Summary A simple yet obvious truth in order to fully understand the red pill and what life is all about.
Body I used to be addicted to TRP. I've beta backslided. I've re-read books, and red pill material, and gone backwards and forwards.
I've noticed whether you are "Red Pill" or not, there is one fundamental truth that is more important then anything else.
I apologize if this is obvious to all novices, and so on. But I just want to make it clear to the others who read this sub like me. I'm a 29 year old guy FYI.
The best version of yourself = A better life
Now this sounds cliche, but I mean this. If you decide to become the best version of you, I swear to god life becomes easier, smoother, more fun, and more manageable.
We get so distracted by so much, including the internet, and this sub to realize its all about becoming the best version of YOU. Its not about shaming women, or eachother for the way that they are. But merely being the best version and man you can be.
Now ok, I'll try break it down even simpler:
If you're fitter, smarter, wiser, calmer, healthier, a snappier dresser, have a better car, more independent, wealthier, etc etc I guarantee you'll live a better life.
I honestly understand that this sub can be addictive. But I've only signed up to reddit recently, but watched from afar for over 2 years.
Its no coincidence my girlfriend is responding to me much better being calmer, and cooler then being too aggressive and being an average frustrated chump.
Its no coincidence when I really train harder in the gym, I stand taller, I look and feel better. Same goes with diet. The cleaner I eat (majority of the time) the better I feel.
Same goes for work. I was lucky to have mentors like my uncles who have become huge successes with wise investments, that without thinking it I'm going down the same route. Whereas my father in his late 50s still works his ass for to only make ends meat, has aged worse, put on a tonne of weight, and is evidently far from happy at all.
One of my biggest faults is comparing myself to everyone. When I was a virgin, I used to always used to think who else was and wasnt. When I was unemployed, I always compared. Etc etc etc. Second I stopped doing that, I realized I'm never going to look like Brad Pitt. Or whoever is an adonis of a man. But if i become the best version of me. I'll be happy. Because I'd rather be the best me, then the best imitator of someone else.
We are never told that. Self help is seen as a joke subject. In fact my "beta" brother thinks self help and self improvement is a joke. He cries whilst putting on a tonne of weight, dating a 3/10 chick fatter then him, and quitting his high paying job for half his salary to be a teacher. Because its a "safe job."
Regardless, its just about being the best version of yourself. Think about it, is the best version of yourself constantly shaming feminists, fat people, etc etc? No. The best version is so focused on their own goals and life that they accept thats the way women and people are. Gone are the days I help people who can't help themselves.
It's like a revelation for me, to realize that reading less TRP, spending less time wasting your life, and ultimately getting angry, sad and frustrated over the most mundane things is more toxic then cigarrettes and alcohol.
I just want to go back to the "best version." The best version doesn't mean a walkover. A best version of a man is assertive. I may be calmer with my gf but I take no shit. We fuck all the time, we do pretty much whatever I want in terms of going out, and shes caring and good to me. However when she winds me up, I just laugh as I know that doing opposite will only be the worst thing to do. And I don't wish to be the worst, I wish to be the best.
I still have so long to go. Financial freedom, my ideal weight/body, and various other bucket lists and travelling goals I have are all things I cannot wait to achieve. The best doesnt happen overnight. But educate yourself not just in the red pill, and fitness etc but how to become the best version of yourself.
Study or work harder, focus on your health, read more, fucking smile! Youre alive! Life is good. Stop hating on things that really don't matter.
I swear to you, becoming the best version of yourself will earn you more love, respect, pussy, money then you'll ever get doing anything else.