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Whenever I make a post in another sub, inevitably people will bring up Oh no, she posts in RPW! and then all fan themselves in shock.

What is up with that? Why do people go search out post histories anyways? I can honestly say I've never thought to do that when replying to a post.


[–]honeyfern32 points33 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I've been discredited on r/relationships because I was subbed to the_donald and here. (I happen to like sassy political memes) apparently that means I can't give advice on how to stop your roommate from taking your dog out without your permission.

[–]est-la-lune22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I use a separate account for RP-related subs.

I think it's horrible people have the time of day to do that, but that's the internet for you. -_-

[–][deleted] 40 points41 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Yes, it's common. You should generally have a different account just for red pill-related subs.

What is up with that? Why do people go search out post histories anyways?

As my grandmother would say, "The good lord did not see fit to distribute intelligence evenly."

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I guess I'll make a new one for my other stuff. That sucks

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Yeah it sucks. I've been doxxed before over posting in RP communities. It didn't impact me in any serious way because I'm self-employed and none of my family members who were contacted on Facebook really cared that I was talking about macking chicks on the Internet, but it made me more careful.

[–]SirKolbath2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I hope you filed pertinent loss of privacy lawsuits.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

There's no one to sue. It was all done anonymously.

[–]SirKolbath7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Anonymity is not possible on Facebook. I'd subpoena their account information and hammer them into a thin paste. They won't stop this doxxing bullshit until it starts ending their careers.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Anonymity is not possible on Facebook.

Sure it is. You can create a fake account on Facebook just as easily as you can create a fake account on just about anything else.

They won't stop this doxxing bullshit until it starts ending their careers.

That's assuming they have jobs.

[–]honeyfern4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Writing that quote down.

[–]Rivkariver2 Star1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol, Grandma with the sick burn.

[–]girlwithabikeEndorsed Contributor22 points23 points  (20 children) | Copy Link

Funny you say that, I was just downvoted this morning for commenting in 'relationships' (saying the birth control pill might be impacting a wife's attraction to her husband). I am half expecting to be banned from the sub when someone goes through my comment history.

That said: I will absolutely go through comment histories in this sub sometimes. If someone says something and I can't quite figure out the tone (are they being trolly or genuine) I'll check their comment history to get a better idea of who I might be responding to.

[–]Howlsraven 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Thats so weird. I dont consider myself very red pill but that is not even a red pill comment. Just common knowledge that hormonal birth control can affect your hormones and therefore attraction. Im sorry people judge this sub so quickly.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm with you- I don't consider myself fully red pill. Mostly I like this sub because everyone is honest. No one lies to protect your feelings. I'm sure not everyone likes that, but I like having a place where I can get actual advice.

I also like talking to women that are goal driven and focused like I am.

[–]honeyfern13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm similar and I like this sub because unlike the others, you can talk about issues without the answers being "you're in an unhealthy/abusive relationship!" or "dump them!" people will actually give you constructive advice.

[–]girlwithabikeEndorsed Contributor8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I was a little surprised myself. I don't think it is common knowledge though it SHOULD be. The Pill may be the hill I die on one day for that reason.

The sad part about people judging this sub is that there are a lot of issues out there that could be easily solved by at least acknowledging what RP has to say.

[–]EmbracingThePill5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

People judge the female version of redpill because of the male. Though I agree with a good majority of male redpill, the ones who get on there and say AWALT and we are just here to get as many wet holes as possible...That's what stands out. And that's what people think of when they think of redpill. But if you read the original passages, it's not quite like that.

[–]girlwithabikeEndorsed Contributor5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I try to stay away from TRP. Even if the information is valuable the posts aren't for me. Some days if I'm feeling masochistic I'll wander over but it's rare.

[–]Moobx8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I actually wish people talked about this more, as it was not something I was told about even at planned parenthood. I think it is expected for women to have a low sex drive but also that women are perfect just the way they are, and should not change - especially for a man. When I was on bc and my sex drive plummeted, I thought I was losing attraction to my bf...

