Field ReportFat girls to men is equivalent to what Beta males are to females. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by swimminginblue

It’s Saturday night, we’re celebrating a friends birthday party, I’m with my boys, older brother and his friends having a great time by the bar, holding court and trading war stories.


“ Fuck!! these fat bitches! The nerve! Why is she looking at me.“...

“ Is she really trying to get with me? who does she think I am?”

Proclaimed one of my brothers friends, A red pill man by many standards, 28YO in shape, working in finance with a six figure salary and a small real estate portfolio on the side.

As we looked over to the source of his contempt, we observed a scene primarily reserved for the National Geographic. A herd of what couldn’t only be described as post wall or on the verge of it, very slutty dressed hippopotamuses.

After a few minutes of furious laughter at his frustration and her attempts to open my friend. it settled in on me. This expression, as comedic as it was, actually had a lot of symbolism to it - other than the fact that fat women are not attracted to fat men - ironically

If as a human being, I cannot even do the bare minimum to take care of my body, why should anyone be attracted to me ? what have I done to attract that beautiful girl who works out everyday and plans her meals ?

See, he was frustrated because he has worked hard to improve himself, to shape himself into the masculine man and being approached by a woman who could not even control what she put into her mouth, thinking that she was worthy of him, was taken as an insult.

As women are insulted by the advances of beta males, so are men ( * who know what they deserve ) by fat women

Society has taught us to “ accept people as they are” and to be “ just be yourself “. This as I have come to learn from this community, is self destructive at best.

Lesson: Work hard and know what you deserve, and if anyone offers you less, don’t be afraid to tell them to fuck off

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 912 points913 points  (48 children)

Reminds me of an old joke:

Q: "Why are fat girls so nice?"

A: "Because they have to be."

[–]Fedor_Gavnyukov 530 points531 points  (15 children)

an old joke

indeed its old. now they don't even have to be nice anymore.

[–]Sonic324 102 points103 points  (3 children)

The new reality of a post-modern society. Enjoy your stay while it lasts.

[–]LilSlurrreal 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Post modernism has been around for like 100 years you oaf.

[–]Sonic324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao. You’re a fucking dumbass

[–][deleted] 64 points65 points  (9 children)

Yep. They can be angry feminists now

[–]StraightWhiteMaleLOL 23 points24 points  (7 children)

They can, but ain't nobody hitting that

[–]SPREAD_THE_LOVE_7791 20 points21 points  (3 children)

I see good looking guys go for absolute whales all the time. Being a desperate loser will make you do crazy things.

[–]StraightWhiteMaleLOL 12 points13 points  (1 child)

I'd rather jerk off than fuck a whale. A little meat is OK but the angry feminist type tends to usually be obese and generally lacking aesthetically.

[–]Alexinfinite01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I fucked my first whale several months ago. It was fun, she had a big rack and I was down for it. But she threw in the towel when I literally fell off of her when I was on top. I guess she didn't think it was as funny as I did lol

[–]1AlfredKinsey 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There are dudes hitting that and probably even more trying to. TRPers probably aren't, but this mindset is not the mindset of the majority. Made up fact, but I'll defend it to my death.

[–]ATPsynthase12 9 points10 points  (1 child)

They are angry feminists because no one is hitting that.

I have literally never met a hot feminist who wants to “rage” against the patriarchy. Why? Because the patriarchy treats beautiful women like royalty.

Ugly, Blue haired wildebeests don’t get that treatment and it drives them to be angry. Why are they angry? Because literally the only thing keeping them from getting the hot girl treatment is their genetics/eating habit. So because they feel victimized because of something they can’t control, they lash out.

[–]pinkalligator333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They can control their eating habit but msm says they don’t have to

[–]TheRealJesusChristus 21 points22 points  (0 children)

They still wont get anyone. But they are encouraged and told that they are beautifull (when I would tell a fat chick she was beautifull Id have to wash my mouth with soap afterwards... irks)

[–]ArmaniDiamonds 1 points1 points [recovered]

Fat girls are cunts though. I heard it a different way.

Q: "Why are fat girls so into giving head?"

A: "Because they have to."

[–]solstone109 43 points44 points  (4 children)

TBH the best blowjob I've ever gotten was from a fat chick :p

[–]1Your_Coke_Dealer 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It is a well known fact that fat chicks give good head. It is also embarrassing to have your bros think you fucked a fat chick and need to clarify "it was just head"

[–]Raknith 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The worst one I've ever had was from a fat chick. It was honestly like she never did it before.

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

No it’s: because they’re hungry

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (2 children)

Howard Stern had Heather Locklear on a few years ago, back when she was still hot. I'll never forget what he said.

