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ScienceHow to Give a Woman an Orgasm. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by RylanBlackwood

First paragraph I'm just going to rant a little bit about what motivated me to write this post, if you're sceptical I'd recommend reading it, but feel free to scroll down if you just want to get to the techniques.
I've come across a few posts in /asktrp now of lads asking something on the lines of:
"Is it my fault or her fault that she doesn't cum?"
Since this is trp and we're all about dissolving the fantasy of society and manning up to that bitter taste.

It's always your fault.

Think I'm talking shit?
Read this post. Try out the techniques on your plate/gf tonight and get back to me.

Contents:

1. Truth about the Orgasm
2. Foreplay
3. Orgasm techniques
4. Best sex positions for orgams

1. Truth of the Orgasm

It's in the brain and it's all down to blood flow and muscles. If a woman is stressed, upset about the death of a loved one, drunk, hungover, on medication and most importantly, not attracted to you because you're overweight, the chances of her gaining orgasms are reduced. If I'm fucking my gf cowgirl and I tense my arms, she'll cum a lot faster. This also happens if I slap her. This is because everything is in the brain. The more a girl wants to orgasm the more she will. Think of how easier it is to spunk in a HB10 than it is to spunk in anything less than a 5.

Muscles

Orgasms happen when the pubococcygeus muscle contracts. During orgasms it will contract rapidly and send electrical impulses to the brain, which triggers the sensation of pleasure. When these muscles are weak the orgasms will also be weak. This is why you can't always expect these techniques to work at 100% capacity straight away, although you will definitely notice a difference. This is why over time you will notice the effectiveness of the techniques increase. Kegel exercises also increase the strength of the pubococcygeus muscle.

Blood

Blood flow into the pelvic area is essential for orgasms. The more blood the more sensitivity to the vagina, which means orgasms come faster and more frequently. This is also why exercise improves sex.

2. Foreplay

Foreplay is essential for achieving orgasms, as we said before it will increase blood flow and increases sensitivity in the vagina. We also need to get rid of stress.
Wash

Have a bath or shower with her because the heat will relax her muscles and increase her blood flow. Increased blood flow also allows pleasure and orgasm hormones to circulate around her body much faster and cleanliness also reduces anxiety.

Environment

The room you're fucking in should feel warm and comfy. Not a smelly dump. Turn the big light off and put a lamp on. Coloured bulb if you have one. Get good air freshener. Put some calm music on. It could be cafe chilled jazz, acoustic spanish guitar or solo piano. Point is don't put trash death metal on.

Massage

Look up on YouTube, there's plenty of tutorials on how to give massages properly. Again this increases blood flow and decreases stress.

3. Orgasms Techniques

A lot of these techniques are down to finger fucking. You might be thinking you're not a fucking teenager anymore and you've grown out of finger fucking. But don't disrespect finger fucking. With finger fucking you can be more precise and work on increasing a woman's sensitivity in her vagina, which consequently, makes orgasms easier and more frequent during full intercourse. The whole idea is that you're going to stimulate specific areas of the vagina with your fingers, increase their sensitivity, and then stimulate all the specific areas at once by ramming her with your dick. Don't neglect the finger fucking.

G Spot Orgasm
Biology
This orgasm will make her squirt (female ejaculation). All women ejaculate internally into the bladder. All women can learn how to ejaculate externally out through the urethra. When a woman is extremely aroused, her G Spot fills with female ejaculate and she thinks she needs to pee. So, she holds back. What she's really holding back is her G Spot orgasm. Her ejaculate comes out of her pee hole just like men. Now, you're going to train her to let it go. It's extremely important to make her trust you here. Without trust she will never let go because she'll be afraid of pissing herself. The main reason why there is this myth that "not all women can squirt" is because of this irrational fear of pissing herself. Tell her she won't piss herself, tell her it's cum and tell her she's going to have a powerful orgasm.

