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Rant/VentingDo NOT pay for pussy. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Exodia324

A bit of a background. I live in an Eastern European country, where money is scarce. Let me tell you the story of my flatmate.

My flatmate works in our country's special forces, kind of like S.W.A.T. in USA, and while our median wage is about $500 per month, he makes roughly $1k per month.

To have any sort of idea, I found this on Wikipedia: "One key measure is the real median level, meaning half of households have income above that level and half below, adjusted for inflation. According to the Census, this measure was $59,039 in 2016, a record high. "

So if that's the median wage in US, $60k, my friend here would make $120k per year in US.

Now to the story. My friend is a relatively smart guy and in good physical shape. He can crank out about 45 pushups in a minute. He runs a 5 minute mile. That's basically his job, and he's 30 years old.

My friend didn't have a single girlfriend for more than 1 week his whole life. He's relatively attractive, well off financially and doesn't lack any attributes, but he just can't hit it off with women. 2 years ago, he gets this brilliant idea. "I will start online dating".

1 Year later and zero dates to his belt, he concludes that the women in our country aren't worth it (lol) and starts online dating overseas. He finds a Philippines girl that I personally find a hard 3 on facial features and probably has a 85 IQ. She's slim though.

He starts talking to her everyday and after 6 months he tells me he wants to marry her. I puke mentally. He takes a bank loan and, after it's approved, he gives me his credit card details to book him a plane ticket. That was last September. He goes to Philippines and stays there for 2 weeks, meeting his girl, probably got some pussy, and comes back home. He starts the formalities to get the girl in our country.

Now, a bit of math. My friend makes roughly $1k per month. Rent and utilities cost $100. He usually spends $200-300 for food, clothes and other necessities. On a bad month, he still has left around $400, which is almost an entire median wage in our country.

He took out a bank loan for $6k. He had $3k in savings from his job. His mom gave him her last $2k that she saved for decades, because she makes $250 per month.

Since September until today, my friend has spent all his money. On what? 2 times they got mad at each other talking through the phone and the girl threw her phone at the wall. My friend sent her about $500 each time to buy a new phone. He paid for all the formalities, flight tickets to Manila for her to get her visa, accomodation, food, etc. She hasn't worked more than 1 month in her life, isn't going to college and she's 22. She bought a carry-on luggage for $80 whereas in our country, which is thousands of miles away from China where they're all made, a decent carry-on costs $20. She recently bought a gold bracelet for $350 for herself. All from my friend's money.

Now my friend, from the $14k has $45 left thanks to stupid shit like this. Her parents never paid for anything, even when he was there in visit.

6k+

3k+

2k+

what he would usually save each month * 6 months, which is another 3k

=14k

Do not pay for pussy.


[–]BurnoutRS 703 points704 points  (56 children)

Jesus christ what a retard

[–]Exodia324[S] 212 points213 points  (47 children)

I always disapproved of his behavior and I have a tally running on our fridge:

"With the money I spent so far, I could have paid for x hookers and 2x meals in town"

The X seemingly increases every week. It was 507 last week

[–]VW_wanker 139 points140 points  (12 children)

Lol a friend of mine did the same thing. Got a good job as an engineer in an American car company. Looked for pussy found on effing Facebook. Long distant relationship while sending money. Went to her country, she did not even show up. All calls went to voicemail. On the last day he is leaving, she shows up to the airport( she was tracking him) saying her grandma was sick for the entire two weeks he was looking for her. Asks for $400 to "buy her medicine" dude so desperate he falls for that point blank. Boards his plane as he is broke, comes back... relationship resets and she is back to being sweet. He didn't even hit it.

He was stuck in that toxic shit ... went back again after saving up. Hit it once. Came back and she called him saying she was pregnant. He now started sending kid money for doctors. Of course five months later she mysteriously had a miscarriage because of all the stress from not seeing him. It took him two years to realize he was being strung along. Worst part a simple Facebook name search would have shown him that she had like three Facebook accounts.

[–]shaggyctes88 59 points60 points  (3 children)

That story cause me cancer...how did he even fell for that? Oh right.....

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    [–]VW_wanker 24 points25 points  (1 child)

    Dude went off the deep end these days and fucks escorts exclusively...

    [–]OptimoStealth 6 points7 points  (1 child)

    🤦🏻‍♂️ DOH! Poor guy. Women truly can be a man’s Achilles heel

    [–]d4ng3rz0n3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    Did you ever see the movie Troy? Achilles was a great and feared warrior, who died because he was searching for a trojan woman he met previously when Troy was being destroyed. He found her and was shot with an arrow in the heel by a white knight (her cousin I believe). Unable to move, he was killed shortly after by a barrage of arrows.

    [–]TheDevilsAdvokaat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I knew an aussie guy in China whose gf was a local Chinese girl. Anyway after a few years together she hits him with this "My mother needs an eye operation. Will you help?"

