Field ReportGirl sends me nudes last week, gets engaged this week. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Ivetakenthepill

AWALT Gentleman.

I found this funny more than anything. I met this chick in March, it didn't take long to realize she was textbook batshit crazy. She exemplified everything discussed on this forum to a T. She went on to me about how innocent and vanilla she is while I knew for a fact she was fucking or had fucked THREE of my acquaintances.

So at first I tried to get her to hang out (Probably just to get laid...I was fresh out of a messed up relationship, slightly before finding TRP), and she threw her shit tests and made it more of a challenge than she was worth. Eventually I just ignored her and started fucking other girls.

After a month or so she starts texting me and I hung out with her once. She reeked of desperation for a BB. She was trying to hold my hand in public, she was asking who I was texting etc. I would have liked to fuck her but I predicted an onslaught of drama and bullshit, enough so that it turned me off by the end of the night. I could also tell my beta traits were flashing enough that she was priming me for BB not for a fuck. No thanks.

So I again ignored her. For the few months after until now I found some regular plates and was satisfied. She would text, I would be polite, but, of course, the more I showed disinterest the more she wanted on my cock.

She was planning a trip to Europe a few weeks ago, kept insisting that we hang out. We didn't. A week and a half ago she sends me a full on nude out of the blue. "I want your opinion on a picture, it's not too vanilla is it?"

Just today she posts pictures from Europe of her and a man she never mentioned, and they're engaged. I'm laughing.

Lessons Learned

  • Don't get married, this poor guy is about to get his life destroyed by a crazy whore.
  • Trust your gut. I'm proud of myself that I avoided sticking my dick in this one.
  • Obligatory, AWALT

[–][deleted] 160 points161 points  (9 children)

Having a very dysfunctional extended family, I've witnessed how unpredictable women can get since I was 10. You've got to expect women to act like that because its one of the many examples of how women have always behaved..

..as long as they could get away with it

[–]1Yakatonker 51 points52 points  (8 children)

To add to this at prime puberty girls who are hb8+ don't tend to hide their bullshit if you're beta like I was in my teens. Those girls thrash all the social boundaries as far and as wide throwing as much drama as humanly possible to wield control over the men in their families. My father a pure on conservative beta was house trained within a few months, even my mother was spouting bullshit excuses for her. I was the only one who resisted her obvious bullshit and it felt at times as if I was going to fight the bitch to the fucking death. It's all power gaming, they're amoral to the core and if a man is not the almighty wall of a frame he too will become another house bitch.

[–]The__Tren__Train 42 points43 points  (5 children)

Should have plated her tbh

[–]DocWattz 21 points22 points  (1 child)

Am I missing something or did you just tell dude he should have fucked his sister?

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why not? That's super-alpha right there, a frame so strong not even societal taboo can break it.

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[–]lonewolf1294 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"fight the bitch to the fucking death." Lmfao your not the only one dude

[–]TheUniverseis2D 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exact same thing happened with my sister.

[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang 55 points56 points  (7 children)

Very nice, that's almost as stark as one of those girls that lay it on thick. You're the best, I love your cock so so much, omg no man made me feel like that ever!

Then you accidentally find out she's got a BF back home and that's the exact same shit she texts to him too, to keep his gut feelings about her whorish depravity in check.

Bitches are hilarious.

[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro 68 points69 points  (5 children)

You're the best,

I know.

I love your cock so so much,

I see.

omg no man made me feel like that ever!

You're welcum.

Guys... VALIDATION ADDICTION IS THE REAL SHIT. Bitches be stroking your ego. In case, act like it did not happen. Thank me later.

[–]lopsidedlucky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Glad you said that. Shit is real it can creep up on you and when it's over you're addicted and don't even realize what you're addicted to.

[–]Bulk_king11 1 point2 points  (1 child)

My brother how you been holdin up?

[–]profswagzard 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Last LTR of mine literally said the same statements, word for word. Tooooo funny. Guarantee she was texting the same words to her "ex boyfriend" who was back in her home country. Live and learn, thanks for the reminder - female manipulation is real

[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But communication is optional indeed.

