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Red Pill TheoryThe difference between talking to a lot of girls, and actually cramming your genitals in them. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by offthebeatmeoff

Intro

Here on TRP a lot of guys advocate being a social person. It's a good habit to form. It's great for meeting people and making connections and such. It will help you meet more girls and guys and again by extension you'll meet more girls. It's a great indirect way to potentially get laid. It's a lot easier to tag girls in social circles since half the work is already done for you. She knows you, she already likes you, and she isn't worried about you being a creepy stranger that'll roofie her cosmo and steal her panties. You could be, but she isn't worried about it since you know Steve and Steve is really cool.

With all that being said, there are plenty of social butterflies out there that have dust collecting on their unused wieners. Being social helps you meet girls, but it doesn't take you 6 inches deep into their baby holes.

Body

The difference between Mr. Social, and the guy that is actually getting laid is what GLL would call Killer Instinct.

We can imagine guys being on a spectrum from Mr. Nice Guy who is super polite, non aggressive, and is kind of a pussy, to Scumbag Steve (that cool guy from earlier). Scumbag Steve has plenty of Killer Instinct. He gets rejected a lot, but if a girl looks into him and the logistics are right he's trying to plow her in the cocaine covered counters of the private bathroom. Steve is the kind of guy who goes for the kill ASAP. Mr. NG on the other hand takes it slow and goes on dates and takes forever.

For the sake of racking up more pee pee touches you need to lean a little closer to Steve. He's racking up a lot of them. I'm not telling you to be like him, but there are easy ways to improve your Killer Instinct if you pay attention and focus on changing some of your behaviors.

How long does it usually take for you to first kiss a girl? Is it 20 minutes? Try to cut it down to 15.

Do you take a girl out for three dates before she becomes your mattress actress? Try to do it in 2 now.

Do you stand like a retard trying to shout talk at a girl in a club when gives you the look? Tell her it's loud in here and grab her hand and see if she'll follow you outside or somewhere quieter. Main point is to hold her hand. If a girl likes a guy she'll be excited when he holds her hand. I get excited when a girl I find sexy holds my hand. Maybe I'd get excited if you held my hand, I wouldn't know because you're not doing it enough.

It doesn't take much to really build up that killer instinct. It's the accumulation of tiny habits that really makes a guy a hardcore player vs just a social butterfly. I had tastes of it in college, when I saw a girl staring at me and I just asked her if she wanted to get out of here and we literally walked right to her place. That was a rare event, but I would say it's only rare because it was my first time going for the kill that quickly. It was dumb luck on my part, but it was a real eye opener.

I genuinely think girls are literally wired differently than us (Different neural pathways with the corpus collosum. Literally wired differently) and hormonal differences also have a huge effect, but they're still human. Sometimes they have stressful days/weeks at work or they're lonely or they just broke up with a guy or they just want a good time. There are girls in those situations every time you go out and they are down to go home with the cool attractive guy that has the balls to just bring her home and give her 6 inches of stress relief. Get some killer instinct and be that guy. Or you could talk to her about her week for 13 minutes. That's fun too.

Conclusion

This stuff isn't hard. It's just little habits. Touch the girl a little. Try to lead the interaction to the bedroom ASAP. Sometimes I don't even kiss the girl at all until I bring her home. There's no formula to it besides just try to get from point A to B fast. Point B could be the back of her moms van, your bedroom or a hammock. Whatever works. You don't get style points. Who cares about looking smooth. Just finish the job like Steve.


[–]2virusofthemind 96 points97 points  (8 children)

Good post.

If you're after turning the interaction sexual as early as possible then you need to polarise the reality of the interaction as soon as possible.

When two people of the opposite sex meet the common frame is in flux until one drops into the frame of the other. It's YOUR job as a man to set frame on a sexual level and drop the "reality" into that mode. The old saying of "first impressions count" is a very accurate one. Where sex is concerned then time isn't on your side when you're interacting with the girl as the initial window of opportunity doesn't stay open very long.

In his book "Models" Mark Manson is a big proponent of polarising girls as early as possible into three categories.

1/ Not interested (in which case move onto the next)

2/ Neutral (these are the girls on whom "game" polarises into one side or the other)...the other being....

