Red Pill Example"I Left The Love Of My Life I Thought I Could Do Better. Now I'm Alone And Childless At 42" (self.TheRedPill)

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TLDR: Old hamster who hit the wall years ago just figured out she crashed and burned.

Basicly this sour barren old lady dumped her husband who she was building a future with. Her reasons for breaking up with him included she was making more money as an editor at a magazine while he had the audacity to do blue collar man work.

So the guy becomes a Police officer. (I don't know about the UK but in the US that is a career to be proud of) So now her guy has a good enough job that doesn't embarrass her in front of her friends from the crucially important magazine world.

But that wasn't enough for her he was okay but she couldn't show him off to her friends or spoil herself with his money so she dumped him. She also threw in a complaint about him working to much at the new job I'm sure he worked his ass off to get. His initial intention to become

[–]Thewelshpill 398 points399 points  (123 children)

but isn't she a liberated and empowered modern women free from the shackles of being a mother/wife????

Jeez feminism, you gots sum splainin' to do

[–]vagbutters 114 points115 points  (119 children)

But.. but... muh Jewish Hollywood romance fantasies told me that she is supposed to live happily ever after guys!! Those sexist misogynists didn't marry her even though she's so beautiful at 40 right guys??!

[–]reddymcwoody 82 points83 points  (118 children)

Now she can work for the jewish shareholders till death instead of raising kids at home. Win win goyim.

[–]kjdflkas 39 points39 points [recovered]

What's up with TRP and the Jews? I see this come up a lot, seems pretty ridiculous to me.

[–]BobbyDropTableUsers 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of morons who think that everything is one way or another. That's the real beta mentality: "if I am able to label things, then I can just prescribe how the world works according to those labels"

This is the underlying cause of betas thinking that if they check boxes off a list they will become successful in their careers or with women. They have the world worked out into categories and reality has to submit to their explanation of reality.

With people's reactions to Jews they see a successful group and think there must be something they do or an agenda they have that lets them achieve their goals. This parallels how betas look at alphas. Then they try to find categories they fit into to start explaining the phenomena.

It works well to ignore all the exceptions to the rules, Jews that don't fit the blue pill group. Freud is hated by feminists. Try to tell one of them they have "penis envy." Or try to bring up anything by Ayn Rand regarding personal responsibilities for ones own situation in life.

There are plenty of Jews who go hand in hand with RP thought. Neo-conservativism was started by a Jew- Irving Kristol. The problem is that there are people who think they understand what TRP is about, but they keep blaming the state of the world on groups like gays, feminists, Jews, socialists, Hollywood, the media, etc. The Jews that don't fit the narrative of the "liberal-minded social justice pain in the ass" get disregarded as if they aren't really Jewish. The fact is that their ideas are also very influenced by Judaism, they just took a different perspective. There is no grand "Jewish Agenda".

Those who truly understand what TRP is about, know that blaming anything on any external forces is typical Blue Pill thought. You always have the option to not give a fuck and just live your life on your terms.

When people bring up hateful uninformed rhetoric, they automatically expose themselves as RP posers who think they got the concept but didn't. So close yet so far away.

[–]iLLprincipLeS 106 points106 points [recovered]

Hollywood? Nothing. Just nepotism, a simple fact.

Feminism? Nothing. Just jealousy, a simple fact.

They are simple merchants selling nice blue pills. Can't blame them, there is a constant demand in western society for those things. Modern humans prefer pretty lies to ugly truths.

[–][deleted] 35 points36 points  (2 children)

They are simple merchants selling nice blue pills.

That description. Fantastic.

[–]TheNorthAmerican 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Of all the sad words of tongue and pen the saddest are these, /pol/ was right again.

[–]MCDownlow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Goddamn I've known this for a minute and this is one of the few places I can acknowledge it.

[–]andhakanoon 7 points8 points  (4 children)

Hasn't C. H. Sommers switched sides? Hasn't she admitted that feminism has gone too far, and that men's rights and free-speech are being trampled upon?

[–]dainethemain 9 points10 points  (0 children)

she's staying current with the market. a brilliant strategy, actually.

[–]vzhu 1 point2 points  (1 child)

She's actually labelled a 'dissident' feminist. Wrap that around your mind.

[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 -2 points-1 points  (21 children)

They are simple merchants selling nice blue pills.

Disagree completely. This is not the first time they've poisoned societies with degenerate filth. It's social engineering. To label it as innocent merchandising is naive at best and a lie at worst.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (18 children)

I (a Jew) think of it like selling a heroin junkie, heroin. If you're dumb enough to use it. I'll sell it to you as long as I can get away with it.

[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 23 points24 points  (16 children)

Look, I'd love to give the benefit of the doubt. But when you add up the actions as a whole, the result is obvious.

Furthermore, you could make innocuous degenerate filth. However, the SJW messages are loaded into every media outlet and form. You are telling me there is HUGE public demand for:

  • Interracial Sex
  • Gay Sex
  • Transexualism
  • Feminism
  • Globalism
  • War Mongering

I don't think so. It is blatant social engineering in the war for your mind. It's job is to corrupt your beliefs and fracture society to the point that you stand no chance of exerting your will against the machine.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (13 children)

You understand the pure human mind, especially the male mind, is that of an animal. With vary sexual appetites and varying levels of aggression and dominance.

If there wasn't a demand for it. We wouldn't be able to sell it. That's how consumption goes. If I shit on a plate and put it in front of you where your other food options are bland oatmeal or bake broccoli. Well, it's not my fault you chowed down on my shit with vigor. It just means you secretly wanted to suck down my shit.

From there, the subtle manipulation comes into play because of how the human brain works. What starts out as a desire or a curiosity becomes a hunger when fed the right way. In small palatable doses as the ingredients change from high grade, to high profit margin.

There's lots of shit I don't care and thus I don't watch it. I barely watch TV and never really got a taste for most TV shows. But the average viewer does.

Digest that for a second "average viewer." Because what is the average viewer? The average viewer is a simpleton wanting to be fed media and thus they consume the piles of shit we put down for them like the good little goyim they are.

Also, look at ancient texts and stories like Gilgamesh, Hercules, or Beowulf. You think Jews created violence, nope we just monetized and capitalized on it. Humans are naturally sinful and violent.

We have to teach boys to be good, but not to be bad. Why do you think that is?

In the end we're just making good little consumers out of you. When you look at shows like Revolutions and their runs against the competition. Most people aren't interested in the greater good or helping their fellow man.

They just want to indulge in their own personal drama and bullshit, while exploiting others. And so we feed the masses their media and profit off of it. Do we socially engineer along the way....Yeah because it's a way of creating more consumers.

We don't want you harming each other, we want you working for us and making us rich. So we need you to all faggot up and quit your bitching.

[–]trudatness 14 points14 points [recovered]

We don't want you harming each other, we want you working for us and making us rich. So we need you to all faggot up and quit your bitching.

The Rothschild family have been war profiteers for 350 years. They control the global banking system and that power and influence has benefited well connected Jews - I would say most definitely. Its all blood money to be sure - so lets not kid ourselves. Anyone who has ever Googled that family knows they are gangsters basically - that use legitimized state backed forces to carry out their dirty work against leaders who don't play ball (although they aren't above hiring rogue assassins - Andrew Jackson for example).

Last I read the 1% is 44% Jewish - and that is a direct result of readily available financing and nepotism - facilitated by global Jewish banking interests who absolutely sacrifice millions of lives commonly to maintain hegemony and increase wealth (see EU Muslim invasion - for example).

