Red Pill TheoryYou're in High School and you just found TRP - a guide (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Kurush559


I remember the first time I came across this subreddit in my penultimate year of high school (Europe). I was an innocent and romantic 16 year old with long hair, a feminine face, belly fat, strong liberal values, absolutely no game, low self-esteem. What I had was an open mind. One year later, I was a short-haired, confusingly feminine, misogynist extraordinaire with an n-count that couldn't be shown on one hand. A beautiful transformation was taking place; beta boy becomes baby alpha. A few years later I look back, as an adult (albeit a young one), at this time with fondness, but remember the dangers that lie in such profound content being consumed by an innocent and enthusiastic 16-year-old. As many of you know, it can be a shock at first, but you voraciously consume content until you're ready to neg some virgins, do some baby bicep curls, and tell your school bros about the new reality that will get you all laid. It can be a scary but exciting feeling, yet one that must be managed and mediated with maturity and understanding of the blue-pilled world around you. This post aims to give you young'uns a basic outline of a sensible 'game plan' to implement after discovering the Red Pill


First things first; don't tell anyone. Don't mention it to your parents, bros, boss, teachers, crush, pet turtle, mailman - no one. At first, you may have an urge to share GayLubeOil's teen sex advice with your sexually frustrated peers, but almost any older guy in the sub will advise you against it. TRP offers useful but offensive advice that will not be appropriately received by the vast majority of the population. If you live in NA/EU you may even find yourself being in trouble with school for any number of violations. You are in a system that aims to keep you running around as a good little slave. No need to alarm them. Carry on as normal.

After you have resolved not to mention TRP to your friends, you can begin your magical transformation from beta caterpillar into alpha butterfly. You will have already seen TRP's favourite buzzword; lift. This ought to become a priority in your life. If you don't have access to a gym (some parents are weird about this kind of thing), begin a basic bodyweight routine. Try for 100 push-ups and 10 chin-ups. Use bars in your nearby park for extra exercises. This should not be a gym replacement, but rather a foundation that prepares you for when you gain gym access. For those that have access to a gym right now, your transformation begins.

Firstly, do your research. Hopefully, you're a smart kid. Find a basic program that looks fun and play with that to get into a routine. Don't worry about heavy squatting/deadlifting until you are flexible (wealth of online resources for this) and have developed some upper body strength (develop this with chin-ups, push-ups, dips). Compound lifts are fantastic for your muscular development and will have a beneficial impact on your raging teenage hormones, but you must start light and focus on form. It is not within the scope of this post to give further details, but everything you need can be found on youtube and other websites. Our friendly neighborhood misogynist GayLubeOil has written a few articles about weightlifting for beginners (specifically outlining the dangers of starting with heavy compound lifts). Go check them out, it's a mandatory part of your gym education.

Secondly, learn to cook and eat well. If you limit processed foods, eat lots of meat, healthy grains, eggs, and vegetables at this age, you are already miles ahead of your peers. This includes limiting alcohol and drug consumption. It's pointless for me to lecture you on the harm drink and drugs can bring to your life; this is for you to discover. It's natural to start drinking in high school, and I don't advocate that you abstain, but encourage you all to develop healthy eating habits and limit alcohol consumption better than your peers. This will place you even further ahead.

I just wanna get girlz

This will inevitably be one of your biggest goals and concerns before, and after, finding the treasure trove of advice that this subreddit brings you. This, of course, is understandable, a desire that should be guided rather than repressed or let completely loose. Fortunately, you are in a phenomenal position to start getting high school girls interested in your virgin peeper. Not only are you building a Greek-god body (which will begin to show in the way you walk and talk), you have access to knowledge that almost no one your age will have.

Here I aim to outline the three main premises that I believe to be most important when gaming girls in high school:

  • Attention. It is an accepted fact here that women crave attention on levels that we can hardly imagine; and most of the time, they receive it. It seems teenage boys are some of the worst offenders of giving away attention freely. Understand this; your time and attention are incredibly valuable. Girls are valuable to you because they can offer you sex and intimacy that friends/pet turtle(hopefully)/dumbells can't. You are valuable to girls because you can offer her the attention she craves. This will be all the more valuable to her if you are lifting and standing out from the 150lb high school acne nerd crowd. Unfortunately, this attention will not lead to sex/intimacy, unless you direct it correctly. Don't get into long text conversations. Ignore the endless stream of snaps she sends. They're probably pictures of her cats, or whichever other shiny/fluffy object caught her attention. Don't follow her around, don't let her use you to complain about pointless drama/her crush that's ignoring her. Don't buy her a smoothie just because you feel obligated. Learn to give your attention when she is showing interest, adding value to your life, and giving your virgin peeper attention. I promise you all; if you learn to only give attention sparingly and as a reward, you put yourself in a different category to 98% of the young men around you.

