Field ReportMeeting the "nice girl" who turned out to be a total slut (self.TheRedPill)
submitted 1 year ago by iwastheproblem
Summary: Met a friend who I thought to be faithful, of course she turned out to be a total slut.
A while ago I was travelling to big European city to meet an old acquaintance who I met through hobbies. I would say that she is a solid 8, but she's getting older and will soon hit the wall (she recently turned 30).
She has a boyfriend who is a total loser - old, stuck in a shitty job, has a beer belly and probably never lifted. For this reason I thought that sex would be off the table and just came to see her as a friend (I was fine about this, she is nice and we get along).
Well, one thing led to another and we ended up in bed. After sex we started talking about fetishes, and she wanted to share some of hers. Her first fetish was to be 'taken forcefully', i.e. a rape fantasy. Her second fetish was to be fucked by total strangers, and she fantasized a lot about some foreign, darker skinned, guys at her workplace. During the second night she wanted me to fuck her in the ass and said that she dreamed about being double penetrated.
Of course she was also hamstering all the time. She drank a little alcohol and later claimed that she was drunk and it all "just happened". Of course this was not true. She had also bought some sexy lingerie for this particular trip. She also said that this will be the last time we meet and have sex like this, only to start planning our next meeting in another city maybe 30 minutes after saying this. Finally she suggested that we do something "kinkier".
To conclude, I would like to list some of the things that she found arousing in me:
At times I have been quite skeptical about some of the stories shared here. I have felt that people really can't be this stupid and have this kind of cognitive dissonance in their thinking. After this weekend I spent with her, I am convinced that AWALT is the truth. Red pilling yourself gives an immense advantage in mating and it also helps you avoid many mistakes guys make with girls.
[–]Ricardo2991 290 points291 points292 points 1 year ago (23 children)
Nice girl who has a bf meeting up with an "old acquaintance" for drinks. I saw enough right there. Cmon bruh. Use your brain.
[–]LotBuilder 126 points127 points128 points 1 year ago (20 children)
Exactly, when a female “friend” from the past reaches out to you it means she either wants sex or money. If it’s money, she thinks you are a chump.
[–]Poutvora 34 points35 points36 points 1 year ago (19 children)
Give me one example when I am giving some girl with a boyfriend my money. I know there are men that give money to girls online and for free. But if some girl came to me personally and asked for free money I would have a problem not to laugh.
[–]LotBuilder 120 points121 points122 points 1 year ago (18 children)
Happens quite a bit in my circle of friends. We are in our 40’s and have acquired some wealth. It’s likely different for younger guys. It isn’t uncommon for ex employees, or sales reps, or a clients personal assistant, etc to reach out wanting to meet for lunch. Inevitably they want you to invest in their new BS (photography, gift basket, interior design, personal training, lifestyle blog, etc) business. They just want to quit the corporate world (hating accountability) and be an entrepreneur but don’t want to risk their own money. They will definitely fuck you to get it done. I just kind of get a feel for the girl, her sanity, how much I want to fuck her, etc. Then I’ll set up an off site planning session at a nice hotel in a nice area (I’m in Northern CA so Napa, Carmel, Tahoe) and bang her all weekend while pretending to business plan. Then I’ll “have my attorney review the proposal” and act disappointed when he shoots down the plan. They can’t really complain about being used because they thought they were working me over.
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I like your style. I wanna be you in two decades.
[–]czatara 28 points29 points30 points 1 year ago (11 children)
This is brilliant! These kinds of sexual strategies should be more discussed here, it is like a perfect blend of BJJ and TRP. Despite lifting and improving oneself, most people will not reach Chad-level in their lifetime. Your comment shows a very interesting strategy, use her "beta-bucks" seduction routine against herself.
[–]LotBuilder 27 points28 points29 points 1 year ago (10 children)
It’s very effective because you can always turn it into “you mean you only slept with me because you thought I was going to give you money?” They can hamster anything but when you draw a clear line between them having sex for money they need to then pretend they didn’t have sex for money. It’s easier for them to pretend that 3 day weekend never happened than it is to admit what actually happened.
[–]memphisjohn 17 points18 points19 points 1 year ago (5 children)
^ 100% concur and validate from my own personal experience. I've taken a chick who "has a steady serious bf" on weekend trips "just as friends" and of course we banged all weekend. There wasnt even any pretense of business planning or other BS, only that I mentioned I was going to a cool place for the weekend and she jumped at the chance to travel.
[–]LotBuilder 26 points27 points28 points 1 year ago (2 children)
That goes back to SMV. If you have cool things and do cool stuff, girls want to play along. If I have a boat and bunch of booze and music tee’d up on Saturday morning... and their BF sleeps till 3pm because he was playing video games and smoking weed... who do you think is going to win. Yeah, I’m 40 and overweight and would not be these girls ideal boyfriend... but if you are fun and have charisma and can create fun moments, you can shoot way above your league.
My married friends started calling me the bootleg Dan Blizerian after my divorce.
It doesn’t have to be expensive all the time, it just has to be fun and trigger her Adrenaline, dopamine, and oxytocin. If you can do that she suddenly thinks you are sexy af.
[–]PMmepicsofyourtits 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Boats are an adventure, a status symbol and a mobile hotel room. No wonder Saudi princes buy them in bulk.
[–]LotBuilder 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Motorcycles are good too, I’m pretty sure I banged every girl that ever went for a ride.
[–]diamondstudz 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (1 child)
when you go on these trips, do you pay for everything? transportation, hotel, food, activities, etc.
[–]memphisjohn 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
No, split everything. Because "friends" ... the sex "just happened"
[–]diamondstudz 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (3 children)
question is, when you go on these trips, do you pay for everything? transportation, hotel, food, activities, etc.
[–]LotBuilder 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (2 children)
The appear more professional from the start I have them drive separately and pay for their own room. We are 2-3 hours max from home. I pay for food and drinks, there are not really any outside activities that cost. I am not saying this to brag but spending $750-1000 on a nice weekend is insignificant to me.
The approach can be scaled up or down in terms of age and money spent.
[–]diamondstudz -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (1 child)
i tend to agree with you, and i hate being a cheapskate - i'd much rather be able to afford that kind of money especially as i get older.
but many people on this sub would claim, bro you're being a beta bucks!!!
they do have a point though, because do you really think these women when they were younger expected the chads they fucked to spend a dime on them, much less close to a grand?
nope, they were the booty calls for the chads, and now that they're much older, guys like you and me are paying hundreds of dollars for the opportunity to to fuck them
[–]LotBuilder 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
It’s all relative to age and wealth, in my social circles BB is literally supporting them, marrying or carrying them financially. You know all those Instagram chicks that travel constantly... they are banging a (or many) old dudes to make that happen. I don’t go that route (often). A three day weekend in Tahoe or Napa banging it out is the social equivalent of pump and dump in my world. It’s not outside of my normal lifestyle with or without them.