[–]girlwithabikeEndorsed Contributor9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

My LIFE changed when I stopped taking them fully. Stuff that I'd been seeing doctors for for YEARS stopped being a problem. No doctor in all the years I've been on the pill has done anything other than downplay the side effects or say "you have to find the right one" (I've been on so many over the years). Plus I feel like I've been cheated out of good sex for at least the time I've been with my husband.

[–]Moobx2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

ye biggest loss was all the good sex we could have had! i know my bf feels the same way, but he considers that period of time where he became uncertain about our relationship. a woman's sudden lack of sex drive in a relationship could mean many things, none of which are good.

[–]SSapplejack2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I was having the most painful sex for years and no one could figure out why. I was treated for everything they could think of. then my husband and I starting trying for a baby and I went off my birth control, sex is AWESOME and absolutely pain free. I would have switched to condoms years ago if someone had suggested it could have been my birth control.

[–]EmbracingThePill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I never had a problem. So I do wonder if it is just about finding the right one. Or maybe for some, they all will do that. Nothing changed for me when I was on the pill and after husband had vasectomy and I came off them, nothing. Then again, I have found most drugs to have no affect. Tried andidepressents, felt no different. Took Wellbutrin to quit smoking, no different. I also feel no different on my period. With the minor exception that I want sex more the day before. No cramps. No irritability. Absolutely nothing.

[–]azrael3191 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's a shame people just at all. Not just based on what sub is being commented on. It's interesting to hear other people's thoughts on a subject matter. I'm a lurker on this sub but I read somethings I agree with and others I don't.

Though I will admit thats some serious commitment to being a jerk. Actually going through someone's history. Lol wow.

[–]IVIaskerade0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

that is not even a red pill comment

It's an incorrect opinion (not being completely supportive of OP in /relationships) coming from a person with the wrong background, so obviously it's got to be suppressed.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That's crazy. It has been well established that birth control can change your sex drive. That isn't necessarily a reason to not use it, but it is a clear fact.

[–]girlwithabikeEndorsed Contributor2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, everyone should make their own informed choices. This particular guy had his wife start wanting him to be more masculine after she stopped taking the pill. It's not crazy to think there was maybe a connection.

[–]honeyfern5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That science was too much for them eh?

what a shock is must be to consider BC has something to do with her hormones being low!

[–]OGlancellannister2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol I thought that was fairly settled science. Most of reddit definitely leans quite far left.

[–]Rivkariver2 Star1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Please don't let your facts about birth control get in the way of their narrative. /s

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

If you haven't been banned from r/twoxchromosomes you're doing it wrong lol

[–]teaandtalk5 Stars4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't post in there so I've never been banned...i think that counts as doing it right ;)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

post in the donald. You'll get a message post haste that 2x has banned you

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol! I wasn't even posting about women's issues!

[–]xtc19840 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think they're banning a lot -- evidence being that there is so much less activity there than there used to be. Fewer threads being started, fewer comments.

Just as well.

[–]bounce-bounce-drop0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol, that's so true.

[–]tuyguy9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I find it funny that they're so smug about self-satisfied about it.

"Ha! Busted! You post to a red pill sub therefore you must be a terrible person. I got you good!"

Like it's supposed to offend me. Yes, I know I post there. I was there when I did it.

[–]fetchyminx7 points8 points  (25 children) | Copy Link

What other subs?

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (24 children) | Copy Link

ask women and twoxchromosomes have both had issues with it

[–]fetchyminx25 points26 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Shocker.

[–]HumanSockPuppetTRP Founder8 points9 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Haven't you heard?

Anyone who posts here is really a man wearing overall silicone boobs.

[–]RubyWooToo3 Stars11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

...which is funny because 90% of the comments in TwoX are from dudes.

I remember when they moved TwoX to the frontpage to make it more inclusive and discoverable. Predictably, the sub went to shit after that.

[–]fetchyminx2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Who says that? Women from twoxchromosomes?

