Field ReportFR: If a girl wants you she will move heaven and earth. First hand experience (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Kabuki431

Earlier this year I had a project in metro city and was gonna stay there for a maybe a month or two. But since I was freshly outta oneitis and was seriously broken mentally and emotionally, I just concentrated on work.

But ofcourse a man has needs. I got on all kinds of apps to get laid, after a day or 2 I had some matches and just one I got talking to via txt immediately. Lets call her Danielle was a 21 HB8 I would say, but my skeptical ass was in denial that it cant be possible for 21 yo to hookup with a 36 yo okish looking guy.

Any how we get talking and she says she doesn't live in the same metro and she's in another city 150 miles away. This raised my red flags about scammers and I just said lets have Thursday at a local restaurant in downtown. And I totally forgot about, like why would anyone drive down 150 miles to hookup unless its a scam of some sort.

Thursday came I am in my office around evening as we work late, around 7pm I get a txt "I am here" no shit I call her to make sure. She confirms she's parked at garage 5 and I knew where it was.

Anyhow we have dinner and just go back to my hotel and pretty much get it on instantly. Mind you I am still upguarded and have my gun/knive in nightstand just in case. Also made sure I had enough protection. So this goes on next few weeks and she would drive down like a clock work, along the lines confessed I was the best she ever had blah blah blah. But she can't do a relationship cause she always ends up cheating because she's weak etc.

So after 2 months I finish my project and come back to my home town which is 5 states away. We still txt on and off

Last week I got a call from her that she wants to see me. I just said your welcome to fly here anytime she wants. She told me she's been doing a second job and saving up some money so she could come see me. Also she's not seeing/sleeping with anyone anymore to show me how much she values me in her life (lol)

I am still trying to wrap my head around this thing and how its possible.

She's coming down in 2 week and spend the weekend with me.

The title is what I read as a comment on TRP

Edit 1: Yes she might be crazy, she does have some mental baggage I guess. But again to all fellow TRPers she's just a plate and nothing more. Just a warm hole.

Yes I know she sleeps around with other guys and this was already discussed with her on day one that we are not exclusive and its clear.

I guess I was just the rock she needed, was very obedient and would not say good morning without waking me up blowing me.


[–]ArdAtak 326 points327 points  (5 children)

Maybe she see's you as more valuable than other men in her life or she's looking for a sugar daddy. Have fun but keep that antenna sharp for BS.

[–]Denver_Luv4 52 points53 points  (1 child)

Bigger issue is that some chicks will make it happen but most won't. Game is about getting those marginal chicks spread in your bed. I too have loads of stories about yes-girls, but it is the maybe-girls who are most interesting.

Nash has loads of interesting stories about maybe-girls, as do most of the players who write.

[–]1Zanford 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of broad strategy / lifestyle game really does come down to an efficient filter. You can afford to get blown out lots, as long as you respect your own time and are quick to ID and next the maybes rather than investing time/emotion/money/etc. in tepid wastes of time.

Don't need to appeal to everyone...just need to REALLY appeal to a decent cohort.

[–]jo45so7 7 points8 points  (1 child)

tip: run and hide, this girl is crazy

[–]jackandjill22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, he's ego tripping. Seen that be the downfall of men all the time. That said, people travel all the time. Perhaps she just enjoys traveling and you're the cherry on top. Or she could be tricking you, when girls proclaim certain sentiments is rarely authentic.

[–]TonytheNetworker 196 points197 points  (4 children)

Nice. Sounds like you have a decent plate to have. Of course, the fact that she admitted she cheats is more than enough reason to never emotionally invest in this girl. Have fun and smash her til your dick hurts. Oh, and she's not yours, it's just your turn.

[–]NikolaGeorgiev 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Oh, and she's not yours, it's just your turn. This should be engraved in everyone's mind.

[–]FishaRneKed 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Let me rephrase this. "She is yours, only while she wants to be" keep giving her reasons to be yours. Don't get complacent and she might stick around.

[–]_the_shape_ 86 points87 points  (2 children)

she can't do a relationship cause she always ends up cheating because she's weak etc.

This is a full confession that she loves drama.

There is, without question, absolutely no way LTRing would ever end well. Proceed with caution.

[–]Manunafraid 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Advice like this is why I'm so glad I found The Red Pill, even though it breaks my heart sometimes.

