CultureWomen cannot handle rejection at all (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Ray_pinasses1210

I recently ended a things with a plate and damn she didn’t take it well.

She was annoying, but I told her I was simply too busy with work and other things and she was pushing for something more serious.

After I told her I had no intention of getting serious, out came the shaming tactics “You’re not a real man are you” “You’re just a fuckboy” “You’re ugly anyways” “Maybe I should send a guy friend to fuck you up” “You wasted 2 months of my life”

Now the whole time she’s saying all this, I kept thinking of the phrase women use to shame and shut down men who get aggressive over being rejected, “you’re not entitled to anybody’s love or affection”

So I decided to use it. I said “you’re not entitled to anyone’s love or affection” And she hit the roof telling me, “I can fuck any guy I want, I can have a new guy every day if I wanted”

I gotta admit, it felt pretty damn good to use that on a chick.

Well sweetheart, why are you wasting time arguing with me? Go do that then!!

Typical woman. Feels entitled to my time but if I was being billy beta and getting Aggro about her not committing I’d get told I’m not entitled to her love and affection

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (9 children)

in addition to the "you're not entitled" statement, one I also enjoy is the Men are not machines you can put Sex Coins into until a relationship falls out.

[–]BroseppeVerdi 193 points194 points  (19 children)

If you ever want to see what entitlement looks like, turn a woman down when she straight up propositions you for sex. Even if you want to get laid, it's worth doing once in your life just to watch this truly spectacular display.

[–]badgerninjacow 125 points126 points  (9 children)

“You’re gay then.” is usually the response.

[–]ButtRobot 84 points85 points  (4 children)

"I'd rather be gay than sleep with you, ugly/landbeast/ singlemomofthree"

[–]Becoming-The-Mask 36 points37 points  (1 child)

Or even better: "If you were the last man on Earth, I wouldn't have sex with you."

"If I was the last man on Earth, you wouldn't be in line."

And watch the fireworks.

[–]ButtRobot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hadn't even thought of this one. This is fucking gold. Hahaha

[–]DatingCoach111 9 points10 points  (1 child)

I would upvote this a thousand times if I could. Hell of a roast.

[–]BroseppeVerdi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Usually more like "Fuck you, you fucking faggot!"... but yeah, that's a pretty common one.

[–]Orbiter45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can get that reaction, just by ignoring them.

[–]sourdieselfuel 40 points41 points  (2 children)

I did this to a girl I met at my local recently. She was totally dtf, but as I talked to her more, the more red flags and alarm bells went off that I should run and hide. When I told her we could be friends and hang out sometime she went insane. Telling other people at the bar that she ruined the best chance of her life. Dear lord.

[–]1Your_Coke_Dealer 26 points27 points  (1 child)

You didn’t just dodge a bullet, you dodged a fucking howitzer shell

[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've never had a random do this to me but I've had girls I've dated do this. They are relentless. "Let's have sex." No. "Come on." No. "It'll be great." No. Ad nauseum.

[–]Fedor_Gavnyukov 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh yeah, it's an amazing experience

[–]U-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that big of a sacrifice. Very average women react like this too. So you may actually NOT want to fuck them when you see the desperation meltdown. Happens to me all the time.

[–]green_tea_bag 531 points532 points  (16 children)

Friendly warning. Now that you've burned this woman, you can't fuck with her ever again. Don't let her anywhere near you. She'll be hatching a revenge plot if you do.

[–]Ray_pinasses1210[S] 284 points285 points  (10 children)

I don’t plan on it She legit annoyed the fuck out of me

[–]the_real_lunch_box 110 points111 points  (9 children)

i'm actually scared to wrestle with them, with my luck ill get a false rape accusation. i end things on a good note. leave them in a better shape than what you find them in i say.

[–][deleted] 131 points132 points  (3 children)

The fact that this was said unironically sickens me. This false rape shit needs to stop.

[–]1empatheticapathetic 36 points37 points  (2 children)

Only a £200 fine these days!

[–]sky_fallen 14 points15 points  (1 child)

Only if you arrived recently. It's some kind of 'new customers only' thing.

[–]destraht 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't worry though the governments will tighten the screws once they get this new wild bunch to settle down. They basically just keep raising the rates like Comcast until the entire contracted is voided and started over.

[–]PhoenixMDL 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is especially tough if you tend to have bdsm relationships

[–]fifi508 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Even if you end things on a good note, they’ll say you took advantage of them and they are the victims. Women are getting really terrible nowadays because men are no longer present in their life or listened to. They think they are making it better for women but they can’t foresee they are making it way worse. No sane men wanna deal with the. You can literally see men on 1 side girls on the other in most rooms today. It’s a travesty to western society what has happened.

[–]WalterEArmstrong 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"You can literally see men on 1 side girls on the other in most rooms today. It’s a travesty to western society what has happened." Ah, no. That goes all the way back to the high school proms of the 1950's.

[–]1LowCreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Boy Scout camping rule for women.

