Blue Pill ExampleGirl doesn't understand why her b/f is mad she let her big dicked ex have anal with her but not him (self.TheRedPill)

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Summary (http://archive.is/UavE6) Girl's boyfriend wanted to anal but she said no. He then finds out she did it with her ex (Lucas) and gets sulky about it.


She says Lucas just "had a more fluid connection with her". Later on in the comments she says he had a big dick. Saying: "Lucas had a big dick and was good in bed, thats ALL he had"

Yet that was enough to maker her have anal sex with Lucas "for his enjoyment"

Luckily for her current b/f who has a "normal sized penis" she "wants to marry him someday" and is "one of the first decent guys I have met in a long time. He is really someone I can see myself settling down with in the future"

And here's the shocker she's 31 - just hitting the wall.

[–]Scrawler357 167 points168 points  (5 children)

If ever she mentions marriage he should give her a warm hug and tell her he only wants to do that with someone with a more fluid connection.

[–]nevva_Again 144 points145 points  (20 children)

The comment section is gold. They are clealy explaing the dualistic mating strategy of women without the RP terminology. AF/BB.

Top comment:

I have never, and apparently will never understand why this is so common among women. You'll do anything and everything with crappy guys - and not because they force you, you admit to enjoying it, etc - but as soon as you get with a good guy, you start setting up artificial boundaries... and then seem surprised when the good guy isn't crazy about them.

Understand, I'm not saying that you owe any sex act to any partner. If you don't want to do anal, don't do anal. But if you lie about it, don't be surprised when your relationship suffers.

Is lying over anal worth breaking up over? Maybe not.

But if you were having it regularly with your ex - to the point that your friend considered it an utter nonissue of a topic - but you won't do it with the current boyfriend, you have to understand that he's going to wonder why. Is he not good enough? Are you not as attracted to him, as turned on by him? Is he less of a "real man" because he treats you well? These are the sorts of thoughts that he's going to have.

Also, relationships are built on trust. Rather than have an adult conversation, you chose to lie. He's going to rightfully wonder what else you are hiding.

And many other commenters agree with him.

I have some friends who are beginning to notice the AF/BB trend among women. They will complain that women only love jerks but they still believe they'll find that special unicorn who isn't like that. Their NAWALT fantasy is what prevents them from unplugging.

The most bitter part of the redpill that prevents most guys from fully swallowing is AWALT. ALL. Including your mother and sisters.

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (1 child)

It's just so hard to believe AWALT. Biology ultimately wins, though. Sad but true.

[–]GaySwanson 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Parents went through divorce, mother constantly tries to cry and complain to me to basically hate my dad. Annoying as fuck. Even the mother...

[–]scarletspider3 253 points254 points  (197 children)

I still can't understand why every guy doesn't go full red pill when all this shit is smacking them upside the head on a daily basis.

[–][deleted] 136 points137 points  (161 children)

I'm just swallowing it now. It's because all our lives we were taught to win a girl over a certain way. Took me awhile to realize treating them the exact opposite way is what gains their attraction.

[–]Endorsed ContributorObio1 186 points187 points  (131 children)

When women cooked, cleaned and got married at 21 they were indeed prizes. When they're 31, post-wall, have entitlement issues and do none of the above, there's not much to win. The most amazing part about feminism has been the expectation that no matter how female roles in relationships changed, that the desire of men would magically remain constant. This was simply bad math.

It took a couple extra decades for men to shake off a few thousand years of cultural norms, but now men are seeing reality very clearly: This is not the same deal men once had. And it's not at all a good one.

[–]nevva_Again 67 points68 points  (111 children)

When they're 31 have entitlement issues and do none of the above, there's not much to win...

Strangely, that's when they begin to think they are the trophy. They get more entitled and increase their expectations. They want only the best, 6feet, 6pack, 6digits.

I am more matured, sexually experienced, college educated, hold a steady job, good salary, and I know what I want... but where are all the good men gone? why are they only dating 20 years olds?

[–]Endorsed ContributorObio1 113 points114 points  (76 children)

Reminds me of the OK Cupid study on men's vs. women's "ideal match" statistics:

They crunched the numbers in their database to find out what age was considered "most sought after" for both men and women.

What age is most sought after by women? A man who is between 2 years younger and 5 years older.

What age is most sought after by men? 22

That was a study based on millions of members, as I remember. Proof that feminism seriously miscalculated somewhere...

[–]Venenarium 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This made my day for some reason :D

[–]Il128 21 points21 points [recovered]

That 20-25 age range is so sweet.

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[–]southernmost 43 points44 points  (1 child)

You better do your due diligence before you stick it in a 16 year old. Many states have provisions that invalidate that age if you're older than 21, or x years older than the girl, in which case it reverts back to automatic statutory rape.

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (9 children)

Fuck, red pill or not, I don't think I could live with the stigma.

[–]Orig_analUse_rname 7 points8 points  (1 child)

My man. I'm tellin you, even at 17 I know I'm gonna be smashing any thing that's legal.