Communicate by dick and by swole body, not by texts.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that they whilst lying to all men they simultaneously believe that they themselves are in fact the best and greatest pussy all those men have had.

[–]brokensinc 83 points84 points  (13 children)

Having been with a few engaged women was how I first learned how pathetic some people can be. Fucking her while she has a giant rock on her finger

[–]mrp_1844 39 points40 points  (2 children)

She has to hurry, time is running out.

[–]surfjihad 21 points22 points  (1 child)

It's not running out. She will inevitably continue this base behavior after the nuptials.

[–]JLCitadel 44 points45 points  (6 children)

Ive been reading trp for a while now. (I was introduced to reddit by an ex saying "look how crazy these guys on trp are" Every once in a while i think "i know everything" but i know i dont and i keep checking in on occasion.

I dont know what "phase" im in and i became familiar with awalt in highschool when girls constantly cheated on boyfriends or dumped them for af.

No phrase has ever hit me in the gut like this one, its honestly fucking disgusting. The inability for so many whores to have a ... I suppose anger phase still. Not going to rant, thanks for sharing.

[–]RedWinter88 10 points11 points  (4 children)

Sounds like anger phase to me. You're gonna be pretty pissed thinking "how the fuck can you girls do that?" Then you'll realize it's just the way they are

[–]JLCitadel 8 points9 points  (3 children)

This is the first time I'm articulating my thoughts on any rp subject matter beyond a superficial level, so consider this more of an inner monologue presenting my current perspective rather than a rebuttal.

I believe AWALT in the general sense, that most woman are inclined to behave a certain way at a fundamental level, and beyond that, the societal architecture they are familiar with in addition to the personal upbringing she receives determine the degree to which she represents AWALT.

Humans are inclined to be both polygamous and monogamous, driven by the need for attention and care but also genetic survival.

I whole heartedly agree that there is no Unicorn, however what constitutes one for one person changes to the next, there is an ideal combination of traits that when combined present itself to the individual who considers that specific trait combination ideal.

People with low sense of self perception have a lower bar for traits they consider ideal. This has led to the rise of modern social justice, where everyone (in particular westerners) has been brought up to believer their version of idea is the 'most righteous'.

I'd consider a woman who is physically fit, takes care of her hygiene (all encompassing; makeup, smile, hair etc.), dresses well, can have an intelligent discussion, has a goal or some aspirations, and friends / hobbies, the ability to remain faithful as long as I remain alpha in my actions, mindset, and as a result the way i support her, as well as having the ability to reproduce healthy children (no history of major genetic problems either) then she meets the basic requirements for an authentic LTR.

Some people on here would consider the above to be a unicorn, however thats what I consider the basis for a real woman that I'd be able to connect with and be genuinely interested in beyond a quick fuck on the regular.

Now am I the kind of man who attracts these woman in swarms? No. I get just enough to float some where between abundance and praising them like a unicorn, this is something I'm working on by lowering my standards to achieve abundance while i raise my SMV indirectly by focusing on creating a more healthy way of life that aligns with my goals and aspirations.

In conclusion, AWALT is a general rule of thumb, all woman have a tendency to be this way, to branch swing, however as long as you remain independent, sustain an abundance mentality, and work towards your aspirations and a healthy lifestyle that is conducive of your goals, you are indirectly constantly raising your perceived SMV and that in turn prolongs those tendencies from transforming from: subconscious thoughts -> subconscious action -> conscious thought -> conscious action, how long? Well no one knows. Thats what TRP is to me, an environment for discourse that serves as a reminder to these fundamental ideas, that if you do not keep improving who you are, someone else will come along and take what is yours.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NIcely thought out and worded Citadel!

-if you do not keep improving who you are, someone else will come along and take what is yours.-

ouch, but true. It's 2016 but it's still a jungle out there.

[–]RedWinter88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep you got it! It's like a reminder that you can't let your emotions blind you, and it's also why past behaviors matter. Sure she may never cheat on your or leave you, but you can't be naive and assume it's not a possibility. Small reminders of reality.

[–]DisgruntledWolverine 1 points1 points [recovered]

I've totally done that.... If I ever do it again I am getting a dick pick with her grasping the shaft with the ring showing....

