"I'm a Feminist, but I Like When He Comes on My Face" (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by G_Petronius


(strangely enough, the leading picture is a of a male-model-tier ubermensch, not a male feminist type)

Strap in boys this is gonna be a wild ride.

I am a strong, fiercely independent, and quite outspoken 21-year-old

Man I love when they self-described as "strong". That's like a 120 dB shout of "please please please I want to be anything but strong please take control".

and I want to be able to do what I want, when I want, without being judged for my choices

ride ride ride, riding the cock carousel

Thankfully, we are (slowly) moving towards a more equal society for the sexes.


But I have always had a secret — one thing I was afraid to share for fear it would detract from my feminist identity.

But why? surely women wouldn't slut shame you right?

I like rough sex. I am not talking Fifty Shades, "let-me-show-you-my playroom"rough, but I like when he slaps my breasts, when he spanks my ass, when he talks dirty in my ear, when he pulls my hair, and — yes — when he comes all over my face.Sex is a time for me to have fun and be adventurous, and I love the titillating unpredictability of giving control to my partner.

What did I say about women who self-describe as "strong"?

Just because hair pulling and spanking turns me on doesn't mean I'm giving up on equality

It does though honey. It means you recognize equality doesn't exist, and it turns you on that it doesn't.

It makes me feel powerful to tell someone my fantasy and have it realized.

This is a little hamster spinning: rewriting reality so that she's "telling" guys her domination fantasy. In reality she never in a million years would want to tell the guy anything.

tl;dr: manhandle her, spank her, pull her hair, fuck her face. The stronger and tougher a facade she puts up, the more she craves it. The goal of feminism is subjugating betas and getting pounded by alphas, never forget that.

[–]Allegro6 378 points379 points  (72 children)

there must be a positive correlation between feminism and desire for rough sex and sexual humiliation.

I think feminists are unconsciously looking for someone who will dominate them and they are presenting themself as tough women to discourage weak men.

[–]haveagoodlaugh 237 points238 points  (12 children)

there must be a positive correlation between feminism and desire for rough sex and sexual humiliation.

yeah it's called a shitty childhood

[–]analyticaltoafault 51 points52 points  (6 children)

Lol I'd buy it.

Most actually confident/don't yell about their feminist beliefs/sane/awesome girls and women I meet had very good healthy parents raise them right.

The ones with broken homes/crazy parents/etc. often seem to not be that way.

At the same time, a resilient few learned that they are who controls their life early on due to neglect and come out stronger.

Edit: wanted to add this. Secure and confident egos with anyone are amazing and attractive things we recognize. Insecurities/fears are the cause of nearly all social dysfunctions. Ignorance instead of curiosity for wisdom and knowledge plays its part as well.

[–]Bossman28894 1 point2 points  (5 children)

This explains my girlfriend now. Grew up with single mother (wonderful mom) however living in broken home, and having abussive boy friends in the past have left me with this insecurity to clean up. The slightest lie, whatever he may be, will create a giant riff, and given her fragile state she yells/screams/kicks whatever, because that's the environment she was raised in...and it sucks so hard

[–]francis_sandow 16 points17 points  (0 children)

have left me with this insecurity to clean up.

I don't want to derail OPs thread to address this because his post is a good, quick read. But you're not saying that you're obligated to fix that girl's mess, are you? Fuck her, pump her and keep her spinning. It sounds like you stumbled across a broken women (and the landscape is littered with millions of them), who isn't worth your time or effort. There's just no way that she can be that special.

[–]analyticaltoafault 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Oh, it explains everyones' relationships.

Parental relationship models define a person's future.

I'm glad you recognize this though as defeating unintended ignorance is a very important step in our lives to achieve more. Don't let it get you down man.

If you love her and want to be her captain in life, get her in therapy so she can realize these things as there are often mental blocks/ego defenses people put on listening to their close lover's/friend's/family's advice and they need a detached party to slap them with reality.

[–]francis_sandow 7 points8 points  (2 children)

If you love her and want to be her captain in life, get her in therapy

How about "if you want to be the Captain of your own life, don't get shackled to a woman that needs therapy in the first place."

I'm not trying to be sarcastic. You're suggesting that the woman listen to the advice of someone else so she can understand how to get her shit together... so she can be good LTR material. What horrible reason could justify planning to marry (don't get married) a woman who is a mental mess (all of them). Just tell the woman her reality, and she'll follow obediently.

[–]analyticaltoafault 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll add though that at some point, part of what the philosophy of TRP is all about, is realizing reality.

The reality is everyone is flawed, and eventually it may mean finding someone worth helping lead.

Now, after some help if they are truly helpless, cut em loose, at best keep them at a distance as friends you can just give lip service sometimes.