[–]morexel 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Better to have it broken in here than out there.

[–]2Dmva100 185 points186 points  (5 children)

She sounds like a real dick-hunter. Careful OP. Too much desire means crazy bitch, especially with anger and jealousy. The hamster wheel can spin very fast and if your pee pee gets caught in there it could fall off, which sadly wouldn't make you a freak but moreso ordinary in today's world of androgynous humans cucked by Kraft lunchables and all their soyim calories when they were in grade school.

[–]confusedguy911911 37 points38 points  (0 children)

If I could fit this on a shirt I’d fucken wear it every day

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dude im framing this and giving it to my grandkids

[–]1-Fidelio- 78 points79 points  (5 children)

If she always ends up cheating because she's weak, she is also sleeping with other people, regardless of what she's saying.

[–]TonytheNetworker 12 points13 points  (2 children)

Exactly. She'll be riding that Cock carousel for all it's worth until she falls off.

[–]2CasaDeFranco 1 point2 points  (1 child)

And some Joe will marry her, have 2.4 kids and just be a constant disappointment to those glory years before she surprises him with divorce rape just as the wall hits.

[–]randomTATRP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How the fuck do you have 2.4 kids? hahahahaha

[–]justchilllllin 46 points47 points  (8 children)

"why would anyone drive down 150 miles to hookup"

"confessed I was the best she ever had"

"she can't do a relationship cause she always ends up cheating"

She sounds BPD to me.

[–]Kabuki431[S] 14 points15 points  (6 children)

Whatever the case, she's just a plate to me and I was sharing an experience I read about here.

[–]3whatsthisgarg 27 points28 points  (5 children)

She sounds BPD to me.

Whatever the case, she's just a plate to me and I was sharing an experience I read about here.

Yeah, but like a lot of others dudes are saying, she sounds crazy, and you should at least keep that in mind. Too late, she knows where you live.

You know her, we don't. Be careful. Be more than careful.

I met a woman who was the GF of a friend of mine. Beautiful, taken, I forgot about her. Six months later, she fakes an illness to get out of a study-abroad program (while BF is in another country himself), crosses the fucking ocean and starts pursuing me. Great! let's have fun. Then she turned into a goddam stalker.

Take precautions, which I actually can't even advise you on.

[–]LeonardoDiDraperBond 9 points10 points  (4 children)

Why would you fuck your friend's gf/ex? You have to realize the biggest reason chicks have for doing this is to get back at the other dude.

[–]1Your_Coke_Dealer 9 points10 points  (1 child)

TRP is amoral, and pussy is pussy

[–]LeonardoDiDraperBond 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont disagree with you, but I think its the same principle as 'dont shit where you eat'. You'll just create drama and might lose friends over it.

[–]3whatsthisgarg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would you fuck your friend's gf/ex? You have to realize the biggest reason chicks have for doing this is to get back at the other dude.

That was not the point, dude. The point was this chick fucking CROSSED THE OCEAN among other things to get with me. And she turned out just a little bit crazy.

Be careful out there.

[–]Expectations1 60 points61 points  (1 child)

Keep texts that say she enjoyed herself, you may need it incase there are any allegations.

[–]perdipp 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Seems like a menial thing until one day it hits you like a truck.

It's like hitting ctrl + s every once in a while to make sure your document is saved: menial but can ruin shit at once.

[–]mikemnp11 30 points31 points  (15 children)

Well, 1 month ago I was in Colombia on holiday. I didn't use my tinder until the last day when I matched with a few girls just for curiousity but obviously didn't have time to see any. I chatted a bit with one of them and she tells me she comes to Europe in October on holiday. I tell her to visit me with absolutely no idea that she would eagerly accept. She will come to see me in the UK from France for 1 week. All my investment was just a bit of text game.

For sure she sees you as a high SMV man but I wouldn't believe the fact that she fucks only you. I would have fun with her but would be always on alert as I will be with my Colombian girl in October.

[–]frooschnate 28 points29 points  (3 children)

Latinas love to chat shit, let’s see if she makes it m8

[–]mikemnp11 10 points11 points  (2 children)

She sent screenshots of her tickets, so she did buy them... if she doesn't come then entirely her loss not mine haha. But I do agree they usually chat shit.