The Technique

The g-spot is essentially in the curve of the vagina. If you put your fingers inside and feel upwards you'll feel a ribbed part of flesh, a little like the roof of the your mouth. The g-spot responds to rapid pressure. You're going to have to pump it as fast as possible. Use your ring and middle finger and pull upwards, using the entire strength of your arm, almost as if you're lifting her up. Do this as fast as humanly possible.
Video here: https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1448472188

A Spot Orgasm

Find the A spot
Insert your well-lubricated middle finger into her vagina and run it along the front wall of her vagina. The A spot is also called the anterior fornix = “front arch” and is 3.5-4 inches in (about the length of your middle finger). The fornix is shaped like the rim of a frisbee and is smooth. It’s not as obvious as a real frsibee, but when you feel carefully, you’ll find it. Her cervix is in the centre of that frisbee and feels like the tip of your nose. Feel around for these “landmarks”, so you know where you are. Her cervix is the entrance to her uterus, the place where babies go. Most women who haven’t given birth find stimulation of the cervix uncomfortable, whereas most women who have given birth like cervix stimulation or can tolerate it. You'll find out for yourself.
The Technique

Massage her A spot. Curl the tip of your finger into her A Spot and stroke towards yourself as if you were saying, “come here”. Stroke quite firmly and rapidly. Also rub your finger around the rim of her frisbee. You're manually contracting the muscles that contract during A spot orgasm, so she has no choice but to cum. As she gets closer and closer to cumming, the deep back of her vagina will start to balloon (you probably won’t be able to feel this). Persist: Tell her to keep her body relaxed and massage her A spot for at least 15 minutes. If you don’t make her cum, STOP. Try again the next day. The first A spot orgasm is always hard because you have train her body and brain and your hand will get fatigued. Remind her that there is NO GOAL and it’s ok if she doesn’t cum. All she has to do is listen to the relaxing music, keep her breathing deep and slow, and keep her body relaxed.

C Spot Orgasm/cliterus

Biology
The cliterus is essentially a woman's dick. It's the exact same chromosome except in men in creates a dick in women it creates a clitty. It's no coincidence the the clit has the same amount of nerve endings as the entire dick combined. And just like a dick, it will become sensitive after too much stimulation. Imagine cumming in a girls mouth and she carries on sucking for a little too long after you've cummed. It's a very uncomfortable ticklish feeling, which women will also experience if you stimulate the clit for too long. So be conscious of that.

The Technique

Stroke her clit at the 1 o'clock position. Pretend her clit is the face of a clock and stroke it at the 1 o'clock position with the tip of your lubricated index finger. With your other hand, put your thumb in vagina and push down towards her anus. This will anchor her clit and make her feel secure. IT WILL ALSO FEEL LIKE SHE'S BEING FUCKED WITH A BIG COCK. It will also loosen her vagina up because you're pushing down on a ligament. Make each stroke 1 cm (0.5”) long at 2 strokes per second. Barely touch the tip of her clit at the 1 o'clock position with the tip of your lubricated index finger. Place the palm of your stroking hand over her pubic bone and apply some pressure to increase her pleasure. Sit on her left side with your left arm under her left leg. Your right leg will be across her waist. Put your left thumb in her vagina and push down. Use your right hand for stimulating her clit. Reverse if you're left handed.

Milking: Grab her clit between your thumb and index finger and milk it up and down.
Internal Clitoris: Make the peace sign. Stroke her outer lips with the tips of your index and middle finger and move them up towards her the tip of her clit. Stroke backwards and forwards. This will stimulate the internal clitoris which runs under her lips. The external clitoris is only the tip of the iceberg.
Clit Roll: Hold her clit between your index finger and thumb and “roll it”. For example, get a grain of rice and “roll it” backwards and forwards between your index and finger and thumb. Now, do the same thing with the clit.
The Hood: Rub her clitoral hood in circles. Most women masturbate this way.
Horse Bite: Grab both sides of her labia majora (outer lips) and squeeze, release, squeeze release etc. Your thumb will be on one side and your fingers will be on the other. Her engorged clitoris will “pop” in and out of her labia majora.
Kegel Pump: Grab both sides of he labia majora and squeeze. Tell her to do kegels. Her engorged clitoris will “pop” in and out of her labia majora like with the Horse Bite.

