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Why do girls end up going on a dick/hookup spree with other guys after they are dropped/ghosted by their “chad?” (self.asktrp)

submitted by Joeatomic

What’s up guys, I’m currently a sophmore in highschool and I ended up ghosting this one chick (HB:8/10) who had serious oneitis for me. I ended up finding out she hooked up with one of my friends (SMV 4.5/10) several times and is now trying to get back with her ex LMAO. I just wonder why do they go on “whore mode” after not being able to get their oneitis, and will even hook up with low value men?


[–]wawakaka57 points58 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

how a woman feels about herself is based on the people around her. so when she gets dumped she feels flawed and she will seek out any way to feel better about herself and usually its drinking and sex. sex is an easy way for women to self medicate because for women, sex is everywhere and she can get it as easy as ordering a pizza.

[–]blister3333 points4 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Which is funny cause if it’s so easy for them, why do they value it?

[–]MillionaireSexbomb20 points21 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

They value power, and the power choosing who they fuck has over dudes. It’s a tool

[–]wawakaka6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sex is the only real power women have and they will exploit it...it's their AMEX BLACK CARD

[–]blister3330 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

hahah great analogy

[–]Borsao6678 points79 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

To their credit, women have been sold a line of bullshit too.

After being railed by Chad, she's on her own unicorn search as well, plus having some guy bang her boosts her ego after getting dumped.

[–]1redhawkes57 points58 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

They use sex as a validation tool.

[–]Morphs_4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

My ex literally did this. 23yo with an N count > 60. Guess her poor upbringing made her crave a lot of validation.

[–]Rhynocobear1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I second this interpretation. Makes them feel like you are wrong for leaving, because clearly they are good enough. Very similar to why men do it.

[–]FlyingSexistPig18 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Because they crave the validation that sex gives them. Sex with a lower value guy isn't as satisfying, so they need more of it to get that same feeling they'd get with Chad.

It's pure addiction behavior.

Ever play a video game, lose, and want to play again just so you get the high from winning? But if you won the first time, you'd just be done and go do something else? Same pattern.

[–]Borsao664 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There's more to this excellent analogy.

https://youtu.be/tWtvrPTbQ_c

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I just wonder why do they go on “whore mode” after not being able to get their oneitis, and will even hook up with low value men?

Validation

[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same reason we go on a pussy spree. It took me 11 chicks to get over my oneitis.

[–]Morphs_12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I guess that's their female version of GFTOW. In the end, women want sex just as men. Sometimes it's in the form of quality, other times in the form of quantity.

[–]gorilla_bro3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

young and dumb.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

...snd broke high school kids.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's funny how they'll use a bunch of sex for validation, yet they still manage to be picky and chosey.

I guess they just have so many guys to chose from.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Pretty self explanatory

[–]Rollo_Mayhem31 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

quite frankly, who's cares? The fact that you are thinking about this is suggestive... you jealous possibly? Next.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Doesn't sound like she's doing all that much whoring around.

She banged someone that's probably been in the wings waiting for quite awhile and jumped on the opportunity and then she didn't have anyone else [because she's a social tool] so she went back to the ex.

Sounds like she doesn't know many people so she went where she trusts without fear of letting strangers in.

Most people live in a little bubble with only a few dozen different people. Smaller the bubble, the less of a whore a woman tends to be.

[–]UseForThrowAwayStuff 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Does she stay with this ex for ever or just until she feels better (couple months or something)

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Quality hurts women more than men I think. She will bang him till a better branch comes along to swing to.

Depending on how available she seems it might never happen. Some women go back and forth between two men for awhile, until one of the men loses interest.

Again it matters how social she becomes. Most people are naturally distrusting of new people, so it is more difficult to find a new branch to swing to.

[–]1walawalawa1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Here's a story that puts it into perspective.

Two girls I ghosted continue to hang out at places i go to. In both cases it's 100% ghosting---nothing, walked away never contacted.

They constantly try to get my attention---in one case the girl tries to hit on my friend.

My friend trolls me by dancing with her. Then laughing saying "You're still in love with her! Hahahah" kind of thing.

No, but when I ghost someone I don't want to be reminded of them in any way.

So i leave. That's the point. They want validation of some kind...ANY kind.

[–]Mintyytea0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Are these commenters all women? Cuz if they're not, don't listen to them because they can't read people's minds. Saying how a woman feels about herself is ___ because women are __, __ creatures is dumb if you're a man who's never been a woman.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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