[–]LackOfLogic 4 points5 points  (10 children)

Can't upvote this enough. Everytime I hear the old speech about "why do you date younger girls" and "you're not man enough to date a REAL (read: post-wall, usually single mother) woman" I only think to myself: how can you even compare? Nothing beats youth in my book.

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[–]genjuro_zero 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think feminism would have to have calculated first to be accused of miscalculating.

[–]mehdreamer 48 points49 points  (19 children)

I also don't understand their logic.. After 30 they even get "harder to get"..

One 35 yo old told me once..."I failed so many times before..so now my expectations are very hight and I know what I want"

She wasn't even attractive. They live in a fantasy world

[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 34 points35 points  (14 children)

I also don't understand their logic.. After 30 they even get "harder to get"..

Well yeah, after 30 they "finally know what they want".

But seriously, after 30 (or whenever they change lanes) dating becomes serious business for them - their uterus doesn't stay fertile forever, and now they need additional qualities like reliability, stability and provisioning capability. This of course makes them "harder to get" because now they won't be receptive for casual relationships with deadbeats anymore - or even just serious LTRs that lack a strict timeline.

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[–]jimjam80 3 points3 points [recovered]

My ex (raging feminist) now uses some cute euphemisms to describe this . . . she's simply "dating with purpose" and "looking for her forever person."

[–]igotbeatbydre 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well if you couldn't handle her at her worst you can't handle her at her best

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (1 child)

It's projection. Because they want a mature man who's financially successful, they think men want the same thing in women.

It's also why guys act nice. They project. They think, I want a nice girl, so girls must also want nice guys.

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-7v04muGzJI

[–]Caucasian-African 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is spot on. It's also why I though being chaste would be attractive to women. In reality, it's attractive to me, seeing that in a women. But women don't care or may even prefer an experienced man. I was projecting!

[–]MelodyMyst 8 points9 points  (2 children)

Because, there are washing machines now. And take out food. And a plethora of entertainment, hobby, outside the family activities available to men now.

I, as a man, do not need a woman to keep house while I'm at work making money and following my dreams.

I don't NEED a woman to cook for me, I can do that myself, in half the time it takes to collaborate with a woman about what WE want to eat. I don't need a woman to keep my place clean anymore. I have a roomba and a swiffer sweeper.

There is only, really, one thing, that I NEED a woman for... Sex and babies.

Modern technology has freed women from the drudgeries of housework. And has also freed men from the drudgeries of women.

[–]redolas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Modern technology has freed women from the drudgeries of housework. And has also freed men from the drudgeries of women.

Love this. And your comment. Great points.

[–]Bricklayer-gizmo 9 points10 points  (4 children)

My 35 year old ex wife told me that she is a prize to be won. She doesnt cook clean or suck dick, my new 28 year old ltr does all of those and more, but she is also a bosnian rufugee and doesnt have that sense of entitlement that american women have

[–]MAX_Fury 9 points10 points  (3 children)

Nice, I've dated bosnian women, wayyy better than americans, I got a slovenian chick

[–]Bricklayer-gizmo 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Oddly enough she doesn't spend her days taking pictures if herself or seeking validation from others. Still awalt but not on hyperdrive.

[–]TheReformist94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeh they can clear off with their saggy tits and crows feet

[–]Il128 15 points15 points [recovered]

I would never get in to a ltr ever again.

Plating and keeping a woman in constant "I wish you were my boyfriend, here's all the things I'll do if you'll just be my man" mode is the way to go.

Why would any man commit and take her out of "appreciation" mode?

[–]CornyHoosier 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I can understand how men would get enjoyment out of the stability of a relationship. It's certainly not for me, but we're all different. This subreddit has a ever-growing base of diverse men. We have gay, straight, every race, religious folks and probably every political spectrum you could imagine.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Yup. Don't uunderstand redpill men in ltrs. Use em, abuse em, lose em. That girl ain't yours, she belongs to the game.

[–]Ecanonmics 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Personally I just don't enjoy the chase.

[–]idiocraties 9 points10 points  (3 children)

" The most amazing part about feminism has been the expectation that no matter how female roles in relationships changed, that the desire of men would magically remain constant. This was simply bad math."

Its almost as if women are unfamiliar with basic Austrian Economics and the concept of Praexology. Perhaps when it comes to the sexual economy, women are natural Keynesians - they need constant stimulus and crash regularly.

[–]scamper_22 9 points10 points  (2 children)

Thats reading into it too much. See the good guy did win her over by being good.

The issue is women dont give their all to good guys. Why would they? They already have them. Rational decision.

A few ways to look at it.

  1. Cant stand she would do it for ex but not him... Bad women?
  2. Something wrong with him that he cant have authority like the ex. That was my reaction.
  3. Accept that she did those things she didnt like trying to win over a guy. Its not personal. How women want you to see it.

The example i give women is imagine a guy bought an ex gifts... Took her on long walks on the beach... Sang for her... Then with you he does nothing

[–]CornyHoosier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I'd imagine if he tried to break up with her right after this incident she would have been begging for it while yelling, "Please don't leave!"

[–]Rationalphobic 9 points10 points  (15 children)

It's because all our lives we were taught to win a girl over a certain way.

