Red Pill TheoryHave a Kanye Attitude about Your Race (self.TheRedPill)
submitted 1 year ago by EscapeTheGoat
I'm gonna keep this one short, but I think it's time to have a conversation about race. What I'm about to say is going to piss some people off, but fuck it. I'm saying it.
If you are actually complaining about your race holding you back at least as far as red pill sexual success or even career success is concerned. YOU ARE FUCKING LYING TO YOURSELF. The great philosopher Kanye West once said: "Self-victimization is a disease". I want to make this post an addendum to a great post I saw recently telling Asian guys to just go lift. I wholeheartedly endorse that and I want to take that one step further.
Crying racism in a sexual context is a REJECTION BUFFER. If you convince yourself that the game is stacked against you then you're not really rejected, it's just because they have some irrational hatred of your kind. Dude that's a bullshit excuse for a lack of sexual success and you know it. If you're lifting/exercising, if you're a leader, if you're confident and can perform, if you're free of Oneitis, you'll be fine. I'm not saying that the asian dudes here or black guys won't encounter some people that just don't want to sleep with them, yes, you will. But the fact of the matter is that for every woman who doesn't want to sleep with you there are millions of other options. Just move the fuck on.
And this gets back to Kanye's attitude. Don't let yourself be the victim. The racism that people encounter today is fucking nothing compared to the actual shit previous generations of people had to put up with. You used to not legally be allowed to marry white people or own property or vote for fucks sake. The way is now CLEAR. Do not fucking let yourself become a casualty to a history that is past. Any slight speed bumps you encounter? Overcome them. And fuck it, if some white woman wants to sleep with an Asian guy because she thinks you're a safe beta option even if you're not, fucking exploit that shit. If some white girl wants to sleep with a Black guy because she thinks he's forbidden and a bad boy even if he's patently the opposite, fucking exploit that shit.
I see people here talk disparagingly about their Asian upbringing, but I don't think it was so bad. My parents taught me a lesson that I will never forget, this is paraphrased translation: "If someone's an asshole to you, surpass them and find success. Then who cares what they think?"
Don't fucking be the victim. Be the victor.
[–]acidicbitchdotcom 389 points390 points391 points 1 year ago (58 children)
There are true racists out there who can’t or won’t look past the color of your skin. But your race is also someone’s fetish. True for every race.
[–][deleted] 120 points121 points122 points 1 year ago (31 children)
I think it's a shit test like any other. If you're high smv your race doesn't matter. No store is going to deny your purchase because of your race and no woman is going to miss out on Chad because of his race.
[–]acidicbitchdotcom 76 points77 points78 points 1 year ago (2 children)
The real key is to acknowledge that just because something is a dealbreaker for a woman doesn’t mean it’s something wrong with you. Do you want to be in better shape or make more money? If so, and a woman wants more than you have? Well, good for her and get back to improving. But if there’s something about you that you can’t or don’t want to change that she doesn’t like? Don’t waste a second more thinking about her.
[–]1point9gpa 31 points32 points33 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Well said. Precisely reminds me of what Manson said in Models. It's all about the demographics. You can be a high powered figure in one social setting but a nobody in another. It doesn't mean that you suck or (like you said) something is wrong with you. Everything is relative.
And the reoccurring theme in the forum, is to focus on yourself. If things don't work then they don't work. Your reaction to something determines the outcome.
[–]testiclezits 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children)
That’s real wisdom right there.
[–]CallMeHaseo 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (26 children)
Any examples of an Asian chad?
[–]EscapeTheGoat[S] 25 points26 points27 points 1 year ago (4 children)
A lot of wealthy Asians from China, they have less BP programming usually. A lot of the Asian Chads I've met fit into that category.
[+]CallMeHaseo comment score below threshold-15 points-14 points-13 points 1 year ago (3 children)
So you think women look at them and think "I would totally hit that any day that Chinese guy could get it tonight"?
[–]EscapeTheGoat[S] 16 points17 points18 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Well what do you think the answer to that question is?
[–]Stron2g 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (1 child)
They're usually rich as fuck so yes
[–]1handfulofnuts 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Has nothing to do with being Chad.
[–]An_All-Beef_Engineer 12 points13 points14 points 1 year ago (9 children)
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (5 children)
I think mirin videos are cringy tho
[–]An_All-Beef_Engineer 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (4 children)
cringy for who?
what exactly is cringe about it?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (3 children)
"People are looking when I walk in underwear in a city".
I am shredded too. But i'm humble. Don't like to post photos everywhere. These mirin videos are just validation seeking and scream insecurity issues
[–]An_All-Beef_Engineer 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (2 children)
These mirin videos are just validation seeking and scream insecurity issues
These mirin videos are just validation seeking and scream insecurity issues
If you said that about anyone else, it would be true. Frank Yang is an artist however. Not quite your regular gymbro
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child)
I'll take your word for it. What do you like about Frank Yang?
[–]An_All-Beef_Engineer 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
He isn't just a bodybuilder, he's an excellent violinist and visualist. Have you seen any of his other videos? Amazing stuff..
[–]ogkushinjapan 0 points1 point2 points 10 months ago (1 child)
Dedicated bodybuilder, amazing violinist and a fantastic advocate of western continental philosophy despite growing up with a foreign mother tongue.
