ScienceHow to get your girl to love anal sex. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Forcetobereckonedwit


OK gents, here it is, the “How To Get Your Girl To Love Anal.” Post.


If you know how to treat an asshole right, it'll open right up for you.


I have always been an “ass” man and ass sex has always been high on the list for me. I love anal sex with women. I don’t know exactly why and I don’t care why. It’s cheap and legal. It feels great. It’s a wonderfully depraved activity and let me tell you…once you “tap dat ass” properly, that girl will remember you forever.

It took me many years to perfect my routine for converting a GF or plate into an ass slut, but it works every time. Granted, there are some women that won’t allow themselves to enjoy it and well, that’s their loss. There are plenty more out there waiting to be converted. For them, it’s simply a matter of following my instructions below and she’ll be asking for it within a month or so. Sometimes it goes much quicker than that and you can always escalate the pace if she seems ready.

Careful though! Patience is key at this stage. One mistake and she’ll slam that door shut forever. Ever try it with one and have her say “Anal? Oh yeah, no way. There was this one guy once who just shoved it in and….”.

Please don't be that guy. It makes a lot of work for me later on when I get her to my place. Sheesh.

Women’s reticence towards offering up their buttholes for fuckage is twofold. First there is the pain aspect. That takes time and patience to overcome. Secondly there is the cleanliness aspect. That one is really easy.

The asshole/anus/sphincter has many times more nerve endings than the pussy or nipples or any other erogenous zone except her clitoris. The possibility for pleasure is immense. What you want to do is gradually get her to “eroticize” her ass. It is a muscle and can be trained. Again, patience will be rewarded. Ever tear a muscle? How long did it take to heal…for-fucking-ever? That’s right, so don’t go barging in there or you will have blown it.

Start by getting your fingertip wet (pussy juice, saliva, lube) and start touching her asshole every time you have sex. Wait until she is warmed up. Wait until your cock is stuffed up in her. Rub little circles on her asshole. Do not push inside yet…at all. Tease her. Do it and then stop. Put her on top and do it again; little circles. Then stop. Start worshiping her ass. Tell her how much it turns you on etc. Give her little spanks whenever she bends over, public or private. Be discrete but do it. Tell her how sexy her ass is. When she is undressing in front of you, stop her when she has her panties still on and tell her to turn around. Admire her ass and tell her how sexy it is. Smack it. Not hard, just a hard pat. Tell her “I’m gonna fuck that sexy ass”. Ignore her reply…unless it is “When?”. If she says when, just say soon.

When you’re out with her, pull her into a dark alley or corner, make out with her and slide your hand down her pants or up her skirt and grab that ass. Push in on her asshole through her panties but again, no entry. By now she should be associating her ass with sexiness and pleasure. Next it’s time to tell her you’re going to fuck her hot ass like a pornstar (or whatever words fit your relationship). Tell her you want her to get clean and offer you her ass. Go online (Netflix n chill?) and show her this.

Explain to her that her asshole has millions of nerve ending like her clitoris. Tell her to think of it like having her clit wrapped around your cock as it slides in and out. You should’ve already bought the “magic wand” and installed it in your shower. I just leave mine installed all the time. It’s great for washing out the shower stall too..lol.

By now she will be willing to try. If she’s not, you’ve done something wrong and just start over. If she says “maybe”, tell her next time she’s over. Always keep her wondering and wanting. Never push it on her “like that last guy”. When she’s game, tell her to get in the shower (after using the toilet if necessary of course) and squat down with the wand streaming warm not hot water, and insert it up her butt. Tell her to make sure she “is pushing out” while inserting because if she just stuffs it in her ass, too much water will go too deep inside her and will come back out exactly when you don’t want it to.


The best next step is when she gets out, tell her to insert a small buttplug. Give her silicone based lube or coconut oil and leave her alone unless she says “you do it” in which case you better go slow! Better that she does it to herself the first few times.