[–]HumanSockPuppetTRP Founder6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Anyone who opposes the Red Pill.

According to our ideological opponents, RPW is just a bunch of guys pretending to be women in order to create the illusion that there are women who enjoy submissiveness.

[–]fetchyminx3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

According to them we're doormats who try way too hard to please our opposite gender.

[–]xtc19842 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

We all must have internalized misogyny!!!

[–]Cardiscappa22 points23 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Left leaning people tie what you say with your identity. Intersectional Feminism lays this out nicely. If you were a trans black woman in a wheel chair, what you say carries more weight than a cis het white male, even though what you may say is asinine. Trump/Hitler/Other Boogeyman nonbinary person could say the sky is blue, which is true, but they can't remove their feelings towards Trump/Hitler/OBNBP in a mature manner to agree or disagree as they see fit. This is why they go through your post history, because what you say goes against their world view and they can't articulate a rebuttal, so they have to use ad hominem attacks: disregard what this person says because they're X. This is why civil discourse is impossible these days.

[–]jb_trp8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You've hit the nail on the head. As far as worldviews go, intersectional feminism is cancer. It turns victimhood into the highest virtue, judges people by the color of their skin and not the content of their character, and doesn't care so much about a person's individual story rather than their group identity. In that sense, it is racist and sexist and creates more division and hate in this country by looking at everything through such a hyper-racist/sexist/etc. lens.

Story time: A girl who used to have a crush on me a few years ago (she was a freshman in university and added me on FB after seeing me at the gym) has gotten deep into intersectional feminism. Her Instagram is now just pictures of her with black people (complete virtue signaling), pictures of how proud she is of her body even though she's gained at least 50 lbs in 4 years, pictures of her in a hijab (yup, this suburban middle class white girl is now a Muslim... Shocker. And can anyone say, "cultural appropriation."), and all other forms of madness. I have to believe on some level many of these decisions are due to her intersectional feminism: She gains clout in her worldview by identifying with other "oppressed" groups or being allies with them.

What I love about TRP is that it's about as farm from cultural Marxism as you can get. People should stop complaining about being "oppressed" (when most of the time they are not), should take responsibility for their lives, and change their lives for the better. Lose the weight if you're overweight. Get an education. Pursue a better job. We live in the most meritocratic society in the history of the world... Take advantage of it, people.

[–]xtc19840 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

IMO, intersectional feminism is nothing more than feminism's last desperate attempt at reinvention, rebranding, and repackaging.

[–]Cardiscappa1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

It's part of the growing process.

Feminism fought for women's equal rights. That was passed in the 60's. Then they had to find something else to fight about. And once that was acquiesced, on to the next thing. Then the next. Feminism is no longer relevant, so it has to continue to find more and more niche things to criticize, like man spreading and air conditioning. The ideology gets narrower and narrower to which you'll have people outcasted for wrong think (Laci Green) and those who are going to claw at each other to show who is the most virtuous.

[–]bounce-bounce-drop2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Feminism is no longer relevant

Eh, that goes too far. The bias against women's competency is still quite real as is violence against women. I think the biggest issue right now though is we're trying to lower the bar for EVERYONE down to the shittiest guy, rather than raising the bar for everyone to what we expect from women.

[–]Cardiscappa0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

The bias against women's competency is still quite real

Are suggesting that feminism can punish people for wrongful thinking? (In your example of thinking a woman is incompetent.)

as is violence against women.

How many men's shelters are there in your area?

we're trying to lower the bar for EVERYONE down to the shittiest guy, rather than raising the bar for everyone to what we expect from women.

How, and what, do "we" expect more from women?

[–]bounce-bounce-drop1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Are suggesting that feminism can punish people for wrongful thinking? (In your example of thinking a woman is incompetent.)