  • Escalation and confidence. I'd like to start by emphasising the fact that I am not enforcing rigorous standards of self-confidence that must magically appear into your psyche. Self-confidence develops with time, cumulative success and failure. However, there are some behaviours you can implement immediately to set yourself apart from the crowd. Self-deprecation seems to be particularly prevalent in young men, especially in a culture that fetishizes weakness and represses drive and ambition in young men. Whether you feel the need to self-deprecate or not, you must refrain from doing this when talking to girls. If you must, do it with close friends (however I would recommend totally eliminating it as a habit). Girls will notice if you never have anything negative to say about yourself. Obviously, if you have a crooked nose, or big teeth, or acne, don't pretend it doesn't exist, but don't use it as a reason to talk down about yourself. Most people will not highlight all your flaws when you talk to them, so why do it for them? Girls used to verbally express their amazement at the fact I would never, ever make negative comments about myself (and rarely about anyone else). In one way it distinguishes you from every other insecure teenager (even the popular chads will show insecurities) and in another way it improves your interactions with anyone you speak to; girls will be drawn to your positivity. Even if you aren't extremely enthusiastic and sunny, they will be charmed by the lack of negativity in your interactions. This is the beginning of the elusive self-confidence which will be so useful to you in the future. Building on from the benefits of confidence, you must learn to escalate. At your age, most girls won't have had the opportunity to become disillusioned and jaded by endless male attention and sexual encounters. Many will not be virgins (which shouldn't matter to you anyway), but they will still be excited by the idea of your nicely sculpted forearms brushing against her arm or your hand on their lower back. Once again - if you learn to get physical with a girl, you separate yourself from the 98% who are terrified of a hug from the terrifying females that they so desire. This skill demands some failure, awkwardness and difficulty, but now is the best time to learn. You will be able to learn alongside the girl you take interest in, and the awkwardness will give way to excitement. Young girls will be receptive as long as they have established attraction with you, which will be much easier considering you just hopped aboard the gains train. Lucky boy.

  • Time. This may be the most important blessing you have right now. Having found TRP at a young age, you have years to practice what some never discover, and most importantly, you won't spend years in the blue-pill whirlpool of cuckold porn, doritos fingers, and divorce settlements. You are in no rush. If you stay on the gains train you'll finish school in a position of physical superiority to 99% of your age bracket. Hopefully you will have picked up a girl or two along the way and lost your virginity (sex gets easier the more you do it, and the less you pedestalise it). Always remember and value the fact that you have your life's entire future ahead of you, and remind yourself of this every time you go on a bad date or get rejected. Every time you succeed, remember that you can always improve and make the time to do so. If you stay healthy, lift, and learn game, you will be functioning on an entirely different level to the average male of the coming decade. Godspeed.

Finishing up

This is my first post on TRP and I expect as much constructive criticism as can be leveled against me. I want to write specific posts for younger members of the community. TRP provides advice that applies to every man - but sometimes it is best intimated by someone who only recently went through the experience he is discussing. If interest is indicated, I'll write a post about having healthy and safe sexual relationships as a young man in high school, including concerns surrounding virginity and managing sexual partners. I'm also thinking about a comprehensive response to the social media argument that appears twice a month on the subreddit. Good luck to all you baby alphas; read the sidebar, read comments sections, lift, work with the future in mind, and take action.

[–]YasserZe 250 points251 points  (5 children)

And remember kids : keep your mouth shut

[–]iSwallowedTRP 31 points32 points  (3 children)

Best friend Bob will come and complain about a girl. You know what to say, you’ve seen this played out on TRP 50 times. You have a feeling of excitement, knowing how accurate and smart you’ll sound. Next thing you know, you’ll be an outcast at the bottom of the social hierarchy.

Don’t talk about TRP.

[–]tamtrey 15 points16 points  (2 children)

Get new friends then. I have never had a problem talking about it wit close friends. They are open to it if anything

[–]Celicni 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep. I wish someone showed me the place so long ago. Some people will get it. Start off slow, see who's receptive, proceed with them.

[–]iSwallowedTRP 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, but that can be difficult in high school. You certainly can hint at Red Pill ideas and gage their reaction it, kind of like a shit test to see if they’re ready for the whole pill.

[–]318RedPill 134 points135 points  (1 child)

As someone just discovering the TRP in his 30's, consider yourself VERY lucky to have found it in your teens. As long as you follow it correctly, you will save yourself years of BP shittiness.

[–]Kurush559[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This is why I like to encourage genuine appreciation of what TRP does for young people. Furthermore, it's easy for young guys to beat themselves up about being beta at age 15/16, but its helpful to understand how much worse things could have been had they not discovered reality

[–]gains_o_clock 90 points91 points  (8 children)

discovered in 11th grade, about to graduate and still digesting it. This stuff is hard man especially if you start where I did

[–]leviathan51 28 points29 points  (1 child)





[–]altlegend 15 points16 points  (0 children)



[–]apemonkeyfool 1 points1 points [recovered]

Yeah I hear you man. I found this sub in 11th grade. Only recently did I really swallow the pill and I'm in my sophomore year of college now.

[–]gains_o_clock 9 points10 points  (1 child)

I was deep into BP crap really really cringey amounts of deep I'm glad I'm shaping myself up and can't wait to leave high school to sculpt my image into who I want to be

[–]GaiusStone 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Same for me. Also discovered this sub at the end of 11th grade and in the coming school year i'd be graduating. TRP has helped me a lot so far with my mindset especially that when i discovered it i'm on the process of moving on from a relationship (made a big fool out of myself on that one). It also helped me on my depression. But i'm still having a hard time implementing it(still a fat-ass and a massive procrastinator). Anyway, i still think we're lucky to discover this early (compared to most people of trp). I'm really glad that there are also people here from my age group.

[–]gains_o_clock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure man. I started lifting for real and started taking risks and talking to people and I've made so many friends and have so much more respect from people now. I also have a lot of people that hate me now but screw them honestly. Managed to cut a lot of garbage people out of my life that I once thought to be my closest friends.

I'm still digesting the pill for sure it'll still take a couple of years coming from the state I was in. Definitely glad I found this place though I've been so much happier and more productive and just plain old better. Confidence is at an all time high bro.

[–][deleted] 99 points100 points  (15 children)

HS junior here.

This post is good and all, but it’s nothing I didn’t already learn from this sub.

I’m looking forward to your upcoming posts you mentioned in your last paragraph.