I grew up listening to Dr dre. I've never had these problems.

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[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TRP doesnt say being nice to girls wont get you laid, we say being an 'asshole' doesn't disqualify you and often times makes you more successful. We're hammering at a lie forced over men to open their eyes and see the true nature of women.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (2 children)

Redpill has made my love for rap grow even more. Most redpilled music genre.

[–]akolyteofthecentury 33 points34 points  (6 children)

Because most lads have been told that they should respect women, no matter what. They're perfect and complete, void of all shortcomings. That they're to wed one of them later because "thats what everyone does." College, Job, Wife up a Slut, pump her a kid and then hand over all your shit.

The sad thing about this is that some have been made so dependant upon the Blue Pill narrative that they'll go great lenghts to fight for it, to not be swayed or tempted. They don't know shit about whom they're saving, how to do so properly or even why- but they've been told to do so, and if the good little boy obeys his mama he'll get a cookie after supper.

[–]crimsonpowder 26 points27 points  (3 children)

One of the most important aspects of swallowing the red pill is understanding that you should not respect women. The word respect is defined to be "a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements." There are three aspects here--abilities, qualities, and achievements.

No female qualities exist that evoke admiration in the self-actualized man--everything about her aside from child birth exists in a better form in a man. Even the often used cliche of "women are better communicators" falls flat on its face when you consider who the important authors and psychologists are in the history books.

Going back to the definition above, we still have to address qualities and achievements. The realm of admirable achievements belongs squarely to men. It turns out that men have a similar degree to women's studies: history. Every war, conquest, invention, and enlightened thought was birthed by a man. It's not at all surprising because taking these risks has a much larger genetic payoff--1 in 200 men today are direct descendants of Genghis Khan. A woman that conquers half of the known world still has a ceiling of around a dozen offspring, so there is no biological imperative to even try.

The last part of the definition we have to talk about is qualities. This to me is the most insidious part about the blue pill demand of respecting all women. There are certain qualities that are inherent in every female and automatically exist in that gender. Dig deep enough and it turns out that "respecting all women" means giving deep admiration to the simple fact that they exist and are not men. This directive demands that we give deference, or "humble submission" as that is defined, to the hypergamous and rent-seeking half of the human race.

Respect is earned. If everyone is respected, then no one is. Now that you know that those sneaky little words are trying to enslave you, remember: do not respect women.

[–]akolyteofthecentury 13 points14 points  (1 child)

Respect i have for my great-grandmother who lost her husband in the war and fought for her daughters not to eat petrol infused potatoes. Or for this lady i met who'd lost two of her four sons to war, one to cancer and the next to booze.

They're an old breed and (imo) they deserve the respect i give. But they don't make'em like they used to, so why treat them like we used to? And to that both ladies agreed, so theres that.

Cant quote on mobile, but imagine the shitstorm if "History" was renamed to "Mens Studies"...

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would be hilarious. And accurate.

[–]CornyHoosier 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of the most important aspects of swallowing the red pill is understanding that you should not respect women.

I believe respect is earned and any man, woman and even child can earn my respect if they meet the right criteria. I've definitely met individuals from all groups who have and have not earned me respect.

[–]marinewannabee97 25 points26 points  (5 children)

Brainwashed from birth dude. Look at any Disney movie, child's cartoon, any TV drama. All show the same blue pilled horseshit. And I don't care what anyone says, the media control the thoughts of 99.9% of the populous.

[–]Ringoddess 5 points5 points [recovered]

Not true for "any disney movie"... Watch "beauty and the beast" - Belle chooses mean beast over the guy from the village who's just trying to make sure she's not being abused/isolated from her family/friends by the beast. Or "hunchback of notre dame" - Esmeralda doesn't want kind but deformed Quasimodo no matter how much he adores her and how nice he is, she goes with the "handsome blond soldier" guy. The latter still makes me salty lol.

[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 21 points22 points  (2 children)

Esmeralda doesn't want kind but deformed Quasimodo no matter how much he adores her and how nice he is, she goes with the "handsome blond soldier" guy. The latter still makes me salty lol.

But the deformed hunchback totally takes it in stride. I.e. he knows his place and sacrifices his happiness for hers (just like The Last of the Mohicans, only without death by torture). What is not bluepill about that?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You both have a point. However, no guy growing up really wanted to be Quasimodo. They all wanted to be the fit soldier guy. They did pity Quasimodo though.

[–]Endorsed ContributorStories_of_Red 9 points10 points  (1 child)

I still can't understand why every guy doesn't go full red pill when all this shit is smacking them upside the head on a daily basis.

Because at the same time they get hit with it, there is a chorus of bullshit voices constantly saying to him for decades before this--DECADES!---that none of the prior sex life of his unicorn matters. He is now lucky to have this fair maiden, etc., etc.

Trying to rip your head off that message is hard for most guys. And most guys are not good at doing hard things.

[–]CornyHoosier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to rip your head off that message is hard for most guys. And most guys are not good at doing hard things.