To be certain, it's a balance between looking out for oneself and another you love, and one quite easily unbalanced and requires a lot of wisdom found in TRP to manage well. It's all to easy to say, "they're the one worth leading," when we have moments of weak character and allow them to become an issue in our lives not worth fixing.

[–]analyticaltoafault 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure that's a good way to go.

[–]landon042 29 points30 points  (3 children)

it's funny "to discourage weak men"

because once any half intelligent swole bro here hears her say "i'm a feminist" you should gtfo, doesn't matter how much of a test that shit is. you leave the crazy bitches to their orbiters/lesbos/ and any stupid dude that is desperate enough to smash one, not worth risk

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If it's supposed to weed out weak men, it doesn't work very well.

[–]Ranger_Mitch 11 points12 points  (1 child)

You using Man Logic (actual logic). Women Logic says that a strong man wants a strong woman. Because solipsism.

[–]RPSigmaStigma 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's projection. They know what turns them on and they assume being that will turn men on. It's the same reason women play hard to get, because they know how much it excites them when a man is hard to get.

[–]Short-changedChad 81 points82 points  (15 children)

Positive correlation yes, but what if you have it backward? What if they like rough sex and domination first and foremost and become feminists as a reaction to not finding a man they can submit to?

"I am afraid that woman appreciate cruelty, downright cruelty, more than anything else. They have wonderfully primitive instincts. ... We have emancipated them, but they remain slaves looking for their masters, all the same." - Oscar Wilde

[–]Allegro6 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Positive correlation yes, but what if you have it backward? What if they like rough sex and domination first and foremost and become feminists as a reaction to not finding a man they can submit to?

Could be, I never really thought about it until this thread showed up.

Maybe someone more experienced could enlighten us.

[–]Short-changedChad 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm sure someone else can explain this more eloquently than I can, and probably already has. but I've been thinking about this recently. It's been said that feminism is a society-wide shit-test. What if feminists are just women who get lower mileage from their shit-tests? That is they require more frame, tingles, dominance etc. to feel satisfied than other girls who might be more economical with their shit-test consumption. That would explain why feminists like to be defiled, where as some girls (who are less radicalised) might prefer light bondage (initially).

[–]bluedrygrass 10 points11 points  (5 children)

"I am afraid that woman appreciate cruelty, downright cruelty, more than anything else. They have wonderfully primitive instincts. ... We have emancipated them, but they remain slaves looking for their masters, all the same." - Oscar Wilde

Never heard that quote of his. I wonder why it isn't showed more by the medias, like all his ither quotes.......

[–]mancozbi -2 points-1 points  (4 children)

Maybe because he was gay. Can a homosexual understand women?

[–]Short-changedChad 23 points24 points  (1 child)

Gays actually understand women better than straight men do. The homosexual men I have met seem to have a higher than average social intelligence and they spend more time being actual friends with women which means women tell them things they would never tell some poor beta cunt they've friendzoned. This means they see women candidly for who they truly are- not the guise they put on to betas or the one Hollywood and the media pushes on the masses.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gays actually understand women better than straight men do.

Some parts of gay male brains are like women's which support this.

[–]RPSigmaStigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The gay men I know are some of the most naturally red pill men I've met. They get to see all the shady, catty, and manipulative behaviors of women because women treat them like other women so they let it out. Women act very differently around each other when men aren't around and gay men see it all.

[–]mancozbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your POV - gay men being closer to women and therefore understanding them better - is fascinating. Makes sense.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most likely it is a result of two factors reinforcing each other, what we usually call 'the chicken and the egg'.

[–]Atuli 1 point2 points  (3 children)

But which came first? Feminism or weak men?

[–]Laterally_Cant_Even 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Feminism didn't come about organically, any more than ISIS just grew up out of nowhere. The same powers that want to involve the world in wars to create a one-party rule decided to give women the Vote. Women have always been unhappy and feeling oppressed, it's in their nature. The Suffragette movement just tapped into that.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 3 points4 points  (1 child)

The difference is that men let them this time so I vote for weak men. Women were not even happy with the garden of eden but ultimately the danger is that weak men let them act on their irrational unhappiness.

[–]bowhunter6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women were not even happy with the garden of eden but ultimately the danger is that weak men let them act on their irrational unhappiness.

Weird, I had the exact same conversation with my wife this morning before work and made the same conclusion to her. Get out of my brain!

[–]MsDreadful points points [recovered]

Oscar Wilde was a faggot who knew nothing about women, he barely touched his wife and he envied all the wives of his male friends... eventually he fucked an underage boy and got sentenced for it.

Good choice of quote. It represents you lot.

[–]Short-changedChad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Women have a wonderful instinct about things. They can discover everything except the obvious." - Oscar Wilde

[–]TonyZ554 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I mean feminism has been called the world's greatest shit test many times here.

[–]1OneRedYear 55 points56 points  (5 children)

Feminism is to women what extreme homophobia is to republicans. It's a loud cry for hard cock.