4. Best Sex positions

The best sex positions are the positions where you can move the most. The faster, the deeper and harder you go the better. Different positions stimulate different areas of the vagina (The areas we talked about in the previous section.) It's also important to note that the more the woman moves, the easier it will be for her to cum, which is why cowgirl positions are usually the best.
This website on positions is a good place to start: http://sexpositions.club/positions/113.html

Finishing note
The thing you need to understand about this post, is that it only touches the surface. I've been reading about orgasms and sex for a long time, doing a fair amount of research, and it makes a big fucking difference. When you can make a woman orgasm properly they will become addicted to you, because orgasms produce oxytocin, the bonding hormone. You can't just wing it or less you have a big dick. You might be better off than most with a big dick but you're still only touching the surface. Point is:
Do the research


[–]universalabundance1 124 points125 points  (11 children)

https://xhamster.com/videos/vaginal-massage-techniques-subtitulos-en-espanol-1758720

Video on how to make a girl cum hard via the g-spot.

Saw this 3 yrs ago, have used it on 10+ girls with great results.

Give it a try bros.

[–]idaholee 11 points12 points  (2 children)

Do you massage for days and remove all tension before you attempt to have her orgasm as in the video? Or does it work without all those hours massaging?

[–]SocialPowerPlayer 12 points13 points  (1 child)

You just broke my nofap streak

[–]universalabundance1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Apparently, it wasn't going to last long anyways then.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

^ this is a clip from something called 'white tiger tantra' featuring for example Steve P. (I believe the P is for Piccus)

the whole thing is at least an hour long

[–][deleted] 73 points74 points  (12 children)

Point is don't put trash death metal on.

HOW DARE YOU.

[–]RylanBlackwood[S] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Shit meant to write thrash haha

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bhahahha I was gonna say, I have broken a box spring or two to some metal m/

[–]RylanBlackwood[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest you could do something with it. If you're having crazy hard sex it might work if she's into that kind of music and gets a buzz from it. FYI I'm a metal head just seen ffdp in Leeds :p

[–]Peace-Walker 3 points4 points  (5 children)

But he makes a point, how can you cum while listening to death metal?

[–][deleted] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

How can you come otherwise?

[–]Jahonh007 7 points8 points  (0 children)

starts screaming while finger fucking

[–]Rudeyyyy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Starts thrusting mid breakdown

[–]Vinterson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

still wondering if that trash is a typo.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forreal! Some of the best fucks I've had were to Rob Zombie and other metal.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 27 points28 points  (5 children)

Well now, this thread seems to have pissed off half of the internet. Good work.

Anyway, the day I stopped giving a fuck about giving women oral sex: this is when Legal Cohabiting Female and I barely saw each other and she told me in passing how her boy-toy seemed overly obsessed with sticking it in her asshole and how she missed when I used to go down on her all the time. This was after he "raped her" because he stuck it in her ass again, but she didn't want it at the moment. Uh huh. Guess which dick she kept visiting.

I'm not saying don't lick a pussy. Just don't be a meat Hitatchi wand that makes her waffles in the morning. Women don't crave orgasms. They can do it to themselves. They crave high value men than consume them.

[–]Judirek 13 points14 points  (2 children)

Hi I hope you won't take this as me trolling but I find it hard to understand these lines. I am from a third world and English is not my mother's tongue.

but she didn't want it at the moment. Uh huh. Guess which dick she kept visiting.

a. Did she continue visiting anal guy cause he just anals her and he is of higher value? Seemed to me he doesn't give a fuck of giving the woman oral sex.

b. Did she keep on visiting you because you were higher value than anal guy and stopped giving a fuck about you giving her oral sex?

