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Now, I will no longer waste my gift. (self.askTRP)

submitted by Heathcliff--

Summary: Your life is a fucking gift, and you are wasting it.


There are few things I and traditional religious people can see eye to eye on. One is the control and subjugation of women's sexual strategy. It's required for a society to function correctly. I didn't fully believe this until I realised that EVERY successful society in history has been patriarchal. The civilizations where men were in charge and women were controlled were the ONLY ones that survived. They all ended up like this. It's not a coincidence. Its natural selection on a societal scale. Never again will I doubt.

The second thing I agree with them on is that life is a gift. It is an extended holiday in the world that you should not waste. God hasn't given me this gift, my parents have, they have given me roughly 70 or so years to experience the wonders of the planet, enjoy myself fuly, learn the mysteries of the universe, shape and mold the world and enrich the lives of the people around me.

And I realised a while back. I've been wasting this fucking gift.

  • If I went on vacation to an exotic island or a great city or beautiful rainforest I would kick myself had I spent the entire time lying in bed all day playing video games and masturbating.

  • If I went to tibet or japan or the amazon rainforest and didn't take the opportunity to learn from the masters and monks the ways of discipline and spirituality I would fucking hate myself for wasting that oppurtunity

  • If I studied at cambridge university and didn't dedicate myself to getting the best possible education and meeting and connecting with some of the smartest people in the world I would smack myself multiple times for not taking advantage of the gift I have been given.

And I realized. Life is the same. I had all these fucking opportunities offered to me, yet I spent the majority of my teenage years playing video games and watching anime. I went to a school full of great people and beautiful teenage girls and instead of working on myself and my friendships and slaying pussy I was a depressed loser who laid in bed all day blaming the world for my problems.


It's disgusting. I've been given a gift and for the longest time I have not appreciated it. TRP was a great smack in the face that made me realise, I'm wasting my fucking life. I'm throwing the gift back in the face of the giver.

And even worse, I have even more gifts that I've been wasting. I'm lucky enough that I was born with tall genes. It makes my life significantly easier. I know there are many many guys out there who would kill to have my height, who would make the absolute most with the benefits it gives them. I haven't. I've been a hunchback skinny fuck afraid to talk to girls even when it's obvious the girls were into me just because I was the tallest guy in the room.

  • I was born with thick hair that probably won't recede. Another gift that I wasted by letting it be ugly and greasy and not taking care of it. If I was a balding guy I would have smacked the shit out of teenage me.

  • My teeth grew in straight and my family instilled the importance of dental hygiene from an early age. While I may not have pearly whites, I have a presentable mouth.

  • I was born with the capacity to learn and be intelligent. Science and mathematics came naturally to me. Instead I flunked a year of high school and a year of one of the best colleges in the world. Guys out there who are grinding through community college trying to get an entry level job who developed good study skills would smack me across the face for wasting the natural intelligence my parents so kindly passed down to me.

  • I was born a white male in an english speaking country. That's the best fucking gift of all. How many fucking people across the world would have killed to have been born and raised a white man with decent education in a world leading country. I'm not a starving Ethiopian, I'm not a poverty stricken discriminated against black guy, I'm not a chinese sweatshop worker with no chance whatsoever of climbing the social ladder. And I'm not, (thank god), a woman.

I lost a friend recently. I was trying to give him girl advice. I was trying to teach him RP truths. Treat them like your little sister, don't accept their bullshit, don't be afraid to just drop a girl who's playing you about bla bla bla. He stopped me mid sentence and pointed something out. I'm a tall attractive white male, he's a short indian guy. I had ridiculous privilege with girls that he couldn't even comprehend. The game was different. I've been playing on easy mode, he's been playing insane difficulty, and sick of my lecturing him on shit that just won't work the same. Only recently have I realised the privileges I've been given, which I really didn't fully notice before.

And yes, while I might have been dealt one of the best hands, I don't have it all. I was born into lower class poverty, I had no father, my face is aysmmetrical, I have a non-english unpronounceable name girls are allergic to. Regardless, I still have a good hand even though I don't have the best cards, and I can still win my round. So even if you are short or ugly or unqualified, try to find the cards you can play well, and regardless, playing your shit hand to the best of your ability is vastly better than just straight up folding. Folding is for fucking losers.


I'm a 6'2 white male with an education, a job, and presentable face. And I've been fucking wasting it. My body has the capacity to be huge and strong and pick people up and crush things and for years I've been a weedy shit.

  • My supermarket has aisles and aisles of fresh produce shipped from across the world and I used to live off ready meals and takeout.

  • My library is full of the books and scratchings of people who are vastly more intelligent and accomplished than I am and I spent my formative years playing call of duty and watching cartoons.

  • My schools have been full of gorgeous and intelligent teenage hardbodies and I was too much of a pussy to even talk to them.

I was a peasant, a prole, a worker ant. I was to wake up, work and die depressed and lonely and having made nothing of myself. I was given a gift and was on the track to waste all of it.


Not anymore. I refuse to live and die a prole. If I'm going to be living this life I would rather live it at 100% and die young and powerful than to live a long but unhappy obedient peasant existence. How can I lay on my deathbed and realise that I wasted my life? I refuse to.

  • Now I lift. Now I'm on my way to the kind of body that other men are jealous of.

  • Now my skin is clear and taken care of. My hair is cut and styled.

  • Now I spend my days cooking, studying or reading. Video games and masturbation are special occasions.

  • Now I have a well paying job that I get extreme satisfaction from doing. I get back home exhausted but fulfilled every single day. I collapse into bed knowing that I have made a difference in other's lives.