"I bet you're unbelievable in bed. I bet you have sex like a fat chick."

[–]Butt_Man_69 10 points11 points  (1 child)

Who knows... he may have gotten some. Big tall, ugly nerds with loud mouths can be secret nerd pimps.

[–]1AlfredKinsey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretend you were just given reddit gold for this one.

[–]Reefer-eyed_Beans 1 points1 points [recovered]

Doesn't make sense. You don't have to be into giving head to give head. Also makes no sense to call someone a cunt just because you don't like the way they look. It actually makes you a really shitty person. Can't wait to be downvoted to oblivion for promoting basic decency...

[–]privacythrowaway2003 22 points23 points  (6 children)

I'd rather be honest, than be a virtue signaling douche who tries to project his morals onto people on the internet.

[–]modTheRedPike 8 points9 points  (5 children)

Yes, he's banned now.

[–]Temptationn 24 points25 points  (1 child)

Is it me or is fat bitches the meanest ones now? they're always the loud cock blocks in the group of hotties.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Could be. But that's now how the joke goes.

[–]savagepatchkid 50 points51 points  (4 children)

Reminds me of an old quote:

When I see a pretty girl walking down the street I think two things. One part of me wants to take her out and talk to her and be real nice and sweet and treat her right.

And what did the other part think?

What her head would look like on a stick.

[–][deleted] 53 points54 points  (1 child)

You watched too much American Psycho

[–]smaffit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The joke is:

Q: Why do fat girls always give the best blowjobs?

A: Because they have to!

[–][deleted] 314 points315 points  (37 children)

The only difference is women will use beta men and eventually settle down with one so they can provide for the family.

We don’t give a shit about fat women.

[–]banjew 221 points222 points  (27 children)

Sad and true fact: Fat women fuck a lot. Way more than beta men. And if they have any amount of tits they can get easily in a LTR.

[–]yomo86 51 points52 points  (4 children)

A beta man's money is the equivalent of fat woman's promiscuity. It is the only thing they have.

[–]TheReformist94 12 points13 points  (0 children)

At least they're getting laid

[–]BlackCraneStoic 8 points9 points  (2 children)

That's the reason why promiscuous chicks are looked so down upon by men and women alike. We use them to dine and dash while women use betas for their bank stash. It all balances out.

[–]PreOrgasmGroanLness 1 point2 points  (1 child)

promiscuous chicks are looked so down upon by men and women alike

Your kind. I enjoy promiscuity. You must enjoy ASD and LMR.

[–]BlackCraneStoic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you must enjoy playing Russian roulette with every STD known to man and cuckholdry. Nothing like being pegged the babydaddy of some kid by a slut who laid half the city. We all have our enjoyments!

[–]Backfist 101 points102 points  (9 children)

There is a fat girl at my work with huge tits...sometimes I want to make bad decisions with her.

[–]banjew 255 points256 points  (4 children)

There's the saying: Fat women with huge tits are like scooters: Fun to ride but don't let anybody see you with one.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not true. you can be overweight and have small boobs, it depends how the fat's stored. just saying - i don't like how you guys are talking about "fat chicks" like this.

[–]Backfist 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Wisdom for the ages bahaha

[–]Spilledmychips 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No one is ever assuming the fat person is sexual with whoever they are with, most people actually ask “really?” Over 3 times before even breaks believing if you slept with/relations with this person.

True story athletic girls do everything better. I messed with fat girls to see if there was anything to miss.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (2 children)

fat girl at my work with huge tits

just wait until that bra comes off.......

no decisions will be made in my book.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am so not clicking on that link.... /grin

[–]banjew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would fuck her like an angry god.

[–]Suave_Terry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fucked a fat chick once after getting wasted. Amazing tits and surprisingly great lay. Would never be seen in public with her, but damn if I wouldn't fuck her again.

[–]1AlfredKinsey 31 points32 points  (3 children)

My obese next door neighbor pulls at least two new guys a week when she wants to.

[–]PhaedrusHunt 12 points13 points  (2 children)

My best friend since childhood actually loves fat women. He's dated some hit women too. He can pull. I don't get it.

[–]Jigsus 34 points35 points  (0 children)

That's just his preference. Nothing wrong with that.

[–]euparkeria 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Life would be so easy if i liked fat women. I would pay for rewire my brain for this preference.

[–]TonytheNetworker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fat women fuck a lot.

So fucking true. I've had a few fatties before and they would casually let it slip that they had threesomes and guys running a train on them. Will never forget when one told me "I'm getting tired of having threesomes, I just need to settle down with a nice guy in a few years who can provide for ME, buy a house for ME, and treat me like a Queen.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And if they have any amount of tits they can easily get in a LTR

They’ll just find an extreme beta buck that has no chance with any girls besides HB 1s 2s and 3s. They’ll treat a fat girl with tits like a queen.