It’s like studying philosophy in Russian in college when you grew up in an Irish American family in Iowa.
[–]An_All-Beef_Engineer -1 points0 points1 point 10 months ago (0 children)
a fantastic advocate of western continental philosophy
a fantastic advocate of western continental philosophy
Is he though? Seems he's trying to see himself through the world... or finding himself when he was never lost...
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–]crespo_modesto 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Jesus Christ that guy's content
[–]c_w_o_o_l_l_y 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Sex God Method was written by a short Asian dude.
[–]1Your_Coke_Dealer 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Go to Los Angeles; there are many there
[–]auggiedoggies 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I get the point you’re trying to make, but you’re wrong. There are some people out there who are just dyed in the wool true racists, and SMV doesn’t mean shit to them. Agree that a lot of times people use race as a crutch, but there are absolutely times that race is the end-all be-all for some people.
[–]NiceKicksGabe 15 points16 points17 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Black guy here. I don’t waste my time on women who don’t like me for whatever. I focus on the women that want my cock and goddamnit, I oblige them.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 1 year ago* (0 children)
I don’t waste my time on women who don’t like me for whatever.
I don’t waste my time on women who don’t like me for whatever.
Especially when they dish out the “omg, don’t rape me” body language. Won’t even approach those.
[–]CreatedItJust2Saythi 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I've always thought people should not think about it in the simple terms of skin color, because if we reduce it all to skin color, I must say I tend to see white color as a female or femaler color, and black color as a male or maler color. Plus black men tend to have a better physique and a bigger dick. So don't reduce it all to skin color, since it's just a biological adaptation to sun light.
In fact a fit muscular powerful white male body is attractive, and a curvy, bountiful, luscious black female body is a demand for the grabbing.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (4 children)
So you're saying race is purely skin color and nothing else?
[–]acidicbitchdotcom 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (3 children)
No there are lots of TENDENCIES that different races have. But every race contains members at every extreme of the physical and mental traits people associate with one or another, and the extremes really aren’t that far apart. For every stereotype there are abundant counter examples. Just to name a few black stereotypes, since that seems to be everyone’s favorite race to stereotype: fucking every person of every race I know likes fried chicken and watermelon, there are plenty of Asian dudes with monster cocks, plenty of Jews that are terrible with money, and plenty of Mexicans who can’t cook and suck at manual labor. Some of these stereotypes are generally correct and some are generally not, but any human of any race has the potential to either break the mold or reinforce stereotypes.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (2 children)
I was thinking more along the lines of blood and heritage, and how much more/less we connect with someone just 'cause they're the same/different race than us. Unfortunately I have very few examples of this from my experience. In my country we have mostly white, some east Asian,some gypsies, and very few black people. And I can tell you for a fact that Asians here look after each other the most and generally don't give a shit about anyone else, they're not hateful or anything towards anyone else they just prefer it that way. Same thing with the gypsies, like goddamn if a gypsy does something to you (usually steal money) you better say goodbye to it, because you're gonna get killed if you dare chase them into their "ghettos" and such, they're also extremely protective. Don't have any example of this for black people because I've only ever encountered 2 of them.
I'm guessing this also apllies to intersexual dynamics, I mean no matter how you look at it people have their preferences.
[–]acidicbitchdotcom 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Yeah there are definitely lots of cultural factors. But again, those are just tendencies. There are lots of differences between the average white Texan and the average Hispanic Texan, but the neighborhood I grew up in was about an even split of 50/50, and there were no racial lines within the area. I didn't even realize Mexican kids were Mexican until somebody told me. So for me personally, even though my ancestry is pretty much nothing but northwestern European, there really aren't any differences to me. I feel comfortable and it is easy for me to connect with cultural Hispanics (at least those born or mostly raised in this country.) I don't have any problems with Asians, Blacks, Jews, or any other races, but Hispanic culture just feels normal to me.
Every culture has different norms, but one of the biggest factors for whether people feel comfortable (I think) is whether or not a given culture lives in a segregated or self segregated community. This creates more of an exclusionary feeling both for those without and within the community. People who grew up in these communities, no matter how diluted their culture was, they tend to have a lot of internalized pride about it, which can be a good and a bad thing, and it is reinforced when they are with their group. This goes for people of all races, including whites. People who grew up in fully integrated communities, no matter how strong their cultural upbringing, tend to have a more inclusive attitude, and while they may be proud of their culture, they don't consider others weird for being different, and they don't have as much of an expectation that any given person will be familiar with or respect their culture, and they are generally less confrontational about it.
Probably the worst example of this is white people, in my experience, but that's probably just because there are several wealthy mostly white enclaves around where I live, so their version of culture is more just not empathizing or understanding anyone who didn't grow up with money. That's just an empirical observation which is probably not indicative of all areas though, I don't have any white guilt or any of that bs.
One of the biggest factors is economics, though. There are a disproportionate number of minorities who are poor in my country, and that's a legitimate problem that needs to be corrected, but when you just look at economic status, poor white people and poor black people are in the same boat when it comes to crime, drug use, incarceration rate, baby mama/baby daddy status, etc. There are just way more poor black people. On an individual level though, in economics as in relationships, you are responsible for making the most of what you have. You might have gotten a shitty hand, but you can be a success. Having to work for it more will just make you a better person in the long run.