Agreed. It takes a very self-aware mind and the swallowing of one's pride to admit when one is in the wrong. Especially about a core tenant of your life.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Because women and men go to the same schools, are taught the same things and work the same jobs.

How should a 14 year old boy ever understand what makes women tick, if hes literally indoctrinated into society believing that men and women are literally the same.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People can be very slow learners. To be honest, it took me awhile even after my bad marriage to swallow the pill. People see what they want to see.

[–]RedPillFusion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad that these examples still give me a jolt. Not only does it keep me on my toes, but also feels like icyhot when my ego gets out if control. Reminders that this very direct and deeply emasculating plea for domination is gaining cultural momentum is exactly what keeps me from getting comfortable. I love it.

The shit test OP has been dished requires nothing short of the nuclear option. I would cut my losses. The work required to come back from "my ex Thundercocked me in the ass better than you can in the vag" would probably be unable to disguise (especially being that she's alpha widowed and knows what she's looking for), which would send its own self-defeating message that this chick is worth all that. Whether he walks out and never comes back, bangs out her bff or a quality plate, or just commands a spontaneous threesome, anything less would fall outside a viable risk/return line.

[–]1Entropy-7[🍰] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Ask the idiots at PPD: apparently they have never seen this sort of shit occur.

[–]surfjihad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Society needs the men to exploit. There are vested interests going way back

[–]TryDoingSomethingNew 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Getting deprogrammed is not something that happens overnight. It seems obvious from the outside, but having been there myself, I understand it:

Sometimes, until you learn better, it doesn't seem to compute. Almost like reality you're perceiving is false. How can it be?

[–]scarletspider3 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I guess you're right. In my BP days I used to think that maybe it was just the particular girl I was with that was the problem. That maybe the next girl would be better.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never, and apparently will never understand why this is so common among women. You'll do anything and everything with crappy guys - and not because they force you, you admit to enjoying it, etc - but as soon as you get with a good guy, you start setting up artificial boundaries... and then seem surprised when the good guy isn't crazy about them.

The top comment. It is slapping the entire world upside the head. They are preaching the pill. They just can't get over mean words that make their poor wittle feewings hurt. In other words, we have become weak.

[–]TheStumblingWolf 2 points3 points  (2 children)

There's a reason The Matrix is used so often as a metaphor. It's a good one and when I talk to most people in my life I kinda feel like Neo. People are starting to not understand my actions and stuff. Kinda funny to see their hamster spinning.

[–]scarletspider3 2 points3 points  (1 child)

It's much worse if they do understand. That's when they'll try to warn chicks to stay away from u. They just can't stand the idea of a guy having the power in a relationship.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Neither do I. So many beta ass dudes, and I don't understand why. I get it, blue pill society. BUT REDPILL TRUTHS ARE CONSTANTLY STARING YOU IN THE FACE.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there's no need to. The universe is fine as it is.

[–]Mudpielol 39 points40 points  (10 children)

There's this great Chris Rock stand-up where he says men cannot go backwards sexually, and women cannot go backwards in lifestyle. It's pretty funny.

Chris Rock

[–]Il128 45 points45 points [recovered]

Comedians always get to the truth about everything.

That's why women aren't funny.

[–]exilesoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree that women aren't funny themselves, but funny shit happens to them like a calamity. my friend once stepped in an open manhole and got half stuck for hours, her story is fucking hilarious to be fair.

[–][deleted] 74 points75 points  (10 children)

The comment thread is so terrible... Most people (men?) are blaming OP, I mean obviously, but they blame her for lying, not for not having anal.

They're afraid to say the truth. The problem is exactly that OP doesn't want anal. She likes it, she had it before, just not with this guy. For me, that would be an instant breakup. Or maybe I would just say, "I really wanted to get married to my ex, she had bigger boobs, but not with you, I'm just not feeling it with you."

[–]KartagoPill 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What can you do? Anal destroy girls mind. Anal penetrates her soul and whispers: I love you.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (7 children)

This. A man who has truly swallowed the red-pill will immediately blame the guy for "communicating" and asking politely for anal sex.

[–]CornyHoosier 25 points26 points  (5 children)

You gotta just go for stuff. If she doesn't like it she'll slap your dick away. No harm no foul. Although, while she may reserve the right to stop me from doing a sexual act, it's my right to never see her again.

I loved the comments that said things like, "You'd break up with a girl just because she doesn't want to do anal!?"

Fuck yes I would and I would do it because of what denying anal means. I stopped talking to a girl once because she didn't like oral. I didn't think less of her as a person, but clearly we're not compatible.

[–]igotbeatbydre 9 points9 points [recovered]

I get this a lot too. No bjs and no anal are deal breakers for. While it seems petty on the surfac, think about what is really being asked of you. I'm only getting in a LTR with someone with marriage potential, so you're asking me to go through REST OF MY LIFE with out anal or blowjobs. No deal.

[–]CornyHoosier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right!? Preference is attraction.

I'm an outgoing guy that loves a good adrenaline rush. Now I don't go out every day and do some crazy shit, but when the mood strikes I need to go get my blood pumping. The other weekend I packed my bag and drove to the Grand Canyon, camped for the night and then drove back home.

