had my fair share of rejecting women when I was in a relationship and never managed to enrage them. Except for one, she didn't talk to me for like a week, lol.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends, I also work and do investments, and bruh hugo boss blazer that's the key for lurkin 9/10s

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