[–]Kurush559[S] 40 points41 points  (12 children)

Thanks - I understand that its essentially a rehash of normal TRP concepts, but the main goal was to direct it at a certain demographic that gets sidelined by the discussion of older TRP folk. Did I successfully get that across?

[–]VerySecretCactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HS junior here who hasn't been here much.

I don't really understood what's going on here. Should I read the sidebar, or is there something else to it? The sidebar looks more like reference information than a guide to active changes.

[–]punchsucker1 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Please go on, I'm 17 and reading and implenting are two very different things thanks for this!

[–]SnatchWhistle 20 points21 points  (4 children)

So, I am a new father to a son. My dad was total beta, and I had to learn some hard truths by myself.

I will store this in my memory banks for when the time comes for me to talk to him about it.

[–]ReadyPlayer15 26 points27 points  (3 children)

I'm 16 so u may not really want my advice, but if you want your kid to have a good time in highschool, put them in sports early, and make sure above all else they don't get fat, being chubby growing up makes it very difficult to have a great friend circle in school

[–]SnatchWhistle 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I meant as a perspective of someone who had their eyes opened to this mind frame at your age. Because all the bull shit, suck up things I didn't do at your age.

It is a fresh perspective compared to the way I grew up, and sparked a bookmark in my mind. Just as a reminder on how early I will need to start teaching him some of life's realities.

[–]Stron2g 5 points6 points  (1 child)

And for the love of masculinity, don't teach him to be a nice guy LOL

Congrats btw

[–]SnatchWhistle 1 point2 points  (0 children)


Yeah, that was the life I lived. Yuck. I don't want him to walk in those footsteps. Dark days.

[–]jesper_lundqvist 17 points18 points  (1 child)

Your teens is in one sense the hardest time of your life to orientate yourself as a guy because you're still halfway between child and man, but in another sense, it is the best time to take ownership of your masculinity. Quite simply, almost none of the other guys know what they're doing at that age, and most girls are only beginning to understand the power they hold over their male peers. Anyone who can bring order out of that form of chaos is unstoppable at that age.

On a practical level, when you're a teen is the easiest access to girls you'll ever have. You'll be around people your age and everyone's experimenting with the choices of adulthood. After college, people overwhelmingly go into 9-5 jobs and focus on their careers, so the only time you really end up out with your peers is on weekends, when every pub is a free-for-all. It's amazing how boring and routine previously spontaneous people can become over the course of a couple of years.

That's not to say that the twenties are bad, just that things scale with age and that it's more important to be ahead of the pack than in the centre of it. A stitch in time really does save nine.

[–]truedemocracy3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also one thing I noticed is that while many men over life experience snap out of blue pill conditioning (divorce, breakups, scoring with numerous women to understand behavior, etc all can reveal this) almost every damn guy at that point is all in on the kool aid (just be yourself, true love, etc)

If you're in high school and start working out, eating right, and pursuing interesting stuff then it literally is like investing with compound interest for when you're older

[–]Thrawy124 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Write a post on teenage text game for the love of God.

Even if it doesn't exist, we need a clear post that clearly states the do's and do not's of high school social media.

[–][deleted] 40 points41 points  (9 children)

Senior here graduating in a month. I wish I could send this post to my freshman self haha.

You may ask what lead me here as a 17 year old. Oneitis did. It’s so easy for us teenage boys to get oneitis. Like OP said girls crave attention. Us teens don’t know any better and give it away too quickly and for nothing. Especially with social media like Snapchat it’s so easy for guys to give away attention and time and the only thing he gets in return is being her emotional tampon. I did this for a year with one girl because I didn’t know any better. While I wish I did things differently with her, without my mistakes I wouldn’t have found or believed TRP.

[–]Kurush559[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don't beat yourself up about it - you've found the solution at an incredibly early and fortunate age, and you won't make the same mistake again (hopefully)

[–]TRPcez 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don't just blame it on yourself, 40 year old men are betas too. But then again, own your shit.

[–]NeverPullSumo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. This is an accurate fucking statement.

[–]JustTheTA 1 points1 points [recovered]

Hey I’ve seen u on the teenagers sub haha

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah I’m also on there

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sub gave me terminal cancer

[–]winepath 1 points1 points [recovered]

I'm currently a freshman and am thankful I found TRP so early on. For me, I found it around 8th, but I never really took the pill until 9th when I woke up from my obsession that I had with my oneitis at the time.

TRP made me realize that she wasn't as "perfect" as I perceived. If it weren't for this community, I would be obsessed with any girl who talks to me. It has also helped me a lot with social situations in general.

However as of now, I have yet to put it into practice (inb4 "Just ask girls out"). I don't have a permit yet so I would either have to have a parent drive (awkward/embarrassing as hell) or never meet girls outside the prison (nearly impossible to play with girls on prison grounds).

Next year, I have no excuses. I must embark on my painful journey to reproductive success. I'm young and ignorant and have a lot left to learn.

TRP is not an easy pill to swallow.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

When you say prison do you mean school? Lmao

As someone who lives in an area where you pretty much need to drive everywhere I wish I had enough money in senior year to buy my own car. Save fucking money and get a car otherwise you’ll never do shit. One reason I didn’t wanna date was because I’d need my parents to drive me places lol.