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind, high value is contextual. Women crave intensity, not orgasms. I refused to give her any, so she out-sourced it.

[–]RylanBlackwood[S] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

But why not be both ? Tits or ass why not both ? Sex god or high value man ? Why not both ?

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most young men think that what it takes too be a sex god is counter-productive to being a high value man.

[–]IlluminatedElf 22 points23 points  (1 child)

I think it's a woman's responsibility to achieve her orgasm(s).

I've never had an orgasm until I was 16-ish and after that, I did my research and during this period, I realised that most women don't really know much about how to orgasm and they're not too fussed about it.

Based on what I've read, if a woman is not healthy and active, she may have a problem similar to erectile dysfunction which makes orgasming a lot more difficult. Low estrogen, poor mental health, and poor circulatory health will affect her ability to enjoy sex significantly. You really can't do much after that.

What you can do is:

  • Touch a lot. OP is right; oxytocin is addictive and oxytocin is released from touch. That being said, it also works when you ask her to touch you/be close to you.

  • Talk. Men are visual and women tend to be verbal/auditory. Ask her before about what she's into. Tell her what you're into. Verbally express to her that you want her to have a good time. It creates an association of "sex with X" = "good time" or "good times lie ahead". I've heard many women say that the best ambiance is a guy that smells good and can talk well, even if there were death metal playing in the background.

  • As aforementioned, some women aren't too fussed about orgasms; don't put a lot of focus on women's orgasm as it can give a person performance anxiety and if a woman has some issue or the other, it's likely that she can't have great orgasms (something that only she can fix). Just focus on having a good time for yourself and being in a good mood; people like being around happy people.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Touch a lot. OP is right; oxytocin is addictive and oxytocin is released from touch. That being said, it also works when you ask her to touch you/be close to you.

Yeah, but then after sex and she made me a sandwich, she might not leave and that would be inconvenient.

[–]reluctantly_red[🍰] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Chilled jazz? Solo piano? AUFKM!!!

Nirvana Nevermind or Led Zeppelin IV are my favorite playtime CDs. The Rolling Stones Exile on Main Street works too if you're in a more mellow mood.

[–]PremixedBox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fast Times at Ridgemont High reference

[–]1rporion 15 points16 points  (3 children)

How to make a woman orgasm?

Make more money than them.

No, this is not a joke:

http://www.businessinsider.com/2009/1/study-rich-men-give-women-more-orgasms?IR=T

[–]RylanBlackwood[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

It's not money which makes women orgasm it's the power that money gives a man.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"He believes the phenomenon is an “evolutionary adaptation” that is hard-wired into women, driving them to select men on the basis of their perceived quality."

FIRE THE AUTHOR NOW. WHAT A SHITLORD /s

[–]Epictetus2017 2 points3 points  (3 children)

I can defintely point out that status will have an effect because sex is often viewed in a transactional sense by women. A bitter pill to swallow for certain, but your financial assets and resources will play a huge role in how she feels about you sexually. And how much she will orgasm by extension.

While muscles and physical fitness are the first factor by which you are judged, the shit you own is the second.

I currently stay at a beachhouse alone. I have two floors, a full kitchenette an outdoor pool, and three bedrooms. It is elevated to give a great view of the ocean below. I could probably rent it for 2500 USD a week or more depending on season to put the comparative value in perspective.

All of my hookups I have brought here, or to a nearby hotel in the city where you can rent by the hour because I am a cheap bastard at heart. (Clean, but nothing special.) Often I take them to my house if I decide I like them later. The difference in their arousal, enjoyment, and pleasure was significantly increased if had her in my house. In fact, they usually did not want to leave after, and that is considering the blatant way almost all women view sex as a transaction down here in Panama. (Sex tourism is very rampant here. You can offer the average girl on the street fifty or a hundred dollars and she will probably fuck you. Alternatively, you can find a legit knockout HB9 Colombian fitness model prostitute for three hundred fifty to five hundred for a night. If you go to a bar and meet an unaccompanied beautiful woman who is soliciting you, she is almost always a puta. And all the non putas know the prices, but they will never admit they do.)