Plug in? Now forget about it and make out with her. Tease her in whatever way works for you. Fuck her with the plug in her ass. Have fun. When she says “why didn’t you fuck my ass?”, tell her “all in good time”. Next time? Same routine except this time, send her home with the plug and tell her to be wearing it when she meets you for drinks at the …” She will be so ready when you get home, she’ll be asking for it. Now it’s time to warm her up well again, do some fucking and sucking, always play with her clit like she does. (You were watching the last time she got herself off weren’t you?).

Are you getting the picture?

Finally, pull that plug out very slowly and start rubbing your cockhead around her asshole. Start slipping it in a half inch and back, an inch and back. Do NOT, I repeat do NOT jam it in or all your patience will have been for naught. She will let you know if she wants it all in. She may even just pull you in. If so, you’re off to the races. If not, you need to go so slow it’ll kill you, but remember…this is ass TRAINING. Once trained properly, she’ll be bending over and asking for it and prep time will be 10 minutes, not three weeks. Lots of lube! Start with tongue, then fingers, then plugs, then the D.


The asshole is a very erotic place but has it's own rules. Play with them and they'll reward you well. Ignore them and it will slam shut and your woman will forever call you "that guy" and never, ever, let you try again.

TL;DR Anal? Take forever, tease her, eroticize her ass, start with fingers, then a plug, then very gently fuck her with the D. After the first few times you can go back to your brutish ways.

[–][deleted] 223 points224 points  (1 child)

This is the article I always expected from /u/gaylubeoil

[–]aRedThought 71 points72 points  (13 children)

Posts like these are always great to read.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 29 points30 points  (12 children)

Hope you liked it. I had a lot of requests for it.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (11 children)

what kind of tips do you have for ass eating and how can i avoid ecoli, how safe is it really do you think? or best to just not put your mouth there?

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 23 points24 points  (7 children)

I love going there...as long as it's squeeky clean. Follow the instructions above and you'll have nothing to worry about. In all of my ass eating decades, I have never had any unpleasant consequences. If I am at all concerned after a hot session, I just hit the bathroom and gargle with mouthwash. Never a bad plan anyway, even after eating pussy. Keeps the relevant bacteria where they belong.

[–]EdvardMunch 12 points13 points  (5 children)

In the past I could comfortably eat a girl out from behind and her ass.

Lately I've had occurrences with two girls who must of recently finished pooping. I avoided the first, but the other I ended up with shit smell on my nose. "That's it?" I was like "yeah you'll get more later" as I ran to the bathroom.

It's made it an uncomfortable zone finally, I don't know how to get over this mild trauma.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hear ya. Just make sure they're showered/soapy finger up the butt. For full on ass parade sessions, use the magic wand and get that hole clean!

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[–]onegirltwoballs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally laughed so hard at this... poo nose in a soft whisper

[–]1Original_Dankster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn't prep a woman properly for ass eating once (alcohol might have been involved). Got my face and tongue in there, and then within a couple days came down sicker than a dog. Fucking horrible experience. She wasn't a dirty whore either, a long term monogamous LTR. But there's all sorts of nasty bacteria down there. I second your advice to be dilligent in cleanliness, it should be adhered to.

[–]ACEDEFG 6 points7 points  (2 children)

Keep some disinfectant wipes on the bedside table or in a nearby drawer. Preferably discreetly (figure it out). Occasionally things do get dirty.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a dirty job, and we get to do it. lol

[–]EnlightenedViking 21 points22 points  (8 children)

You skipped over the cleanliness part.

Do some girls know how to clean properly and some just retarded? I've had some that are clearly trained and others where I get a stinky dick...the kind that smells mid thrust.

