Short and sweet guys. This is my first post on the main sub and it is going to be a field report.
Matched with a girl on bumble. She's probably a 7 by my standards. Got her snapchat, snapped yesterday and sent playful stuff. Sent a few suggestive images but nothing too much. Talked about meeting up, she agreed.
Had an operation this morning to remove something on my face. Doc told me I had to wear a bandage for at least 24 hrs due to the packing on the wound.
What do I do? I snap ole girl and am like "meet at X at Y time". Shes down. I tell her I have a huge bandage on my face and is that ok, she said ya.
I look absolutely ridiculous. I dressed nice, smelled nice but i am wearing a WHITE square on my face and we went out with me looking like this. I acted like it wasnt a big deal, hell I forgot it was even there. No one made a big deal about it and she didnt even care it seemed. This was THE FRAME.
What happened? Had a great date, made out with her for 30 mins or so, plans for her to come to my place the next night to cook ME dinner. LOL
Guys, frame is everything. Looks gets you in the door (Idk if she wouldve acted the same had she not seen me before the operation) but definitely the frame is everything. I had a set frame that no one will care that I have a bandage on my face and that the bandage doesnt make me less attractive. So thats how it was.
MEN YOU CONTROL THE FRAME. She will follow your lead. Be comfortable in your own skin and everyone else will be comfortable with you.