Sure, this chicks might fuck a tennis instructor back in his shitty apartment but I can’t take 15 years off the clock and I really like banging hot 23 year olds so you make some minor adjustments to TRP. I can fuck good looking girls in their late 30’s all day long, but that’s not what makes me happy.
[–]BrandonMontour 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Happened to my dad. Total poor bitch and i went thru his messages and found he gave her 32 fucking thousand! Luckily that’s over now
[–]Forcetobereckonedwit 7 points8 points9 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Ouch. I never spend real money on women. Dinner, fun outtings, the occasional trinket, nothing that would cause me to think twice. Every few times with the same girl, I show up and say "it's your turn!". They usually treat with a smile and an "of course!".
[–]SuperCrazy07 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Happens quite a bit in my circle of friends. We are in our 40’s and have acquired some wealth.
Happens quite a bit in my circle of friends. We are in our 40’s and have acquired some wealth.
My friends and I are in our 40s too...and I don't know a single one who would give money to a chick they don't know on the internet (this is what the post above you was referring to). That dumb fuckery is for younger guys.
But I love your "investor" approach for a weekend with a hot chick.
[–]iwastheproblem[S] 12 points13 points14 points 1 year ago (1 child)
We have met before and it was not just for drinks, we did some hobby-related activities, too.
But you are right, it was obvious. And reading this forum has helped me to notice these things and be more active with my efforts. I really was clueless before.
[–]BlackendLight 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I can sympathize, I was incredibly naive about these things as well in my blue pill phase and in the beginning stages of red pilling.
[–]ExternalKing 243 points244 points245 points 1 year ago (27 children)
I wasn't aware that there was such a thing as a "nice girl"
[–]TheTrenTrannyTrain 278 points279 points280 points 1 year ago (7 children)
Nice girls are just bad girls with great game.
[–]savoysprouts 33 points34 points35 points 1 year ago (4 children)
I like what your on to here
[–]sky_fallen 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (3 children)
Yes please elaborate
[–]2Overkillengine 10 points11 points12 points 1 year ago (1 child)
It means they are good at telling you what you want to hear, and showing you what you want to see.
Knew a girl that would put on the whole Christian facade at work but was cheating on her husband.
She wore a crucifix around her neck where everyone could see, but had butterfly tattoos on her pelvis; conveniently lower than low rise jeans would show.
[–]Ben_Eszes 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Just look up "good girl game." It's one way a female can 'spit game.'
[–]MuhTriggersGuise 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Which can actually be a lot of fun.
[–]ollie555 68 points69 points70 points 1 year ago (12 children)
They pretend to be to lure us in
[–]anon35201 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
Defining cost functions that produce gradients, then casted to boolean makes both of you look like novice. Are the steering wheels on your car or gas pedal a yes or no kind of instrument?
[–]Aggressive_Beta 40 points41 points42 points 1 year ago (2 children)
^ This is by far one of the most spergy things I’ve ever read on this sub.
[–]Unrealenting 15 points16 points17 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Absolutely correct, but try speaking in the language of your audience next time if your intent is to be understood rather than just to be smug.
[–]tuesdayrain 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
This is pretty accurate but most people won't appreciate it.
[–]MrSittingBull 7 points8 points9 points 1 year ago (0 children)
The message was spot on, his delivery was piss-poor.
[–]FratboyOnReddit 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (0 children)
What the fuck did u just say to me? Better watch ur mouth lol.
[–]comcain 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
C programmer explains wimmen. Wow. I can die happy now.
[–]the_real_lunch_box 19 points20 points21 points 1 year ago (0 children)
We don't believe in unicorns. AWALT
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children)
They are the equivalent of a nice guy. Basically the crazy girls. “Don’t stick your dick in the crazy”.
[–]sebmathews 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Wait, i thought sluts WERE nice girls.
[–]The_Chiselnator 103 points104 points105 points 1 year ago (5 children)
There are no nice girls. There are only nicer ones. Nicer than others. Intrinsically all women are just dormant cannibals
[–]BrontanamoBay 24 points25 points26 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Dormant cannibals. I love it.
[–]ZestyyyClamMeat -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (3 children)
dormant cannibals? plz explain
[–]The_Chiselnator 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (1 child)
No. I won't explain as it is self explanatory.
[–]Westerncaesar 311 points312 points313 points 1 year ago (47 children)
There all sluts for the right guy.
[–]myrodia 295 points296 points297 points 1 year ago (9 children)
Cmon man. They're. They are. Not 'over there'
[–]Westerncaesar 40 points41 points42 points 1 year ago (2 children)
Hahaha. Made even worse because I'm British..
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (0 children)
The apostrophe is for the word split to "they are". "There", no apostrophe means the other way: as in over there. If you get it wrong, their grammar police are going to start cringing then yelling.
[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 31 points32 points33 points 1 year ago (5 children)
It's c'mon, man. Also, where is your period at the end of 'over there?'
[–]myrodia 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
where is your period
where is your period
Wow, I had to stop reading right their you misogynistic piece of shit.
[–]Menchstick 20 points21 points22 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Thinking periods are taboo is so fucking misogynistic you neckbeard redpill loser, where have all the good men gone?????????
[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 31 points32 points33 points 1 year ago (2 children)
It's you who are the misogynist. Real men anally rape themselves with a spoon once a month so they experience a wymyn's plight.
[–]morexel 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
My imagination runs wild now as to what was deleted.
[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Oh, he was just joking around, and then I one-upped him. lol
[–]Dyskord01 110 points111 points112 points 1 year ago (14 children)
I'm losing my faith in good women. Went to night clubs recently. The younger 18+ girls aren't afraid to approach and say I want to do you. Or fucc me tonight. I ain't complaining just saying these are beautiful girls giving it away. At the moment I'm happy but I wouldn't think of wifing any of them.
[–]Westerncaesar 77 points78 points79 points 1 year ago (0 children)
That in it's essence is exactly what the pill is about!! when sex is what we want and it's so easy to get, why on earth would we settle for anything other then the best any women could offer.
[–]red_matrix 34 points35 points36 points 1 year ago (0 children)
They're the new generation of strong, independent women! They also want to be married, kids, career, money, wild sex on the CC every weekend, and a loving, understanding husband who accepts her "modern" lifestyle. And sadly...guys are giving in and lining up to be that beta cuck husband.