Man, I really wish my parents had saved some fucking money, though.
[–]er99099 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
“your race is someone’s fetich”- fuckn love this.
[–]36Drareg 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Some Races moreso than others. Let's not be entirely bluepilled feel good here.
[–]Chaddeus_Rex -3 points-2 points-1 points 1 year ago (13 children)
Stop with your cucked BP shit about being 'racist'. The true redpill about race is that there is nothing wrong with preferring your in-group (ie being racist).
[–]acidicbitchdotcom 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (12 children)
There's nothing wrong with preferring your group. An overwhelming majority of people do. I was just pointing out that for every person who can't look past your race, there is someone who might be interested BECAUSE OF your race, not that either should be preferred. They're your genes, you are free to share them with whomever you choose.
There is both real and imagined racism, as with sexism. I am most certainly not a "cucked BP" apologist. The tone of your comment makes it sound as though I disagree with you, when in fact we agree, I think. Preferring your own race is neither inferior nor superior to preferring any other race. But I think if you meet someone from another race who is sexually attractive to you, has good genes, good history, and checks every box you have, and you still reject them just because of their race, you are handicapped.
Not being attracted to someone because they are black? Fine.
Being attracted to someone on every level but rejecting them for no other reason than their race? Poor evolutionary strategy. Weakness.
I've had exclusively white sexual partners (with the exception of one half mexican girl.) Almost everyone I know, even the most hardcore feminist BP male with a double major in African and Women's studies fucks within their race. There are just too many factors in play that make us likely to connect with and gravitate towards our own race. But ruling out an otherwise perfectly ideal partner who you are also sexually attracted to is dumb. That's all I meant.
[–]Chaddeus_Rex -5 points-4 points-3 points 1 year ago (11 children)
I disagree. I will never date a woman ot of my race, even if she fulfills all the requirements. I'll pump and dump women of other races because I like variety in my women, but they are not LTR worthy, there is something deeply revolting in this.
[–]acidicbitchdotcom 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (10 children)
I guess I just can't wrap my brain around fucking someone I would describe as "revolting" in any context.
[+]Chaddeus_Rex comment score below threshold-8 points-7 points-6 points 1 year ago (9 children)
They are revolting to date because imagining a mulatto child brings up the bile. But if they have nice cheeks and tits and like to fuck, its not a big deal.
Women don't have an in-group preference. Men do. Suggesting that a man date women outside their race, who 'checks all their boxes', is bad advice. Let women race mix, men should not - it will cause them more problems than solve.
[–]acidicbitchdotcom 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (8 children)
"Let women race mix, men should not" is so obviously nonsensical that I don't know how to even think about untangling it.
Asians are the ONLY race in which the men have a higher preference than women for dating within their own race, and even then only by a small margin. White women have the lowest preference for dating within their own race, but it is still higher than white men.
Since white women have the lowest preference for dating within their own race, maybe you've gotten burned in the past and you resent other races, or maybe you were just raised that way, but your claim doesn't hold up. You're entitled to your whatever preferences, but please don't spread misinformation.
[–]Chaddeus_Rex -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (7 children)
Thats exactly what I said, women have less of an in-group preference than men, which accounts for their warbride syndrome. White men outside the West rarley race-mix and in the West (particularly north america) can be attributed to "anti-racist" propaganda.
And stop with your feminine shaming tactics. Makes you sound like a BP cuck
[–]acidicbitchdotcom -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (6 children)
You have it backwards. Women have MORE of an in group preference than men, except for asian men. White men are more likely to date outside of their race than women. I'm not shaming anyone, you're just mistaken. You're entitled to your preferences, do whatever you want, but you're not entitled to your own version of the truth.
[–]Chaddeus_Rex -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (5 children)
Men are not the ones with war bride mentality and are far more xenophobic than women, hence men are less likely to date outside their group.
[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 1 year ago (8 children)
About 2 years ago, right around the 3rd anniversary of my liberation (aka divorce) I chatted up a broad at a get-together a close friend had. She was white, long dark brown hair, grey eyes and leggy as fuck. She was also catty, bratty and a bit of a bigot. The convo was definitely teetering on being hostile. She was set in her impressions of black men, and I was set in exposing her biases.
Long story short, I quickly keyed into the fact that she was clearly curious about black men and was giving me a shit test. So with the right balance of booze and game, by the end of the night I had those long legs pinned back as I was showing her my long stroke.
Usually when I approach a woman I can sense if they're indeed bigoted, or just in need of coercion. But I also happen to be one of those black guys who appeals to a wide range of women. I've personally never had an issue making an approach towards women outside of my ethnicity. Hell, I've fucked more non-black women then black...but that's for reasons I won't detail here cuz this the wrong sub for such a post.
[–]Mike_3487 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (3 children)
I'm also a black guy that appeals to a wide range of women, and def fucked more non-black than black women. But part of that is I grew up/live in Orange County. Sure I've had my fair share of white girl rejections, but Jesus have I laid the pipe to more than my fair share. My game ain't even that great.