[–]Lkeacentipede 11 points12 points  (4 children)

There are some stuff I'd like to add

1.You know you shouldn't shit where you eat better than anyone.One lame approach and you're the school's joke for a week.So, until you start getting this shit right consider going after girls from other schools.Find where they hang, add 'em on fb or whatever

2.Don't go after the popular girl for now.There are tons of ok looking chicks that get no attention, have no social skills and would require minimum game to let you get your dick wet.I'm still pulling my hairthinking of all the action I lost from making that mistake

3.LEARN TO FLIRT.Flirting is nothing more than teasingTorero's guide " How to flirt with girls" is a great starting point

[–]Kurush559[S] 8 points9 points  (1 child)

1) Definitely, but if a girl shows interest, there's no harm in responding. Just understand that high schoolers will turn every little interaction into drama. At times its much easier to talk to girls from other schools (I did this)

2) Hm...I personally believe this totally depends on the individual. Some guys may be ready to do this if they're particularly well developed physically and emotionally. I would advise against immediately going full rambo after discovering the red pill and approaching a popular girl just to neg the shit out of her...I made that mistake.

3) Yep, it is mostly teasing. If you learn to tease wittily and effectively, flirting becomes fun and the stress is taken away. Plus, most young guys are much too scared to joke negatively about girls, and terrified of offending them. Be the guy that stands out.

[–]Lkeacentipede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1.Totally agree.I should have clarified that

2,3.Agree there too

[–]robot1one 1 points1 points [recovered]

Could you send the link for this guide? thanks.

[–]Lkeacentipede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot post a link here, but it has the exact name I posted, so you can find it in amazon by searching "How to flirt with girls Torero" at google.Let me know if you need anymore help brother

[–]truedemocracy3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Good fucking god if you're in high school and reading this do a backflip for joy because you are set while every other guy look at women like they are the da Vinci code

I wouldn't even worry about gaming girls. I would do as above stated and get yourself in order - hobbies, diet, exercise. Status is much more difficult to move ESPECIALLY in fucking high school. But worry not because college serves as a great reset.

Remember, women above all want status (which is often tied to physical stature, women want who men respect. Men respect someone who can kick their ass). always said when it comes to men and status there are 3 periods of major shift.

  1. High school - money matters dick here. Who's parents are rich or not meant nothing at my school. It's about who is popular and who plays sports, specifically football skill positions and basketball. You don't have to be an athlete to be popular but you have to bring something damn well to the table - drugs, class clown (fwiw class clowning won't get you laid but can get you a network), etc. if you are an athlete already congrats you're in. Apply RP principles when interacting with chicks. If you're not an athlete and can't become one in the short amount of time high school lasts then just lift and concentrate ALL efforts on achieving high status in phase 2

Phase 2. College. The 2nd great reset. All of a sudden that bad boy drug dealer or dumb baseball player who slayed in college have rock bottom smvs now. Want to slay in college, a sea of random faces, then ability to play sports means much less and it's all social proof. 2 guys slay in college - college athletes and fraternity men. It's much easier to be the latter. Join a top tier or middle tier fraternity and you'll have your own crew plus access to parties and women that you previously couldn't imagine. Keep working out - college is when chiseled boys become dad bod men. If you're in shape and in a halfway decent fraternity then slay away. But also focus on setting yourself up career wise too. Because that's the final phase for status

  1. Money. Who makes what matters zero in high school and little in college. It's a big factor of how you're perceived as an adult. Now don't become a fucking beta bucks and do something you hate to attract women. I went to an elite MBA and would not trade places in life with 90% of the investment bankers or corporate lawyers I know. Bitchy wives, fat bodies, etc. Find something you enjoy and also gives you a desirable lifestyle. A lifestyle that can afford an international trip, living in a city, a nice apartment, a car, etc. generally this starts around 50k if you're responsible (unless NYC or west coast) so keep in mind employment prospects while in college. From there don't get caught in the rat race. You make money your life and that's all you bring to the table then guess what - someone will always make more and provide more. But if you're fit, make above average salary, and spend your summers surfing in Argentina then you will be more appealing than the 60 hours a week no time for anything but sleep and Netflix office slave

[–]xNightly 10 points11 points  (1 child)

As a high school student myself (17), the one thing you're missing out on is studying. Studying > Chasing girls. I'm learning this the hard way. Spent all year fucking around with girls and forgot about my exams. First exams start in three weeks and I'm nowhere near prepared. Don't be me.

[–]GaiusStone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. I'm kind disappointed that studying isnt emphasized enough here. To me, smarts kids are the cool kids now (can observe it at school). I also spent my 11th grade sulking and making a fool of myself because of a girl who dumped me. I was one of the smart kids in class and the whole school, joined a lot of competitions the year before that. And then, i just flunked. Became more and more lazy, got more depressed, didnt do homework, got social anxiety and failed at competitions. I felt and saw how other people's view of me has changed. They treated me differently. Felt like a big fat ugly loser. I though i'm gonna be like that for years, but thank god i discovered TRP at the end of that school year. It's still summer here and am still learning from TRP, doing my own research and trying to implement it one at a time. I hope I do better in 12th grade. I feel so damn lucky i discovered this subreddit. I almost feel like i'm slightly cheating at life.

[–]caporal247 9 points10 points  (3 children)

High school senior here,

About the getting touchy with them part,how do you do it without coming of as cringey or worse,creepy?

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

it will only come across as cringey or creepy if those thoughts are on your mind.

-look at her EYES, not where you're touching

-don't do that hug where your top halves touch and your dick is two feet back.

[–]Kurush559[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Firstly gauge interest. If a girl is making strong eye contact, laughing at your jokes, and touching you on the arm, you know you can respond physically. As the other reply says, look at her eyes, not where you're touching.

Cringy/creepy is a word girls use when they're not attracted to the guy in question. Be attractive.

[–]GaiusStone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be sure that she's also attracted to you.