  • Now my mind is calmer, I am no longer depressed, I hold frame, I don't get wildly emotional. I meditate, my mind is clearer than it has ever been. Now I see the world for what it is. I've accepted that one day I will die.

  • Now I have an absolutely beautiful LTR with an N-count of 0 before me. She cooks, she cleans, she's submissive and smart and fucks like a pornstar. And she understands RP, she understands AWALT and accepts she's not exempt. She knows RP truths, she accepts them. She accepts them so fully that she understands the need for me to have plates. I have a gorgeous teenage HB10 that allows me to fuck other plates on the side.

No, I can't believe it either. No, I'm not bullshitting you. I sometimes have to step back and process just how crazy/great my life has become. All over the course of 3 years.

And yes, honestly, it's TRP that has helped me push through it all and improve (and psychedelics but that's for a different post). I've been inconsistent, I've broken frame, I've skipped gym days, skipped gym months, I've fallen off the horse multiple times. Every single time I've pushed myself to get back on it and my life has slowly but surely improved. Improvement is incremental, I never internalised it until now. I didn't do this all in a couple of months, it's been two steps forward one step back the whole time. And I'm still going.

The 18 year old weaboo me would have never believed the man I'd become 3 years later.

The 18 year old me was wasting his fucking gift. I refuse to.

I will not be a prole, I will die a great man.

Lessons Learned:

  • Life is a gift, do not waste it

  • It is better to be powerful and bright and burn out then to be a prole your whole life

  • Every single second you are getting closer to your death, stop wasting time

  • Any hand can be a winning hand if you play it well.


[–]Modredpillschool[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (10 children)

Got a fun report on this one:

fuck trp you should all kill yourselves!!!! disgusting sexists

[–]mavekovis 96 points97 points  (32 children)

Now I have an absolutely beautiful LTR with an N-count of 0 before me.

Good post but I couldn't help but laugh at this.

[–]hermit087 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm willing to believe it. But even if she's lying, it probably is a low notch count, I doubt she could hide it effectively at that age.

[–]Kenny_Twenty 78 points78 points [recovered]

Another 22 year old dispensing knowledge gleaned from experience in his first relationship.

Awesome.

[–]TheRedThrowAwayPill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leaving out the relationshit part of his post the rest is fair advice.

A little altruistic and he hasn't gone thru the breakup part yet or the questions of marriage.

But still, it's a sound direction to see one's son grow up into.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 132 points133 points  (95 children)

All of this sounds great, and great post. but Take all of that white privilege guilt bullshit and purge it from your mind. The whole point of white guilt is to force you into the mindset of a guilty submissive bitch.

Slavery isn't your fault, British people massacring Indians isn't your fault, Starving Ethiopians arnt your fault, De-Shaun's decision to sell drugs on the corner of Martin Luther King Ave is not your fault.

Frankfurt School Race guilt is also a gift but it is a gift you should refuse.

[–]WolfofAnarchy 26 points27 points  (11 children)

THIS

I am not feeling guilt because I'm a white male, I'm feeling luck. I'm sure this will trigger some trigglypuffs, but I am pretty damn happy that I turned out to be a relatively good looking white male. It feels pretty damn good.

[–]Heathcliff-- 34 points34 points [recovered]

Yes this is what I was trying to get at. I'm not guilty about being white, but I sure am lucky that I turned out that way. To say that you don't get inherent benefits for being white is just being stupid.

See the world how it is, not how you wish it could be. Non whites are not treated equally in majority white countries, no matter how insignifanct.

And when it comes to pulling tanned bleach blonde Californian girls, well I'd definitely want to be white and tall. GLO is just getting his panties in a twist about something I wasn't talking about.

[–]wanderer779 12 points13 points  (3 children)

Look at it like those create a player things on sports games where you get to use up points to buy attributes. Say you've got 100 points and you are going to select race, sex, wealth, height, looks, intelligence, and so on. How many points should it cost to pick 'white' on the race selection drop down vs other races and also vs. other aforementioned factors?

My opinion is being white is preferable, but probably not nearly as important relative to other factors as liberals in the country pretend it is. I'd probably spend 90% of my points on wealth and income, intelligence, height, and looks. Then if I had any leftover it would be a tossup up between spending it on being white or extra height or something else.

I grew up with a lot of guys who were born short, ugly, dumb, poor and white. According to liberals these guys need to be acknowledging privilege. In what fucking universe is that privileged?

It's definitely better to be white than black, but I think this privilege stuff is more about hatred and racism and elites pitting people against each other than it is about social justice.

[–]TommysGotSalami 6 points7 points  (2 children)

It's funny because I've been on the job hunt for the past 3 months as a well educated and experienced white man and have found nothing but dead ends. All this white privilege I keep hearing about, mine must be broken.

[–]judethedude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you on this, same boat

[–]RedPillSpookyGhost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i personally think the point is: you COULD have been born in a worse environment, but you COULD be born in a better environment. the starting point is random. now one can live his life randomly, accepting things as they come, whatever the starting point was. or he could make his own life, make his own decision and strive to get to the point he really want, again from whatever he started. reflecting on your starting point means stealing the attention from the trip. "well here we are up in this mountain, but you know, i had to start 50 miles farther" "so what? are you on a taller mountain then?" by the way you touch on this topic in the OP ("I don't have it all") but still you're fixating on the starting point, which again is not so important all things considered.

[–]trippinallday 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I don't think that there's absolute benefits for being any one race, rather it depends on the environment. While being white may be great in America or Europe, it isn't so great if you're gonna go to Mexico or South Africa for instance. It's all relative.

[–]redzorp 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Wha? You must be young and haven't traveled too much.

But being white is a HUGE advantage in Mexico and pretty much everywhere else in the world.