[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 1 year ago (2 children)
We live in one of the most liberal left regions in the country. Most liberal white women won't reject a black male on the strength of how they'd look in the eyes of other lib women. Fucked up as it sounds...an advantage is an advantage. They actually rationize it as their "duty" being progressives. Me personally I couldn't give a shit, pussy is pussy.
[–]Mike_3487 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (0 children)
So true! Most of the white women I've been with have been liberal and most of their friends white and liberal. For about 12 of them, they said I was their first black guy (true or not, who cares).
I'm sure they didn't want to look bad in the eyes of their friends or their modern feminist left-leaning culture had they rejected me.
I think this is also why right-leaning tatted up white chicks who have only banged white dudes that drive trucks that have MAGA bumper stickers on them turn me on so much. The chase man. The chase.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago* (0 children)
We live in one of the most liberal left regions in the country.
We live in one of the most liberal left regions in the country.
Looks like I need to move then. I live in a whitewash town complete with jacked up MAGA pick up trucks (can't forget the blinding LED light bar bolted to the hood either) driven by white boys in a blood red state. Getting attention from the desirable bitches is tough.
[–]EscapeTheGoat[S] 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (3 children)
Thank you. Someone who gets it. Be aware but like. Just do what you have to do and keep it moving.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (2 children)
Mind you, I also realize region plays a huge factor. I live in New York, so I have a pretty big pool to dip into. But if I lived in say...Montana or Tennessee, my choices would be vastly lower and of substantially lower quality.
[–]J412h 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (1 child)
As a lifelong Montana resident, your pool is smaller here but with such a low population of races other than white, you would also have an advantage due to so many young ladies wanting to try out the dark side.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago* (0 children)
Glad you mentioned that. Great point indeed. Surprisingly enough, the same can be said for you...a native Montanan...here in New York City. ESPECIALLY with black women. They'd see you as the rarest of creatures and literally throw themselves at you. (If you're into black chicks of course.)
[–]TheTrenTrannyTrain 41 points42 points43 points 1 year ago (1 child)
It's easy to self-victimize, because you simply capitulate and give up on all responsibility of yourself. It's the same with incels except in their case it's not about race.
[–]EscapeTheGoat[S] 14 points15 points16 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Absolutely agree. I could frankly write a book on the topic, but yeah. Much easier to blame and complain than it is to just be pragmatic and find a way.
[–]SmilingWatermelon 64 points65 points66 points 1 year ago (9 children)
Embrace your culture a little. Women expect a Latino man to have some flavor. So play the part.
Their are alpha archetypes for each race. You see em on TV. Pick one you like and emulate it.
Just be confident with yourself.
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Agree for the most part but just want to touch on this a little with an outlier perspective. It's great and all to have culture associated with your stereotypes. But in few cases, you can end up being born to a family with very limited culture. For example I'm black and I grew up completely void of African or Caribbean culture. I was raised by my single mum who's culture is predominantly British so I grew up on microwave dinners, tea and mac n' cheese. My neighborhood was very white and I've pretty much never had a black friend as their was so much culture clash. So naturally people are extremely surprised and often confused when they find out I wasn't raised by a stereotypical Caribbean family and don't know (all) the national dishes, dance moves, or have the stereotypical temperament.
Self victimization is useless however, so I do just want to point out that it's difficult to get into the culture circle when you were born outside of it completely. Although not impossible. That doesn't mean you should base your social or sexual strategy around race or culture anyway. It's just a factor you have to deal with, or use to your advantage.
For those that can relate to my circumstance don't complain about it like I used to. If you can't adopt the typical culture, create your own. Look at 'Tyler, The Creator', Eric Andre and Childish Gambino. Even Kanye West like OP said. Kanye was never 'gangsta' like the majority or rappers at his debut. But he decided to own what he had and rapped about church, his shitty job and his mom and by being honest about himself to the world he achieved international success.
If you're some kind of weirdo or outcast don't assume you lose by default. Cultivate your persona and own that as your frame, it's likely that you've been though more bullying, uncomfortable situations and general awkwardness than most normal people so you have the potential to have a rock solid frame if you truly trust yourself and your competence.
[–]bettereveryday1985 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
one you like and emulate it.
one you like and emulate it.
Just be confident with yourself.
[–]SmilingWatermelon 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Yeah. You'll never actually be anyone else. But I'm certain you've seen people on TV with amazing traits you admire.
If you've had no one to pass down manly characteristics you've got to slowly learn how to do it. Your own version of it, but it starts by copying whatever you think is cool.
For instance a black man can always go for the smooth jazz look. You are still yourself but you now have a look, A style, some flair.
You can be as confident as you want in your Pokemon collection but it may not yield the best results in field.
We all have to conform to general society a little if we want the best results imo. It's the same as dealing with a beauty standard for women.
A woman can be can any race but as long as she hits the golden ratio we will enjoy their company, don't you think the same thing applies to men as Well?
[–]Nick-Nein 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (4 children)
Hmm, so should I put on a Viking helmet and scream "VALHALLA!!!!!" As I'm doing it with the next woman I meet?