[–]Sisu6972 1 points1 points [recovered]

Visited redpill a few times freshman year of college. From that info alone made a girl obsessed with me. Got played by a girl over the summer and immersed myself in learning and acting out the ways of the redpill. Just finished up sophomore year, slayed hella puss and transformed myself from a people pleasing beta to someone I can be proud of.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You really can’t become fully TRP until you’ve been fucked over a girl for seemingly no reason at all. It’s like a right of passage.

[–]Xanax_Guy 38 points39 points  (18 children)

Dude how the fuck u found TRP in highschool.

[–]iHoldAllTheAces 1 points1 points [recovered]

I did it... in middle school, ironically, I was trying to find out ways to get this chick I was orbiting to like me.

[–]Xanax_Guy 14 points15 points  (1 child)

Well İ am 18 years old and basically fucked up first year of university being bluepilled like hell. And even I find myself lucky to discover TRP in this early stage of my life but you guys fuckin lucky as hell. I wish I found TRP in highschool.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When you are young, there isn't anything wrong with fucking this up, as long as you don't lose your mind and get married.

[–]TRP_TEX 1 points1 points [recovered]

Middle Schoolers have no business having sex. The fuck? You're gonna knock someone up or get an sti.

[–]tamtrey 3 points4 points  (2 children)

ya, middle schoolers def have a higher chance of getting an sti than an adult dat makes sense

[–]TRP_TEX 1 points1 points [recovered]

Middle schoolers are more likely to transmit Sti’s and pregnancy because lack of sexual education. Protection is learned not inherent.

Which is why a lot of gals who are in middle school are fucking college boys.

[–]tamtrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lolwat a random middle schooler fucking a random middle schooler isn't more likely to get a sti than a random adult fucking a random adult thats common sense. And for ur second statement is blatantly wrong in so many ways. One middle school girls fucking college boys is barely a thing, VERY rare. Two I'm pretty sure that wouldnt be the main reason why they are fucking older men. How the does that even add up. -->middle schoolers lack sexual education (which is also false for US atleast). To middle schoolers go to older people to fuck them because they use protection. Clear logical error in that

[–]ReadyPlayer15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol from inceltears ironically enough, decided to check it out for fun, and we'll, I'm glad I did

[–]GetGudAtLife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was a literal miracle for me. Clicked "Random Subreddit" and it came up. At the perfect time too-- I was tired of being beta and wanted to see how to change.

[–]SunburstMC 4 points5 points  (2 children)

I'm 16, I actually discovered it like... a year ago but I didn't understand what's up because I didn't do my research and I thought you are all just a bunch of incels so I passed. Long story short, I decided that video games and memes are a total waste of my time and that I should focus on career, learning, hobbies and self-improvement , so I decided to make myself a no bullshit multireddit. (that needs improvements but it's alright for now) Now I can finally say that I rediscovered this sub like a week ago while browsing the Nootropics subreddit.

[–]GaiusStone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I've delayed delving into this sub because most of reddit gave it such a bad light and warned people to stay away from here. I also thought that this was just for incels. My perception changed when I actually gave it a try and read the bests posts from all time. I'm instantly hooked, especially the ones about improving yourself.

[–]VerySecretCactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I'm 16 and just got here. My initial impression was also that you're a bunch of incels, but I'm starting to change my mind after seeing some very smart shit in some top posts. I suppose I oughta read the sidebar now.

[–]Kurush559[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know what you're trying to ask

[–]NofapFrance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bad breakup, spotted a pattern in all females relationships. So I guess it is just using my brain.

[–]420KUSHBUSH 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Sage advice

Still in high school also. One thing I learned is that you should always heed people's advice that come from experience. Seems I'm now on the giving end of advice. Hindsight is 20/20. This is sidebar material right here. Simple, yet elegant

[–]Kurush559[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A caveat to this is if they're clearly not qualified to give advice on a matter. Young people get used to taking the advice of their elders, but there comes a time when one realizes that most adults are clueless and learning anyway. Why would you take dating advice from your beta father whose marriage is falling apart? Would you take lifting advice from a skinnyfat chump at your gym?

Take advice from experience, not age. Sometimes age has a correlation with this, but one must learn to see the difference

[–]U-94 6 points7 points  (1 child)

The Last Jedi was a terrible film but if someone asked me to give sage advice to their HS aged son about TRP/dating, I'd be quoting Luke Skywalker, "This isn't going to go the way you think."

[–]Wobblewobblegobble 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The light speed scene was awesome tho you can't lie

[–]shahido2017 5 points6 points  (6 children)

Freshman in college, 100 pound virgin, but I recently found this sub and I’m starting to make changes in my life. This post helped a lot even though I’m in college, so thanks for that! Any tips for starting my journey to transformation?

[–]Kurush559[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lift like your life depends on it, practice flexibility and use light weights so you don't snap your shit. Buy a whey and oat weight gainer if you struggle to get lots of food in. You can afford to eat 3000 calories a day.

[–]Afrofreak1 1 points1 points [recovered]

Inspiration gets you started, habit keeps you going. You've gotta stick to whatever goal you have until it becomes a habit. I started college out at 5'5'', 99 lbs. (I was crazy skinny) and 20 months later I'm at 5'11'' 135 lbs. Still got a long way to go to reach my optimal weight of ~165 lbs. but proud of the progress I've made.

[–]SmokePurpp_ 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Wtf? Did working out just give you HGH out of no where?

[–]mattgdailey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished my freshman year and had gains of about 159 to 178. Recommend meeting friends at the dining hall to eat all the time. Start going 4-5 days a week it’ll be 7 by the third month. If you’re that skinny you can afford to eat the 3000 calories and still have a good whey protein shake.

[–]Jaloss 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Thanks for the post. TRP has really helped me get far from 10-11, I'm just getting tingles from the thoughts of where I may eventually be in 5 to 10 years.