[–]AllahHatesFags 14 points15 points  (1 child)

She might already be planning a false rape allegation.

[–]NotAFence 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Probably fuming about it right now haha texting her biatches

[–]BobbyPeru 9 points10 points  (1 child)

This is true, all of it. I recently was single for a short period (separated from my wife). I quickly had several plates working. They all acted like they were happy for me when I told them I was getting back with my wife... but then one by one... Every single one of them hatched revenge plot against me.

So even if you have a good excuse, like their Disney fairytale getting back with the wife scenario , they will still seek revenge . I saw it with my own two eyes

[–]shootermcbassplayer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What did they try and do to you?

[–]MrAnderzon 511 points512 points  (46 children)

They don't like it when you play the same game they play on us.

[–]Ray_pinasses1210[S] 290 points291 points  (44 children)

No they do not

It’s funny, all that tall about men “taking a hint” when getting rejected goes out the window as soon as the shoes on the other foot

If you reject her, there has to be an explicit reason why and it better be good

[–]Frenetic_Zetetic 245 points246 points  (32 children)

Girls demand an exit interview LOL.

[–]Prison4SideofBeef 146 points147 points  (1 child)

Truth. Sex and the City brainwashed them all in to thinking they're entitled to "closure" aka a final tantrum.

[–]odonnelly2000 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Right? Fuck it. Just ghost them. You don't owe them anything.

[–]rpendeavor 33 points34 points  (4 children)

There is so much truth in this. My last one wanted me to give a detailed reason why. It took 3 months after I walked away for her to leave me alone. It got a little ridiculous, because I blocked her on all social media and communication forms, she'd make new accounts to just reach out. I'm glad she finally got the hint.

[–]voxiqs 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Some people are just crazy, that’s crazy

[–]chance01 4 points5 points  (1 child)

3 months? Consider yourself lucky. Have one that still wants that and it's been 2 years now.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

alpha widow maker you are then

[–]JosephBosa 36 points37 points  (10 children)

LOL I quit a shitty job without 2 week notice. My post wall hag boss who is attracted to me, demanded me to pick up my last paycheck in person. I knew something was up because I havent had to do this with other jobs I have quit.

When shes giving me my last paycheck shes acting like a crazy ex-girlfriend saying "This is how you burn bridges" etc etc. Asking me Why this? Why that? Why havent you been replying to my texts and phonecalls?

I thought it was so odd, but it makes sense. She is a female, and is attracted to me.. so she wanted closure on why I left. Male bosses just move on, give you your last paycheck and move on with life.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 7 points8 points  (5 children)

That's what Adele's "Hello" is basically about.

[–]ObliviouslyThrowaway 13 points14 points  (4 children)

That's what all her songs are about.

Every. Single. One. Of her songs that got popular was her singing about breakup.

Some, like Rolling In The Deep, are literally her singing about enacting some sort of revenge on the guy. "Don't underestimate the things that I will do". She's not a good person.

[–]PutItAllOnRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ruined that song for my daughter by pointing out it's about a crazy stalker woman who should be avoided and never imitated.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I don’t really listen to her. Somehow that song penetrated the Led Zeppelin/GnR Force Field I keep around me at all times. I must have been in some public space where they were playing it.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Time for us to stop giving them one then, level the playing field

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't mind giving it to them....but they always wish they hadn't demanded it after. Haha.

[–]wracky272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just gathering evidence that it's not her fault, for her to use when she goes and talks her girlfriends' ears off about how much of a jerk you are.

[–]redd_reality 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Snowflakes gonna snowflake.

[–]JamesBeanbore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haters gone hate Waiters gone wait Alligators gone alligate

[–]BewareTheOldMan 82 points83 points  (3 children)

One of the base reasons many women are hit hard by simple rejection is the reality of being accustomed to male time, attention, and random favors simply for being a woman and not much else. Beta Orbiters reinforce this problem...and it’s a huge problem.

When you consider that most women have been getting chased and sought after by men since age 15, it makes sense that "a man must be the problem" when a relationship goes south for any reason. After all – she’s a special snowflake and "deserves" the best of everything…this includes male time, attention, and random favors simply for being a woman. This narrative is supported and reinforced by general society, social media, advertisements, and mainstream media.

It's one of the reasons most women hate criticism and judgment - it points to responsibility, accountability, and the necessity for self-critique, correction, and self-improvement. Case in point – simply criticize a Single Mother, reject an overweight or grossly obese woman, or state a woman is unattractive consistent with your preferences…and witness the fallout. Men are even shamed for slut-shaming...whereas years ago women were the most vocal proponents against slut behavior because it raised expectations for OTHER women to engage sexual activity external to either marriage or at least a committed relationship.

It seems many women need a "narrative" why relationship failure is never their fault. It's surprising when women accept responsibility and accountability.

Conversely – most men have been accustomed to criticism since the age of reason (ages 6 to 9, depending on the child) and are used to rejection since the overwhelming majority have experienced this reality since their early teen years. The occasional involuntary-celibate who goes crazy/lashes out from lack of female attention is the exceptional outlier, but the majority of men CLEARLY understand that a man must continuously conduct self-improvement and personal development IF they want female attention.

