I have a cousin who is the definition of an alpha male. University student, defined large muscles and a madly large social circle.
Dude kills in absolutely everything he does.
We hadn't seen each other in about 3-4 years but recently started talking again. He immediately told me that he was having a get together during the weekend and wanted me to come. I agreed and travelled to his city to spend time with him.
What I found out was absolutely insane.
Bit about myself: I'm in no way inexperienced or a beta. I just live with my parents whilst studying in an incredibly small town so it cuts down my opportunity to do things.
The first thing I noticed about my cousin was the way he walked and his mannerisms. Dude is slow about doing things and walks completely relaxed. I can't exactly put my finger on it, we were walking the same speed and similar style but there was something about him that just made him seem so relaxed. It was like he was the president walking through the white house.
After hanging out a bit the dude took me to a little meeting taking place in the university which was filled with high quality girls and guys. EVERY and I mean every person there respected the shit out him, he was treated as some sort of high value guest.
Whenever the girls wanted to make a suggestion or idea, they'd look at him and wait for his response. The guys did the exact same thing. One of the girls would sit and stare at him whenever he opened his mouth to just say a few words.
After the meeting, we head back to his dorm so that we can eat before the party starts.
Whilst eating, one of his science nerdy roommates came in and was nervous. My cousin made him feel comfortable and invited him to the party later on. This was another thing I noticed about the dude, my cousin invited anybody at all. He didn't care what type of status you had. Low status, high status, nerdy, beta etc. He invited everyone.
The roommate kindly declines but tells us to enjoy ourselves.
Skip forward to the party, about 5 guys show up.
20 minutes later five HB9 and 8s come in.
The party starts and my cousin goes back and forth talking to everybody. He mostly spends time talking with the girls.
Me and the rest of the guys were sat down just talking and chilling. They told me how my cousin has apparently always been like this, taking the initiative and talking to everyone.
I was actually surprised as to why the other guys weren't talking to the girls. They were all attractive and muscular guys yet stayed sitting like betas.
The thing I often do when I'm fully in the zone is to point to a girl then gesture for them to come over. If done properly, it's a killer.
I point to the girl I found the most attractive and she comes over. We start talking for a bit then she squeezes down next to me. Like I said, I have experience. At this point I knew the girl was mine.
I'd drank a bit but nothing too big. The girl was immediately trying to qualify herself to me in every way.
Picture the scene: My cousin is at the other end of the room chilling with a 9 whilst the other 9(Jodie) is sitting beside me qualifying herself.
The other guys just sat there with their shoulders slumped.
One of my main styles which I find to be a problem is that I turn into a massive dick when I get in the zone. It works 100% but not the way I want it to.
Jodie starts to qualify herself to me and I tell her to shush and to stop talking. Of course as I do this, she talks even more and tries to get closer. We start talking about cars and I tell her outright that women are bad drivers. She hits me but gets really hooked.
Again, she tries to ask me about myself but I just tell her to stop talking and to go sit somewhere else whilst at the same time, I'm bantering and joking with the other guys.
Every time I interacted with the guys I could feel her staring and watching me. The interesting thing I should add is that this girl was the only person in the party who hadn't drank. Straight sober girl showing this much IoI. It didn't take much to get inside her pants after that.
Something I am incredibly confused about is that at one point, Jodie pointed to her friend(HB8) and told me that she wished she could be like her, that the girl was far better looking.
I responded by telling Jodie that her friend wasn't really that attractive. I then call Jodie cute.
This seemed to make her lose interest for a bit but she quickly brushed it off.
This baffles the hell out of me. I had been a dick to her the whole time yet she was into me. The one time I say one nice thing, she brushes it off.
There is so much that happened that night but I'll jump straight to the lessons just to cut the chase.
Make the girl/woman feel comfortable: Me and my cousin have two different styles of game. His is to make people feel comfortable otherwise nothing can happen.
Mine is utter disqualification. Go with my cousin's.
Become comfortable with the uncomfortable: I always say this in my FRs because it's so important. Me and my cousin were the only ones who said what we wanted, did what we wanted and yet we were the only ones getting attention. Take me for example, I was in a different town, knew nobody but my cousin, surrounded by alphas and attractive girls.
Back in my old days the thought of this would make me shiver but now I was literally the only memorable person aside from the host.
Always leave an impact.
Girls will flock to whoever gives off the more POWERFUL energy. Not the more positive energy. My cousin bangs girls left and right and his energy is absolute positive. Mine in counter is just powerful energy. I'll laugh a little but most of the time I just don't care and girls seem to notice this.
If a girl ignores you, move on: My cousin directly said to me: "Don't waste time with uninterested girls. If she ignores you, move on."
Tinder: Cousin uses tinder on the side. Remember he's a muscular and attractive guy who's got a bunch of matches but the response rate is low. Some take days even weeks to reply.
If a girl likes you and you softly touch her neck or cheeks, she'll drench her underwear.
One extra thing I'd like to add is that both me and my cousin come from hard backgrounds. For me personally, I don't exactly follow the redpill per say. Don'