[–]Kurush559[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Just keep improving.

[–]NeverPullSumo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m 17. Honestly? I wish I found TRP when I was 16. Life changing.

[–]Kurush559[S] 8 points9 points  (5 children)

A question to mods - can I link some TRP posts relating to fitness in the post itself? I didn't want to risk the post being removed for having external links but thought it would be helpful to direct readers to the posts most relevant to their situation

[–]V-Vanguard 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Hey, could you send me those link in PM if you don't mind?

[–]5JS1XBG64A 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you would be good. People link to other TRP posts all the time on here. All the non-TRP posts that get linked are always archived since those are "external"

[–]testanum 3 points4 points  (1 child)

15 year old, high school Freshman here.

I consider myself so lucky as to have found this treasure trove of great advice, which is the whole redpill/TRP community.

Like you mentioned, I have years of headstart compared to so many other members in the community, and I wont fall into any negative traps that so many omegas do later in life.

Please continue this series of advice for people my own age, it feels great to have been acknowledged as part of the community. I used to feel a slight anxiety about my age as a member of this community, I used to feel as though High-school shit was not important and irrelevant to you guys. Guess not.


[–]DatsFoRealDoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, we're in the same boat ! I'm also in 9th grade. I'm so fortunate to have learned about shit tests and frame control, especially around a bunch of hormonal and insecure teens in my classes. They roast and ridicule, but I have some kind of invisible shield that deflects their insults. However, I bombed all of those kinds of tests in 8th grade, and now I realized how dumb I was to have taken them seriously in the first place.

It's pretty rare finding someone the same age, so I'm just gonna recap whatever I've learned through observation and theory reading to give you a headstart.

First of all, will it pay off eventually? May or may not. You can't expect everything from a collection of pages written by some random people on the internet, but it's a good start. I'm not quite in shape yet and my face tends to scare away most people, so I have to rely on mindset mainly. I realized as a man I have to find my own path and stop chasing women and putting them on some kind of pedestal. This post really hit the nail on the head with providing excessive attention to girls. Whenever you find yourself becoming nervous over some hot chick, just remember the law of least effort: less emotional investment = her chasing you. Remember that.


When you find yourself engaged in a conversation with girls, play it cool. Be calm, stoic, and show that you have firm roots grounded in the soil of reality. Don't make the mistake I made of being humbly and giggly. Project your voice and embrace whatever depth it has. Stand firm and take up space. If there's anything I learned from the fucking 40 Year Old Virgin, it's that you should make it a habit of asking questions and find yourself naturally curious. Ask them trick questions. That makes them engaged and wonder more about you as a man.

Normally, girls will ignore you, or give you one-word answers. While some say this is just another shit test and she wants to see how far you'll go to chase her, most of the time it means she's not inclined to be bothered and you should focus on someone else. Body language, albeit subtle, makes up the majority of human communication. Read her signals before you approach. If she's closed off and looking down on her phone, it's not the best time to pull a cold approach, unless you can wing a conversation and pull it out of the rut of awkward silence.

Be weary of what you read. Not all of the advice on this is sound, since the pill is still in development. We as men are still trying to find our intrinsic identity in this blue-pilled beta trap we call society. You might encounter some pages that are ridiculous stories, some being blatant misogyny without any basis or intention. Filter those out. Aim to find pages that focus on self-improvement, and don't look into bitter pity-parties. I recommend the sidebar if you haven't read it already.

Also, TIP: Don't chase girls. I cannot sufficiently stress this. If you have a hard time doing this, just remember what goals you have and realize chasing girls is just a distraction from your mission (which hopefully isn't to get girls). Unleash that sexy alpha bastard within who knows his purpose. The last thing girls want is a desperate, needy boy who doesn't have standards or options. What girls want is status. Join a club, become a leader. Who do all the girls chase? Not the nerd who sits on his TI-84 Plus all day (unless he initiated his own club for it). They pursue the jock, the captain of the football team, the percussionist of the jazz band, etc.

I was also dubious of how much this subreddit applies to girls in high school, since I mostly hear stories about women who are post wall or in their early 20s. Regardless, I wish you the best of luck in your journey to becoming a true alpha.

[–]TRPcez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, pretty good for a first post. Here are some edits I would do:

Change the format and shorten the 3 premises (too long and they won't understand).

Make it either for the newbies and explain everything or change it to an OUTLINE for noobs and give them reading links.

Anyways, these are just some things I would change. Hope to see your next post, cheers

[–]CountVP 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Thanks for the wirte up. I’m not in HS. (i’m in my 20’s) but i’m still young and just started applying redpill concepts to my life. I especially enjoyed the part that you said “you still got your life ahead of you, and it’s good that you found TRP early” this gives me a lot of perspective and hope that things will gradually improve. Looking forward to your other posts

[–]swimminginblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

21 years old in College and damn I feel lucky to have discovered it at this age but at the same time can’t help but feel jealous, I wish I discovered it in high school. But as they say it comes when the time is right. Good luck to you all

[–]InternalCog 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I’m a high school senior about to go to college. How I got into this sub is a really funny story. My ex girlfriend contacted me and said she wanted another chance. Long story short she was talking to a bunch of other guys who plowed her and she just wanted more attention. The full story is on my account but just know AWALT.

So I got really fucking depressed. I discovered this sub and I fucking blocked her, decided to not be her beta bitch, and decided to get my shit together. After discovering this sub I realized that the reason I lost my other ex girlfriend, someone whom I cared about deeply, is because I failed all of her shit tests and she lost attraction.

