Helped a fellow guy dump his GF and made it her idea. I feel great! (self.TheRedPill)

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[–]Doulich 240 points241 points  (11 children)

people like to ignore that learning how to be a social person isn't just in the pursuit of pussy. Getting those social connections can really help you out in life.

[–]lukan2 15 points16 points  (2 children)

People on this subreddit also seem unaware that life doesn't revolve around sex, and having friends and being happy is far more important than "plowing pussy" or whatever.

[–]SetConsumes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, just be happy, as happiness leads to complacency, and the happy make for excellent sheep.

[–]PissedPajamas 24 points25 points  (6 children)

Social mastery is understanding how the sexes work. If you spend some time analyzing men and women, you can have them eating out of your hand in no time.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (5 children)

It really is amazing how little males and females understand about each other. Since reading rational male and other works of art I've predicted how so many conflicts would play out in relationships. Blows peoples minds.

[–]zander15 10 points10 points [recovered]

Can you recommend some books? I struggle reading other people's emotions at times and would like to improve on it.

[–]SetConsumes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Body language is a big key to reading people. What Every Body is Saying is a good start.

But, real world experience and practice is invaluable too. Keep talking to women and figuring out how they'll react and why.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna second /u/setconsumes suggestion. That's exactly what I was gonna say. Excellent book and it's IMMEDIATELY noticeable. It's insane how often people display discomfort.

It will also help you appear highly confident.

[–]Momo_dollar 106 points107 points  (5 children)

Fucking within 24 hours? She's more of a hustler than gold digger.

[–][deleted] 33 points34 points  (2 children)

he needs to concentrate on his situation

How altruistic, she did it for him. Some women are really delusional, because I'm pretty sure a prt of her actually believes that!

[–]Kaquin 27 points28 points  (1 child)

And 9 months later she's gonna pop up out of nowhere asking him if his situation has been handled.

[–]1jb_trp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Translation: She wants to know if her personal ATM has been refilled.

[–]HughGlass1780 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ain't no body got no time for no audit!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gold digging is not easy, it's an extreme sport, the competition if fierce, and it's a race against the clock.

She was on a winning track, now she has to jump into a new track and the good ones are taken, either she finds a new track, or she needs to steal one.

Not easy.

And we - bastards TRP - sit back and watch in amusement.

[–][deleted] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

bro that was a class act. seriously well done

[–]thestruggled 94 points94 points [recovered]

While she still cares for him, he needs to concentrate on his situation

Its amazing really. The way she coincidentally dumps him after his financial issues, and then casually leaves a back door for her to enter when he's all better because "she still cares for him."

[–]mikesteane 27 points28 points  (1 child)

She still cares for him because he might bounce back in 9 months.

[–]AshyBoneVR4 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She still cares for him because he might bounce back in 9 months.

This was the first thing I thought. Most gold diggers know how to leave a secret passage way into gold mines when they're leaving.

[–]1v1mebruh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

very good insight, didnt realize that at first. very sharp

[–]solidsnork 57 points58 points  (6 children)

Now time to turn it into a business. It's like an Anti-PUA.

[–]Train33 20 points21 points  (3 children)

You might be on to something.

[–]MoneyStatusLooks 7 points7 points [recovered]

Yeah, never know when you need to weasal out of a shitty LTR.

I'd pay for that kind of on the spot genius thinking.

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[–]sd4c 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, because some beta behaviors will disgust her so much she'll be furious at you for tricking her into sleeping with you. You have to tread lightly

[–]5t3fan0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

duude this is a smart idea!

[–]playingwithfyre 30 points31 points  (0 children)


[–][deleted] 60 points61 points  (6 children)

And the name on the Starbucks cup? Albert Einstein.

[–]imbeciI 23 points24 points  (4 children)

That coffee cost him about $3.50

[–]NoThisIsntMeISwear 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Thats when i noticed my ltr was eighty stories tall and a crestacean from the paleolithic era.

[–]meninistMD 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she still care for him but he needs to concentrate on his situation?? that bitch is planing on coming back.

[–]CommonSenseCitizen 50 points51 points  (15 children)

this story sounds completely made up. So many bizarre coincidences. OP comes off sounding like Will Smith in Hitch.

[–]Magnum256[🍰] 21 points22 points  (7 children)

Why do people assume that because a story had coincidences, that it's made up? Coincidences are what make a story in the first place. Are you going to tell stories where nothing happens?

