The title is a little awkward, but the message should be clear. I don't mean grabbing chicks by the pussy or groping them (without consent). I've always been pretty good with girls, and roughly 2 years ago I found Good Looking Loser, and the biggest thing I picked up from there was more physically screening girls by using touch. My last post lightly touched on touch, and I'm going to break it down a little further
So you're about to go out to Happy hour or the bar on the weekend with the goal of giving a lucky girl the gift of your penis. You make sure to look as good as possible before you go out, and you go to where ever it is you feel is the ideal place to pull chicks back to your cave.
You order a drink (whether it has alcohol or not is irrelevant) and you hold it in your LEFT hand so that your right hand stays warm and dry. You see a girl giving you "fuck me" eyes and you walk on over to her.
Step 1 - Say whatever you think is appropriate to break the ice and introduce yourself. "Hi my name is 'insert name'" and you extend that dry warm right hand of yours and shake her hand and hold her hand for as long as possible without it being weird.
If a girl is 100% sober this time could be a split second longer than normal, when the chick is a little sauced up, I've had them just keep holding my hand and even clasp their fingers around my fingers for well over 30 seconds or so (If they were into me).
Step 2/3 - Again this all depends on context. Depending on the situation maybe you buy the girl a drink or ask her to dance or on those great occasions you head right out the door. If we need to only take one or two steps to the bar, I'll place my arm around their lower back and pull them slightly to where I want them to be. If we have to walk some distance I'll do the GLL move of grabbing their hand and saying some variation of follow me to wherever it is I want to go. Usually they'll follow.
Escalation - If you've been holding her hand and you've toucher her back/shoulders and she isn't calling security or being rescued by her friends, chances are she's probably into you. You've set the tone by touching her a few times. She won't be weirded out if you take it a little further. AGAIN this all depends on context, but here are some things I have done, and things you could possible do as well.
I'm tall and pretty muscular, so if I did the follow me technique to get a chick outside or to walk outside with me or something like that, I'll find some dumb excuse to literally pick a girl up (sweep her off her feet). I've literally done it when there were small puddles or a small dog walked by or if their was a minor obstacle that was over 2 feet tall that I could easily step over. The girl has so far always loved it and wants to do it again. This also works on children. They love that stuff. Sometimes (for the girl not the children), I might kiss the girl while she's still in my arms, or I might not (depending on context).
If I'm just at the bar and talking to the girl, because of my look conversations sometimes pass on to physically related things (Basketball Volleyball, working out, etc..) and I'll take the chance to squeeze the girls arm and make a dumb joke about how she must workout or I'll slap/pat her on the butt and do the same thing. I'll see how she reacts and if we have some privacy, I might go in for the kiss right then.
There are some of those really good nights where a girl is clearly out to get pounded by some big ethnic man or whatever your demographic might be. In these cases don't waste your time with small shit and just move as fast as possible. Literally can be as fast as Introduction-Lead to dance floor - Aggressive grinding on your dick - Making out - Leading her out the door. It can all happen in 5 minutes if you make it possible and move quickly. That's something I can't teach and you'll have to gain with some experience.
Physical touch is an obvious must and this post barely scratches the surface. Try to get good at the basics, if you aren't already and you'll see a pretty night and day difference, on how quickly you can move with girls who are down, and how quickly you can screen out most girls who aren't. It's not a perfect tool, but neither is anything else.