If I feel like company (especially with someone you would consider a partner in a relationship) it wouldn't work out if the girl I was dating didn't like to go out and just wanted to stay home to take care of her cats. Maybe there is some guy out there who enjoys that, but it ain't me. I'd rather you be happy without me than miserable with me.

[–]staggerman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This right here. You don't politely ask for it a week in advance and wonder why she just says no.

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt 30 points31 points  (4 children)

From her comments:

Lucas had a big dick and was good in bed, thats ALL he had. I like my boyfriend a lot more, and I actually see us getting married down the road. Mentally, emotionally, I have a far deeper connection to him than any other guy I have been with.

Assuming this isn't a troll account she's a walking stereotype of Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[–]KartagoPill 26 points27 points  (0 children)

She just says she likes Lucas for dicking and other guy for money. Wow, redpill is so misogynist.

[–]Il128 10 points10 points [recovered]

Looks like a troll. Not enough feels in "her" comments.

[–]Chino-scarface 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Pretty standard bb/af dynamic.

[–]casemodsalt 105 points106 points  (29 children)

I just nailed a 35 year old married chick with 2 kids in the ass a few months ago.

Stay single fellas.

[–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (23 children)

I spent years railing my g/f->fiance in the ass. Once we got married it was off the table.

Until one mothers day, five years in I got her some diamond earnings and some wine, and I threw it in her pooper. Diamonds... not just good for blowjobs

[–]redambience 60 points61 points  (2 children)

Gotta love paying out the ass for assplay.


[–][deleted] 32 points33 points  (1 child)

I saved money long term by getting a divorce.

[–]downvoteminer 5 points5 points [recovered]

How does it go off the table? I mean, when you bring it up what does she say now compared to when you were dating?

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (11 children)

We can't do that, we're Christians now.

[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 7 points8 points  (1 child)

I.e. you fucked her in the ass but then "upgraded" to vagina?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It used to be a three course meal. Is like going to a restaurant on mothers day or Valentines day. They limit the options for the courses.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (4 children)

Marriage is incredibly frustrating. With mine its public sex. Used to do it in the backseat just because we were out and about. post-marriage? off the table. Her response? "that was just dating stuff"

[–]verify_account 2 points3 points  (1 child)

that was just dating stuff"

Christ women are so much better at playing the game compared to the average guy....

[–]CornyHoosier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly you're not Catholic ;)

[–]2Archterus 2 points3 points  (2 children)

The going exchange rate in gender dynamics: diamonds for shit!

[–]bornredd 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I nail a 35 year old married chick with a bunch of kids in the ass every single day. night. Pussy is for morning and daytime.

For all the shit marriage gets around here, mine is fucking great.

[–]casemodsalt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's cause you're probably not autistic like the fags who get cucked

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[–]103342 12 points13 points  (2 children)

Its called redpillcomics, so its not exactly uncanny.

Here is an album of those:


Good test: If you think they are funny/amusing you swallowed the pill. If you get mad/depressed you still have some internalizing to do lol.

[–]2niczar 18 points19 points  (3 children)

The reason why she refused anal to the beta and not to the alpha is that the alpha never asked. At best, he informed her he was going to fuck her ass.

Source: that's how I do it.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"How dare you, you need conseeeeeennnnnt"

[–]Endorsed ContributorUrsusG 16 points17 points  (2 children)

fluid connection

I like that choice of words.

Other than that, AWALT.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (1 child)

And how would she react if she discovered that boyfriend used to treat his ex to lavish European vacations and fancy dinners at expensive restaurants but she only gets trips to Six Flags and dinner at Denny's?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't even need to be about money. If you loved going down on your ex, but refuse with your current, how would that make her feel? She'd think there's something wrong with her.

[–]DoesNotMatterAnymore 13 points14 points  (2 children)

He says he is feeling down, but he will be better once he can just get his mind off of this.

Suuuuuuure, he will get this off of his mind, i bet he can do that. Especially every time he is doing you in dogy, spreading your ass cheeks part, and looking at your butthole.

Thinking: "Well, Lucas deserved this, and i don't."

[–]Il128 27 points27 points [recovered]

A woman not doing anal with you is a huge red flag. It's her way of saying "Let's be freinds."

I've had anal with so many married women on the first Tinder pump and dump it isn't even a request I make anymore, I just do it. Sad thing is, these women always say, "I never have let my husband do that."

I know they are lying to bait me in but damn what a shitty thought process they have.

[–]peterson2004 6 points7 points  (1 child)

A man not leading is a huge red flag. Some of us dudes don't actually like shit pipe.

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[–]GuitarHero07 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Best comment in the thread:

[with the risk of getting downvotes], many people have a tendency to check how much they can get away with it. Women do it more in relationships & sex [even if they don't mean to] than men do. Crappy guys/assholes or even good but confident men don't accept this bs & make it clear that they will leave. This makes the women reduce the bs & do more stuff for those men. Men who are nicer/gentle don't make their disapproval clear which somehow makes women think that they are weaker & hence women try to get away with more bs. This is some weird manipulative way of women to check how strong & confident a man is [even if they don't mean to]. [don't mean to brag but] if I had found out about this about my gf, then I woud have asked her to explain this. If I had not receved a valid answer I woud had been pissed & breakup woud have been sure. If I had received a satisfactory answer like: Lucas and I had a really fluid connection, and my boyfriend and I just haven't had that yet. then I woud not have dumped her but still woud have been pissed & made my disappointment & anger clear about this to her.