Also, do not be fat. Work on your fitness. Tons of resources here in TRP that, and I myself still have a lot of ground to cover there. I realize now that compared to how I performed physically six months ago. I was a pretty shit lay because I lacked the stamina to actually pound the chick for more then five minutes, which was extremely disappointing to some of my lovers, and probably why they never called me back.

The only saving grace I had at the time was that I am well endowed. I have had women sleep with me merely for that reason alone. That said, you still have to work at it. I did not give a girl an orgasm every time, but I was capable of doing it just with PIV and no prior finger or oral play. (Though that sounds brilliant. Never knew what to do with my hands really, and I didnt do much oral play.) It was always in positions where I could rub her clitoris with my shaft or body as well as penetrate her at the same time. Missionary where I modified the position to lay more on top of her by hooking my arms under her shoulders and thrusting upward and forward, rather then just deeply, From behind roughly, and Cowgirl on top were the three most common ways I was able to get them off. Each woman is different. Each vagina is different. I found that smaller women tend to be tighter, but it is a broad correlation, similar to how there is a moderate correlation between height and dick size.

As a tall man, certain positions worked better on shorter women, and certain positions worked better with taller girls. I have alot of trouble going at a short girl from behind for example, but put her on top and it was a very good experience.

What I have written is nothing new to most posters, but thought it was worth commenting on. Thanks for the detailed guide.

[–]gELSK 0 points1 point  (1 child)

// , "Ever made love to the woman of your dreams in a room full of money"

https://youtu.be/s7iNzYyQWoA?t=2m15s

[–]Epictetus2017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course a rap song gets it right.

Storytime:

I once had an Ecuadorian girl solict me. I said yes, because she was very beautiful, with a slim figure, an exotic mixed look and long black hair. I was already drunk, and having her hit me for cab money (Taxis being so expensive here, of course) afterwards did not sound so bad. Panama as a culture has a very Machista view on these things, so I did exactly what you would expect in this sort of situation. I screwed her.

The whole time I was having my way with her, she was alternating between moaning, and telling me how much my apparent wealth turned her on. That she would make me very very happy if I would just provide for her needs. She was not keeping up the act very well however (Watch what they do, not what they say), and clearly only mildly enthusastic. (Think a little bit better then starfish, but she had a tight body.)

So I lied while continuing slowly, told her I would take her to my house and buy her a nice gold necklace afterwards, because she was clearly making me happy with how beautiful she was. (She was not, I was not enjoying myself that much and starting to regret the decision my dick made for me.)

What ensued after I uttered that sentence was some of the most frenzied, best sex I have ever had. It was like a switch changed in her head. She orgasmed as soon as I promised I would do that for her, and had multiple afterwards. She jumped on top of me and started going at it like I was the last man on earth. I was being pinned down by this turned on little girl who suddenly had lungs like a set of bellows. I was getting knocks on the hotel door, but she insisted on continuing until eventually I was too tired to keep going and the asshole knocking on the door stopped. She would not stop clinging to me until I promised to take her to my house and visit an ATM first.

Afterwards I wiped myself off, gave her some cab money, and told I was going to go grab a coke from a nearby store. I tipped the hotel clerk a bit extra, then I slinked away to my car, and drove off, because fuck inviting such a mentally damaged gold digging puta into my house. She made for a very good lay, but never invite those people into your life if you have self respect. Truth is, I now avoid those kinds of women entirely. It was not healthy for my own mental state.

[–]RylanBlackwood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said it's all in the brain

[–]mnemos_1 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Tested the above on a plate last night.