[–]frooschnate 16 points17 points  (1 child)

Jajajaja you got a real one then

They’re pretty fun, not as dumb as most American girls I’ve met but not as smart as they think they are.

[–]becefoot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wants the visa you know....

[–]Nocryingok 6 points7 points  (7 children)

so she's going to the UK, not going to the UK to see you

[–]EPArt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please dont let her stay at your place and if you meet up take her to a hotel she will probably come with a empty suitcase and leave with a filled one without you noticing. For all you know she could be a drug smuggler who leaves shit at your place or brings some sketchy people to your place.

[–]mikemnp11 2 points3 points  (5 children)

she was not planning to come to the UK and asked if she can stay at my place. So she comes to see me. But again... if she talks shit then I have nothing to lose.

[–]Firestorm0075 16 points17 points  (1 child)

Man you're just the HO-tel. Sorry to break it to ya. Have fun but be real.

[–]mikemnp11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. She "just" comes to see the city and everything that will follow will "just happen".

[–]HBKII 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just a reminder to hide your valuables, ya never know

[–]Nocryingok 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You're chatting this girl for MONTHS without ever meeting her. Sorry, but it looks like an orbiter situation to me. How do you know she wasn't coming to the UK anyways? Good luck and I hope you at least get some good sex out of this.


[–]mikemnp11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mate, I chat to her roughly once a week and that's when she texts me first. It's not a LDR and 0 chance of oneitis. I have more important stuff to take care of rather than fantasize about this chick. Rollo taught me not to have imaginary friends.

[–]musterdcheif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Colombian friend from Cartagena who studies in France and this sounds like exactly the thing she would do lol

[–]ISaidThatOnPurpose 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She's doing her thing, she's weaving into you.

And as soon as you show vulnerability, or any sign that you're hers, she'll be on someone else the same way she was on to you.

Those other guys she's not sleeping with anymore? They had the same experience as you.

Have your fun, but don't expect this to end well

[–]oosnakeoo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol be careful, this could be another jodi arias! Dont wanna end up like travis Alexander.

[–]wendysNO1wcheese 10 points11 points  (2 children)

I personally would think twice about spending a lot of time with someone like that. Definitely off. Save text messages, video her if she lets you, etc.. C.Y.A.

[–]Kabuki431[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Yeah this is nothing more than a plate to me. I never invested anything more than a dinner or 2 and a few beers.

She gets a boot if she tries to act up

[–]UnluckyPenguin 10 points11 points  (1 child)

About 7 years ago I setup a profile on a random dating site. Randomly logged in after a month of being idle, and this hot tiny chinese girl left me her number. Figured out shortly after she was on the other side of the country.

Long story short, I added her on FB where I stupidly left my address visible to friends, and that weekend she showed up on my doorstep unexpectly to stay the entire weekend with me. 600$ round-trip flight minimum + taxi. We never even had a video chat, just sent one or two pictures.

She was super feisty and had daddy issues, but she either loved you or hated you with the fire of a thousand suns, there was no in between and if you didn't bow down to her attention seeking, she flipped like a switch.

It was fun and I'm glad I got that out of my system, but I'd never do it again.

So moral of the story. The girl is crazy, and it won't last, but enjoy it for what it is.

[–]PinkPilledRed17 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My friend married that girl. He lost his family, friends, autonomy and eventually sanity. He's in marital prison. She's mentally ill. Certifiably borderline personality. If he were to leave her she would flip out and probably commit crimes.

You'd never know it meeting her the first few times. These types are crazy for sex and attention and can't help themselves, they have to play psycho games. Without drama, they wither on the vine.

[–]ketxn 1 point2 points  (1 child)

BPD red flag. Trust me I've been with one.

[–]huckleberry_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I was about to write this same thing. My BPD radar went up when reading this post. Careful OP, don’t get invested in this relationship. I personally would walk away immediately.

[–]rutbah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she's moving heaven and earth to get to you wouldn't the inverse be true also? She would move heaven and earth to completely fuck up your life when you break it off with her?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are dealing with a mentally unhealthy person. I only have bits and pieces to go off on but this is worrisome behavior I've encountered before. Just imagine what could happen of you reject her. Does she know where you work? Your employer? Where you live? Have your last name or Facebook? She could burn you down with reputation destruction or false rape claims. It's a shoot first, ask questions last type of world now and this type of woman could wreak havoc.