Now I'm not saying every rich Jewish person is complicit in murder and genocide - or should be judged because of this reality - but the base of global Jewish wealth has been war profiteering for centuries - starting with the Hessian Armies of middle Europe. You yourself probably don't want blood running in the streets - but as you said - you don't mind selling heroin to an addict until he drops dead. That's a pretty perverse and unconscionable way of making profit - but hey business if often a dirty enterprise. Most of us realists get that. Jews are the dark triads of business (but often nebbish in love - which is weird - go figure).

Most conservative slanted people are not bothered too much by the success of others - hey every game has its winners and losers and we get that advantage is earned - but this Neo-Marxist, Cultural Marxist, Intersectional, politically correct, progressive stack, feminist dogma being pushed isn't just selling dope to junkies - its turning people into junkies starting when they are children and destroying them and their societies for the sake of building a global hegemony. We are getting super pissed off at it. It goes too fucking far. We are fighting back.

Many of us believe that at some level, there is a Jewish conspiracy to try to turn as many goyim into numale low T pansexual gender dysphoria toads as possible - and that conspiracy can be tracked back to global banking interests. The population must be softened and pacified - and the best way to do that is to remove male aggression from the equation - which is more plausibly deniable than overt war (got a little too close to getting busted in WWII - until all dissension was criminalized in Europe).

Funny thing though... Not all Jews are on board with this. In fact, there are many that are against it. They see a definite bleed-over into their own circles. They don't want it. They want co-existence. They are happy with the scales tipping in their favor mostly unnoticed. This all out war on western civilization could blow up in a lot of people's faces. So many Jews are crossing the line and shit is getting hazy. There are growing numbers of Shitlord Jews - its amazing.

I think with the modern direction of progressivism - Jews running the deal my have finally made some fatal errors with cultural engineering - its getting too obvious - too insane - the goyim know shit is fucked up and the edifice is cracking big time. First Brexit - now Trump... Wikileaks fucking your shit up. Losing support of many Jews themselves. Its going to be interesting to see how this thing plays out.

[–]cazbot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If there wasn't a demand for it. We wouldn't be able to sell it

Lies. For most things, demand is manufactured. You are making this assertion on a webpage serving ads for fucks sake.

[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Very good reply. Although I see it as the following:

Humans, especially the unenlightened, lead very vapid lives and are so unaware I'd hardly classify them as sentient. They are subservient both to their real masters and their nature. Literally, an animal operating on instinct.

With the unthinking mind, comes a need for mindless entertainment to distract from the monotony of life. This we agree on. However, I don't think there is genuine desire to see the freak nature that is shoehorned in. I do think that is put there to engineer the mind into weird shit.

I completely agree that subtle manipulation and constantly feeding fringe curiosities leads to people becoming full on--eating the entire plate of shit as you put it. Example the rise of "gayness" and "transexualism" in western society.

Sure, gays have always existed throughout history, but I posit the frequency of gays in modern western society is greatly disproportionate to that of natural history. Reason? Take a teenage virgin androgynous nu-male, beta male pumped full of xenoestrogens and watching show after show of shoehorned-in gay seks and I think you get the results we are seeing today.

You're right you might as well turn a profit, but in essence it's nation and culture destroying. Hell, maybe even it's evolution and survival of the fittest. Still, I don't think they are just feeding demand. As you said, if you had a choice and ate shit, that would be one thing. But basically, due to their dominance the masses have no choice other than to turn off the tube (something I did long ago for the most part).

I absolutely do not claim Jews invented violence or some other silliness. However, they are without a doubt relentless, sly, and cunning. The sheeple don't stand a chance to be honest.

[–]Bileduct 2 points2 points [recovered]

So that's where hitler came from!

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just curious, what is wrong with interracial fucking? I don't give a fuck how much melanin is in her skin, as long as she is hot and wants to fuck. I've banged damn near every race on the planet. Variety is hella fun. I like Asian girls best, either eastern or western, Arab girls are fucking amazing under the beekeeper garb....not all, but damn. The best bjs I got were by Asian girls. Thai and Dubai. Most fun was a girl from Togo, and another from Ivory Coast.

I'm not a jew, shit I'm a formerly lutheran atheist, but I tend to agree with Dave, if they want it and I can sell it at a profit, why the fuck not? That's fucking capitalism in a nutshell. Never even knew a Jewish person until the military, some dicks, some good friends, about the same as any other religion. Though, every fucking evangelical I knew was a cocksucking fuckwit, and their bullshit is why I finally expunged the religious crap from my life.

[–]yaysmr 32 points33 points  (23 children)

seems pretty ridiculous to me.

What is? That Jews are heavily over-represented in positions of power?

That is provably true. Trebly so in the media.

And if you look at some of the worst offenders in Blue pill media, the ones that are most degenerate and most propagandistic, 99% chance you'll find Jewish producers, directors, or writers.

Example: Mr. Ivan Reitman, one of the producers of the New Ghostbusters movie.

Reitman was born in Komárno, Czechoslovakia (now in Slovakia), the son of Klara and Ladislav "Leslie" Reitman. Reitman's parents were Jewish; his mother survived the Auschwitz concentration camp and his father was an underground resistance fighter.

Lets be fair, though... he ALSO directed the Original Ghostbusters.

However the guy who directed the NEW Ghostbusters:

Feig was born in and raised in Mount Clemens, Michigan.[2] His mother, Elaine Elizabeth (née Artingstall), was a telephone operator, and his father, Sanford William Feig, owned Ark Surplus on Gratiot Avenue.[3][4][5] Feig's father was born Jewish and converted to Christian Science; Feig's parents met at a church social, and Feig was also raised in Christian Science


Saying that is simply a fact. Their role is large... the scary part comes if you question their motives.

You don't have to believe in some widespread Jewish conspiracy (there are plenty of Jews on the other side as well) to see that Jews have an inordinately large role in pushing Feminism/Blue pill culture.

George Soros, for instance, is helping fund BLM and organizations like FEMEN that spread feminism in various countries. He evidently pulled funding for FEMEN when they tried to move into Israel

Why would that be?

[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 14 points15 points  (6 children)

How much did Marxist Soros donate to BLM?

That funding comes in addition to more than $33 million in grants to the Black Lives Matter movement from top Democratic Party donor George Soros through his Open Society Foundations, as well as grant-making from the Center for American Progress.


BLM = Cultural Marxism = Marxism = Frankfurt School

[–]cashcow1 11 points12 points  (5 children)

BLM = Cultural Marxism = Marxism = Frankfurt Schoo

100% truth. Look up Yuri Bezmenov, former KGB psy ops agent, discussing this back in the 1980s. He even uses the term "social justice" several times.

The connection between the Frankfurt School and cultural marxim (critical studies) is also uncontroversial, and well-documented in academic sources.

[–]polakfury 3 points4 points  (4 children)

The connection between the Frankfurt School and cultural marxim (critical studies) is also uncontroversial, and well-documented in academic sources.

How come liberals say its some crazy conspiracy theory then?

[–]cashcow1 9 points10 points  (2 children)

Because they're bad at being intellectuals. It's discussed in peer-reviewed, academic sources.


[–]polakfury 1 point2 points  (1 child)

They would say its a loony school that teaches that stuff. What you say to that?

[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How come liberals say wikileaks is fake?

Why do liberals say "Russia" "did it" trying to start WWIII?

Why do liberals promulgate FakeRapeTM ?

Why is the sky blue?

