Married Red PillRedditor takes relationship advice of divorce after BDP wife cheats with neighbor. Wife kills both young children to prevent him from receiving custody. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Pomandres

Prepare thyselves, as this story depicts a tragedy as if from the mind of Shakespeare himself. The man's first post with his throwaway was this image. He then posted to relationshipadvice:


I'm [30/m] having a hard time coping with my wife [29/f] having cheated on me with our neighbor [51/m]

  • I have copied the contents of this post to the comments of this thread if you would like to see his story. It will make your blood boil. He is quite well spoken and the post is littered with red pill truths. Discuss.


His wife is so fucked that not even a woman's hamster could deny him the advice of divorcing that crazy bitch. This entire story transpired over the last 27 days. Four days after receiving relationship advice he made the decision to put his own well-being and that of his children, above the well-being of his borderline personality disorder wife. His title wrote:


[Update] I'm taking your advice

Instead of trying to fix something she doesn't want to fix, she has refused counseling several times in the past before this even happened, I am going to get myself and my kids out. I meet with an attorney next week.

Thank you everyone for helping me see how far I had my head up my ass.


Sadly, 20 days later he came back with an update, linking this news story http://www.theindychannel.com/news/crime/police-investigating-double-homicide-in-mongomery-county, thanking the community for their support and communicating the fact that he does not blame the advice for the terrible consequences that have occurred:


I would like to give a heartfelt and sincere thank you for the advice and support I have received here. No one could have foreseen the tragedy that resulted from me filing for divorce. You guys perform a wonderful service to those in need and I hope you continue to do so in the future.


It is absolutely disgusting. This poor man has had his life destroyed. You don't walk away from this kind of shit. It leaves emotional trauma that is similar to the psychological trauma caused in war like PTSD. How do you ever trust a woman after that? But despite all this he is very stoic, cognizant, and understanding.


Let this be a lesson for all those who wish to stick their dick in crazy. Do not fuck with Borderline Personality Disorder boys.


Edit: For those that the allusion of Shakespeare Tragedy is lost upon. This man's story begins with: "I stayed with her for the kids. Now I will leave her for the kids. It ends with: "She took the kids. From me. From law. From life. All this hate and evil, out of pride and spite."

[–][deleted] 225 points226 points  (38 children)

FYI today is 'International Stop Violence Against Women Day.' Someone at work came up and asked me why I wasn't wearing my white ribbon today. This shit right here.

[–]Pomandres[S] 115 points116 points  (31 children)

You can wear a white ribbon while kicking a bitch in the neck. White ribbons have no power. They don't actually stop violence. Awareness about violence against women is only necessary if we have an abundance of men practicing their ground-and-pound skills on the face of the woman they purport to love. Despite what feminists say; the idea that there is high levels of violence towards women (in the West) is merely an illusion utilized to justify the existence of a redundant ideology.

[–][deleted] 34 points35 points  (28 children)

virtue signalling. not wearing one sends a message, positive or negative, to your social group.

Best to keep ego aside, put it on and make nice, Rule 38

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 55 points56 points  (19 children)

I disagree. The line has to be drawn somewhere. The moment it becomes a situation worthy of happening in Pyonyang, where I am shamed for not wearing my "Lieber Führer"-needle on my lapel, that is where I draw the line.

[–]1GroundhogLiberator 27 points28 points  (0 children)

"I'd rather a thousand women be punched in the face than a single hole punched in my shirt."

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (13 children)

I suppose you have your own cost-benefit tradeoffs.

Personally, I'd pick a hill of more substantial note, but can't fault you for your choices, I don't disagree afterall

[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 14 points15 points  (3 children)

Depends on where you are. Vandaalen is German, as am I, and as of now, we don't get hounded for not wearing ribbons. Though none of my colleagues (neither male nor female) seem to be aware of the date either, so there's that.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

nien shcwuls in deutchland then.

Closest I've seen here is rememberance day poppies, seeing people wearing htem on the 12th makes me laugh. People don't even know what they are doing, and just signal with disregard

[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 1 point2 points  (1 child)

nien shcwuls in deutchland then.


[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm not a good one

[–]WilliamBott 5 points6 points  (8 children)

I agree with vandaalen. I don't promote or advertise any of those types of "awareness" things. I'll wear a pink ribbon for breast cancer awareness, but for sexist or racist "special snowflake" causes? Not gonna happen.

Regardless of frequency, men are victims of domestic violence and there are plenty of men that are attacked in public by women who think they will get a pussy pass and find out otherwise.

[–]jimmyjoejimbob 4 points5 points  (4 children)

I'll wear a pink ribbon for breast cancer awareness, but for sexist or racist "special snowflake" causes? Not gonna happen.

You will give money to a cause that exists to take money from people who don't understand the not for profit sector. The pink ribbon appeals don't do anything for breast cancer (which also is a cancer that affects men) other than to funnel money to an organisation that comes up with whacky and zany events. No money goes to fund research. No money goes towards supporting people with cancer. It all goes towards paying their staff and throwing money at advertising.

[–]WilliamBott 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I don't actually pay for that shit, LOL. I know about the Susan G. Komen scam and how they sue other charities for even trying to use the word pink.

I can clip a piece of pink ribbon from my grandmother's old sewing kit and attach it with a safety pin for about 3 cents.

[–]turn20left 0 points1 point  (1 child)

They sue for usage of "for the cure."

[–]WilliamBott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sue for a lot of shit. They sue charities that are supposed to be on the same side. Fuck them.