In a way it’s a biological cruelty that most women are showered with male time, attention, and random favors simply for being pretty at such early ages and without the need for personal development and self-improvement. It’s how a woman reaches ages 30-35 and is astounded from the significant decrease in attention and lack of effort from men.

There are some women who either instinctively learn or are taught this lesson much earlier in life – that they must be added value to a man’s life versus just being a pretty face and a basic sex object. However, many post-30s/40s women will still have expectations the same as when they were in their early teens and early 20s.

It’s sad to witness…

[–]dmi_3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a great comment, fantastic work

[–]Frenetic_Zetetic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Succinct and loaded with truth. Thank you for taking the time to share this epic comment, u/BewareTheOldMan.

[–]it_takes_the_redpill 18 points19 points  (0 children)

and it better be good

the reason you provide will be inadequate by default.

[–]dekagramm 6 points7 points  (3 children)

good for you bro, out of curiosity how hot was she?

[–]freshoutofgravitas 16 points17 points  (2 children)

how old, too, the ticking time bomb doth protest

[–]Becoming-The-Mask 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If a girl breaks up with you, and you don't expect it, she usually has a backup to go to, and will coldly blow you off however she can.

When you break up with her however, and she doesn't expect it, she'll explode and try to get your attention anyway she can, because she doesn't have a backup in case things don't work the way she feels with you.

[–]BewareTheOldMan 101 points102 points  (8 children)

“Maybe I should send a guy friend to fuck you up” “You wasted 2 months of my life”

So... she's going to direct one of her Beta Orbiter, Blue Pill SIMPs to "fuck you up?” You should be SO scared right now - practically shaking in your boots at the thought of Mr. Soy-Boy en route to beat you to a pulp...mostly because "Chad" doesn't have time to be her errand boy.

You're absolutely right "[women and/or men] are not entitled to anybody’s love or affection" - most men are acutely aware of this fact. It's generally women with entitlement on this point as most have been receiving male attention and adoration since the age of 15.

I submit the principal issue is she misunderstood the terms, conditions, standards, and requirements of her status because...Plates have "status" not "position." Position is reserved for LTRs, potential life-mates, and wives...and women HAVE to EARN their position in the relationship EVERY. DAMN. DAY - same as men.

On a safer note - ensure women know upfront you are in fact engaging other women and you have zero intent on exclusivity. Be sure Plates understand this arrangement. They either accept it or not.

[–]redd_reality 17 points18 points  (4 children)

Amazing eh

How women see social power as literal power. She feels as if she personally could fuck him. Pathetic.

I had a buddy once who grabbed a bouncer to throw out some dude because he was hitting on the same girl he was (pathetically) trying to game.

After witnessing this, it was friends off. What man grabs a bouncer to remove a dude who is talking to a woman he wants to fuck? A fucking loser, that's who.

[–]BewareTheOldMan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I concur - weak move and pretty Beta as well.

[–]destraht 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can't tell you how many times I had a mid-tier beta pointed over in my direction by a woman who was pissed at me. They would look over nasty at me and then just shy right the fuck away. Sure there are guys that can kick my ass but close to zero of those guys would ever want anything to do with nonsense like that. So on the physical front I'm clear as day.

[–]DragonBornX45 261 points262 points  (15 children)

Irony is that if you posted on any other sub you'd have brigades of people saying what an asshole you are. Hypocritical dumbasses

[–]temerity18 14 points15 points  (12 children)

Which ones are that? I would love a good chuckle

[–]Im_no_imposter 37 points38 points  (8 children)

relationships & offmychest tend to pull stunts like that often.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (6 children)

Pretty sure I got banned from that shithole

[–]Im_no_imposter 15 points16 points  (5 children)

Oh yeah, I'm not allowed to comment or participate anyway. When I asked the mods why, they told me my account had restricted access because I'm active on subs like imgoingtohellforthis and redpill.

[–]omega_dawg93 18 points19 points  (2 children)

damn. reddit restricts access to certain forums just because you belong to other forums?

what the fuck?

[–]Im_no_imposter 16 points17 points  (1 child)

Apparently it's technically against Reddit rules, but the mods there have been allowed to do so for about 5 years. Reddit only enforces it's rules on certain types of subreddits it seems.

[–]omega_dawg93 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that's such bullshit. either the rules apply to everyone or to no one.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol you just listed my 2 fav subs.

Just let them pay for their wives kitchen so they can remember what sex feels like.

[–]okuli 14 points15 points  (1 child)

AskMen would also be funny, they're so blue-pilled.

[–]PS2Errol 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Moderated by women as well.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bienvenue à 2018, enjoy your stay

[–]spookey0188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The incels will praise him tho at their sub

[–]MarcosDomingues 73 points74 points  (10 children)

"I can have any guy I want, I can have a new guy every day if I wanted"

I remember one day a girl got mad at me in a group chat and she literally said the same thing like dozens of times that day. A friend of mine even made a montage with her audio lmao.