That's basically what it boils down to: Lucas refused to put up with her shit. She knew he would drop her like a bad habit if she didn't please him in bed.

On the other hand the current BF asks politely (attempting to negotiate desire) and still sticks around after she lied to him. He has absolutely flunked her shit test.

The man has already lost and his best course of action would be to abort ASAP.

[–]TryDoingSomethingNew 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As I recall there have been a few stories over the last few years that parallel this, and understandably the man was upset.

The last big one I remember was the man who (note: I am assuming the story is true, but not sure) found a video or etc of his "good wife" in some old things, and it revealed her to have been a slutty woman, even doing a 3some with 2 other men, and anal, along with other things she was refusing to do with her new husband, the "good man."

As I recall, in that case, it was the usual bullshit and hamstering: "that was my past, I'm with you now", "I'm not like that any more", etc. Also as I recall she never really could answer why she would refuse to give her husband the same sexual satisfaction she obviously gave to men who never invested themselves in her like her husband did.

He was angry, hurt, and insulted. It's definitely a slap-in-the-face to find out something like that.

As always, the usual white-knighting came to try to tell the husband how "her past doesn't matter", and blah blah blah justify treating a good man poorly.

Amazing. But not surprising any more.

Thanks for the post.

If I found a woman was doing that to me, her ass is out the door, and if possible I'd embarass her as much as possible along the way. I would go out with a bang, and really do something fun; at the very least, cum on her face and call her slutty names if she was a prude, before she's gone.

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[–]Eyes_Of_The_Dragon 4 points5 points  (5 children)

Sure it does. An ex girlfriend told me once that she only liked anal if it was forced on her and hurt. I obliged. Of course AWALT and she later told people that every guy she dated had raped her. Well duh. You tell guys you like to be forced into anal and many guys will oblige you.

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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (3 children)

They love being degraded and having their holes stretched. Women love being used, abused, and disposed of.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (2 children)

Only the ones with daddy issues

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He is really someone I can see myself settling down with in the future"

He is really someone I can see myself settling for in the future"


[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The takeaway message is: Be a good little beta and accept your place

The "act accordingly" lesson is: get anal before commitment.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 7 points8 points  (1 child)

For me, Lucas and I had a really fluid connection, and my boyfriend and I just haven't had that yet.

That fluid connection was sperm. She wanted his alpha sperm anywhere inside her body. She is an alpha widow and current boyfriend is her beta backup that just doesn't turn her on as much.

I told her that with the expectation that she wouldn't tell people, and generally she has been good about keeping stuff private. But, I found out from my boyfriend that they were having a conversation over snapchat, and she told him about me and Lucas.

I love how women sabotage each other. The friend obviously has it out for her, and went behind her back and revealed compromising information to the current b/f. Women can't conduct friendships, even with each other.

[–]banica24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Imagine the movie 'Oceans Eleven' but with women. No way they could pull off the heist, absurd to think about it.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 6 points7 points  (2 children)

spare his feeling as well, so he wouldn't be thinking about my ex. He has in the past looked at pictures and felt insecure about it

HHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!! So she kept pics of her ex showing his dick size AND she let her current man see them KNOWING it would make him "insecure." What a manipulative cunt. She did it on purpose and her cuck-friend needs to take the Red Pill.

[–]1raceAround126 6 points7 points  (2 children)

It's pretty simple. Boy needs to dump her right quick. If he knows she was enthusiastic about getting up to stuff she completely vetos him from, then he isn't good enough for her and never will be. Case closed.

[–]Il128 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Yep. The guy who created this troll is hurting and wanted to get it out. His true story belongs here. We'll never see it, what a pity.

[–]hailhailhailandkill 6 points7 points  (2 children)

Being slut for the right man, classic example.

Check "Saving The Best" from Rollo.

[–]BornOfTruth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I fucking love this sub. Wish I had known all this stuff years ago before I let myself be beta-washed. Red Pill swallowed. Tastes bitter, but it is way better than a lifetime eating shit.

[–]Daimonon 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Now imagine if it was the other around.. like current girlfriend whining about BF not going down on her but finding out that he used to eat the ex juicy pussy out for hours.

Wonder if women commenting would still throw the same "not just because he did with the ex that he is obligated to do with the current one".

Nah, he'd be labeled a selfish prick and thrown to the wolves.

[–]pressedred 3 points3 points [recovered]

Agreed. Understand, I'm not hating on women - I love my wife, I think that women are great. I just don't understand why the behavior I mention above seems to prevalent.

One of the comments in the thread. It's so amusing to see blue-pilled remain so oblivious to the obvious.

[–]TryDoingSomethingNew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, and he's sort-of apologizing for being male, in a way.