[–]jon94 12 points13 points  (7 children)

Sorry, but Soros stopped being Jewish as soon as he sold out his fellow Jews to the Nazis. I say this as a RP Jew.

[–]Endorsed Contributorzyk0s 28 points29 points  (0 children)

No true Scotsman. I don't think anyone is saying Soros is an evil conniving motherfucker because he's Jewish, but he definitely is a evil conniving Jew.

[–]yaysmr 14 points15 points  (4 children)

Some would say selling out your peers for a buck is exactly what a Jewish person would do, especially if the long run goal is to have a homeland for Jews.

I wouldn't say that, but some would.

[–]jon94 1 point2 points  (3 children)

But Soros is a vehement anti-Zionist...

[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 11 points12 points  (2 children)

But Soros is a vehement anti-Zionist...

Do you have proof for this claim?

For the record Hillary supports the 2nd Amendment. Do you also believe that for fact?

I.e., actions, not words.

[–]willbabysit4ketamine 10 points11 points  (28 children)

Haven't been too often, but even Jews will admit they control Hollywood.

[–]1FunAndFreedom 18 points19 points  (9 children)

Tangential, but I've been listening to Chinese pop music lately, specifically Jay Chou, who is one of if not the biggest asian artists. It's shocking how different his songs lyrics are. The most popular songs of his are about working hard, being loyal to family, or just about beauty in the world.

Then I switch back to American Pop and hear nothing but anti-male, anti-family nonsense. Even Chinese movies are getting a very distinct and more moral feel. I'm glad they're buying up Hollywood.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (8 children)

The Chinese as a race were very advanced for an incredibly long time. They mastered technologies in the B.C. time the U.S. didn't till the fifties (treating metal with chromium). There major holdup was the simple meekness and modesty of their civilization. Oh sure they had wars but their history was more about preserving the status quo than growing out across the world (and those days are over, we taught them that too well).

Confuscious preached and held in his philosophy that the strength of a nation centers around the strength of the family. And to this there are many good points but also dark points. Duty to family regardless of personal want and ambition, is much like duty to government regardless of personal want and ambition. It creates a class of dependable and easy to exploit serfs which ultimately propel a nation's wealth and strength far better than a bunch of entitled and lazy consumers.

The rich and powerful preach morality in China whilst being immensely decadent. They do have many benevolent billionaires as well but that's a topic for a different time.

All power, all control, is not for the greater good. But for the comfort of those at the top of pyramid. Don't forget that.

[–]vagbutters 1 point2 points  (3 children)

They do have many benevolent billionaires

Are you sure about this? Last I recall, Bill Gates was actively asking Chinese billionaires to step up their philanthropic efforts because they were limp-dicked on that note.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Benevolent within their own country, not so much internationally.

[–]MCDownlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chinese wait out all the bullshit and take what is useful in their own way and time.

[–]ErenYeager91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's always interesting to me how jews never really been able to adapt to Asian mentality and corrupt it.

[–]Rusiano 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly me too, additionally with some comments you read about immigrants. Like wtf, I read TRP for self improvement and guidance, NOT to feel like I'm in the middle of a Klan rally

[–]cashcow1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A partially-true conspiracy theory that gets used to explain all the ills in society.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We Jews are just awesome at manipulating goyim. It's a thing man. Don't get too caught up in it. While anti-semites get themselves in a lather during their usual circle-jerk or cock sucking blow bangs concerning Jews. We're monetizing them and fucking their women. A tale as old as time.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexists are also racist ? Say wha?

[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 11 points12 points  (15 children)

What's up with TRP and the Jews? I see this come up a lot, seems pretty ridiculous to me.

The fact that it seems ridiculous means you don't know shit about history. Maybe you're RedPill with the ladies, but Beta as fuck in regards to politics / knowledge.

RedPill seems like a parody to bloopers, right? Now think about how these claims seem ridiculous to yourself.

To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize.

-Voltaire (maybe)

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[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 1 point2 points  (12 children)

I've just never seen an explanation for this animosity

Andddd... that never raised any red flags in your mind?

or the severe overreaction you've just had to a simple question for that matter.

Harsh tone maybe. Overreaction? No. Guess I gotta work on my people skills.

Is it because many of them are in high positions in Hollywood and corporations?

You answer that question. Just like I can't turn a BluePiller to RedPill, I can't make you woke. If you really want to be liberated (from the mental prison) you have to take those steps on your own. I won't waste time trying to save the intellectually lazy as it would be a completely pointless affair. Plenty of resources online to locate truth.

Edit: Fine, I'll take some bait. Let me leave you this for thought, so you (and others) don't butcher the message.

Blacks statistically commit crime at 3x the rate. Does that mean every black is a criminal? Of course not. But in general / statistical terms blacks act more savage.

Same with the Jews. They have certain behaviors they are prone to.

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[–]zxDanKwan 11 points12 points  (8 children)

Look... as a jew, I'm not saying there isn't some sort of jewish conspiracy to control people's minds...

I'm just saying that I haven't seen my share of the money, and I don't know where they meet up to discuss this kind of stuff...

None of the other jews I know are willing to admit that they're in on it, either... so maybe there are some extra jewey jews who are doing this?

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 9 points10 points  (3 children)

You haven't asked for it in the right way. You have to get the Rabbi on a Tuesday, and tell him you want your share of the JudenGelt or you're going to the press.

[–]SACRlion 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Every time someone starts talking about The Conspiracy, I get irrationally angry, because I never get invited to the meetings.

[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 0 points1 point  (1 child)

LOL. Look man, some of my best friends are Jewish. They are generally high-IQ people. I reiterate my previous statement:

Blacks statistically commit crime at 3x the rate. Does that mean every black is a criminal? Of course not. But in general / statistical terms blacks act more savage.

Same with the Jews. They have certain behaviors they are prone to.

As an group they are prone to in-group behavior. I'm sorry you haven't gotten your cut bro. Could you try to sneaking into Bohemian Grove???

All men are mammals; therefore, all mammals are men.

[–]Sdom1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

-Voltaire (maybe)

Definitely not. The quote is from Kevin Strom, a neo-nazi type. Not that this makes the idea itself untrue, though I think it's not 100% on the mark, and it's not just Jews who suppress criticism.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Huge alt-right overlap and the red pill attracts a lot of "the world is against me, that's why I'm a loser" folks

[–]TTORBT 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The whole world?


Jews are less than 2% of world population.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time to wake up goyim Neo, see how deep the rabbit hole goes..

[–]procrastinator789 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Right. I don't get it either. Is it an in-joke?

[–]Nydusurmainus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's why feminists get angrier as they get older, because the world doesn't treat them the same anymore and they have to justify their extreme feminism

[–]KriegerAleks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but , she is free, she doesnt need a mad or children . ..... DONT BELIEVE THE PATRIARCHY !!!!! No, she is actually happy getting everything she thought she wanted

[–]TheReformist94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha.fuck it.stories like this are hilarious

[–][deleted] 88 points89 points  (41 children)

We all know if she were 32, childless, and alone this essay wouldn't have been written. Still plenty of cocks to ride.

@42..her options are severely limited and competition is fierce

Note her father tried hard to tell her that her hypergamous instincts were likley to drive her into a ditch. He had a hint of knowledge but was no alpha


Society pushes the opposite message and the stocks of catfood companies are soaring

[–]MeatRocket23 57 points58 points  (11 children)

You know all the guys she works with are about her same age and fucking 25 year olds.

[–][deleted] 84 points85 points  (8 children)

Well those guys need to man up and recognize real beauty when they see it.