[–]1AuspexAO 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Ha ha, not really. I'm mostly norse myself (and a little welsh) so I definitely embrace some of the stereotypes. I style a beard that breaks the no grey hair rule (I dye my actually hair) and wear colors that pop my blue eyes and diminish the effect of my pale skin. I recommend investing in a few expensive blue or purple silk shirts, tight fighting with a very slight sheen. With some forearm tats and the sleeves rolled up, you'll look like a modern Viking ready to do some fucking and pillaging.
[–]Nick-Nein 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Admittedly, I'm German but most people probably won't be able to tell the difference lol (Blonde hair+blue eyes.) I've been trying to study Norse mythology mainly just for shitz n gigz so I thought I would make fun of it here. But hey, a swastika isn't bad though, right? (Unless she's jewish.)
[–]SmilingWatermelon 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
If your already doing it, you can shout whatever you like lol.
[–]dix2long 11 points12 points13 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Unless you're looking to marry one of these girls, don't let race be the reason you blow it. If you take care of your body and have just a little amount of game, it's all pink, fellas, lol.
[–]prodigy2throw 26 points27 points28 points 1 year ago (6 children)
Kanye has always been a real one. He embodies 48 laws to a T
Everybody wanna say somethin/ I’d be worried if they said nothin She said she loves me for me can you be more phoney
Everybody wanna say somethin/ I’d be worried if they said nothin
She said she loves me for me can you be more phoney
[–]hammerhearth 9 points10 points11 points 1 year ago (5 children)
Remind me which law says you should be spending $12M dollars on your wedding
[–]kronos415 31 points32 points33 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Understand that his marriage was a career advancement. Small bill to pay for the cost of business in my opinion. Remember before Kim he had been very vocal about fashion but was getting rejected everywhwere. After Kim all of a sudden he is revered by fashion insiders. Peep the game
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Never thought of it that way. Yeezus really is a genius.
[–]prodigy2throw 14 points15 points16 points 1 year ago (0 children)
When you make 55 million a year you can do whatever you want with 12 million.
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Law 37: create compelling spectacles
Law 34: act like a king to be treated like one
There are more but these 2 fit perfectly.
[–]hammerhearth -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (0 children)
So if I had $12M dollars to spend on a wedding, would I be smart, or stupid?
[–]1empatheticapathetic 85 points86 points87 points 1 year ago (9 children)
This isn’t the most important factor.
Location is the top factor. I spent the first 25 years of life in a place where I was dirt because of my race. Now I’m in a more multicultural place and I’m actually considered a person. People talk to me like a person. I get looks here and there.
I built a good defensive frame but no confidence. I’m still undoing all of that shit to this day. My nephew faces the same issues now but his mother doesn’t understand nor care.
Fighting an army with only confidence is futile. It’s a mismatched problem and solution. Look at things practically and listen to your gut and decide if confidence is the biggest issue right now or something else.
[–]Unleashed_FURY 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Absolute truth, if you live in an area that is enriched with social diversity, things will be much easier.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I like your name.
[–]EscapeTheGoat[S] 17 points18 points19 points 1 year ago (0 children)
My point was don't wallow. It sounds like you didn't wallow so there you go.
[–]IndianChad 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Depends, I had the opposite experience. Being in a more white community made me more exotic.
[–]mangoat12 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Just curious, where did you live?
[–]send_nasty_stuff 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (2 children)
maybe you could give us an example.
[–]1empatheticapathetic 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Even through your tone you’ve made your mind up that I’m full of shit. ’maybe’
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Where were you treated like dirt for your race?
[–]U-94 23 points24 points25 points 1 year ago (1 child)
This is an important quote by Legs McNeil from the punk rock book 'Please Kill Me' that I have had in my FB bio for like 13 years....
"It was about trying to get people to use their imaginations again, it was about not being perfect, it was about saying it was okay to be amateurish and funny, that real creativity came out of making a mess, it was about working with what you got in front of you and turning everything embarassing, awful, and stupid in your life to your advantage."
[–]newguyvan 24 points25 points26 points 1 year ago (5 children)
I'm asian dude that's 5'4" and have recently started lifting at the age of 20, I've realized that it's all in your head, fuck all this brainwashed media bullshit that portray asians in a bad light. Believe in yourself and girls will come after.
[–]richi0003 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Thats great dude, cuz most short people i know bitch about how girls dont like them because their short, props to you my friend.
[–]1AuspexAO 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (3 children)
Good man. For me, it's kinda the opposite. I really like Asian women and a lot of them will avoid me because I'm 6'2" and bearded. So, really, just keep pursuing physical and mental greatness. No one approach works for every woman, but being a ripped and wordly man is going to win you a lot of tail.
[–]newguyvan 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago* (2 children)
Many Asian girls aren’t used to seeing dudes with beards and they might be intimidated, just be friendly and they might get more comfortable with you. I agree with pursuing mental and physical greatness. Lifting is praised so much but for a good reason. A lot of Asian guys get intimidated by non Asian girls because they believe if they’re not over 6 feet or Caucasian then they’re not good enough. You might sometimes get rejected because you don’t have those traits but it doesn’t make you any lesser, because women also have preferences. I’m personally more attracted to non Asian girls because I admire their features, but that doesn’t make Asian girls any lesser obviously many guys including yourself like them. Go after them my dude!