I'm not talking about the SJW "white privilege" silliness. I'm talking about actual fact. I traveled a lot in one of my previous jobs. All over Europe, Asia and the Americas. I'm of Indian ethnicity (good looking, born in the West) and I mostly traveled with my white colleagues. They always got treated better, with more automatic respect subconsciously granted to them, than I did; In every country in the world, especially brown and black countries! That's just the reality of our world at this juncture of history.

I got treated well enough in most countries, so I'm not complaining. But I do acknowledge that a form of "white privilege" does exist. But that term leaves a sour taste in our mouths because the stupid SJWs have wielded it as a guilt-inducing weapon. But just because the term has been weaponized doesn't mean that the concept behind it is fiction. It's not. It's real and it exists. I think a lot of white guys have been bludgeoned so much by the Cultural Marxists with the "white privilege" meme that they have become blind to the actual advantages they do in fact have! So OP is correct on that.

And if any don't believe it, just start traveling the world with any minority buddies you may have. Pay careful attention to how each of you is treated in different parts of the world (heck even in the USA). Then be thankful for your advantages and use them to their fullest! As mentioned, I'm of Indian ethnicity but I never devolved into one of those whiny, IRTs. I used whatever advantages and gifts I was given (intelligence, good looks) to their fullest, with no complaints or envy that my white friends have it easier. The world is as it is. Make the best of it with what you have. And you probably have a heck of a lot more than you even realize.

[–]trippinallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you go to the non-whitewashed areas of Mexico I can assure you that being white is pretty bad. Maybe not compared to being Indian, but you can just tell when people look at you that you're not welcomed compared to Hispanic people. I used to hang around with gangbangers and be around sketchy people all the time when I was younger, but I definitely felt way less safe visiting Mexico than I did doing stupid shit back then.

And take my other example from earlier, South Africa. For white people there, unless you're rich it's really shitty there because of affirmative action. If you're a poor white person you're basically in poverty your whole life because it's so hard to find a job, whereas blacks are prioritized and the employers rewarded for hiring them thanks to post-Apartheid laws.

I'm not saying I don't have an advantage, nor am I saying being white isn't a bigger advantage than other races, but I'm just pointing out that it isn't universal and there are places where being white isn't so great.

[–]Tattered 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Acknowledging personal privileges =/= Accepting white guilt

OP clearly wants to be grateful for what he was born with ie "I have legs", "I have brains", "I'm tall", etc.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where did you read guilt? The man is grateful to be born into the majority of an advanced nation.

[–]VTMSCHVSVCTRY 12 points12 points [recovered]

For the minorities reading - do not ever think that the public is on your side vs. a white male/female. Ever. Not in court. Not during emergencies/catastrophes. Not with women. Not with police. Not jobs. Not in testimony. Sure, there are always instances that negate my premise. In summation: all guns are loaded.

White guilt isn't our problem. Fooling ourselves into thinking that the world has changed is.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THIS!

The idea that we live in a "just" and "fair" world is another blue pill.

If a white woman accused an Arab/Indian/Mexican/Black man of rape, who do you think would stand behind the accused? No one!

You're a minority. Acknowledge it. Keep your eyes open. If the situation is not right, keep your head down. Absolutely avoid unnecessary confrontations, unless you want to acquire a reputation of a trouble maker. If you get into a fight, you're in as much trouble as your opponent. Don't imagine that the police will help you or be on your side.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 6 points7 points  (18 children)

Plot twist most minorities don't spend their time on Reddit. Except for Asians. Asians love that shit.

[–]itsthatkidgreg 36 points37 points  (9 children)

Black redditor awkwardly backs out of the room

[–]OpenBumChakra 4 points5 points  (8 children)

Why would you walk out of the room

[–]itsthatkidgreg 9 points10 points  (7 children)

GLO says most minorities don't hang on reddit and on slow days at work that's all I ever do. Most people assume by the name that I'm white though

[–]ChadThundercockII 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Honestly, I always assume the person behind the username is a white man weighing 165 at 5' 11", unless stated otherwise. I'm not even kidding.

[–]itsthatkidgreg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people do. At least you're up front about it though

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Iv Skype a lot if Red Pillers there arnt many blacks

[–]itsthatkidgreg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

eh, we're not big on skype. Also, I've only posted here maybe once or twice? I usually just lurk if we're getting technical

[–]B_Rawb 1 point2 points  (2 children)

You Skype red pillers who're looking for lifting and fitness advice. We've been carefully bred by slavery and can usually get gains quicker than our white counterparts. Just a theory.

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points

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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Blacks have about 10% more testosterone than whites naturally.

[–]1StoicCrane 8 points9 points  (3 children)

Jamaican/American male here and VTM is completely right. I read TRP like it's fucking religion. Stopped caring about race a long time ago. The victimhood mentality due to past historical events and the current social climate is fucking tiresome, old, and a waste of time.

It is what it is. My ancestors would kill to have my life so I'm making the most of it out of respect for them and their struggles. Power is one of my few and only incentives. Anything that gets in the way of this including racial bs is worthless.

We all have hands to play. Men of every backround should learn to shut the fuck up and play them right instead of bitching about privledge and discrimination. Being discriminated against or on the "wrong side of privledge" is better because it leaves less margin for error. Life on hardmode is the stuff legends are made of. I'm sure many others are lurking in the shadows silently. Not most but many.

[–]VTMSCHVSVCTRY 1 points1 points [recovered]

There are many among us. There is no changing the system. There is only awareness. "The truth will set you free."

[–]1StoicCrane 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Better to be aware in the backround than in the forefront. The common laymen are degenrate morons incapable of thinking beyond their fleshly husks. It's a marvel that humans are alive at all with such ignorance abound.