[–]FeelTheBernieSanderz 16 points17 points18 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I feel you. Even if you meet a nice girl and want to settle down (theoretically), their past in their even younger days makes me shudder.
[–]joner888 9 points10 points11 points 1 year ago (0 children)
We need a apocalypse so we can create a spartanic traditionalists society from the ashes .
[–]untonyto 9 points10 points11 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Meanwhile somewhere her lonely future husband is painstakingly accumulating the property she will show up to split in half.
[–]3d_truth 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (2 children)
You mean they cold approach you with this? How hot are you?
[–]Dyskord01 14 points15 points16 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Pretty normal I think. I workout and dress sharp. Besides I doubt I'm the only dude that's been approached like this.
[–]geo_gan 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Ever get the thing where girls who are looking and smiling and giggling at you in a club come over one by one, turn around, and reverse their miniskirt ass into your crotch and grind up/down for a few seconds before moving away and letting the next girl take her turn at same thing? I have. It seems to be primitive mating behavior of horny young females. You just have to give them a look that tells them they are beneath you, then they have to try and tempt you into falling for their trap.
[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 10 points11 points12 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Good women in a nightclub? Never. Good women at whole foods at 8am on a Saturday? Probably still no, but better odds.
[–]Kriotus 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I'm losing my faith in good women
I'm losing my faith in good women
There is your problem, there is no such thing as a "good woman." There never has been, they were the same in the 20s, 50s and 80s and they are the same right now.
[–]SuperCrazy07 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Dude, it's not like in the past girls were all innocent. I was in college in the mid-90s and the vast majority of the girls were whoring it up like their life depended on it.
Super funny that a couple years ago a big facebook group for our school started and I got to see all these girls - who had a couple of different dicks in them every week - with the pictures of the hubby and kids.
[–]number1shittalker 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I would only wife a billionaire at this point. What's the point of marrying a woman unless I can divorce rape her? That's what they do to us.
[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 12 points13 points14 points 1 year ago (0 children)
C'mon, man. If you really are British, it should be bluddy sloots!
[–]rigbed 34 points35 points36 points 1 year ago (19 children)
My 17 year old sister is still a virgin and has never watched porn past a documentary on pornography and yet fantasizes about threesomes.
[–]bigtom4 89 points90 points91 points 1 year ago (10 children)
You talk to your sister about fantasies? Lol
[–]rigbed 23 points24 points25 points 1 year ago (7 children)
Well this does make it sound pretty bad but she was feeling particularly voluble
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 1 year ago (5 children)
Honest question, does she fantasise about FFM threesomes or FMM ones?
[–]okuli 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (3 children)
So far I only met women who fantasize about FMM.
They need to be of sufficient diversity in age, socio-economic ladder, attractiveness etc etc etc, to be considered a viable sample.
Imma take a wild guess and say you talk threesomes only with women of a certain age group.
[–]1KyfhoMyoba 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
So far I only met women who admit to fantasizing about FMM.
The 3 most common "kink" fantasies of women are being tied up, spanked, or with another woman. Not in any particular order.
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 18 points19 points20 points 1 year ago (1 child)
is says she is still a virgin has never says she has has never watched porn
is says she is still a virgin
has never says she has has never watched porn
There, fixed that for ya
[–]FratboyOnReddit 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Yep yep. Constantly heard the "popular girls" talking about a group of my friends and having threesomes, crazy fantasies etc.
At that time in HS, (probably Soph) I was blown away by this and thought it was just them.
[–]Wilreadit 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (2 children)
Have you checked her virginity?
[–]rigbed 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Yep I’m gonna stick my dick in and feel around
[–]Endorsed ContributorRunawayGrain 17 points18 points19 points 1 year ago (2 children)
Right, let me tell you what's going down here:
I've seen this happen a few times. The 'good' girl may have been with this dude for a while. She's been giving him the benefit of doubt that he's gonna break out and make it. The wall is approaching, though, and she knows she's running out of time to abandon ship before she's stuck with him so she starts looking around towards other providers.
She also said that this will be the last time we meet and have sex like this, only to start planning our next meeting in another city maybe 30 minutes after saying this. Finally she suggested that we do something "kinkier".
She also said that this will be the last time we meet and have sex like this, only to start planning our next meeting in another city maybe 30 minutes after saying this. Finally she suggested that we do something "kinkier".
I can just about guarantee that at the next meetup the word 'relationship' gets introduced. She's looking for a branch to swing to.
TLDR: She's getting old, and realizes the boyfriend is going nowhere so she's fishing for another provider.
[–]iwastheproblem[S] 7 points8 points9 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Yeah, all the signs are there. I will enjoy this situation as long as it last, but I have no intention to stick around and start a relationship with her (or with anyone).
[–]SKRedPill 41 points42 points43 points 1 year ago (0 children)
The very nature of female sexuality is also the very reason why it is hidden like a mystery. But in general one doesn't have to think too hard - they're complimentary to male sexual fantasies.
[–]askmrcia 44 points45 points46 points 1 year ago* (5 children)
I'm confused by this story. What the hell makes her a nice girl? And is the guy you mentioned really her boyfriend?
If she's an 8 like you say she is then she should be doing much better than that. If the guy is fat then he should at least have money or status and not the loser you say he is.
And you flew or traveled just to say hi to a female friend? Huh? I bet she's not as hot as you claim she is and you're just padding yourself on the back for banging an average 30 yr old chick that you met before.
[–]HiThisIsGio 7 points8 points9 points 1 year ago (3 children)
I can't picture what kind of subjugated dufus is told by his gf she's traveling alone with a male """"friend""""" and just rolls with it. The blue pill is strong in that one. Either that or he's real-life Forrest Gump.
[–]trtanon -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (2 children)
She can fuck her friend behind his back in a starbucks bathroom or take off work to meet a hotel too. Are you going to GPS track the bitch?
At some point you really have to just make up your mind that the girl is either worth it and you're not going to care what she does *as long as she takes care of you* or don't commit at all. All this in-between shit isn't healthy.
[–]HiThisIsGio 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child)
I believe some activities that put you in situations of high sexual tension with someone other than your significant other should be off-limits in a serious relationship. If a chick threats her bf of dumping him if he goes on vacation with a female friend no one bats an eye, but guys these days are supposed to trust their women to shower with another dude with absolute trust that they will have no sexual comtact, or else they are qualified as "controlling" or "toxic".
[–]trtanon 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Yea I'd agree with that. But if you try to be controlling you may garner resentment which will make her cheat anyway. Difficult to say. Her friends will convince her you're garbage for it probably. Unless you plan to have kids I just don't see the point.