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way back adultery was punishable by death, even in more recent times you would be socially ostracized for it. Nowadays women are applauded for it.

It has honestly, never as easy to fuck around as it is now (for women).

[–][deleted] 188 points189 points  (38 children)

Man. I had an encounter with "past me" and had a Chance to be Chad. This reminds me of that.

So my bud is getting married. Good girl, from my hometown and if any chick "was not like that" I'd say her. So he asks if I can swing by and get an old highschool friend of his on my way since she lived in my state on the way. No problem.

Another friend says she texted him nudes when i mention her. says I should try and smash. Considering it.

So I meet her. She's very fuckable. says she's engaged and her fiancé is heading home soon. No big. Just here to pick you up for a friend.

Meet the guy. He's essentially me back when I was uber beta. I like the guy. We geek out on guild wars 2 and other nerdy shit. I feel like I owe it to past me to be the big bro I never had.

So we drive and in the 3 hour trip she tells me their life story. He's a good Christian guy and a virgin. He saved her from her whorish ways. Yada yada.

So we share a hotel room. I don't know why, but she decides to come out of shower in a towel. Still talking to me like shit is normal. I tell myself I will not fuck past Me over by fucking his fiancé. I love this dude like he's my own blood now. Good dude with a bright future.

Lights go out and the chick is still talking to me. I know what's up. I know it's all too easy to pound her out. But I don't do it. I won't do it. Not to this guy that reminds me so much if myself.

The next day in playing Xbox after the wedding at my buds. Sonic. I like sonic a lot. She asks for a try and I share. But bitch hogs the game. In actually getting mad.

She chooses to play the game in a doggy style position and starts to "stretch" every so often. She's wearing daisy Dukes and let's just say that my married friend excused himself to fuck his wife again at that time. But no, I won't do this. Not to this dude who I met and is legit a good guy (from what I see). But this girl is literally wiggling her ass in my face and I can almost smell her twat. Pretty sure she skipped panties that day.

The drive back she cools off now that she sees this isn't gonna happen. Tells me to not tell her fiancé we shared a hotel. No problem.

She offers to let me spend the night. Her fiancé has work early and I can head home after. Asks her hubby if it's cool for me to stay. Dude is totally on board and wants to generally be nice to a traveler.

I decline and go home that same night.


Friends new wife. Well, she told me if her husband ever fucks up she will be looking for me. And that maybe we should have met first.

Ugh. If I were an uncaring asshole id be such a good Chad. But I can't do that to any dude I consider a bro. Fuck my morals.

[–]2555555555 175 points176 points  (24 children)

The worst part is you're likely delaying the inevitable. Friend's new wife will find a chad and screw him. The fact that you didn't is nice, but realistically won't do anything in the long run.

[–][deleted] 88 points89 points  (22 children)


They divorced shortly after. Poor guy. I really tried for him too. She told me she feels "she wasnt good enough" (bullshit) and I told her not to feel that way cause to him she is more than great.

When I say I saw myself in this guy, I meant it. I was basically his wingman the entire time I was with her and I did my best to make sure she married him and at least fucked him a few times.

I did what I could. At least he isn't a virgin anymore.

[–]PillDragon 45 points46 points  (14 children)

WHY would you do your best to make sure she married him?!

[–][deleted] 88 points89 points  (13 children)

Cause dude was super beta and some rando dude telling him "the truth" wouldn't change the outcome.

He was a virgin because he was super Christian and would not have sex before marriage.

If she left him he would be depressed and still a virgin. Now, he's just depressed.

I enjoy getting other guys laid. It makes me happy knowing that some guy is balls deep thanks to my efforts. So I'm a bit selfish like that.

But yeah, it was happening regardless. At least now he got his dick wet.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 38 points39 points  (7 children)

Take this as a lesson for next time. Friends don't let friends get married. You can help your bro dip his wick without signing him up for a potential financial rape situation.

Your heart is in the right place, but when the smoke clears the consequences can weigh more heavily more than your intentions.

