I was messaged by a girl after my last post, she wanted to know why I write primarily for men, and if the 'self actualisation' post applied to women too.
She was very respectful, and didn't throw a tantrum calling me a virgin loser neckbeard autist. She just wanted clarification. I decided I would reply to her. But as usual, I got carried away, and basically wrote her a whole post. These concepts have been sloshing around my head for a while now, and it felt good to solidify my thoughts into words. That's one of the strengths of writing.
I know I have a lot of women who read my posts: there are those who hate-crush on me and post all my work to their subreddits. The ones who PM page long essays telling me I'm a narcissistic loser. The ones who attempt to fuck me because my writing and stories got their ovaries going.
I feel like the advice I gave this girl is important, especially for the women out there who intuitively feel like there's something deeply wrong with the lives they're being forced to live. So I will share it with the rest of you. This post has information relevant for both genders, but is primarily directed at women, which means it will be controversial.
I already know what's going to happen, first the landwhales and soyboys will freak out and spam the comments/my inbox/their subreddits with indignant and witty insults. I'm a virgin small dicked loser, never had a real intimate relationship bla bla bla I get it. Remember, when women are unable to attack the actual argument (because it's solidly correct) they will use ad-hominem personal attacks and shaming. Shaming works very well on women as they are agreeable and are always working to fit in. They do not realise that shaming won't work on arrogant autists like us.
Next will be the trp kids with 'omg you focus so much on women a real alpha doesnt care about pussy so much', not realising my posts are incredibly varied, some are FRs, some are solid theory, some are straight game advice and techniques, some are uplifting shitposts. My last one literally did not mention women at all. Regardless, women are important and a pivotal part of all our lives, if women don't take up a significant portion of your headspace (which they do, don't front) then you're just kinda gay.
Then there will be those who freak out : "NEVER GET MARRIED" and will discount the whole post because I encourage marriage for women. This is true, marriage as an institution is dead. Marriage 2.0 is a sham. In this post however, I speak of the ideal 'marriage', the way our grandparents got married, marriage 1.0, which was solid. We don't really have it anymore, and it's hard to find a woman to achieve it with, but it is still, definitely possible.
Anyway the post. Her questions:
Hi, sorry if it's been asked, but why are your posts directed towards men? Are they not applicable to women, or is it just speaking generally? Thanks.
Btw, know Ayn Rand? I'll think you'll like her.
What's the different game? Aren't women humans who want to actualize themselves, climb up the social hierarchy, be healthy, fit and attractive and find the best romantic/sexual partners? How is that any different from men?
I mentioned in a previous post how, while we all play The Game of Life, men and women play different minigames, and on the whole, the Game of Life for women is much easier. A man plays on medium or hard difficulty, a woman on easy. A disabled person: Insane mode. Hot girls? Tutorial mode.
As a woman, you have been born with the most important piece of human machinery in existence: the womb. As such, you have a huge responsibility to further the existence of humanity/your race by producing the next generation. You are the only ones that are able to do this, so your life and purpose are already defined for you from birth. Without you, we literally do not exist as a species, you have a job more important than anything a man could ever do.
This is why women are such high value and protected and men are almost disposable, it's 'women and children first' after all. Sperm is cheap and widely available, wombs are highly valuable and in contested supply. This is why when an historic city was sacked and conquered, the men would be put to death and the women captured as sex slaves... or rather... breeding stock. Wombs/women are a commodity.
Because you have the breeding machinery, you are guaranteed your right to procreate, whatever happens, you will likely have a kid. Men do not have this luxury. In order to procreate, men have to earn the right to breed.
Mitochondrial DNA analysis shows that throughout history, more women than men reproduced.
A man has to earn his right to breed, he needs to become a high value male and convince the female to have his children, she holds all the cards and his future existence rests firmly in the grip she has around his balls. We instantly lose to women because of this, and it's the only real power you have over us, but it's stronger than anything we can use on you.
Thus, everything a man does is in an effort to earn his access to a high value, healthy and loyal womb. I stress, everything. He lifts and works hard and makes money and develops security and competency and power as a very fancy peacock dance to attract females. His whole life is built around this purpose. In order to win the Game of Life as a male, he needs to win all the other minigames, especially the Game of Money and Power. This is all in an effort to win the Game of Love and get laid. Men play many, many minigames, and so have developed skills and evolved to maximise their chances at winning these: they get taller and stronger and smarter and less solipsistic and more cooperative and systemise much better. All in an effort to not just find a high value partner, but for some males, any partner at all. A lot of males never breed, and thus lose the game.
Women are born with high inherent value, which depreciates over time, men build theirs from nothing as they age.
As a woman, you are guaranteed a partner and guaranteed procreation by virtue of having the breeding machinery. As such, you have no need to strive for power like men do: there is no need to compete, you are working for a prize you already have.
You are still competing in the game though, but against other women, and not for wombs, but for the best sperm.
As such, you do not need the skills to win the game of power or money or war: they are superfluous, and in fact, you've evolutionary dropped these skills over time. You are weaker and less intelligent and less driven because you have no need to be. Nature is efficient, and instead of wasting energy and resources on skills that are redundant, women have instead maxed out on the skills needed to win the only game they play, the Game of Love. These are skills like empathy, manipulation, devotion and deceit, even bitchiness.