[–]1AuspexAO 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Oh I will ha ha. Speaking of stereotypes, where I work (I work in medicine) there are a lot of Asian and Indian women. I find professionalism and intelligence to be almost as big of a turn-on as physical beauty, so I tend to gravitate towards them. I know not all Asians are science nerds, but my choice of profession puts all the eggs in that basket, ya know?
[–]newguyvan 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I get you, take advantage of that situation if already haven’t.
[–]Dead_Art 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I love Candace Owens "Victor mentality, not victim mentality" bit
[–]blownnnn 13 points14 points15 points 1 year ago* (0 children)
Kanye doesn't care about society anymore, he just pushes his views. This is all just a to push his worldview, music and product. Same old formula and people fall for it all the time. Kanye is a genius.
Kanye utilizes a memory philosophy called Method of loci in his marketing. He will build up a grand environment, mention different items in that environment, give a philosophy behind those item, after he has built up this grand view, he will drop an "oh shit" moment, this subconsciously tattoos the ideologies into your psyche.
Analyze his first tweets where he draws in the liberal crowd by talking about philosophy, love and materials. The world is wonderful is in the liberal point of view. Kanye West is back!
Then he just flips their shit by mentioning he loves Candice Owens...lol. This is the big "oh shit" moment. How could he? He's mentally ill! He's crazy. The mob goes haywire, exposing the left for what they actually are: mob, cultish, group think. He is now pandering to the right's hatred for liberals.
Kanye singlehandedly brought together republicans and liberals in the same room to talk. Nobody (not even a president) has successful done this.
[–]Mike_3487 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
The self-confidence of Kanye is truly a sight to behold. When he got up on stage and did that shit to Taylor Swift years ago, all the SJW, White Knights, and feminists were up in arms. But I'll be damned if he didn't cream some panties that night.
[–]masteryimain34 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children)
You forget most guys here are betas who whine and cry and the alphas will disregard this post but the betas, oh the betas will retaliate and even make jokes. So read this and dont reply lets see if you can.
[–]Hugh_Munghous 15 points16 points17 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Yup, gotta be all about race all the fucking time. All day every day; race this, racist racism that. God forbid we ever discuss another topic anywhere in our culture today.
[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I know, the fucking left just rustles my jimmies
[–]1v1crown 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Man I really hope this is the turn. I want nothing more than for the black and Latino population to assimilate and start being as a whole a prosperous community instead of a victimhood community. Nothing would boost the US economy and lower crime more than that.
[–]Casd12 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
self-victimisation is just being a lil bitch with extra steps
[–]legaleaglethrowaway4 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
No. Tribes exist. Take your own side for once. Take. Your. Own. Side.
[–]DesperateChemical 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Lol, everybody wants to fuck White girls.
[–]1337vbucks 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
This post did not age well.
[–]bookynerd 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I wish it was that easy
[–]youvanda1 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Is this a parody sub? Like are we all making goofs about people that think like this?
[–]bootruman 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Another important question is, why would you want to be with a racist bitch anyway?
[–]iCeeYouP -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (4 children)
Is OP White? I genuinely want to know before I give my response.
[–]TonytheNetworker -2 points-1 points0 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I assume so, it's kind of implied.
[–]Andgelyo 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
+1. Been seeing a lot of white girls with asian guys lately. There will always been some form of racism, are you gonna let the world beat you down or you gonna fight back and get what you want?
[–]36Drareg 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Race does matter. This is the true redpill of the situation and a fact of life. To say it doesn't matter is bluepilled in nature, whereas acknowledging it does and improving yourself is entirely the point of this subreddit. Are you 5'2? that's a hurdle. Are you weak? that's a hurdle go lift. Are you timid? that's a hurdle go approach. All about being the best you each day and overcoming every obstacle thrown your way.
Good Post OP.
[–]bigbodybuilderr 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Kanye west is a horrible person to look up to
[–]Jacob_exe 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Asian feels like the only race that has it rough because the media doesn't really put their faces out there a lot in terms of beauty, etc.
white, hispanic and black all have their ideal attractiveness standards, I can think of a dude and girl celebrity that represents them well
Asian... nothing comes to mind immediately
[–]1BadDayAway 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I believe that culture is more important than race, but my experiences are only limited to my own so I can speak for everyone else. Regardless I do believe in the victor mindset as compared to the victim mindset. This is an excellent post.
There are so many reasons a woman will find you attractive regardless of color / height / size / hair style / income / beliefs / politics.
However, no woman is attracted to a man who is ashamed of who he is.
[–]mydogisblack9 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
at the end of the day we’re all homo sapiens, your ancestors didn’t survive for you to whine and bitch
[+]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro comment score below threshold-11 points-10 points-9 points 1 year ago (5 children)
Guys like Kanye or Jay Z aren’t what you think they are. Whoever controls the media needs such puppets like those guys. They are well paid no doubt but are they really what they claim to be?
[–]StepThruLife 23 points24 points25 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Only those close to Kanye or Jay Z will know. But there’s nothing wrong with the message of the post, stop making excuses and go be better.
[–]Ridicatlthrowaway 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Lmao? The dude endorsed Trump and got committed for it. Now he is endorsing black conservatives, wtf u want from him?