I’m tired of being a beta bitch and it’s time for me to shape up. I’ve already been hitting the gym for the military. Thank you for the wealth of knowledge everyone has provided and if there are some more posts or tips you recommend please let me know. Thanks guys :D

[–]GaiusStone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same age here brotha, and i can relate to being a beta bitch of someone you once liked. I'm going to pm you a pdf, it's a collection of the bests posts here in trp in my opinion. It's not yet done but i already did most of the formatting. And i'll also send you some other resources like books you could read (recommended by the TRP community). Hope it helps you, man!

[–]TheFowo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who had discovered internet world of pick up at 14, I wish I could have read an article like this at the time, I would have skipped many mistakes which mostly resolve from lack of informations for young guys wanting to pick up young girls in their schools.

Cheers mate!

[–]Admiral529 2 points3 points  (0 children)

friendly neighborhood misogynist

Definantly should be your new flair u/GayLubeOil

[–]HeavenlyMystery 6 points7 points  (3 children)

A question, what about crooked teeth? (although in January I'm certain of getting braces).

[–]MVPhillips 9 points10 points  (2 children)

It never stopped Austin Powers

[–]Kurush559[S] 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Just like any other physical flaw. Some people won't like it and it might even be a dealbreaker. Others might have no problem. I had terrible acne all throughout high school (I actually still have it now) and was able to slay with decent game, and it's still not a problem. But, some girls couldn't look past the acne, and that's fine. No one owes you anything; if a hippo of a woman asks you out, you're not obligated to say yes and like her, in the same way no woman is obligated to like my spotty face. I still found that it was only a minority that were genuinely put off by it.

[–]blkMGTOW07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredibly mature and humble response there my friend

[–]DevynTM 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I disagree with your opinion on Self-deprecation. Everyone has their flaws, it is attractive to be observant and humorous about them. It demonstrates your sense of humor.

Just don't go overboard, it's very easy.

Besides that, everything else said was top notch advice. Very nice. :)

[–]Kurush559[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between observant/humorous about flaws and self-deprecation. Please explain to me if I used the wrong word; when I said self-deprecate I was specifically referring to young men talking down about themselves, or one of their physical/emotional traits in a negative manner. Is there another word that better describes this?

[–]Legalize-Cocaine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an avid meth/Adderall user, this guide is quite good.

[–]NofapFrance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I discovered it at 16 (so 6months ago.) and thanks, gonna read it.

[–]NofapFrance 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I already lift (for 3years, I did everything, calisthenics, rings, weights.) I know how to cook, I have adopted the stoic mentality, I meditate, do to-do lists, work hard. And know game (early PUA days.)

Any tips or areas I could improve?

[–]GaiusStone 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Your studies. And learn some tech stuffs like tech support and programming. I also do video editing and graphic designing. That shit will earn you money and make you way about your peers. Especially that you already lift. I'm the opposite of you, i pretty much got the intellect part so this year i'm trying to concentrate on my body now, its a fcking mess. I'm fat and have lots of acne because i've been sleep deprived since freshman year because of my studies and my beta mindset.

[–]NofapFrance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

roger that. Gonna get after these studies. To lift, you can even do calisthenics, doable anywhere and you can get really a nice body solely with a ground and a pullup bar.

[–]Da_Funky_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys don't usually get the difference between being "good-looking" vs being "attractive." Let's put it this way, being attractive is like a movie, and being good-looking is like a genre. This means there are plenty of other genres of "movies." You like the same songs I like? That's attractive (at least for me). You can have a witty conversation about random shit? That's attractive. You show yourself to be a decent person to others (and not just trying to impress) and you guessed it.. attractive. It depends among the person of course. I honestly think this is why later in marriage, when the husband cleans or something when he usually doesn't, the wife thinks he's incredibly fucking hot lol. And trust me, every friend I've thought to be attractive, I've already mentally banged every single one of them. You don't need to be some muscle jockey to get girls at all, that's not really how it works. Attraction of course is different from sexual tension, but the two can be closely related, I personally try to tie in sexual banter, or negs, and it usually works out. Luckily, I crave a social conversation so it definitely doesn't look like I'm "trying too hard"

[–]EmotionalProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)


Don't get into long text conversations. Ignore the endless stream of snaps she sends. They're probably pictures of her cats, or whichever other shiny/fluffy object caught her attention.

Don't follow her around, don't let her use you to complain about pointless drama/her crush that's ignoring her. Don't buy her a smoothie just because you feel obligated.

Double Oops. As the first post on the red pill I’ve seen this is some good advice. Thank you, I already knew feminism is bullshit but this is great.

[–]EmotionalProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say that you should give attention sparingly and not give it out willy nilly but how do you gain a girls attention without doing that? I get standing out and once she comes to you but won’t she take you as not interested if you don’t give her a lot of attention? What I’m trying to say is when DO you actually give attention.

[–]qw8nt 1 points1 points [recovered]

Can you link any good workout regimes? I've always wanted to lift but I'm not sure which one would be the best to start with.

[–]cmski29 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Do Starting Strength, best beginner routine there is

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great post, only a few things to add:

Develop hobbies outside of school, date/fuck girls outside of school, don't get into a LTR too quickly.

Girls have no care for a man they aren't dating/fucking. This means when the affair is over, you are an active threat to her social status. Many (perhaps most) women will try to eviscerate your friendships, destroy your reputation and get you removed from school when things end. This happens so often and so easily for them (eg "he makes me feel uncomfortable" and "he says we had sex but I don't remember a thing") that you have to take steps to protect yourself. Fundamentally this means not fucking girls who you share an organisation with.

Schools and colleges fuck over men in a heartbeat on a woman's say-so. This is done in the name of equality.