Women only compete in the Game of Love as its the only one they can and NEED to compete in. Any woman who tries to compete in the other games quickly realises that she will never beat the men who's sole purpose and evolutionary adaptation is to win these other games. It's a man's world. She also realises she doesn't need to, winning the Game of Love can put her in a position much better than any male, and much quicker.
Hell, if I had the option between busting my ass for 30 years in order to build my life and get my genetically healthy trophy wife, risking death and failure OR finding someone who has already sorted their shit and become powerful, fucking him a few times and having his kids, buying into his life, dedicating myself to him and winning as a result, well, we all know what that decision would be. If I genuinely had the choice to be born as a woman, I would always pick it. It's safe, guaranteed procreation and survival.
The Warrior and the Mage
So you compete in the Game of Love against other women, for access to the best providers and genes, and that's all you need to do and should do, and why women are so vicious and cruel and bitchy with each other. While we fight each other for any pussy, you fight each other for Chad.
The smart women are not those those who get a career and education and attempt to climb the ladder and work 9 to 5. These are not women, these are fake men. They are attempting to play the males game because they think it makes them valuable, but they have been tricked. What they're really doing is losing a lot of their female value and wasting a lot of important, fertile time. And all these women find no meaning in their careers, they often hate it but are too ashamed to admit so. They're 'smart, independent' women after all, but the world of work tires and bores them very quickly, and beats them up emotionally and spiritually. The outside world is cruel.
The truly smart girls are the ones who realise their sexual power and dedicate themselves to a high value male early in their lives. They know they cannot survive in this fucked up world without the support of a man, it might be bitter, and you wish it wasn't so, but that's the truth.
So, they get married quickly and early, hopefully as a virgin, and they give themselves to the man completely. Knowing that their success is tightly linked to the success of their partner, she does her best to support his life, like how a Healer would support a Tank in an RPG game: the Tank Class bears the brunt of attack from the real world, pushing through the hardships and pain, the Support Class heals his wounds, applies power boosts and gives him emotional and sexual support. And they both win together.
She also does all the things for his life that are important but otherwise a waste of a man's time. For every minute a man spends doing his laundry, or cooking his own meals or cleaning his house, he is spending not working, growing into something greater, is wasting valuable time, and is losing to all the men who save time avoiding this bullshit, because those men have devoted and eager sex secretaries to do it for them. Powerful men spend every minute of their day collecting power and becoming great, not scrubbing dishes.
The man with the devoted and loving wife will beat the single bachelor pickup fuckboys and beta incels every day of the week, because he is not 1 human, he is 2, and operates at double capacity. His wife succeeds with him, reaping all the rewards of her support and dedication, her success tied intimately to his. They are a team, a new living organism, a new fundamental genetic unit, the family. The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
And she loves it. Women love this shit, you've evolved to do so. Dedicating yourself to a man you love, building and decorating your own home, pleasing and satisfying him, feeling useful and appreciated and watching him become civilised and powerful, 'fixing' him. And most importantly, having his children.
Making children will be the best and happiest thing you'll ever do, and raising them your most important and fulfilling job. You swoon whenever you see a cute doggo, and chase cats to pet them on the street, but imagine making your own cute human pets and raising them into powerful and beautiful adults. Holy shit is that fun and meaningful. There's a reason The Sims has such a huge following among women.... you love this shit and live for it.
Hell, if I was a girl and was made a job offer right now and it read like the following, my CV would already be in your hands, (and my mouth around your dick):
Tall, atrractive male requires home sex secretary and nanny. Roles include:
- Doing my laundry (not much of it)
- Keeping the house clean (doesn't taken long)
- Cooking good meals (an enjoyable hobby in itself, you love cooking and now have all the freedom and time to get really good at it)
- Decorating the house and making a beautiful home (women are nest-builders by nature, and take to the interior decorating role gladly and eagerly)
- Fucking me when I need it (which you would probably do anyway without the job, this guy is hot and fucks well, and you need sex too... well here is good, consistent, safe sex)
- Stay fit, attractive and healthy as long as possible (not difficult as a woman, and something we should all strive to do anyway)
Salary: Your own house and car, a shared bank account with me, and I'll let you buy whatever the fuck you want within reason.
After this, after these duties, your time is free to do what you will. You have full autonomy to pursue any hobby you want, master any skill, and all the time and freedom in the world to do so. You can even relax and do nothing all day, and your boss won't care so long as you fulfilled your main duties, which honestly in this modern world take less than a few hours, Fuck those unappreciative women who complain about having to clean for the man that supports them... I'm a lazy fuck and even I can keep my house in order, it's really not difficult.
And your boss is someone you love. Someone you care about. There's no higher ups, no 'head office', no HR, no quotas to fill, or disciplinary write-ups. You work for a man who you truly think is amazing and respectable, who treats you with humanity and fucks you silly when you need it.
This is quite literally, the best job ever. I would take this job over a 'career' any fucking day of the week. Anybody who says otherwise has never had to really struggle in the real world of work, and has idealistically glamorised employment,
For a woman: employment is slavery. Devotion, to someone you truly love, is freedom,
Edit: If you're a woman and are PMing me angry messages or requests for advice, the quickest way to get my attention is, send nudes :)