I asked my fiance about this because he says I have made the idea of sex with other people pretty lackluster and am the best he's had. He told me the reason for this is mostly my enthusiasm and shamelessness when it comes to sex. I love having sex with him and I'm not coy about it. I don't wrestle with feeling dirty after doing things other blue pill women might find degrading (i.e. giving head without wanting it in return or being choked during sex). He told me the visual appeal is higher for me than with his exes. He thinks I look hotter and I am comfortable keeping the lights on to provide that visual stimulation. He also said I am tighter down there; I have a higher N count than some of his previous partners but I put effort into toning my pelvic floor so I don't become an old lady who needs diapers on top of being better in bed. I am also more orgasmic than his prior partners. It might sometimes require a little extra help from a vibrator, but I can come every single time with only moderate effort on his part. He says I am the only one who ever has with consistency and that makes sex feel so much better. He said with exes it always ended up feeling like a chore but years into this and he thinks sex with me is fun. He says my attitude about sex keeps it fun because I don't take it too seriously. If something awkward comes up, I am comfortable enough to laugh it off and keep going. He says it gives him the space to explore new things comfortably because he knows he won't lose respect in my eyes if it is a flop. I also strive to be available but not overly demanding about sex. When I initiate, i try to be a touch playfully shy and give him the space to initiate further. We have sex almost daily and occasionally twice a day. Five times a week is pretty standard but sometimes it is more. I really enjoy our sex life too and he satisfies me more than any partner I've had before.