    The price is 10,000 RMB (This was 15 years ago). The deal was, he would pay 2500 RMB, her brother would pay 2500 RMB, she would pay 2500RMB, dad would pay 2500 RMB. So he agreed.

    A week later she told him: "The problem is much worse than we thought! The operation will now cost 40,000 RMB! You must help!"

    Now I was already suspicious the first time and told him. The second time I knew they were cheating him. I'm sure you've all noticed the second price - 10,000 - is the same amount as they all would have paid together the first time. I think when he agreed to pay the first time they decided "this guy is a rich foreign idiot" and decided to make him pay the total. Which he did even though I advised him not to.

    He eventually married the girl and took her back to Australia, where she was gone within a year and eventually divorced him. To this day I cannot convince him she scammed him.

    In fact, she scammed him at least 3 times:

    (1) Made him pay the entire cost of the operation (10,000) instead of 2500 (I would have paid zero. Let hubby and family pay.)

    (2) Let him take her to Australia and then fucked off - at first she "got a job child minding" and could only come home on weekends; then just stopped coming home. Was still married to him at the time.

    (3) Was with him for 4 years and never got pregnant - how strange. Was with the new guy in Australia and was pregnant very soon after. How convenient. I suspect she never planned to stay with him at all; she took birth control until she got to Australia, met a new guy and got pregnant to him to seal the deal then told hubby she was leaving.

    I know the guy's not sterile because he's now with another Chinese girl and they have 2 babies.

    Why is it some people can't see the obvious? He's not stupid; he has a degree in business....but cannot see when he is being scammed. On the other hand she's a cold, calculating, manipulative woman and he's better off without her.

    [–]klavijaturista[🍰] 9 points10 points  (6 children)

    hookers

    Wait a minute, you said "do not pay for pussy"

    [–]Exodia324[S] 23 points24 points  (1 child)

    And it got you to click. You always pay for pussy, even if you pay with opportunity cost.

    [–]klavijaturista[🍰] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Ha, nice. :) But, if you say I have an opportunity cost, then you imply your post is not valuable. I choose to open and read it because it promised some interesting info, not to get pussy. :)

    [–]MarinTaranu 27 points28 points  (3 children)

    you will pay, one way or another. Hookers are cheaper and less drama.

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      [–]Exodia324[S] 13 points14 points  (16 children)

      You can get a hooker for $15 half hour. The bad ones are $7-10, $15 is for a decent one that's not on drugs and has all her teeth in her mouth.

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        [–]In33dmon3yz 9 points10 points  (2 children)

        Even in Germany its 30 für 15 minutes. Shit is legal here so Competition Drives the prices down

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          [–]In33dmon3yz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          Duisburg vulkanstreet >200 prostitutes 30 für 15 minutes bj + 2 positions. Excellent;-)

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            [–]blue_27 5 points6 points  (4 children)

            What are you going to do with 5 hookers? Bang one while the other two go down on each other? Cool. One of them is going to rob you, so what does the fifth hooker do?

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              [–]BurnoutRS 9 points10 points  (1 child)

              Goddamn beat me to it. I was gonna say you dont have to fuck them. 7 bucks a half hour for the shitty ones. You hire them, give em a script, shoot an all meth hooker cast version of Friends.... No no, fucking Seinfeld. Jesus christ you'd be an internet millionaire with that shit. Best part is you know those hookers arent gonna live long enough to sue for royalties

              [–]crunk_dog 1 point2 points  (2 children)

              no seriously though, which country is this, Romania ?

              [–]jupiter_fisting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              Here in Czech Republic you can get hooker even for 5$. She will be ugly junkie with bad teeth, but you can get them this cheap. Young hooker with nice tight body, cute face for a half hour will cost you around 25$.

              [–]TheDevilsAdvokaat 0 points1 point  (5 children)

              I'm an aussie; just wanted to let you know one of my friends once got a hooker for $5 and a can of beer - this was in the 80's though.

              I wouldn't have fucked her, even if she paid me. She had a moustache on her upper lip and was six feet tall and looked kind of like a dragon....I sometimes wonder if she was actually a tranny in transition and he was too embarrassed to tell us later.

              [–]Atheist_Utopia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              Your title is incorrect for the post, because you still advocate paying for pussy, just not overseas.

              [–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (1 child)

              This is what happens when your blue pilled for you’re entire life. We’ve all done some stupid blue pilled shit before, but not as extreme as this guy (hopefully).

              [–]Huru_Guru 15 points16 points  (0 children)

              I don’t think it was the red pill he was lacking, more like common sense

              [–]gains_o_clock 2 points3 points  (2 children)

              agreed, also is 45 push-ups really comparable to a 5 min mile? 5 min mile is lit af but 45 push-ups I bet over half the guys in this sub could hit that easy

              [–]bigdog659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              I’m unfit and could do 45 push-ups in a min.

              5 min mile I highly doubt I could Do. Fuck it I would have a heart attack if I tried.

