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[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nice. If you can maintain attraction to a beta man then you should because they are very caring and loving. Most women however are just not attracted to them.

What made you choose him at first?

[–]mrpthrowa7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This isn't a beta. This is just an introvert person with some alpha qualities, perhaps some sigma qualities.

What's this post says is don't overlook the quiet confident guy in favour of the loud mouth in your face guy that many girls go after.

Anecdotally, girls discover the first and can't help but stick around. They discover the second and will probably drop their pants quicker for him, but are more likely to bolt looking after his replacement "thrill".

[–]Toussant15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

How come you didn't friendzone him, in the beginning?

[–]dpaknet3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same question

[–]RubyWooToo3 Stars12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I don’t think this guy was friend zone material at all. He was attractive enough for you to flirt with him when you first met him and I’m sure the fact that he ignored you (which you didn’t know at the time was due to nervousness) was intriguing.

He didn’t act desperate, he took the time to court you, and he obviously has enough experience with women to take the time to learn how to pleasure you. This is not a beta male by any stretch of the imagination.

In fact, I would say that if there is a lesson in all this, it’s on how to properly vet for a good mate over an extended period of dating, rather than settling for any guy who gives you the tingles and pounces on you at the first opportunity.

[–]girlwithabikeEndorsed Contributor9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Standing up to mom's abusive bf isn't really a beta trait

[–]lukianp3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

upvoted for the truth

[–]BlaueBlumeFreiheit2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I can relate so very well. My man is a blue collar, hardworking man with low opinion of his intelligence (what a heap of bogus, he might be more inclined to work physically rather then sitting down and writing but that does not mean he is dumb) that saw academically inclined (read women that did attend university for more then the public transport ticket and party) as akin to aliens and completely out of his league. We met when I was on an assignment and hit right off platonically. We went to the Advent Fair´s and fell in love. We have been together for about 5 years and look at marrying in about a month.

[–]ich_bin_doch_geil2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lucky but exceptions still prove the rule.

[–]Nessunolosa2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This is a great post. I don't get the hate.

Surely this man fulfills a lot of what RPW are looking for?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most women who are looking for marriage are looking for a man with more beta traits than alpha. What's confusing here is anyone pretending Alpha types make great husbands and no one wants men with beta traits.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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