Does the true nature of women turn you off?

tracymacc · 2018-11-20T21:39:25+00:00

It’s the hardest pill to swallow....it makes the red pill even more real...for those of us who would enjoy starting a family. It sux because who would trust or want to have kids with creatures as unstable and machaveliion as most modern day women...it isn’t getting any better. Definitely feel your pain

ELFuhler · 2018-11-20T23:47:54+00:00

Knowing that “it’s just my turn” is probably the hardest pill for me to swallow.

Me and this chick connected very well over the summer. We were “synced” together mentally and I dare say she may be one of the best friends I’ve ever had. As soon as she left for school, things got bumpy. I got a call from her one day telling me she “accidentally” got too drunk and “accidentally” passed out at a frat house. Shit was so hard to deal with.

This life is strange. Especially in this day and age. The ideas of morals and commitment are at an all time low in terms of how much people actually care about them. Fuck modernity and fuck the darker side of human nature.

Whisper · 2018-11-21T05:09:11+00:00

But it stroke me that underneath that soft skin, shampooed hair, cute eyes, well-rounded butt and bouncing boobs, there lays a very dark creature. A Machiavellian figure as dark as all the Machiavellian figures mentioned in Greene's 48 Laws of Power.

Not quite.

That creature is actually an ordinary 5 year old. Anything that feels good, is good. Anything that feels bad, is bad. Anything she wants, she deserves. The bearer of bad news is a big meanie. Everyone else should be held to account for how their actions made her feel. She is only responsible for what she meant to do. Socialism is free money. Any misfortune she suffers is a great injustice, and anyone nearby has to make it up to her. Any misfortune others suffer is hilarious.

rambler429 · 2018-11-20T23:55:38+00:00

Women, by nature have an abundance mindset. No girl has to sleep alone if she doesn't want to, unless shes either severely overweight or a total mess.

Think about how different your life would be if you never had to worry about being without a woman.

This is the female mindset.

SirAttackHelicopter · 2018-11-20T23:06:12+00:00

Lets not forget, folks, that if you're looking for plates as a plate spinner, that in order for those plates to be mentally stable plates and more than drunken one nite stands, they have to be plate spinners too. And to think that there exists unicorn women, is just another bluepill mindset of putting that girl on a pedestal.

In other words, women are humans, and every single one of them are unique and different. Every single one of them resides on personality scales, some more extreme than others.

CainPrice · 2018-11-20T22:06:09+00:00

Men really don't know women until they've been in a sex-only relationship with a woman who's not trying to get anything more out of it.

Women like sex. They literally like sex, for its own sake, because it's fun and feels good, and connecting with another human sure beats masturbating. Plus, penetration hits some better spots for them than a finger can.

They're not (or at least not always) trying to use sex to manipulate a guy into a relationship. They're not trying to use sex to get attention from guys. They are literally enjoying sex because it feels good, and connecting with someone else, even if just briefly, is fun.

Women enjoy sex, for its own sake. And that's not evil, disgusting, or a turn off.

Your particular girl is cheating on a boyfriend back home, but most girls, if they get horny and have an accessible boyfriend, have sex with their boyfriends. If they're dating someone, they have sex at the end of their next date. If a girl doesn't have a boyfriend and isn't dating anybody she likes, and she has the opportunity to have causal sex, why the hell wouldn't she? It she seriously supposed to go home horny and finger herself, saving her purity for some future husband she hasn't met yet and might never?

If you didn't have a girlfriend and weren't dating anybody you really liked, and you had the opportunity for casual sex, you'd take that over jerking off, right? That's not terrible or disgusting.

Your issue isn't disgust that women like this one enjoy casual sex. It's jealously that women like this have such an easy time getting it while you have to work your ass off for it.

jh1871 · 2018-11-20T22:09:19+00:00

Yea, maybe she’s riding other cocks but if you bang her the best she will feel this way towards you.

This is he perfect example of the first rule of relationships:

The one who cares the least/ needs the other the least has the power in the relationship.

AKA: the less fucks you give, the more fucks you get.

FixYourselfFirst · 2018-11-20T21:24:33+00:00

AWALT & She's not yours, it's just your turn. The sooner you accept it, the better.

mushroom_overlord · 2018-11-21T04:52:49+00:00

But it stroke me that underneath that soft skin, shampooed hair, cute eyes, well-rounded butt and bouncing boobs, there lays a very dark creature. A Machiavellian figure as dark as all the Machiavellian figures mentioned in Greene's 48 Laws of Power.

Most people are self-centered at heart, but not really Machiavellian. She's just following her desires, her biology. Do you really think she's sitting behind her facemask as some kind of chessmaster villain? She's just having a fucking blast getting dicked by a ton of attractive guys. Doesn't mean she's happy later, when they realize she isn't a keeper, but this is the world we live in. She probably won't learn, as some devoted beta less attractive than her will settle.