[–]refunkulation 7 points8 points9 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Perhaps this may be true of Jay Z, I’ve lost respect for him although he has to walk carefully, he does have insight to offer the world I’ve noticed in early interviews he has differing perspectives than he does now, but it will ruin him, price to pay by signing up to marriage with an SJW icon.
Kanye is his own creation. I don’t think the best PR minds in America could choreograph his public persona, he’s just raw and deals with the fallout on every occasion.
I’ll say this, the same way people associate Trump with high end wealth, someone Kanye had done the same with the idea of genius. Great performers are typically known as talents, or at least they used to be. Humanity can live without incredibly talented musicians, we do however need real geniuses in sciences and mathematics for the survival of the species. So owning the association of your name as a genius is quite similar to Trump.
Both are caricatures of both concepts, to identify any artist as genius, in on the same level as true geniuses in mathematics and sciences as an example, is purely generated by instinctual self marketing abilities.
[–]1Ill_Will7 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Kanye and jay z have been controlled by the media for a very long time now. They just sell an image to you that they think you'll like. But your point on self victimization is true.
[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I don’t think kanye is really a media creation. He’s too manic depressive. Jay z for sure has been media manicured tho.
[–]imheregonow004 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child)
What race is OP out of curiosity? Regarding game, don't think it matters so long you're good. But in life, for general people it definitely holds you back in comparison to another person of similar skillset that's Caucasian, unless you happen to be top 10% or even lower.
[–]EscapeTheGoat[S] 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Did you read the post all the way through? The answer is in there.
[–]xx-Rain_Maker-xx -3 points-2 points-1 points 1 year ago (2 children)
Although I understand what you wanted to say, it is undeniable that race is a relevant factor in the estimation of your SMV. A fit Indian guy can outcompete white guys for some girls. However, if a girl has to choose between a fit Indian guy and a fit white guy, she in most of the cases will select the fit white guy. Race is a relevant factor when males competing for the same female have similar physical and behavioral attributes.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago* (1 child)
Here’s the thing - your static, on paper, in-a-vacuum hypothetical is just that. It isn’t real - there will never be such a situation. Nor does it account for countless other variables. This is a useless mind game that’s a buffer for rejection and excuse for mediocrity.
This is such a loser mindset. Lose it, forget about it completely. And don’t ever bring it up again.
Fucking go to the gym today and learn to love yourself. This is a wake up call.
[–]dan_legend 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
So fucking much this. All the theory in the world is jack shit if not practiced in the field with live bullets.
[–]jewishsupremacist88 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
50% of all of jews marry out, with 80% of that half being the women. jewish men are effeminate faggots and soy boys and their dads are cowards and enablers. race is real and race matters.
[–]EscapeTheGoat 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
Let me translate for you -> "certain races are more attractive than others":
If you believe that you're part of the more attractive race, then you think you're entitled to pussy. And if you think you're part of a less attractive race, then you think the game is stacked against you and there's nothing you can do.
Racial entitlement of any form is just as bad as feminist entitlement.
[–]modTheRedPike[M] 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Not a topic for this sub.
[–]craignayce -5 points-4 points-3 points 1 year ago (6 children)
Spoken like a true priviliged man.
Being black or Asian in a whife oriented society does pose an extra major barrier that isn't simply overcome by pretending it isn't there.
The Kanye attitude works for multi million dollar popstars.
And here's why I think this: Status; in the western world dark skin is associated with low social status. Women look for status so you will have to compensate for that perception.
On the other hand, western race mythology also has sexualized black people for centuries so there's a good change you'll find women who will accept you as a sexpartner just because of your color.
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 1 year ago (3 children)
And smart black men (like myself) will play to the myth. I've lost count the number of White, Asian and Middle Eastern women I've boned because I embraced my advantage as a black man. Show high SMV, have rock solid game, dress well (not like a common hood nigga) and be assertive and you will literally see them get wet right in front of you.
[–]craignayce 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children)
You're absolutely right. Not 'rejecting' or 'pretending' but accepting reality and playing it your own advantage.
[–]newguyvan 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child)
I’m just curious, do you get offended when non black people say the n word (in a nonoffensive way) in front of you? Me and group of (mostly Asian) friends call each other that because we grew up with hip hop culture and sometimes it might slip if we’re in public.
I don't. Me being offended by either pronunciation of the words gives the word power. The only way for black people to defuse it's power is to pay no attention to it. That's my opinion anyway.
[–]EscapeTheGoat[S] 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago* (0 children)
No one is pretending. Listen the final step for non-white men especially in America becoming fully red pill is you need to reject the blue pill race narrative about your sexuality. Awareness of certain racial issues is not the problem. See the truth is that being truly woke (whatever that is) means you need to build personal power and agency. They want your vote, they want you to show up at political protests they orchestrate, they want to use your images for their propaganda, they want everything but for you to be powerful and to realize your potential. I could get into this more, but I feel like politics is outside the bounds of RP.
Then compensate. What other choice do you have?
[–]slashaceman -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (0 children)
i hate that i agree with kanye about something. ugh.