Look past the sagging tits and wrinkled eyes and you will see a truly attractive woman.

[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 60 points61 points  (2 children)

Don't objectify wymyn.

Woman's value to a man is in the experiences she brings to the table. Like sucking off 3 different dudes in Cancun during spring break, and fucking 48 men before wanting to commit to you. Look past the physical to see her inner beauty. My wife is 350 lbs of love, and when she divorces me I'm happy to do my duty to support her with alimony until she gets back on her feet (~20 years).

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Username checks out.

Thanks for the laugh.

[–]1FunAndFreedom 14 points15 points  (3 children)

That's why she has another article where she spends months getting treatment to look as she puts it, "ten years younger" (she doesn't)

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (2 children)


As hard as it can be for men to raise SMV:

lift, hold frame, tailored clothes, career

At least its possible

Aint nothing a 49 yr old ballbusting former beauty queen can do. Nothing

[–]MCDownlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watching thirsty women at this age grasping at straws is one of lifes little pleasures. It's like watching a jew getting mugged by a black youth. Poetic justice.

[–]MuhTriggersGuise 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That's what most women don't realize. They think their sexual desirability starts and will remain high, while her personality will be enhanced by maturing. In reality, their desirability plummets, and they had no personality to begin with and they never actively tried to grow as a person.

On the other hand, men typically start somewhat low in sexual desirability, and it grows well into midlife (if they don't go beta and get fat and married). On top of that, many work hard to cultivate an interesting personality and charismatic demeanor.

End result is all the high SMV men she thinks should be falling all over her aren't interested. If you have to choose between an old woman with no personality and selfish immature tendencies, and a young one with the same qualities; might as well go with the one with more perky tits that has had less than 1000 dicks in her. Funny part is, the feminist narrative acts like men are pigs for making this obviously rational choice.

[–]cashcow1 20 points21 points  (5 children)


Father here. This is fantastic advice.

My daughter is being raised to know that she should prioritize being a loving, caring mother. And that means trying to find a high-quality, virtuous man by her early 20s, marrying him, and doing everything in her power to support him being a better man.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (4 children)

Ill humbly add one should BE the man he hopes his daughter finds

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (2 children)

I'd be careful with that, lots of potential for 'man up' shaming to follow that idea

[–]Globetrotta 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The catfood comment... brutal and hilarious.

[–]Orbiter42 135 points136 points  (22 children)

"I hated the fact Matthew was suddenly putting another woman before me. How dare she come between us! Over the next few weeks, I'm ashamed to say I vented my spleen at both of them in a series of heated phone calls.

I was completely irrational. I didn't want Matthew back, but felt upstaged by Sara. "

you can see how her hamster worked. she went off and partied, and expected him to wait for her return. thats what girls do with orbiters, they keep them circling, to always have an option.

one thing the MRM can use, and short and clear way to demonize that type of behavior. long explanations get lost in the translation.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 30 points31 points  (1 child)

The solipsism is thick with that one.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least she admits to being irrational which is better than most.

[–]polakfury 7 points8 points  (17 children)

Are there any large signs to show when you are a orbiter to a girl from your experience?

[–]other_worlds 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yes, there is. Your penis never enters her vagina.

Edit: To clarify, think to yourself, would I do this with one of my male buddies? If the answer is 'no', then see above.

[–]Pedro_Navaja 11 points12 points  (2 children)

Like the planets that orbit the sun - if you are not the main man in her life, the center of the system, than you are an orbiter.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 16 points17 points  (2 children)

If she isn't fucking you with enthusiasm and craving your cock, you're in orbit. Once you get married there is no challenge, she has you by the balls, and she passes interest. Let her, find a better looking younger one and fuck her for a while until she fucks up, then get another one... Our better yet, have a harem of young sluts you fuck. Never ever give a damn about any fucking girl, they aren't worth it. Especially not in the USA and UK.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 3 points4 points  (5 children)

If you are friends and you are happy with that and you don't want more and you fully accept Briffault's law and you know that women are too selfish to be good friends, you're fine.

If you are fucking her without too much commitment and are gaming other women, you're fine.

If neither of the above and you're not related to her, you're an orbiter.

Seriously.... spending time with a girl and not banging her makes you less likely to bang her in future. Things happen FAST with girls, or not at all.

[–]Orbiter42 1 point2 points  (3 children)

other terms that can be used, are puppy, or yoyo. she'll put up some sort of barrier, "you must respect my feelings," or what ever. but when you start to look around, she'll use body language, teasing, innuendos, or other such to get your attention again.

another good red flag, it how she talks to you. if she seems to be talking down to you. its because she has no respect for you. she's not going to let a man mount her, that she does not respect.

ditch these girls, forth with. even if you get lucky, you'll blow your load in a couple minutes, the sex will suck, and leave you emasculated.

[–][deleted] 86 points87 points  (18 children)

Fucked up part is she could get the guy back and she'd suddenly not find her soulmate desirable. Then she'd write an article about how foolish it was of her to get back together with him...

Women don't care for what they have. They care about something better than their current status. Hypergamy is never satiated. But utter loss like this woman? Feelz for decades.

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (14 children)

Id argue that one can keep hypergamy at bay but only if your goals have zero to do with trying to keep her.

Instead, treat her like the interchangeable sextoy she is

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 23 points24 points  (4 children)

Homeboy's problem was leaving "little love notes" on her pillow and other Billy Beta shit like that. Dried her pussy right up like the Gobi fucking desert.

[–]II-Blank-II 16 points17 points  (1 child)

I'm new to Red Pill. I do this with my women all the time and shit like this gets me laid often. How come it's viewed as beta?

Edit: Down voting because I'm a trying to learn the red pill way? Ouch.

[–]returnofthemackX 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You just described a covert contract. You leaving love notes = getting laid. The point is getting laid should be a basic bottom line of the relationship.

You can do the love notes if you want, but do it because YOU want to do it and only that. You shouldn't even expect her to be happy about it because that already makes it a covert contract with ulterior motive = making her happy.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I agree.

Her main issue is now there is no such beta waiting.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's what I do. You want to just be friends? Cool. I'll be over here getting a replacement for you on the roster, have a nice life.

[–]ECoast_Man 37 points38 points  (1 child)

Look at her fucking face. 1000 cock stare if I ever saw it.

I moved into a rented flat a few miles away in Hornchurch, Essex, and embraced single life with a vengeance.


[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pumped and Dumped by the boys.

Ah...bright lights, big city

[–]Solpig 37 points37 points [recovered]

I have to be careful reading this story.

I was on the "Matthew" end of a similar tale, except we had two kids. Did everything I could to 'fix' the marriage. She left anyways. I was so high on the BP I thrashed and bashed around in agony for a couple of YEARS!...watching her OLD wealthy/Fat Boyfriends fucking my 'princess'.

A long stretch of Incel later. I met a younger HOTTER, hipper, more powerful gal.... The ex saw her/heard about her and instantly re-appeared to try and block that shit... it drove her Crazy(er)

"I always thought we'd get back together in the end" She cried, far too late for me to care

But, reading this story is no cure for the truth that it is... there is No victory dance or "I told you so's"...no sweet revenge.... For TRP and Hypergamy and CC and The wall JUST ARE. Although this is a confirmation of the absolute truth, It's still neutral... Isn't Good Or Bad... Just IS.

No turning back. No Happy ending... other than I'm free from trying to fix it. Thanks for posting and reminding, OP

Ex's and Hoes, x's and O's

[–]redpillwakeup 6 points7 points  (1 child)

I'm sorry for what happened to you. Life sometime sucks. And I agree with you to an extent that there's no winning and losing at the end.