I'm suggesting that caring about cultural or societal biases and taking action to mitigate them is good. In this case, while you certainly can (but SHOULDN'T) punish people for their opinions, you can assess what components of their inputs are helping to create these perspectives and reduce them. For example, I'd claim that porn and women's limited role in popular films as competent agents of change are harmful to them being seen as equally competent. Feminists rightly should be working to change that either by producing their own films or involving themselves in the current industry and changing it from within.

How many men's shelters are there in your area?

Completely ignoring the physical differences between men and women is silly. A relationship where a woman is physically abusive (while horrible and unacceptable) is overall a less dangerous situation for the man than when the roles are reversed.

https://ncadv.org/learn-more/statistics

I find the most interesting statistic to be: "72% of all murder-suicides involve an intimate partner; 94% of the victims of these murder suicides are female."

I'd predict if people weren't literally being murdered that our concern overall with domestic violence would be significantly less.

While I 100% agree any violence on either side is unacceptable, suggesting the situation is equally bad for both sexes seems silly. What do you think I'm missing?

How, and what, do "we" expect more from women?

"We" meant society in this context, though specifically our society given the current feminist elements. I'd suggest that women are expected to act properly and men are excused from proper behavior with a "boys will be boys" attitude. Instead of encouraging everyone to be decent (I think it's equally unacceptable for men to callously disregard other people's emotions as I do for a woman to callously disregard other people's emotions), I see an increasing push for "equality" to mean "women can be shites too".

[–]Cardiscappa0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Feminists rightly should be working to change that either by producing their own films or involving themselves in the current industry and changing it from within.

But feminists don't. Feminists whinge and cry about inequalities. Feminist Frequency made quite a bit of money about telling others what they should be doing instead of funding the change they wanted to see. Feminists are not about women, but about who thinks like them. If they were about women, they would have been celebrating Sarah Palin as vice candidate, they'd celebrate Ivanka Trump's successes. But they don't. They only like those who adhere to their narrow ideological thinking.

Completely ignoring the physical differences between men and women is silly.

Please cite where I said there is no physical differences between men and women.

While I 100% agree any violence on either side is unacceptable, suggesting the situation is equally bad for both sexes seems silly. What do you think I'm missing?

You're missing where feminists mock and deride men for wanting their own shelters. Men can't have any spaces of their own, women have to infiltrate. But have a man enter a female space, women lose their minds. Men and women are equal under the law, there is no need for feminism now, so it has turned into female superiority.

Instead of encouraging everyone to be decent ... I see an increasing push for "equality" to mean "women can be shites too".

You realize that feminism is the degradation of women, right? Unshaved armpits, crass and vulgar attitudes, painting with their period blood, glorification of random hook ups and drunken nights, feminism absolutely does not bring either gender to higher standards.

[–]bounce-bounce-drop1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Some feminists do, some feminists don't. I mean, if I'm painting with a large brush every group is horrible, including men, women, and really just people. Not very helpful.

If they were about women, they would have been celebrating Sarah Palin as vice candidate, they'd celebrate Ivanka Trump's successes.

...huh? You can disagree with someone's politics and how they comport themselves and be a feminist. Being a feminist isn't about always agreeing with other women's choices. That'd be rather horrible.

Please cite where I said there is no physical differences between men and women.

I was attempting to figure out why you thought the lack of men's shelters showed that it was somehow silly to talk about men's violence against women as an issue feminism should be addressing. I could only assume you thought the two genders were equally harmful to the other in terms of physical violence and outcomes or else your comment didn't make much sense to me.

You're missing where feminists mock and deride men for wanting their own shelters.

I have sincerely never met a feminist who has done this. Have you? Or is this just some online essay or tumblr extremist position? Even if it is common, that doesn't take away the point that there is still a valid, good role for feminism in society...that just clearly isn't it.

Men can't have any spaces of their own, women have to infiltrate. But have a man enter a female space, women lose their minds.

I agree with this issue you're bringing up.

Men and women are equal under the law, there is no need for feminism now, so it has turned into female superiority.

Aaand we disagree again. That's like saying simply because African-Americans are equal under the law there still isn't work to be done within the culture to overcome racism.

