Women Are Like Children, With Examples

AlexDr0ps · 2018-10-26T03:38:19+00:00

One time I was at the climbing gym and a little girl about 5 years old came up and started talking to me. Turns out she was with her family just roaming around, either way she was adorable.

She goes on to tell me she has two older brothers. I ask her "aww, do they pick on you a lot?" and she says they tackle her and do normal big brother teasing.

Then she explains that she has learned that if she cries when they are picking on her, mom or dad will come to the rescue and her brothers will be punished.

It was sort of an 'aha' moment for me. Girls are programmed from their youth to play the victim. Obviously the little girl stood no chance to fight back. Her only escape was to let someone with more power handle the situation.

Now, replace mom and dad with the government. And replace the brothers with literally any situation that a girl does not like. Sure, sometimes a woman may feel very unsafe and she needs protection from someone else. But often, she will cry for help anytime she doesn't get her way. It's the way girls are raised and biologically programmed.

omega_dawg93 · 2018-10-26T15:05:59+00:00

this is a good time to tell you guys about a recent observation and a very important lesson i learned by spending time with my girl and her niece, a 6 yr old.

a 6 yr old taught me about GROWN WOMEN: first, the little girl is very sweet and intelligent... her grandmother dropped her off, and we all ate dinner and talked for a while. then, the little girl started playing with a tablet.

when it was time to go to bed, the girl started whining, and grandmaw said, "c'mon now... it's time to go to sleep... it's your bedtime." she whined... she pouted... she wanted to bring the tablet with her. but grandmaw said, "no."

so "good nights" were said and the girl and grandmaw walked to the bedroom; she tucked her in. then, all of a sudden, we all hear screams from the bedroom: "OMG... my knee is killing me... oowwww... it hurts... somebody help me... i need a Dr!!!"

so, grandmaw and my girl looked at each other, walked down the hall, and assisted the little girl who was limping badly... dragging her leg. when asked what she needed... she said, "i just want to lay here next to grandmaw," (who was sitting on the sofa). the tears soaked her shirt... the faces of pain was all we saw. grandmaw and my girl just looked at each other.

then, it seems as though she was going to sleep, and all of a sudden, a little hand extended from the sofa towards the coffee table... and it ended up resting on top of the tablet. my girl and granny winked at each other and coddled her a bit more. then, the tablet ended up under her hand... almost ready to be picked up again before grandmaw said, "it's time to go to the hospital for this knee."

the little girl then said, "it's OK granny... but can i play with the tablet a little longer before going to bed?" granny yelled, "hell no... now go get in the bed!" she stood up, mean look on her face, pouted... stared at me and my girl (i was trying hard not to laugh), and she walked, without a single limp, to the room, turned out the light, and went to sleep.

the point is NOT that women can whine, cry, and create tears and drama when they want their way. THE REAL POINT is that no one taught this little girl to create these theatrics to get her way; it was TOTALLY organic, natural, and very well thought-out. PURE DECEPTION & MANIPULATION. no one taught her how to do all of this.

if a 6 yr old little girl can fake an injury, produce a river of tears on command, try to deceive in multiple ways, etc, what do you think a grown woman can do?

_be_happy_ · 2018-10-26T13:29:58+00:00

"She'll see $30,000 in the bank and think it's OK to spend $18,000 "

When I was 18 my dad started his business. He was doing fine, buying cheap, selling with profit. A lot of the times around 30k$ was hitting his account, where only 500$ was a profit (minus taxes and VAT). Rest he would have to repay in 20days.

My mum just went, took 5k$ out and spent it on her 40yo party, because why not, she has money...
So they had to start getting operating loans, which by name is used for operations, not spending on shit. (you pay some % each month for just having access to this money, you don't repay it each month because you are not supposed to spend it)

Long story short, my parents are broke, and I can see all problems started when my mum took control of the money, before that it was not great but not such a shit hole.

At least it taught me what not to do and I am 1000x more financially better then them :)

Never allow women to make any kind of decisions where adults supervision should be involved! She can make these decisions only if it affects her...

If she is complaining of not wanting to do X or Y, then use the trick which works on kids: from time to time instead of "we are going to X" you can ask "would you rather do X or Y?" She will be so excited that from time to time she makes the decision where in reality it was never her decision :D

Scorchyy · 2018-10-26T03:47:58+00:00

There's a reason for this, men need to grow up and become men in order to even meet any girl or loose their virginity, women don't need to do that since relationship or sex comes served in a plate for them so they end up staying children all their lives since they never had any reason to grow up unlike men.