I just make my own ribbons/etc. I still support breast cancer awareness and research but I don't give a cent to those fucks.

[–]mossbergman 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You know your favorite ribbon is also a special snowflake cause. Testicle cancer kills more men than titty cancer kills women.

[–]WilliamBott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I allowed to support multiple causes, or does supporting breast cancer research exclude me from also supporting testicular cancer research, lung cancer research, AIDS cure research, etc.?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wear a red ribbon and tell everyone to go get fucked. If you can get away with it.

[–]KriegerAleks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id ask them how many beating their little Ribbon stopped today

[–]kagetsuki23 4 points5 points  (1 child)

they lost their power, trump is now in power.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Hardest, yet most valuable rule in the whole book.

[–]luckylosing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agreed, I still catch myself all the time, gotta always remember this rule

[–]Pomandres[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

For men, power certainly has its place. Keep in mind that it is difficult to stay humble if we lust for power. Is that anywhere in the book? Personally, I would make that the first rule.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Who said humble? making such a useless 'stand' has no benefit, only downsides

[–]Pomandres[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything has its benefits and its downside. Including the notion of seeking power. As I said it has its place. That is why we read the book of power. But you cannot truly know power until you have known humility.

[–]Luckyluke23 0 points1 point  (1 child)

it's not about controling the women man it's ALL to do with the men. and keeping people in there place

[–]Pomandres[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstand me. I am in total agreeance with you. Feminism is about controlling the men in society. To justify the redundant ideology of feminism, false-hoods like violence or rape awareness, and misrepresentations of the wage-gap, are utilized to indoctrinate the beta slave.

[–]landon042 5 points6 points  (0 children)

why are you wearing your ribbon timmy?

Timmy: maybe Timmy doesn't give a fuck about violence against you :)

[–]1nonthaki 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just say "White Ribbons Are For White Knights"

[–]Ephidemical 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Right now, Bill Burr's video about violence against women comes to mind...

[–]Pomandres[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about his Women's Revenge Stories segment?

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly man, this fucking bullshit is being ignored because women are wonderful. They view their kids as trophies whom are an extension of themselves and not another individual. BPD mothers are the worst.

[–][deleted] 103 points104 points  (31 children)

Oh my fucking god. I cannot fucking believe how someone can kill two children to spite their husband. How can you take the lives of two young kids who have their whole lives ahead of them because of your pride and ego. This story blows my mind and has pissed me the hell off.

[–]CryptoManbeard 58 points59 points  (27 children)

Because you are thinking like a normal person. She was not. Cluster B's lack empathy. They don't think of others like you do. Everything they do centers around how it affects them. The fake empathy they pretend to show is a cover up so they can fit in. There's actually a good book about it called emotional vampires. Was very eye opening for me as several of the stories could have been taken straight from my ex.

[–]MultiMediaWill 18 points19 points  (5 children)

Can confirm. The way BPD people think is completely different. They are literally incapable of accepting responsibility for their actions in addition to many other issues. It's fucking scary. I just got out of a 1-year relationship with a BPD gf. Run as fast as you can. I'm not over exaggerating.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 12 points13 points  (4 children)

Their a lose cannon ball. One wrong step and they are either physically or emotionally attacking you. They aren't even real people. They will put whatever facade they have on in order to catch you in their web. Then you will catch her with someone else and she's suddenly a totally different person.

Their cheating is random at best and is no reflection on your SMV and frame maintenance. Their as likely to go for strange dick because you dread them as they are to branch swing because they lost respect for you.

This is the kind of girl that will pretend she doesn't enjoy sex at all because the risk of losing you is to great. Couple days later letting herself get gang banged in the local town parking lot. Again, reflects poorly on you. It's almost completely random with these girls.

Whatever lottery number you pulled when first meeting her, rest assured she will do damage in your life before she's gone. Women like this will make you lose any shred of respect you had for the other sex.

And there are allot of them out there.

[–]MultiMediaWill 7 points8 points  (3 children)

I've lost all respect for women as of now. I just got out of the 1-year relationship with my BPD gf. She was my first relationship. I don't know if I can ever trust a girl again. She lied all day everyday. She lied about little things, big things, and even irrelevant things. I'm scared to date again. The pain is real. I've never hit the lows that I've hit in the last year. Someone tell me it gets better.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My first 'relationship' was with a BPD and it only lasted two months. I played her for half a year before that. Things went horribly south and I never saw her again after that. She said and did horrible things and lied about so many things in retrospect. I can't even look back at it with a smile, it was just all bad. I've got no idea who that girl even was.

It does get better though, I've realized that the problem was with her and not me. I've improved beyond natural limits into something I'm proud of and I get to share it with the most amazing set of people I surround myself with. I truly love my life and the direction it's taking. Everything is going better than ever.

And yet I fully understand what your saying. That girl was the first one I ever got serious with and lost any and all ability to trust women. I can't love them in the blue pill way I once did. I doubt I'm even capable of bonding in a relationship. I just don't care for them anymore.

She made me realize I only really wanted the pussy and I never truly cared for women in the first place. I never really liked them. Find your sanity in friendship and brotherhood, they are far better investments than some bitch. Give up on that false dream of romantics, it never existed.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can vouch for this. One of my ex relations was BPD and that idiot would have plunged a dagger in my back if she had the chance. They are worse than male psychopaths because they lack maturity and self restraint. They simply can't control their idiotic personality and lash out like a kid. While not giving a shit.