Do elaborate on the cleaning of dat ass

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 18 points19 points  (6 children)

Hmmm, skipped over? Well, for more detail: the wand thing linked to in the body, is truly a godsend for any true ass aficionado, and well worth the price. They're stainless steel and will last forever. The girl (or whoever is cleaning out their ass) inserts just an inch of it and "pushes out" while water is streamed inside, for reasons explained above. The rubber bulb enema nozzle things are lame by comparison. I often use a numbing lube for first timers too. It really helps and contrary to expectation, actually keeps my hard on hard so I can keep going longer. After a good rinse, her ass is as clean as any other hole and can be stretched and explored. If you really want to get anal about it (pun intended), you could find any Vicodin or related opiate pain pill and have her take one hours before. It will dry up her lower GI tract and make cleaning and sex a breeze, with no messiness ever.

[–]el_superbeastooo 5 points6 points  (3 children)

Hmm I've always read that numbing lube is a no-no as you could be doing damage without realizing it. I tried this cooling lube once but it just made my dick really cold and I couldn't get off.

The issue now is that the wife likes fingers in there while having regular sex but not my dick... says my dick feels too "hot" when I try. She has mentioned that her orgasm feels "different" and "better" when I fuck her while fingering her ass so I must be doing something right. Any ideas? Just more patience?

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess if you're slamming away deep or using dildos or pointy toys then yes, that would be risky. Otherwise it just numbs the sphincter a bit, tones down the extreme sensations. I recommend it.

[–]1Ill_mumble_that 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're not doing something that would cause damage normally, then the numbing point is moot. It helps a lot. Just remember numbing is not a hallpass for roughly ramming something up there as you wouldn't normally do that anyways.

[–]EnlightenedViking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice one- I was reading this in a restaurant where people were walking in behind me and didn't want to click a link about butthole blasting.

Good info thanks

[–]TitsAndWhiskey 10 points11 points  (3 children)

I have a similar routine myself and have led a few girls to the glory and pleasure of Cockinassistan.

Do what this guy says, and stop with the drunkenly ramming it in schtick. There's nothing more primal and satisfying than a girl enthusiastically begging you to fuck her ass. It's complete submission. If you don't understand that, you need to go read the Joy of Buttsex or something, because you're not living life to its fullest.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

-It's complete submission-

Perfectly stated.

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[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, you can wipe off a facial.

[–]Dookiestain_LaFlair 9 points10 points  (2 children)

Also, you gotta sniff her asshole to let her know you appreciate all of it. The smells and the tastes. You can tell a woman's entire life story from the taste of her asshole.

[–]frys180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can tell a woman's entire life story from the taste of her asshole. -Dookiestain_LaFlair

Nice name.

I too love the taste and smell of a woman's ass.

[–]NYCsOwn 41 points42 points  (23 children)

I'm not interested in anal sex.

but good on you for your efforts.

[–]cozgw 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bro are you gay or something? Wait...

[–]Scizzler -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Why did you read this post then? Liar!

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

You missed key steps on the comfort eroticism train for this which include analingus and starting to let the finger barely slide in and progress till you have 1 or more lubed fingers embedded while fucking.

To go from mild touch to dick in ass is not correct path. And yeah I know from experience.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was afraid my post was getting too long already. You're right. I may go edit...

[–]maiway 2 points3 points  (5 children)

It seems it is mostly a mental block and that girls can change their minds about receiving anal sex.

And, I'm genuinely curious, Do you receive anal sex, or think that it might be possible to change your mind about it?

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[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah, except that with straight guys (myself included) it's more socially scary than physically scary. It's really stupid but the "OMG, it feels good, I must be gay!" thing kicks in.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I've had the odd girl finger my ass while blowing me. The sensations are great but as a straight man it is hard to accept pleasure from my ass. It makes me feel uncomfortable. The right girl, at the right time? Maybe. A gazillion gay men can't be all wrong.

[–]maiway 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Yeah, but just remember your asshole has millions of nerve endings just like your cock head. Now just let me rub some circles on it for just a little bit . . . .

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show me the vag, show me the vag. Lol

[–]Shamlei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never thought someone would dare make a "science" post about anal. Well done.