This reveals a lot about a girl's mentality. Every girl has boyfriends, potential boyfriends, orbiters and other friends lined up

[–]Cloak77 56 points57 points  (3 children)

Reply with "that just makes you a slut" and watch the fire burn.

[–]Darkistco 1 points1 points [recovered]

my body I can do what i want

[–]tabledude5 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It also reveals women know all guys want to fuck them. Women do see themselves as sex objects and they crave it (but only with the right man, not some pathetic beta).

As a beta, I thought women were oblivious or that I’m perhaps brainwashed or felt entitled into wanting so much sex with them. I was shamed and always told women are not sex objects, they are scientists, engineers, doctors, the future of humanity, blah, blah, blah. But they always knew.... they just wanted attention, and of course they wouldn’t reveal it to a stranger and beta like me.

My favorite pill so far. I feel a little nauseous.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Child mind with a teenage body. The only reason no one admits it is because team women are children and men are blinded by a haze of hormones.

[–]redd_reality 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is why our feminized society has such a problem with accepting dominance heirarchies. If you loved your entire life not having to compete, someone besting you would be offensive and piss you off. Who do they think they are?! lmaoo

[–]Becoming-The-Mask 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When women have to repeat, they show how insecure they are. If you pass a shit test yourself, you need not repeat it.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

That mentality seems to prevail in most young attractive women. I once ignored a girl who was trying to get my attention. She looked so shocked. I guess she was used to men falling for her.

[–]MarcosDomingues 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right, they're not used it because it never happenned before lolz.

It's the male equivalent of a girl denying you the friendzone.

[–][deleted] 128 points129 points  (16 children)

She completely missed the point and thought you were saying she couldnt get laid or something haha

[–]Travzaz 61 points62 points  (15 children)

Yeah man, your wording was off. You should have said, "You are not entitled to my love or affection." The way you put it comes off as the nuclear statement: "You are unlovable."

[–]Gidanocitiahisyt 92 points93 points  (10 children)

I think the point here is that women have no problem telling men, "you are not entitled to anyone's love or affection." They truly do not give a fuck if Billy Beta dies without ever getting so much as a boob touch. How DARE these mysogenistic men act like they are entitled to another person's body!

These same women see nothing wrong with getting pissed off when you just don't feel like fucking them any more.

[–]dekagramm 18 points19 points  (5 children)

They think there pussy is a precious unique pearl out of the ocean, and gold floats out of it, and you should be more than grateful to have it.

[–]freshoutofgravitas 25 points26 points  (4 children)

the reality is most of them have a cooter as precious as a urinal cake, they'll use and abuse it, branch swing from chadlet to chadlet, then live in denial of the approaching, inevitable, and non-negotiable Wall.

[–]IntrovertedMagma 18 points19 points  (3 children)

"I can fuck whatever guy I want. I can fuck a new guy every day If I want to"

I bet you my right nut, she thinks guys are impressed she is a cum-dumpster lmao

[–]JJ3314 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"I can fuck whatever guy I want. I can fuck a new guy every day If I want to"

Yeah baby that sounds like a reasonable, and sustainable life plan, especially for a woman. But go for it--don't let your dreams remain dreams, and I'll catch up with you 20 years to see how your life's turned out.

[–]fifi508 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Women make fun of nice guys all the time and other guys jump in on it and shame the guy too. Flip the script and the guy is an asshole user, woman is victimized and gets attention. Men are coerced into a crusade against him. Fuckin disgusting, what society allows.

[–]stealthdawg 8 points9 points  (2 children)

It depends on how you say it:

"You are not entitled to anyone's love or affection"


"You are not entitled to anyone's love or affection"

Even though they both technically mean the same thing (not that particulars ever seem to matter to people), the second is more easily misconstrued.

Edit: spellings and shit

[–]christopher_commons 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I would've said "You are not entitled to anyone's love or affection."

BTW, love of or affection. FTFY

[–]ReadyPlayer15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or you are not entitled to my affection Pretty much the same message but just a little clearer

[–]oliseo 276 points277 points  (21 children)

Wrong move. Has Cinema taught you nohting?

Real Heros don't look behind them when things explode.

You engaged in covnersation with her. You may think you've won, but the fact you continued to engage with her after you've told her it was over suggests otherwise.

Look, Women love drama. She will have loved what you said to her, as she will be slagging you off to all her friends about it, and they will slagging you off back. You've given her exactly what she wanted, the opportuinity to wallow in drama within her circle of friends. You improved her status, whilst diminishing yours.

You was right in what you said, but wouldn't it have been far more effective if you just DID IT rather than talk about it. Actions speak louder than words.

You: It's over.

Her: Massive Rant..

You: *Walks away slowly not looking behind him* her voice slowly diminishing the further the distance you put.

Trust me, you would have felt MILES better just saying it's over, and then not rising to her bait. All those things she said to you, was to get a reaction, it was another shit test that Women do. By responding, you failed.

