I just wanted to share some things I agree with at this time. In no particular order. I am 25yrs old btw.
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Do not flirt with or try to fuck any women you work with. Be confident in your demeanor and playful at the right times, but don't go full retard. This takes times to navigate.
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Street fights IRL are not fun, there is no referee, those 5 classes you took last year won't help you when the person you decided to try "out alpha" has nothing to lose and is on meth. This is not applicable to the guy with cauliflower ears.
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Society doesn't care about men. Men's problems are trivialized and any attempt by MRA groups or other lone influential voices are shut down with confetti talk or not broadcasted at all.
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Don't go into debt unless you truly need to.
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Exercise 4-6 days a week (or every day if you want). Lift weights, do boxing or take up running, just do something that brings your physique ABOVE the average males physique. Most men are slobs with bad posture. Don't be that. Not only is this overall bad for you but it is pussy repellent.
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Learn how to cook healthy meals. Research macros. Drink plenty of water or sugar free soda if you're sick of water. Limit alcohol consumption. Avoid smoking cigarettes.
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That guy you know who only ever talks about himself and just has to one-up you no matter what, even if it is in slight ways? It's ok, you can just stop returning his texts/calls and he will go away. It is surprising how efficient this is to remove people.
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"The one" doesn't exist. Stop lying to yourself. That girl you gave your all to for 2 years got spit-roasted by 2 guys a week after you broke up. She knew what she was doing. Shh, only dreams now.
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Don't be nice. Be assertive and stick up for yourself and for others if you feel you need to. Don't be captain save a ho because you think you'll get pussy from it. You wont.
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Beta males are dangerous if intoxicated and horny. Rape-ishly dangerous. If you have a plate or fwb who has lots of these creepy soft skinned soft spoken artistic type beta male "friends" in her life, just be aware she is loving the attention and will try to drag you into some made up drama if you get to deep into her life. Smash and leave, rinse and repeat, the end.
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Say NO more often. Dress like an adult. Don't be afraid to flirt with women who you come across who show you attention. (not women you work with)
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We get like 80 years on average to experience life.
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AWALT eventually. My friends GF of 5 yrs recently told him that she "needed to find herself and wanted some time" .. we know what that means. another one bites the dust
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If you show weak emotions in the presence of a girl who you are fucking, trying to fuck, or you know she wants you but you are figuring out how to seal the deal, its over. It may not be over instantly, but it will fail. Showing weak emotions dries up pussy and makes her feel unsafe. Shove it deep down and let it out at the gym, or on the boxing bag.
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Don't work somewhere that makes you hate yourself. I understand if you MUST, but for fuck sake, find something different if you know you need to.
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Some people will hate you for reasons out of your control. Just keep doing you baby.
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Don't go around hating women. It'll get you nowhere. Women want strong men who are physically attractive and have their shit together. If you try to fight these facts you are in for a bad time. Become the guy who attracts the women. But don't make it your number #1 goal.
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This one is kind of random, but go research the vastness of space, it's hilarious to put into perspective just how tiny we are.
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If your gut feeling says "nah bruh" then listen to it. Don't buy the thing you are about to buy that you don't need.
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Video games! just fucking play them if you want. I don't get it.
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If you've been dieting for 2 weeks straight and can't stop thinking about that pizza that is 3 blocks from your place, just go and buy it.
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Get some sun every day if you can. Get some vitamin D into your pores and grow like the beautiful flower you are.
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Moisturize so that you can muff dive with confidence. "Your beard is rough!" that's not my beard, it is my dry scaly peeling skin babe. So hot.
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Friends come and go, don't take it personally. I had 7 close friends 4 years ago, now I have 1. They all got GF's and disappeared.
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If you aren't doing much through a certain period in your life, like if you are just going through the motions of work, home, gym, eat, shower, bed, repeat. Then just roll with it. Not every day has to be this highlight reel where you are bumping shoulders with executives, hitting gym PR's and getting eye fucked by cuties on the sidewalk. I used to fight it, but some periods are just "meh" and I let it play out. Fighting it makes you constantly hunt for action, where in reality you may just need to chill the fuck out for a few days/weeks.
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Toxic people can include family members. If you have a sibling or parent who hits the bottle hard every night and makes you feel anxious and insults you at times, give it time to sort itself out, voice your concerns, but if nothing changes then GET THE FUCK OUT, move out, if you can't move out then find reasons to leave when the shit is hitting the fan, you are not responsible for someone else drinking too much.
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If you have depression / other issues related to your mental health, see a male therapist.
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If you find it funny, laugh. If the time is inappropriate, keep it to yourself. This is basic social awareness. Don't walk past a midget on the train and begin losing your shit because the funny little fella could fit into a cannon and you couldn't.
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Jordan Peterson.
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Joe Rogan.
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If you watch porn, keep it limited to amateur shit. Don't go watching jacked guys in gimp suits fuck a handful of DD filthy talking bimbos dressed as maids with techno music playing over the top who cumswap and fist each others assholes, this isn't realistic and good luck finding a girl who's into that. You will teach your dick not to work.
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If you work at an office, make sure your posture is good. Bad posture fucked me up for a while. Just google some shit.
I had more but that will do. Let me know what you think.
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