[–]VTMSCHVSVCTRY 2 points2 points [recovered]

lowers eyes and smirks An astute observation. You are a static character in evermore dynamic, technological landscape. The only point you've made - is that I have an audience.

[–]KIZAN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get the reference to Asians being on here lol.

[–]1WeedDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do not ever think that the public is on your side vs. a white male/female

White women have habitually allied with the PoC against the Patriarchy, but the progress is so far that further progress requires the WoC (Women of Color) to rise against White women (item 6 on the list):

http://static2.businessinsider.com/image/56b3d2462e526543008b5049-705-529/nicole%20sanchez-diversity-training2.png

[–]Heathcliff-- 7 points7 points [recovered]

Nah calm down. I'm not American so I'm not so involved in privilege olympics like you all are. It's not that I blame myself or my ancestors for the way people are. But if I had to choose where I was born, I definitely would still pick white male, I'm privileged in the respect that I didn't get born into a shitty country or discriminated against race. Like would you want to be born an aboriginal Australian or to a black single mother in Compton?

Regardless my ancestors were serf slaves. I accept no white guilt from anywhere

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 13 points14 points  (51 children)

Plot twist I'm Russian so I'm definitely not involved in your white guilt apology triathlon. Believing that you are privileged for being white means you let Social Justice Warriors assfuck your world view.

You need to be re-educated at GaylubeOil School of Chauvinism.

[–]Kenny_Twenty 9 points9 points [recovered]

I don't understand. You don't think being white is a benefit?

It seems like your thinking is flawed. You're annoyed by social justice warriors for claiming white people are privileged, because they are using it in the pejorative. But I think you're not addressing the foundation of the issue.

Instead of denying it because it bothers you, why not just own it? I mean, it's hard to say how privileged I am because I'm white but I'm sure it's true to some extent. I just don't feel guilty about it. I'll take any advantage I can get, fair or unfair.

You're getting mired in the argument, refusing to let them be right. Who gives a fuck if they're right? They're not going to change shit by revealing white provelage.

[–]oxykitten80mg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

White privilege? Like how someone who is black or hispanic who got an equal or lower score than me on the SAT is given priority in college admissions? Or were you talking about the white privilege where some woman or minority who is less qualified than me gets the job we both apply to simply because of affirmative action? Giving any kind of credibility to these fucking SJW's by buying into the white privilege myth simply allows them the ability to ass fuck us more! White privilege is utter bullshit and its empirically wrong. You are RP man!!...smarten up.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil -1 points0 points  (38 children)

There are plenty of destitute whites living in trailer parks smoking meth. How are they less privileged the Deshawn? They arnt right and they have succsesfuly brainwashed you.

[–]Heathcliff-- 20 points20 points [recovered]

GLO you're better than this. Let me ask you a simple question. If in the womb you were given the choice, in 2016 USA, to be born black or white, with every other factor the same. Which would you choose?

[–]ChadThundercockII 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would choose a lesbian Muslim guy.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 2 points3 points  (7 children)

Would you rather be a Jamaican in Jamaica or a jamaican in the west? Minorities have it better because of the societies that whites built. So to run around with cucked racial guilt is retarded especially since none of us are running plantations or slave ships.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Mate you don't have to feel white guilt to believe in white privilege. Being born white is superior if we are to be completely objective. If you're born black not having a father and being raised by a single mom is normalized. Blacks commit crimes almost equal to whites despite being 13% of the population so everyone seeing you on the street is going to wonder if you're going to pull out a gun and rob them even if you're the nicest guy ever. There are no strong male role models in the hood, just criminals to look up to. A huge chunk of black kids don't even finish highschool.

Meanwhile as a white male no white chick is going to tell me she doesn't fuck with my race. I was born and raised by both my parents in a marriage that still seems to go strong. Nobody thinks I'll rob them in the street. I was blessed with with above average IQ, schoolwork has always been easy. White privilege is not what the SJWs want it to be, the truth is far too "racist" for them. All in all your chance of being successful is greatly improved if you're born white.

And I don't even feel the slightest guilt, I cherish the color of my skin. It's not my fault and I wouldn't even care if it was. If I could choose any other race to be born with I'd still choose being white.

[–]1StoicCrane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Catch 22. Jamaica has degraded socio-economically since the rise of the Red and Green parties that literally cause family members to butcher one another on account of European influenced nationalism. That said, decades ago it was nothing short of a paradise for those who lived in Western portions of the isle. Despite the fact that the economy was nothing like the West there's a sense of belonging living amongst one's own people the West could never impart to non-whites.

The West is better economically but I'd take a hospitable life in Jamaica 4-5 decades ago over the discriminatory rat race in the West particularly the US anyday.

Minorities have it better because of the society that whites built.

Another catch 22. European societies offer access to better educational opportunities and resources than 3rd world countries on one hand but on the other none of this would've have mattered in White Imperialism didn't fuck with these countries to begin with.

No one should bear any guilt of there dead ancestors but at the same token drop the "Whiteman's Burden" bullshit. It does nothing to promote your cause.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Wtf is with the cucks downvoting you. This white guilt bs has permeated everywhere it seems.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Red Pill is part of the Reactionary Right. White Guilt doesn't belong here

[–]RedSugarPill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny, you get down voted, but nobody admits their actual feelings on the matter. To answer your question, I'd rather not be born in a 3rd world country, no matter what color I was. On the other hand, if I were, it might make for a simpler, and more peaceful life. The fast lane can be tiresome sometimes. Just a thought..

[–]redartist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 2016 it actually is not that easy of a choice.