Now imagine the difference when she goes to slag you off to her friends and when they ask what you said/did after she said all that, and she goes "nothing, he just walked off, didn't even bother looking back". They'd all have wet panties thinking about you.

Obviously it's your call, but here's how it looks. One's cool as fuck and nothing phases him, the other gets into handbag fights with bitches. See the difference now.

Ask yourself guys, which one would you TRULY rather be seen as. Life, as in art, is mostly about perception. And it's the subtleties that can make or break you.

[–]_thetruth1 63 points64 points  (3 children)

It’s amazing how a women’s shit test for alpha behavior is only passable by LEAVING. It’s a A lose lose situation for the girl. It’s either A) Leave her(don’t engage) you win she loses you (the alpha) Or B) stay(engage), you lose shit test and alpha credit and she loses (finds who she’s with less attractive through beta actions aka even talking to her)

[–]Alpha_Widow_Maker 36 points37 points  (1 child)

Women are their own worst enemies.

[–]CollaterLDamage 58 points59 points  (8 children)


Now imagine the difference when she goes to slag you off to her friends and when they ask what you said/did after she said all that, and she goes "nothing, he just walked off, didn't even bother looking back". They'd all have wet panties thinking about you.

That's not how it works. If it angers her that much she will make up a story or say she broke up with you. She will find a way to justify her feelings.

Whether bridges are burned depends on how soon she either gets another man or gets over it.

[–]Alpha_Widow_Maker 56 points57 points  (1 child)

she will make up a story or say she broke up with you. She will find a way to justify her feelings.

This. You know a woman got dumped when she starts by shaming the guy with lies like "he's too afraid of commitment" or "he was intimidated by my intelligence".

[–]BewareTheOldMan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Likely true - but that's just how it is anyway...even if a woman's absolutely wrong in her behavior (e.g. infidelity, disruptive behavior, etc.) she's "not wrong." Society has helped many women believe this and it's reinforced by her closest friends, allies, and especially her Beta Orbiters.

Somehow it was a man's "lack of Alpha Frame" that caused the infidelity or unruly behavior. Be prepared to either deflect, counter, or simply ignore when and if you eventually hear the details of the "break up story."

For some - responsibility and accountability are literally foreign concepts.

[–]TheNewMan420 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Either way he's outta there, who gives a shit?

[–]CollaterLDamage 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Crazy girls don't always have crazy freinds but sometimes 1 bad apple can spoil the bunch

[–]TheNewMan420 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Do you mean maybe you can't fuck the friends?

[–]CollaterLDamage 1 point2 points  (1 child)

lol yes, she may make fucking the freinds difficult

[–]TheNewMan420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

plenty more fish in the hoecean

[–]Imadeathtrap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Personally i recommed keeping an eye out until you're out of pistol range 👍

[–]3LiveAFTSOV 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If a women wants to, is irrational and emotional enough, it won't matter that you walked away because she will still tell everyone you called her names and almost hit her.

Might as well be the monster

[–]fifi508 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Done this....many times. This girl WILL get a reaction from you until she finds another person. She will do this by either harassing you, complaining to your friends and/or family or worse...work. She will turn obsessive and now your back to being the asshole. OP stuck it to her and whoever hates her in girl land probably liked how he did it. Either way, most girls will never clean break from you. They are too prideful and cowardly. They will cheat first so the blame is not on them.

Rule of thumb, always be dumping them if you smell the end.

[–]throwawayclarkken 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your comment should be higher up .

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically just act like Clint Eastwood and you're laughing all the way to the bank

[–]TommyTheThird 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this perspective and didn’t consider it previously but find it to be most accurate.

[–]beginner_ 36 points37 points  (2 children)

That's why ghosting is now the standard because who wants all that drama?

[–]JJ3314 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yup, cheerfully ghost away. Carousel riders aren't entitled to anything.

[–]fifi508 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t even call it ghosting anymore. I call it delete.

[–]Frenetic_Zetetic 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The correct reply to any female who plays the "You're not entitled to sex" card, is exactly what OP said: "You’re not entitled to anybody’s love or affection”.

[–]redpilledcuck 51 points52 points  (3 children)

And she hit the roof telling me, “I can fuck any guy I want, I can have a new guy every day if I wanted”

"Good luck getting them to stick around tho"

[–]adirp 1 points1 points [recovered]

Lol she would have assaulted him at that point.

[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Year right. Wait till she finds someone she judges to have higher SMV than you, and you will witness the ultimate level of "moving on".

[–]sweetleef 11 points12 points  (4 children)

“You wasted 2 months of my life”

Think about that statement. The implication is that simply being with you and spending time with you is not the goal, she derives no pleasure or happiness from it - she's with you merely to achieve some profit, namely, committment of some kind for her provision. When that promise of provision is cut off, the time spent with you becomes "wasted".

[–]pohlrich 1 point2 points  (2 children)

thats exactly it. so shes looking at the long term. whats your point?