[–]marplaneit 12 points13 points  (18 children)

I'm a subclinical psicopath, I don't feel empathy, I just don't feel bad (or good)when shit happen to people, but I still can rationalize Empathy. I don't feel bad for the guy, or the kids but killing two kids is plain retarded. Yes, you totally destroyed that guy, but you also sent yourself to jail for life.

Edit: I don't do psicopath stuff anymore, because having friends and acting a normal dude, only doing small amount of "attacks" only if its needed or have huge amount of gains, is way more lucrative than being a fucking snake.

[–]OneInAZillion 13 points14 points  (1 child)

I think I may be like, half of what you've got.

I usually don't feel bad for women, although I can rationalize empathy, but I always feel for men, children, and especially animals.

Selective empathy ftw.

Also it's psychopath.

[–]marplaneit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only felt grief when my cat that grow with me as a child died in front of me... And never again, and a lot of family and a friend have died since that moment.

[–]Pomandres[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

The snake, swallowing its tail, consumes itself.

[–]johngalt1234 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Do you believe in morality?

[–]marplaneit 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Everyone has its own "morality".Mine just differs vastly from the law. I also don't think people have morality in the sense of " having to do the right thing". Most people don't do shitty stuff out of fear of feeling guilty. (Empathy)

[–]johngalt1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you determine objective right and wrong? I'd imagine it would be totally mechanistic.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (5 children)

She's not a psychopath, just a simple borderline/narcissist joke. Easy to trick, easy to fool and trigger. She has zero control over her own self.

[–]marplaneit 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Well most psychopath are in jail... Being a psychopath doesn't make you smart. You are just a retarded with no Empathy (dangerous as fuck).

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Actually psychopaths tend to be incredibly smart and devious. Just like autism it's a disorder that comes with a higher than normal IQ. They are also less dangerous than your average BPD or NPD because they are actually capable of controlling their disorder.

It's also very hard to spot a psychopath unless you are one yourself so it would be very unlikely for all of them to be in jail. I know a couple whom would classify as such and they've never been a problem. Those I encounter with BPD or NPD however always hurt those around them, destroy everything and leave people unhappy. Very sad people.

[–]marplaneit 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I am one, I can spot other psychopaths really easy. I always thought BPD or NPD were stupid psychopaths though... To the spoting psychopaths theme, is really easy for me. Most of them have that "fake" charisma, they have eyes that shouts danger, like the gaze of a wolf, and when they talk to you, their faces do these expressions of thinking, they are always analyzing what you say. I also have found functionally psychopaths always come from good upbringing, really caring and loving family.

[–]marplaneit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am one, I can spot other psychopaths really easy. I always thought BPD or NPD were stupid psychopaths though... To the spoting psychopaths theme, is really easy for me. Most of them have that "fake" charisma, they have eyes that shouts danger, like the gaze of a wolf, and when they talk to you, their faces do these expressions of thinking, they are always analyzing what you say. I also have found functionally psychopaths always come from good upbringing, really caring and loving family.

[–]Tuga_Lissabon 1 point2 points  (3 children)

What kind of "attacks" have huge amount of gains?

Yes, totally retarded. Like guys here who kill someone over a crossing, or a small debt and so on - you've just ruined your life. WTF.

[–]marplaneit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A: If you can fuck a co-worker over, for gaining an upper position without anyone knowing you did it. Something along these lines. Or making friend with someone in a deep and shitty situation and helping them cause you know he will feel he is in debt for life... Etc.

People try to be "psico" and do stupid stuff and back stab people and earn enemies. A good Machiavellian runs the show from the shadow while performing in front of the camera.

[–]youcantstopmyzed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women in generell don't think logically. I have so many examples to share but the best one which made me realize how stupid women sometimes are was when I was about 15 and arguing with my mom (we are from Italy but settled in the us).

I told her something, she has mistaken it. I told her that I sometimes feel like that she can speak English but doesn't understand English.

She then got really mad and asked why I am accusing her of not being ABLE to speak English.

Women are delusional and think too emotional about most things...

[–]Pomandres[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

You posted this during the edit of my post. Synchronicity. We are of Likemind.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I know Shakespeare quite well but never heard of that in that way before but it's pretty damn interesting - Shakespeare and Synchronicity. Where in Shakespeare's work is that from?

[–]Pomandres[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The philosophy behind Synchronicity is that it is present in all ideas. And so, concerning art, Synchronicity is present here too. Art imitates life. Art repeats itself. Artists allude to artists who allude to artists who allude to artists. And so it is the same for all Masters of Thought. The Collective Mind of Humanity spirals-in and spirals-out.

[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 41 points42 points  (0 children)


My first thought was "that guy is just your usual reddit troll pranking the community", but I think that scenario is out of the window.

[–]johngalt1234 32 points33 points  (36 children)

Women like this is why the death penalty must exist. Show no mercy to the murderer.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I bet her thought process went like this. If her husband would take her kids away from her she would take them away to the grave. Her plan was to kill the kids, then kill herself and live in eternal bliss. Here's the hilarious part.

The bitch murdered her own children easy, couple of good stabs, efficient, making sure there was nu pulse. Then when she got around to herself she couldn't do it. She did what ever suicidal woman does. Half assed the suicide and chickened out. Because it turns out, that knifing yourself actually fucking hurts.

So this woman didn't only murder her own children. She felt no empathy for their pain while she was killing them and only felt remorse and fear when she had to kill herself.