3/ Interested (these are the girls who are already attracted to you and all you have to do is not fuck it up).

In this case we're not polarising the girl (although we do later) we're polarising the "reality" as being of a sexual nature. Believe or not most girls like sex but because of societal constraints usually don't suggest it when you meet them and that's even if they really want it.

When she meets you here "reality sonar" is pinging you to see which is the implicit frame and if the two frames synchronise then there you go. Even if she's in a neutral reality frame if yours is strong enough then she will drop into it.

TL;DR Make the "reality" as sexual as possible as soon as possible, it's a win/win situation. If she runs with it great, if not then you don't waste any time.

[–]Fulp_Piction 19 points20 points  (4 children)

It should be obvious, but don't be overt about it, you have to guide the hamster down the windy lane. Plausible deniability is your best friend.

[–]2virusofthemind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"you have to guide the hamster down the windy lane"

I like the metaphor! As slay_it_forward mentions the ASD response is indeed very real.

If a girl's friends are in earshot then that lane can get very windy indeed and isolation is your best bet purely from a time management perspective.

If she is in isolation then set the frame as if she's really into you in an amused mastery manner but keep the conversation going dropping in and out of you being unable to resist her charms then back onto more mundane conversation in a questioning perspective.

The questions not only fill her cognitive buffer so the sexual attraction frame doesn't get "due process" by her conscious mind, they also set you as the selector with the higher status in the interaction which is a sexual trigger on its own.

Personally I use double meanings in my conversation and see if she picks up on it, and gradually become more and more overt about it, but like you said have plausible deniability at all times. This is counterintuitive to most guys as we prefer people to get to the point and see conversations as a way of exchanging information in an accurate manner. Women however need "emotional pegs" to hang what you're saying onto in their mind.

Most girls pick up pretty quick on what's happening and a good "tell" is a crinkling around the eyes with eye contact. If you get that then move onto kino.

[–]slay_it_forward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The anti-slut defence is real.

[–]xnordx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way is to not bring up anything sexual at the immediate beginning but halfway through the date and only in a playful clowning way (and I would suggest not initially even referencing the two of you, not until you ratchet it up a bit). You have to make her feel comfortable about sexual tension and not be creepy. Say something like "so like how many guys try to hook up with you on the first date?" And after she responds say "Well I have a rule, I never hook up the first date (insert dramatic pause) then say "afterwards (hooking up) most definitely but never (emphasize) while on a first date, im just not into the whole public thing" and cast her a shit grin. Another thing you could say is "so how many dudes really send you dick pics?" and after she responds say "I would never do that, plus you'd probably think I photoshopped it anyhow" (playfully being self deprecating while hinting you are packing- which elicits a mystery and shows you as being comfortable and not creepy about the subject). If you are really bold you can randomly (later in date if she is receptive) you can ask "so what's the craziest place you've ever had sex?" If she asks you say "I never kiss and tell but let's just say you'd never guess". (If she tries to guess even better- make something up if you need to but keep it lighthearted).

[–]electricqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the most subtle way to sexually polarize an 18 year old cashier girl since she is never alone?

[–]offthebeatmeoff[S] 26 points27 points  (1 child)

Yeah I read his book like 2 years ago. It's a much nicer way of saying have a get laid or get lost mentality. He does a very good job of normie talk.

[–]Turkerthelurker 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Most definitely.

"If it isn't a fuck yes, it's a fuck no" - Teaching that while you can lower your standards for a while, eventually it will feel empty to you. Men live for challenge and growth, and if you aren't fucking ecstatic to fuck a chick, maybe you shouldn't.

"I thought you were cute and wanted to talk to you." - Not a clever or original line by any means, but damn has it been my most successful.

Models also got me to reframe the way I looked at having a dgaf attitude. Where I saw it as a more aloof coolness, I couldn't close even when girls were clearly into me. By changing my attitude towards "I don't care if I get rejected, I don't care if this girl knows I'm into her" and polarising women early on, also found much more success.

The book is like red pill dating for bloopies. He does a great job of phrasing things in a way that anybody could get behind.

[–]SW9876 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you provide example on how to do that specifically?