[–][deleted] 37 points38 points  (5 children)

I knew the guy for all of 5 minutes. The reason I liked him is because he reminded me of me when I was younger and i could tell he was a good dude.

Do you really think a random stranger can roll up and convince a man not to marry a girl he's engaged to?

This isn't a lifelong bud I'm talking about. Just a decent guy I didnt want to be the one to screw over.

[–]That_Deaf_Guy 12 points13 points  (1 child)

I fully understand he's a stranger but..

I love this dude like he's my own blood now. Good dude with a bright future.

[–]Gawernator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn't get that either. He knew him for a few minutes yet loves him as a brother? So.... something is off or he's Jesus.

[–]Stythe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have friends I've known since childhood who I couldn't convince to not get married. Something like that really only happens due to personal introspection.

I tell them what I think because they know I do me, but whether they want to listen or not is up to them.

For what it's worth, everyone here likes to give people shit for not just taking pussy because she'll give it out, but that's not the point. The point is you do what you think is right and if that's how you felt in that moment, then you did good by you.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been there, and in similar situations where the guy was orbiting the bitch as she used him. Close friends in orbit around girls they'll never fuck, I come in, go hands off which makes her want me more. I fuck them, the friend realizes how easy it was for me which means she isn't into him for sex, only resources. I make it a point to fuck the bitch every time a bro has oneitis.

I've only lost one friend over it, and that's because he blamed me for all the guys she was fucking. Shit, she cheated with ten guys in my unit alone, and four in other units on base, that I know of. Fucked her mom too. Lol.

The bitch is going to cheat with someone, why not with me? I'll ditch her after, he learns she was a gold digging whore and doesn't get divorce raped or waste money and time on a slut for everyone but him. Bros before hos means exactly that. You're doing him a favor by fucking that cheating cunt.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn't a lifelong bud I'm talking about. Just a decent guy I didnt want to be the one to screw over.

Every bitch who will ever flash her snatch at you is "seeing a guy" in some vague sense. If you refuse to fuck a bitch who's with a guy already, then you are committing yourself to a life of celibacy.

When you fuck a bitch, some other guy is missing out because he wasn't bold enough to take her and make her his. It is impossible to have an active sex life and not be actively doing things that would make other guys upset if they found out.

My suggestion is to save your empathy for the men you KNOW, the ones who have earned a place in your circle of bros and allies. If you check yourself just because you're afraid of humiliating a guy then you'll spend the rest of your life as everyone's favourite celibate.

[–]NeckbeardVirgin69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't seem to realize that some people are 100% bent on getting married. Either they'll get married or they'll never be serious with any woman. Then they learn their lesson and change. But you can't prevent it.

It's like telling the slut not to bang the bad boys in high school.

[–]0kool74 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he was super Christian and would not have sex before marriage

He needs to put the brakes on dat bullshit or he's gonna just have more problems with women

[–]Conceited-Monkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you acted commendable in light of the circumstances. Hopefully, the friend takes this as a learning opportunity.

[–]1Your_Coke_Dealer -1 points0 points  (2 children)

It makes me happy knowing that some guy is balls deep thanks to my efforts. So I'm a bit selfish like that.

If you weren't redpilled, you'd literally have a cuckolding fetish with a mentality like that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's scary to think about.

But I don't like sharing. More like, if I can get another guy laid by a girl that isn't mine, I say why not.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's scary to think about.

But I don't like sharing. More like, if I can get another guy laid by a girl that isn't mine, I say why not.

[–]sirfuckboysupreme 6 points7 points  (5 children)

'She'll cheat either way, so it might as well be you'. Forget where I read that, but true words.

[–]PonFarJarJar 18 points18 points [recovered]

Also 'She'll cheat either way, it might as well be someone else'. Still true words. You don't have to take every bit of poon offered. It's not always wise, I've learned from experience that being that desperate and not in control of yourself can lead to bad consequences.

[–]sirfuckboysupreme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely agree. Depends on the situation and circumstances.

[–]LordThunderbolt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The consequences will never be the same.

[–]1whatsazipper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not good reasoning if you want to maintain connections with the men involved, who are more likely to be useful. You can find pussy anywhere, but decent, useful men are harder to come by so don't destroy your reputation.