This. This is the perfect example of a woman's solipsism max leveled. At the end of the day these un-evolved test case humans only give a shit about themselves. If I lived in America I would be standing with a pitchfork infront of her house.

[–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill 8 points9 points  (1 child)

If these were my kids I would make it my personal mission to be waiting for her if she ever got out with a bullet to put through her brain. A man needs to own up to his mistakes and make them right. I've got this on Google notifications to see what kind of pussy pass this bitch tries to cash.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lets get real, the way of the civilized man is to accept justice. We dont attempt to avenge or revenge, thats for tribal lowlifes like islamicists to do, we have rule of law. When however, our justice fails to deliver, we can exact our own justice at a cost to our own prosperity i.e militias and vigilantes.

[–]donot_care 4 points5 points  (3 children)

Better to let her rot and think about what she has done for the next 55 years

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Psychopaths feel no empathy, 50 years gives her plenty of time try and escape.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They fear death more than anything. Give her that fear.

[–]beginner_ 120 points121 points  (6 children)

Well he can console himself because they probably were not his kids anyway...

[–]Pomandres[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Damn man... That is the darkest laugh I have had all November.

[–]theONE843663 13 points14 points  (0 children)

How'd you read my mind? What sorcery is this? I was thinking this from the beginning.

[–]Potato_palya 23 points24 points  (1 child)

Dude! They were kids! Reddit really lets me down sometimes .

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (1 child)

you can't blame a women in any situation, it was probably her time of the month and she was feeling a little "moody" , cut her some slack and stop mansplaining

[–]Pomandres[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Curiously, from the mans first post up until the tragedy was a total of 27 days, about the length of a menstrual cycle.

[–]4D6N2 15 points16 points  (6 children)

Someone here is shadowbanned. If your username isn't iamneptuno, or OP, or myself, then it's you. Mystery solved.

[–]Pomandres[S] 8 points9 points  (5 children)

Do you have any idea the amount of username edits you will have to perform when this thread blows up?! I hope whoever is shadow-banned discovers your comment before the east coast awakens...

Edit Ironically, it was me that is shadow-banned. Happened when I pasted the wall of text from the relationshipadvice thread. Who knew? Kudos to /u/Jeronidas for solving the problem.

[–]Pomandres[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)


[–]crowscountingspades 15 points16 points  (6 children)

Dated/lived with a BPD for 8 years...can confirm it's an agonizing, psychotic thrill ride...

[–]1PantsonFire1234 5 points6 points  (5 children)

How the fuck did you keep that thing around for 8 years? I was one and done after two months.

[–]SaiHottari 22 points23 points  (1 child)

Do not fuck with Borderline Personality Disorder boys.

So don't fuck women under 30?

[–]matthew8367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unicorn: A woman without BPD

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (2 children)

This bitch stabbed her kids in the neck to death.

I'm a long time bowhunter. Twice I've made a bad shot and had to finish the deer with a knife. It was fucking brutal, and I was left shaken by it each time and questioned whether I would continue hunting.

I had to do it though because in the moment the only alternative was leaving an animal to suffer.

I cannot ever imagine doing the same to a human, let alone my own child.

This bitch is lower than whale shit and should be executed.

[–]MultiMediaWill 4 points5 points  (5 children)

I posted this once before but I feel it's appropriate to post again:

Reading this makes me hurt so so badly inside. I just got out of a 1-year relationship with a girl that had a bad case of BPD. It's brutal. So fucking brutal I could write 50 pages about how I was abused. RUN!

[–]1PantsonFire1234 7 points8 points  (4 children)

You're not alone man, toughen up and move on. Be wary of them in the future. Make sure you give them maximum amounts of mental pain should you ever encounter one. Every guy I hear from that dated one will verify that they are capable of some incredibly gut wrenching shit.

Once I read an interview from a girl who had BPD and she explained it like this.

"Sometimes I do or say some of the most horrible shit imaginable. But you have to know that the only reason I do this is because you hurt me deeply. I actually care and love deeply and when I'm hurt by this I lash out"

None of it makes this any better but as you can read. They are incredibly damaged children in a grown woman's body. Overwhelmed with crazy emotions they turn it to 100 quick. Nothing you can do to change that, simply stay away from crazy.

[–]MultiMediaWill 2 points3 points  (3 children)

That quote could have come from my ex. She often told me that she lashes out in order to help her feel better at the moment from the pain she is suffering.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 2 points3 points  (2 children)

They feel allot of emotions that are unbearable at times, that combined with their immaturity makes them volatile children when it comes to revenge. They are more afraid of you than you are of them.

None of it is excusable though, lash out right back and rid yourself of any toxic person in your life. You can't save them.

[–]MultiMediaWill 1 point2 points  (1 child)

lash out right back and rid yourself of any toxic person in your life. You can't save them.

Done. As of last week. Wish me luck for this recovery period.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember to live a good life as revenge.

[–]stawek 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No one could have foreseen the tragedy

A child dying from pneumonia is a tragedy. This was evil.

[–]THE_Aft_io9_Giz 4 points5 points  (1 child)

That video of the press conference at the bottom... he does what everyone is feeling when they read this

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

The family are my gf's distant relatives. She was completely shocked when her mom told her but I'm not sure if she knows about the infidelity.

Edit: nope, they had no clue the woman was a cheating whore (I linked her to the original posts instead of here for obvious reasons).

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol figures, some ugly fat bitch cheats allot. I really don't understand why low value women are so dead set to make themselves even less appealing.