Truth is, when liberated from societal standards for chastity, most girls are following the same program. So yeah, for the hot and "free" women, they are going to be doing this.

So as for me, I'm definitely turned off by all the blatant lying to themselves and to others, along with cheating that "doesn't count" and hypocrisy. Doesn't change the fact that I have a biological program to pursue the opposite sex as well, and I'm not about to drop that any time soon, but I do it on my own terms as much as possible.

[deleted] · 2018-11-21T00:27:18+00:00

never trust a woman

omega_dawg93 · 2018-11-21T07:06:48+00:00

we spin plates... they ride the carousel. there's no need to be mad at any of this... iiwii.

just think of it like this: if you're 27 and younger and still dating, there's a 23 - 25 y/o girl somewhere that's looking a guy in the eyes and telling him, "i'll always love you... always be with you... take me like you want... i'm all yours."

well, that girl is gonna be your wife in about 3 to 4 yrs.

Luckyluke23 · 2018-11-21T01:47:05+00:00

once you get over the fact that women are like children and they TRULY don't know what the want. then it's easier to live your life around that.

women come and go just like the wind man. as long as you are the sturdy tree. you shouldn't have a problem.

Luftiwaffe · 2018-11-20T23:19:56+00:00

underneath that soft skin, shampooed hair, cute eyes, well-rounded butt and bouncing boobs, there lays a very dark creature. A Machiavellian figure as dark as all the Machiavellian figures mentioned in Greene's 48 Laws of Power.

oh god!

CasualPlay3r · 2018-11-20T22:03:25+00:00

Surprise surprise, you got competition my friend...

Better make sure you are above the competition if it bothers you that much

dbz0x · 2018-11-21T00:16:32+00:00

It’s a tough pill to swallow. I had to learn to disassociate their stunningly beautiful & innocent looks from who she truly is inside, a dark Machiavellian creature as you said. How she looks does not represent who she is as a human. What helps me is take it one day at a time with each girl I’m seeing and not think about what I want in the one I’d hope to settle with. Right now that is not even an option in my books. I’ll happily sacrifice that idea for gaining so much more as a man on a mission and stay excited for all that I will accomplish in my life.

RedHoodhandles · 2018-11-21T00:32:41+00:00

I wanted to marry and have kids. Then I found TRP and didn't want to marry anymore. Then I applied TRP and now I don't necessarily want kids anymore. I try to enjoy the decline.

Kabuki431 · 2018-11-21T03:00:52+00:00

If it helps you to understand their nature.

One of my plates is going on "vacation" she doesnt know that one of her co workers is also my co worker. She enthusiastically told me that she's (my plate) going to her home country to get married

Imagine a blue pilled billy beta would lose his shit over this and some chump is getting married to this whore, while i will still pound her ass after shes married. SMH

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-11-21T07:32:16+00:00

It doesn't bother me at all, because I am in the "Acceptance" phase. Just like I don't give a shit who is president or whether it's raining today or not.

Be the Prize, my friend.

rp2626 · 2018-11-21T01:37:20+00:00

She likes the attention and thinks she's being empowered. Don't let it make you bitter. Women are still fun invigorating creatures.

Remember you are the prize and if she loses a redpilled well rounded alpha guy. That's her loss.

vandaalen · 2018-11-20T23:07:41+00:00

how about the true nature of santa clause? does it make you cry?

jaw8625 · 2018-11-20T21:16:23+00:00

there lays a very dark creature

There is nothing dark about what you saw.

I felt kinda disgusted at the thought and wanted to know how you would deal with this.

Your ego took a hit, which is what produced these feelings. It has nothing to do with a woman's true nature, and it has everything to do with having to confront your insecurity.

And that's a good thing.

ProFriendZoner · 2018-11-20T23:52:04+00:00

Get over your Oneitis

She has a boyfriend and interest from other guys!!!

OMG!!! Perish the thought!!!

Seriously?

Dude, come on. Read the posts, the sidebar, lift, eat right, etc.. Then put it into practice. (I'm all for reading, but you HAVE to then go out there and do it).

Your turn on the Carousel is coming to an end.

Move on.

Xanax_Guy · 2018-11-20T21:13:38+00:00

I don't really get bother with it because I am young but I don't know what will I do when I want to settle down

entrep4 · 2018-11-21T07:39:41+00:00

But aren't you doing the exact same thing to her?

FireDrillem · 2018-11-20T21:02:30+00:00

Ignorance of their true nature is a turn off.

cafeitalia · 2018-11-21T04:07:40+00:00

First rule of fwb, you don't plan trips with her, you don't date her, you don't send links to her or share anything with her, you only fuck her and that is it.

dmc0 · 2018-11-20T23:54:17+00:00

Isn't this kind of like being in prison and asking what's wrong with humanity? It's all about perspective.