[–]Earl_Harbinger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Keep that male rationalization hamster spinning...

[–]0kool74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guess I should have continued reading before responding. so now you've introduced him to the red pill right? Right?? Don't tell me you didn't tell him about her throwing herself at you lol

[–]1Your_Coke_Dealer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure he's delaying the inevitable, but he's also being a conscientious objector. He knows people have to do bad things, but he declined to be among them. A pussy? Yeah by amoral TRP standards. But sometimes it's okay to allow morals to surpass pride

[–]DiarrheaHelmet 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You have a great heart! It wouldn't have mattered in the end if you did it or someone else, but you exercised your integrity and sense of self discipline in the face of a woman in heat. Not easy. Pat yourself on the back. There is an inner reward that happens when you go against your desire and stick to your compass. Don't know if I'd do the same in that situation. Kudos.

I almost feel like that should be a new notch count. Turning something away that is really tempting for a dignified or goal oriented reason gets a notch. Should be something hard too for a notch, like refusing sex or sums of money for something shit etc, etc. It's always easy to find someone who is down to get railed, but to conquer yourself is something else. If we could learn to do this all the time we'd be at a new level of frame.

[–]Train33 13 points14 points  (0 children)

From one internet stranger to another I respect your and your morals. Keep fighting the good fight ✊.

[–]0kool74 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's a good Christian guy and a virgin. He saved her from her whorish ways

ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!! Spit my coffee out on that one bro. Stupid mother fucker that guy is. Well, one day probably in the not too distant future you'll be able to introduce him to the red pill.

[–]Mckallidon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Should have banged her. Better you than a bigger asshole. You would have done him a favor. Maybe his balls would have dropped.

[–]DisgruntledWolverine 3 points3 points [recovered]

Should have smashed, fuck everyone else and their feelings except yourself

[–]omega_dawg93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. my brother says, "turn some pussy down...you die some pussy short. worry abt the consequences AFTER you fuck, esp if there's a chance you'll get accused."

[–]CraziAces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what i take from TRP, boundaries and morals. I don't know you Sir, but you have earn my respect.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would've just fucked her. While you may have lost a friendship with this guy, you would have prevented him from losing 10 x more down the line when he eventually gets fucked over.

I had "friends" do shit like this in my beta days.. Honestly don't hate them for it. It was a good life lesson.

[–]SkaTSee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sucks bro. You know if it's not you, it's gonna be some other chad

[–]stawek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You didn't do him any favour.

You should have done whatever you pleased and not worry about the inevitable. She is a cheater, she will cheat, if not with you then with someone else. Better she do it now and dump him, than after they are married.

[–]powerwinch 21 points22 points  (12 children)

I hate these posts. I know awalt but damn it stings to actually learn more instances of it

[–]NoWhiteLight 18 points19 points  (9 children)

I'm smashing a neighbor girl in my apartment complex. She just moved back in with her mom after her baby daddy finally broke. We smashed while her bf was on a cruise in the gulf. Last Saturday she had her bf over with a box truck he rented to finish the last of the furniture, she introduced themselves to me and my homie who were outside working on our motorcycles, about to take a trip to Frys. I invited them both to poker that night. Only she showed up. She blew my homie in the bathroom.

Now there's an instance.

[–]letsgetrandy 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Now there's an instance.

Or here's another one.

Two nights ago, my buddy and I are at a bar. A hot chick comes in and sits alone. The local douche immediately move on her and after getting shot down, he cashed out and goes home.

So we move down to sit by her and strike up some conversation. After a few drinks we invite her back to his place. Within 30 seconds she's naked and we're all headed to the bedroom. We tag team her, dp her, and basically porno fuck her for hours on end.

Then we go out to the balcony for a cigarette and she says, "Thanks guys, I really needed that. My husband just isn't doing it for me anymore."

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

We smashed while her bf was on a cruise in the gulf.

And I guarantee you that the girl was probably the one who accused the guy of cheating during the cruise. While the guy probably didn't think his girlfriend did anything.