How much did she cheat? Was that neighbor the only case? He was like twenty years older to.

[–]WarriorsSpaceship 5 points5 points [recovered]

Men love women. Women love children?

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol allot of women nowadays only love themselves. Personality disordered people can't love their children. Best they can hope for us having the maturity and foresight to guide their kid to a good path that benefits both the parent and the child. Women don't have this ability. All they care about is having a trophy child. Like getting a dog or something.

[–]WilliamBott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is fucking horrible. Those poor children and this poor man having to go through this.

She should be executed in the most painful and slowest way possible for what she has done.

[–]KriegerAleks 2 points3 points  (3 children)

I'm going to say something harsh. And this surprisingly came from a female co-worker of mine.

"Women (people) expect their husbands (partners) to change after marriage, They(people) go through a relationship they arent happy with, with this hope that after they get married their husbands (partners) will suddenly change. Thing is they wont and when they realize this that is when the real trouble starts"

The parenthesise are aturally mine. The truth is this, partner will not be changing for you. If they do change then it still wont be for you and if they have it wasnt for you. If it was then you should go run good and far cause its not going to last. This highlights 2 things. 1 Vet your wives, chat to their ex's if you can , their brothers their friends learn their history. 2 If you are going to divorce your wife. Complete Total Utter Blindside. I am assuming the party is doing it for valid reasons but in those case if your wife/ hubby is abusive. a rapist a -serial- cheater (we all make mistakes but recurrent is a no no). or if she continually does folish stuff. Lying may not be underneath her .

p.s. I cant remember the last time i participated in any of those things, they are all idiots w.r.t. the ribbon crap people do and marches

[–]Pomandres[S] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

It's comedic because men do the opposite. They expect their wives to stay the same after marriage. They go through a relationship with this hope that after marriage their wife will be as sweet as she was as a girlfriend. Very logical.

[–]KriegerAleks 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I cant say from experience but ive not seen that. all ive seen is the persons real character comes out. if they were selfish they will be more and so on. the trick is learning how to watch for it

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This poor guy. Jesus Christ.

[–]Pastelitomaracucho 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's all fun and games until someone gets killed.

[–]SpaceViolet 8 points9 points  (1 child)

I feel like 30% (THIRTY-PERCENT) of women are BPD though. 50% (FIFTY-PERCENT, or 1/2 (ONE HALF (ONE OUT OF EVERY TWO)) have some BPD tendencies. It's unreal.

Literally get a vasectomy, literally never marry. The 21st century is so fucking weird for humans.

[–]BeefNellington 3 points3 points [recovered]

I read in the comment section somewhere else that the mother of the lady used those kids as sympathy for her daughter's GoFundMe... money for her defense. Completely fucked.

[–]Pomandres[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crazyapple doesn't fall too far from the crazytree.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Horrifying, what makes it worse is this grade A cunt will be portrayed by someas a 'poor' woman struggling to cope with motherhood with an estranged spouse who wouldn't support her through her dark times. Fuck this bitch, give her the chair.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 3 points4 points  (8 children)

That woman deserves to be clubbed in the street, brutally. No excuse for this behavior, no PC resolutions. Simply brutal violent death. Women like this need to be an example to the bitches to come, that this kind of retarded behavior nets you no mercy from society. Our society would give this bitch a couple years of therapy and a short prison sentence while false raped accusations get you more bartime. This is ridiculous.

To make matters worse is the fact that we're not talking about some super hotty. No, this is a woman whom has occupied a solid position in the rankings of the ugly people market. A fucking dwarfish land whale. Low value sluut at best. She's lucky to have a husband and kids at all. And what does she do with it? She ruins everyone's live because she couldn't have her cake and eat it to. Brutal arctic seal clubbing for this bitch.

Americans, for the love of god punish this woman. You in this community hold more power than you realize. Your opinions and actions do matter. This retarded shit has to stop for the preservation of our nations. And should another civil war break out over there, I fully hope a couple of you pay that woman a visit.

The time of keeping your opinions for yourself is over.

[–]stawek 3 points4 points  (2 children)

No, send her to prison.

Female inmates have children themselves, a baby-killer is treated there like a child molester in male prison. And women are much more savage when they can...

[–]Pomandres[S] 4 points5 points  (4 children)

They shall cast her out of the doors of her father's house, and the men of the city shall stone her to death, and she shall die: because she hath done a wicked thing.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 2 points3 points  (3 children)

See, people knew long ago what the penalty was for crazy bitch behavior. They understood that there is no getting through a maniac other than fast flinging rocky objects.

[–]pewpsprinkler 2 points3 points  (9 children)

Just wondering, how do we know this chick was BPD? BPDs normally harm themselves when they act out, vs murdering other people.

Crazy comes in many forms, BPD is only one flavor.

[–]Pomandres[S] 1 point2 points  (8 children)

I was asked the same question over PM:


I found this story on greyreddit maybe 5 or 10 minutes before my post. I actually still have the comment chain open somewhere here in my mass of tabs: news/comments/5er4he/court_docs_mom_killed_her_2_young_children_so/


You can see the women and plugged-in men discussing their disbelief that this could actually happen. And so I stood up from my chair and did the BPD-Boogie, cause I know exactly what the fuck kind of turkey this bitch is baking.


I must admit, I have not found any mention of it in the news reports or husband posts. I haven't looked within the actual comments of his posts but I can say that the feminist media will suppress any mention of BPD for as long as possible, as it is found far more in women than in men if at all even.