[–]vltralord 2 points3 points  (2 children)

This is great. Any advice on how to get your girl to love giving head?

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but that's another post. ;-)

[–]2awalt_cupcake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you gotta make her love giving it as much as you love getting it

kinda like how your girl knows exactly what will get you to reply to your texts sooner or what gets you in the mood- she'll know what it is you prefer.

[–]Skicak 5 points6 points  (8 children)

My dick always hurts second day after anal. To the point i cant enjoy "normal" sex an i have too take day off. I use lube, take my time. Any tips? :D

Very solid post, thank you

[–]LordThunderbolt 61 points62 points  (1 child)

Maybe you should leave your poor cat's asshole alone. It's a tight fit.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 7 points8 points  (4 children)

Hmmm, hurts as in...? Are we talking a friction burn hurt, or a bent dick hurt, or hurts to pee 'cuz my urethra got some ass juice up in it and is now infected, hurt?

[–]TonyZ554 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I'm gonna go with got the life squeezed out of it and now it's sore hurt.

[–]Skicak 1 point2 points  (1 child)

As Tony said, sore hurt. Hurts like it got squeezed too hard, but i guess i dont have enough experience with it. I did anal only with one woman only 4 or 5 times because of the pain.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, there's no reason that your cock should hurt just because it went in an ass instead of a pussy so look for what you're doing different. Angle of attack? Bent dick? Is she clamping down on you at some point?

[–]1naMlliPdeR 16 points17 points  (17 children)

I've never been THAT into anal (mostly because it takes a bit of work to warm her up, having to clean my dick off afterwards if not using a condom, can't switch back to pussy without changing condom, etc.) so I only do it occasionally when I'm really in the mood for something different.

I will say though, out of all the girls I've ever done anal with, only one has ever stopped me (and only to ask me to take it slow), the rest just didn't resist and let it happen.

If you have to do "convincing", days of preparing, etc. etc. then you're not Alpha enough in her eyes. Your sexual and social dynamic with the girl you're fucking should ALWAYS be similar to "omg... I can't believe he's fucking me". And in this mindset, there are no rules, she's just happy to be along for the ride.

So while I'm sure this is one way to get anal sex, I don't think it's a great guide due to the mindset that is being advocated here. The "make her wear a buttplug" etc. is all great if it's what turns you on. But if you have to do all these steps just for her to "let you" do something to her, your frame is not good enough.

[–]do_it_or_leave 3 points4 points  (10 children)

I understand it as a way to make his girl really into it so he can have it everytime he wants.

[–]1naMlliPdeR -2 points-1 points  (9 children)

And why would he ever not have it any time he wants? Girl doing whatever you want, whenever you want, is not about technique during sex. It's about how she perceives you.

If your'e Brad Pitt, you'll get anything you want, any time you want in bed, even if you're horrible in bed. Because that's who you are. You get this you want, because you're awesome.

This thread makes it all about her pleasure. You have to make sex about your pleasure. She'll do anything you want, because you're awesome already.

And if you're not awesome enough that she holds nothing back during sex, the road to improvement is NOT getting better at sex. It's fixing your SMV.

[–]Rhunta 16 points17 points  (8 children)

You will need an unreachable smv to let all women do what everything you want with them in bed.

You are seriously following theory instead of the real world.

[–]1naMlliPdeR 4 points5 points  (5 children)

Completely disagree. I can't give you a perfect statistic, but just a guess, I'd say at least a third of all girls I've slept with have used to exact words "you can do whatever you want with me" during sex.

And I'm pretty sure anyone on these boards who has a high sex count and high SMV will also share this experience.

Apart from saying that, pretty much every girl I sleep with doesn't show any resistance. That's because the girls I sleep with are used to be taking control of the first day, of where we go, of everything. Start off taking control, also counts for bedroom.