You realize that feminism is the degradation of women, right? Unshaved armpits, crass and vulgar attitudes, painting with their period blood, glorification of random hook ups and drunken nights, feminism absolutely does not bring either gender to higher standards.

I explicitly said that was a problem with much of modern feminism. You're agreeing with me and somehow making it into a disagreement. I've honestly never had another women respond to me in quite this way; it's seems extraordinarily aggressive and as if you are willfully misunderstanding me.

As for feminism being the degradation of women, not all feminism.

Unshaved armpits

I don't think body hair is innately unfeminine. In fact, I find the idea culturally narrow minded. I spent a good portion of my childhood in areas where women did not shave anything. They were not "degraded" by this, thank you.

vulgar attitudes, painting with their period blood, glorification of random hook ups and drunken nights

As I said, I agree when it comes to vulgarity. But I also think we accept such things as men and I'd prefer, again, if when establishing one standard of behavior (a goal feminism promotes) we raised the bar rather than lowered it. Why can't everyone be expected not to be crass and vulgar or engage in random hookups or drunken nights?

[–]xtc19840 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed. Feminism is now Feminism, Inc. -- along with Women Studies departments that need to justify their existence (academic careerism).

All that's left seem to be aging babyboomer women who never got the memo that the 70s are over, weirdos, Gender Studies professors, and spoiled entitled privileged upper-middle-class White women who want to be Professional Feminist Activists.

[–]SouthernAthenaEndorsed Contributor4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh yeah, definitely with those subs you are going to have issues. I had a post once "doxxed" (I put that in quotes because they were wrong about who I was) by The Blue Pill, and I was either mocked mercilessly or given pseudo-pity for being a battered woman.

[–]ElfFey4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha, TwoXchromosomes is awful. One day they just randomly banned everyone who posts on r/The_Donald.

[–]SSapplejack3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm banned from twox for posting in a few of their "not allowed" subs. 🙄 I didn't even go there much because it was pretty infuriating most of the time, just got a message one day that I'd been banned.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

They have "not allowed" subs???

[–]su-quita2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I got banned from two chromosomes for posting something really inocuous that had nothing to do with feminism. I didn't even subscribe to that sub. Craziness.

[–]NeoWhimsical2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Too many chromosomes? Yeah. Bunch of crazy feminists

[–]AyeAyeCap8 points9 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I'm mostly a lurker but I do use separate accounts. In fact, I have several different ones just to keep different areas of interest divided from other areas. I guess I use my separate accounts almost like different multi-reddits.

However, I was on the xxfitness sub yesterday with my fitness alt and I noticed someone getting "called out" for subbing here and particularly FNF, which I thought was interesting. I felt terrible since what she was asking was a genuine question and some creep felt the need to go through her post history and then tried to discredit her.

Edit: realized I was on the xxfitness sub and not the loseit sub when the above happened.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I think it's crazy that we have to log in and out of accounts because some people are creepers.

My post was about what thing does society tell you is good but then you get made fun of for it. I guess it is kind of red pill in nature in that we recognize that just because society tells us to act or look a certain way doesn't mean people will actually like it. But 4,000 people looked at it, 111 thought it was a good post, and a ton commented on it. It was really interesting to see how common that is for women and how many get made fun of for the exact same things I do. But these women called it a chance to humblebrag and threw a fit about my RP posting.

[–]girlwithabikeEndorsed Contributor2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Had to go check out their comments since you mentioned it. Just ... wow. When I run into people who go straight for mockery, I assume that they have no substance. If I state something and someone wants to debate or discuss, then yay! But you didn't even say anything controversial and it wasn't the place to discuss RP ideas (I don't think that topic was particularly RP). They just wanted to mock you for going off the feminist reservation.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

The funny thing is that I identify as a feminist. I firmly believe in gender equality under the law. I firmly believe that most differences between men and women are a result of psychology, not biology (TRP seems to think its in the DNA).