If you were born in 2016 in the US when the pendulum swings further to the leftist dystopia - if you're not born black in some gangsta ghetto but in at least somewhat decent familty (even if poor) you'll have a huge headstart on whites by the time you graduate in 2035+ because of all the affirmative action, diversity circus and gimmedats.

Remember, rising tide raises all boats.

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points  (7 children)

Of course you choose black. Everyone in their right mind would. You can play the victim card if you're black and enjoy all sorts of quotas. You are literally more likely to join a top university than a white of the exact same education level simply for being black. You're more likely to advance and get promoted in many organizations in usa. Some of the potential problems might only be that black shoot blacks all the time so better stay away from black people then.

Get your sjw bullshit out of here. "GLO you're better than this" Hahahahaha

[–]Heathcliff-- 4 points4 points [recovered]

Spoken with the privilege of someone who has never been black.

[–]Kenny_Twenty 1 points1 points [recovered]

There are plenty of destitute whites living in trailer parks smoking meth. How are they less privileged the Deshawn?

You're not making a case against privilege here. Do you think that privilege means that white people can't be losers? Your argument is intellectually dishonest.

Anyway, I think it's better to be white than black in America. Therefore, isn't it a privelaged to be white?

Don't get me wrong, I think white people are inherently better than black people. That might sound racist, that's becaue I am racist. But I'm not a liar. It's better to be born white than black in America.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 2 points3 points  (14 children)

Well I guess you have no choice but to take drive to the nearest minority town and apologize to every minority you find for being privileged.After that maybe you can let them stuff your girlfriend with diversity.

[–]Kenny_Twenty 4 points4 points [recovered]

Why would I apologize to people I have contempt for? I consider them to be inferior. I am privelaged to be born superior to them. I'm not admitting to privilege out of sympathy. I'm admitting it because I strive to be objective - to not allow my feelings to affect my judgment.

I implore you to do the same. Don't let the fact that you're butthurt about being called privelaged obscure reality. Your emotions are clouding your judgment.

Stop that.

[–]ColonCancer666 1 point2 points  (5 children)

Maybe white people come in multiple flavors. The scumbags like you that consider yourself to be better than people because of skin color. And the assholes like me that dont give a fuck because im better than everyone. I don't give a fuck where you were born, what color you are or any other useless bullshit like that. I was dealt a hand, you were dealt a hand. I don't care what you have because I'm too busy playing mine and no matter what it contains I will use it to dominate anyone in my path. That's as far as anyone needs to think about it. No emotion, no bullshit, no subscribing to the lexicon of SJW. This is the effect of globalization. That now we're told to give a fuck about everyone else. Fuck everyone else, resume your life.

Stop that. Stop that.

[–]1StoicCrane 2 points3 points  (3 children)

An honest mindset I can respect. Black, White, Yellow, Green the fuck does it matter when you're aiming to live the most kickass life imaginable. People get caught up in skin color when their own personal sense of worth is in the gutter. People who are truly superior never claim it because they know they are. Just as Alpha men never say that they're Alpha because it does nothing for them.

[–]VTMSCHVSVCTRY 1 points1 points [recovered]

Why would I apologize to people I have contempt for?

So I can laugh as the small platform beneath your feet slowly grows smaller each day. Run your mouth while you still have time.

[–]Kenny_Twenty 1 points1 points [recovered]

If you have a point to make, make it.

[–]1StoicCrane 0 points1 point  (1 child)

This pride for White Privileged bullshit is like a collective inferiority complex coming to light in an ugly way. No one says be guilty for who you are or your heritage. Government run institutions and brainwashed SJWs yes, but not healthy minded people. It's one thing derive value from your heritage it's another to derive esteen from the beratement of other people's cultural backrounds, simple-minded tool.

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[–]Kenny_Twenty 7 points7 points [recovered]

Hey look, I'm not sympathetic to minorities who blame their troubles on not being white. I'm also not arguing that the privilege I enjoy for being white is substantial, nor am I arguing that it's not merited.

If I ran a business I would be far less likely to hire a black person than a white person. My experience with working with black people over the last twenty years has taught me that they are much less likely to work hard, take initiative, show up to work on time, etc... So in that case white people would have an advantage in getting a job. They'd be enjoying the provelage of being perceived as more trustworthy.

I don't think I'm the only one who thinks like this. There are a lot of people out there who have had bad experiences and their decisions in the future reflect that. It's not everyone, many people are overly optimistic and/or allow their white guilt to influence their decisions.

The problem is that even here people hear you disagree with the notion that white privilege isn't real and assume that you have some liberal agenda and the reason is likely because they have an opposing agenda. That's foolish. It's disingenuous to take a particular stance just to toe the party line.

[–]Heathcliff-- 7 points7 points [recovered]

Injecting so much needed straightforward common sense into these comments, thanks dude. These guys are so damaged about race issues that they refuse to accept that being white may shockingly owe them some benefits, or that being black may be slightly more disadvantageous.

They're letting their hate for SJWs influence and warp their thought process, of course SJWs are never allowed to be right! That's some bluepill shit man, not accepting reality for how it is? Dreaming about some made up white discrimination or inflated black guy advantage? Come on guys, look at how the world actually is not what you want it to be.

Like I know losing frame is common but I didn't think I'd see GLO and others do so so blatantly on a Reddit post of all places.

[–]redzorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come on. Just because retarded SJWs have weaponized the meme "White Privilege" doesn't mean that the concept itself is false. Sure, they are totally going over the top with the meme, trying to guilt-trip you. So from that angle, I can see how a white guy could then swing totally in the opposite direction and deny them everything.

Being a white male in the West is still a huge advantage vs being a minority male. So use it. Have fun with it. This is not about guilt, just about seeing world accurately.

And yes, fuck SJWs and their controllers and everything that degenerate lot stands for!