[–]KristenLuvsCATS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've found that fat women always end up settling down with beta men. It's funny. Can't really be mad at that.

[–]Fedor_Gavnyukov 154 points155 points  (8 children)

"mens'" standards have dropped so low these days its appalling. i don't frequent clubs as often as i used to, but i still do about twice a month and observing the scene is just sad. a lot of it has to do with social media as well, these whales get showered with attention on instagram by posting angled shots of themselves to appear thinner. betas blow up their head so they think they're entitled to a bodybuilder prince in reality. their attitude is absolute shit in person as well. one of them tried grabbing my ass as i was walking by them at a club last weekend. i slapped her hand off before it could reach me and she barked something at me as i was walking off.

don't settle for this shit my bros. talking to hot broads is a lot easier than you think.

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (2 children)

Lmao. You smote that beast down bruh

[–]1Entropy-7 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why does the term "frumious bandersnatch" come to mind?

[–][deleted] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I’d pay good money to see the look on her face when you did that, vile and contorted in rage and concealed humiliation. I’d try it myself, but these girls are quick, I’m a scholar, not a baseball player, I don’t have the speed to bat these bitches off.

[–]wayneinthegame 19 points20 points  (2 children)

Its unbelievable how good they can get at social media pictures. There's a whale at work huge back tits but see her fb pic and she looks hot.

False advertising.

[–][deleted] 129 points130 points  (14 children)

BP guys can't afford to say no to fat girls. In the blue-pill reality, fat pussy is better than zero pussy, and her chunky butt may be the last piece of ass you ever get.

RP men can afford to say no to fat pussy, stupid pussy, drunk pussy, passed-out pussy, period pussy, dirty pussy, stinky pussy, best friend's sister's pussy, grandma pussy, and complicated pussy, because there's always more pussy.

[–]1Entropy-7 43 points44 points  (6 children)

Dealers' choice. Many RP guys will fuck anything to put another notch in their cock.

[–]avocadowithsalt123 22 points23 points  (1 child)

Well, kind of. I have a fair share of 9s but also a fair share of chubby chicks. I enjoy fucking them.

But chubby..not whales.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

don't forget Apple pie pussy

[–]RPmatrix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

RP men can afford to say no to fat pussy, stupid pussy, drunk pussy, passed-out pussy, period pussy, dirty pussy, stinky pussy, best friend's sister's pussy, grandma pussy, and complicated pussy, because

there's always more pussy.

lol yep!

[–]Falconsbeardedchess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I especially like drama-free pussy.

[–]herefortheparty01 277 points278 points  (50 children)

But beta personality’s will perpetuate these fat disrespectful things into believing they deserve an attractive man.

[–]banjew 175 points176 points  (13 children)

Through my 20 year beta period it's always the same pattern with my LTRs:

Start dating, girl relaxes, gets 40-50 pounds overweight. I just can't fuck fat women, relationship deteriorates, breakup.

That's how you end fucking fat girls. Now that I'm somewhat less betard, my girlfriend actually lost 10 pounds since we are dating. She knows what happens if she doesn't, she see me gaining 20 pounds of muscle in the same period. She's hotter, healthier and happier that way.

[–]Rommel0502 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Market forces at work, again.

[–]hierophantoms 19 points20 points  (3 children)

Ditto ~ In the gym six days a week, twice a day and my girl started gaining weight from eating too many carbs for breakfast... after other hot chicks started comparison vibing in front of us she started doing fasted hiit sprints in the am to maintain her smv.. shes on point now.

[–]RPangerandacceptance 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I think I understand vaguely what comparison vibes are, but do you have any examples of this behavior. I googled “comparison vibe” and all I got was a bunch of articles about shitty Pontiac cars.

[–]hierophantoms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha... chicks comparing themselves to a guys chick ( or vis a vis )

[–]Mukato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same story here. She stuffed her face and put on 10 pounds, while i lost 20. she saw the interest from other girls and now, magically, she stopped eating as many sweets and buying carb heavy snacks because "she doesn't want to get fat"

[–]Throwawaysteve123456 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It's so true. Everyone thinks of shit like Tinder for inflating these girls egos, but it's more the betas that keep the cycle going.

[–]Cryxtalix 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I hardly care about what they feel themselves, as long as I'm not affected. I see great guys with these women, he got a bad deal, but it's got nothing to do with me.

The worst thing they do is to go around arguing with scientists, doctors, nutritionists and politicians that being overweight is ok. And it's also hurting their feelings so everyone should just zip it.