[–]cBIGONE 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (0 children)
This! This post needs to be further up.
[–]FeelTheBernieSanderz 14 points15 points16 points 1 year ago (0 children)
This is a brag post. Nothing indicates a nice girl.
[–]A_regular_lamp 11 points12 points13 points 1 year ago (2 children)
In the wise words of 5 Seconds Of Summer: “Good girls are bad girls that haven’t been caught.”
[–]Andgelyo 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (1 child)
What are you 15? Why you listening to those betafied boy band songs? Listen to rap and hip hop and be a real OG
[–]A_regular_lamp 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I’ll have you know my penis is at least 3 inches big and all the guys love it. And that’s not even at my final form
[–]YesKiddo 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
Can someone explain to me what's with "are you okay?", "is something wrong?" questions?
[–]Omnibrad 145 points146 points147 points 1 year ago (18 children)
Because usually the next question is "what can I do to make things right?" It's basically asking her to influence your behavior.
You don't make things right according to a girl. You make them right according to yourself. If she doesn't like it, she knows where the door is. If she does like it, she'll spend her time with you. You don't ask her, you watch her actions.
[–]RPinthemaking 46 points47 points48 points 1 year ago (8 children)
Can confirm. I was fucking this girl, asked her if she was okay and the sex immediately went downhill.
[–]HobbitForest 30 points31 points32 points 1 year ago (7 children)
No shit, it’s such an annoying question right next to “what are you thinking about.”
[–]RPinthemaking 12 points13 points14 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I know that now. Thanks bud.
[–]sky_fallen 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (1 child)
They always ask me that one.
[–]HobbitForest 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (0 children)
That one is infuriating like it’s cool we are in a relationship and emotionally intimate but holy fuck let me process my own thoughts and emotions before reporting to you, sergeant.
[–]StudleyBeastmaster 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (3 children)
Prostitutes have a nasty habit of saying "you've got 5 minutes left" before you've even cum. Doesn't help.
[–]geo_gan 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (2 children)
fuck sake... you shouldn't even know this and know it is a "habit"! Paying for it you already lost.
[–]StudleyBeastmaster 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Mate I'm ever so slightly long in the tooth and I've..... been around.
[–]ChrimsonChin988 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago (4 children)
So on one hand I uderstand what you’re saying because you want to be the one leading, framing etc.
On the other hand, what’s wrong with asking a girl you’re new with if you’re hitting the right spot so you can make her cum harder? Don’t see what’s wrong with wanting to improve your sexual skills and asking for a bit of advice. Obviously you don’t want to overdo it but if you aren’t willing to take any feedback you’re just acting like a retard pretending to be the shit imo.
[–]Omnibrad 44 points45 points46 points 1 year ago (0 children)
If she volunteers such information during sex (hold my legs behind my head so you hit my spot) then that’s hot.
If you fuck her hard the way you want, and you’re laying in bed after while talking about things she likes, that’s cool.
If you’re in the middle of fucking her and wondering about your performance, it screams insecurity and anxiety.
[–]ManguZa 37 points38 points39 points 1 year ago (0 children)
You must to be able to take implicit feedback. They hate to have to talk about thing that you should understand by yourself.
[–]SpaceEnthusiast 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
True but also how hard is it to hit 3-4 somewhat different angles and see how her behaviour/expressions change? Go for the best one!
[–]notthatinnocent24 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Exactly. You never know if you don’t ask. Every woman is different and it takes time to work out a new partner. If you ask or she tells you it’s going to lead to much better sex for both of you and will improve your game. If you don’t ask she might hate or be uncomfortable with what you are doing or think the sex wasn’t great / be disappointed, you leave thinking you’re the best and go on to disappoint and ignore the feelings of every women you sleep with next.
[–]notthatinnocent24 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (2 children)
What’s wrong with compromise and making sure both partners are happy? Especially considering you’re pretty much guaranteed an orgasm and most women won’t get one, shouldn’t the emphasis be on making both partners happy? Cmon man.
[–]Omnibrad 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Look, if she isn’t happy having sex with you, then she won’t do it again. If she is spreading her legs for you then treat her body like the playground it is and she will love it. Asking her if she’s happy does NOT make her happy anymore than asking you if you’re rich makes you rich.
[–]notthatinnocent24 -5 points-4 points-3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
No it it encourages communication which is great for both parties. Why not try and make this moment the best one you can?
Also, sometimes women can feel pressured into sex (not nessercarily by the guy but that can be a factor) and just be checking on her can make her feel sooo much more reassured and in control. It shows you’re respecting her and taking into account how she’s feeling. Having sex with people you’ve only met a few times can be really scary for a women, she could have a lot of barriers up (even during sex). If she feels comfortable and in control then trust me when I say the sex will be 100 times better and she’ll really open up.
[–]Poutvora -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (0 children)
There are moments (few) when you can ask those questions. Imo it's about how you put it. Often you can guess the answer before asking, so that may help because it leads to thinking and figuring out it yourself. You can then act without asking the question, which is the best option most of the times.
[–]ApexmanRP 13 points14 points15 points 1 year ago (1 child)
You are placing yourself in her frame. She now holds the power as to whether whatever you are doing is going well.
She is with you, why wouldn't things be OK?
[–]RamRanchCowboy 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Exactly. If you ask that, maybe things are going well but the insecurity and lack of confidence displayed by needing to ask totally ruins it. You shouldn’t need to ask honestly. Get your stroke game proper.
[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 18 points19 points20 points 1 year ago (1 child)
she suggested that we do something "kinkier".
she suggested that we do something "kinkier".
Of Human Bondage – Uncle Vasya’s Guide for Men Who Like To Tie Up Young Ladies.
-The Field Guide to playing knotty games with naughty girls.
[–]notthatinnocent24 16 points17 points18 points 1 year ago (0 children)
“Nice girl” “Hit the Wall soon” “Doesn’t even lift”
Is this a real post or satire about redpill guys? Seriously?
She likes it rough. That’s her particular kink. If she likes it rough (especially to the point of CNC) then she probably likes it that you’re not checking up on her and are treating her roughly and in a degrading manner. That doesn’t mean all girls like that. That doesn’t mean even that most girls like that. That doesn’t mean the red pill is the be all and end all.
One girl you met has a particular kink that comes with some of those “act mean and Work out” traits that the red pill advocates. It does NOT mean you can generalise these rules to others.
Also she knew exactly what she was doing - there’s is no cognitive dissonance.
[–]btrpb 155 points156 points157 points 1 year ago (79 children)
Stop calling women sluts. They want sex. Men want sex. We all want sex.