[–]NoWhiteLight 5 points6 points  (2 children)

nearly there.. If only it were that. She was at my apt drunk because, and get this, he hadn't messaged her on FB from the cruise ship for a week. She noticed him online the night before, and he still hadn't just said "hi, I'm enjoying my vacation."

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

HAHA. I love how women rationalize their cheating because "the guy didn't contact me." I mean I might be worried if I had a girlfriend who didn't message me at all that week, but that wouldn't cause me to cheat on her.

[–]evoblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"BF hasn't checked in, guess I better go get plowed by Chad."

[–]powerwinch 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I don't even feel bad for the guy, he decided to date a single mom

[–]CraziAces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After everything in my life, I have come to the conclusion of this: Why marry if there hoes willing to do it for free.....

[–]bullseyed723 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Knew a girl from/in college, was a few years younger than me, had a long term bf. They broke up, not sure if because of her slutting around or if she started slutting around because they broke up. Anyway, hadn't seen her for a while, buddy is going to bang this chick, I'm wingman, turns out buddy's chick's friend is this girl.

I basically blew her off because she had been in my younger brother's circle of friends. Told her she was basically too young/immature for me. So she's basically throwing herself at me all the time. Eventually she talks about how she has a bf, but she's a nurse and he's a firefighter so they rarely have time together and claims he has anger problems. Whenever we're out together she's worried about his friends seeing us or something.

Eventually I was seeing a girl from out of town. Out of town girl goes thru my phone and finds out about in town girl and tries to mark territory/yell at her/whatever. Both kinda pissed at me. Get rid of out of town chick. Chick with bf snapchatting me lingerie pics and shit. Turns out she had them done as a gift because bf is fiance and they're a wedding present for him. I got them first though, lulz.

Anyway, was getting too crazy/drama for me so I bail. She gets married. Sexts me from time to time. Sounds like they're going to get divorced. I'm considering taking another swing. Then...

Surprise, she's prego. Not the husband. Not me. Her husband's best friend. Divorce ongoing, she has kid, they get married after when she's still prego fat.

I guess my point here is don't mess with crazy chicks.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do realize that this is a low value slut. Like a beta she can't help herself. This ain't some prize and this girl isn't somehow above you or other women.

[–]DiarrheaHelmet 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Fucking help this guy. Help him out of his shitty life. Poor idiot.

[–][deleted] 54 points55 points  (9 children)

Do not be a social accessory to a woman. The most you will be is a tool and you will be treated as such.

I had an ex once. She branch swung to an army guy. So I'm sitting in the car with her, knowing she's with him and she says she got married that day. She wanted to make an arrangement for when he was gone on deployment. Not married 3 hours and she's setting up side dick.

I laughed in her face.

[–]pantsoffire 14 points15 points  (2 children)

That's why they love Military Men.

[–]0kool74 5 points6 points  (1 child)

oh yeah I remember that shit from my Navy days..........the good ol' West Pac Widows. Could always spot those hoes in tha club

[–]pantsoffire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really is a great set up for females. Full time work, sympathy and attention from the public, away for work months at a time, etc. Not so great for the fellas.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Are you a pathological liar?

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (3 children)

What answer would help you sleep better?

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (2 children)

People go to wedding receptions and fuck and drink right after they get married. They don't sit in a car with their ex. Unrealistic situation.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

You...know where you are posting, yes? Did you not know what a woman is capable of? Oh wait. Did this hit a nerve?

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

TRP is about realism. The situation of your story is unrealistic. I'm not even arguing what she would or wouldn't do in that situation.

[–][deleted] 47 points48 points  (7 children)

Be a bro and send him the pics, with time stamp. You'll save him a world of hurt

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (1 child)

Or get a crazy person showing up to his house with a gun at 2 in the morning. You never know.. Probably best to just stay out of it and cut contact completely.

[–]rqstr2016 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no need to send the pic with his own number. just buy a new SIM for 2 bucks and send the picture anonimously.

[–]its-iceman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For real, do this. He probably has no idea and he'll find his way here shortly.

[–]Ivetakenthepill[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Once again this girl is batshit, and she'll be back in town soon. Even if I sent the pic anonymously, she knows who she sent it to. I have no time to deal with whatever can of shitstorm that would open.