[–]sweetleef 2 points3 points  (1 child)

That her purpose is not to share her day-to-day life with a man, but to invest time into an endeavor with an eventual payout. The goal is not the relationship itself, but the end reward for enduring the relationship.

[–]KBeer01 72 points73 points  (14 children)

Pro-tip: never lead a girl on to think a relationship is going to be more than you are really interested in.

This will only lead to drama. It sounds like you did lead on to more than the relationship really was. She was starting to go into betaizing mode as all women will eventually do to try and get you to settle down. I am relatively sure that this process was helped along by you, consciously or subconsciously. What's done is done now, just be aware of it.

Any boyfriend behaviours you displayed towards her will only accelerate this process. The fact that you already reached "The Talk" at 2 months really says it all. So next time, if she really is just a FB for you, go easy on the boyfriend behaviours. See her less. Contact her less. Discuss the relationship and your future and all that shit less. It sends a wildly incongruent message to her and you are essentially lying which will just add to drama down the line: exhibit A - your recently blown up relationship.

I also don't believe to ever let a relationship blow up like this again as far as in my control. If everybody is honest from the start, it never has to end this way. Lesson learned. Good luck bro.

[–]MrAnderzon 63 points64 points  (1 child)

Women are the gatekeepers to sex

Men are the gatekeepers to relationships

[–]1Original_Dankster 19 points20 points  (0 children)

  • No woman is obliged to continue fucking a man she no longer wants to fuck.

  • No man is obliged to continue a relationship with a woman he no longer wants a relationship with.

With these axioms in mind, I see no moral issue with implying a relationship is possible then changing your mind. Might not be the best choice from a strategic / tactical mindset, but the morality of it is, to me, unassailable.

[–]Rene-Girard 1 points1 points [recovered]

Girls lead themselves on. Remember that it is always 100% the fault of a woman if sex doesn't lead to a relationship. If she had put in the effort to be better OP would probably love to be in a relationship with her. But she didn't.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Haha while I like the sentiment, this is certainly false. Guys bang girls all the time who they would not consider atttactuve enough to date.

[–]Rene-Girard 1 points1 points [recovered]

Yeah, but not for two months. Or at least I assumed from the OP that the girl was hot, but you're completely right about girls that aren't attractive. I wouldn't sleep with an unattractive girl though.

[–]fifi508 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These Girls will make up whatever they want the relationship to be. Even if you just say for sex, it’s all dependent on what she told the women social circle. It’s the self entitlement and spoiled child. She was desperate and didn’t want to get rejected and look stupid in front of her friends. Same things happen to nice guys.

OP did nothing wrong here. he was being harassed, forced and coerced into a relationship. He didn’t want it and he told the hard truth.

[–]Becoming-The-Mask 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't believe in a relationship at all. Keep slinging plates even when she might be the one you think is best. Work Dread Game if you do go for it, but don't get overly attached and remember she doesn't have to try as hard as you to branch-swing.

[–]oliseo 7 points8 points  (3 children)

Spot on. I get the feeling though that some Men like the Drama as much as Women.

Hence why the OP is taking delight at winning an argument with someone he's only moments earlier told he wants nothing to do with again.

At that point he simply should have walked off, job done.

By continuing to engage with her AFTER this fact is yet another example of giving out mixed messages.

She's probably written a similar article on reddit about him.

Personally, I can't tell the difference between the two of them.

[–]1empatheticapathetic 11 points12 points  (2 children)

So the fact that women pull shit like this 99% of the time is irrelevant to you?

[–]KBeer01 24 points25 points  (1 child)

Being bitter towards women and having a "I'm going to fuck you over because that's what all you bitches do to men" attitude only leads to more drama. It is an acknowledged phase that you have to go through when taking TRP but you should eventually moved past it.

Then you simply start managing your plates with honesty while rooted in the realities of the differences between the genders' sexual dynamics. You should never end your TRP journey being at war with women. It should come full circle with you being back in control without all the drama.

[–]halfback910 8 points9 points  (3 children)

It's such a ridiculous idea. Sic'ing guys on you like dogs.

Do these people not realize that like 30% of people in America have a gun or some nonsense? If someone tries to "fuck me up" I hope for their sake I'm in a patient mood that day.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (2 children)

“I can fuck any guy I want, I can have a new guy every day if I wanted”

You should have said that thing about a key: What's better a key that opens all locks or a lock that is always open.

She's bragging about being a fuck toy and wasting her assets, but she didn't realize it. She judges your outcomes on male standards, just wait till she gets a little older. "/Dating over 30".

[–]dekagramm 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Another saying along the lines is A man is like a key and a Woman a Lock. A key that can open many locks is a great key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's the same one but paraphrased.

[–]unclequavo 5 points6 points  (7 children)

How do you go about cutting off a woman who has mutual friends and will probably shit talk you to them? It seems enticing to just say “i have no time or any will to commit to someone” but the backlash with female friends we both know is the only thing holding me back. Thoughts?

[–]The_Chiselnator 42 points43 points  (1 child)

Remember: In all relationships with women, you will be the monster at the end of it all.