[–]qiang_shi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point is that you think with words defined by the weak. This changes your synapses. When you allow the weak to define the rules of engagement then you've lost, any rationalisation part that is just illusion.

[–]Hodensack666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

just go back in time a lil, and 99% or all ancestors of 99% of all ppl were serfs, ESPECIALLY in europe. so this white guilt BS is noting but reverse psychology. they seem to want to enslave us all AGAIN.

( it's time to rise, btw, white ppl. enough black tyranny in this country. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH ! )

[–]worktillyouburk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god honestly this visited the states and called racist ect, was like man fuck you i'm Canadian, we saved your asses, now shut up and move. felt so good.

[–]NikoMyshkin 7 points8 points  (4 children)

I'd be interested in your experience with pyschedelics. Please share.

[–]progggrammerr99 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Not op but psychedelics were a part of my red pill journey. The first time i took acid, i thought about gender roles and it all made sense about how masculinity attracts femininity and vice versa. I realized that any behavior of sexual attraction are based off of our primal insticts and what we needed to do to survive. I reccomend reading "The way of Men" to summarize my epiphany. When i took MDMA and shrooms together, i realized how fucked up every person on this planet is and how everyone is really just insecure. I think what brought that about is that the night before my I got drunk with my uncle and he dropped some bombshells on me about my family. He told me about every skeleton in my familys closet. That was the night that i really matured. I came of age more in That night than the first 16 years of my life

[–]NikoMyshkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and this is why shrooms should be legal and considered sacred. they can make a massive, lasting, positive and beneficial change to a person's life. Shrooms correlate with long-term hapiness and good decision-making. it's so sad they are criminalised.

Thanks for sharing.

[–]TheIncendiary97 20 points21 points  (19 children)

I'm an 18 year-old that swallowed the pill about a month ago. I'm in it for the long run. I'm not satisfied with who I am right now, but I have the determination to turn myself into someone who will make a mark on this world. This entire post spoke to me, even though I'm a short, Indian guy. If you can change yourself in 3 years, so can I. I will not fail. I will not waste this gift. Thank you for this post OP.

[–]ASA_AKIRA_FANBOY 33 points33 points [recovered]

Honestly, this sub thinks the worst thing that can happen to you is being an Indian guy.

Yeah, no.

I like being Indian. I'm smart, educated, and my family is equally smart and educated. My brother and I are blessed to be over 6' to 5'7"ish parents and neither of us has ever had problems with girls. We were even born in India and moved to North America in our teens.

The best thing you can do is to move away from the negative stereotypes. If you have glasses, make sure you've got those thick frame ones and not the nerdy middle schooler glasses. Better yet, get contacts. Get big arms and shoulders. Consider grooming a religion and don't give racists a chance to even accuse you of "smelling like curry." (this one always cracks me up).

The internet is especially savage against us. Even people you wouldn't expect to say such things will behind the anonymity of a keyboard. Too much time on forums will fill you with insecurity. Never dislike what you can't change about yourself. When I just immigrated, I hated being Indian, but after a few years of self loathing and realization, I'm actually glad I am.

“Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you.”

-Tyrion Lannister

[–]RedPillProphet 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Being Indian does carry a massive SMV penalty, it does us no service to ignore this fact. I am an arab looking paki (I have no delusions, Indians and Pakistanis are really the same). But I have noticed that whenever a girl is attracted to me or when people think I am high SMV they will refer to me as Arab, Italian or Latin. Even after I correct them they continue to make the insinuation.. sometimes for years.

On the other hand whenever a girl doesn't like me or a guy is trying to put me down, one of their first opening question is ... so are you from India?

Either way, you are right. It's not something that can be changed so might as well own it.

[–]CQC3 2 points3 points  (1 child)

It's not. But I can't say I don't understand. The race trolls were at such an all time high at one point in the manosphere that the topic has become just an annoyance because it always predictable devolves into an issue of race and whether it is in fact a negative or positive when in reality what you need to do is the same regardless of whether that is true.

I dislike a lot of other indian guys, but only because they aren't true to themselves. Even to this day I hear the bullshit from relatives about finding a certain kind of girl, they all have incredibly unattractive wives with no sex appeal and I see them always checking out foreign girls. They just accept they can't have it.

Fobby Indians have such unusual pride in being Indian and hate themselves at the same time while they want girls from others races, they just have some of the worst mixtures of problems and attitudes.

[–]no_face 2 points3 points  (0 children)

such unusual pride in being Indian and hate themselves at the same time while they want girls from others races, they just have some of the worst mixtures of problems and attitudes

Every minority group in every country has this problem, and its not just racial minorities. The well publicised shiksa-appeal among Jews for example is a manifestation of this effect

[–]Kenny_Twenty 2 points2 points [recovered]

Listen, it's awesome that you've overcome a disadvantage but to suggest it isn't real is disingenuous. Nor does it prove that it's not a disadvantage if you are successful with women.

I personally find Indian people to be awesome. I love dark featured women and culturally, Indian people generally seem to be productive members of society. They're often in high paying professions and they seem to put an emphasis on family and education. They aren't known to be involved in a lot of gang activity or generally violent. I have no criticism of Indians whatsoever.

So I think it's fucked up that it is that way but it does seem to be.

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[–]1v1mebruh 2 points3 points  (1 child)

You're here young bro. Look around at all the people here age 30+ who are rejoicing at just having found the red pill.you have 12 years on them. You aren't even in college yet. If you stick with trp and don't stop, you literally have the world in the palm of your hands.

Don't stop.

[–]TedTheAtheist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 43 and just found it within the past 6 months.