Now, maybe you've yet to experience these things, maybe you have, but to say "unreachable smv" is just plain wrong. I'm very high SMV compared to most men, but then again, I don't compare myself with "most men" because most men are losers.

[–]EdvardMunch 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Some women have anxiety about you seeing their shit come out of their shit hole.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most do. Hence the cleaning part. If you remove the "oh my god, my shit is on his dick" terror, they'll be happy to give up dat ass.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with your general idea here but again...this post was for guys trying to get a plate or LTR to actually want ass sex, not put up with it because they're afraid they'll lose you if they don't.

[–]Rhunta 1 point2 points  (1 child)

With all women I ment all women of this world. Not all women you sleep with.

[–]1naMlliPdeR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, then instead of all women I sleep with, lets say "most women worth sleeping with".

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Bullshit. First is not about all women. Stop fucking thinking like a girl. It's about the girls you will fuck. Nobody wants to fuck all the girls, well maybe some desperate fuck out there would, but not us. If she sees you as worthy of fucking her, as in higher smv than you, she will take it in her ass.

I am bottom of the top 20% and it's not due to being tall, handsome, wealthy, or ripped. While I have lots of muscle (bench is 400+) due to my height and barrel chest I am not what anyone would call hot. Think power lifter rather than body builder. I have a rather high bf%, close to 20, so my definition is in some places and not others.

If I want to fuck her ass, and usually I will within the first few times we fuck to assert dominance of her entire body, they submit. I've had older girls close to my age offer any hole I want, but the younger ones often have more resistance. Still, they want to do everything for me, and it never requires the amount of effort and prep OP puts into it. She wants to please me, and they will do what they're told.

I go slow on first entry, and will pull back out when she starts to freak out. Tell her to relax, this is happening. Back in, but not all the way in, just enough that I don't feel pressure on the tip, and wait for her to relax and get used to it. Slow long thrusts, until she gets into it, then I'll put her face down, her legs together between mine, hand on the back of her head, usually her arms held behind her or stretched above her head, and I proceed to fuck her just as hard as I would fuck her pussy. Only the smallest girls can't do it easily, they often bleed from piv so if it's too small, I'll only fuck her ass on occasion.

If I can do it, shit anyone with frame can too.

[–]Rhunta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This wasn't about the way that I think. I commented because of the guy saying that if your high smv you can do everything to every women.

Even if you are brad pitt, not every women will let you do what you want. I want to make him understand that he should not live in a fantasy world.

If a girl isn't up for something. Too bad for her, another will.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get your point but this post was not about "Top that bitch and show her how alpha you are". It was about getting a plate or LTR who was not into anal, to want it.

I have a big cock and it's the rare gal who can just take it up the ass without prep.


[–]Swelfie 1 point2 points  (2 children)

It could be endowment also. Not trying to brag or anything, but I've had girls who were experienced in anal need me to do a lot of prep/training. One of them asked ME for anal, but then couldn't handle it.

[–]1naMlliPdeR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And there's nothing wrong with prepping. I personally always prep them a with fingers beforehand.

Probably an advantage for small guys out there, they can go right in I'd assume.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditto. I'm blessed in that dept. Makes deepthroat and anal a training thing though.

[–]aDrunkenWhaler 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Agreed. Bad advice. It's working for OP because the women already want to do it, but it's a poor way to 'convince' the ones that don't.

[–]1naMlliPdeR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Plus, most of the 18 to 22 year old girls grew up in an environment of anal sex. Most of their boyfriends in highschool wanted anal sex. It's nothing new for them. They've all done it.

[–]WildmanThaGod 3 points4 points  (5 children)

Eating ass >>> anything ever

[–]FlamingCucumber 14 points15 points  (1 child)

As long as you know what her diet is like so when you eat her ass you know what kind of wine to pair it with

[–]LordThunderbolt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It goes with a nice brown mostly.

[–]Donald_Fuck 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Eating ass it the most cuck move. Jokes my tongue wants that balloon knot more than the poon.