Accept it. Internalise it. And get over it.

All women I have ever fucked (single, married, dating, engaged) all have stories about how horrible their dudes are. The stories of how monstrous their husbands, boyfrieds, exes are told even as they suck dick and swallow the cum.

[–]BewareTheOldMan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

True - despite being a husband who NEVER faltered in husband or father responsibilities (especially father responsibilities post-divorce), the ex-wife managed to concoct a story of how terrible I was as a husband and even attempted to turn my own children against me.

Mind you - I was NEVER physically abusive, financially irresponsible, overtly unfaithful, or had no major personality or disposition changes from when we started dating, throughout the marriage, or post-divorce. The aforementioned issues are what I refer to as "husband/relationship disqualifiers" – none of which I ever demonstrated any point.

However, she had numerous disqualifiers – the biggest of which was falling extremely short in her basic wife and mother duties and failing to self-correct. By failing to make corrections she was summarily dismissed via divorce. Even the kids eventually understood why I left the marriage, especially now since they're adults. I'm not saying there are no terrible husbands, it just wasn't an accurate and still isn't an accurate description of my time as a husband with the ex-wife.

It seems many women need a "narrative" why relationship failure is never their fault. It's surprising when women accept responsibility and accountability. The "I didn't know he was…a liar, a cheater, a bad seed, abuser, etc." gets old. It assumes women can't discriminate between Good Men and douchebag losers/deadbeats.

It's one of the reasons most women hate criticism and judgment - it points to responsibility, accountability, and the necessity for self-improvement.

Sometimes it takes years - but friends, family, and even children realize why men exit this type of situation. Ex-girlfriends are easy as most of them will rarely, if ever, cross your path after breakup - assuming there no children, a man easily moves on with his life.

[–]OhNoNotAnotherBan 6 points7 points  (1 child)

I believe he said "mutual" friends. You know, as in they're his friends as well as hers. He obviously got with a chick from the circle of friends. Bad idea in my opinion. But he has done it and wants to know how best to clean up the shit on his playground.

[–]omega_dawg93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well, then why the fuck do you care what the mutual friends think of you?

if your friends can't accept your decisions and remain a friend, then fuck them too.

[–]XT3M3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just went thru this. if they are your friends they will come to you for your input implying thry care about b.s.. I just kept doing me.

[–]jm51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the backlash with female friends we both know is the only thing holding me back. Thoughts?

You could tell them that you don't date within your social circle.

[–]1kick6 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re ugly AND a fuckboy. Gotta love when they contradict themselves in succeeding sentences. Surprised she didn’t tell you that you had a small dick. That’s always a favorite.

[–]amekooky 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"every woman has a hole to fill" really triggers them when they try to act like their shit doesnt stink.

[–]redd_reality 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"I can have a new guy every day if I wanted!"

In terms of respective male/female sexual dynamics, this is akin to me bragging "I could decide not to approach every woman I see, if I wanted!"

Feminism has really fucked women up. So many of them actually believe getting fucked is an indication of their sexual value. I've had multiple girls bring up their high N-count as if it's a positive; they're actually bragging about. It's fucking lunacy.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

She will be back in a week seeking that validation you refused her, ignore her for the first day then fill in the rest.

[–]z0mby123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya can't be mad when you get rejected unless beauty and pussy is all you have to offer

[–]af_007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember the last ex girlfriend I had, I broke up with her in august last year, she started to act like crazy texting me calling me a lot of bad names, insulting and chasing me, did the same and even called me a cuckold. I blocked her in everything, deleted her in instagram and facebook! Thank God I dumped that fat religious slut! Oh my God I'm ashamed I dated her!

[–]smokecheck1976 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why invite the drama?

“You’re not a real man are you”

"Your opinion is up to you, and it's frankly none of my business."

“You’re just a fuckboy”


“You’re ugly anyways”


“Maybe I should send a guy friend to fuck you up”

"1. You just threatened me with battery. 2. How do you know your guy friend wouldn't agree with me?"

“You wasted 2 months of my life”

"You knew I wasn't offering a steady relationship. I had no reason to assume you weren't seeing other guys as well. This is on you."

No need for the drama. Straight and direct and don't let her argue, don't stay and argue. Wish her the best as you send her on her way.

For the record, being rejected is hard on every one, not just women. If you didn't care about being rejected, I posit that you would not be on this sub.

[–]abudun79 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As nice as it must have felt to be the one in control (congrats, you did it good!), I think it is not a good AWALT example. I saw exactly the same behavoir from guys countless times, but never witnessed it from a woman.

[–]CreatedItJust2Saythi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of comments here, but no one has said anything about what is the interesting point here: why can't women handle rejection at all?

So let me try to give a consistent answer to that question:

The reason why women can't handle rejection lies as well as the same reason that explains other defining female traits, such as hypergamy.

So women are hypergamous, can't handle rejection, bear no responsibility, demand affirmative action, etc because they are INFERIOR. Female inferiority is the common reason.