I went to Starbucks for my coffee. I left Starbucks and drove to work. The end.

I went to the gym. I lifted weights. I drove home. The end.

I had dinner with my girlfriend. The food was good. Then I fell asleep. The end.

These aren't good stories, because no bizarre coincidences happened.

[–]CommonSenseCitizen -3 points-2 points  (6 children)

"Just so happens to overhear these guys in starbucks"

"these guys just decided to listen to the stranger OP's advice."

"A week later they coincidentally meet up and the breakup went without a hitch just like OP predicted"

Maybe it actually happened like that. It's very doubtful. Life isn't a sitcom.

[–]Jakedagreat 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Overhearing people at a Starbucks is not hard, probably harder not to overhear conversations.

I would listen to any stranger in public that approached me in public just out of intrigue.

Many successful people have strong routines later in life and get coffee on a regular timely basis.

I find the story to be very plausible

[–]CommonSenseCitizen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only things I find strange are all of the happy little coincidences and how everything works out perfectly in the end like an episode of an ABC sitcom.

24 hours later the girl breaks up with the banker? That is not how it goes down in real life. A real gold digger would stick around for atleast a few weeks as she plans her next move/tries to bleed out whatever is left. A real golddigger doesn't leave after a phonecall. She'd dig around for at least a few weeks to see what she can get.

I'm not saying this never happened. I'm just saying there are lots of happy little coincidences in it.

[–]bornredd 0 points1 point  (3 children)


Overhears, offers unsolicited advice.

Advice is followed, because it appears to be a perfect solution to problem.

Dude goes to the same coffee shop, likely because he frequents it. Runs into same guy, who probably ALSO frequents it. That's not weird - I go to the same taco shop on the same day of the week at approximately the same time EVERY WEEK barring some unexpected appointment.

Advice worked without a hitch? Maybe because it was good?

[–]CommonSenseCitizen 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Advice worked without a hitch? Maybe because it was good?


Realistically, the chick would not leave broke dude the same day she hears he's broke. True golddiggers stick around a bit longer than that, to eek whatever she can out before ditching him completely. Sure it could have all worked out exactly how OP described it. It still reads like a sitcom. That's all I'm saying. Call me a momma's basement dwelling neckbeard all you want to if it helps you feel good about yourself.

I'm not saying the story couldn't have happened as OP described. It just seems a bit too neat in my opinion.

Believe it or not, some people on the redpill do indeed just make shit up. I'm not saying OP did. It's just the way the story reads.

[–]bornredd -1 points0 points  (1 child)

I'm not saying he didn't. I'm saying that a man who was already talking about breaking up with his girlfriend could probably play act well enough that she bails in 24 hours.

It isn't difficult. Bring up money troubles, go all whiney bitch (beta is the term here), and watch her pack her shit and go.

[–]CommonSenseCitizen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying that anything in the story sounds completely unrealistic.

I am saying that the way the story is written out, it reads like a sitcom, an episode of According to Jim or something with a proper beginning middle and end then everything works out and they all coincidentally meet up a week later and share a round of joe together in laughter.

Yes sometimes life works just like that. In this case maybe it very well did. Or maybe it didn't.

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[–]CommonSenseCitizen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

relax kid. I am not a 'snarky neckbeard'. I find it an odd coincidence this OP conveniently overhears this conversation, conveniently steps in, the stranger decides to follow the advice it and then a week later they all happen to meet up again and everything went according to plan. Sounds like an episode of Two Broke Girls. Not real life.

I asked if she expected dinner this weekend at a 5 star place with candles and wine? He said of course she does.

Who talks like that? People in movies.

Maybe the story is true. It's not really unbelievable that this happened, just the way it is written there are a lot of happy little coincidences. It reads like a sitcom. That is all I'm saying.

[–]OSaraiva 2 points3 points  (1 child)

So what, it is a cool story anyways. Enjoy it instead of trying to be some internet FBI.

[–]CommonSenseCitizen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be "internet FBI. The story sounds incredibly contrived, like something you'd see on a TV sitcom like how I met your mother.

Maybe it actually happened as conveniently as OP described it but I have my doubts, which I am happy to express :)

[–]AichaAichaPassinMeBy 35 points36 points  (2 children)

You write redpill fanfiction AND you call coffee "joe". Ugh.