Bloody hell, these shits and their poisons trying to spread it everywhere. In which universe is being fat ok?

[–]Rudeyyyy 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I like when they try to come up with excuses

It runs in the family

LMFAO no one runs in your family.

[–]RomanDad 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Methinks he doth protest too much.

The opposite of interest isn’t contempt. It’s apathy. And if your friend were truly the stud he wants you to think he is, and has this reaction to casual unwanted flirting, he’d literally spend his entire fucking day, ranting and raving about attention from women he’s not interested in.

An alpha male doesn’t need to be rude or a show off or put others down to validate himself. He’s too busy being himself. Your friend isn’t an alpha. He’s an insecure Alpha Henry.

[–]BewareTheOldMan 58 points59 points  (3 children)

I posted the below comments to another discussion thread, but the statements are appropriate for the discussion:

A lot of "Fat Acceptance/Body Positive /Healthy at Every Size (HAES) women refuse to consider overweight/obese men for ANY kind of relationship - yet have expectations for High Value, handsome, hard-working, financially stable, and highly fit men. Also - he's GOT to be loyal and treat her like a princess.

Fat men are their cohort - essentially their best candidates, but many won't even consider the possibility of dating/marrying a man close to their own weight.

It's ridiculous - I've even seen this amazing line somewhere: "We can't both be fat" - hence, it's the woman making demands because what...vagina?

Shaming language directed toward men who are attracted to thin, good-looking women is a common tactic. Most men are attracted to thin women versus obese, sloppy, and disgusting women – especially as outlined by the man’s disgust as described in the original summary/posting.

As women are insulted by the advances of beta males, so are men…by fat women…

You almost need a social science degree/psychology certification to "analyze" how obese women have the entitlement mindset.

...fat women are not attracted to fat men - ironically...

Ironic - indeed.

[–]WhorehouseVet 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not ironic at all, what we're seeing are just unchecked hypergamy.

Fat shaming was the most effective tool to keep women not fat, but with "feelz before realz" all that's out the window.

[–]WesternStoic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They actually aren’t wrong in assuming they don’t have to fuck fat guys because they get plenty of dick some average guys or even high smv guys that are just really drunk or on drugs

[–][deleted] 66 points67 points  (11 children)

A buddy of mine who's black says that without fail, everytime he's at the bar, some fat chick will try to get with him. He says it really pisses him off that they assume he's into them because he's black. He's also an ex-football player and jacked as fuck, so there's no way he's going for someone like that.

[–]1TimmyTurnersNuts 28 points29 points  (7 children)

Lmao is this me? Nah but seriously. Being black we already have to maximize our SMV depending upon location, to get 8 and ups. Nothing is more degrading than being a well put together dude and some fat fucking land whale thinking she has even a shot of sniffing your ballsack. It’s degrading and insulting.

[–]fitbarbie123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dwayne Johnson's wife is thin and beautiful. Will Smith's wife is thin and beautiful. Seal was married to Heidi Klum and she is an iconic beautiful thin Victoria Secret model and Wil Smith's wife is thin and beautiful.

[–]swimminginblue[S] 10 points11 points  (4 children)

I disagree, black guys are high up on the SMV just as white guys as opposed to the disadvantage brown and Asian guys have

[–]1ozaku7 32 points33 points  (1 child)

She just needs a huge cock because all that fat doesn't allow for any white guys to penetrate deep enough trough the fat to actually enter the vagina.

[–]Oh_Debussy 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. I'm black but I'd rather die than fuck a fat girl

[–]swimminginblue[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

haha there is this black club in my city and we always make the joke that it’s the one place fat girls will walk in with confidence and expect to score

[–]Compeliminator 35 points36 points  (2 children)

Im not into fat girls either but im allways nice when they approach and i make a point to talk to them. Women love rejecting men to feed their egos but i dont get any joy from it.

[–]swimminginblue[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah doesn’t hurt to be nice

[–]DouglasPR 8 points9 points  (0 children)

true. Carma is carma, man. In my country we say a guy must date his share of ugly women so the universe gets its balance and reward him with more hot girls

[–]2Dmva100 204 points205 points  (18 children)

All fat women have biologically evolved no-gag reflexes in order to swallow buckets of cum. This is the only chance they have to secure a high value man's commitment, as they are at a severe disadvantage to the tight pussy of hot 18 year old cheerleaders.

Plating fat women is an acceptable course of action for dry spells, but ONLY for blowjob. That way, you can still get your rocks off without having to say you fucked a fat chick. She will always comply when you have to stoop to such a level to grace her with your prescene.

