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Trp changed my life (self.askTRP)

submitted by jatert1

I used to be kisless virgin and I’m 22.

Two days ago I’ve managed to bang tinder girl and I’m happy now. Worn protection, even for a bj. Didn’t eat her pussy. Texted her after just to get a proof of consent.

Banged chubby just to get the monkey of the shoulder, feel so much better already.

Though that I’ll cum in 1min but went on for like an hour (extended pleasure condom)

Anyway thanks for your help, I’ll now focus on improving smv and self improvement.


[–]koedeloe88 points89 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Good job. Now increase your SMV like you said so you can focus on other shit and bang hotties instead of chubby girls.

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten58 points59 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

This is good advice, but keep smashing some chubby poonani to practice. It does wonders for confidence. Just don't get caught or prepare to be ROASTED buddy

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Poonani. I see you are a man of culture.

[–]TheTrenTrannyTrain2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Chubbies are like scooters, fun to ride but you don't want your friends to see you with one.

[–]kennethBelcher-1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

What’s SMV?

[–]Chadster11320 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

For some guys (I think) being a virgin is like an existential crisis. Once they have sex for the first time they can start to take it less seriously. It’s like “this is all it is? This is what I’ve been chasing?”

[–]AbuSultan54L0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao

[–]cowb3llf3v3r35 points36 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

A lot of guys are worried that they’ll come super fast that first time, but more often than not, the anxiety they’re feeling keeps them from coming quickly. Also, when you’re used to the hard grip of your own hand while watching hardcore porn involving super hot girls, fucking a chubby isn’t going to result in the kind of mind-numbing sexual intensity that will get you off immediately.

[–]snowie425 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I came in seconds to a fat hoe for my first time. Now I have anxiety that it will happen for the next time. Didn't have sex yet after that one. Tomorrow is another chubby, lets see whats gonna happen

[–]kap1pa14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's the start of a self fulfilling loop. Just have ur sex and don't worry about anything.

[–]geo_gan8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Try having 10 pints of beer, multiple shots of vodka mixers and then try to cum even with the hottest Russian pole dancer from a Mediterranean lap dancing club sitting on your dick. It’s not easy. I know...

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

just stop if you get close and take a breather, they're already willing to fuck you, they don't care if you pause for 5-10 seconds to catch yourself.

[–]waynebradysworld2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Who cares. Same thing happened to me. Just go again. The most times I've ever had sex in a day was 10 times. You bet your ass you're going to be trying your absolute hardest to force yourself to cum by the time you get to 5 or 6.

It's a rite of passage. Just bone her multiple times. The first one will be quick. Just say "oops", I didn't expect your pussy to be so nice

Then try again

[–]SuperCrazy071 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

She'll be proud of it too. I had sex with my first girl 8 times in 6 hours and she changed her online nickname to "8x6hr"

[–]waynebradysworld0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep, sounds about right

[–]waynebradysworld0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

My first time I literally came so fast my dick wasn't in yet.

[–]snowie420 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hahahah, that shit made me laugh so hrd. I feel you bro. I put it in this chick, 2-3 thrusts, I’m like oh so this is how sex feels. Then I’m like arghhh and I’m done lol

At the time, since it was my first sex, I didnt know much about what to do. So I kept it in her for a while after I came. Then I learned that that was a big no no but luckily she didnt get prefnant

[–]germancarfan2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude I can’t bring myself to use apps. Even though I know I should in order to gain more experience and I actually enjoy going on dates so I know it would fun. It just feels awkward since I’m gonna see my entire school and classmates in it lol

[–]jatert10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why would you feel awkward, they are also using the app so. I thought the same way but i said you know what fuck it i dont care about what everyone thinks and I opened my account.

[–]lifeisweirdasfuck7 points8 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

May I ask you what's your current SMV?

Do you lift? Do you have a sense of style? What's your body language and attitude like?

Also, were you attracted to that girl? Or did you choose a random low smv girl to lose your v-card, despite not being truly attracted to her? (fuckable or non fuckable)

Asking all this out of curiosity.

[–]jatert110 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Id say im 6/10.

Been lifting for 5 years and i spend quite a bit of money on the fashion (mostly shoes tho)

I used to be very shy, now i see an improvement but still I need to get to now the person in order to be like more open and relaxed.

Wasnt attracted to that girl tbh, she was like 4/10 but you gotta do what you gotta do. Like the worst thing was looking at her body tbh, because you care about what you eat, gym 3-4 times a week and that girl just cant be bothered about it and you're thinking I'm too good for her lol.

[–]ZeppKfw7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I highly appreciate your honesty. It's nice to see someone not larping as a chad thundercock that has 12 plates and makes 100k a year.

