When most men wake up to the reality of the world around them, the first thing they experience is a deep and vile rage. Anger at women, society, the world, but, most of all, themselves. We know this to be the anger phase, and it's an accepted first step toward changing your life and living it how you want to.
The most typical manifestation of the anger phase is revenge fantasies. Interestingly, they are one of the few modes of thinking that seem to carry over after a Red Pill awakening, which is why on a typical day the front page is littered with BP examples of women being women and betas being betas. Men start to imagine scenarios in which women who rejected them and didn't want them get their comeuppance when they hit the wall and all the attractive men start to notice them less and less. These hopes keep a lot of men going; the visual of having that girl's jaw drop the first time she sees you after a year of heavy lifting and grooming built is a holy grail that many men chase after. Sure, it's been known to happen for some, but for most, it just doesn't. And this is why you should cast revenge fantasies aside as quickly as your personal development allows you to.
If you ask anyone who's been lifting for a significant period of time, they'll tell you that little compares to busting a rage-fueled PR on your deadlifts. It truly is one of the few treasures of this mortal coil. And when you direct your anger towards self-improvement and using it to get more women and get over your oneitis, you are directing anger as it was mean to be. But what happens when you don't?
When you allow your anger to simmer within you without directing it towards anything meaningful, you inevitably fall into the trap of revenge fantasies. You project this image in your mind of something,somehow, happening to the woman who rejected you that will make her realise what she lost in you and turn around beg to worship your dick. You then pump and dump her, or, if you're really sadistic, refuse to acknowledge her existence. It probably won't happen, and dwelling on the off-chance that it will simply slows down your own progress. The fact is, for every guy who went and managed to sleep with that girl he'd been pining for after nine months of monk mode--there are at least a dozen cases of the same women who drove men to start on their RP journey simply not giving a damn that he's changed. The first impression sticks, which is why I recommend that you use this place to get over your one-itis, rather than try to get your oneitis.
As much as we all get a nice dose of schadenfreude whenever some hag hits the wall and realises how difficult life can be, the fact of the matter is that this does absolutely nothing for you. So as much as you might lurk the relationship and dating subs, hoping to catch a glimpse of some woman getting got by her age/abusive boyfriend or whatever, you need to realise that this is an absolute waste of both your time and your anger. Her not being able to find a guy to marry her isn't going to help you get laid tonight, is it? Her misery may be fun to watch, but it doesn't add anything to your happiness or your improvement one bit. Hoping that this same misfortune befalls the woman you were obsessed with is some scorned-woman level of silliness and childishness.
Ditch the revenge fantasies.;Use your anger for what matters most:Improvement.