No PIV sex! Do not fuck the big warm pot roast that is her coochie. Use her for the beastly tongue that slurps up the Golden Corrale gravy and Baskin Robins ice cream at record speeds.

[–]GuyTerror 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha I laughed so hard at this!

[–]natodraht 1 points1 points [recovered]

A friend about fat chicks: "They are good in bed, because they need to make a lasting impression"

[–]wayneinthegame 86 points87 points  (3 children)

There's a lasting impression in the bed when they get up.

[–]wayward_mtndwllr 24 points25 points  (0 children)

FACTS lmao was literally typing a comment saying just that. fat chicks definitely have a place in the world, they can pass the time pretty decently while requiring no true effort for those with any game.

[–]Martysteiner 6 points7 points  (7 children)

Well written like a poet! And fatties for blowies only 😏

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hilarious, I do believe my sides have split. Me personally though, I find a bit of extra weight on a girl with big tits sexual af, but only when she would otherwise be naturally good looking. And of course, I wouldn’t be caught dead with her in public.

[–]RPAlias 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard I started coughing. Thank you!

[–]WolfofAnarchy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was just about to say this

[–]tibikush2012 36 points37 points  (1 child)

Your friend sounds like a super insecure prick. I also automatically reject fat women as I am not attracted to them... But I am sure as hell don't feel like angry if they try...

This reddit is full of complaints of how women are bastards for rejecting guys in horrible manners or talking behind a guy's back.. Yet when a guy acts like a woman (maybe your friend is gay?) everyone yells "halleluja!!!"

[–]Achterhaven 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly. this is like the fat women who makes a big show of being super picky and rejecting any guy before she gets rejected.

If you feel the need to overtly reject someone in front of a group then its because you are scared that the group thinks you might be on that level.

[–][deleted] 51 points52 points  (2 children)

The problem is that fat girls know they are unattractive, they are taught from a young age how to attract men. Deep down they know why, and are just too lazy to change themselves, but can still get the occasional lay now and then. You would be amazed how many fat girls can get cock. Betas however are taught to "just be fat" growing up, and most have no clue as to why they are unattractive.

Until they end up here. 250,000 subscribers ladies, the truth is setting everyone free.

[–]1AlfredKinsey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, TRP bringing the fatty psychology right here. Srs, good illustration of sex differences.

[–]Scientist_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! Yes. I find it so frustrating that men are not told the truth: you better get your bodyfat percentage low (10% to 15% ) or get used to never fucking anyone attractive.

[–]JustTwist4Fun 21 points22 points  (2 children)

I like thick fat bottom girls with a skinny waist and big boobs.

[–]TheRussianCosmonaut 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A fat women becoming angry because a man is not attracted to her is no different than a gay man becoming angry because another straight dude is not attracted to him

[–]SorcerousFaun 5 points6 points  (2 children)

I feel there is a buffet of truth in TRP, but I'm only ready for bite size pieces. There's no shame at swallowing the TRP at my own pace, right?

[–]swimminginblue[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To each their own, I had to take it all at once. Bluemonia was killing me and I needed medication fast.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 29 points30 points  (2 children)

As your SMV improves, you will notice a marked increase in the number of women who actively and overtly open you.

Getting actively hit on by fat low SMV bitches may seem annoying and beneath you, but it is a clear indicator that your efforts are becoming externally visible.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agree 110%. Surprised this isn't voted up higher actually. It's also a good way to learn how to behave when you don't want to have sex with a woman, without causing her to despise you for it. Good practice, as it were.

So as you progress, when the hottie at the company higher in employment status than you decides she wants you, you can turn her down without getting your ass fired by HR, or worse.

[–][deleted] 34 points35 points  (8 children)

Which is impressive that women even befriend these guys. I don't enjoy being friends with a fat girl who is waiting for her chance to make a move on me. I'd rather just skip the entire thing.

[–]Malice10 15 points16 points  (2 children)

Women like to use men for their resources thats why. Her beta friends will do favors for her.

[–]ArmaniDiamonds 1 points1 points [recovered]

Ding! Ding! Ding!

Always a free meal available for them

[–]wayneinthegame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beta males give you free meals.

Fat girls eat YOUR meal too.

[–]PatsFever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk having an orbiter would be kind of fun.

[–]blurtard 6 points7 points  (2 children)

I do. There’s a fat girl at work who brings me coffee every day and covers all of the shifts I need covered

[–]ioncehadsexinapool 7 points8 points  (1 child)

So in other words, be attractive and your life will be better. Not /s btw. I had a philosophy professor talk about that once it was really interesting.