[–]pewpsprinkler 2 points3 points  (7 children)

The murders were clearly in response to his filing for divorce. So she lacked self control and acted impulsively. I wouldn't rule out BPD completely, but this could be a lot of other kinds of crazy. BPD's do not have a monopoly on this kind of behavior, and I've never known BPD to be associated with open violence, it is more like passive aggression, playing the victim, turning people against you, and so on.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, but look at what the murders were rooted in- a fear of abandonment. Thats what BPD is at its core. These people will stop at nothing to keep their support network in place or they will lash out if it becomes at all threatened. BPD girls are also the worst of whores. Ive dated one. Never. Again. This bitch it textbook BPD.

[–]Petrarch1603 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Wasn't there a documentary about this happening in Canada?

[–]RiimoH 1 point2 points  (11 children)

Is this the moment to downvote because it makes oneself sad and I dislike this shit or is it the moment to upvote so everybody will see it and take precautions and OP doesn't deserve to be downvoted?

[–]Pomandres[S] 2 points3 points  (10 children)

I do not concern myself with 'votes'. However, I do wish there was a way to turn off redditkarma and yet keep the weighting:

Redditkarma serves the evils of narcissism and hubris. But the free-market nature of the system serves to weight our contemplations such that they are rewarded for relevance and succinctness. For this, it is good. And so karma is thusly amoral. The issue is confirmation bias. Sadly, if you were to redact the reddit user tags, endorsement flair, announcement flair, or stickies; some followers here would shut their eyes and close their ears to the words of their disguised leaders. In doing so they would deny themselves the wisdom their leaders have to offer.

[–]RiimoH 0 points1 point  (9 children)

Some shakespearean going on here. I'm really sorry but i don't understand about 50% of your text.

[–]Oz70NYC 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Now if this were an emotionally distressed male who killed his kids to stop his wife from getting custody, the media would be all over it smearing his name and demonizing him. Sometimes I believe as a species...an extinction event might not be a bad thing.

[–]Pomandres[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The media want slaves not unplugged leaders.

[–]Ch54m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me no one would ask his cheating partner about him and let her console the murder on tv if the roles were reversed ( source:the poor bastard's reddit account)

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[–]ArkAngelEV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it wrong of me to be relieved that kind of DNA was forcibly removed from the gene pool

[–]MyTitsAreSmall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with her being a woman, and everything to do with her BPD

[–]BAVO888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why didn't she kill herself and her fucking neighbor, dirty bitch and fucked up neighbor, then people are wondering why mgtow is rising so fast guys are wising up not willing to go through this shit, this bitch is wicked as fuck and manipulative after she cheat on this guy threaten to take away his kids while disrespecting the guy with the fucking neighbor so when the wimp finally understand that he deserve better and she finally understand she is going to lose the best thing that ever happen to her crazy ass and she realize that the neighbor was only fucking her stupid ass and is not willing to left his girlfriend for her crazy ass she kill her own kids for her own fuck up, it is like she is blaming the kids for her infidelity. LIFE IN PRISON, are burn her like a witch. A lot of guys is going through the same thing this man go through but because of the justice system in this pathetic country women feel they can cuck a guy and they have to live with it. If you people think this is the last a parent is going to kill there child/children you are mistaken as long these divorce laws remain unfair women will take this chance the next time might be the father who slaughter his whole family from tired of being a cuck,abuse,disrespect and tied down in an unbearable relationship where is wife does anything she wants and then threaten to ass rape him in court, I blame the crazy bitch and the unfair justice system. MGTOW is looking pretty good from where i am standing

[–]ven5 6 points7 points  (3 children)

This isn't a redpill marriage lesson. This isn't even covering something that can happen to anybody. This is one example of an extreme psycho and you guys took the outrage bait. Is this sub like Facebook and twoX now, looking for something to be outraged by rather than finding what works in their own lives?

[–]Pomandres[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

This is a redpill lesson in crazy bitches, I chose the next closest thing for the flair. Technically this did happen to somebody, but I know how you mean. There is no outrage baiting in this thread, only discussion. All subs become redundant eventually. If I may be candid, the comment you have left here can be considered to be a display of outrage.

[–]ven5 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Haha it's ok, I must always sound outraged. I don't accuse you of writing something to get others outraged, but that's how it starts on other subs, i.e that's how feminist subs find stories to lead them to the conclusion that rape culture is a thing. I want people to remain calm and logical when reading stories. 3 more posts of wives killing someone in their family and I bet you people here would start talking about how there's an epidemic of murderous wives and link it in some way to hypergamy, judging by the state of the comments.

[–]Pomandres[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This rings very true. We all have to be mindful of how extremely unlikely this is. And if you are armed with red pill knowledge, the risk should be virtually 0.

[–]Katavasis 3 points4 points  (5 children)

It's a not your typical case,about a woman being irrational.

This woman is not normal by any means.Don't take this as a real life paradigm.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Exactly. A not normal thing that happened to a normal man as a result of female crazies.

[–]Katavasis 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Not female crazies,just crazies.

[–]johngalt1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pattern of craziness can be gender specific.

[–]4D6N2 8 points9 points  (33 children)

What's worse, she's an ugly fucking landwhale. What kind of cuck is so pathetically ugly and BP that he procreates with that disgusting piece of filth? Those poor kids. The father is to blame just as much as the mother is, for thinking with his dick and not his brain. He needed to get his dick wet so badly that he settled for a psychotic, unstable hamplanet. Shame on him, and all men like him.