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[–]offthebeatmeoff[S] 16 points17 points  (5 children)

PM me a pic of yourself man. Not to be hurtful or mean, but sometimes we compare ourselves to the way we used to look and you may look phenomenal compared to how you were before, but may still look crappy in general. Maybe your hitting on the wrong demographic, maybe you're the guy that needs to hit on 60 before 1 girl will be down. There are so many things that I don't know that I don't feel comfortable giving you an answer without more detail.

[–]trptwerp 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Is he hot? What's the resolution?

[–]offthebeatmeoff[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

He's young. Boyishly cute.

[–]trptwerp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww. I hope he can make the most of his situation.

[–]Jack_Blesus 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Hey kinda in the same situation TheDarkRanger is. Mind if I send you pics as well? I don't think I'm unattractive, but like you said it might be because I've come quite a ways from what I use to be like.

[–]blackedoutfast 17 points18 points  (3 children)

  1. don't literally ask m'lady if she would like to go on a date. that's way too formal and serious for most chicks in 2016. approach a girl, say some shit, build rapport, and once you've established a good connection suggest that you two go do some other fun activity. grab some coffee, go see a band, check out a cool bar, play minigolf, etc. just don't use the word "date" because that implies a more serious relationship.

  2. 20 is not a large number of girls. one big misconception people have about TRP and PUA shit in general is that an average guy who learns good game will be able to seduce 100% of the girls he approaches. that's not true at all. even the top tier player guys who make youtube videos and teach classes get turned down A LOT. those dudes aren't approaching 20 girls and getting 20 notches, they're approaching 20 girls and maybe fucking 1 or 2 of them. the key is to invest LESS in each interaction. don't waste a lot of time on each girl. if you're going to get rejected, try to make it happen fast so you can quit wasting time and move on to the next one. stop focusing so much on trying to get laid. instead try to approach every single attractive girl you cross paths with, and try to get a solid NO as quickly as possible. try to get rejected 20 times in a day. it sounds stupid but it will help your game so much.

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    [–]smartscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    At the very least, you'd get to see the hamster at its finest there. I don't suppose the person who discouraged you is also at, or targeting, the same high school?

    [–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 6 points7 points  (0 children)

    Not on a date. Ask what time she gets off work, then say you'll pick her up. If she smiles while looking up at you and says anything positive, smirk and leave. Otherwise do like op said, isolate her from the noise and escalate until you're balls deep. Do that all the time, keep going even after it works, perfect it.

    [–]LordThunderbolt 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    Post or pm me a pic of yourself. Sometimes we overestimate our attractiveness. If you've been doing everything by the book but still can't score, the problem is your looks.

    [–]NeoreactionSafe 41 points42 points  (30 children)

     

    The "Killer Instinct" is Game.

    Anyone with good intuition combined with Game can fuck the girls that want them.

    Most guys are clueless and seeing signals they can't comprehend.

    Women are far easier to read than you think... but you have to have an extroverted nature to sense anything.

    I've never known an introvert who does well with women.

    (I doubt such a thing can exist)

    Think of it this way:

     

    • You are the penis and extroverting outside yourself.

    • She is the vagina and looking inward at her feelz and Tingles.

     

    ...don't expect her to act like a penis.

     

    [–]offthebeatmeoff[S] 20 points21 points  (9 children)

    Game is such a broad pretty undefined thing. To me it's your ability to get laid. The guy getting rejected by 99 girls a week and then tagging number 100 has better "game" to me than Mr. Social who's collecting all the phone numbers, and making out with chicks but only get's laid once in a while.

    [–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 14 points15 points  (3 children)

    Game is such a broad pretty undefined thing. To me it's your ability to get laid. The guy getting rejected by 99 girls a week and then tagging number 100 has better "game" to me than Mr. Social who's collecting all the phone numbers, and making out with chicks but only get's laid once in a while.

    If your goal is to get laid, sure.

    But don't assume that a man's goals and priorities remain constant throughout his life.

    [–]offthebeatmeoff[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

    That's very fair to say. I have no doubt that it evolves, but I believe it starts there first then changes as you get older for most people.

    [–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 12 points13 points  (1 child)

    Not as you get older, but as you get better at scoring lays quickly. The more abundant sex is in your life, the less significance it has, and the more effort you can dedicate to other priorities.