[–]sixseven89 13 points14 points  (7 children)

Well, some guys are okay with or even prefer chicks on the fatter side whereas almos no women like betas so the title isnt completely true

[–]PatsFever 13 points14 points  (5 children)

I’ve never met an alpha who prefers fat girls. Statistically speaking, sure there are a few are out there, but I’ve never met one.

[–]schwiz 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Depends on your definition of 'fat’ how much over ideal body weight percentage? Some might say 20 lb over is fat. Others might prefer it to someone who's like 12% body weight.

[–]PatsFever 4 points5 points  (2 children)

I mean thick only works because they’re prime mating age, second they hit 27 or so, the ‘thick’ turns to cellulite.

[–]muriXO 27 points28 points  (5 children)

The same thing came to my mind a few days ago.

A good friend of mine has a friend, who is a fat chick and she has her own place so we sometimes smoked hookah there with a few other girls and boys. This fat chick told a girl friend of mine that she really liked me, but was mad at me for not liking her back. I was really offended by that. Who does she think I am? How would a guy like me ever like a fat girl like her?

I really understand how girls feel disgusted with beta boys now.

Good Post OP.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

This is a red pill tenet by the way. A man can be refused by a woman no problem. (other than the sting of rejection) He moves on.

A woman, however, will despise a man who clearly sexually rejects her.

You can be offended all you want, but that's like being offended that women aren't sexually attracted to guys who "just be themselves"

This gets really important later in life when you work with women in positions of power. There are ways to turn down women without clearly rejecting them.

[–]muriXO 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I work with a lot of women in positions of power. Could you elaborate why that is important there? How can you turn down women without really rejecting them?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I's important for the reason I just mentioned, they will despise you. The hindbrain controls, and if you think you can turn a woman down above you sexually, with zero repercussions good luck with that. Even at the workplace.

Just throw a little beta out there. Ask questions of another man, show a little indecision, follow rules, as long as it's non-work related, like a hobby. You have to pretend like you "just don't get it". Just enough to make her wonder. You have to pull this off and still be a rock star at work. It's a pain in the fucking ass. Way, way better to prevent it from getting too far.

[–]1AlfredKinsey 2 points3 points  (1 child)

This is a good thing to keep in mind while working on yourself and pursuing women.

Don't let yourself be in a position where you would offend a woman or high status male in this way.

[–]BlackCraneStoic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Well put OP. The same feeling that men on their game and grind have when fat chicks think they're on their level is the same feeling of disgust HB7+ chicks have when soyboys think they can tag them.

[–]slackbladerered 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Quality over quantity(literally) IMO

[–]jrr6415sun 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I know some guys that love fat girls

[–]oldrunnerguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many times these men think it is an easier avenue towards getting their sexual needs fulfilled. Just wait until you put an overpriced rock on one of these women's fingers, then all bets are off. As with any relationship, a married woman has the leverage, and the sex starts to go away.

[–]Spacey_Lacy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will forever smile at the thought of your friend dying alone :)

[–]pevans12 28 points29 points  (2 children)

I went out last evening and wake up this morning thinking about the poor actions I witnessed last evening at the local bar as well.

A friend of a friend was celebrating her birthday along with a few of her other friends. Long story short a ham planet of a woman comes in proclaiming to have gifts in her purse for the birthday girl.

She pulls out a Spencer’s gift type of multi colored penis sucker thing. The friend laughed and placed the unwrapped colored dick in her purse. The ham planet got a little mad she wouldn’t open it and “share it with her other girlfriends”

I without asking grab such dick out of her purse and opened it up and placed it in her mouth... her friends laughed and I introduced myself to the rest of the crowd and ignoring the steaming ham.

hey dick...you don’t go into other girls belongings....-ham

ill do whatever the fuck I want...-me

Anyways, I ended up making out with her outside where people were smoking and such. She ended up getting way to chatty about her boyfriend she had from months prior.... and the smoking thing was a real turn off....

The ham planet didn’t speak with me or make eye contact with me for the rest of the evening.

I would have needed a bag of flour to find that wet spot, let alone the illegal drugs I’d have to snort to think about sticking my dick in that hail damaged geo metro walking though the bar.

The last thing I saw was her eating a plate of fried shit.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

hail damaged geo metro walking though the bar

had to upvote just for that

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (8 children)

It’s gotta be hard being a fat girl 😂 no one wants you, just some unfortunate men settle for it.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (5 children)

Well, some guys actually do want it! http://www.bbwcupid.com

[–]swimminginblue[S] 7 points8 points  (3 children)

My goodness this exists. Is there one for women interested in fat men ?

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wow, you know, I found that by Googling "fat girl dating". When I Google "fat guy dating", I don't see anything catering to women looking for fat guys!

