I was browsing through "Surely you're joking Mr. Feynman!" and look what I found!
"We went over to their table and he introduced me to the girls and then went off for a moment. A waitress came around and asked us what we wanted to drink. I ordered some water, and the girl next to me said, "Is it all right, if I have a champagne?"
"You can have whatever you want," I replied coolly, "'cause you're payin' for it." (Not putting her at a pedestal)
"What's the matter with you?" She says. "Cheapskate, or something?" (Shit test 1)
"That's right." (Holding frame)
"You're certainly not a gentleman!" she said, indignantly. (Shit test 2)
"You figured me out immediately!" I replied. (Agree and amplify)
I had learned in New Mexico many years before not to be a gentleman.
Pretty soon they were offering to buy me drinks - the tables were turned completely! "
And these were prostitues in Vegas! Holy crap! What a cool scientist!
And of course, the red pill works.