Advices number 1: Don't do things for women.
I'm not talking about the typical blooper "nice guy" bullshit, and I'm not just talking about paying for dates and hoping to touch a boob. I mean this in a radical sense: you don't need to do anything for women to get them to fuck you.
Stating the obvious, for the rankest amateurs among us: You don't do things for women that you have NOT had sex with.
Less obvious, but this also holds for women you have had sex with.
And I'm here to make the bold claim that this holds for the entire continuum of relationships, from the early stages of interactions with a particular woman, all the way to many year long LTRs.
In initial interactions with a woman: If you're unclear on the general concept of it, the shit test is a woman offering a man the opportunity to classify himself. With regard to the present subject, this is entirely under your control. You can very simply classify yourself in her eyes as a man who either does things FOR women, or does things TO women.
It's your choice which group you end up in. If you think providing goods and services is going to tip the scales in your favor, don't be surprised when she starts thinking of you as a combination ATM and servant. Not sexy.
She's going to think, even if only subconsciously, and even if it isn't true, "This man is doing things for me because he is inadequate just by himself. I'll continue taking stuff from him, but I want a man who turns me on just with his physique, his style, his status, and his exciting life."
And this continues to be the case as time goes by. Here's what happens in a LTR when you do things for women. They get relaxed; they get comfortable. Their needs are met. Yours aren't. She isn't thinking about you. Because women are fundamentally lazy and selfish.
Don't women need to be comfortable to be ready for sex? LOL no they do not. In fact, the opposite is true. Getting her agitated can work very well for you. See below.
So I'm telling you that doing things for women is not only ineffective, it can actually work against you. And you're going to wonder what will happen when you don't buy her gifts and do shit for her. She is going to be pissed, right?
Advices number 2: Don't be afraid to have a woman be mad at you.
I remember a pivotal time in my personal Red Pill journey, years before TRP was a thing; a very simple story, but the lasting results were immense for me.
Scene: This woman left an empty container of something out, clearly indicating that I should go to the store and get another. Well, she had done something stupid or careless the day before, and I didn't feel like going to the store, so I didn't. I fully expected her to see that I didn't do the thing and blow up and freak out and say We need to TALK!
Didn't happen. She saw it wasn't replaced, and said "oh dear" and went to the store herself. And we banged when she got home, because she was agitated and unsure of where she stood in the relationship.
Subconsciously she realized that she was with a man who had more important shit to do than fetch crap for her, who wasn't going to be ordered around, and who didn't care about her stupid shit.
After that was repeated a few times, I had the courage of my convictions. The relationship is good, the sex is frequent and enthusiastic, I haven't done anything for her in years, and she is happy. And so I leave you with this:
Relationships are hard work is some cast-iron Blue Pill Bullshit.
Advices number 3: You don't work on the relationship. You work on yourself.
tl;dr: Make yourself into the man that women want, they won't care that you don't do anything FOR them, and they will want you to do things TO them, like fuck them in stairwells, or in a stranger's van parked on a public street, pile driver over the seatbacks.
This has been a pubic service announcement.