[–]RenoiDeter92i 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Feminism is to women what extreme homophobia is to republicans. It's a loud cry for hard cock.

this quote deserves its own meme

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are both begging for a man to cum on their face....

[–]mancozbi -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

Feminism is to women what extreme homophobia is to republicans. It's a loud cry for hard cock.

That is the greatest. Sums up so many truths. (Of course the word "extreme" is just redundant!)

[–]OilyB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've come to this conclusion also, I've seen many a liberated woman turn soft elegant and effeminate because she got conquered by a male who had it all, did it all and knew it all. According to this claim, feminism then is an outcry for a man who feels greater then she woman does, and an attempt to get as much as possible from betas who will give it away. In other words, a woman is a feminist to any man who feels 'smaller' than she does, any man who will put up with her shit. Until she finds one who won't budge, then she relaxes. What do you think?

[–]markinsinz7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hence why feminism is often rooted around here as the biggest shitt test of them all

[–]darkstout 18 points19 points  (2 children)

All women want to experience rough sex and sexual humiliation. At least in my experience. I haven't met someone who only wanted soft and gentle sex... they all had a masochist side that could be brought out.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I have, once, from a girl who absolutely loved to go hard anytime anywhere. One night she stopped me after a few minutes, as she wanted to "make love, not have animal sex". I was like "the hell you talking about", turned my back and just slept like a log

A few months later she is a regular FWB again, and obviously a pretty wild one. And she has a nice boyfriend who probably makes love to her.

Typical I'd say.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The unicorn for women is a Chad who does both (mostly rough and sometimes soft), does it unpredictably, has fun doing it, has genuine love for his woman and owns his shit. Those are the top tier men. Your FWB's boyfriend is falling way short. But so is she. Otherwise she'd be your unicorn.

[–]Atuli 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In my experience this is absolutely accurate. Usually the more feminist they claim to be the more they respond to sexual domination.

I dated this girl who wore leather jackets and baggy jeans who after we broke up came round and begged me to fuck her in the ass and choke her.

Another one who's got a degree in woman's studys admitted to loving being dominated because it was such a taboo to her.

I could write a huge list but it's exactly what you said, they want to scare off men that can't see through their little act.

[–]charnelmessiah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Take a look at that Ghostbusters chick, the one who got Milo Yiannopoulis banned from twitter. She spent all that time spouting off that she's a feminist, fuck white people, etc.

Then pics leak, including one of her being sodomized in the ass by a white dude.

Another short story, I myself had a fling with a liberal Hillary supporter. I posted something to Facebook with which she didn't agree, and she comments that I'm a racist, sexist pig. Later that night, she was gagging on my cock.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never believed it but the evidence is overwhelming! It is the same thing with wives. Awalt. These guys ask for see. They beg for sex. They whine and cry. They buy flowers and do choreplay.

Then when they stop asking and begging and confidently take what is theirs the wife cums buckets. They are suddenly happy and sweet. The more dominant and degrading the more they like it.

They lied like women all those years and you believed them. Sorry. Psych!

[–]DoesNotMatterAnymore 9 points10 points  (3 children)

Inflate (fake) your perceived strongness, so when an even stronger man comes along, and you throw away your fake facade in the bedroom, the power difference will be enormous, just like her orgasms.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I am having trouble following what you are syggesting here.

[–]BlacknOrangeZ 7 points8 points  (1 child)

I think it is written partly from the woman's perspective. I'll try to interpret:

By presenting a facade of strength, a woman also raises the bar for potential mates, selecting only for men who exceed this artificially high standard with their genuine strength. Then, when the clothes come off, she can drop the act and return to her true state of weakness and submission. The disparity between her revealed feminine vulnerability and his masculine power is now greatly emphasised due to her feminist ploy to filter out all but the strongest men capable of challenging her feminist persona. Orgasms.

[–]DoesNotMatterAnymore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, this made me laugh, but you phrased is way better then i ever could.

[–]logicalthinker1 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I think it's how they resolve the cognitive dissonance in their head. In their own head, without society telling them what to think and feel, they want a strong man to lead them and dominate them. They don't necessarily want to be his doormat. They want to be the copilot. They view this as a perfectly fulfilling life, one they are completely happy with.

But society shames them and tells them how awful they are for wanting this. That you're a lesser being if you are submissive. So that is constantly swirling around in their head. But it can't shake millions of years of evolution and instinct.

[–]JackGoldsteinWrites 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, of course its positive, but it may not be because of feminism. Its just because the population in this case is women. Literally every single girl I've slept with (20+) enjoyed rough sex. I'll let the guys with 50+ and triple digits chime in, but I doubt their experience is different.

If you want to measure it, you'd have to compare the frequency of this kink in women who do and don't identify as feminists.

My guess is that feminism in and of itself is not a correlating variable.