              [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              I’ve done 95 in a min and I’m in the “chair Force”

              [–]Denver_Luv3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              Jesus christ what a retard

              This guy is an idiot. I have paid before and it is possible to pay for play successfully. But it's only worth doing for older guys with a lot of money and good game and masculine polarity to begin with.

              [–]TsuGhoul 56 points57 points  (0 children)

              Some people exist solely to be a warning to others

              your friend sounds like one of those people

              [–]kkri3 92 points93 points  (15 children)

              It baffles me how some men don't see that international online dating is where all the low to average looking gold diggers flock. Even when I had my pink beta vision glasses on at least this much was obvious to me. I work in IT, nearly all the guys at my company met their wives online, some of them are obviously divorced and paying alimony, the ones that are still 'lucky' enough to be married get disrespected by their wives in public.

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                [–]HappyMexican 10 points11 points  (0 children)

                I have never been super high SMV despite my best efforts, but I did have a roomate who was 6'4' lower body fat, and yeah you are right. He pulled some pretty good looking tail off Plenty of Fish.

                [–]askmrcia 7 points8 points  (8 children)

                the ones that are still 'lucky' enough to be married get disrespected by their wives in public.

                Sad to say but you just described my older brother who works in IT. Met his wife online. Asian chick from a wealthy family in Australia but still a huge gold digger. They are still married but she disrespects him alot in public.

                To be fair he does fight back, but it's such a toxic thing to see because who the hell wants to be around someone when you're always fighting them?

                I tried telling him to not marry her. I really did. But his response was when she acts like a bitch he'll just smoke some weed to relieve the stress.

                He recently lost his job and all hell is breaking lose now. So we'll see what happens.

                I don't get why these IT guys do this.

                [–]Exodia324[S] 4 points5 points  (7 children)

                Most are cucks. I finished Computer Science and worked exactly 2 months in my field. The cuckery in my field is amazing and made me quit and make my own shit.

                2 years I barely managed to pay the rent while I grew my business, but now that I look back, it's the best decision ever.

                I work roughly 4-6 hours per week, whenever I want. I can see a movie for lunch on Monday, the cinema is empty. I make more than my colleagues who remained in IT make. I recently (8 months) started daytrading and I'm making a killing after 2 months of learning pain.

                It's the best thing ever. Fuck IT.

                [–]saltydecisions 4 points5 points  (1 child)

                Working in tech in Australia, at a previous workplace I noticed my entire team were dating or married to Asian women (or single). Wonder how they met, would be interesting if it was all online and on these guy's dime.

                [–]HappyMexican 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                I'm not too surprised to see stuff like this. It can be a good deal if you have a good head on your shoulders about all this. I for one, would never send out money to someone I haven't met in person.

                Think its pretty lazy and dumb to just send off large amounts of money for a girl you have never even met. I would take a trip there FIRST, find a couple of girls then stay in contact with them if they are interested.

                Visiting one of those places myself it does feel very tempting to grab the first girl that treats you right and spoil her. But like someone else posted "You wouldn't marry a prostitute in your home country..." this keeps me from personally ever trying this. Despite one girl I felt super tempted to do so.

                [–]rorrr 30 points31 points  (2 children)

                I know a russian woman, now in her 50's, was friends with my mom. She was married in russia, had kids, got divorced. Then started international online dating. Got big fake tits. Within a year she found a US guy who married her. Divorced him after 3 years, got his house, and probably half his money. Then she did the same trick 3 more times, though marriages were shorter, one didn't last a year. Every time she'd get a bunch of money in the divorce.

                One would think her 5th husband-to-be would get a clue, but nope, stepped right into the same trap, got cleaned out.

                And I wouldn't say she's a horrible person in general, she just used the system to her advantage. Hey, if you had women throwing themselves at you, and the system would guarantee $100K+ settlements every few years, you'd probably do it too.

                [–]Exodia324[S] 10 points11 points  (1 child)

                Props for her. I don't hate the wolf for eating meat, I learn what meat he likes and feed him that.

                [–]2CasaDeFranco 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                She's still a parasite though. Still a fool and his money...

                [–]victor_knight 22 points23 points  (0 children)

                It probably wasn't really about sex per se for the guy. He was priming her to carry some of his DNA into the future before death takes him (which could be at any time). Even if his consciousness is not aware of what his body's real plan is, his body is altering his brain chemistry to ensure it's own survival. $14-15K is nothing. Men have died over trying to get a woman of choice to carry their DNA into the future. They have even killed other men. Dozens and sometimes even hundreds. Just like most guys wouldn't refuse when the girl offers to go bareback (again, DNA doing its work behind the scenes). It will temporarily disable the man's rational faculties.

                [–]TheJackal619 57 points58 points  (3 children)

                This is tragic man. Especially knowing how his mother gave him all her savings... heartbreaking.