Hope that you'll meet someone meaningful in the near future.

[–]3whatsthisgarg 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I just read your life story on another thread. BRUTAL.

You should write a screenplay.

[–]TryDoingSomethingNew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear how you suffered and still tried to keep the family together.

But happy to hear about the "poetic justice" and how she came crawling back, feeling the cold sting of envy as you were doing better now.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRunawayGrain 62 points63 points  (2 children)

All she can do "is think what if?"

That's generally all women do think of in terms of men, and the dream is usually better than the reality. When reality doesn't align perfectly with the dream, you get a shit storm like the one in the article.

I began to wish he was more sophisticated and earned more. I felt envious of friends with better-off partners, who were able to support them as they started their families.

Now here's an interesting thought: This is a happy ending. Seriously. So what if she'd married the 'love of her life' there? Based on her job and subsequent decisions, chances are she would have cheated on him and fucked it up anyway, while walking off with half his stuff. The guy hasn't been financially shackled to this woman, so from his point of view it's a happy ending.

'One day I might look back and realise I've made the biggest mistake of my life,'

Yep, I've heard that line before. Happy to say she was right in my case.

[–]Chris_Phoenix 21 points22 points  (1 child)

So much TRP gold in here

"I stopped seeing Matthew as my equal. I stopped seeing all the qualities that had made me fall in love with him - his fierce intelligence, our shared sense of humour, his determination not to follow the crowd. Instead, I saw someone who was holding me back."

They don't feel compassion unless you have value to them. Otherwise you're dealing with a sociopath

[–]Alth12 41 points42 points  (10 children)

All too common unfortunately. Sad thing is no matter how rp you are it never gets easier reading stuff like that. Men are still programmed to care about women. It's their own self destructive tendencies that have pushed us to this point.

Ultimately the funny thing is the first comment (downvoted almost 2000 times) from clearly a woman trying to justify this woman's self destructive behaviour.

Many women do wake up from their illusion at some point in their lives, often though it's too late for them to then procreate and raise their sons/daughters in a different way as they've hit their second wall where kids aren't even an option.

Would be tragic if they didn't do it to themselves. Her father is the one I really feel sorry for.

[–]stemgang 12 points13 points  (4 children)

Karen it seems there were red flags in the relationship that you were smart enough to recognize at the time. Those things that bug you before marriage - only magnify after marriage. If you did not have utter peace with the relationship, you did the right thing by moving on. Stop torturing yourself and as one commenter said - open you heart (as Jane Seymour says - I suggest you read her book "Remarkable Changes" it's really quite good. Move forward -God has a plan for you. Place God first in your life and all else will come in God's good time. The best things happen when you are following your own passions and heart and not desperate on the lookout for someone. And yes, you are still young enough to have children. I work at a hospital and we just had a woman (48 years old) who conceived naturally and had a beautiful healthy baby girl. Chin up girl....life awaits you! Seize the day and forget about this long lost love who probably wasn't the best many for you after all.

Wow. Usually heavily-downvoted comments are actually quite good, but this one is truly clueless.

[–]polakfury 7 points8 points  (1 child)

What a fucking retard lol

[–]waldo888 1 point2 points  (1 child)

wouldn't god say "probably shouldn't hve gotten divorced?

[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the first comment (downvoted almost 2000 times) from clearly a woman trying to justify this woman's self destructive behaviour

Downvoting is just a tool of the patriarchy to maintain their cis-white-male privilege of misogynistic control over wymyn.

[–]PIGamer86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The "best" rated comment appears to be a woman chastising worldly women selling out to modern feminism. Almost all the top rated comments are giving the author shit.

[–]winatreddit 37 points38 points  (2 children)

now I see why old single female coworker are often the most hateful ones

[–]sourdieselfuel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To a T. The hag in my office is a 50+ year old who has smoked for 25+ years and might have looked ok 30 years ago. She acts like an immature child and is completely inept as far as interpersonal relationships or being socially aware. If any younger somewhat attractive woman is hired into the department she undercuts and backstabs them to a point of trying to get them fired.

[–]polakfury 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are incapable of love

[–]askmrcia 12 points13 points  (11 children)

This basically describes my ex. She was 28 and broke up with me for no reason. Seriously, the relationship was going well and out of no where she tells me she feels weird around me and no longer wants to be with me.

The thing is, she loved to go out to bars, parties, and lived in a trendy part of town. Just like the woman described in the article. Most of her real friends are in LTRs (kinda were before I even met her), while her friends that she kinda talks too are single.

What I noticed was that her single friends were all over over 30, post wall, not attractive. The ones in relationships loved me. Which at first threw me off on why she broke up with me because I thought I won her friends over. It would not surprise me if the single friends bashed and guilt-ed her for being with me. In the end I'm not mad over it because deep down inside I know it wouldn't work in long term.

Anyways, I'm not sure if the ex is bitter yet, but I have a feeling it will happen soon. Her parents are still together, her older siblings got married, and the single friends were not attractive (fat, over 30) so who knows.

Point is, this post reminds me kinda of my situation. I also want to add that I know a lot of women past 30 that are single. That's because I work with them at community events and non profit organizations. Trust me when I say this, they are by far the most depressing people I've ever been around. You get them drinking and you won't believe how sad their lives are when they tell you about themselves. I've been to far to many "get-togethers" where they literally start crying about their lives (this past weekend actually).

As long as us men stay on track and continue to improve ourselves, we will be ok.

[–]MeatRocket23 11 points12 points  (1 child)

You're a man work on providing an abundant stable life for yourself and keep that credit score up. You'll never need to date another girl over 27

[–]1nonthaki 7 points8 points  (1 child)

I've been to far to many "get-togethers" where they literally start crying about their lives (this past weekend actually).

Did these bitches care when we cried when we were left and cheated by them when were Young ? If I was there , I would show a little sympathy but with a hidden glee in your heart . Yes , I am evil and i dont care that I am so . The men who care the most are the ones who get screwed the most by women nowadays .

[–]bigk12345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bitches' are truly Machiavellian . Their tears are just a Trojan horse to reel you in or gain some sympathy points.

[–]Duchenne4089 4 points5 points  (5 children)

Mind sharing some of the more interesting stories you heard from those women?

[–]askmrcia 10 points11 points  (4 children)

LOL I was hoping someone ask. I'll give you some examples. For the record I coach an all women's rec sports team and I play in a co-ed rec league. So that's another reason I know so many.

This past weekend I was at one lady's house who threw a small house party. Around midnight after most of the guest left and everything calmed down, the host and her best friend started their sob stories. It went from "yay!!! I'm so glad we threw a nice party, to I don't know why my best friend (who was standing right there) is mad at me. She thinks I'm taking all her friends. I don't even have real friends. All I do on most weekends is spend time with my two boys (both born from two different dads) while she goes out with her rec league friends. Then, she started crying (literally) saying "my life isn't perfect. Yes I know I'm lonely, yes I know I have two kids from two different dads, but I'm a great mom and she has no right to get mad at me for wanting to hang out with her friends."

Mind you these friends don't really like this girl either. That is why when they give her the smallest form attention, she ditches her best friend for these ones.

The lady I described above is 40 years old and single. Her best friend is 33 years old and also single. Best friend basically responded with "well ever since I hurt my leg and became unable to move around as much, you basically replaced me and I feel like I have no real friends. You basically took all my friends and now I pretty much have to start over.