In my case, the only differences were how rough, and how long it took before she was comfortable enough to go there

[–]inspiron3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anecdotal: https://twitter.com/JessicaValenti/status/797186021410697216

"I broke down and bought a choker..."

[–]RenoiDeter92i 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i remember reading a post here a few days ago that said exactly that, "feminism is the ultimate shit test". makes perfect sense when you think about it.

[–]Oz70NYC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the way you think, sir. There's sound logic in that statement.

[–]iSnORtcHuNkz69 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Beta culture created directly the feminism culture. If there was still a strong alpha culture present, do you think this feminism crap would fly? No. Because they would be filled with satisfaction and wouldn't complain under the feminism flag.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

exactly. But it's not your job to make sure she's satisfied. It's your job to make sure YOU'RE satisfied. That will make her satisfied. Cause strong satisfied men = satisfied women. Women want to know they are protected by a strong satisfied congruent man. That's what makes us happy.

[–]iSnORtcHuNkz69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This absolutely. If you show weakness who has to step in the pants? The woman. If you lead, they will follow.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no correlation, all women like rough sex, ALL OF THEM. It is just a matter of degrees. Women write bullshit columns of advice about how you need to stimulate the clitoris for ages to give women orgasms, I think pulling their hair makes the procedure much faster.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It might be case that people uninformed (or in denial) about sexual dynamics pick up the behavior that turns them on in the opposite sex. This would explain betas being weak bitches,as well as feminists putting up a facade of strength.

[–]drestill101 0 points1 point  (0 children)


[–]This1sMyWorkAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree on it being a correlation. I'm dating a feminist and she cannot keep me off of her. She is very satisfied with our sex and loves when I'm rough with her. I even consider it a compliment when she is sore for a couple of days when she comes into town.

[–]rossiFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have to balance out the unnatural feminist culture that insists that they adopt the mindset of a dude with the desires to be taken like a woman.

[–]Trpidation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feminism is the ultimate societal shit test, just approach it as such. They ultimately want you to break through that shit test so you can dominate them, often they just don't know it yet. Anytime I come across a "strong independent woman" I will call her and/or other women bitches just to get a rise and not back down when she says "you shouldn't call women bitches". Learned that one from the homeboy Patrice.

[–]newName543456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Poland there was a video of a self-described feminist who participated in bukkake and filmed it... supposedly all to demonstrate how abjectly women are objectified and humiliated.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That and they are angry at men. Usually feminist have some psychical flaw or another which caused them to be pumped an dumped. They hate men but they love sex. Translation - rough sex.

[–]Eyeswears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is exactly the logic I think is at play. Honestly, there seem to be two tiers of feminists, one which has significantly higher than average SMV and one which has significantly lower. There doesn't seem to be a middle ground. The low tier don't get fucked so they're out of the gene pool and the high tier filters for the most dominant of men. Feminism is legit a pretty effective mating strategy.

[–]Heyokalol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's kinda similar to Human Resources posting impossible to meet criteria for applicants in order to weed out the worst.

[–]lamentationsoftheir 117 points118 points  (6 children)

I want to be able to do what I want, when I want, without being judged for my choices

THIS and this alone is modern feminism to me. They are children who don't want to be burdened with things like personal responsibility and taking ownership of their own mistakes. They not only don't want to judge their own shitty, self-serving behavior, they don't want you to do it either!

To the writer of the article: Grow up, sugartits.

To OP: kudos, good post.

[–]1ozaku7 24 points25 points  (2 children)

I second this. Women are like children and they need an alpha, a real man to deal with them. Manchildren aka betas can't deal because they are on an equal or even lower level.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Acting like a child is gross if you aren't an actual child. Doesn't matter if you are a woman or a man.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't pretend like you don't like being an alpha. That's the whole point, isn't it? We women are programmed to push you toward reaching your full alpha potential. And you are programmed to push us into our feminine selves. Everyone's happy. As long as everyone is a grown up.

[–]asotranq 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm generally weary of anyone who ever mentions bring judged or talks about why they shouldn't be judged, it's a dead giveaway that on some level, as deluded as they are, even they know they're doing some heinous or stupid shit.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

same could be said of some of the rp guys who aren't grown ups and don't own their shit, blaming their crappy feelings on their wives. Go figure, everyone has to be a grown up in the end.

[–][deleted] 91 points92 points  (16 children)

Jennifer Lawrence who might consider herself a feminist, has pics of cum all over her face, that got leaked during the fappening.

[–]MrMelbourne 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This is because women will make exceptions for men that make their their vaginas wet and tingly.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

why can't a woman be a feminist AND have cum all over her face? Maybe there's a semantic problem here. I don't see those two things as incongruent.