We are only calling them sluts when we find out they sleep work people other than us (oh, what a surprise).
Even if you are sleeping with them, it still reeks of jealousy. Oh, you slept with older/blacker/whiter/bigger/richer guy? SLUT!
If you are angry enough to be calling a woman a slut or a bitch, then 99 times out of a 100 you are over invested and jealous.
[–]dudethatneversleeps 21 points22 points23 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Exactly right. All I hear lately is just people ranting and venting about how much of a slut a certain girl is. We get it. AWALT. Now focus on how you can improve yourself, on how you can be happier and on how you can live your life to the fullest.
[–]Kindredvodka 52 points53 points54 points 1 year ago (52 children)
I don't know man, it's not really me being angry and it doesn't take much energy but if she fucked 75 guys by the age of 19 or something, she seems like a slut to me.
[–]btrpb 17 points18 points19 points 1 year ago (48 children)
Well yeah that would be a bit much to ignore 😊.
My point is I hear the word too much around here, and I'm getting a bit tired of it. Self improvement is better than venting anger.
[–]Elatea -2 points-1 points0 points 1 year ago (0 children)
haha lad most girls have fucked over 10 people by 19, I think that's too much to ignore at such an age. Dont think it reeks of jealousy as its just a simply label to advise and inform others.
[+][deleted] comment score below threshold-18 points-17 points-16 points 1 year ago* (46 children)
yeah😊 man 😊u are so😊😊 r8 😊😊😊😊😊😊
you are a faggot. Calling a woman "slut" doesn't makes you angry I call women sluts both when I fuck them and when I am not. The importance of those social stigmas must remain as long and as much as possible because women can use their sex to gain everything,from money to fame to power so by slut shaming them we counter the power their pussy has for beta men. If we are no longer able to slut shame them then we have nothing to counter them with so they can shamelessly take advantage of it and destroy the society as you knew it until now and trust me you little faggot I was getting more pussy than you since the day I passed 15
[–]buzzjive 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
Seriously man if you don't want women to use sex to manipulate men for social/financial benefits then just stop being manipulated by sex.
You don't NEED sex. Thinking you do makes you weaker and more dependent on women and that's never attractive.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I was not talking about me. I was talking about what happens in society,Beta Bux will continue to exist whether TRP has 500,000 or 50 million awared people. The 80/20 rule is what keeps our society in balance and if that changes our society as we know it will cease to exist
[–]platoonpluto 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (12 children)
Bro I don’t know what you’re saying but I guarantee I was getting more pussy at 12 than you were at 15!!!!! 🐱
[–]Agni_Forma 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
You embarrassment of your father don’t know a thing about me and I don’t give a fuck what your worthless ass thinks,I said it for him to know I got more experience on women than he does.
[–]platoonpluto 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (3 children)
That’s great and all dude, but you’re an embarrassment to your father!!! You don’t know a thing about me, and I don’t give a fuck what your worthless as thinks!!!! I said it for you to know I have more experience with women than you do!!!!
“uuuuuu I’m not un umburusment u r :’((“
The only thing I can feel for you is pity
[–]platoonpluto 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (1 child)
That’s exactly what people think when they read your posts little man.
[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 1 year ago (6 children)
If you find someone being sexually active since 15 extreme or that you can’t be attractive enough to do that in those ages you must be a sad Beta,probably a short ugly pushover. I didn’t said that I was pulling models since 13,I said that I dated and Fucked since 15
[–]platoonpluto 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (4 children)
You seem desperate to tell us all about the millions of bitches you bagged at 15 mate. No one cares. Your initial response was cringe and every response after has further confounded that view.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I am going to remove my other responses and I hope you have the mind to stop wasting my time arguing because of your psychological problems. It is 21:00 where I live,I am here to relax after a very challenging day and discuss on those issues,I am not in the mood to sustain what I say so that I won't make you feel bad. Please stop responding to me.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 1 year ago (2 children)
This is what happens when virgin soyboys invade manosphere. Being sexually active since 15 is not an achievement,it is not something to brag about,it is something I told this guy so he knows who he talks with,not with an angry virgin who hates women,that's what I wanted him to know so we could talk about what he says.
If you remained a virgin till 22 I am sorry,I won't change what I say so that I won't trigger you,I am in the manosphere to talk with men like me about those issues I am not here to argue with sad soyboys. I don't need to brag about anything,let alone do it in an internet forum and there is nothing to brag about on this issue I was an awkward teenager when I first got laid and I worked as hard as you to improve myself
[–]platoonpluto 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Your initial response was full of emojis, passive aggressiveness and the first thing you said was “you are a faggot” and I’m the virgin soy boy?!
I’m proud of your hard work, have a good evening.
Emojis are for girls. Here in TRP we believe in talking harsly because we are men,we can't be political correct like women if you don't like it you can go over xchromosomes to have some tea with the ladies,this is how I talk in general,I got no problem with this guy and I got no problem with you.
You too mate,take care
[–]_clay_davis -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (4 children)
I really hope this is copy pasta
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Lmao it is not
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (2 children)
You are a m’lady white knight who goes over gonew*ld And say “I like your ARMPIT HAIR” (for God’s sake) and you got a problem with what I said You serial masturbator?
[–]_clay_davis -2 points-1 points0 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Wow you went through my post history for that sick burn? You’re the one calling people faggots on the internet.
Lmao I am guilty I did it and I enjoyed it
[–]notthatinnocent24 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
Are you seriously saying that the social stigma that keeps women from being free sexually, expressing their sexuality, being clear about their needs and desires and not afraid to ask for them, should be reinforced just because empowering women sexually somehow means men lose some of the power they’ve been holding for centuries? Men can’t be sluts yet all women who enjoy sex see sluts? And you’re okay to fuck them but not to treat them as an equal human being?
But you are clearly a homophobe so maybe that’s to be expected from someone like you.
I didn’t want to contain this to my main answer because I would destroy the theme: Yes I am okay to sleep with them,no I am not okay to treat them as equal human beings,and they all love it. Respect is earned and they didn’t earn my respect. I don’t care about the power men held for centuries,I am all for Women’s Equal Rights that happened with 1st and 2nd wave feminism,I love 1st and 2nd wave feminism,I hate the cancerous 3rd wave and I am all for equal women’s rights in Middle East. I don’t want the world order as it is to change,because it works by the 80/20 rule and if it does it will have horrific results.