However, I've been single and without kids so far... I think I've been living the TRP life, but not conscious that it existed. I just never saw a need to get married or have kids... thought it would fuck up my ability to play video games and be my introverted self. I love getting various women whenever I do go out.

So now that I found it, it has given me EVEN MORE tricks to put up my sleeve and live even happier and with more reason to continue to be who I used to be before now.

[–]Ozymanberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah. I found trp about two months ago. I have a shit-ton to do but in these two months I've already made improvements. Once the truth settles in your mind you won't be able to see anything the same way. Godspeed, dude.

[–]NaughtyFred 19 points20 points  (14 children)

Not dissing you but if you have a submissive teenage HB10 who cooks cleans and fucks like a pornstar what the hell do you need plates for?

Sounds like you got the best of whats out there already, why are you still looking?

Sounds like she's not an LTR, just a main bitch.

[–]nothere_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

New pussy to feel new ass to eat

[–]Falkrik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because it's only temporary.

[–]EdvardMunch 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Yeah this didn't sound right to me either.

[–]adam_varg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some men feel the need to variety some men dont.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (6 children)

She's going to want to be a LTR or main girl soon, and there will be a fallout. She will leave, or he will cave and give her LTR status.

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long-term relationship. However, the guys above has a monogamous mindset, and that is far from ideal. There have been some excellent posts on kinds of relationships, and also I recommend Black Dragon's blog where he talks a lot about them, going from one-night stands, plates (booty calls), friends with benefits (so you do things other than fuck together), multiple LTR (MLTR), open LTR (one girlfriend to whom you give commitment, but you can have plates or ONSes on the side - but no-one else you give commitment to), open marriages, and finally traditional marriages. The last two involve a grossly unfair contract with the State, which is therefore not recommended under most circumstances. http://www.blackdragonblog.com/glossary/

[–]ace_valentine 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wonderful post. You should treat every day of your life like it's a vacation because life ultimately is one big vacation.

[–]thiagoco 7 points8 points  (4 children)

"Your mind and body are a result of more than 200,000 years of evolution, fucking act like it."

[–]1WeedDaddy 8 points9 points  (2 children)

Your mind and body are a result of more than 200,000 years of evolution

In each generation of evolution there are plenty of defective specimen.

[–]Higgs_deGrasse_Boson 1 point2 points  (1 child)

...And those defective specimens aren't dying off, instead they are thriving and our kids are being born with crippling asthma and unusable legs.

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Along the same lines of this, next time you're afraid of anything just remember: We're apex predators with our use of tools. We're top of the food chain. Anything out there is just moving food. Make use of tools available to you (knowledge, for instance) and act like the top of the food chain.

[–]nefarious_squirrel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That "I'm wasting my life" moment hit me when my grandfather died several years back. He fought in WW2 in the Pacific as a ship gunner during his prime, then came back after the war, got married, had kids, and then .... nothing. He spent the last 30 years of his life literally just waiting to die (70 if you consider marriage a slow death). I saw him a week before he died at 92; delirious, completely incapable of taking care of himself. I thought, Fuck, is this how I'll end up? Hell no. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad he decided to settle down and breed, but he could have done so much more with what time he had. He didn't travel, didn't expand his mind, didn't exercise. I refuse to end up like that. Like OP, I'm making the most of what little lifespan I have left. Just 45 years or less to finish a great story, and then its all gone, like breathe on a mirror.

Don't fear death, fear not living.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great to hear you've woken up. Keep at it. The best is yet to come.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

My teeth grew in straight and my family instilled the importance of dental hygiene from an early age. While I may not have pearly whites, I have a presentable mouth.

This is what I'm currently working on improving. Currently at 1.5 years of progress. I had to stop exercising because of recent jaw bone surgery to fill in bone gaps to be able to place implants later this year.

Hitting the gym in a week! SO EXCITED. Gotta build a nice body to go along the nice smile ;)

[–]oxykitten80mg 1 point2 points  (1 child)

In the begging stages of dental implants here too bro! It is a long road we walk but worth it. And my god is it ever expensive!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally work to pay my dentists. Yes, I actually got two! One who does the fillings and root canals and whatnot, the other one does the implants - a periodontist.

Like you said, it's all worth it in the end, I've always been jealous of people with nice smiles.

Keep at it mate, the pain will eventually stop and after that we'll only have to keep them clean and do regular check ups on them!

[–]BusterVadge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post! If you're not living for yourself, you're not really living.

[–]silentlyfurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm interested in your psychedelic post. I too have had the opportunity to learn from these tools. I would be curious to see what you have to say on the topic.

[–]qiang_shi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep thought so.

This post reeks of sjw guilt language.

See below about apex predator.

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fuck yeah man. I feel like Andy Dufresne from Shawshank Redemption just working on my boat. I look up and see you made it man. You got out of that prison you found the lava rock with the cash you got down to Mexico and now you're free dude. Lets sail the ocean and be free. Congrats. Remember when you achieve a goal set a new one.

[–]DigitalTherapy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful man. Thank you. Really motivating.

I am going to re-read this frequently. Let's live our fucking lives and help others do the same.

Good luck, everyone.

[–]carlosgeetah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best post I've seen in a while. It all sounds very theoretical but the attitude of "Life is a gift" is really key to really become a happy, fulfilled person.

Everyone gets the gift, but not everyone is capable of making something out of it, and the will to do so, to use our capabilities to create something that lasts or to do something meaningful with our resources, is really what makes humanity progress.

Once again, great post, I'll hang that quote on my wall. (Although I know it is more than just that)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"This is your life, and it's ending 1 minute at a time" -Tyler Durden

[–]A_Becker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn man, the old you is almost me to a tee. This post is truly inspiring.