[–]Pomandres[S] 35 points36 points  (5 children)

This is the nature of our indoctrination. You cannot blame the man for his actions. He knows not the wisdom that we teach here. There is a decent chance she went full ham only after giving birth as she knew he was a provider who does not dabble in dread. I'd imagine a plugged in man like himself to get over the fact that he is no longer attracted to that parasite. So that he can provide a family environment for his children. If you read his post, he stuck around for over a year after she cheated because he was clever enough to realize she would put the kids through hell during a divorce. He also made decisions with a very open mind. The perfect candidate for an unplugging. I refuse to shame him.

[–]vagbutters 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Even before I found this subreddit I had enough standards to know that you don't wife a landwhale. They're repulsive on a physical level, and I would not want someone like that raising my kids with shitty eating habits that she'll inevitably rub off on them.

[–]Pomandres[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

A sign that you naturally explore the ramifications of your actions. Perhaps this mindset is what led you here.

[–]vagbutters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can still remember the day I found this subreddit-- given how cucked most of this site is, I read TRP without really knowing what it was about, and wow was it the most amazing feeling knowing that there were like-minded individuals who saw how demented this gross feminist misandrist society is.

[–]4D6N2 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I would agree with you if the only victim of this tragedy was himself.

[–]Pomandres[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Amen. I pity him, for no man could have conceived this outcome.

[–]iamneptuno 12 points13 points  (21 children)

What's worse, she's an ugly fucking landwhale.

Which is the majority of American females. You just physically don't have other options.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Ugly
  2. Fat
  3. Still cheats

[–]4D6N2 2 points3 points  (19 children)

There are probably 50 million other women out there that aren't uggos or fatshits. The problem isn't the demographics. The problem is that the father is (I'd bet my left nut) overweight, boring, ugly, and mentally weak. So he had to settle for an obeast. If he weren't so low value, he could do better.

[–]Pomandres[S] 6 points7 points  (4 children)

I would not be surprised in the least if he is overweight and boring to women, but so what women are boring as fuck. He may be ugly, but then again, BPD bitches have high standards for such external attributes, so maybe he is fit and handsome. Is he mentally weak? Not-so, he sought advice and he sucked up his pride, killed his ego and took it:


Thank you everyone for helping me see how far I had my head up my ass.


With that being said, you absolutely have a point here. He let this woman walk all over him. He wasn't being a man. He was being the boy that society created. His awakening to his suffering and following quest for answers to his plight shows him to be eagerly awaiting wisdom. And when given feedback that conflicted with his ego and his identity, he took a few days to think it over rationally. He successfully modified his outlook and social programming. Something that is impossible if you are truly beta. This is what separates the men from the boys. His rejection of Acquiescence is to be praised.

[–]4D6N2 2 points3 points  (1 child)

It took him over a year to realize that his wife cucking him was a good reason for divorce. Sure, kids were involved. Waiting a year didn't make the kids go away. It took a year of misery for him to finally evolve enough vertebrae to leave her. And not enough to notify CPS that his wife was a nutcase -- 10 year marriage -- there were definitely red flags. He just refused to see them because getting his shriveled dick wet was more important to him than his safety and wellbeing, and his children's safety and wellbeing. Absolutely inexcusable.

[–]Pomandres[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, and again; this is the nature of our indoctrination.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (1 child)

The problem is that BPD women target such beta men. They never aim for an Alpha and if they ever accidentally end up dating a lesser one. They almost always implode the connection and look for easier targets. They need control, they can't stand the absolute fear of being abandoned.

That's the fucked up part of this. BPD women purposefully seek out Beta men which they unknowingly will fuck up later on. Had this guy not been her victim, it would have been another man.

[–]iamneptuno 11 points12 points  (12 children)

50 million? No way.

There are ~150 000 000 females in the US, of all ages.

But ok, even if we don't care about the age:

1) Only 30% are not landwhales -- 50 000 000.

2) Only 50% are not ugly, and this is generous -- 25 000 000.

25 million, and it's not even considering the age.

Sadly, American females are perhaps the lowest quality females on Earth.

[–]4D6N2 3 points4 points  (9 children)

My point stands. That's a fuckload of women.

[–]Pomandres[S] 4 points5 points  (3 children)

Quite the abundance wouldn't you say? A truly optimistic mentality.

[–]4D6N2 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Certainly. I don't understand why iamneptuno is acting like finding a woman who's not a psycho ugly landwhale is some huge feat. They're literally everywhere.

[–]Pomandres[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sit and I shall illuminate the frame behind this man's mind:


Which is the majority of American females. You just physically don't have other options.

  • From this man's perspective, he is correct. "You just physically don't have other options." We must then assume that he just physically does not have any other options. To assume otherwise would cause this man's ego to make an attempt at protecting its identity. An identity of a man who has few options beyond the majority of woman who are fat in the West.


This is only one perspective. Another perspective is that this man is quite aware of the fact that he, and you, and many of us here at TRP are well within' our means of attaining some high-end pussy. And in fact, what he is saying, is that this poor bastard we are all discussing here in the post, is quite simply not one of us. He is indoctrinated. He is beta. To him, he really doesn't have any other options:


Only in absolute terms.

For real, sport, travel to some Eastern European shithole, so you know what females actually look like, and we are on the same page discussing this shit.


I must clarify that this story occurs in the south. The environment a man finds himself in will always affect his decisions. But it will also consume his decisions unless he is truly enlightened. Everything exists in dualism. Use this understanding to explore the possible reasonings or motivations behind everything you read.