I don’t believe that I am a homophobe,I have never been harsh to a gay person but if I am then it is what it is. You can call me homophobe,bigot,NAZISEXISTRACISTWHITESAPRAMASUST I don’t care I am not political correct
[–]notthatinnocent24 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child)
That’s bs, have men earned that respect then? Do you just go around not respecting anyone as an equal human being? What makes you so great? You don’t seem that brilliant from what I’ve read so far so the fact you assume others are less than you and need to earn the right to be treated as a human is pretty presumptuous. When people say “respect is earned” they are talking about respecting someone’s intelligence or character or authority. They Are NOT talking about respecting someone as a human being- that is already given freely. If you can’t give that to other people equally and freely first and foremost then you need to take a looong hard look in the mirror because that’s the attitude dictators, racists, terrorists and all those people I’m sure you don’t respect, have.
Calling someone a Fagott is homophobic. You’re insulting them by saying that to be gay is to be weak / stupid / humiliated. Tbh I don’t really see the point in calling anyone names in the first place, it just draws attention away from your argument and makes you sind Defensive and like your argument is weak so you have to hide behind names. It also suggests you cant listen to other people or learn from them, whereas really both parties normally have a point.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (0 children)
I didn't read even a sentence of this but read my other answer that I sent 1 minute ago
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 1 year ago (19 children)
“My name is Monica Cocksucker,I am an escort that is being paid 5000$ an hour by Rich Arabs in Saudi Arabia and UAE to have sex with them. Being a prostitute is nothing to be ashamed of you patriarchic pig how do you dare to say that what I do is bad?”
“My name is Rachel Sluttythighs,I am in a highly influential position in the company I work for because I am having sex with my Middle Aged boss although I am not as highly educated and don’t do as good job as those STEM suckers who now have to get orders from me. WHAT? YOU CALL ME A SLUT? WHAT IS IT 2010? IT IS NOT SLUTINESS IT IS SEXUAL FREEDOM I HAVE AS MUCH RIGHT AS YOU TO ENJOY SEX WITH MANY MEN!!!”
“My name is Phoebe Analpenetrated,My name is Mary Likepenis,....,I like opening Tinder and finding hot men to penetrate my pussy all night long,I love threesomes,I love giving head to hot tall strangers,YOU WUT YOU CALLED ME A SLUT? ARE YOU FROM 2000? IT IS SEXUAL FREEDOM I HAVE THE RIGHT TO SLEEP WITH AS MANY PEOPLE AS YOU”
“My name is /u/notthatinnocent24 , my mom had sex with so many men she had to cure gonorrhea twice,she works in a highly influential position of X Company although she didn’t even finish College,every night I hear men in her room laughing,I am a liberal and I love the sexual freedom because we are all the same and females can do anything a man does without being shamed”
[–]notthatinnocent24 -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (18 children)
Okay... firstly, what’s wrong with Monica? I honestly don’t see any moral or ethical problem with her being a prostitute, tbh it sounds like good money.
And what’s the name you give to Rachel’s boss? Is he a slut? Also do you really live in a world where you think that sort of thing is common?? People get promoted for all sort of BS reasons, the most common being having friendships or connections with the right people, most often a bunch of men who went to private school together or were part of the same gentleman’s club. Because of this shall we demonise all men as constantly looking for opportunities to call in favours from their buddies to help them out in the workplace instead of earning the job? Honestly if you really think women are regularly going around sleeping their way up rather than earning their way up no wonder you feel so bitter and resentful. Of course there are countless laws and protocols to stop that sort of thing happening and it’s actually a form of exploitation by the boss or person in power of the person who is at a lower level.
I really don’t get your point dude. You literally think of a woman has sex or does anything sexual that she warrants no respect and has done something “wrong” and that this isn’t the case with men. The way you’re writing your comments suggest you think that anyone saying “actually, I don’t see a problem with sex and your attitude is outdated and sexist” is just whining, being hysterical and making a scene for no reason. Again reflecting your opinion that women, or anyone opposing your sexist viewpoints is not worthy of the respect of taking them seriously or listening to their viewpoints in a rational way. What are you scared of? How is listening to them rationally and accepting that MAYBE your very black and white and very egotistical viewpoint might not be 100% correct or that beneficial to you a bad thing? Just like sometimes it’s healthy to engage with someone with a very different world view to our own and think about where our views REALLY come from.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (16 children)
You misstyped xchromosomes,this subreddit is not for you. You are a loner socially awkward person http://archive.li/jug5H
You don't even have the social skills to realize why people hate you http://archive.li/uEO8Y
NSFW NSFW you write dirty texts and you masturbate to them http://archive.li/zR8cr
You spend your loner time (because nobody likes you and you have no friends) reading askreddit threads
You have even worse threads and comments that makes anyone reading it feel pity for you but I won't link them 'cause I feel sorry for you.
You don't have women in your everyday life showing romantical interest to you and for that you have to search on online dating sites like the 28years old you are that parents scare their kids with saying that they will be like him if they don't eat their broccoli/finish their homework.
You are far from judging what mindset is better for someone who is the total opposite of you. How do you have the nerve to judge what is ethical and how men should think when you couldn't get a woman out there to show you interest even if your life depended on it? Maybe you are the one that should change his mindset as you got no friends and no girls,although again you must be a beta ugly short pushover.
As you realize I don't have the time to WASTE arguing with a failure,get out of this sub you don't belong here go over bumble to find your love because no woman off-line showed you interest. Why do you try to make people failures like you? Your life is hell.
[–]notthatinnocent24 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (15 children)
Did you copy and paste this from your document of generic insults with no basis at all? Honestly this makes you sound like such a toxic, vile person. Your links aren’t working and tbh I don’t really care what they say anyway because you couldn’t be more wrong. I feel really sorry for you man, you’re so full of hate, it almost sounds like you’re comments are about yourself, because they’re definitely not about me. What makes you think I can’t get a woman? Those insults would only work if that was true (and probably wouldn’t work then either), so idk why you think that would be hurtful to me. Maybe because it would work on you? Are you trying to convince yourself that my life is hell? Please. Grow up and learn how to treat others with courtesy and respect rather than tear everyone down with your toxicity. If people don’t want to be near you then this is probably why. You can change that toxic behaviour and mindset, but not if you displace it onto anyone who disagrees with you. You’re not even making a valid argument or even responding to my comment, you’re just tying to insult me (and failing), a pretty easy way out from actually having to critically examine your own opinions and views on life. Why don’t you try?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child)
And stop spamming my phone’s notifications u fucking loser,stop replying to me in general for that matter
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (12 children)
I read until “your links aren’t working” because I don’t have the time to read this shit.I took the links of the threads you have made and posted them to show how much of a loner loser you are because where I come from what you say has value when you are somebody,and you are a nobody. You are a socially awkward nerd who search for women on bumble so I really don’t believe that your opinion has any value
What would you call a guy who does that?