Looks like he'll be prone to being passive and accepting comments which will try to shame him back into being a "good boy."

[–]fuckingbetayet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I think they just make this shit up to see if it ends up here.

But then I walk out of the house.

[–]pfffft_comeon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i judge relationship status based on sex. if she's not open to experimenting or freaky shit, she's not into me. if she starts to pull back the sex - the amount and/or in willingness to be freaky, she's not into me anymore and we're over.

there is no love without freaky, open sex - doesn't matter how long the relationship is. she don't love you. she doesn't care about pleasing you.

[–]RandomSurf1 17 points18 points  (48 children)

How come there are so many posts like this on that sub and the ex always has a big dick?

Jesus, I would understand if the ex was taller better looking but what is with this big dick obsession. So fucking trashy.

[–]InsideUlamSpiral 41 points42 points  (18 children)

Being dominant makes her precieve your dick as bigger then it is. However a big dick is an advantage, this is the bitter truth.

[–]2kez88 16 points17 points  (10 children)

Are we really discussing that women might like a big dick and thats trashy? You realise thats like women saying 'omg i can't believe he likes a girl with a tight ass and great tits'. Are you that insecure about what women find enjoyable?

[–]RandomSurf1 2 points3 points  (5 children)

Not insecure.I want to know if they prioritize dick size over looks body or height?

And then why do they act so repellant towards dick pics?I mean why not be honest for everyone's sake if it means so much.

I guess they are scared and don't want to piss off an average guy.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Because you can't fill her pussy up with a six pack.

They're not repelled by dick pics, just pics of dicks they don't want. She wants dick pics, maybe just not YOUR dick pic (using the collective "your" - this isn't an insult to you, Random).

They're not scared, they're manipulative. If every guy thinks dick size or appearance doesn't matter, then he won't disqualify himself from the relationship market, i.e. take himself off the table as a BetaBux provider. One facet of it anyhow.

[–]Docbear64 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's less about the actual dimensions of your dick and more about how she feels about you and by extension your dick . Also dicks aren't pretty ... Unless they ask for them they aren't going to see the beauty in a random dick pic because dicks just aren't attractive.... I mean generally speaking.

[–]the_number_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women grow up thinking that size is a physical measure of manhood. They have this back-of-the-mind belief that the more manly a guy is, the bigger his cock is, disregarding pretty much everything else about him.

[–]LukesLikeIt 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I'd say it's closer to liking a girl with a tight pussy.

[–]Il128 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That and a burning hatred of loose pussy. Every time I encounter one, I'm like, this is going in your ass or mouth because your pussy is destroying my hard on.

[–]2awalt_cupcake 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Not trashy for them to want it but they are literally GOING to men with bigger dicks for sex.

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RK selection

Jesus does anyone read sidebar nowadays

[–]1skittles_man 9 points10 points  (4 children)

I have an average, to a slightly above average dick. I can't tell you how many times I've been told that I have the biggest dick in the world and how many times I've been called a small dicked loser. Women are absolute shit at spatial awareness.

You do realize that this has nothing to do with her current fiance's dick size? It has to do with the fact that she has never viewed him as a sexual male, but rather has viewed him as a provider male. That's why anal is off limits. I would bet my bottom dollar that if he sacked up, ghosted her, introduced some dread game, and then fucked her like he mean't it, he would get dat ass.

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[–]flamethrowup 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Love your username. Words to live by.

[–]1skittles_man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, man. I appreciate that.

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[–]RandomSurf1 5 points6 points  (10 children)

Yeah but like a 6'2 guy is probably more appealing than a 6'6 guy. Its not like the tallest guy is the most attractive.

Where is the limit in dick size? I don't see the limit.Its all 'massive' and 'huge'.

[–]QQ_L2P 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ech, who cares. Barring you having a 2 inch dick with warts all over it, if she's attracted to you, she'll want it in her.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (8 children)

Girls use words like "massive" and "huge" when your dick is massive or huge to them, personally. If your dick is 7+ inches long, you're in the 93rd percentile or so for length; if you're 5.5+ inches around, you're in about the same percentile for girth. That's big, even if she's seen others that are bigger. I'm about 7.25x5.75 and every woman I have been with has commented on the size, and every one of them has assumed it was even bigger than it is.

There's a limit though. For example, even after fucking the same girl for 2 years (2 different girls, 2 different period of 2 years), certain positions were extremely difficult for her, she'd require a lot of warming up to get comfortable, and so on.

Cervixes don't like being poked, either, so depending on the depth of the woman you are with, anything from 6" to 9" could be too long (even shorter in some cases).

Girls can adapt to any girth that they're ever going to come across, technically, but once you get up past 5.5 you're not going to find many that want much more than that. Another woman I slept with many times loved anal, preferred it to vaginal, actually, but would repeatedly say that I was "almost" too big for it, and we couldn't keep at it for very long, because the pain would overtake the pleasure. Obviously, there are some women out there that can take much, MUCH more in either orifice with comfort and ease, but they are in the extreme minority.