[–]sh0ckley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, brother. Humble brags aside... CARPE fucking DIEM !!

[–]NiceTryDisaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

N-count of 0

and fucks like a pornstar

bro I doubt shes as pure as you think she is

[–]aanarchist 2 points3 points  (3 children)

you're still wasting your life. what good is knowledge if you squander it on hedonism.

[–]nothere_ 1 point2 points  (1 child)

What good is life by spectating others live it

[–]aanarchist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what good is a life wasted

[–]nevva_Again 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time, for that's the stuff life is made of. - (Benjamin Franklin, 'Poor Richard's Almanack', June 1746)

I like your humble-brag-laden post, except

Science and mathematics came naturally to me.

Come on... I hope you meant that as a joke.

[–]Heathcliff-- 1 points1 points [recovered]

Yeah you're right. I've found that for most men science and maths are inherently easy. Although there's still a bell curve of ability.

And yeah there was no way for me to type this up without coming across like I'm bragging. I accept that.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn't come off as bragging. Everyone can find plenty of positive points in his life so your post is very relatable.

[–]rpm612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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What is this?

[–]2comment 4 points4 points [recovered]

I was born a white male in an english speaking country. That's the best fucking gift of all. How many fucking people across the world would have killed to have been born and raised a white man with decent education in a world leading country. I'm not a starving Ethiopian, I'm not a poverty stricken discriminated against black guy, I'm not a chinese sweatshop worker with no chance whatsoever of climbing the social ladder. And I'm not, (thank god), a woman.

Great you recognize what you have otherwise, but please fuck off with the privilege guilt. White men built the world today everyone enjoys: modern architecture, electricity, flight, computers, etc.

If our ancestors weren't around, everyone else would be poorer, not better off. See Zimbabwe.

[–]Heathcliff-- 4 points4 points [recovered]

Nah calm down. I'm not American so I'm not so involved in privilege olympics like you all are. It's not that I blame myself or my ancestors for the way people are. But if I had to choose where I was born, I definitely would still pick white male, I'm privileged in the respect that I didn't get born into a shitty country or discriminated against race. Like would you want to be born an aboriginal Australian or to a black single mother in Compton?

Regardless my ancestors were serf slaves. I accept no white guilt from anywhere

[–]2comment 3 points3 points [recovered]

discriminated against race. Like would you want to be born an aboriginal Australian or to a black single mother in Compton?

This victimhood olympics is what I'm talking about. Soon people will be bemoaning height privilege, metabolism (weight) privilege, athletic ability privilege, et al.

If you're alive, you already won over hundred million sperm marathon and hundred some egg raffle.... and if you're born human, being the apex of apex predators, you're already ahead of over 99% of lifeforms on this planet, at least on paper. There's always gonna be possibility for a grass is greener mentality in anyone.

[–]1StoicCrane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are just dumb animals, man. You give our species too much credit. Without our tech we'd easily get killed by stonger predators if we didn't kill ourselves off first.

[–]breaking_good 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Any hand can be a winning hand if you play it well"

Damn dude did you just make that up ?? That's my new motto from now on

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Guys, stop cussing him just because he is proud of his race.It's all in his thoughts and that's a good thing.Men of any race can be proud of their race just like the OP.

For instance, the black guy,Ethiopian,Chinese guy can all say that they are happy that they are born as their respective race and not as a white guy and they can have so many reasons for it.

The short Indian guy can possibly be proud of their heritage and culture.

It's just a matter of knowing your super powers.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad about your development. I had lots of setbacks in the last two years which made everything so fucking hard. But I'm back at it again. Especially in the lifting department.

[–]worktillyouburk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go for it man, good read just unfortunately the world is very set in its ways and unless you have a lot of money its hard to make the most of it. For most while all your work goes to paying expenses so their isnt much time left to travel.

so whats your first decision or goal?

[–]newmeforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great post man I am so happy for you!

And cheers to Psychedelics, please PM me and lets discuss!

[–]ChadThundercockII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say Op, would you mind sharing the facial care procedures you use? I have no fucking clue how to go about it. Seeing people with clear skins makes me jelly.

[–]tiffar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I feel you. As a 19 year old I improved in every aspect of my life as you described... except my job and my education. I still don't know what to do or where to go next.. could you please tell me your job?:)

[–]eye_drive 1 points1 points [recovered]

Another post by a genetically blessed asshole telling us all to appreciate our lives. Thanks man. But really, fuck you.

Edit:

"Any hand can be a winning hand if you play it well."

Absolutely not

[–]LordThunderbolt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"But you're a fucking white male"

[–]getRedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great post but would be better if you stop the White Guilt lameness. It's beta bullshit.

[–]PranksterLad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck sakes, someone mentor me.

[–]TedTheAtheist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I went on vacation to an exotic island or a great city or beautiful rainforest I would kick myself had I spent the entire time lying in bed all day playing video games and masturbating.

I really, really love video games. I will love virtual reality, too. I don't masturbate much because I can get women because I'm good looking, but to me, a vacation IS a video game. :)

[–]Woccev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sub is too embarassing lol Wtf is this person haha

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed this smack in the face today. Thanks!

Holy fucking shit I've been incredibly complacent these past couple of weeks.

May the mods sticky this post

[–]Piediver -2 points-1 points  (5 children)

I'm not wasting it. You don't know me brah.

[–]Chibichurro 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Your on Reddit commenting on this post? Hmmmm

[–]Piediver 0 points1 point  (2 children)

It's *you're btw. Downvote all you want. I find it annoying when the summary of the post is "you are wasting your life". Who is this guy?

[–]Chibichurro 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Your still replying to this message.

Don't argue with an idiot people can't tell the difference.

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