[–]1jb_trp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While there's a good chance it's fake, I enjoyed it. Plus, the general principle works really well. If you know a woman's motivation, you can use it to manipulate her behavior...

[–]suske127 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And on top of helping yourself in life, you could help a fellow man in his, as OP did. Glad you spoke up man. Awesome idea to test the woman and save the guy in question

[–]suchhound 43 points44 points  (9 children)

Pure bullshit

People learn to spot a troll before whipping your dicks out


[–]turn30left 25 points26 points  (0 children)

But I'm already mid stroke. What do I do? Can I finish?

[–]1-drukpa-kunley- 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Actually, no. This is the exact reason why I'm here in TRP. I quit my job and 48 hours later I was dumped. Never underestimate the ruthlessness of a woman.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (4 children)

A one minute conversation in a line at Starbucks is pure bullshit trolling? You need to get out more buddy.

[–]suchhound -4 points-3 points  (3 children)

You need to get out more buddy.

Nah not really

But you do need to learn to spot a troll

This post is more fake than Trumps hair

[–]199639 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So you're saying it's real?

[–]d0lphinsex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is more fake than Trumps hair

So... real?

[–]Youbetripping 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, if you're too socially retarded to have a brief blokes conversation in a Starbucks, don't call bullshit on those who aren't.

[–]probpoopin 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Did everyone stand up and then start slow clapping too?

[–]Conceited-Monkey 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Wow. That was brilliant advice. I was stuck in a line a few years ago, and one guy was complaining to another how his fiance was demanding an engagement ring costing at least four month's salary, which was a bit of a demand as he was already saddled down with her car payments and the mortgage payments on the place they had bought. Even though it was pre-red pill for me, I chimed in "If this is how she treats you now, what will marriage be like?"

He told me to fuck off.

[–]yummyluckycharms 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some people can't be saved no matter what you do.

I've been using a variation of the above line for years (problems at work with downsizing) - plates always ghost within the week. Always - without fail. Using a woman's hypergamous nature to accomplish your own goals is probably one of the best things a man can learn.

Side benefit: often those plates that drop will ping you later on if they see or hear that things are still going good with you. This means they start back on the treadmill competing for your affections at a higher point in the cycle vs. if they just stayed with you.

[–]2Overkillengine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While this seems suspiciously made up, it still stands as an illustration of methodology for exiting a non productive relationship in a manner least likely to cause undue damage.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another man saved. Great work!

[–]Borsao66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Law 35: Master the Art of Timing

Never seem to be in a hurry—hurrying betrays a lack of control over yourself, and over time. Always seem patient, as if you know that everything will come to you eventually. Become a detective of the right moment; sniff out the spirit of the times, the trends that will carry you to power. Learn to stand back when the time is not yet ripe, and to strike fiercely when it has reached fruition.

[–]PissedPajamas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You did that man a service, well done OP

And then they say TRP doesn't save lives

[–]Beegsi_ 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Me and my red pill friends are hi-fiving each other after reading this. We are celebration like it's the July 4th in Independence day. We are celebrating like we are them people of Zion in the Matrix once they defeated the computers.

[–]joseph_fuzzco_Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coincidentally, the finale of the 1812 Overture was playing through my headphones as I read this.

[–]AshyBoneVR4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only concern is that the guy will take her back within a couple of months.

[–]Mackland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's genius man, good on you for looking out for a fellow bro, especially one you had never met before. That guy will be telling the story of how a stranger helped him dodge a bullet for years to come. I'd buy you a beer if I knew you!

[–]Stythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a good story and I'm glad it worked out. All that gies throygh my heaf is: My friend's got a girlfriend and he hates that bitch. He tells me every day. He says "man I really gotta lose my chick" in the worst kind of way.

[–]Banned_For_Opinion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These cunts really have no feelings...

[–]stoicismexpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did a really good thing dude, that guy's life has just begun.

[–]truthyego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You my friend, are a lion among men. I can't praise your act of heroism enough

[–]RedEyesBlueShades 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You freaking legend. Very well done!!!

Now if only a guy I know didn't get his gold digging gf pregnant, I'd suggest the same... But I'll sure use it on someone else!

[–]Smigg_e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO that is hilarious though.

[–]bittr_n_swt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow she gave him 24 hours? Why am I even surprised...