[–]God-Emperor23 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Oh god those pics.. I will always keep a folder in my computer labelled "The Fappening: Jennifer Lawrence"

[–]1GroundhogLiberator 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't remember pics of her with cum on her face

[–]niceguy_gone_cad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only because it't good for the skin, I assume LOL

[–]FractalFactorial 42 points43 points  (1 child)

This actually fucking hurt my brain: "I want to be able to do what I want, when I want, without being judged for my choices" Guess that's young women in a nutshell.

I really couldn't conceive of something more entitled if you gave me that goal for a whole day. Its like a god damn self-parody.

And then she "confesses" that she likes rough sex? Holy shit what a revelation, what a special snowflake she is. The only fucking women that don't like rough sex are A) Damaged goods or B) Automatically think it means they're being treated like a slut (which they are, but you have to make them think they aren't).

[–]RoughTeddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regarding that quote, someone up above summed it up well. Women are children. They don't want to accept any responsibility, thus modern feminism. They are no longer to blame for any of their actions, it's all the fault of the patriarchy.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 36 points37 points  (4 children)

One of the indicators that a girl is submissive in bed is that she's a "Feminist".

[–]UGoBoom 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Is that fact reflexive too? Now that I think about it, the few dominant women out there don't seem to be the feminist type.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It happens enough so that I included it in my Field Guide to Submissive Women.

[–]Wh1te_Cr0w 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she's dominant by nature she doesn't need feminism as a crutch any more than an alpha needs to peruse redpill

[–]APSTNDPhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also they love putting it about.

[–][deleted] 66 points67 points  (4 children)

"Hi, I am a feminist who likes strong men to forcibly take me but I cant find many of these hot guys because my fellow feminists have neutered 90 percent of men and turned them into skinnyfat mewling wusses."

"why am i so unhaaaapppy?????"

[–]Ou-tis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And make women so ugly that a strong male doesn't give a shit about them...feminism is a disaster for both men and women.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my fellow feminists have neutered 90 percent of men and turned them into skinnyfat mewling wusses

Those men allowed it to happen to themselves. Mitigating circumstances but life wasn't meant to be fair.

[–]JustAMick2U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read that in my head with a nasal voice and a Monroe piercing.. haha

[–]Scymnus 75 points76 points  (6 children)

Used to hang out with a group of feminists in my younger days, and I've never met a group of girls who are more collectively into getting manhandled in bed. Their excuse is that since they're such strong independent women they need the polar opposite in bed to keep some sort of power balance in their lives. Which actually is quite right, but instead of just admitting that women need to feel submissive they go out and get their heads smashed into a bathroom floor every other weekend just to make sure they're damaged enough goods to never keep a functional relationship going. Oh well, at least I can fondly remember my hands around their throats when they're up at the podium talking about how no really really means no.

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (3 children)

when they're up at the podium talking about how no really really means no.

But why would you go listen to them tho

[–]Scymnus 15 points16 points  (2 children)

I don't, only seen pictures. I'd fuck myself with a black mans dick before going to such an event.

[–]yxngdrilla19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday fellow redpiller

[–]draketton 2 points3 points  (1 child)

How'd you work your way into that group?

[–]Scymnus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mutual beta buddy introduced me, didn't have an excess of girls to hang out with. Realized I had to cut them out when a girl cried rape because some dude locked me in a room with her.

[–]MK_D 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I dated a feminist once and I won't lie I dumped like liters of cum on her face. Fuck I love it. Outside the bedroom she was a different person. So yeah it's true

[–]clumhoho 41 points42 points  (4 children)

I had a plate before who was a staunch feminist. Short-ish hair, tattoos, loved the manhandling stuff.

Weirdest this she ever did was one morning we were lying there after sex, and she asked if she could just hold my dick. She just held it for a while. Maybe she wanted to feel like the power was in her hands, for once.

[–]D0ngl3 13 points14 points  (1 child)

I've had this happen with a vegan feminist, not kidding. She craved masculinity and meat and got off on denying herself both in public

[–]subtle_nirvana92 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I dated a vegan who swallowed just to get a taste of my meat flavored cum

[–]MrMelbourne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A classic case of Penis envy? LOL

[–]MrMelbourne 17 points18 points  (1 child)

All the more reason why you should never take seriously what women SAY, but rather take note of what they DO.

[–]mnemos_1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely agree. The disparity between the two is something I've found helps greatly with the "Amused" part of Amused Mastery. It's an almost-limitless source of entertainment.

[–]GlennBeckAmerica 15 points16 points  (2 children)

This has everything to do with women literally being the fairer , weaker sex . We fuck them. They dont fuck us . I am the fucker , she is the fuckee. The average man can physically dominant the overwhelmingly majority of women . I can respect those weaker than me. But at the end of the day..if I want something from you..your money , your car, your house ...I can take that shit and your only hope is another man or s woman with a gun comes to rescue you.

[–]fcb98292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can respect those weaker than me.