Original_Dankster · 2018-10-26T16:08:58+00:00

Would you get frustrated with an 8 year old for having lost interest in a trip that you planned 6 days ago? Of course not, you'd go "Oh, fuck. Well of course he lost interest, he's 8. Whatever, we'll do something else this weekend."

Lol, fuck that. That kid's going on a trip. Whether he enjoys it or not is up to him.

tryingtolearnitall · 2018-10-26T12:49:51+00:00

Wow man, sometimes you just forget this. Going day to day, you can easily become baffled over the trivial and stupid shit people do. More and more people seem like just big kids playing in a world they don't think they have any responsibility to truly participate in. I mean the majority of men today seem like this too. I just feel like this reminder is so important it's crazy. It's like Plato's allegory; most people are in the dark playing with the shadows and never really know what life outside the cave is really like.

O--- · 2018-10-26T00:21:28+00:00

Ah women. If it werent for our biological imperatives and sexual needs, the whole "find your unicorn" fab with modern men would have died long ago.

cuteshooter · 2018-10-26T10:01:28+00:00

8? Can we at least up this to 16?

Anyway, consumerism is driven by women. They don't think about all the household cleansers polluting the oceans.

Don't think about how geopolitics and war enables their consumerist lifestyle.

Often don't know about what it's like to do business.

That said, on the other hand, I do appreciate her screaming daddy when she shakes.

Treat her like a teenager. She'll need to earn her priviledges by acting responsibly.

Choose your battles wisely...

JamesSkepp · 2018-10-26T06:42:03+00:00

Good post, you gave the examples of child/woman mindset and how to use this knowledge in actionable manner.

geo_gan · 2018-10-26T10:49:19+00:00

Every single example you gave in main post and comments I have lived through. You could have been talking about my ex. The wanting to blow money we didn’t have on some stupid wedding I didn’t want. The being forced to go to her family home at weekends to sit around doing nothing and wasting my time I could have done other better things with. The forced wastes of money eating out all the time and going to hotels and weekends away. And I don’t even live in America. And she was not in any way an idiot. Just normal. So this shit is common to all western influenced women all over the world. I didn’t see it at the time but she totally acted and was a spoiled entitled child (youngest daughter in family)

binkerfluid · 2018-10-26T14:54:07+00:00

Would you vent your emotional baggage or life problems to an 8 year old? Of course not. Don't vent to her either, she's not interested and can't really process what you're saying.

My ex was like that, any sign of weakness or you actually wanting a companion and she was

A) angry at you for feeling bad

B) ready to leave

fuck her

Bpgiissues · 2018-10-26T18:19:27+00:00

I think you are generally underestimating children in this post. They are more aware than you think although the point that their planning horizon and impulse control is not yet fully developed is fully valid.

The other point that is interesting to see from my daughters is watching them learning the manipulation tactics and skills. They really do use the same pattern however they aren't as practiced and so are less subtle and more obvious. However, they are in fact aware of what they are doing in many cases and I see it as my job as a parent to help them learning how and when to use this behavior appropriately.

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2018-10-26T16:31:13+00:00

I just think of all the times when girls used tears to try and manipulate me.

AlmightyPhoenix · 2018-10-25T22:09:00+00:00

I would take this a step further and say, men too are like children, we just have bigger toys and adult games on our playground

A sophisticated alpha male is just an older child roleplaying in the game of life

Derzu_Uzala · 2018-10-27T21:04:11+00:00

And because they are children they need LIMITS.

A limit is of paramount importance to assure the reduction of anxiety and fear in children.

Imagine that you are in a very dark room, wall placements unknown to you. Would you start to run or even walk withpout knowing where the walls are? Limits is a way of telling children, "look, here is the wall, you can run and play whatever you like now because you now know for sure that you would not get hurt stomping your face against an obstacle".