[–]PlanetNinja 1 points1 points [recovered]

Girls can get oneitis too. I dated this Filipino chick once - HB8. Only problem was she claimed she had strong family values and wouldn’t put out until married. Next! But she kept trying to get back with me and even after I moved 6 states away she somehow got my new phone number and wanted to come see me. She finally gave up and went away but that kind of shit can be a little scary.

[–]youngzari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm. Filipino chicks can and do get oneitis.

[–]1redhawkes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is.

OP pay attention to her actions, not what she says.

Wrap it up twice.

The hoe is probably crazy and someone probably pumped her, then dumped her. Now she's looking for provider and want's to cuck you with someone else's kid.

I'm not saying that this is definitely the case, but be careful.

[–]superdoofus69 1 points1 points [recovered]

One girl did a thing once so all girls will do the thing always... right. Yeah a few girls will behave this way but most will not. Why would they when they have such an abundance of guys to choose from? If you start thinking any girl that doesn't treat you like Brad Pitt isn't into you then you aren't gonna get laid much

[–]unkg 1 point2 points  (1 child)

This is true. However, you have to remember something: if she wants you, she will make it EASY FOR YOU. I remember how I used to be before; I would think to myself, alright I just have to get her interested and chase for a bit. Now I learned from experience that if a whore has me jumping through hoops to fuck her or meet her, she is not worth it. The girls who were interested in me made it very easy for me to fuck them or meet them.

[–]yamial 1 points1 points [recovered]

If a girl wants you that much, you are more than likely waaaaaaay better than her. Reconsider your options. Very probably you can date someone way better than her.

[–]luteke 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Lolll if he is getting laid with minimal effort then good on him, dont see a problem with that as he doesnt see her as gf material, good on op!

[–]comicallysimple 1 point2 points  (1 child)

A couple of easy lays might not be worth what comes together with crazy. I think this is also what law 40 is about. Despise the free Lunch.

[–]luteke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah its up to them , good on him , if he can handle crazy , all g

[–]ahab_dies 6 points7 points  (1 child)

She started out by saying she can't commit because she's a cheater. You were cool with that.

Now she's getting feels for you. She wants to lock you down.

Next step is she will start to get jealous of your time away from her, EVEN THOUGH she set the tone early on there was no commitment.

This scenario has a life span and it's closer to the end than the start now.

[–]Kabuki431[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well one trp has ingrained in me is trust the actions not the words.

[–]HauntedPepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the feeling is mutual then the effort will be also.

[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Rollo also wrote about this and how a woman that wants you will make it happen. The closest thing I have to an experience is when a girl 6 years younger than me that worked with a friend of mine drove an hour to come see our mutual friend at a party just to talk to them about me. They do peculiar things but when a woman wants something these days she's used to getting it.

[–]Walkerstain 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Can you point me to that particular article from Rollo?

[–]1Zanford 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a hilarious field report...not to downplay how well you got her enrapt with you, but she DOES sound a little nutty (not so much the distance - but maybe that too - as the commentary about always cheating) so keep a skeptical eye out.

But at this point you're probably clear of the 'waking up in a bathtub of ice with a missing kidney' phase, so godspeed and enjoy the ride.

[–]tarck 3 points4 points  (1 child)

She is just young and stupid I think.

[–]UncleChido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too. OP should still be careful tho.

[–]Demiurge_Decline 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Op just be careful... dont text her back for 3 days. If she calls you 20 times and or texts you that you are a loser or at worse, shes taking a bus to your house because she is worried about you... she is BPD. If you never had a BPD woman, you are in for a real treat. Sarcasm#

You need to seriously vet this girl. She says she cheats which means shes sexing alot of men. She did a 360 from saying shes on the cock carousel to now she is just exclusive to you in a matter of weeks or days. Now she made that decision. She will expect you to as well.

Her friends have already heard about her new boyfriend - You. Your sex game. She has already saw your social media accounts. Vetted finances. Cuckability. Probably knows your address and job site. She is an 8. 21. Prime of her sex life but shes made you a unicorn. Daddy issues at the least which means issues further down the line. OR she needs to be saved as she working two jobs. No woman likes to work. LOL. She HAS to work and desperately needs a savior like you. Her "Beta Christ". BUT I am willing to bet - she is BPD. Sorry bro. Test. Test. Test. They hate being left. Love attention. Use that to test.....or else...

