A big theme of the red pill sidebar is too realize nothing matters. What I've found, is that to do this, and become charming to others, is too forget you exist. People are so wrapped up in themselves, that they don't really care what you do if you don't care what you do. Any social interaction you engage in is improved by forgetting you exist, because the other party lives in their own head. Once you can forget you exist, you're not wrapped up in your own head: your own ego, and people find this charming. You become untouchable without an ego, and they scramble to keep up with you. You maintain frame and end up saying what's on your mind without any hesitation, all the while completely focusing on what they have to say and flattering them with your focus. Once you lose the ego and stop living in your head, the lesser individual you're interacting with has to scramble to keep up with you, and they find you charming.
Facebook memes love to champion the introvert, but the introvert is only selfish and self absorbed: he/she is not introverted. Be successful by not living in your own head.