                [–]Exodia324[S] 14 points15 points  (1 child)

                I always disapproved of his behavior and I have a tally running on our fridge:

                "With the money I spent so far, I could have paid for x hookers and 2x meals in town"

                The X seemingly increases every week. It was 507 last week

                [–]memphisjohn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                I have a tally running on our fridge

                LMAO love this and the guy still doesnt get it

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                [–]Exodia324[S] 8 points9 points  (4 children)

                I do that, and I don't consider it payment. "Shit I just dropped $30"

                Pussy (and good pussy, too) is cheap af here and the price is ridiculous.

                [–]denis5963 6 points7 points  (3 children)

                Please, where are you exactly from lol

                [–]TrendingBargains 1 point2 points  (1 child)

                He keeps referencing how cheap it is, but not giving out the location lol..

                [–]ImHerWonderland 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                Can't blame him to be honest. Too many sjws would love to doxx and out someone for "objectifying women".

                [–]Frenetic_Zetetic 33 points34 points  (0 children)

                The real joke is on anyone who prioritizes pussy over career, hobbies, and ambitions.

                You will always loose when you make pussy primary.

                Make it peripheral and it will become abundant.

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                [–]RandyBumgardner85 16 points17 points  (2 children)

                There is no helping men like this. They are worthy of neither pity nor guidance nor vagina.

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                  [–]Future_Alpha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Its surprisingly really considering the dude is special forces. He should be slaying.

                  [–]GamePlayer007 102 points103 points  (24 children)

                  Lesson #1: Pussy is NEVER free.

                  Even if the guy above is being an utter moron, in one way or another - financially, emotionally, your time - you and I always pay for it. Except if you get really lucky after the first meeting, you're going to have to invest at least some of your time and money in a couple of dates. It's even worse for guys in LTRs and married guys, who make a lifetime commitment to paying for pussy.

                  Pay, you will pay, and it's expected of you by women and society. Which does of course make the majority of women no more than prostitutes.

                  (Footnote: I find most Filipino women to be extremely ugly, so I'm not surprised that the bitch is only a 3.)

                  [–]Pluglord 35 points36 points  (2 children)

                  Chads pay for pussy with dick

                  [–]acidpixie 15 points16 points  (1 child)

                  Fuck this needs way more upvotes. Yeah, you pay for pussy in some way or another, giving a girl a thrill ride in your car or a good fucking are alpha ways to pay for sex. Spending actual money (unless your finances allow to pay for dinner without even bothering to check the total) then you need to ask if you're really achieving anything impressive. Any loser can pay a girl for sex indirectly with money. Personally I pay girls with the sex itself or maybe I'll give them a drip of life advice while hanging out. So far so good.

                  [–]RAiderNat88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                  Exactly with great game and better dick you can make a bitch do anything, even give you her money.

                  [–]IamLeinad 10 points11 points  (0 children)

                  I'm from the Philippines and living in Manila for almost 2 years, I been seeing a lot of filipina who lives like they earn big bucks and living in an expensive condo and shit, also with subpar looks only to find out that they have a sugar daddy overseas and still fucks some random alpha she meets from a bar.

                  [–]ExplorePI 63 points64 points  (28 children)

                  I’ve got some bad news for your friend... she never broke the phones... she just scammed him for a little money because he was an easy target.

                  I worked in the Philippines for 3 years and have been traveling there for work for the past 15 years and there is a clear difference in the type of girls you will encounter:

                  • Dating site girls ALMOST always fuck for money... if not a straight P4P transaction they’ll extract money in other ways.

                  These are not good girls... but often they aren’t the bad girls. Very rarely you’ll find a genuine girl but she’ll never ask for money in any form. She’s also very unlikely to bang you on the first date - VERY unlikely.

                  ADVICE: if you’re going to go into a relationship with any girl run away very fast if she asks for money because that’s all you are to her, an ATM.

                  • The bad girls work in bars or freelance in tourist areas... they offer a simple straightforward transaction. If you need relief it’s a practical way of getting rid of “frustration” or whatever you want to call it.

                  ADVICE: never ever EVER enter a relationship with one of these girls unless you’re the type of guy that would marry a prostitute in your home country. The chance of getting fucked over is extreme!

                  • Poor girls are everywhere. They don’t have to live in a nipa (grass) hut with a dirt floor to be poor. Poor girls can be genuine but do you have anything really in common with them and will you ever really understand each other?

                  She’ll be uneducated and completely illogical. It’s too difficult in the majority of circumstances unless you live there.

                  ADVICE: be nice to poor girls because if you’re an asshole and yhe brothers find you they may go as far as killing you. Poor girls MIGHT make a good partner but the more money you give them the less chance you’ll have of success.

                  • girls with jobs are your best bet if you want a relationship. Teachers, nurses, office workers, retail (sometimes) and IT workers... these girls have their own money (even if it’s little), understand what it’s like to work for money and they’ll evaluate the chances of a relationship with you through a more realistic perspective.

                  SO MANY men go to find a wife and get fucked over because they are optimists, fools, or both.

                  If you find a good one and you understand how to manage your relationship you’ll be the happiest man alive - but I’ll warn you... many fail.