GrimlyStoic · 2018-11-21T00:14:51+00:00

"As a mark is not set up for the sake of missing the aim, so neither does the nature of evil exist in the world." - Epictetus. <- Same can be applied to women. They exist to maintain true to there true nature. Women are sluts, AWALT, get used to it.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2018-11-21T02:47:57+00:00

After I'd see something like that, I always disconnected and looked at them as just sex partners who were around for fun. Nothing more. I was the same for them as well.

It's just your turn, bud.

cjy2018 · 2018-11-21T03:17:09+00:00

Totally, it is ridiculous guys get in crap for misogyny and sexism but females can do nothing their whole life and still be chased after like they are famous. A lot of girls have nothing to offer. Talking to a Gen z is torture all they do is Instagram and Netflix. Do what females do. Date older for the maturity.

UsefulPsychology · 2018-11-21T06:35:43+00:00

If you let her whatever mess up with you you're not on the right path my friend.

Derfaust · 2018-11-21T11:12:00+00:00

This, i suspect, is why women didnt have any rights back in the day

Khiv_ · 2018-11-21T14:41:57+00:00

Yes dude, it does turn me off. I wish I could day otherwise, but I grew up as a blue pill that saw women as these special creatures. We males were the bad boys who seduced them and they were the innocent cute things and the supportive ones who stood by our side during our crazy endeavors. I believed they had the same concepts of loyalty and love as we do.

I’m trying really hard, but after swallowing the pill I just can’t like women the same way and this makes me incredibly lonely. What I have realized is that men love women the way women love their children, it’s like the love triangle of the universe.

chazthundergut · 2018-11-21T14:59:26+00:00

No. The true nature of women does not turn me off. Women are horny little sluts that are eager to be dicked down by a strong masculine man. That suits me just fine.
The issue is in our expectations. We have been conditioned by society to think that females are delicate little snowflakes that don't get horny. She isn't gonna love you unconditionally forever just for being little old you. She isn't gonna be your mommy and support you when you're being a bitch. We need to adjust our expectations of females. See them for what they actually are and their appropriate role in our lives. And treat them accordingly.
Imagine if every attractive woman you met wanted to fuck you. You could just walk up and say hey and exchange numbers and she would be willing to fuck you as frequently as you'd like. You'd open up facebook messenger and have dozens of chicks eager to meet up for sex. This is the world that women live in. She is flooded with Male attention. She has a boyfriend back home and is just having some fun right now. Of course she's gonna be sleeping around. Of course she's gonna try out different sex with different attractive people. Wouldn't you?

GainzdalfTheWhey · 2018-11-21T16:00:29+00:00

This post would be entirely different if you said LTR, her being a FWB why does all that bother you? It shouldn't. My guess you were getting a bit attached and spun other plates to distance yourself. Didn't work as you got upset she was doing the same thing.

genesisofman · 2018-11-21T16:57:23+00:00

You're seeing multiple girls but mad about the "true nature of women" for seeing multiple guys?

Do you hate yourself too?

Musicgoon · 2018-11-21T18:19:47+00:00

I'm going to say that I totally understand where you're coming from. Seeing those texts would Fuck with me. I would call it a turn off or disappointing as well.

Here's what I think and everyone can troll me or argue this. No matter how many plates you're spinning or banging they are still an investment in YOUR life. Their timeline intersected with yours. That's pretty cool.

Now an alpha lion will have his pick of the women in his harem. He is also protective of his harem. So other lions trying to swoop in on his women piss him off. This is how jealousy is triggered in guys like us.

We're you as a man biologically meant to spread you seed amongst many women? Yes. Is she as a woman optimizing her Hypergamy for the best Male? Yes.

All of this is nature. Even that disappointment. You need a space to vent brother. I see where you are coming from. It's all normal just not a fun part of the truth.

johnnight · 2018-11-22T00:03:22+00:00

You should ask why you are feeling this at all. Why feel disgust? We run on instincts and those instincts are there for a reason.

The evolutionary biology answer is that knowing that a woman has sex with other men causes dread. And dread prevents wasted effort of your resources that should securely go towards your own biological progeny (and their care-mother), not a cuckold child. So your feelings have a good reason.

Maybe the solution is to make a deal with yourself that whatever happens, you will do a paternity test. Idk.

surely_not_a_robot_ · 2018-11-22T21:43:00+00:00

Keep in mind that this is not all women but rather a subset of women.

zielkarz · 2018-11-21T07:39:17+00:00

I find it funny that in the same text you describe how hard it is for you to cope with your FBW having good time with other guys AND say that you are seeing a lot of girls. She's as machiavellian as you are.

kcxvi · 2018-11-20T23:22:34+00:00

Gorl08 · 2018-11-21T02:46:47+00:00

YOU ARE DOING THE SAME THING YOU MISOGYNIST HYPOCRITE.

Wow,how are dudes so incredibly dumb? How do you think women feel reading this garbage thread. How would she feel if she knew you were involved in this predatory, creepy reddit community. Gross, barf.