Verdict: "Where... <gasp> the Hell... <gasp> did THAT come from?!"

Much obliged, OP.

[–]RylanBlackwood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good shit lad glad I could help

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 21 points22 points  (7 children)

One thing I have learned is that "she cums first" is complete and total bullshit. After a girl cums the bottom 2/3 of her vagina balloon out providing the effect of throwing a hot dog down a hallway. Clearly it is not the natural order and it is not what God intended :)

Try riding her good and hard and THEN giving her an orgasm as OP suggests. It can be a bit....ahem...messy if you are not using condoms but what the Hell. A little body fluids never hurt nobody. Just wash your hands before you lick your fingers or, ideally as in the pornos, have her lick off your fingers clean.

There are 2 (at least!) alternatives to this technique: First you can rodger her good and hard and get her close. Then pull out before you cum and finish her with fingers/mouth. Enter her for the grand finale just as she grabs your hand to stop while she is still contracting. Second, you can bring her close with your fingers, get her very close, then suddenly stop. Carefully lick your fingers clean while looking deeply into her eyes. Then invade her mouth with your tongue and her lower regions with your dick. Do it at the same time. Make sure you give her some time to breath and catch up but if you bang her hard after this the chance of getting her off with your dick alone (well not really but her body doesn't know that) is greatly enhanced.

[–]RylanBlackwood[S] 13 points14 points  (3 children)

Yeah the whole whoever cums first thing is bullshit. Women cam cum multiple times during sex. The point is when you learn what you're doing she should be cumming multiple times before you finish off. My gf gets to a point where she feels too light headed to cum anymore and that's the point you should be aiming for.

[–]PreOrgasmGroanLness 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Women can cum multiple times during sex if she learns how to do it.

[–]1Entropy-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is sport fucking. She cums, you cum, we all cum, whatever.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Clearly it is not the natural order and it is not what God intended

Dunno. I've had more than one female scream to god while I had an entire hand up her gaping tuna tunnel.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That does tend to disprove my hypothesis :)

[–]JcHgvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

entire hand

I bet there was an echo as well

[–]tteabag2591 7 points8 points  (6 children)

Didn't a study recently reveal that there was no female ejaculation and that it was actually just them pissing themselves?

[–]samenrofringslikeLBJ 1 points1 points [recovered]

My own experience of having 15+ women squirt is that yes it is just piss, you are essentially making her piss herself by pushing on her bladder from the inside and outside so she pisses very forcefully. Still hot tho.

[–]Papiless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should also have the experience then that it rarely smells just like pee. It has more of a sweet smell to it. I'm pretty sure it is not only piss, but piss is one of the ingredients fo sho.

[–]RylanBlackwood[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

It's a similar liquid and when it comes out it will be mixed with piss and blood. But it's not entirely piss because it's mixed with vagina juices and shit.

[–]The1WhoCsAll 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I believe they scanned women before and after squirting and found it emptied their bladder. Urine

[–]RylanBlackwood[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which is why you should always have a piss before sex

[–]Judirek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have visual guides for these? Non-english speakers like me aren't very good at following written directions.

So I got these right:

  • A-spot: The speed bump.

  • G-spot: Wall between two channels. Spiderman style upward motion.

Techniques:

  • Milking: Up and down, like milking cows

  • Internal Clitoris: When you say tip of the clit do you mean the button of the clit? What do you mean by backward forward (out-in)? Or you meant upward and downward motion?

  • Clit Roll: Playing with hourglass.

  • The Hood: Circles.

  • Horse Bite: Basically close-open alternating.

  • Kegel Pump: Squeezing continuously.

 

With your other hand, put your thumb in vagina and push down towards her anus. This will anchor her clit and make her feel secure.

The other hand's thumb is pushing continuously while the tip of the index finger is stroking yeah?