[–]AndyCandyHandySandy 16 points17 points18 points 1 year ago (4 children)
Perfect. There is of course complications when people declare exclusivity, at which point it might not even be jealousy. People don't like being played whether it's sex or money, guy or girl.
Simple solution: don't declare exclusivity.
[–]VertousOffical 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (2 children)
Can't stop wolves from protecting their mates, dude.
Humans are not wolves. There are countless ways humans are different and that makes this comparison inaccurate.
Lions practice infanticide and bonobos bang anything they see (male or female) at the drop of a hat. Does that mean humans should do the same?
I'm really not sold on any argument using evolutionary biology. TRP doesn't have to rely on half baked bro science to be a mind expanding perspective.
[–]VertousOffical 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Wolves mate for life, albeit while in a pack manor, they know who and who not to fuck with. Lions don't share exclusivity along with Tigers even though you would think tigers would, hence why I went with wolves. There's just some people who don't want others messing around with what they worked for along time. I think a lot of people forget what being "exclusive" really means whenever they say it. It's never a short term thing, at least to me it isn't.
[–]ozenmacher 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I disagree. Call them what they are. Most of these women want the exclusivity and benefits of LTR or marriage but also want the benefits of the CC. And they cuck and fool man after man with their “good girl” game. Fuck that. A slut is a slut. They don’t deserve good men.
[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Women with high n-counts are lower grade plate/girlfriend prospects. It's fine to label spoilt goods (sluts) as spoilt goods (sluts).
Not judging a woman for her slutty actions is an insidious form of pedestalization. We leave that to the BP's and incels.
[–]FeelTheBernieSanderz 8 points9 points10 points 1 year ago* (0 children)
Absolutely right. Woman with a high n-count can never be satisfied.
They are always looking to upgrade, if they've fucked 100 men, the man they settle with can NEVER live up to the amalgamation of men prior. She is destined to be miserable, unless she finds that perfect man (even then she'll wish to upgrade!)
Wow, that last statement is so true.
[–]iwastheproblem[S] 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I agree with you and I don't like using the term either but she sure seemed like one during that weekend. She said that she feels like one and even wanted me to call her that.
[–]chrisname 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (1 child)
I love sluts, man. What would I do without them? I hear what you're saying though. It's the fox and the grapes.
[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
We are only calling them sluts
We are only calling them sluts
That is so very not true. We call a woman a slut when we perceive them as crossing a certain boundary when it comes to their sexual behavior. We really do get to judge the behavior of others. All of us do it all the time; telling people not to be judgmental is like telling a fish not to swim. The question is where the boundary is and what you do with it.
For instance, I generally see woman that are prone to spontaneous casual hook-ups as a slut. Their count could be a thousand or it could only five, but if they are now open for business--tis a slut! Here's the thing; I likes me some sluts. They keep my dick warm and wet. I'll call them a slut when they are doing it and most of them even like it (yeah, not all, I get that). I make their days better just like they make mine. I call that a good working relationship.
Wouldn't commit to one.
Your boundaries may be different and that's ok. Talk about them. Make suggestions about them. Tell us how they work. Shit-ace the moralizing and projection before you get banned.
[–]The_Chiselnator 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (10 children)
We will do whatever we want, thank you very much.
[–]btrpb 13 points14 points15 points 1 year ago (9 children)
Yes, you are entitled to do as your wish. But think about this. Being angry is a waste of energy. Arguing, never wins you an argument, it just gets other people's backs up. Calling a woman a slut sounds angry. It reeks of resentment. Do you think women are attracted to balls of anger who are jumping at the opportunity to go on the offensive calling them sluts at every moment? Or do you think they are attracted to confident guys who are calm around women and can hold a conversation which isn't permanently tinged with passive aggressiveness because you get angry every time you find out a women has spread her legs for somebody else?
Where do you want to spend your energy? Being angry at your last female encounter or down the gym prepping for the next woman that comes your way?
[–]RamRanchCowboy 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (3 children)
I agree with you, however calling women sluts doesn’t always stem from anger. How many girls like to be called a dirty slut when you’re fucking them? Most. I get your point but I also don’t think it’s a good idea to start policing words as it’s dependent on the individuals.
[–]petallotus 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (0 children)
really surprised that men get more offended by other men calling women sluts than the actual sluts themselves lmao
[–]_clay_davis -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (0 children)
This is no different than right wingers saying that women don’t have a right to speak out to sexual harassment because 50 shades of grey sold so well among women.
[–]The_Chiselnator 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children)
You don't get it.
We are not here to police other men. That is for losers. I don't give a fuck what you call women, men, your mother. This is not a safe space.
We are here to share our experiences, what we have found works, why we think it works and that's it. The rest is just shit stirring and ain't nobody got time for that.
[–]dark_junion 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (3 children)
You lift to get pussy? You are being a sheep for them like every other simp they manipulate.
[–]btrpb 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Fucking right I lift. Shouldn't you be playing Fortnite?
[+]dark_junion comment score below threshold-7 points-6 points-5 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Oh we got an adult over here. Funny thing is you're probably younger than me. C'mon mr. sheep, you can do better than that.
[–]magx01 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Shhh.....don't beak their spell.
Glad you got that off your chest. We're all entitled to our opinions. In my opinion, all women are sluts and bitches. That is all.
[–]SgtBrutalisk 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children)
one thing led to another
one thing led to another
Did it also happen on a dark and stormy night?
[–]RedVelocitiy 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Power is power. Everyone is a whore with enough "manipulation" or persuasion.
[–]bleuge 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (2 children)
Man, what is that hobbie of yours? It seems a nice one :D
"Nice girls" holly shit, where to begin.
I know this girl from the dorm I'm currently residing in. She is a fucking 8-9 but your typical nice dumb hoes.
We began as friends and she was very respectful and helped me with so many things when it comes to settling in the city and shit. To tell you the truth,I liked her. But since we kept it nice to each other (bearing in mind I was blue-pilled af back then) we didn't go more than a friendship.
Now she's abroad on her Erasmus semester, and today, she fucked it all up with me.
She texted me telling me why her male flatmate (one of many) is mad at her because she had a bro at her room last night to fuck.
Now, I don't give a fuck about her flatmate or her fucking other guys, but telling me about it made me feel like shit because she betized me so much j can't even.
I really think the way to go around girls is to let them fuck things up on their own, do nothing and then they'll come around being the whores they are.