Another example: A few weeks prior, one of the girls I coach who is 33 and single hosted a get together as well. Mostly women attended and they were all over 30. Around midnight, same thing. This one girl at the party started talking about how she has no friends because all her friends got married. And all her married friends don't want to hang with her anymore so all she does in her free time is hang with her parents. She and I quote said "I feel so depressed lately. I don't have real friends. I'm never invited to do anything. I can't even believe that I was invited to this party. I'm 33 and I'm just too old to be doing things by myself."

There was more to it because it was a nice little rant. She got up to go to the bathroom. I'm still sitting there and another girl who was also past 30 says "I can't believe she had to say that. I'm 37 and I'm much older then her. Does she know how I feel when she says things like that?"

The remainig women agreed and talked about it some.

Another story, not as long is when I went out with a few guys and girls about three weeks ago after our rec league game. We at the bar and one girl who is 36 says "this is going to be my last year playing in this league. I'm just way too old and I feel like I should be focusing on more things All my friends who were in this league are starting to leave because they are getting married and having kids while I'm here still single."

I have much more and all from this year. Some of these girls have the best facebook pictures showing how awesome their lives are because they are at a bar, concert, or some live event nearly every day and weekend. But, trust me, those are cover ups because they are miserable. I'm around these people outside their normal social settings so I get to see the real them and not the fake happy 30+year old women at some bar.

My ex best friend is the same way. Fat, single, but man she is the life of the party at the bar. Hugs everyone and trying to get as much attention as possible, but be around her behind close doors and you find out she has no real money, no REAL friends and no guy with respect for themselves is going to want her.

I'm not saying this as some revenge fantasy or trying to talk down about women. These are the things I see. Its very rare that I see a woman over 30 that is truly happy and single. They may act like it to try and keep a clean social image, but its all fake to cover up how they really feel.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Lol @ "I'm getting older and still single, I should quit my coed sport team" wtf

[–]askmrcia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I'm dead serious. Had a few women say similar things.

I think what they were trying to say is that they are getting older and their bodies are starting to ach and they want to focus on more things.

Mind you these women aren't pro athletes. After they finish their games, they usually go to the bars and drink. So playing sports and not being in the best of shape, while getting older is starting to wear their body out.

Not to mention they don't have real relationships, which is what they want and which is the main reason a lot of them do the co-ed sports in the first place. They are single, no family to take care of at home, so a lot more free time to be bored. So they play co-ed sports and go out to drink.

If they didn't play, they literally do nothing, but work, drink at bars and go home and watch netflix. So that's what's behind her message.

I mean I can't blame them. That's the reason I joined. I was bored when I finished school and wanted to meet new people.

[–]Planner_Hammish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing I learned the hard way is that girls want to be part of the in-group. So if all her friends are getting pregnant, then she will too; if they're all going out partying, then she will too. So I now pay close attention to my girlfriend's friends to see what kind of influence they have. Prune the ones that are counter-productive to your goals. If she's going out with her party friends, you go with her to chaperone - be fun, exciting, dance a bit, but then head home with her early (if that's what you want). Say good things about her friends that are "good quality women", and encourage or arrange for them to hang out more.

[–]yomo86 12 points13 points  (1 child)

She is not sorry about her Ex. She is sorry she is not able to attract the same quality of men she used to or in her mind the quality of men she deserved. This whole article is not about "watch what you are doing young lady" it is "feel sorry for me".

[–]TryDoingSomethingNew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I kind of got that feeling, too. At least by now 99% of the time an article like this is a "feel sorry for me", "poor little white girl" theme.

Just so tired of it.

[–]1nonthaki 18 points19 points  (2 children)




This bitch is over-acting though . She is still cute and fuckable and there are plenty of ways to have a child without pregnancy . Sympathy-whore .

And I am sure if that guy had waited for her till now , she would have ignored him even now . Its just that they guy is successful and married with another woman and is happy that is irking her . BITCH .

And I believe the romantic story that she said in that post wasnt actually that romantic . She is just hamstering her past now , believeing it to be different than it was . If her past with him was really well, exciting and romantic , would she have left her ?

But then, the housing market crashed and we were plunged into negative equity. Struggling should have brought us closer together, and at first it did. But as time went on, and my magazine career - and salary - advanced, I started to resent Matthew as he drifted from one dead-end job to another.

Hypergamy and TRP as fuck .

But though I'd dumped him, I never felt the women he met were good enough.

She thought he would never get a better girl & that was her calculation of his smv . She was sure that he would always stay in her grasp .

I was completely irrational. I didn't want Matthew back, but felt upstaged by Sara

Matthew - BB provider & orbiter . God forbid , she doesnt loose her orbiter and friendzoner .

but my decision to leave him has definitely cost me the chance of ever becoming a mother.

Thats all she cares about herself and about Matthew .

One of her worst fears is finding out her ex is starting a family.

and the fear that he will have a baby - > Competition & jealousy cause she has neither a family nor a child .

That article is the epitome of TRP .

[–]MeatRocket23 26 points27 points  (1 child)

I say the guy dodged a bullet. Who would ever want to be with a woman who would dump YOU and feel so sorry for herself for so long. Fuck her!

[–]cashcow1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what happens when we condition women with 3rd wave feminism.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'll take Briffault's Law for $200, Alex.

At the time she was with her "true love", she perceived no benefit from being with someone who was making less money than she was, and therefore cut him from her life. Let's cut the shit, if only for a second: that was a decision made for utility, not for love.

Oh, but now that she's correcting the record so as to better make herself look like a victim, she "doesn't know why" she did these things. Let's pretend she didn't waste her best years working in a bullshit trade. She lives her days fearing her ex actualizing another woman's potential as a homemaker instead of her own. The boon her workplace provided was supposed to make up for that. "What if", indeed -- what if society is wrong, and riding the slut train to its last stop just sends you off a cliff?

[–]BobbyTomale 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Her hamster is in overdrive.

It wasn't leaving Matthew that cost her the chance to have kids, it was her choice to ride the cock carousel for 15-20 years that did.

She thought she could keep Matthew as an orbiter while she slutted it up and then go back to him when she got baby fever. It didnt work out for her.

She ignores that she could have easily found a man suitable for marriage and kids if she pursued qualities in herself that would make her a good mother and wife. Instead, she wanted to party. Which is fine, but dont complain that nobody wanted to wife up the party slut.

[–]lozboss 14 points15 points  (2 children)

Where was her empathy? Women only Empathise with each other.

Where was her loyalty "Hypergamy doesn't care" (Rollo)

What makes her think she deserved a guy like that in the first place? All women are entitled. The feminist imperative teaches this. Hence why you see the landwhales demanding their potential men be 6ft 2, jacked and rich despite looking like a blob themselves.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the funny part, he was a normal guy, with a normal job. We have this exact scenario in AskMRP right now, the wife opened up the relationship, and traded him in at first opportunity.

In this story, the man was smart enough to move on, even though he let himself become orbiter for a while.

[–]bigk12345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just started reading The Myth of Male Power.

I can already tell it is fucking gold just by reading a few pages.

Here is a quote from the book

" Feminism suggested that "God" might be a "She" but not that the devil might also be a "she". It neglected the shadow side of women and the light side of men. And NEGLECTED " to acknowledge that each sex has both sides within each sex"

Solipsism has no bounds. Bitches just use feminism to promote hypergamy and cry foul when "equality " and "justice" are not served for their own purpose.

