I have dated this girl for about 6 months. My first red flag was the first time she came over to my apartment when she told that she could never have sex again because she just never really desires it. At first she was crazy attracted to me. If I texted her to come over to my apartment she would be over in minutes. We had sex multiple times a week. We were both super happy and everything was great.
Long story short, some crazy shit happened to her family and we ended up basically having to live together for about a month after only being together for a month. I was super helpful to her and her family. I gave her rides everywhere and took care of her little brother. For whatever reason she woke up one morning and decided she never wanted to touch me or have sex with me anymore. We went from doing it all the time to maybe 2-3 times a month. The relationship started going downhill from there. Eventually she just began to ignore me and never want to hang out at all even if we weren't having sex. Tonight I got her to come over and I told her what I expected out of this relationship. All I asked for was to hang out a few times a week and at least have sex once a week. I then asked her why she stopped wanting to have any physical intimacy with me. She told me that it's not that she's not attracted to me ( I never asked if that was the reason) or anything like that. Her reasoning was that she had sex so much because she was trying to get me to commit to her and now that she has me she no longer needed to behave that way. I told her I have no interest being with anyone that thinks that way and that she should leave. Fuck. Yes. I feel so much better.
On a side note, how can I prevent this from happening in the future? I really liked her. She told me she used to have sex with her ex she dated 3-5 times a week. Somehow she never wanted to touch me. I'm a pretty damn good looking dude and have never ran into this issue before.
The scariest fucking thing about this whole situation is that I saw a post on this sub concerning Borderline Personality Disorder. This girl has nearly every god damn symptom.