The solution is to date/fuck women OUTSIDE your organisation/school/college/workplace. I know this is hard when you're at school and surrounded by hot girls, but believe me when I say the girls at the next school over are just as hot and you'll be more appealing because you're from somewhere else.

Hobbies outside school should be obvious for your mental wellbeing and interest.

Don't get into a LTR too quickly. Men with a scarcity mentality fall for this gambit all too often... "I'm a nice girl, I don't have sex outside of a committed relationship". We all know it's bullshit, but young men especially fall for this.

Look... you're young and you haven't realised your value yet. If you're 18 and she's 18, she's reaching her attractiveness peak. You are at least 10 years away from yours. Don't get locked down and committed at a time when she has higher value than you. She'll exploit this. Before you know it you'll be on the fast track to marriage and all the problems that come with it.

Always keep your options open. Always be free to leave. REALLY free... not "I could dump her I guess, but then I'd lose all my friends". You want to avoid this situation. You need proper freedom to make arbitrary choices without negative consequences.

And for the love of god, use a fucking condom. Women are passively and actively and wilfully negligent when it comes to birth control. They believe dumb rumours, expect you to be responsible (and legally you are), forget to take their pill, don't read the instructions, etc. They get child support. You pay child support. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for birth control, her saying "I don't want children" and "I'll get an abortion" and "I'm on the pill, HONEST" will not stand up in court. The court doesn't give a fuck. Men have been sexually assaulted and had to pay CS. Men have cum in her mouth, she's admitted she transferred it to her pussy, and they have STILL had to pay CS. (This won't happen to you, but the point is that the courts don't give a fuck if it does). Use a rubber, always.

[–]lifeisweirdasfuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 18 year old guy still in high school, I would add: focus on yourself. Don't text women like 99% of the guys do. It's a waste of time, it will get you nowhere unless you are already handsome and have high social status. Focus on getting good grades and don't give a fuck about women cause they will be attracted to you as soon as you start focusing on yourself, and only yourself.

[–]altlegend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a teen and a virgin (uh oh) and the best thing I tell myself about virginity is that its not my hymen that is being broken and bleeding. There is literally no special connection to who you lose it to unlike women have.

[–]Unrelated3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing missing is cold aproaches ar that age

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

15yo here. I can say I am super lucky and I'm thankful for it. Skinny dude without much body fat, was already on a bodyweight routine but recently signed up to the gym and ready for bulking, my face isn't ugly (or so I hope). I don't know about you but we have vacations in my country (Tunisia, it is located in North Africa) but I'm super excited for the changes that will happen when I return. 2 weeks from now and I'll be returning to my country so I'm planning on finding a gym there.

Just one little question : In Tunisia people aren't as open-minded as the Americans or Europeans (Well we are the most open-minded arab country but that doesn't help) so I'm asking myself if it is okay to still face shit tests with a cocky attitude or they will think I'm a freak ?

[–]Kurush559[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

You know your country better than anyone else. You can probably be cocky enough to not seem offended, but not in a super arrogant or offensive way. The main thing I've noticed about dating magrebi/middle eastern girls is that you can't be as open about sex, they're less likely to talk about it or discuss it. But they're still just as likely to fuck you, as long as they KNOW you will be discreet, quiet, and won't tell anyone.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Well last year before discovering the red pill I just wanted to make some female friends but was shy and I used sexual jokes pretty often with my guy friends so I told myself think of females as your guy friends and started using these jokes with them after I checked if they can be offended by it or not. Maybe it's unrelated but I tell my closest female friend even things like "suck my dick", "I was fapping so I couldn't answer your call" and we laugh it off together. So from my experience it depends more on the person than the country. But I am still not sure about using sexuality in conversation to get laid because if I am with a girl whom I just met and don't know her, logically I don't know if she'll tolerate it but I guess I won't know if I don't try and if I fail fuck it, it won't be the end of the world. (I naturally use sexual language anyway so if a girl doesn't tolerate them she just doesn't fit my personality and won't be fun to be with)

[–]Kurush559[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Seems like youre already pretty skilled at this. What i was saying about sexual language was in regards to public conversations or conversations with people you dont know very well. Just dont call anyone a sharmoutha

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm sure I know my limits enough that I won't call anybody I just met like that :')

Btw sorry for the long comment but it feels good to talk about this because nobody knows about what I am experiencing and thanks for reading if you do so.

You can say I'm skilled at cocky and funny talk. I joke with my guy friends about fucking their mother but did that with 3 new classmates this year and was about to get beaten that's why I asked this type of question. But when it comes to socializing I failed badly (nervousness around new people, not wanting to lead the conversation, watching from behind only) and that was more the case after last year (some pretty serious drama occurred around me and I decided that in 2018 I won't talk with anyone in my new class because I thought people are shit and they wanted to be my friends for benefits [I won't go into the details but that was mostly the subject of the drama]) but when entering high school I discovered my best female friend and I was able to open up thanks to her (Most of the females of the class were really friendly to me whereas last year I only talked to 2 of them. They were really clingy and one day I told a girl I was busy when she tried to talk to me, she thought I ignored her and insulted me. She made a drama and all girls told me I was a jerk so took my shit together and told them even if the entire class won't talk to me and will bully me I don't give a single shit because I wasn't at fault. They calmed the fuck down and 4 days later she dragged me somewhere where we were alone an apologized to me but didn't accept it until my best friend came and told me to do so for her sake. I felt like a fucking hero transforming from the "Nice Guy" to the IDGAF type of guy in one year) As time goes on, I try to internalize the IDGAF idea into me and I'm really proud of myself. I'm looking for this romance shit but honestly nobody caught my heart so here I am browsing the red pill subreddit to prepare myself when the time comes.