Feminism was never about equality . Feminism just plays up that women are these magical snowflakes and deserve to be put on the pedestal because they are women. Men need to earn their shit, nothing is ever given to us but these feminists do not care because they developed such a huge, distorted image of what a MAN is supposed to be that they can't even keep up. Bitches do not even know what they want. As soon as they see a little detour from the little ideal, they are gone.

That is why spinsters like this will never be fucking satisfied.

" Oh, the recession hit. Matthew lost his job. Oh, too bad. He is not worthy because he is not pulling in millions to treat me like a princess I am" - Yeah, no biggie. It is only one of the worst recessions ever.

Another nugget from the book:

" Feminism left women with three sexual options -old role, the male role and the victim role. Men were left with one option - they were still expected to initiate, but now, if they ever did it badly, they could go to jail"

Funny how bitches want all these changes to adapt their narrative . They despise " old roles" but men and women were happier because of masculine and feminine polarity.

Now, we are getting chronically dissatisfied spinsters with no strong male presence ( part of old role) because males are either betas ( giving women the "male role") or do not want anything to do with them( " victim" role kicks in).

Bitches like this are the ultimate byproduct of feminism and their pictures should be framed to remind young daughters of what NOT to become.

[–]Pillredpopper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This article is a nuclear explosion of AWALT behaviors. Such a clear example of "love is always conditional"

[–]BlacknOrangeZ 5 points6 points  (1 child)

A woman in this position, with this influence, experience, and rare moment of introspection, could be an incredible voice of reason and inspiration for young women if she builds on this.

Feminism has lied to so many women who are now old, bitter, miserable, infertile, unsatisfied, and betrayed. So fucking betrayed. Imagine how powerful it would be if these women began speaking out directly to young women to warn them of the realities of their biology. Imagine if middle-aged women, invulnerable to the "misogynist" slander that would be directed at a man for saying the exact same thing, could plead with young women to embrace their femininity, acknowledge their limited window of fertility, understand their expiring physical beauty, etc. Maybe they just might listen.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 17 points18 points  (3 children)

We've had this before.

It's a fairly common story, this women is unusually honest about it.

Don't forget the Daily Mail is sold to conservative middle-aged-plus people who want to be reassured they're right to stay in their loveless boring marriages with their boring little lives, and this sort of article panders to them.

[–]cashcow1 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Don't forget the Daily Mail is sold to conservative middle-aged-plus people who want to be reassured they're right to stay in their loveless boring marriages with their boring little lives, and this sort of article panders to them

Most middle-aged plus people ARE right to stay in their boring marriages, especially the women!

You think most 50 year olds can do better in the marketplace than a basic worker drone who keeps a roof over their heads?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

They cant. Its why the success rate for married middle aged men who unplug is damn near perfect.

These men find MRP, Athol Kay,..whatever.

He quickly becomes her best option and if he has the balls to subtly threaten to use the nukes then its a very happy marriage

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (5 children)

This story makes my cock hard. I gotta go beat off now.

The only thing that would make this better is if she found out her ex is dating a younger woman woman and had a family.

[–]TryDoingSomethingNew 6 points7 points  (1 child)

I love stories like that where the man improves himself and ends up with a younger woman with a tight body. ~ Awesome ~

[–]bigk12345 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is TRPs version of a Disney Land movie.

[–]0kool74 6 points7 points  (2 children)

I know I can't have Matthew back, and it hurts when I hear snippets of information about his life and how content he is. Fifteen years after I ended our relationship, he is happily married.

Hmm.......overlook that part did ya mate?? lol

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Stop. I can only get so erect!


[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too am praying Matthew and his new wife have twins

[–]FreeBeerandHotWings 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The wall is real, but not our (men's) problem to address directly. IMO this is a lesson women must acknowledge for themselves, and then communicate to each other. Mother to daughter or elder to youngster. However, the more likely outcome is the issue being rationalized away and persisting.

Best way, for men, to indirectly curtail this self destructive behavior is to pursue young fertile women as a method of sexual signaling.

[–]BigGreezy270 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is great to see choosing the CC damage her life in the end. Fuck this lady.

[–]iLLprincipLeS 9 points9 points [recovered]

There is nothing more pathetic than a single female over 40. A failure as a human being.

[–]cashcow1 5 points6 points  (3 children)

We need the older women to be warning the younger women about this. Instead, they're all watching Sex and the City at the homes their husbands bought.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Few older woman blame themselves.

Its always a mans fault

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Few older woman blame themselves.

This becomes more so as they age.

[–]TryDoingSomethingNew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I"m confident this a major factor. Women not being raised with the forsight for understanding the importance of keeping a good man and appreciating what they have.

[–]Bitchezbecrayy 5 points6 points  (2 children)


Every one of these 'empowered' cunts needs to watch this video to fully grasp what the future really holds for them.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 5 points6 points  (1 child)

As the poet wrote:

GATHER ye rosebuds while ye may,
Old Time is still a-flying:
And this same flower that smiles to-day
To-morrow will be dying.

. . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Then be not coy, but use your time,
And while ye may, go marry:
For having lost but once your prime,
You may for ever tarry.

[–]TRP240mikex 3 points4 points  (1 child)

This fucking hits home with me, basically this same thing fucking happened to me. I'm a police officer in south Florida. My LTR (close to 6 years) was in school to be an anesthetic assistant. She was about 1 year in grad school. I had money for a ring saved up and my VA loan (Marine) already in the works to buy a house. Everything was "as planned" was going to propose this past August. She breaks up with me because some guy she works with gave her the feels. For all you wondering no I didn't get lazy, I'm in great shape and lift on the regular pretty good on diet and style.... Anyways, months go by. A mutual friend informs me that new guy makes 6 figures and lives on the beach. I instantly think my worth as a man is 0. Anger phase hard as fuck. My best friend from high school and the Marines introduced me to TRP. I swallow a bottle of red pills. TRP saved me from a dark place. After months of monk mode and anger lifts I sign up for tinder. See her on it and get angry and laugh at the same time. I guess she got pumped and dumped by Dr. Chad. Her mom texted me a couple months ago. And she called me the other day while I was making an arrest. Didn't pick up. NOPE. Ultimately she came from money, I guess the status of a Police Officer wasnt good enough. I do not live on the beach. I did not drive a BMW or Lexus. I did not wear armani suits. I walk the thin blue line. Women chase status. Physician or Cop. Women will choose status. AWALT, you are just a utility. As OP mentioned about getting sucked into bullshit fake worlds. Ex binge watched Greys Anatomy. Women believe they are entitled to more than whats been given. There is no stopping female hypergamy. I guess I dodged the student loans and divorce rape and her going after my pension.------I know a lot you guys dont like LEO's. But TRP has changed how I view a lot of domestic calls,sexual assault and rape allegations. I thank you all for that. I was debating doing a post on certain legal advice from my point a view for the community from my experience on the streets. Maybe someday.

[–]Mckallidon 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Bitch got what she deserved. I meet these desperate bitter cunts all the time. I always laugh inside when they hamster their little stories about that asshole that still built a better life without her.

My ex thought she was hot shit when she cheated and ended up marrying some new guy a year later. That guy thought he was so cool scooping up my garbage. I laugh bc she's infertile and can't even have kids, so they both fucked themselves.

[–]1nzgs 15 points16 points  (19 children)

We don't have the same hero-worship/fetishism for the military/police that folks have in the states. They're just seen as regular people.

[–]MeatRocket23 13 points14 points  (7 children)

Well they are a bunch of pussys running around without guns, or the athourity to stop things like rape gangs. So I don't respect them much either.