[–]2awalt_cupcake 0 points1 point  (5 children)

I'm about 7.25x5.75 and every woman I have been with has commented on the size, and every one of them has assumed it was even bigger than it is.

Same size ringing in (though girth is a bit smaller) I've had a little bit of this experience but not as often as I'd think I should be getting compliments. I think body mass and height has to do with it. I'm 6'2 and wide so my dick looks average to my body size. How tall are you?

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I get that, definitely. I'm 6' even myself, and broad shouldered. Even that 2" could make a difference. I got all of those compliments prior to an LTR that I am currently working on extricating myself from (kid in the mix, so not as simple as I'd like), and since then I've gained quite a lot weight. I was 210-220 for quite some time, now in the 270 range (though down from 300 - depression fucks you and your habits up). I'm sure I would receive fewer now than I did then, purely from a appearance standpoint.

[–]1Entropy-7[🍰] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because the usual objections are something like "it will hurt". It would have hurt more with a bigger dick and yet she won't do the same thing for the guy she supposedly loves.

[–]bornredd 2 points3 points  (6 children)

Because dudes with big dicks naturally have more confidence.

I talked to my ex for a little bit following our break up and her new husband was distraught after she told him how much bigger my dick was than his.

Then she lamented him leaving her after knocking her up. Just... wow.

[–]Hoodwink 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Truth. Bigger dicks are better.

There are times when they're not, but there's like 1-2% of men who have dicks that would hurt a girl. (Depending on the size of the girl, and ignoring genetic conditions)

[–]Horus_Krishna_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a longer dick can hurt her by hitting the wall at the end. but the width, bigger the better. ok yeah maybe 1% are too wide and then only for tiny little girls.

[–]verify_account 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is a preference for big dicks trashy? Women like big dicks. I also like bubble buts and big tits.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (3 children)

LOL! Poor Chuckles the Beta.

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I prefer the term "Beta Bob". Just has a nice ring to it.

[–]GC0W30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being a child of the '80s, I prefer to just call him Beta Max...

[–]Luckyluke23 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Luckily for her current b/f who has a "normal sized penis" she "wants to marry him someday" and is "one of the first decent guys I have met in a long time. He is really someone I can see myself settling down with in the future"

I've seen this shit so much in this sub now, I feel like it's a scam just to take your money

[–]Ephidemical 2 points3 points  (1 child)

And if you look closely, the comments are mentioning some of the truths discussed in TRP.

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Nope, not hitting the wall. She's fallen into the basement already and is seeking her last gasp for marriage. Her b/f is a little bitch that needs to man-up, move-on, and find better pussy.

[–]jasonmiles2014 2 points3 points  (1 child)

The subject line for this post is a 10/10

[–]razormachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well this is quite easy.

He had found out that she was investing more of herself in her relationship with Lucas then with him.

So he is cutting back on his investment.

[–]Ringoddess 6 points6 points [recovered]

Can we please not call 31 year-old women "girls"? I feel like that's just another way of granting them no accountability for their actions. No matter how immature she may be, she is no longer a "girl" at 31 lol. Also, I'd understand if a woman tried it once and didn't like it, therefore never did it again, or if medical issues were involved, but anything else just shows that she is not as attracted to her current SO.

[–]akolyteofthecentury 7 points8 points  (1 child)

If you think shes any more mature at 31 than she is at 16, you didnt get the memo. Jaded =/= mature.

[–]sirmadam 7 points8 points  (1 child)

You miss the point. At 31 a man definitely cannot be a boy, because society fucks him in the ass if he would be so childish three decades into his life. Women on the other hand don't ever have anything expected of them at 31 than they would have at 18, except marriage. Also you actually put "lol" in your post, as if to negate what you said in the prior sentence. We don't do that here, we're better than "lol"

[–]Sdom1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is totally a troll. It's just too textbook and ticks off every red pill box. Real life examples aren't so clean. Also, the bigger your dick the less women tend to want anal sex from you unless they have a size fetish.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is just blackmailing this guy wanting some kind of fancy ring in exchange for her shiny gold filthy whole.

Move on

[–]ecosci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember this guys, all the wild kinky sex is reserved for the badboy and the soft missionary sex is for the beta husband who has to beg.Thats why when the affair is discovered and you ask her the details the questions in your head go like why didnt you do that or this for me but was willing to do it for the alpha is because women love alpha sex its primal and hot its nature way of making sure she gets the best availible genes for survival so its important to be dominant in bed with your lady(s).Most bp men will never get anal from thier wives but she will seek it with a badboy at no cost.to him.

[–]Beegsi_ 3 points4 points  (2 children)

And to the victor goes the spoiled pussy #cucklife #CarlTheCuck

[–]neverstoplearning590[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's nothing worse than dating an alpha widow

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

What the hell does fluid connection even mean?

[–]Alpacash 7 points8 points  (1 child)

It means his ex had a bigger dick which contained more fluids.

[–]staggerman 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I just wish we could shove the sidebar down these guys' throats. I've tried showing this subject to one of my friends who's about to get married, but he said "she's different." I can't seem to get through to him.

[–]genjuro_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this post the other day, and it served to strongly reinforce AWALT.

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