Security and Freedom are almost antithetical. Women tend to strive for security and men, for freedom.

destraht · 2018-10-26T02:35:33+00:00

The majority of what you wrote is about entitlement issues that never matured away. If this is really bugging you then try country girls in Eastern Europe outside of the EU or Latin America that then moved to a larger city as teenagers. I've met many entitled women in these places as well but I've had far better success full on hooking up and hanging out with ones that did not suffer from this affliction. I suppose that Southeast Asia could be ok for this as well if you now how to look but I don't have much experience there. Stay away from big city and US style suburb girls to start with.

Flynn-Lives · 2018-10-26T05:33:07+00:00

I disagree that prioritizing family constitutes feminine behavior. You write about family like you come from a broken home.

2018-10-26T18:03:42+00:00

To add, I had been going to the gym with the LTR for nearly 8 years. She never led any workout. It didn't matter how many times I taught her and trained her 3-4 days out of the week, she was never able to digest working out on her own. Again, would I expect a 5 year old to destroy a lower body workout? Probably not.

PepinoSF · 2018-10-27T18:48:36+00:00

Child: Spoiled child has no gratitude for anything

Woman: Give her a way, or open the door for her, or make her a favor out of courtesy - you will never hear "thank you" (if she doesn't know you). If she knows you, she may say 'thanks", but just to look polite. Instead, she doesn't mean it. What she means is that she is entitled to man's favors.

Derzu_Uzala · 2018-10-27T20:56:48+00:00

Spot on. And you save a LOT of emotional grief towards women. If you put them at your same emotional level, inevitabilly, you would start to expect adult attitudes and deeds towards you. Great mistake.

They are like children, you set limits, they'll feel safer and they'll be forever grateful to you.

2018-10-30T01:40:50+00:00

The fourth example essentially summarised my previous relationship, though I was BP'd and gave into her and as a result she lost respect for me and actually started to resent me

adrienguan2 · 2018-10-26T20:14:23+00:00

You all are losers. Get on the treadmill.

troutmask96 · 2018-10-27T03:56:43+00:00

One of the biggest mistakes I made earlier in my e-dating life was when matching with girls in different parts of the city. I'd do a good Red Pill job of closing on our few text exchanges to secure an initial date. But then I'd ask them "I don't really know that part of the city, is there somewhere you enjoy going that would be fun for us?" Big mistake. I was transferring the burden of our initial encounter to the female, and our early relationship would be off to an uncomfortable, Beta start. Now, I simply fire up Yelp and pick out three or four well-rated venues that are in close proximity to each other and say, "Let's meet at Place A, I've had some fun there", even though I've never been there before. I always have a few places lined up to bounce to so that I can lead the date throughout the evening, which provides variety and the element of surprise, which women eat up.

OP strokes it 350 yards off the tee with his zoo analogy. We're not going on dates, we're taking eight year-olds to the zoo...

goodtimes153 · 2018-10-26T00:56:22+00:00

This may be true for a majority of women, but not every single rule applies to all women. I think it's ridiculous to think that every single woman who sees $30,000 in a bank account would blow it mindlessly. I don't think there's any way to train someone out of that, and if you're ever looking for an LTR then you obviously can't be going for someone who can't even handle a mere 30 thousand. Fact is there are plenty of women who can manage finances perfectly fine and who won't pull a lot of this crap, you should aim for them. Then fine tune the small "imperfections" they have with TRP methods.

Terdmuffin · 2018-10-25T20:28:37+00:00

I'm not saying the points you are making are invalid but these hypothetical scenarios don't really mean anything or add to knowledge, and all could easily be said about a majority of men.

Quaternionz · 2018-10-26T03:50:26+00:00

I can’t shake the feeling this is a rehash of the side bar.

maverick9759 · 2018-10-27T07:31:21+00:00

The ultimate amused mastery mindset

red_philosopher · 2018-11-01T15:12:49+00:00

I actually make my children follow-through on all of their commitments.

The difference between children and women, is you can't FORCE a woman to follow through on her commitments.

NeedingAdvice86 · 2018-10-26T02:15:20+00:00

Haven't ever ran into any of these imaginary women that you have developed a hatred toward....to be honest.

Yes, women want some stability but have never ran up on this level of shitstorm where some average betty is strutting around for a bodybuilding doctor with million dollar home.

Where are you running into these gold digging shrews? Or this just some blackpill\incel hateporn musings?

RepostGhostCst2Cst · 2018-10-25T22:55:23+00:00

I like cooking and keeping my house clean. Fuck you

2018-10-26T05:08:35+00:00

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