[–]blacklightsleaze 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yea, check some sugar daddy site

[–]Paltenburg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As women are insulted by the advances of beta males

Is this the source of the grudgy saltyness in this sub? "Fuck women, because they treated me as a beta-male badly once".

I'd say get over it.. If a woman is insulted by an advance of anyone, just ignore it and talk to the next one.

[–]muh-soggy-knee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They really aren't. The simple fact is fat girls are higher up the food chain than beta males, unless that beta is overwhelmingly attractive.

There are plenty of fat hookers plying a decent level of trade, that's how far off this comparison is.

[–]bot256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only thing is it takes a lot more effort to build yourself as a man whereas as a female, a lot of girls I know just have natural good looks and know how to dress and this already gives them a pool of betas to choose from. It only makes sense that a guy such as the person you describe who have spend years of hard work on bettering himself to feel entitled and worthy of something much better.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (2 children)

Chateau Heartiste has covered this exact topic with identical words for 10 years

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, among others as well. Occasional refresher is always good I think. I would much rather see these than the weekly "get out and lift" commercial. It's interesting because the light bulb went off in his head, he's figured it out and posts it. Even though yes, not really anything new, but it's classic and base trp knowledge. Now if we start seeing this every week, yeah no thank you.

[–]send_it_for_the_boys 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I use a lot of TRP strategies in my day to day. But from reading on some of these, it’s crazy to see how most of the dudes on here have no self respect. If you don’t want to fuck a girl don’t do it. Have your own standards. I’ve had girls naked on me and I just wasn’t attracted enough to them and the way stds spread around these days just straight told the Bitch to get the fuck off and left. It’s that simple. It’s called self preservation. Know your worth. Don’t ever settle for less than what you had before. Bitches are like jobs. They are a ladder you want to go up the steps not back down or stay in the same step to long.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Good post but, no one "deserves" anything, they must work hard for it.

[–]Ramp_Up_Then_Dump 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Loosing weight is easier than maning up. But even that is too much for them.

[–]SKRedPill 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember one guy posting up on MRP that his wife got so fat and out of shape he wasn't able to get an erection and he was the one being suspected for ED. Marriage and kids however, mean he has to stick. He's bang on about the erection part. I mean after a point, if they get any worse, it makes me slightly sick even. I'd rate some of them as a HB minus if I could stretch the scale that far.

Then again I see a really beautiful young woman in a mobile phone ad - just seeing her seems to take my breath away for a second.

[–]randomman45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This while fat girls are nicer, guve better head, or even have better personalities bit is a lie. Most are mean as hell, just like the warthog they resemble.

[–]DextroShade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nowadays we have this absurd "body positive" movement that tells these hambeasts that they are beautiful and it makes them feel entitled to a top tier man. We need to bring back fat shaming.

[–]baldeagle0304 6 points7 points  (2 children)

But a fat, beta male is like two negatives making a positive, right?

[–]Slayerzyzz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As long as he goes MGTOW and doesn't give women attention he is doing a good deed.

[–]swimminginblue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha if only it worked that way

[–]Venny_1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Society has taught us to “ accept people as they are”...

I have no problem with this maxim to be honest. A lard of a whale wants me to accept her for what she is? Ok! Delve in your beauty darling! Relish it! Just don't expect to get a chance at my mighty pecker, for this holy member is reserved for girls I find attractive, and you better accept that, because this is who I am.

[–]BlackMarmoset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fat girls to men is equivalent to what Beta males are to females.

Actually no. A beta can have a lot of uses for a woman who can manipulate him: money, validation, emotional support or backup.

What use does have a fat girl for a man? She can't even introduce you to her friends because they're probably uglier than her.

[–]SPREAD_THE_LOVE_7791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's worse than self destructive, jeez?

[–]FlatEarther199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bullshit. Fat women have no problem getting laid.

[–]Musicgoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to think of fat girls as, "starter", chicks for the newly red pilled semi virginal guys. Plate a few and get your confidence up.

That being said I think there's a difference between,"fat", and "thick". Thick girls can be fine and totally mashable! Its all about the curves. Pear shaped however, hell no!

[–]shrimpwife 1 points1 points [recovered]

As a RP female I agree entirely. I am 5'8", slender, in shape, active, I eat well, I take care of myself, I have things going for me, I would expect the same out of men who approach me or ask me out. When a fat guy asks me out I do turn them down. When trashy guys who have nothing going for them, guys who have no standards for themselves, I turn them down. I am a nice and friendly person, however this does not mean I will settle for just anyone.