[–]_vend7u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree, every man for himself. If he has any self respect he wouldn't put himself in that position. BB can get dangerous.

If you want, you could anonymously send the dude a link to TRP with sidebar links.

Up to you.

[–]1empatheticapathetic 2 points3 points  (1 child)

They could even annul the marriage.

[–]Flash-Lightning 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It just goes to show you that some woman are more than capable to put on a show just to have their 'big day' and be treated like a queen only at the expense of another person's life.

I hope he finds out and I hope he finds TRP.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (8 children)

Send that dude the nude she sent you with a time stamp. Might (probably not) snap him into reality.

[–]ColdIceZero 32 points32 points [recovered]

I'm willing to bet that it would only serve to have the fiance get pissed at OP.

"A word to a wise man will be sufficient, but a fool will hate you for your wisdom."

[–]Ivetakenthepill[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)


Also she'll be back in town soon and I'd rather her leave me alone then feel the wrath of outing her as a whore.

[–]evoblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Bible laying down the truth...

[–]CasperTFG_808 1 point2 points  (2 children)

If you did, it should be done anonymously. He does not know this guy, has no stake in that BBs future just a nice thing to do. Anonymous because that shit will make it back to the hens and after they all start clucking he will lose any chance with her friends or others in their hen house.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

If this shit doesn't rattle you enough to get hen pecked by stupid sluts, then you haven't experience the full potential of women. I (almost) know what it's like to be that guy. If someone would have reached out to me earlier and shown me the reality of this situation, I would have been extremely thankful. This is, of course, just my reaction.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone would have reached out to me earlier and shown me the reality of this situation, I would have been extremely thankful.

Now that you're RP, hindsight is 20/20.


"A word to a wise man will be sufficient, but a fool will hate you for your wisdom."

As my mother used to say, "Let a sucker be a sucker."

[–]sir_wankalot_here -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why ? He pays for the cow, you get the milk.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (7 children)

Once at a party, a "friend" of mine threw a party and decided it was a great way for the group of like 10 dudes 4 girls to watch his sex-tape. This guy is overweight, pale, etc basically he has no redeeming features. But he buys overpriced clothing with money he doesnt have, so that he can lie to chicks about being a doctor. So he narrates his own sextape to us and on camera he has the random chick taking off her engagement ring saying "omg what am I doing", at that point the girls were saying "you have to send this to the fiance, do you know who he is?". The slut on tape married the other fella 3 weeks after. I have to say though, I pity neither party, when all is rotten, its no use caring for anything.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (6 children)

Wait, who is the other fella? Did the chick who was engaged have sex with your friend?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Her fiance, i.e not my friend who she was cheating with.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Damn. It's amazes me that your fat "friend" fucked a woman who was engaged at the time, then showed the sex tape to people. Must have been weird to watch.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I completely agree, its a weird moral landscape these days, people will laugh and applaud a dude for filming something that would ruin a persons life, but if you say something like "i think we should lower taxes" you are worse than Hitler.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since we're all chiming in with bullshit stories, here's mine:

Plates some Ho who was obviously crazy in the head but I dated her anyway, for a while I almost changed my mind. She was on her best behavior and nearly tricked me. Then came some wannabe player who she had been with prior to me. He nailed her and gloated all proudly about fucking some guys girl. Like that would finally solidify his hustler status or something. She showed me the texts during an angry fight. Little did he know that I was just spinning her.

Couple months later after hard nexting the Ho I run into the new girlfriend of said guy. We start talking and find out that while he had been fucking my plate she was already dating him. Chick gets incredibly angry and decides to revenge fuck with me. It was only convenient that I happened to be her type (her words). We end up fucking for hours on end, she wanted to make sure she made enough damage. Even took some pictures and clips.

After promising her I wouldn't tell her boyfriend I quickly showed her out and send all the footage the next morning. The guy cried like a little baby and angrily made threats about beating me up if he ever got his hands on me.