                  I avoided relationship like the plague when I was working there but had a mountain of fun dating... eventually I met someone through a work colleague in the most normal circumstances ever and dating turned into marriage. I never thought I’d marry again but 5 years down the track and I still have to pinch myself to see if I’m dreaming.

                  Almost everything I read in the sub makes me laugh because I remember what you guys are going through and I compare it with what I’ve got now.

                  In short, OP... your friend is needy and desperate and the easiest target for a girl That will say and do anything to improve her life a little. I expect him to be bled dry before he realises that.

                  [–]bartallen4790 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                  I live in Bangkok and you hit the nail on the head with these descriptions, it's pretty embarassing how easy it is to come here and get pussy but you see so many dudes just getting raped from their bank accounts.

                  When I went back to the US for a few weeks my girlfriend went out with her friend and some other girls she just met that night and when they started talking about their US/UK boyfriends they asked my GF how much money I send her every month. She was like, "WTF, I have a job why do I need his money?" Tells me their dudes send them a few hundred bucks in cash every month plus buying clothes and shit for them, it's crazy man.

                  [–]Saberinbed 14 points15 points  (19 children)

                  Yeah about finding nurses... i happen to fuck this one nurse who had a boyfriend in med school... women will be women dude.

                  [–]Anon241469 8 points9 points  (0 children)

                  Should have just gone to Amsterdam.

                  [–]pijanimikula 8 points9 points  (1 child)

                  This will be one expensive lesson.

                  Being eastern European myself, I can at least have a chuckle, cause it is happening to a cop.

                  [–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

                  When I was in the US Navy I was stationed in Norfolk and met a HB7 Filipino girl. She became very attached very quickly but would not put out so I dumped her. She kept writing me how her family values were very high and sex before marriage was inappropriate in her culture. I didn’t care and she was still dumped. Funny thing was she kept pursing me hard (Stalking level) even though I had a few plates I would go to because she wouldn’t put out. She was living with her aunt and uncle who was also in the Navy so I figured she was looking for a husband and thought a Navy guy would be an easy target. I guess the moral of this story and based on my experience is stay away from Filipino women.

                  [–]re4d3 14 points15 points  (2 children)

                  So much to "looks trump game". He lifts, can't have a more masculine job and still is a chump.

                  [–]1atticusfinch1973 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                  Don't stress over what he's doing. He makes his own decisions just like you make yours. In his massively blue pilled mind he's the white knight coming to her rescue and saving her from a life of poverty while he thinks he's going to have a wonderful happy home and family and get sex whenever he wants it once she moves here.

                  Unfortunately when he eventually gets force fed the pill all you can do is be there to pick up the pieces, because he's going to get hit like a Mack truck hitting a fly.

                  [–]PatnarDannesman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                  All men pay for sex. The trick is to make sure you pay no more than you have to and ensure you get value for money. Don't waste a cent.

                  You pay for sex through hookers, dating women, spending time on them, pretending to care about them, buying them things, taking them places, finding ways to keep them entertained and interested etc.

                  Remember, women are depreciating assets that lose their value at 30. A present value calculation of even a HB10 shows she's not worth much.

                  [–]throwlaca 15 points16 points  (5 children)

                  I once paid a 200 us$ bracelet for my LTR (that's a lot in my country). Then I realized my mistake and for the next presents never got her anything over 20 us$.

                  She went crazy, started giving my expensive gifts, all kinds of crazy sex, probably think she's not doing ok because I lowered the price of the gifts, lol.

                  PS: I learned the hard way not to spend too much in women when I gifted my then wife an expensive cellphone because she had an ancient one. What's the first thing she install? Tinder. Yup, lesson learned there.

                  [–]1empatheticapathetic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                  This story is my brother. Identical.

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                  [–]Exodia324[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                  BRB incorporating a Divorce Lawyer Office.

                  [–]yomo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Clocked time as a clerk in my early career days. We are at 70%, just incorporate the 1 year separation period, which is not taken into consideration, most women go through just to prove she was trying and you got your lag of the 15% from 55% divorce rate percentage.

                  [–]MachinistBob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                  An old guy from long ago told me this, and 45 years later, it still sticks with me. "What's the difference between sex for money and sex for free? Sex for money is a lot cheaper."

                  [–]drleeisinsurgery 4 points5 points  (4 children)

                  Maybe I'm missing something, but why didn't he want a local girl? Many people, including myself find Eastern European woman the most beautiful in the world.

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

                  So do I. He had zero success with them. The only girl I saw him fucking was a 35-40 kilogram 1.70 m skeleton. I get nausea just thinking of how skeletonish looking the girl was.

                  [–]drleeisinsurgery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                  Paying for vagina is one thing, but mail order bride is a really bad, expensive idea.

                  Let me share this story of this woman I know. She's an eye doctor and a real cunt. Just rude, aggressive and arrogant. Asian lady here in the US.