[–]WildmanThaGod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your tongue should want the whole thing, not just one section...

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's a clean, pretty, hot chick ass...I must agree.

[–]Icanus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I developed this methodes myself years ago, took me YEARS with my LTR, but I guarantee it works ;)
Some old GF only took a few weeks, depends on the girl.

[–]perthbitch 1 point2 points  (2 children)

oh man, that swiss navy lube cleaner gave me REALLLLLLY bad thrush. Do not use that.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Sorry to hear that! Their silicone lube works a charm though. Personally for cleaning toys, I just use Dr. Bronner's soap.

Wait...I hope you didn't use that toy cleaner inside yourself did you???

[–]RedWinter88 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Personally not a big fan of it. Honesty the easiest way into it is probably just getting her a set of plugs.

It's like working out... First time you work out your super sore and can't move. So if you work your way up to it, it gets easier. I can stick it in her butt with no lube at this point... Just make sure she cleans dat booty out

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, cleanliness is next to godliness.

[–]oVerde 1 point2 points  (1 child)

sums pretty much what i do too, and happens so natural now, i don't even have to think about it

[–]vincenjo 1 point2 points  (2 children)

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[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Always learning.

[–]worktillyouburk 1 point2 points  (1 child)

is it me or theirs easier to get into ass holes? ive had some girls just rub a bit and its in, other spend 20 mins prep time just to get the head in, if at all.

same this about the pleasure aspect, had girls actually love it the first time, while others get off too fast and want me to take it out before i can even finish.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're all different on that score. Some want it all in NOW. Some take a lot of work.

[–]FlutiePibbles 1 point2 points  (6 children)

So serious question. I've been doing this, and my girl is down, we've used a butt plug while we've had sex and she's enjoyed it a lot, but no matter how hard we try we can't get my dick in there. Don't get be wrong I don't have a massive dick but it's approaching 8". How do I stretch it out more without hurting her

[–]TitsAndWhiskey 3 points4 points  (2 children)

When he says go slow, it means go slow. It's not length you have to worry about, it's thickness. Press the head of your cock against her chocolate starfish and increase pressure slowly and gently. When it starts to become uncomfortable for her, hold it there. Keep the pressure but don't apply more. If you've used enough lube, it'll pop in once she relaxes a bit. Keep it there. Repeat the same process for getting it all in. It's a game of inches. Once she's ready to take the fucking, you'll know it. Don't try to pound away and blow out her o-ring that first time. Make love to that asshole. After a couple times like that, you're golden and she can take a pounding.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Couldn't have said it better myself. Thank you chiming in with usable additional information instead of these fukwads commenting with "Dude, you're a beta pussy. just jam it in like i do"

[–]TitsAndWhiskey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's my service to the community

[–]adam_varg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happens, with some girls its easier, sometimes it takes months to learn how to relax and stretch.

There is no enough lube or enough aroused when it comes to anal. So next time use more lube and longer prep. Make her climax few times, ideally blackout. Then put buttplug in and fuck/finger her to climax again, ideally multiple times. Then try cock again.

Position is important too. Basically unless she is experienced first penetration (on that given day) should be in position where she had her knees pulled to her shoulders.

Look up anal training posts on r / bdsmcommunity .

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am presently having the same issue with a hot puppygirl. She "wants to be my asswhore so badly" but we are at the same stage as you. There are two sphincter "rings". Her outer ring is all open and happy with fingers, plug insertion, cock head (I have a thick one) probing, etc. When I go past the inner ring she always gets "the grimage" and we stop. Sigh...here's what I do. Get all warmed up with whatever turns you both on. Have her wear the plug while all the other fooling around is happening. Then, since she's game and you both want to make progress, have her work on her self with her fingers, pulling and stretching, then using a small dildo for awhile. Usually the problems arise when it's you doing the inserting. If she's doing it she can relax and push at her own pace. I'll be using fingers to gently pull on my girl's inner ring while coaxing her to relax and give it to me, this weekend. We'll get there. She's a tiny thing so...