I laughed out loud and send him a typical laconian reply


Till this day he hasn't confronted me despite living in the same neighborhood, probably because he knows me and my friends would beat the shit out of him if he tried.

tl;dr - No one wins, everyone loses except for the Alpha. Both girls were sluts cheating vice versa. And the beta who was so proud about nailing another guys plate ended up breaking frame when his own Ho got fucked.

Just like always, people are all talk, no action.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Yep or should you dare to stop illegal immigration that is taking OUR jobs, they call you Hitler.

[–]evoblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to Hilliary's America.

[–]6000000_DOLLAR_DICK 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Make a fake facebook account, friend him and send him the pic.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel sorry for the kid they give birth to.

[–]Lord-Kek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do that guy a favour and forward those pics to him. He doesn't deserve what she's going to do to him.

[–]victor_knight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chicks were doing this even 20 years ago, when the Internet as we know it today was young and color images actually used quite a bit of bandwidth and could take over 10 minutes to download. It was so incredibly easy to get women to send you naked pictures of themselves over the Internet. Yes, you read that right. Grown women... not gullible children.

[–]DJGammaRabbit 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Can't even get past the first paragraph. Had enough of the world for today.

[–]2awalt_cupcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holding hands is BB behavior? Sounds extreme to me. Holding hands is a good way to establish kino.

[–]lepies_pegao 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut.....

This should be second after lifting. I can't count how many times I've been saved by just trusting my gut.

[–]GoozePaul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yo fuck that, send him pics with a time stamp.

[–]LordThunderbolt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you gonna post those nudes or nah?

[–]JourneymanTRP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some year after I dropped my nutjob ex, she texted me trying to get me to visit or to move out near her (she moved back with family a couple states away)

A week later she moved across the country and was engaged to the virgin dude she used to talk to online. I assume she was trying anything she could before settling for the lowest BB option she had.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get almost every married right if you just arrange ok-ish some legal contracts with a lawyer.

[–]andersonenvy -3 points-2 points  (11 children)

Not sure about "don't get married" but definitely always trust your gut

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points  (4 children)

No logical reason at all to ever marry.

Everything people think they get from marriage, you can have without. Basically, all you get is maybe a tax break. Maybe...

Meanwhile you risk a lot.

You can be in a loving relationship forever and never marry. As long as you lick the right stuff, you can make your girl or kids beneficiaries too.

No reason to ever marry.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I was talking with some buddies and the topic of marriage came up and all they can think of for why to get married is tax breaks. The thing is that people overlook the fact that if you are a man and get divorced, the amount in tax breaks you get, could literally be wiped out from having to pay alimony, lawyer fees, etc.

Not to mention how it affects you emotionally and mentally.

[–]adam_varg 1 point2 points  (2 children)

In europe:

awfully high inheritence tax

hospital visits

no mandatory snitching (accessory to crime otherwise)

decision making while unconscious

kids being hazed for parents not being married by teacher and peers

red flag for social services, if you live non comformist life (aka tv, liberal, etc) you dont want that while having kids

higher loan and mortage interests

double pay for parking tax

not able to share guns

and list goes on and on

All that while no alimonies, 50:50 split only if she worked after paternal vacation (up to 3-4 years) or have like 5 kids. To sum it up, if you wanna have kids you marry here.

[–]eatandpoopmachine 18 points19 points  (5 children)

Why would you get married? There is no upside if you're man. Its one of the worst moves you can make, setting yourself up for cuckoldery and divorce rape. You might as well burn half (or more than half) of your money and save yourself the time and energy.

[–]Ivetakenthepill[S] 27 points28 points  (4 children)

Even if you never read any advice on TRP, the statistics say >50% of couples get divorced. So, with only that knowledge that's like walking up to a roulette table and placing HALF of your entire assets on black. Except if you win, you don't double your investment you just get to stay at the table for longer, and keep betting, until you lose or die. That's marriage.

[–]marvellousaccounts 15 points16 points  (1 child)

Also even if you try to leave the table there is a 50% exit fee

[–]StanleyUnwin 8 points9 points  (1 child)

and that 50% figure is only about marriages that stay together. There is nothing about how many people are unhappy in marriages but for certain reasons have not divorced.

[–]TheUniverseis2D 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The 50% of people who are married are just people who aren't divorced yet.