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It's really trivial so I'm not putting it in the main sub, but it looks like I'm still in the Anger phase even though I thought I skipped it entirely since I'm only 16 and never really went through any experiences that would make TRP a huge reawakening.

I saw a certain post on /r/pics about a certain girl doing 3D imaging in the skimpiest of clothes, extremely thin veiled validation seeking from all the BPers who inhabit Reddit. I'm curious so I go through her post history and it's literally entirely her validation seeking, she's probably posted hundreds of things and from her comments she seems to be confident enough, I just don't get it and it kind of pisses me off. I know all women desire validation and all that, but I'm genuinely surprised how much it has frustrated me.

I don't expect any responses or anything, just had to get it out of my system.


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woo

[–]Ojisan10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes you're only 16 but that means you have probably 16 years of experience with women even though it's in a different context. It may be that you reflect on your experience with your mother or female siblings or kids at school in this dynamic and so you react to it in ways that seem surprising. It's an opportunity for you to evaluate the females in your life and see if any of them exhibit these behaviors. And then you are better prepared to resist accepting their manipulation or emotionalism in the future. As GI Joe says, knowing is half the battle.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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