[–]doveenigma13 6 points7 points8 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Yep. And girls that claim to be feminists will deep throat and swallow. Girls that claim to be freaks just lay down and sweat.
[–]SpecOpsAlpha 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
A lot of Western European men have been pussified. Their women get raped and they organize a protest. No wonder the women are unhappy and fantasize about all sorts of shit.
[–]loktaiextatus 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Every single time I've had an ex or old female friend not just totally ignore me it's been an open invitation dude. Believe me they're thinking exactly what you're thinking when you see a cute girl you think you have an in with. ...
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago* (0 children)
All nice girls turn into nice sluts for either Chad, Vlad, Thad, Brad, Chaddam, Chadpreet, Chang or Tyrone.
[–]nastyamerican 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago* (0 children)
She sounds mostly normal. People cheat all the time for all sorts of reasons. I’ve never been exclusive to one woman. And though I’d never tell a woman this I don’t expect any of them them to be either. As far as being a slut, the label in this day and age, is mostly useless. Wrap it.
3 years ago I was dating a nice girl that spent an afternoon catching up with an old high school friend, while im working on my next promotion and dead-lift goals they are planning their wedding and I couldnt be more indifferent :)
[–]1AlfredKinsey 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (0 children)
All solid shit. Emphasis on shit, but this is the world we've been given and you just gotta make do.
The cognitive dissonance is so real, so shockingly and unbelievably real. It's bizarre almost, right?
[–]Frenetic_Zetetic 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (1 child)
Girls get worse with age.
More effort and less return.
Pick your battles wisely, and ABP (always be plating) no matter what.
The solution to AWALT is ABP.
[–]Andgelyo 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
The solution to AWALT is abundance mentality
[–]TheEnglishman28 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (1 child)
my favorite line from women like her is
"I normally don't do this . . . ."
[–]SunnysideMorales 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Listen to this song everyone, Redpill anthem right here.
Love Me Like A Man
Remember, rock her like her backbone was your own.
As you said : ''Awalt, 'nuff said''
[–]drkinferno72 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
The “Christian” girls were dtf when god, parents and pastor can’t see them.
[–]FratboyOnReddit 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Alright wtf is with girls (basically all of them i know or experienced with) love to be 1. Forcefully fucked/choked etc Or 2. Like to be fucked by a stranger? Rape? Wtf
[–]Lambdal7 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
So a woman that has sexual fantasies and likes broad is a total slut? What the heck, be happy if a woman isn't sexually repeessed and actually interested in trying some things out.
All men want threesomes and get their sick sucked by multiple women, so your woman here is much less adventureous than that.
[–]suzy2018 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
I’ve always thought it funny when friends or acquaintances would tell me how their gf won’t swallow or try anything new. Every girl I’ve ever been with told me they didn’t like swallowing and swore off anal or anything like that.
Well, every girl I’ve had sex with more than a few times has done both. It’s not the girl, it’s the guy. Be a man in bed and lead. Fuck her good and she’ll follow.
[–]NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
So she has a healthy appetite for sex? Big deal. Stop slut shaming. It makes you sound like a hurt little boy. Respect her sexual appetite as one equally as capable if not more than yours. Have stronger game. Real men accept a womans hunger as something to be enjoyed and unleashed, but can never truly tame. Do you stop desiring variety? Stop lusting after other women? We are biological beings regardless of societies design to put us into prim & proper roles. Instead, be grateful that a female (afraid of being shamed about her sexual desires) TRUSTED you enough to not only have sex with you, but share her fantasies with you. Nothing about her actions says she deserves to be disrespected and insulted. What does that say about YOU as a person? You'll gain a female's trust just to get your rocks off then run around belittling her behind her back to make yourself feel as if you somehow have more intrinsic value? Not.even.close. Grow up, dude. Start treating women with the respect they deserve. You can start by figuring out what REALLY motivates them and why they choose a mate over another. Do you hate cats because they purr? Hating women because they act like females is equally as ludicrous and pointless. Learn how to "pet" them and i guarantee you'll drop the need to judge them because only then will you understand their actions.
[–]DreamBoatGuy25 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
There's a very old saying...
"All women are whore's...except Ghandi...who was a man."
[–]juniorsysadmin1 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (2 children)
I mean, this is just total BS. This story is made up no joke. How can betas in this sub don't see through this? Anyone with a hint of alphaness in them should be able to see pass this shit post.
I'm calling this beta fuck op out. Post a pic of you (you can photoshop your face out) with your username and date or else this shit didn't happen. You say u have "Broad shoulders, good body, strength", i'm say you aren' even 5"4 and u weigh below 120lb or over 230lb morbidly obese.
[–]MTNSC1 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Because they are so desperate for the sight of regular pussy that they gobble up any fantasy that they are just one new squat rep from having Stacy down at the Gamespot store begging for them to fuck her in the anime aisle behind the old PS4 resale bin or Ansley down at Victoria Secrets from arranging a orgy in the store with all the hot clerks.
Wonder why this megaChad had to fly 150 fucking miles for some middle age chick that is getting fucked by a fat, loser with a shit job? But she is an HB9...wink, wink. There aren't any HB9s in Britain that have hobbies and fuck?
Good lord....you are 100% correct, of course.
[–]varlogmessages 1 points1 points1 points 1 year ago [recovered]
I've got plates that I consider fives at best and it amazes me how quick they pick up boyfriend's. They still occasionally cheat on said boyfriend's with me but I get surprised at just how easy it is for even unattractive women to get dick on demand.
[–]suhurley 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (1 child)
C’mon, man. It’s boyfriends. No apostrophe. “Boyfriend’s” would mean that something belongs to the boyfriend.
[–]FratboyOnReddit 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Thank god you said something.
[–]willowhawk 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (2 children)
Why you plating 5's
[–]Relate_Ship 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (0 children)
"fives at best" and he is surprised how ugly girls get dick while he gives ugly girls dick. Slow likes low.
[–]number1shittalker -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (0 children)
Because they are holes waiting to be fucked, and as men, we need exercise.
[–]WolfgangBreitweit -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (0 children)
She’s a solid BPD affected bitch. Be happy you came out of this. I haven’t had this luck. What you are writing about is exactly what my BPD accident told me. Looks like they have a textbook or you ran into the same bitch. I’m not joking. Would you mind telling me the first and last letter of her name?
[–]djh860 -3 points-2 points-1 points 1 year ago (1 child)
The things you described about the woman don’t make her a slut. Not even close. She is a woman with a strong and interesting sexual appetite . She wasn’t the only one there fucking You were there too. Maybe you are a slut. Be happy you got laid and fuck again soon if she lets you. Wrap it.