    "Good game" is not defined by a particular strategy. Rather, the method a man uses to pursue sex typically indicates what stage he is in on the path to self-actualization.

    [–]offthebeatmeoff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Yeah I completely agree for the most part. It's too broad of a topic to just pinpoint it there, but I think your point is a crucial aspect of it all.

    [–]crisblunt 6 points7 points  (3 children)

    Ugh im so Mr. Social and haven't been able to figure out why. Great post

    [–]hardly_incognito 8 points9 points  (2 children)

    You're not alone brother! I've been on 4 dates with hotties the past month and a half, got em home, and played Mr. Nice Guy instead of fucking them. Wish I had read something like this before and internalized it!

    On the bright-side, now the two of us have, so no excuses next time!! It can only get better from here on out.

    [–]Neverd0wn 4 points5 points  (1 child)

    You didn't touch her at all and only talked to her all night I assume?

    [–]askerman97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    The guy who makes out with a bunch of chicks is always going to have better social proof/rep as a player than the guy who gets laid once.

    [–]slay_it_forward 8 points9 points  (1 child)

    Guys who have to learn game are typically introverted. But after they learn they can get good. Met plenty.

    [–]NeoreactionSafe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    The idea someone is "always" introverted is the same as the "Be Yourself" brainwashing.

    With increases in strength in extroversion anyone can become good at Game.

     

    [–]FrameWalker 8 points9 points  (2 children)

    Wow maybe we should do business meetings with our dicks on the table

    [–]offthebeatmeoff[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

    LBJ was infamous for pulling his dick out and he was the president.

    [–]NeoreactionSafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    The was a SouthPark cartoon episode recently where all the boys decided they would take back their power by dropping their pants and exposing their penis to all the girls.

    So the humor has been passed around a bit already.

     

    [–]389428347934 4 points5 points  (1 child)

    In your opinion, what defines an introvert? Are you implying an introvert is clueless and doesn't have good intuition?

    "Introvert" is commonly conflated with having social anxiety. Instead, it refers to where people receive their motivation. Extroverts get it from others, and are energized when they are around others. They feel drained when they are without social interaction. Introverts recharge in solitude. That's not the same thing as saying they can't function with others, or do well with women. As wikipedia puts it "Mistaking introversion for shyness is a common error. Introverts prefer solitary to social activities, but do not necessarily fear social encounters like shy people do."

    As a point of reference. I am introvert. I could care less about being the life of the party or being "social". I can do it, and often have been the centre of a social gathering and directing conversation. It's simple and I talk to people easily. As far as romance goes, I have no problem taking beautiful women home. I currently have four plates. I don't say this to brag. It's just that stereotype is misunderstood. I can turn it on when I want, and game them without problem, if I choose to, including being dominant, directing the date and the conversation, leading, etc.

    I'm not saying you're implying this, but state it for clarification. Common misconception.

    [–]NeoreactionSafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    All people have the potential for Frame and Game.

    Frame is your introverted reality.

    Game is your extroverted reality.

     

    [–]EchoEndl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Nice of you to blatantly throw shade at introverts like that.

    [–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 2 points3 points  (2 children)

    They can learn to be extroverted, I did, but I did it early in life.

    [–]shitsintents 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Fuck, I learned to be introverted <10 years old. I feel like there's no hope now that it's been 20 years of introversion.

    [–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    I rewired my mind over three years to limit the effect of my ptsd on my life and people around me. I've been living with it for nearly 40 years, and I did it from 2010 to 2014. I was between 7 and 9 years old when life went to shit for me. I'll be 48 early next year.

    If I can fix that so I am far less likely to kill someone for driving like a jihadi because they're an idiot, and can now go to concerts with huge crowds (open air in Chicago) you can learn to be extroverted to the point it's easy to talk to girls and practically anyone. Probably use one aspect I employed, knowing I'm the baddest motherfucker in the valley, which alleviates my hypervigilance and subsequent rage in public places. I fear absolutely nothing, and part of the reason you aren't outgoing is fear/anxiety.