"Lesson: Work hard and know what you deserve, and if anyone offers you less, don’t be afraid to tell them to fuck off" absolutely YES to this statement. Meanwhile in the RPW subreddit, a user told me no one deserves anything. If you work hard and bust your ass, you deserve better. You deserve someone who also works hard and knows their worth. Someone who loves themself and treats their body and mind well.

[–]Thunderfin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol that must've been hilarious.

[–]btcftw1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's all preference. I enjoyed the company of many heffers in my day. Just something fun about it. I didn't marry one tho. I married just the opposite. Sometimes I miss those heffers!

[–]Gnosiis_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This doesn't surprise me at all. I have gotten hit on or received IOIs from fat women, super skinny women, cougars, HB2s and 3s, and even old women. And I mean granny old. They all flirt seemingly without any awareness of their own value compared to a high value man. That's what women do and they'll literally believe they actually have a chance because they're a "nice girl"

[–]threejayg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's all preference. I enjoyed the company of many heffers in my day. Just something fun about it. I didn't marry one tho. I married just the opposite. Sometimes I miss those heffers!

[–]oldrunnerguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes if you're are not attractive person (e.g. ugly) you can't do a whole lot about it. Genetics plays a factor, and many women if they are good with make-up can make themselves look sexier. There is so much stigma about fat-shaming, however as Bill Burr related "It is one thing that a person can do something about", also relating "Go for a walk." Nothing worthwhile ever comes about without a certain amount effort and sacrifice.

I was hit-on by plenty of overweight women back in the 1980s in my dating days. There were many of these women that would use their shaming tactics so that you would go out on a date with them. Their hot friends that would "friend zone" you would be in on their strategy also adding to the shaming and many times deflecting you towards their fat friend(s).

Now these same fat women, in today's day and age, probably need a man to pay for their medical bills. Diabetes, heart disease, etc. plays a part in these women's futures. In other words ladies, it's not just about looking good, it is also living well and taking care of yourself. It is a personal responsibility issue. If I could get these women to get off their butts and hike over a mountain with me, I would. But usually they give up way too quickly and complain about how tired they are and how tough it is.

Can I simplify things? Just force yourself out of the house and go for a walk!!!

[–]p0gop0pe 3 points4 points  (3 children)

This is all fine and good but how do you explain the vast numbers of men that genuinely like fat chicks? I don't think the same applies to women with beta males.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (2 children)

They would prefer skinnier but realize they can't get those. So they delude themselves into adjusting their desires. It hurts less.

[–]TearsOfChildren 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Some guys genuinely like big women. I'm fit and good looking and I like skinny/fit girls but I also like thick girls (160-170) with big boobs (have to have big boobs though). All depends on how the woman carries herself.

[–]RedwallAllratuRatbar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like girls that are bit fatter on face (makes them look younger), but thin enough on the body to make penetration and moving her around easy. Slim or small faces = aging fast imho

[–]1Entropy-7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suppose the difference is that some guys will go on a "buffalo hunt" or "pig fuck" while there is no female equivalent AFAIK.

[–]1ozaku7 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I blame it all on Mika, for releasing the song "Big Girls, You Are Beautiful!"

Ofcourse every fat hog on my FB feed had to share it and feel all happy about it.

One of my grandparents didn't eat for 3 months, barely drank, was over 80 years old. Lost appetite because of serious injury that took 3 months to recover.

The grandparent didn't die. 80 years old, didn't eat for 3 months. Didn't die. Actually, was fine, didn't complain about hunger, nothing.

Granted, grandparent was on the bigger side and lost 50 pounds.

Grandparent got slim, walked much better, overall life improved.

Then grandparent had to open the cakehole again, stuff it with cake, sugar, coffee and crap and within 6 months the 50 pounds were gained again.

This was the point where I lost respect to any fat person in the fucking world. It's not fucking genetics, because the entire white population of the US has ancestors form Europe and we are not nearly as fat. Japan has the lowest obesity rates in the world because they know their nutrition, while in the US they just eat junk.

Fuck fat people. And fuck fat chicks (just not literally).

[–]TransientHaberdasher 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Woman will typically openly approach guys that are at most 2 points above them. So if a bunch of say, 4s are approaching a dude, he's a 6 at best.

Sounds like ya boi's gotta up his appearance game if he doesn't want the embarrassment of fatties confidently and openly coming after his dick.

[–]ExtracurricularPubes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nail on the head. He may have great things going on about him personally (his career prospects, his personal development, his financial plan/base) but no one sees that when they size you up at the bar. He's either not lifting enough, has poor style that doesn't display his work or there's some combination of the sort. Even with their inflated egos, a 3 isn't going to hit on an 8. Look better. You can always judge your raw looks by what type of woman opens you or gives out IOI's. Don't hamster.

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