Place the palm of your stroking hand over her pubic bone and apply some pressure to increase her pleasure. Sit on her left side with your left arm under her left leg. Your right leg will be across her waist. Put your left thumb in her vagina and push down.

I can't picture out what you mean by right leg across her waist, you mean the right leg is on top of her waist to the other side? Or you mean at her back?

[–]unclecrumble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a girl doesn’t cum from my dick I don’t bother that means either she’s not into me or she’s shitty at sex. No my dick isn’t small and no I don’t give a fuck if a girl cums or not

[–]Frenchy100 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Dude. It's the girls job to please you, not your job to please her. Women want a guy who they're dying to please, not a guy who desperately tries to please them.

[–]RylanBlackwood[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're right but this isn't about desperation it's about being a good fuck nothing else.

[–]Big_Daddy_PDX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With finger fucking you can be more precise and work on increasing a woman's sensitivity in her vagina, which consequently, makes orgasms easier and more frequent during full intercourse. Video here: https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1448472188

Totally agree. Never seen a video so close to the way I've been building up my current GF from the fingering buildup to the massage to the light stroking of her body while she's nearing climax. If you want to be great at sex, then you should be able to give any woman several orgasms before penetration. Besides the benefit of them being more satisfied during sex, they get hornier the longer you go and then they get even more open to experimentation.

[–]1Entropy-7 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I was once an 18 year old guy, and we don't know shit about a clitorus or G-spot or whathave you. But we learn.

Having discussed it with dozens of women, a big dick is not the be all and end all. In sme cases a big dick is a disadvantage.

[–]RylanBlackwood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect size is 7-8 inches. Anything over that and you're dick will probably go past the sensitive areas. Therefore having anything bigger is unnecessary. And girth is way more important anyway.

[–]DeeMooreDeeMarriet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice Blooper thread. Again I say DAFUCK?

[–]Drezzzire -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why didn't you just say 'be rich?'

Everything else, which is way too fucking long to read, is irrelevant.

[–]cafeitalia -3 points-2 points  (1 child)

Who cares about giving woman an orgasm? Your job is not that! You are a man. You fuck a woman like a man she will sometimes orgasm most of the time not but she will not care. As a man the orgasms I have had are probably a handful in my 40+ years of life. Coming is not the same as having an orgasm.

[–]S-Blaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds boring. Sex ain't a job it's an art.

[–]DeeMooreDeeMarriet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do all of his while being Brad Pitt flashing millions of dollars all over the bedroom.

Dafuck is this shit? Fuck her, she can learn to cum for herself.

[–]Appleburgerr 1 points1 points [recovered]

The faster, the deeper and harder you go the better.

Careful - this is definitely not always true. Keep in mind that not all vaginas and penises are equal in terms of size or shape. You're going to hurt someone if you always go full blast like that - especially for well endowed men.

[–]samenrofringslikeLBJ 1 points1 points [recovered]

In my experience, girls like it when their stuff is messed up after. I have had a girl call me from work cause she could not sit down because tenderness in her vagina. I said sorry ill be more carefull, she said fuck no it was the best thing ever felt and as soon a she was ready again she wanted more of the same. And this was like 4 hours of straight sex that she started chafing. Whenever I put too many fingers in or hit the cervix, as long as you arent autisticly force-fisting and recognice her reaction and communicate, you will get positive reactions to your rough treatment of her.

Girls really are as dirty as guys, except that we like feminine soft touches and they like masculine raw punding.

[–]gELSK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

// , I've literally had one woman tell me her vagina felt like it was "burning" after such a thing

She seemed really embarrassed about it, too

[–]1dongpal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

when making her squirt should you hit the Fingers inside her against the top like hitting it or just pressing?

[–]sickofallofyou -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Make your girl cum 3-4 times from a gspot orgasm, then slide it in. She'll think your cock is made of gold (cause the gspot swells up and rubs against it). Be more vocal. Make her say she likes it. Cause they love it.