Intro: Any man that has gone through a dry spell knows the pain of not having his sexual needs met. If someone were to hold our head underwater the only thing we would be able to think about would be getting that next breath of air, when we're starved for sex we can feel just as desperate and narrow minded. Overindulging on sex can leave us feeling just as empty.
Eat to live, not Live to Eat: Just as a man can be a glutton in regards to what he eats, a man can also be a glutton in terms of his sexual appetite. Gluttons don't consume to satisfy a need, they consume to fill a hole within themselves. No amount of hamburgers or hoes can ever fill that void.
Don't let women be your source of validation: If we've been living without something for so long, it's normal to feel like our life has been lacking something. Unfortunately basing our self worth of something as shallow as how many women we fuck (or don't) leaves us searching for approval and acceptance we will never attain. True approval and acceptance can only come from within, along with basing our self worth internally vs externally. If you've committed your worth to fucking women then you can no longer have sex with women because you want to; Once you've attached your self worth to your sexual interactions with a woman, you must have sex with her to satisfy your Ego, not your Libido.
Enjoy what women have to offer, but don't make them your purpose: A man has so much to offer then the women he is dating at the moment. Centering one's life around women can only reduce a man to a shallow, empty facade. Bring women into your life, enjoy them, but understand you have a greater purpose in life then putting your meat stick in her sock puppet. You are capable of that and so much more. To settle for just banging tons of hoes would be a waste of your beautiful, blossoming potential.
Thanks for the read and good luck on your journey brothers.