I agree with and up-voted your post, but I do not respect those weaker than me. I choose to care for those weaker than me, but respect and choice to care are not the same thing. I choose to care, because its my choice, I am able to provide them something they don't have, and I desire (for whatever reason) to give it to them. Respect is earned, and I do not simply give it to any class of people, because they likely have not shown me any reason to respect them. I would no more grant a level of respect to anyone than I would take out my wallet and throw $100 bills at strangers on the street. I respect Hollywood actors for their talent, but I have zero respect for their blue-pill tendencies. I respect red-pill adherents for that choice, but I have no respect for them beyond that, as I do not know them. Respect is a blanket term today used to imply that everyone is generally OK with me. And that ain't so. It is politically-correct to be an non-offensive as possible, and I judge that BP societal habit as demonstrably cowardly.

[–]BowlingRomanletsgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid, me and my older sister were always fighting. 12 year old me could easily twist her arms behind her back and she couldn't move an inch. My sis is 6 year older than me.

The average 12 year old boy can physically dominate the majority of women.

[–]MrMelbourne 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"""I want to be able to do what I want, when I want, without being judged for my choices" Guess that's young women in a nutshell.""

In a nutshell, yes.

There is also an addendum to that.

I want to be able to do what I want, when I want, without being judged for my choices and if anything goes wrong a result of my choices/actions I want to take minimal responsibility and put the blame on anyone but myself.

[–]maxrp 10 points10 points [recovered]

Just because hair pulling and spanking turns me on doesn't mean I'm giving up on equality

Why is she being so judgemental?

[–]JustAMick2U 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because feminists subjugate their own kind to feel better about themselves. Just another degree of mental separation from other women and the world.

[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger 10 points11 points  (1 child)

Women are in a bind. They're supposed to want to be strong and independent and equal, but they actually like it when they're led by a man who owns the shit out of them.

Their current work-around for this is to pretend that it's just a sexual kink. That they're into rough sex, BDSM, and role-playing in bed, but in the real world, they're still all strong and in control. It's not a real world thing! Just a kink! So it's like they're even more in control because they're doing slutty kink bedroom things, which is empowering. Grrrrl pwr!

[–]1Sir_Distic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. "I'm not less of a feminist. I get to fulfil my fantasies." She even said in her post: < Just because hair pulling and spanking turns me on doesn't mean I'm giving up on equality — it's simply what brings me sexual satisfaction. It makes me feel powerful to tell someone my fantasy and have it realized. It is a fantasy after all.

Turns ME on. What brings ME sexual satisfaction.

Yet she still hamsters that she's a strong feminist outside the bedroom. While she's not shouting about how men are sexist pigs she's thinking about getting rammed hard and jizzed all over.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The feminist's propensity to compensate for her enjoyment of rough sex with belief in the antithetical tenets of the feminist movement can be likened to the way certain closeted homosexuals bash gays and white knights bash alpha men. It's a mechanism to mask the inherant self-hate that their ideologies radiate.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lmao! I love how she spins the idea that her revealing her Dom fantasy gives her a feeling of "power". Yea okay sure whatever you need to tell yourself.

[–]B0KAM 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The goal of feminism is subjugating betas and getting pounded by alphas, never forget that.

Clouds parted when I read this, thank you G_Petronius

[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shitty clickbait.

It baffles me when women who identify themselves as feminist attack others for their sexual preferences. If feminism arose from women's lack of choice, why, then, do you invalidate other women's choices?

Interesting how they only complain about feminism restricting female options when it's their personal pet cause being targeted.

[–]HoffAmazing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I fucked a 19 year old SJW feminist for a bit. She was extremely "independent" and "strong" but boy would she get excited when I would pull her hair and call her a fucking slut while banging her out.

[–]SetConsumes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wants to be able to do what she wants without being judged, like every responsible adult.

[–]johnchapel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It does though honey. It means you recognize equality doesn't exist, and it turns you on that it doesn't.

That sentence should be bold and have a million times larger font size, OP. Its that important.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (11 children)

Some people just like BDSM and are insecure about it. Sex revolves around power.

[–]Luckyluke23 8 points9 points  (2 children)

as a dom, I'm not very judgmental when it comes to sex. I've learn that your church pastor can be into some nasty shit.

desire come from a place deep down inside all of us we have no control over. this is why I never judge.


I am a strong, fiercely independent, and quite outspoken 21-year-old

why do they need to tell me they are independent. Independent of what? isn't everyone independent when they are an adult anyway?

[–]Hillary_For_Prison 4 points5 points  (1 child)

At 21, these days, is a person really an adult? Is a woman in particular an adult at 21? Western society has become so coddling of people that adolescence is continued well into the mid twenties for many and into the thirties for a few.

[–]Koryphae_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That part was baffling me too. 21 year olds...

[–]evilkenevil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EVERY "feminist" I've fucked likes it rougher and much more specific as well as demanding about what they want how they want where they want in bed. The more girly-girl/traditional gals just take what you're offering and really aren't into things like cumming on their faces.