Also work on her/have her do it, until she can take something bigger than your cock. Then try with your cock. Also try doggy, or on her back with knees pulled up, or on her side with one knee pulled up.

[–]hawk4433 1 point2 points  (1 child)

lol. All these steps for anal? Its not rocket science bro. Pull her into a dark alley? What are we in a movie. Eat a bitches ass, finger her ass, and if she trusts or likes you enough she will let you fuck her in the ass. Never try to logically expalin something like anal.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Move along hawk. This post was not written for you. There are many inexperienced guys here that want this kind of information.

Your comment could just as easily be applied to anything. "Want to fuck the hottest bitch in da club? Just hit her up with Hey girl, show her high SMV, escalate, dominate, procreate. Done."

Yah, really helpful.

[–]NueveReinas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saved for future reference:3

Your doing a good job here man, much appreciated it

[–]vincenjo 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Np, thanks for the great post. Funny tho, that post just got me auto banned from commenting in TRP sub and idky..

[–]wreckmaster45 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Nothing makes me cringe more than hearing buddies that just "went for it and it pissed them off". I've told them its 50/50 mental/physical game. The key is isn't to sell them on what you want to do, it's to mentally make them want what you're selling.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)


The douchebags here don't get it...and never will.

[–]aDrunkenWhaler 2 points3 points  (2 children)

You're overdoing it for sure, to the point that it's actually bad advice. Never ask, and never say 'I want to fuck that ass' unless you already did it. And don't bring butt plugs and play around making fucking wet circles, 'da fuck is that? You're just giving her multiple reasons to think it over and possibly not want to try it.

Apply the Patrice o'neil method, fuck her doggy and stick a finger in her ass. Gently and sneaky of course, but key is to make her go with the flow, 'it just happened', and to enjoy it, and NOT rationalize about it beforehand. Spank her and pull her hair, flip her around and dominate her. Next time do the same, and third bring fucking lube and you're good to go. Same simple method for her to try any possible fetish your dirty mind can come up with.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Good points but as for over doing it...nah. Girls love butt plugs, and they love the wet circles build up. My post is about my experiences. Yours may be completely different. No need to tell me mine are wrong.

[–]aDrunkenWhaler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree they love it, but the games and teasing comes after you fuck them at least once. First time should 'just happen'. You lower your chances if they get to think it over. Similar to getting them in bed for the first time, or trying anything sexually new for that matter.

[–]chances_are_ur_a_fag 5 points6 points  (5 children)

you're over thinking it too much. 8 out of 10 take it in the ass even if they tell you they don't. don't ask and just put it in (literally works almost like clockwork for me). lubricate with lots of spit, play with fingers and then fuck it. this is for in the moment, on the spot type of situation. of course you can do everything you described if you want to turn the whole thing into fun anal training with a plate or ltr, but for a broad you get from a party or a club, I'm getting straight to it.

note: I mostly fuck foreign girls so that may have something to do with anal friendly attitude.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 19 points20 points  (3 children)

This is the way that has always worked for me...to get my women to want ass sex from me. 1000 ways to skin a cat.

[–]chances_are_ur_a_fag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000 ways to skin that ass

[–]TitsAndWhiskey 2 points3 points  (1 child)

This is a good guide for girls who have had NOTHING BUT BAD anal experiences. Kind of like how to turn around an abused puppy. Do you need all this for an experienced anal slut? Hell no. I fucked a couple girls in the ass with no prep and a quick spit. Because they're already at the stage you're trying to get THIS kind of girl to.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely correct, my good man. Carry on...

[–]vorverk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I could actually see the girl get uneasy with all this drama around her asshole.
Just lube, put the finger in followed by dick a while later. If she stops you, proceed fucking pussy and try later again.