[–]recon_johnny3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

thinking I’m too good for her.

That’s the ticket, son. Doesn’t matter who you engage.

[–]Nis_law0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I guess these are the questions everyone here shud ask themselves

[–]dark_rabbit1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Always wondered about those condoms.. do you know if it decreased her sensitivity too? And did she know you were using it?

[–]Peter_B_Long11 points12 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I've used these before. It's good to have some of these in hand as well as some regular ones.

Like if you haven't fucked in a while and you want to give her a good time so she comes for more, then you can use the numbing one and just focus on making her cum.

These condoms are also good for guys who like the visuals. Because these condoms numb your dick, it doesn't really feel that great, but you're able to focus more on what she looks like when she's riding you or you can look at your dick pounding her from behind. Best used on girls with hot bodies.

If you have a girl over and you use a regular condom and cum too quick. Just wait until you get hard again and put on one of the numbing ones. You'll "make up" for cumming quick the first time.

I wouldn't recommend these for anyone who has trouble getting hard. These condoms numb your dick, and might even feel a bit stingy, so it's best to put it on and quickly insert yourself in her. Wait around too long and you'll go limp.

The numbing stays on for a while, so it'll take longer for you to get hard again after you cum the first time.

Most of the time, to make myself cum, I have to REALLY pound her and put all of my energy into it. It sounds cool but it can get frustrating when you can't bring yourself to come and you're completely exhausted.

The numbing they use taste like shit. One time I got physically tired, took off the condom, and had her suck me off. It took a few minutes and she had to really get into it but eventually I came. I kissed her moments later and I could taste the bitterness of the condom. I felt bad that she was sucking me off with that taste on my dick, but she probably didn't even notice cause she was still "high" from the sexual experience.

In short, these are good as a "wild card". Save them for when you REALLY want to give her a good experience or for when you are trying to redeem yourself after cuming quickly. I fucked up one time by using these every time I had sex with an ex-LTR which gave me performance anxiety when thinking about having sex without these extended condoms on. It sucked so don't use these all the time.

Also, don't tell her about the condoms! Do you want her to think that your endurance in bed is impressive? Or do you want her to think that you can only fuck good when you have a crutch.

[–]geo_gan0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

She would notice. The numbing effect would also do the same to inside of her pussy.

[–]Peter_B_Long2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

No, I'm sure the numbing is only on the inside of the condom. I've fucked dozens of times with these and have never had the girl notice anything off.

[–]trpppp1231 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao, I remember I had one of these condoms on with a girl once. It was the first time I was using it, and my dick was hard for pretty long, and I took it off so she could give me a blow job and her tongue got numb and she's like Idk why my tongue is numb. lol

[–]DefJ456-1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Following, also curious. Suppose could always buy and try too.

[–]jatert11 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Told her after we finished. She was impressed by my performance lol

[–]jatert11 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I would recommend them if you have like premature ejactulation. I could have easily gone for like one more hour, she had to use hand at the end just for me to cum quicker

[–]stylesm110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Where did you buy them

[–]DefJ4560 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What brand?

[–]DocPBJ0071 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

whats SMV?

[–]Rooi_Aap1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I was also a "late bloomer", but once I had scored my n-count went up by 4 in 7 months (long before TRP or any such knowledge), #4 was a LTR. Once you have had sex it changes the way you look at the world, and many of your self-sabotage systems fade away.

Congrats man

[–]KnoxHarrrington1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

LMAO contgrats that the red pill made you think its a good idea to fuck a girl you aren't attracted to, get a blowjob in a condom (lmao!!!!) and refusing to go down. Youre a badass

[–]mickey__0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

great, brother, now revaluate your focus

[–]screechhater0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Plate her and make her squirt next time.

Use the experience to control your load doggy style with her backing up and grinding. You get good at that, and I guarantee you pussy on tap, you will exude pussy slayer confidence

[–]person84450 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well done mate.

Careful with those jonnys, ive heard you can become gradually more immune to them, and then if you dont use them you become hyper sensitive. Theres info out there for lasting longer (breathing etc)

[–]AmatureProgrammer0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

still new to this but what exactly did you do to improve yourself?

[–]jatert12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

  • improved my fashion style
  • Reading self-improvement books (game, the book of pook)
  • Watching roosh hour
  • Being more open (trying to engage into conversation with people from work/school)
  • Better hairstyle

I think thats it I was lifting before i discovered TRP thats why i didnt mention that above.

[–]voyager140 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

How do you prove consent over text?

[–]jatert10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I dont know if it counts as a consent but i just sent her text saying that it was nice and stuff and she agreed.

[–]GrimlyStoic-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wrong sub, go to ThankTRP

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