[–]goldnhorde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don't get it. of course she likes it.

it's NEVER a question of whether women like it rough or not, it is a question of HOW ROUGH DO YOU LIKE IT and WHAT IS TOO FAR?

Here's the weirdness. she doesn't want to be judged about it, but last time I checked ..... who's freaking business is it. there is no reason what so ever to tell anyone anywhere at anytime abut what happens in your bedroom or wherever you do whatever you do.

Now if you take it out in public, you made it other people's business. but for the most part, you don't ever have to talk about sex, who you do it with, who you'd like to do it with, or how you like it.

this is my problem with this statement ... who's judging you? cause I get that. I hate that someone thinks they can judge me in any way that is meaningful to me or would affect my actions and/or mindset when I say "Hey ... that girl is fat and I don't find her attractive." Cause guess what? it's the way it works. it's perfectly reasonable. just the physics of having to haul her hogs legs into the air high enough to eventually tire jack her legs far enough that her thighs spread just enough for me to possibly enter ..... THAT THOUGHT ALONE .... makes my special parts soft and hurts my back.

we can talk about it here and high five. she can talk about it with her special friend and pinky swear to never tell anyone else. you can talk about it with that lover you have that no one else knows about that you met at a mcdonalds drive through window and only meet on Thursdays at that hotel right at the county line ... when you tell everyone else you are going to the bar to watch whatever sport it is the season for.

lastly, I don't know why she is fighting it. every woman I have ever been with, and it is a good statistics sampling, has liked SOMETHING that was a little rough. My only conclusion is that this comes from ...

... "those other feminist", which I guess is what some of the forum is saying. those other feminist who can't even drug a man into their bed. this is funny to me because the answer is ...so easily clear. it's not the hair dyes. guys love a cosplay chick with the blue and green and red hair and all that. it can be the piercings when it is taken far to far .... but most of the time it is never taken too far and is a sexy thing for me. not the ink ... I got lots of ink and there are to many mainstream fetishes about it to say tats are a turnoff. short hair? doubtful. and that usually leaves the weight.

[–]Jay-Rageaholic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this isn't really news

in my early-mid 20s when i started lifting i lived and worked in a big university city, one of the things i learned was the girls from sheltered upper middle class / private school backgrounds, outspoken feminist/leftist types and older women in high powered jobs and dead end marriages loved to be dominated and fucked hard. they would do it knowing my views were the opposite of everything they believed in. great shags though.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

21 year olds have no idea who they are or what they want out of life, period. They're literally just an assemblage of labels and tropes and memes they picked up during their educational career.

[–]thejurist 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Could you explain the "(((equal)))"?

[–]SOwED 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also wondering what that was about...the triple parenthesis have been used online to indicate that someone is Jewish, usually in the context of Jews controlling large companies or the media, so, in a derogatory sense.

Using it on the word "equal" really doesn't make sense within that context...maybe OP thinks it means emphasis and was emphasizing sarcastically?

[–]amekooky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol i always get a chuckle of when they call themselves "fierce" and then you fiercely pound them in bed on the first date.

[–]cashmoney_x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I want to be able to do what I want, when I want, without being judged for my choices."

And there you have it. THAT's the real basis of feminism. Destroying society and culture in the name of hedonism but doing it under the lens of "equality."

[–]Hg_CNO_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just another rape-fantasizing slut, who doesn't have the balls to admit it irl.

How else could she keep the rape-accusation loophole? The western world is literally full of these coward-cunts.

There is no way to win. We need to get rid of the idea of rape altogether or introduce new criminal code for 'rape-baiters' like this one.

[–]BetaCockBlocker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhh... Not surprising at all. I've never not been rough in bed. Never once had a complaint. I hope more women and men accept reality and there biological drives so we can focus on shit that matters. Anyone who 'slut shames' her is probably upset because they have SJW'd themselves into terrible sex, terrible health, and a generally terrible personality.

I've dated girls who've said they loved how polite, nice and respectful I was--and the fact that I slapped them, choked them, held them down, etc. Maybe I should write an article.

"I say please, and thank you. I always tip my server-- and I love slamming my cock down your throat."

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not talking Fifty Shades, "let-me-show-you-my playroom"r

It's funny how kinky shit got normalized rapidly due to this book. Or so I thought. This week I watched the whole of Westworld and I arrived at a scene where a brothel female employer gets choke fucked till death by the series Chad. And I was honestly shocked. That this was somehow normalized and shown in a blockbuster television series. It's not that I found the act shocking, I do it all the time. Just that I had never seen such a depiction in pop culture before.

I told myself "this show has feminist writers" and waited for google to prove my own point. And hell yes it did. It's written by two women and one guy and you can tell it's mostly written by the girls. Every woman is empowered, strong and kicks men around. Half the show is about men being ridiculed by their superior female counterparts who are apparently also always psychically stronger than the men. The overarching plot is about some mind bending deeper life lesson that's obviously written by the guy.