[–]LordThunderbolt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I remember one time I smashed my ex's backdoor in so fucking hard. She was a real trooper. It was dark purple for days. Good times.

[–]we_need_more_lumber 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Must you use condoms for anal when it's that clean?

[–]1aguy01 8 points9 points  (2 children)

The whole point is no condom and cum inside

[–]eye_drive 1 points1 points [recovered]

Yes hmm interesting, I see.

Question: Why do you guys like sticking your dick in poo-holes?

[–]Ifuckinglovepron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why wouldn't you?

Why only settle for 2/3?

[–]ecosci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lick around the ass but use a feather dipped in sex oil to engage the anus use some fingering too, then go to penetrate slowly change speeds as needed,i be damn if i use my tongue a clean asshole is a dirty asshole no matter what.

[–]okkyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to say, I don't have much an issue getting anal from my plates. As an act of sheer domination, I like to push for it on the first fuck, I'd say I get it about 1/2 times. I won't say I'm always fucking HB8's and 9's, but once I get her into bed my chances of getting her ass if I want it are strong.

If she sees you as an Alpha, you'll have access to her holes, it will even turn her on that you were so dominate that you broke through her sexual "boundaries" and took what you wanted. If you're having to do all this prep work, you should focus on your SMV

[–]Brazilianimproving 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Start slipping it in a half inch and back, an inch and back."

On my experience, removing the penis is not a good idea. I've been told by women the cock slipping out of the entrance, with the muscle "closing", feels like they are shitting, which makes them uncomfortable. And there's also the matter that 90% of the pain seems to be the process of the cock sliding in opening the esphincter, which is like the first inch of the asshole, the rest being pretty "loose", so if your entire cock is well lubed once you are past opening the esphincter it won't cause much more pain.

Therefore I feel the best approach is slowly putting it in and slowly going deeper and deeper without going back, until it is entirely inside, once you went to the full depth, you can start fucking. Usually after being inside and pumping it slowly for a couple minutes you can bang that ass full speed and strength.

Those are my 2 cents

[–]telenoobies -2 points-1 points  (5 children)

How do u get over the fact that ur dick and mouth is covered with shit...? Seems pretty gross to me...

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 5 points6 points  (4 children)

You didn't read the post did you? Cleanliness comes first. No shit anywhere...at all. Ever. Read the post.

[–]telenoobies 1 point2 points  (3 children)

bro u are insert ur penis into the place where SHIT exits. Theres no way u can make sure its 100% shit stain free...

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Nothing is ever 100% certain unless it's already happened. You can be 90%+ clean though, and that's fine with me. To each own.

[–]telenoobies -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Would u suck ur own dick after inserting into her anus? Or would u kiss her after she gives u a rim job? Or, would u lick ur own finger after putting it into her anus?

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Funny thing is that women get turned on by the idea of a guy "just shoving it in without asking". But without proper guidance that usually backfires.

I've heard and seen women research anal in order to get Chad to commit. Preferably you'd want to have your plates practice themselves.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I give them a plug and start remote ass training right after plating them. Give them instructions i.e. "Insert your plug for 1 hour (the 1st day) and go about your day. 2nd day, 2 hours and send me a pic skirt up, plug in, in two different locations." etc. They love that stuff.

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[–]adam_varg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need. Get you smv high enough, especially look wise. The be dominant during sex.

If you still dont get bj on demand you havent upped your smv or arent dominant enough (or come off as mr domlydom tryhard)

[–]KartagoPill 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Red Pill still is in its prime, glad to hear another assman.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, there's plenty of detractors commenting. Nice to hear I'm not wasting TRP time.

[–]antariusz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last 6 girls I've fucked in the ass, I used nothing more than spit as lube, and did pretty much the exact opposite advice of this entire guide.

I've fucked them all multiple times within the past month. They keep coming back for more.

No need to coddle them. Fuck them like you're a caveman, and they are your bitch.

This advice is terrible.