A woman is just a body for sex (='inferiority'); her body is her main, most important and valuable personal asset. So if you reject her for sex you'll be rejecting her most important and valuable ability. She is entitled to sex with you because if you don't accept her body for sex then she won't be able to give you or contribute you any other better, 'more superior' or valuable thing or capability from her than sex in order to transactionally earn from you all the benefits of your superior male capabilities that are out of her female inferiority's reach.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are supposed to have all the control of the sex game. Way to flip the script.

[–]wss5112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is interesting.

And it seems to be a causal element in play. It’s the emotional nature of a woman that creates the tendency of them throwing out games and can’t handle them back.

I don’t think they’re that smart to think they control everything. They just let the natural flow flows which is driven by their emotion. Somehow they’re so good at playing with emotions and men have to learn to not hand over the control wheel.

[–]AllahHatesFags 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you sent her hamster through the roof because she seemed to malfunction and brag about how she could be or is a huge slut.

[–]daniellederek 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wasted 2 months? Seriously? I'm guessing you had possibly 4 meals follwed by fucking met and Netflix n chilled and fucked like 12 more times if that.

What was she investing in? Was she expecting the all expenses paid weekend away? Were you supposed to take her to (insert random music fest weekend here) on your dime?

You did not handle this well. You perhaps should have made her well aware of her plate status by winding the fling down slowly. Not abruptly ghosting just fading away. Space out bang sessions to 10 days then 2 weeks. Be seen on social media with other female friends. Tell her it's just " friends" nothing to worry about. Same technics wimmenz use all the time......

[–]Dargalo04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had that shaming stunt from a girl before and I'm not gonna lie shit fucked me up a bit. That's of course if you're still in search of reaching your potential and know thyself.

Pump and cut contacts immediately. There's no point explaining yourself, why.

[–]OncewasaBlastocoel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I really vet my plates. I won't even get sexual if I sense (excessive) instability or a difficult exit.

[–]1Zanford 1 point2 points  (1 child)

“I can fuck any guy I want, I can have a new guy every day if I wanted”

lol I always wonder, do chicks really not realize that this applies to very decent or better looking woman? Or do they think guys don't know this?

Can confirm OP's experiences...have had so many girls over the years completely light up, start screaming at he top of their lungs, try to physically trap me (grabbing, blocking doors or standing in front of cars etc.) become absolutely feral when they realized we were 'done'. They act like the strung out junkies on COPS

[–]tabledude5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I decided to use it. I said “you’re not entitled to anyone’s love or affection” And she hit the roof telling me, “I can fuck any guy I want, I can have a new guy every day if I wanted”


I was always bothered by this, but now I understand women don’t care so much about sex, especially not as much as having relationship with the alpha. It’s the shit test I’ve always failed.

For women: Relationship > Sex

This is why women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships.

[–]Br0dies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I can have a new guy everyday if I wanted” lmao why would anyone want to get serious with a literal roastie

[–]temerity18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The threats of violence are punishable by with jailtime. Did you press charges?

[–]restorerofmorality 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Women are completely insane.

[–]omega_dawg93 6 points7 points  (1 child)

nah, they're not insane. they can be VERY logical when they need to be.

otherwise, they're just engulfed in emotional logic, living in fairy tale land... having champagne tastes with beer money in their accounts.

[–]restorerofmorality 5 points6 points  (0 children)

emotional logic

oxymoron if there ever was one

[–]IncognitoMaster91 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I was just saying this to a friend. I'm a personal trainer and damn it if they don't still try to make me their beta bitch.

Problem is that I have invested in other businesses and make good cash without having to get new clients if i don't want to....meaning I train mainly because it makes me happy....and i can cut any woman who makes my job stressful.

The last client I cut has still yet to be officially cut from my training. She knows I'm going to cut her because she broke my training agreement and decided to turn into a bitch for reasons unknown (I know the reasons).

For an entire week she has given some lame reason for not showing up to class mainly because she knows I don't do text message. (I always reprimand her in person if she slipped)

Reminds me of a child who knows it will be punished so it stays away from home for as long as it can.

[–]blacktao 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Can you describe your training agreement please? I’ve been looking into getting back into training myself.

[–]IncognitoMaster91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a pretty simple agreement. Just involves committing yourself to a minimum of 4 workouts a week. (Staying in shape and healthy doesn't mean you have to work out every day, But u have to commit to a minimum).

When I train I commit myself to you and getting your goals met...so my agreement requires you commit to the program also and to your goals.

[–]DailyChupa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how to get a woman to obsess over you. She's going to do everything she can to win you back

[–]mdl76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reason to be VERY selective in plates... or then again, just stay away from women. overall they are pathetic. its that pussy drug that gets us.

[–]TheEnglishman28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how you handled this. Nice, simple, and not prolonged.

[–]phishyfingers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My reason is always the same.

I met someone else.

That shuts things down PDQ.

All they can say after that is;

Is she better in bed/prettier/younger than me?

It's always about them.

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