So I started thinking about what causes modern women to be so extreme in their sexual depictions. Usually it would take years of sexual exploration for women to understand what they liked and could do during sex. Nowadays 18 year old girls are turning off age and are begging to be beaten while strangled till near death. How could they possibly know they like this shit without having had the experience? What changed in the last decade or so?

And then I realized the answer was right in front of me. The internet. Not just porn but everything in general. It's happening right now, to us and to everyone. The internet is a hyperfast meme dispenser that spreads simple bite sized knowledge at increasingly faster rates. Which means that all it takes is one year of porn browsing, facebooking, sex chatting and TwoXChromosome bitching to learn every female kink known to man. Women will go out wanting that experience while only the most experienced of men (or unplugged) can give it to them.

This isn't just restricted to sex but basically encompasses every possible idea out there. Just think about what The Red Pill represents and how quickly it has spread. Taking over multiple areas of conversational topics on the internet. The internet is like a human evolution accelerator. Conscious minds being able to connect on a more effective and deeper level without restriction. Evolving the human brain into whatever it may become.

Be it femenism, red pillery, rough 50 Shades of Grey sex or the Donald Trump right movment. They are all the same thing. The human mind accelerating.

[–]GlennBeckAmerica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"fiercely independent". When you have to emphasize how fucking independent you are via adjective. I doubt t your independent u think. Real shit.

[–]Oz70NYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing...NOTHING more symbolic of feminine submission to masculinity then letting a guy nut on your face. This 21 year old feminist THOT is fucking delusional.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The goal of feminism is subjugating betas and getting pounded by alphas, never forget that.

In the end apart from testosterone/genetic differences, there are no alphas or betas because its mostly cultural. So modern feminism is a campaign in support of female misery through a culture of demeaning men and their sexuality, which creates a "happy monogamous relationship vacuum" that inevitably supports female misery. That's what so ironic about it to me.

[–]ECoast_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women aren't in it for the politics in reality. They don't care about your views as long as you fuck them right and be the crotch rocket riding fuck boy anyway.

[–]Bossman28894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, with both comments. She's had therapy growing up, and she's pretty turned off to couples therapy (especially as we're not married) now I do love her, but recent hiccups have certainly raised red flags, and are making me second guess/think a little more in depth about things

[–]dodo91 -1 points0 points  (4 children)

I dont know why you guys complain about feminism and go into conspiracies. What does gender equality in social settings have anything to do with your inability to get laid? I am not talking about radical feminists in the west who go yo ridiculous measures, but west owes a lot of its freedom and democracy to feminism.

If you are so anyi feminism you can come and live with me in the middle east and have a good taste of some unquestioned patriarchy.

I concur with all the theories here but thay does not mean we have to lock women . The problem has more to do with the human condition.

[–]johnchapel 0 points1 point  (2 children)

If you are so anyi feminism you can come and live with me in the middle east and have a good taste of some unquestioned patriarchy.

Western feminism is a supremacy movement, bro. Its a hate group.

[–]dodo91 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I d call that radical feminism and its mostly coming from 3rd wave feminism. Feminism isnt a united ideology and is full of degenerates just like all ideologies out there. Degenerates who just wants to make something out of themselves.

This is the human condition.

[–]johnchapel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I d call that radical feminism

aka "Feminism".

There is no active feminism in the western world anymore that ISN'T radical.

[–]yaardi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When people here talk about feminism it's about """feminism""" in America and Western Europe, not really about the actual feminism in actually unequal societies.

[–]Gardrothard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

manhandle her, spank her, pull her hair, fuck her face. The stronger and tougher a facade she puts up, the more she craves it. The goal of feminism is subjugating betas and getting pounded by alphas, never forget that.

If all guys made a deal not to fuck feminist like that they'd be gone in a matter of months.

[–]1swaglordobama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Equality isn't a blanket statement. Women want equality in society, but sexual fantasies are a whole different ballpark. Why are people in this sub constantly trying to paint the world as us against them? Women and men ground eachother. We have different energies, and relationships, casual or serious, have a tendency to keep those energies in check and provide us with a different perspective.

[–]throwawayscubaguy -3 points-2 points  (2 children)

Lol at the commentary by OP

Irregardless of whether I agree with ya, you got a nice style. Keep on expressing your sarcasm comrade

[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Don't say "irregardless" it's not a real word. Use either regardless or irrespective, which mean the same thing. But combining them is a non word.

[–]throwawayscubaguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I guess I learnt something today.

My message to OP stands intact however

[–]Prettiest_Star22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do think you will more feminist who do shit tests than any others. Is like.. prove what I hear is wrong.. force me to see it your way.

At least how I felt :p