But that doesn't change the fact that the men I'd like to date have been raised with a different psychology than I have, and understanding it will help me be more successful (and happy) in the dating game as well as in my same sex friendships.

[–]girlwithabikeEndorsed Contributor4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

There is a lot of crazy in the feminist (and liberal/left) world overall these days and I think it's a race to the extremes. I don't think there is a contradiction holding the view that men and women are different AND that we should still be equal under the law. We're probably doing ourselves a disservice by NOT acknowledging it.

But a lot of people can't get past the idea "we are not different!!", period, end of discussion, wrap up and go home. Those people aren't going to see the nuance and they are the ones who are mocking your beliefs (or what they assume your beliefs are) because they don't fit with their own.

[–]Howlsraven4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I really agree with you. People seem to think equal means the same. Like my boyfriend and I are equal but we are far from the same. We think and act differently in ways that could very well be because of gender. But I think that also goes to harassment. Women can be completely different but still be equals. Im not better than a women who likes the captain and first mate arrangement just because co captains work for me. Differences are fine.

[–]apollosapien4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Not a frequenter in RPW, but it happens concerning places like /r/asktrp. I'm interested in perusing the discussions women have amongst themselves here, but it just seems like vapid nonsense to outsiders.

My girlfriend's relatively Red-Pilled, but I often check this sub out for a woman's perspective on what they want from their man. There's a lot of preferences, but a few fundamentals remain the same which help me improve everyday.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's really thoughtful of you.

I like this sub because everyone here has a goal, and everyone here supports you in attaining that goal. Other subs (even one's that claim to focus on motivation/goal setting) don't really support or help you at all.

[–]diaperedwoman3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I never had this problem but maybe because I don't post here often nor do I post threads often.

[–]RubyWooToo3 Stars2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm actually surprised that I haven't taken any shit from other subs.

Then again, I don't post in TwoX or the other women-related subs.

[–]teaandtalk5 Stars1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I've just posted on a couple of threads, I'm curious to see if I get any backlash!

[–]RubyWooToo3 Stars0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're way too much of a class act for them. :-)

[–]xtc19841 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

TwoX inadvertently turned me into an antifeminist/egalitarian. I bet the same has happened to a lot of other former members of that sub,

There were many other things as well that made me change my mind about that patently misandrist ideology/movement, but yeah, TwoX was like the final nail in the coffin. It's where I truly saw Feminists for what they really were.

[–]carefreevermillion2 Star2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I hate the behavior of women/people like them so much. I went to the post and saw what you were talking about and had to comment because of how petty and small minded they were. I'm really sorry that happened to you.

[–]MrManayunk3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Epic losers. People who lose all the time search hard to try and convince themselves other people aren't better than them so they can feel better about themselves. They don't realize they will still be losers no matter what their delusions or opinions of others are. They just want to spread the butthurt they experience daily.

You would think this is me trying to be funny, I'm being sincere and work in mental health. This is what the professionals say when no one to be offended is within earshot. It's the truth.

[–]Rivkariver2 Star0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am convinced they are actually fascinated by us. I think they see a level of stability of inner peace and are secretly interested, since they lack that. But it conflicts intellectually with their beliefs, so they get mad instead. If they didn't have any interest in us as they claim, they would just ignore us.

[–]SirKolbath5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Whenever I make a post in another sub, inevitably people will bring up Oh no, she posts in RPW! and then all fan themselves in shock.

All the time. Also the porn forums I choose to post in. This is the exact reason Reddit has a block feature. I do not reply to or care about forums these children try to draw me into. (The drama subreddit is a great example. These blue pill dipshits have so little drama in their lives that they literally made a forum where they can create more. I've been called everything from a fake pseudo Dominant to a pussy. All things no one would ever say to me without a keyboard and screen between us.)

What is up with that? Why do people go search out post histories anyways? I can honestly say I've never thought to do that when replying to a post.