[–]rp_newdawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope this is real because it's fucking brilliant

[–]notadaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man of the year right here.

[–]blackfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake or not this story is hilarious. 24 hours is quite the turn around, sounds like homey was dating a prostitute.

[–]coolasice007 -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Not impressed...there's no self growth here from facing your fear and telling her you're leaving and walking away...it's a cop out

[–]LordThunderbolt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't face a biased court system. If she decides to place a false abuse charge on you, you're fucked.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 -1 points0 points  (6 children)

As nice as this is, honestly the guy should have brutally dumped her. No mercy.

[–]sd4c 1 point2 points  (5 children)

Not necessarily. It sounds like she had some dirt on him. Also, maybe he really wanted to get rid of her. Dumping a chick often just makes her hotter for you and sometimes so much she's unable to leave you alone

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (4 children)

It only makes her hotter for you because the man for once doesn't have to bear the burden of rejection. This is literally the only time women face the possibility of being turned down. Which is why they act so fucking awful during a break up.

[–]sd4c 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Consistently awful. Either during being dumped, shortly after when it hit home, or even few days later when they start to believe you're not just soft nexting them. They can get so angry they say things they regret, lie, vandalize, assault, triangulate you (contacting your friends or family), or take desperate lengths to make you jealous.

What's interesting is it doesn't matter much why they're being dumped. Even if you have a perfectly legitimate reason, such as them cheating on you, they will turn it around and decide to be angry at YOU for not accepting their excuses (I was drunk, we had an argument earlier that day and "I thought it was over", you haven't been treating me well, etc). They'd rather blame you for not accepting their blatant mistake, than accept fault and apologize (complete with reparations- a simple "I'm sorry" is bullshit and an accepting it is an opportunity to do it again).

Women are just not worth it. Patrice O'Neil used to say this all the time on the Black Phillip Show: "It's never worth it"

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I once dated this girl who broke it off with me, I resumed my life. One day after the break up she came to check 'how I was doing'. Replied I was doing fine, kept the conversation casual. She then completely exploded two days later accusing me of already dating other women. After that episode she erupted when I wouldn't take her back.

Like you said, no matter the reason why you decide to cut them off. They will rage at you because your stoicism implies that they weren't that great after all. They want you to cry at home feeling horrible at the loss of them. Modern day bitches developed an ego and men fucking hate them. Compare this to my 87 year old Grandma, who's nothing short of an angel and the perfect example of what a woman should aspire to be- zero ego. She's nothing but supportive for her family. That's what brings her joy. Modern women get joy from having their ego's validated.

Women in the west are fucked up in fact. They are on such a big power trip that any man who doesn't take their shit crashes their mile high party. I can guarantee you that nothing devastates a woman more than devaluing her to her face.

Ironically they are the cruelest in their own break ups and give zero shits about how you feel. If you'd even explode for a second they put a restraining order on you. Turn this situation around and the police would laugh in your face and tell you to 'be happy' you got a womans attention.

Absolute madness I tell you

[–]sd4c 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Yeah and let's remember that a restraining order, of delivered to you at work, can have serious effects on your career. Also, in some jurisdictions, the police must confiscate any firearms you might legally own. Considering that a handgun can be quite small, this means they get to search your house top-to-bottom.

Social standing does not matter, there was recently a judge who was falsely accused, and charged, with domestic abuse, until video evidence exonerated him.

I see all of this as just raising the risks of dating women. Even your FWBs could pull this shit on a guy. If you care about anything: your career, your 401k, staying out of jail- it's not really "safe" to date any woman, short of wearing a bodycam. Having kids? An even more risky proposition. But I think this is the way they like it!

This way, the IDGAF guys are undeterred. And forward-thinking guy, are basically screwed unless they're so wealthy they can make things happen. Any normal white-collar guy, who gets married and has a kid or two, is at her mercy as soon as they're born- unless he's willing to walk away from the whole thing. His kids, and either his money or his freedom.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically any plugged in guy is F U C K E D. It's just a matter of time until they step on a land mine.

Bless this sub.

[–]iLLprincipLeS -5 points-5 points [recovered]

You are a real human bean and a a real hero. This is the male version of the feminist SJW. This has nothing to do with TRP.

Don't you neckbeards have some DOTA match to watch on twitch?

[–]Evileddie13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's pretty bad ass, yo. You won some life points on that one.