[–]SiggiZeBear -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (0 children)
"The great philosopher.." you fucking autist
[–]inthenameofkek -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (0 children)
WHY WOMEN DESTROY NATIONS https://hooktube.com/watch?v=UxpVwBzFAkw
[+]Usemi5325 comment score below threshold-14 points-13 points-12 points 1 year ago (18 children)
How about stick to your own race? Humans overwhelmingly prefer to stick to their own for a good reason, people who think that their race limits them should then date within their own race, most white women prefer white men, most black women prefer black men, that's just the way our brains are wired.
Interracial couples get the stink eye for a good reason, and their weird no-identity mystery meat children reminds a people of what they should avoid, for the product is neither race x, or race y, but a strange thing that alienates both sides.
Race matters a lot, that's why borders fucking formed, stick to your side and I will stick to mines, if you come to my side, don't be surprised when half my family alienates your ass. If you come to my side, expect to get an immune response, and you better expect it will hurt, it will hurt you and the weird half-caste children you produce.
Stick to your own.
[–]richi0003 16 points17 points18 points 1 year ago (2 children)
So salty ( coming from a white person and im assuming you are too) if the girl likes him then where the problem. No offense but it sounds like you get rejected from women your race a lot which is why you are pointing your rage at people from other races.
[–]Usemi5325 -5 points-4 points-3 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Except that miscegenation devastates BOTH sides, as I have mentioned. Tribalism is innate to humans, and grandparents want grandchildren that resembles them.
The problem is that miscegenation tears families apart, ergo that is why humans are overwhelmingly racist in our preference towards our own.
You know where racism doesn't exist? In your own race, once you start crossing tribal lines, don't be surprised when tribalism manifests. Fucking around with other races might feel nice but it's no foundation for a family, an immune response is going to occur and that race is going to give you shit. I'm not even just talking about whites, all races have this response, all races prefer their own. Only people that think with their dicks, and can't control their fetishism don't.
It's like when your immune system responds to foreign pathogens in your body that dont share the markers of your cells, that is essentially what is happening when you start fucking around with other races. That race is going to have an immune response and you're not going to like it.
[–]richi0003 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Agreed that people prefer their own race (well talking about me and i would want my grandchildren to have my skin color), and its not racist to have a preference for your own race, raise you family correctly and i believe the outcome would be the way you want it, but the way you worded you comment was extremely barbaric and salt af. But my point stands, if a white girl want to fuck around with other races, then by all means idgaf about want she wants to do. If you don't want to mix ( sexually and relationship wise), then don't, as i also only date white girls. But if a multiracial couple want to do their thing, I would have absolutely have no problem with as it has nothing to do with me or my fam.
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 1 year ago (9 children)
I don't give a shit about your family, brah. I'm just out to pipe that pretty sister of yours. Once I get my nut, she's tossed to the curb. That's what Tyrone's do. I don't stick to my own, I stick it wherever the fuck I please.
[+]Usemi5325 comment score below threshold-9 points-8 points-7 points 1 year ago (6 children)
Ok. Live by the sword, die by the sword. Don't be surprised when someone ends up punching your teeth in on some dark night. I'm sure those 3 second orgasms will have been worth it then.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 1 year ago (4 children)
I'd love to see someone try, snowflake.
[–]Usemi5325 -4 points-3 points-2 points 1 year ago (3 children)
Pride goes before the fall, I'm sure your confidence will make you immune to the knife of a racist uncle protecting his niece. Or from the bullets of a protective father.
Live by your dick, die by your dick.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 1 year ago (2 children)
No, my 11 years of combat experience as a USMC 0317 would make me immune. But please continue making baseless assumptions. It's amusing.
[–]Usemi5325 -4 points-3 points-2 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Nice meme response, have a nice day, troll.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children)
It'd take far more then an internet twit to ruin my day. Now how about that sister of yours? She got big tits?
[–]Andgelyo 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Dude just stop it, your comments are making yourself look like a insecure backwards redneck virgin.
[–]MoDuReddit 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (2 children)
I'll fuck whatever color of vagina I want thank you. Make a zoo if you want to display separate animals.
[–]Usemi5325 -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (1 child)
Nature itself displays seperate animals just fine, in fact humans do as well, that's why borders fucking formed.
But fucking around with any vagina you want is fine, just don't be surprised when a tribe hunts you down.
[–]MoDuReddit 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Borders form from societies and countries, you're confusing the cause with circumstance. It's Ok, just go read a history book that's not about race.
just don't be surprised when a tribe hunts you down.
just don't be surprised when a tribe hunts you down.
I'm sure you'll be one of the group that's hunting down the heretics. Self-fulfilling prophecy and all...
[–]Andgelyo 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Nah I’m good, I’ll keep sticking my 5.5 inch Filipino dick in white and black girls.
Pretty potent red pill being down voted on TRP. Shame.
[–]KamiNoTsurugi 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
New here. What's Oneitis?
[–]modTheRedPike[M] 28 points29 points30 points 1 year ago (2 children)
Read the fucking sidebar. Fuck me running..
[+]casemodz comment score below threshold-7 points-6 points-5 points 1 year ago (0 children)
the great philosopher kanye west
the great philosopher kanye west
Down voted and reported this retarded post.