I search post histories when I think I may have misunderstood someone. For example, if you posted "Red Pillers are sad men!" I might have to look at your post history to find some context. Maybe you're referring to the pre-anger, rock bottom phase of swallowing the Pill. Maybe you are legitimately trying to insult us. Maybe you're some autist screeching bullshit. I don't know unless I check.

My best advice is to ignore them. I do that with many people who aren't worth my time. There were at least two women here who accused me of being in the anger phase because I said something they didn't like. They weren't grown up enough to recognize that uncomfortable truths are not rage, and vehemence is not venom. Since they also were not self-introspective enough to recognize these lacking qualities in themselves, I simply chose not to reply and blocked them.

Never let some ass clown on your screen fuck up your happiness or enjoyment of your internet time.

[–]SouthernAthenaEndorsed Contributor2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I definitely use a different account for most of my other posting. It's just the way of things.

[–]Atomicbebe2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I made a separate account, it's Reddit and ppl who disagree with a comment will downvote you, click on your name and down vote everything on the first page of your profile.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

People are sooooo childish

[–]SSapplejack1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep! I mostly lurk too, but people have their RES tagged with subreddits you can flag as 'hateful' and this one is apparently one of them so when you post it marks your name, they don't even have to go through your post history !

[–]xtc19841 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I got reprimanded once on a sub for people recovering from abuse from people (mothers, ex-spouses) with untreated Borderline or Narcissistic personality disorders.

I argued that many untreated BPDs and NPDs are naturally attracted to feminism because it feeds into their simplistic black-white ("splitting") thinking styles and enables their victimhood mindset. But Also, many are indeed victims of sexual assault/abuse and have unresolved issues with that ... that eventually (rather: quickly) morph into misandry toward ALL men -- a totally acceptable attitude in our feminist culture!

Laughably, one of the mods accused me of "having an agenda" and deleted my thread. I was also accused elsewhere of saying "all/most feminists" have BPD -- which I emphatically did NOT say. In fact, I was quite clear on this.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I disagree with those opinions, but also don't think you should be banned from a thread for them! People hate discussion anymore.

[–]xtc19841 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This is the point I was trying to make (in another sub):

I never said or even insinuated that all feminists are Borderline. Perhaps BPDs make up only a small portion of the Feminist population -- as you suggested. But my point was that it's very possible that a high percentage of Borderlines embrace Feminism. This should come as no surprise given:

1. Propensity for all-or-nothing, black-and-white thinking style ("splitting") which lends itself to finding Feminism credible.

2. High incidence of sexual abuse by men amongst BPDs, which would make them more open to the more misandrist tendencies of the Feminist camp (of which there are a lot).

3. Untreated BPDs being attracted to Feminism because they believe it can absolve them of all accountability under the cover of political activism -- running away from responsibility being another hallmark trait of untreated BPD.

[–]girlwithabikeEndorsed Contributor2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hate facts! They intentionally misinterpret what you so so that they can get angry. There needs to be an enemy or there is no movement.

[–]Rivkariver2 Star1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. I posted in an unrelated sub and someone thought my post was a slight towards them, when it wasn't in any way. He went back to my post history and had this cringy attempt at a gotcha thing of me. Posted that I was Catholic and post in RPW and prefer my military bf over guys who have always been white collar. Took everything out of context. Like having a dating preference is a crime. Basically he was European who hates Americans; those types on Reddit are super angry.

It was really embarrassing for him, especially since I wasn't ashamed about any of those things the way he hoped. He thought saying I post in RPW was enough of an argument for my being a bad person on its own. A number of redditors supported him, of course, since this is Reddit. If he had done the same to someone who was a liberal atheist people would have thought he was being a jerk. One person did defend me later when another person brought it up again.

A woman on a more feminist sub also called me a "lost cause." I just feel embarrassed that people act with such a lack of class, and think it's not a reflection of them, as long as they believe I am bad.

[–]bounce-bounce-drop0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Eh I post on gender critical (aka TERF by the extremist liberals) and occasionally here. I think it just confuses everyone...

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