Here on TRP a lot of guys advocate being a social person. It's a good habit to form. It's great for meeting people and making connections and such. It will help you meet more girls and guys and again by extension you'll meet more girls. It's a great indirect way to potentially get laid. It's a lot easier to tag girls in social circles since half the work is already done for you. She knows you, she already likes you, and she isn't worried about you being a creepy stranger that'll roofie her cosmo and steal her panties. You could be, but she isn't worried about it since you know Steve and Steve is really cool.
With all that being said, there are plenty of social butterflies out there that have dust collecting on their unused wieners. Being social helps you meet girls, but it doesn't take you 6 inches deep into their baby holes.
The difference between Mr. Social, and the guy that is actually getting laid is what GLL would call Killer Instinct.
We can imagine guys being on a spectrum from Mr. Nice Guy who is super polite, non aggressive, and is kind of a pussy, to Scumbag Steve (that cool guy from earlier). Scumbag Steve has plenty of Killer Instinct. He gets rejected a lot, but if a girl looks into him and the logistics are right he's trying to plow her in the cocaine covered counters of the private bathroom. Steve is the kind of guy who goes for the kill ASAP. Mr. NG on the other hand takes it slow and goes on dates and takes forever.
For the sake of racking up more pee pee touches you need to lean a little closer to Steve. He's racking up a lot of them. I'm not telling you to be like him, but there are easy ways to improve your Killer Instinct if you pay attention and focus on changing some of your behaviors.
How long does it usually take for you to first kiss a girl? Is it 20 minutes? Try to cut it down to 15.
Do you take a girl out for three dates before she becomes your mattress actress? Try to do it in 2 now.
Do you stand like a retard trying to shout talk at a girl in a club when gives you the look? Tell her it's loud in here and grab her hand and see if she'll follow you outside or somewhere quieter. Main point is to hold her hand. If a girl likes a guy she'll be excited when he holds her hand. I get excited when a girl I find sexy holds my hand. Maybe I'd get excited if you held my hand, I wouldn't know because you're not doing it enough.
It doesn't take much to really build up that killer instinct. It's the accumulation of tiny habits that really makes a guy a hardcore player vs just a social butterfly. I had tastes of it in college, when I saw a girl staring at me and I just asked her if she wanted to get out of here and we literally walked right to her place. That was a rare event, but I would say it's only rare because it was my first time going for the kill that quickly. It was dumb luck on my part, but it was a real eye opener.
I genuinely think girls are literally wired differently than us (Different neural pathways with the corpus collosum. Literally wired differently) and hormonal differences also have a huge effect, but they're still human. Sometimes they have stressful days/weeks at work or they're lonely or they just broke up with a guy or they just want a good time. There are girls in those situations every time you go out and they are down to go home with the cool attractive guy that has the balls to just bring her home and give her 6 inches of stress relief. Get some killer instinct and be that guy. Or you could talk to her about her week for 13 minutes. That's fun too.
This stuff isn't hard. It's just little habits. Touch the girl a little. Try to lead the interaction to the bedroom ASAP. Sometimes I don't even kiss the girl at all until I bring her home. There's no formula to it besides just try to get from point A to B fast. Point B could be the back of her moms van, your bedroom or a hammock. Whatever works. You don't get style points. Who cares about looking smooth. Just finish the job like Steve.