                  When she was in medical school, she met some guy from Serbia at the zoo. Within 6 months they were married, he had his green card etc. Anyhow, on their 4th wedding anniversary, he left her, got his citizenship, brought his ex girlfriend from Serbia over and are now happily married.

                  [–]Future_Alpha 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  They're beautiful but insane.

                  [–]drleeisinsurgery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  That's probably true for all women, at least the second part

                  [–]JanezIvanJansa[🍰] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

                  Nobody talks in miles outside of US, lol.

                  [–]ayylma088 7 points8 points  (0 children)

                  I read Philippines ... I smiled ... I stopped reading :D :D

                  Those are like "the" easiest pussies on the planet

                  [–]deville05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                  But but that's a lot more than just paying for pussy

                  [–]everyone_wins 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                  Holy shit I would have much rather fucked eastern European whores than some little flip gold digger. Your friend made some bad choices. Too bad for him.

                  [–]Modredpillschool 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                  Yeah, others have commented but she never broke her phone.

                  [–]antonybdavies 8 points9 points  (4 children)

                  He's got a moron Phillipines girl. Most Phillipines girls are humble and appreciative but its obvious he's got a rotten apple.

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 13 points14 points  (3 children)

                  The problem is not that he got the rotten apple. He could have gotten rid of her after spending $3k on plane tickets and 2 weeks in Philippines.

                  The problem is that he sticked to the apple.

                  [–]MarinTaranu 7 points8 points  (2 children)

                  There is an overflow of whores in Olangapo, Phillipines. Same in Thailand, Pattaya, south from Bangkok. Bangkok itself is teeming with available women, just take the skytrain and take your pick. I would take Thailand over Phillipines any day of the week. The Philipinas are hypocrites and liars and too religious for my taste. Wife is Philipina and it was a major mistake, and nothing but a money pit. A family of losers, and Iswear I haven't met a smart or intellectual Pinoy. The whole country is retarded and I hate their language to boot, while I am fluent in Thai. Free advice: steer clear of anything related to Phillipines. Besides, it is a VERY dangerous place.

                  [–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 2 points3 points  (5 children)

                  If your friend has as much going for him as you say: health, looks, money, job, status, etc. Why can't he get a woman, in your opinion? Also, has anyone tried exposing him to game and TRP? You post on here laughing at his misfortune, but did you do anything to prevent this trainwreck? Admittedly, many people prefer to learn the hard way.

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

                  I told him day one after he said he met this girl online that it's dumb, stupid and expensive. Almost 1 year of infatuation coming up, they met online in last March or April.

                  I do a lot of investing and have some sick gains for a guy with zero resources growing up and I told him to give me his money for half a year and I'll 3x it. That was in June. He said no, he wants to meet her, bla bla bla. The dude is almost penniless. Had to give up his smoking habit in order to send her money.

                  I 12x-ed my money from June until now. My friend made it all disappear into nothing.

                  I've never been so bluepilled in my life, so I have no idea what he thinks, but I always bragged to him about the cheap hookers (compared to what he paid so far) I bang every 2 weeks or so.

                  [–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 2 points3 points  (3 children)

                  So, his problem is, he's just completely bluepilled, in that he bought the bluepill Disney fantasy hook line and sinker and refuses to let go of it? What does he do when interacts with regular women in your country? I'm genuinely curious. I've never heard of someone in his profession with his attributes having these issues. I mean, you can be superbluepilled mangina, but with his attributes, women should be throwing their vaginas onto his dick to try and at least trap him. They should also be mistaking him for alpha fux.

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

                  The dude just ruins everything when he opens his mouth. Women smell desperation a mile away.

                  [–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  Are we talking 40 year old virgin here? Has he ever been laid prior to the Filipina?

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  A few times. Still bluepill af

                  [–]Fedor_Gavnyukov 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                  that's not paying for pussy. that's called retarded

                  [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  Some people have to learn the hard way, more than once.

                  [–]bidextralhammer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  Couldn't he just go to a prostitute? At least it's a fair exchange.

                  [–]Kevo4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  Alternate Title Suggestion:Do Not Be a Bluepilled Moron.

                  [–]whiteslimshady 1 point2 points  (2 children)

                  how is this front page? your friends retarded and this is not new material.

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  I don't consider it front page worthy either, but if only 1 retard reads this and says "wait a second, that's almost me", I think it's worth the 5-10 minutes I spent writing it.

                  [–]whiteslimshady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  stop being friends with the mentally disabled

                  [–]bobaisdope 1 point2 points  (2 children)

                  Which country are you from Eastern Europe? I've been in Moscow and I noticed that most men from Eastern Europe look very masculine, sometimes rude, so I supposed that the patriarchy still rules EE, though. Anyway, so sorry for your friend, he already got a lesson and we let just hope that he won't make the same mistake again.

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

                  Oh he's sticking to his guns. The girl is flying here next week, he says.

                  [–]bobaisdope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  This is so cringe, man. Your friend is 30 years old and got fucked up by oneitis. Thank God that I know about this sub in my 20s.