    What you tell yourself is the key, and if you tell yourself you can't, then you sure as fuck won't. Tell yourself that it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks and that you're the apex predator of this particular endeavor, and you will act that way. Think about it in the context of your life, and be brutally honest with yourself about why you're introverted today.

    [–]newName543456 1 point2 points  (2 children)

    "Killer instinct" is strong sexuality and visceral attraction towards women. You touch them and escalate, because you have it. All that talk about fancy schmancy techniques, like where to touch or how to lead conversation are secondary effect of it. Techniques are "HOW" to do it. Visceral attraction is "WHY"

    BP may have great, intellectually stimulating conversation with a girl, then within minutes watch as the same girl is falling for visceral urges as induced by proverbial Chad.

    [–]asongoneal 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Could you elaborate more on this?

    [–]newName543456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I'm not sure there's much to elaborate on.

    You feel the urge when you see a very attractive women, or especially when she makes physical contact with you. That's probably mostly blood focusing in your nether regions as well as some hormonal release. A tad similar to stress response (I think adrenaline is involved too), but obviously quite different overall.

    Women have largely similar reaction, if you physically stimulate them enough. It might be possible to get there without stimulating, if you are handsome enough, but I'm not so I won't vouch for that. But if you get properly handsy, you get there anyway.

    [–]aznredpill 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Any posts of what "game" is?

    [–]NeoreactionSafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    It can be just Gaming women.

    But generically it's any type of influence you generate in the world outside yourself.

    Memes effect reality... so they are an abstract Game.

    (the meme can develop a life of it's own)

    Amused Mastery is being able to invent methods of influence (Game) on the fly... to be able to see multiple angles.

     

    [–]CasualCocaine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    That analogy really explained the flow of vibes between men and women (in a sexual setting) pretty well.

    [–]Eyeswears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    "Introverts" don't exist. Humans evolved as social creatures. We're all extroverts but some of us just suck, so to cope, we get stimulation in our apartments alone to forget the pain of having to go out of our comfort zone to improve.

    If you think you're an introvert, realize you have no less of a desire to have social connections, you just have a tendency to be isolated.

    [–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child)

    Is this how they do things down here on reddit? Most of the other comments are agreeable, but what you said has me thinking that your perception of men and women is a little....twisted. It would have been better if your said that women are supposed to receive men as the more dominant (by average) being.

    But instead you add extroversion and throw in definitions on here and giving OP very polarized advice.

    [–]NeoreactionSafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Well you know the Red Pill phrase:

     

    Men love women, women love children, children love puppies.

     

    Red Pill clearly does not nor will ever support the Blue Pill concept of equality.

    This is without question... so are you sure you are at the right place?

     

    And it was funny you used "polarize" because we seek to polarize... it's what we do.

    Masculine polarity.

     

    [–]FrameWalker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    I genuinely think girls are literally wired differently than us (Different neural pathways with the corpus collosum. Literally wired differently) and hormonal differences also have a huge effect, but they're still human.

    Very important to understand

    [–]MikeAlphaGolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Agree with this.

    I can count on one hand the amount of friends, colleagues, acquaintances or school mates that I've boned. For me it's difficult and awkward.

    Much more efficient and probably more exciting to fuck a stranger. My best lays are the ones where you meet up, are overtly sexual to the point of sleezyness. Then have a quick lay. You can get to know each other from there.

    Even friends of friends is always trickier. Linking in with OPs point. I think an issue is when it comes to hitting on friends of friends I feel a little more like keeping up appearances and not wanting to act too sexually full on. When it comes to seducing a stranger I just don't care about any of that. It's an interesting paradox because the more I improve and the higher SMV I reach the more my female friends kind of expect me to hook up all the time. Sometimes I can't be bothered if I'm out with a fun group. Sometimes I try but fail.

    [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    Vulgarity is always a plus. Kudos.

    Agree with a standard part of every man's game is understanding the quickest line from the meetgreet to a bed.

    Without getting too much into PUAantics, however you run your game, it's still an important strategy to have in the back of your mind.

    Classic TRP gameplan of lifting, looking presentable, and not being on the spectrum work great to get your foot in the door. The tactics come in after that with this stuff.

    [–]jazerac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    What do you mean by vulgarity being a plus?