Saturn ascends, the one, the ten.

[–]beginner_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And in worst case scenario you can still get a non-psycho, pretty fatty and teach her how to eat right (or not eat at first) and show her a gym from the inside. If she refuses, well you move on.

[–]iamneptuno 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Only in absolute terms.

For real, sport, travel to some Eastern European shithole, so you know what females actually look like, and we are on the same page discussing this shit.

[–]4D6N2 0 points1 point  (2 children)

That's 13% of the population. Also equal to the black population of the US, and nobody would argue that they are rare. What does eastern Europe have to do with it?

[–]iamneptuno 1 point2 points  (1 child)

That's 13% of the population.

Where did you get it from? 25 000 000 is just 8% of 318 000 000.

What does eastern Europe have to do with it?

Go there and see for yourself. What you consider not ugly or even above average is actually still ugly once you are outside of the US.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divide by 5 for age group. 5 million? 80% are probably incompatible in some way.

That's 1% of females right there.


Those who don't look hard get trapped

[–]Pomandres[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you are Alpha, the average beauty of a woman is irrelevant. You get the Cream. Alas, for the Beta, it is unfortunate to live in the West. But, it could be worse. They could be living in a society that restricts the human right of having access to sexual outlets to release energy. Much akin to the rationalization behind the comment I stumbled across yesterday:


[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're shocked that western women are low quality? Often overweight, career oriented, shitty personality, big sluts, personality disordered. How are you surprised by this.

Did you think being Beta/Low Value week was exclusive to men? Everyone sucks balls in the west, that's what you get when you unconsciously enslave an entire human population.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, though she is the same like him. This woman clearly has no understanding of her limits. She didn't cheat with better men. She simply cheated for the rush of cheating. She likes the drama. She's insane.

[–]whataboutudummy 2 points3 points  (1 child)

He is not certainly not to blame for the death of these children. That's absurd and you are sounding a little Histrionic Personality here.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 2 points3 points  (2 children)

She knows how to play on beta boys fantasies. She either gave him mindblowing sex which he never got. Or adoration and constant praise. Whatever floats your boat, a BPD will give it to you.

[–]vagbutters 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I laughed when I saw this-- laughed at him specifically for

a. Wifing a landwhale slut

b. Some desperate beta actually fucked this landwhale knowing she was married

Poor kids, though.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (6 children)

Did a google image search for brandi worley. You can tell she has some sort of personality disorder/crazy just from her eyes.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's everything about her. You can tell by the way she presents herself that she has entitlement issues and wants to be lusted for. But she is plagued by her shitty genes. Her eyes show a lack of emotion and happiness, just hunger for feels. Also they are slightly sad. Eyes smile like your mouth. But you can't fake smiling eyes like you can fake a smile. Micro expressions brah.

Your gut is picking all these subtle hints that tell you this person is coo coo. For example, notice how she always looks into the camera. That's a sign she ain't shy about getting attention. Another telltale sign is her obsession with eye liner. She's aware of her lifeless eyes and tries to mask it. Literally hiding in plain sight. Constant different hairstyles are another sign. The sign of her personality shifts and ebs and flow in confidence. All of it screams "I'm an unstable person, come fuck me".

This girl is a walking ball of red flags and the funny part is she's barely an HB2.

[–]Pomandres[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Interesting that those lifeless eyes also portray a deep hunger.

It's an uncanny valley thing (often why things are creepy).

You have to trust your gut on these things. I've never met someone that at first seemed off and had weird eyes and then later had this impression be wrong.

[–]Pomandres[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The eyes are the window to the Soul. Daemons hide in plain sight.

[–]bigcitytruth 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Here on TRP we should be discussing the cuckold guy's behavior more than the crazy mom. We can all agree this was a horrific crime beyond words and the woman needs to be punished.

What is intriguing to me is that the man was not only cuckolded, but he apologized to both his wife and the other guy! The icing on the cake is that the wife is fat. This is the king of cuckolds.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must know by now that this woman is BPD and this guy is her only compatible mate, a Beta. BPD women can't bond with Alpha's. They can't handle it, big chances that other guy was beta as fuck to.

She's just playing the beta orbiter field and all the guys are cucks in her game. The only difference was that this guy had fucking kids with her and the others don't.

[–]Luckyluke23 0 points1 point  (1 child)

i saw that post on news sub. i posted this.

Oh, but you who philosophize disgrace and criticize all fears Bury the rag deep in your face For now's the time for your tears

i got downvoted to fuck.

[–]Pomandres[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Careful dude the redsheep may downvote you too if they do not understand it. This is a very complex piece of art, albeit beautiful. I will elaborate for those who seek its meaning:

Oh, but you who philosophize disgrace and criticize all fears Bury the rag deep in your face For now's the time for your tears

  • Oh, but you with blue pill philosophy, who criticize red pill truths. Bury the rag deep in your face. For now is the time for your beta tears.

[–]ConcealingFate 0 points1 point  (3 children)

There was a similar story in Québec a few years ago. Man is fucked up, his wife cheats on him, he killed both kids to make his wife pay. That was fucked up.

[–]johngalt1234 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Difference is he is held accountable. But women oh no they do no wrong.

[–]1nonthaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good amount of men and women are crazy like this . But if ever a woman comes to me telling me "Women are goddesses and cant do no wrong" , I for one have no idea whether I can resist myself from slapping her .

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