                  [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  I think your buddy might be beyond blue pill'd. Even most blue pill cucks I knew wouldn't do this shit.

                  [–]clammastak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  This is why most beta male can't handle paying for it. If you are alpha, understand that its a transactional relationship, get your pussy from them, then leave them, there's no reason why anyone shouldn't pay for it, especially if traveling to the philippines. It's the easiest way to access it, gain some abundance mentality, get rid of that sexual tension, and go back to your home country a renewed man. feel what it's like to have two girls (or more) suck your dick at the same time, shower with them at the same time, and then toss their tip money at themat the same time. then ask them to gtfo. don't take her back with you, that's just as beta as it gets. i agree, most of those workers (and civilians) are low IQ, so you're just asking for all kinds of headache trying to talk logic/sense to them.

                  [–]Herrowgayboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  That's not paying for pussy. That's just being retarded.

                  [–]SwampRat1037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  what is the name of the CTU he works for? could be the next rainbow six operator...

                  [–]StradivariusUkulele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  A better advice would be "Do not pay too much for pussy"

                  [–]Zchavago 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  That’s not paying for pussy, that’s leasing it.

                  [–]Future_Alpha 1 point2 points  (1 child)

                  Is this Russia/Ukraine? Sounds like something a Russian/Ukranian guy would do.

                  [–]rrealnigga 1 point2 points  (2 children)

                  Why does he give you his card details to buy the ticket for him? He can't do that?

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  He walks half an hour every month to pay his phone bill. I pay mine online. He's terrible at computers

                  [–]rrealnigga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  did he also fail highschool? it sounds like he is generally not very sharp

                  [–]WholesomeAwesome 1 point2 points  (3 children)

                  So if that's the median wage in US, $60k, my friend here would make $120k per year in US.

                  wtf does that even mean. He makes 1*12 12K per month.

                  he makes roughly $1k per month

                  credit card details to book him a plane ticket.

                  pretty smart ...

                  You're an idiot too.

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

                  Consumer purchasing power. Have you heard of it?

                  Example: 1 Apartment in the hottest area of our country, right in the middle of the city, costs roughly $120k. How much does an apartment with 3 bedrooms cost in the middle of London, San Francisco, Auckland, Toronto?

                  I found a 3 bedroom apartment in San Francisco for 5.5 million dollars that has less space than what I can buy in my country. That's roughly 50 times more expensive.

                  Don't hate if you have no idea about something. Also don't call people idiots, they might know a shit ton more than they let show.

                  [–]Andgelyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  Your friend ain’t all that cracked up to be if he’s wasting away his life and earnings for some cheap overseas women.

                  [–]Ninokun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  Lol do. if ur in Thailand and a Pop is 20 Dollars.

                  Every Pussy has its Price. even if its only Time.

                  [–]MarinTaranu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                  Stay away from Filipinas, the whole nation is mentally retarded.

                  [–]acidpixie 2 points3 points  (8 children)

                  Seeing a lot of hate on Filipino women here. Don't generalise an entire ethnicity, you are just fucking yourself. I've had plenty of fun with some absolutely drop dead sexy Filipino girls. Obviously a lot of you here are still working through some anger issues. If you're stupid enough to even go on a second date with a girl who doesn't put out (whatever race she is) then you are the problem not her. I'm a high SMV Australian male so I might be having a different experience than most of you but I've never had a Filipino girl want anything from me other than cum.

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                  [–]HappyMexican 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  Yeah I have met more then enough expats who are very happy with their arrangements. They know whats real and what is not and are smart about their money. It can be a real good situation for older guys who just want to have a slim, sexy and obedient GF/Wife, and don't expect all the romance that western society says they should be experiencing. They already had their first loves at age 19 20, married them and now are divorced. Past that stage.

                  Truth be told if you don't have 10k of burnable cash sitting around in a bank account, then you shouldn't even be considering this route. couple grands for vacations and another 1k for "Visits"... You get a lot for your money but that's part of the reason the money just gets burned though quickly.

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Wasting your life savings and getting her in your sad eastern europe country instead of you going to the tropical Philippines is not worth it, however.

                  Good for you, my brother.

                  [–]TheseNthose 1 point2 points  (1 child)

                  you pay for it one way or another, monetarily or otherwise.

                  [–]RompeChocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Should of paid for the local prostitute instead.

                  [–]kiwi_like_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  This is a righteous story Brother. Thank you for sharing it.

                  [–]DaddyLong68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Holy shit what is wrong with your friend Get him on TRP for gods sake

                  [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  It’s refreshing to know I’ll never be as bad as this guy, that’s grim.

                  [–]Ricklogical 0 points1 point  (3 children)

                  1k per month is 12k per year. I'm confused.

                  I feel good and bad for him. If she gets there and behaves good for him.

                  If she leaves him that is a big investment lost, hopefully he learns.