    [–]arrayay 2 points3 points  (3 children)

    but it doesn't take you 6 inches deep into their baby holes

    here are girls in those situations every time you go out and they are down to go home with the cool attractive guy that has the balls to just bring her home and give her 6 inches of stress relief.

    Better not be a hard limit, lol

    [–]ghee99 14 points15 points  (2 children)

    6 inches deep?

    does that mean I get to fuck her twice?

    [–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    I have to use my fingers to get that far in, my half eaten tictac won't get there.

    [–]arrayay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    A many times as you want, just not allowed to go balls deep.

    [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    Maybe I'd get excited if you held my hand, I wouldn't know because you're not doing it enough.

    Sorry mate, too busy massaging your pee pee to hold your hand

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (14 children)

    The fact that you gave GLL some credit has earned you some massive respect. First time I've seen it in a post here.

    [–]offthebeatmeoff[S] 7 points8 points  (3 children)

    A lot of my posts mention Chris. He has had a big impact on my sex life and the way I look at women. I really love women and I've really upped my sex life because of him. I like to give him the credit he deserves because of the heavy influence he has had on my thoughts with respect to sexual dynamics.

    [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    He really does have a lot of wisdom and he never really went through the anger phase, so his mentality on women is spot on alpha... No residual bitterness.

    [–]offthebeatmeoff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I really related so well with him because I had an oddly similar background to his. Even his site is designed to screen out people not like us.

    [–]slay_it_forward -1 points0 points  (9 children)

    That's because he's a proven fraud.

    [–]LordThunderbolt 1 point2 points  (2 children)

    How so? I never heard that

    [–]BoyWhoreWithASword 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Nah. His techniques/mindsets work. They took me from the sexless chump I used to be to where I am today.

    Can't speak for his products he sells but his basic and simple mindsets and techniques work well. He's not advocating anything other than looking your best, talking to lots of women, and escalating quickly as possible. There's nothing complex or convoluted about what he says at all.

    [–]slay_it_forward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Yeah that advice is legit and pretty obvious but he fakes infield videos.

    [–]ChickenBalotelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Fuck yeah! The post and the top comment are both two things that I needed to be reminded of at this particular time. Thanks.

    [–]RestoreTheUnion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    What you're talking about is what our grandfathers would simply call good manners. The redpill is simply a reflection of reality: the redpiller seeks truth from facts. It would be BS if its techniques didn't work. I think this points to great inconsistency in our society - it appears to be due to sophistries of liberalism. We could consider enterprise instead of liberalism - the way of the time when Americans saw evil, named it, and burned down its cities.

    Those guys didn't lift, but they sure got laid. An equal but consistent society that reflects reality and people getting to make their arrangements as more honest agents would be a lot easier to get laid in.

    [–]RedPareidolia 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    This is a great post. Last night I went on a date with this chick from Okcupid. I didn't escalate quickly and went for this awkward kiss about 45 minutes after meeting. Prior to that we were just talking about past relationships n shit and from the looks of her body language being closed, I knew something was off. Long story short, I walk her home, hug and return home with my dick in my hands and frustrated. smh

    The point though is that you can read this shit on here endlessly like I did for years but if you don't put it into practice and form these tiny micro habits as mentioned above, you will never change. You will never be successful with women except for the occasionally rare moments, etc.

    Always go for the kill immediately

    [–]offthebeatmeoff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    All this stuff is just tiny little habits that really add up over time. It's not as dramatic as people make it sound like. Like most things in life, good game is the culmination of many little habits.

    [–]Skwadbomb 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Very good article. Writing style reminds me of Swinggcat.

    [–]offthebeatmeoff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I have no idea who that is.

    [–]Arlenethewhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Quite a few of these hos have a very overvalued sense of worth, and feel that they are more than a fucking human with a cum dumpster between her thighs. Case in point this fucking bitch named Arlene. Guys texting ugly ass bitches making them feel like they are the most special girl in the world, when they are nothing but dolled up beast/abominiation looking hos. Whats really behind all that spray tan, makeup, more makeup, hair extensions, etc....

    Many of these hos aren't worth the effort they want some fucking sucker ass motherfucker to put in to fuck her mediocre damaged goods pussy. Arlene. Im sure there are people on this forum that partake in