[–]huckleberry_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best advice on this post. Try the 3 day ghost and watch the reaction. Report back what happened.

[–]FishaRneKed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her mental baggage might not be a big deal to you because you are older. Guys her age are not mature and can't handle it.

[–]A_solo_tripper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mind you I am still upguarded and have my gun/knive...

You remind me of me lol... Safety first!

I think this post is a mixture of skills and a lot of luck. And there is nothing wrong with being lucky! Lucky meaning you were looking for some pussy and matched with a girl who was down to drive 15o after only talking for a few days.

Personally, even i I matched with an HB10 would I drive more than 15-20 mins to go see her. So, yeah, way to go bro.

[–]pigeon_exe 1 point2 points  (1 child)

That’s one heck of a spinning plate

[–]courtesy_flush_plz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

can we please coin this phrase as a "whistler" ?!

[–]Robster25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But she can't do a relationship cause she always ends up cheating because she's weak etc.

"If someone shows you who they are, believe them." Never ever entertain the idea of a monogamous relationship with this girl unless you want to get fucked over. I learned it the hard way.

[–]VictxrSenpai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh watch out , cause if she's that determined for dick I'd be willing to bet she'll be even more determined to ruin your life.

[–]Stink-Finger 2 points3 points  (1 child)

You need to run.

Far & Fast from this crazy bitch.

[–]Rezi89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You need to run. Far & Fast from this crazy bitch.

[–]T7773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never take women at face value. You might think you are playing while you could be the one getting played.

[–]BurnDownTheMission68 0 points1 point  (2 children)

You agreed to spend the entire weekend with her?

And she’s staying at your place?

This ain’t a plate.

[–]Kabuki431[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Hell No, nobody's staying at my place. She's getting a hotel.

[–]askmrcia 0 points1 point  (1 child)

How did hell you match with a chick that far away? Do you have your settings for people that far?

[–]Kabuki431[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was probably there that day within 5 miles

[–]econquest 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Disclaimer: I'm just a RP beginner, don't take my analysis too seriously.

Great write-up OP. Guys, notice something very important. This is how it didn't start:

Earlier this year I had a project in metro city and was gonna stay there for a maybe a month or two. But since I was freshly outta oneitis and was seriously broken mentally and emotionally, I just concentrated on work. BUT THERE WAS THIS ONE GIRL

and then a long vomit monologue about this ONE GIRL whether in a different department, at the cafe, or whoever, that he just couldn't stop obsessing over.

Instead, what was it?

I got on all kinds of apps to get laid, after a day or 2 I had some matches and just one I got talking to via txt immediately.

What does the guy say? I got on ALL KINDS OF APPS. It's a numbers thing!

OP never would have had it if he didn't fucking PUT HIMSELF OUT THERE ON ALL KINDS OF DATING APPS.

Result: how long did it take to snag this temporary unicorn? "a day or 2" Then how did he keep her? By fucking forgetting about her. That is true abundance mentality right there.

If you're not getting laid, ask yourself: are you on ALL KINDS OF APPS right now? Are you on OKCupid, Tinder, Bumble, Happn, Plenty of Fish, and Coffee Meets Bagel today, right now?

Let's do a little quiz. Count how many of these apps you used today:

  1. OKCupid
  2. Tinder
  3. Bumble
  4. Happn
  5. Plenty of Fish
  6. Coffee Meets Bagel

I'll assume that OP meant 3 apps, so here's how to grade your answers:

1 apps: 33% of the work OP did.

2 apps: 66% of the work OP did.

3 apps: 100% of the work OP did.

4 apps: 133% of the work OP put in.

5 apps: 166% of the work OP put in.

6 apps: 200% of the work OP put in.

So you want to get laid? How about you stop reading the rest of OP's write-up and start by getting someone who is super into you. By doing what he did.

[–]Kabuki431[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Great observation buddy. It was a long 1 year to go through but finally made it. Observed a lotta things along the way and for some reason put trp teachings to daily use.

[–]econquest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hard part is now you can't ever slip up. Hold frame till the end of your life :)

Thanks for sharing.