[–]1FunAndFreedom 7 points8 points  (4 children)

In France it was found out that the scary looking military guys with machine guns weren't allowed to carry bullets. The Muslims stopped respecting them real quick.

[–]cashcow1 5 points6 points  (2 children)

And in America, an accountant like me can walk down the street with an AR15. As shitty as our culture is getting, there's still a lot to love about this place.

[–]vzhu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure you are aware of your state laws and their codes on brandishing. Unless of course, you live in the blessed few with constitutional carry.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So? How is that relevant here, other than you smugly asserting yourself over a fact that has fucking 0% to do with you or any choice you have ever made?

[–]cashcow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, some of that was an over-reaction to the treatment a lot of men got coming back from Vietnam. Many young men were drafted, and then abused for fighting a war they didn't even want to go to.

[–]Gawernator 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Your cops are pretty weak though so it makes sense. Much more likely to see a U.K. Cop getting executed for example

[–]princeali97 4 points4 points [recovered]

Also much more likely to see US cops executing people...

[–]CocoaPill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's very sad but she fucked up.

[–]bingo83 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Does anybody here actually believe that she has no options anymore? That she can't even land a guy who is a total beta and makes less money than her like "Matthew"? She doesn't want "Matthew", she's idealizing the idea of being with a "Matthew".

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (1 child)

She has options, they just aren't options she wants.

[–]jsalathe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She wants children and at 42 that is very unlikely. There are many mid 40s girls I know who cry themselves to sleep every night over their "bad luck".

They still don't acknowledge their own high n count and hyper gamy as factors in their outcomes.

[–]telegetoutmyway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lolololol what a dumb cunt

[–]1RPAlternate42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read the worst comments: TRP gold.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes your whole life serves as a warning to others.

[–]SouloftheVoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So much schadenfreude. Bitch made her bed, now she must lie in it.

[–]Redbeam100 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Moral of the story: bitches are stupid and irrational. LOL. I guess the world is a great place after all. Hope the dude finds a dime piece with a policeman fetish that lets him cream pie her. Thirty-going-on-thirsty here would write a whole article about unfair social standards in her magazine.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he's been twice LTR'd since they started, as per the article. No kids, which is her already dreading that it could have been her.

He essentially found her, 6 years younger

[–]Officer_Dick_Johnson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn, man... After reading this, I'm really fucking happy I'm a man.

[–]PlanB_pedofile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Classic story of woman wants a chad that commits but life lesson is chads don't commit.

[–]cashcow1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And if she wasn't a retarded hamster, she would realize she fucked up horribly, and try to recover by marrying some older, divorced man with kids she can try to contribute to raising.

But women aren't taught to be virtuous anymore (so they might at least pause and ask for advice before doing something this stupid), and the external controls on hypergamy have been removed.

[–]DzejSiDi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Instead of posting it here as a "revenge justice porn" content, it should be on RedPillWomen to remind young ladies to think thrice before they dump their non-alpha husbands.

...aaand that the clock is ticking.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fifteen years after I ended our relationship, he is happily married.

dumb cunt. his SMV continued to go up. her SMV went down.

[–]Pastelitomaracucho 2 points3 points  (12 children)

Bit of an old article, tho..

[–]MeatRocket23 5 points6 points  (8 children)

The story is timeless though.

[–]Pastelitomaracucho 5 points6 points  (5 children)

It is. And its sad, really.

But this lady seemed to have used the article to try to reach the guy again in a sob story. I hope she finds peace with the decisions she made in life.

[–]1nonthaki 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is nothing more than a valve for her ambitions .

[–]TryDoingSomethingNew 3 points4 points  (3 children)

I have no sympathy for her. Imagine the shit he suffered because of her, especially because he was obviously a really sincere guy and even went through the effort of proposing to her and giving her his time and thoughtfulness.

She needs to become the typical middle class, unmarried, white woman who tries to sort-of pretend like it doesn't bother her (basically lying) that she's no longer wanted. The kind of women I see around sometimes.

[–]manwhowouldbeking 1 point2 points  (1 child)

You look at the photos between now and then where she looks naturally happy and then the recent staged one where she looks miserable. She deserves everything she got.

[–]takkun22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you guys are really scraping the bottom of the barrel

this article has been posted on TRP multiple times, and the original story is more than three years old

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"What if?" Is a loose working definition of Hypergamy.

[–]cloudstryfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys this article has come up like 3 times. Come on.

[–]meatrocket8 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Hello MeatRocket28 I myself being a meatrocket in lower digits am however proud of being a descendent of the true meat rocket lineage. Are you? regards.

[–]MeatRocket23 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Yes! Yes! Yes! That's exactly where I got the idea.

[–]devious1087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stupid is what stupid does. I feel no sorrow for idiots that throw away a life and then complain about their own stupidity.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

As an aside, wasn't this article posted about like a month ago. I have an incredibly good memory and I remember reading the article. Once I saw "Matthew" I knew I'd seen this before on TRP.

[–]boomscooter 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Notice how the new guy started to get shit and fitness tested almost immediately, probably a big reason that failed. The new guy had to actually tell her to stop talking about him, and she even went so far as to openly and often, compare the two. She got alpha widowed, and ruined her next relationship with most likely endless shit testing. Her dad even hinted at telling her that she was making a mistake, and didn't listen. He told her there is something to really be said about soneone truly loving you. However, men love women, women love children, and children love puppies. She loved him, like all women love men. It is quite different from what men feel. Theirs is more of an exchange or agreement, where men love more unconditionally because we aren't dependent on any external factors to meet our needs. Other than vajay. That's why she always pushed him to get a better job and earn more. She openly admits she was jealous of her co workers finding high earning guys. It should be noted that their financial situation was most likely quite stable. This is a good example of hypergamy and women never being happy because they almost want more more more.

Tldr, almost every principle of trp is noted in this post. It is kind of funny how closely it follows what people on here say. You can almost use trp in this case as a tool to tell the future.

[–]snowylion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Predicting future events accurately is how you know whether your observations are true or not.

[–]Purecorrupt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What this re-affirms to me is that you never want a girl who thinks she is better than you. It doesn't matter whether she is or is not better, but once she starts thinking that she is all the rationalization starts hitting. As you can see when she considered them to be equal she was fine with it.

As a guy I don't mind a girl who I may think is "below" me. There's a fine line when the girl is your equal where you begin to walk a tight rope.

From my personal experience dating some of these uber professional girls or doctor/lawyer types kind of sucks. I'm 28 so the ones I usually date are in school or have just finished school. They are super busy. They're stressed. They're often kind of boring because all of the time they've spent has been on school/work. All of those things are not conducive to my personal goal of increasing my personal happiness.

As a "business professional" with only a Bachelor's meeting girls that take career/school more ambitiously than me is too much of a hassle at least relationship speaking. They come off like this girl with the wanting to travel the world and all that jazz.

Chasing girls is fun. Following girls is not.

Shitty dilemma for girls that are great and become (for example) doctors or whatever and then realize they cut their own dating pool down.

[–]Endorsed ContributorHarleyWalker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't bother deriding her now, just use her as an example of why modern degenerate life leads to becoming an unhappy and unfulfilled woman. We have fucked generations and it will take many stories like this to fix it should the western world even survive.

[–]sonder_one 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle, right?

[–]0kool74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She, like most women, was looking for the BBD.......the Bigger, Better, Deal. It's my guess that no one told her when you go doing that, eventually you're gonna lose out big time.

I would say she can look forward to enjoying a life filled with some cats. However, I just can't wish that kind of punishment on the cats!

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