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

                  Savings + bank loan + his mom gave him her life savings

                  [–]Ricklogical 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  Yah I just meant he himself only makes 12k a year. Am I right?

                  [–]THEbigred60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  I have a friend that used to be like this. He’s not anymore, thank God, because she had some other dude’s baby. Why do some men do the most for trash women?

                  [–]Grimsterr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Oh, you're gonna pay for pussy, that's a given, your subject should be don't OVERPAY for pussy, and don't be a dumbass, your friend is a dumbass of the highest caliber.

                  [–]Budfox_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  No wonder authorities are such dicks

                  Imagine being told by this person you are wrong and watching him make terrible judgement

                  [–]thewrecker8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Here I thought this was going to be a post on the downfalls of paying for a hooker. Turns out it's how this guy could've gotten laid way more if he actually spent the money he did on this chick on hookers.

                  [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

                  He's ruining his strong genetic pool by pulling this shit, what are his parents telling him?

                  If my kid tried to marry a dumb girl who was a hard 3, I don't give a shit how old he is and if it's his life, I would never stand for that.

                  I'm usually pretty chilled out, but in this case I'd tell him to shut the fuck up and find a girl in his league. This is a good way to waste your life and ruin your genetic pool, someone needs to help your blue pilled friend.

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  You can only help people that want to be helped. He probably thinks he's some sort of white knight in shinning armor.

                  I had to be broken 3 times before I broke the social conditioning, and that happened when I was 20. My faggot flatmate still hasn't gone through the hoops. No hate for our bros who like cocks.

                  [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Yup that's sad, his parents gave them good genes, but apparently nothing else like life lessons.

                  Girls don't approach hot guys because they're intimidated, your friend has to at least understand that much in his 20's.

                  I don't know whether I'm mad at your friend or feel sorry for him.

                  [–]adool999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Rent and utilities cost $100

                  Jesus christ i wanna move there.

                  [–]casemodsalt2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  What about dinner dates? What is a good ratio of money to pussy?

                  [–]Atolla2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  What is wrong with these people....

                  [–]pariscafet 0 points1 point  (2 children)

                  Man, I would hate to have OP as a friend. If S.W.A.Tard was my friend I would've taken his ass to Vegas the second he mentioned "online dating".

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  I proposed something to the tune of that to him, not Vegas but Ibiza, and all I heard was "I'm a family man now".

                  He had been talking with the girl for 2 weeks.

                  [–]pariscafet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                  Funny story, I know this guy who's behaving in the same way. Didn't get much tail in highschool, and now he's 'online dating' this chick on the other side of the country. Super-oneitis. One day he's skyping this chick, and her roomate comes into frame, half naked. Then she asks him to check out this mark/rash on her ass. Dude's getting cucked from a chick who isn't even 2000 miles away. (The idea of)Pussy makes men do crazy things.

                  [–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Your friend pays for an illusion of unicorn.

                  This is what he wants so badly.

                  [–]timowens862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Your friend is the dumbest spineless faggot imaginable

                  [–][deleted]  (2 children)

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                  [–]Exodia324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  No, it's a 5 minute mile. It's not that far fetched, either, considering hundreds and thousands of people broke the 4 minute mile, which is 25% faster.

                  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four-minute_mile

                  [–]gorgerwerty 0 points1 point  (2 children)

                  Well yeah he is retarded, but I don't see the problem in paying $1,000 for a couple hours with a 10 if you are loaded.

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  Me neither. But he paid 14k for 2 or 3 sex sessions with a hard 3. And that was all his money.

                  He would have had a better ROI if he just yolo'ed it at a casino

                  [–]gorgerwerty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Yeah your friend is an idiot. I doubt anyone can talk some sense into him. He may just be lost.

                  [–]TheDevilsAdvokaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Jesus....

                  I really hope he learns from this.

                  The thing is, if she's really interested you don't need to spend money on her anyway.

                  If the only way you can keep things going is via money....well she's not really your girl; you're just renting her. And when the money runs out she will be gone.

                  If I can't keep a girl interested in me without spending money (It happens...) then I just let her go.

                  [–]d4ng3rz0n3 0 points1 point  (5 children)

                  I made over $14K just this week LOL

                  [–]Exodia324[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  That's dope! What are you doing?

                  [–]FinancialMagus 0 points1 point  (2 children)

                  Solid - on track for nearly $1m annually then. You either are a corporate exec or own a fairly successful business. I make a bit less than half that weekly (mid-level exec in corp america).

                  [–]d4ng3rz0n3 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  I own a couple of small businesses actually

                  [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  He could have had an array of escorts for a few years with that money.

                  It's really sad to see men that throw resources at a girl in order to attain a relationship when they could have had a variety of different pussy.

                  [–]st3roids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Its one thing to pay another to go full retard.

                  Paying for quality hookers is fine , especially in countries that is allowed and you get older the better because if you think you can get hot home at your 60 without been am illion you are delusional.

                  but never go full retard

                  [–]Ramsay1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  That is the only way I could possibly get it.

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