[–]kylerosa21 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I see that she has mental baggage and I instantly think "Don't stick your dick in crazy"

Wouldn't it have been better to drop her after you discovered this? I get that she's a fuck buddy, but I feel like it's too risky. Am I wrong to be thinking this?

[–]Kabuki431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes learning how to drop plates is as important as learning how to get them.

[–]MichaelMWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've personally had women drive 5-6 hours to come meet me. Maybe around 4 or 5?

And a ton from 1-2 hours a way.

I've also had a few women who I've met while traveling the world (slept with and a few who I haven't) come fly literally halfway around the world to the USA.

I think the number is 4. Russia, Italy, China and Turkey.

I've also had a woman I met a month ago in X country come visit me twice in Y country.

She came, paid for the hotel room, all breakfast, lunches and dinners. She literally refuses to let me pay for anything.

What OP talks about isn't necessarily easy but it is EASY if you are confident MF like me and have a shit ton of abundance.

I'm maybe a 7.5 out of 10.

Have a good not great Tinder profile etc.

But can still go to XYZ American city and get 100 matches in 3 days..

[–]SoA_MC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a girl wants you she will move heaven and earth. True, as long she’s not blocked by low esteem, shitty circumstances, family problems, whatever it is. But any of these things can cause a girl to go to either extreme.

[–]Peter_B_Long 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend giving a description of what your Tinder profile looks like and what you feel showed value in her eyes for her to invest so much in hooking up with you. This way, guys here don't respond with jealousy, they can actually review the steps you applied and they can work towards that.

But I've also seen first hand what a girl would go through when she sees you as high value. When I first started sleeping with my current LTR, she immediately started giving some green flags. She would drive over to my side of town whenever I told her to. She would bring her own condoms (allergic to latex), she would buy and bring me starbucks and bring lunch on her days off. Maybe it doesn't seem that great to some people, but it is a huge improvement from my last LTR where she would complain about driving 5 minutes to my house.

[–]zyqkvx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The further she travels and more times she sees you the higher expectations she is going to have from you. All I know for sure is if she starts stalking she has a minimum of a 5 state range.

[–]winterroving 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i met a girl over tinder on a wednesday. flew back home on that same thursday. by saturday she flew over to see me. she flew over once again 2 weeks later. several months later the baggage she had crumbled me as the rock for which she resented me. we dont talk anymore.

[–]skad00sh_meh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take her to the clinic first lol Don't be a fool wrap your tool, right that down Timmy!

And rent an apartment for the weekend, don't show crazy fuckers where you live haha

[–]DouglasPR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I set my tinder location to cities around 300-400km off my area, to avoid matches with local women, it can be compromising in my line of work. I was surprised on how many of them agreed to take the trip to meet and most came back for seconds. The one time I agreed to do the trip for one date, I didnt fclose. Also I always make clear beforehand that if they are driving this far for a date, its not for talks and drinks, its for fucks.

[–]RanchItUp420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be wary of any potential STDs. Be safe OP

[–]pFlap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds fun but she also sounds fucking crazy. Keep records of your messages and only cum in her ass

[–]Spilledmychips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh maybe she lost weight and now feels good about herself.

[–]1ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I had a chick that I bedded in a day, she was very lovely and affectionate, but it was a big red flag that she had like 5 boyfriends since she was 12 (now 24). Wouldn't be such a big deal if she didn't tell me she was branchswining from one guy to the other, so on Monday she was together with Guy A, ditch him and Tuesday with Guy B. Same with guy C, D and E. 2 months later she dumps me because she could see I didn't love her.

Granted, she did travel all the way to my place all the time which was like 200 miles away, so kudo's for that.

[–]tlaatonmai 1 points1 points [recovered]

"Also she's not seeing/sleeping with anyone anymore to show me how much she values me in her life (lol)" She is 100% sleeping with multiple dudes away from you, dont fool yourself. Every girl says the same line. Just use her for banging and dont get emotions.

[–]Kabuki431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You missed the "lol" part. Thats obvious

[–]jlog009 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Might be a scam that requires your long term trust🤣

[–]Idontwatchtv1986 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Shit test her mercilessly .. thats how I dealt with them

[–]imtheoneimmortal -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

2 girls come to me and they lied to their parents to see me (they were 16)
so you're right if someone wants you he/she will do anything