This story is truly heartwarming. It is a story of a struggle, making a change, and reaping success.
OP is disappointed that her BIL. And she opened with that has been the TL;DR of many active TRP members.
He's never been very successful romantically since I've known him, but he started going on that sub a year ago, and started using their advice and BAM! He's been having luck with women (at least 3) in a fairly short amount of time.
OP is originally relieved that her BIL has managed to bust a nut, but then realises it was not by being the Nice Guy (TM) that her and society have encouraged him to be.
Without knowing much about the mentality, I was really happy and proud of him because I know it's something he's wanted for a long time. He wants a family someday, but he also wanted sex and I don't blame him (he's struck out more than a few times since I've known him). He's talked to me years ago about being lonely physically so the fact that he was getting physical affection -- I was happy for him.
Who can't relate to breaking a drought?
I thought him getting with multiple women in rapid succession was because it wasn't working out between them for one reason or another, but I couldn't help but think "oh well, at least he's gaining confidence regardless of whether or not a relationship works out". But now I don't think he was viewing them as relationship material at all. Which is shocking, because prior to him becoming engrossed with this sub he was the sweetest guy who had many female friends, who wanted a steady girlfriend.
Shock-horror. He wanted sex, and didn't want to pay for it in a relationship.
I don't feel very happy or proud of him anymore. He's become a bit of a monster red piller. I wish I had known more about it when I was encouraging him -- I thought it was about building confidence and learning about women as a means of being more attractive to us to find a sexual partner/gf/wife/whatever. That's kind of how he described it to me. And, in part, that is what it is (but it has the worst aftertaste). He's had success with the methods he's researched on there, and with that success he's become a person who has little to no empathy for women. In that: I don't think he views women as individuals anymore? His opinions are now the boiled down opinions on what women "are" and how we "think/talk/argue/etc" that the Red Pill defines.
When she said "monster red piller" I thought she was going to speak about him actually doing something illegal like beating women, or committing hate crimes. No, what he did instead is change his attitude towards women. He stopped seeing unicorns around every corner, and instead saw a group of people who tend to have similar traits.
The hamster then rationalises that he is exploiting the women he is having sex with:
Then I started thinking about the girls he's been hooking up with recently. He's 31, all of them have been under 25 (one of them just 20). They haven't been educated beyond high school as far as I know, and their jobs are not of high status (a courtesy clerk, a cashier, one was unemployed), and I can't help but think that he's targeting these women who may have low self-esteem with these tactics. His argument is "it works", and my argument is "yeah, but at what cost?"
Yeah. What cost indeed? Squeak squeak
This is a great example of TRP working, although it is written by someone who is opposed to it.
TL;DR: Why can't my brother in law continue being a supplicating beta who puts women on a pedestal. Why couldn't he just accept that he was going to be sexless and lonely until one day a woman would decide he would make a decent provider.
EDIT: we've got it on authority from some of our more observant members that this probably is a troll post. Take the story with a big grain of salt. Cheers /u/Auvergnat and /u/Soarinc
EDIT2: I asked about trolling. OP still claims to have a vagina.