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'#wandersluts

Most girls I meet (20s and 30s) are all obsessed with international travel, they bitch and moan how men aren't cultured and don't understand the world. These girls talk about how shitty our culture is in America, how we have no history, borderline self hate and then they go to full moon parties in Thailand or eat at McDonalds in Hong Kong (that's culture LMFAO). Am I missing something here? It's like a new form of pretentiousness I can't really describe.

Edit: is a wanderlust girl n-count = 100 ?

Edit2: they travel around the world to hang out with other westerners, drink, fuck, and do the exact same thing we do here and bragging about how "cultured" their experience was and how enriching travel can be


[–]boy_named_su110 points111 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Foreign dick that doesn't "count" and Instagram attention. And why bother saving up money when Billy Beta gonna pay those student loans

[–]red_matrix[S] 79 points80 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I've always thought when a girl says she's 'well travelled' it means they "fucked their way across Europe".

[–]redpilledjoe35 points36 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If a girl ever goes to Europe on some "spontaneous adventure" blah blah blah she minimum sucked and fucked 5 guys.

[–]Bruchibre15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She'll come back having explored and learned about herself :)

- Learning about yourself = getting dicks

- Learning about the world = getting dicks

- Enjoying youth = getting dicks

- Enjoying life = getting dicks

The feminist agenda is spoiling the world for us.

[–]Chit-Chad90 points91 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

Attention, whatever is cool on Instagram is fuel for the hamster. Those that actually travel don't really brag about it, you won't even know they disappeared for a week.

[–]red_matrix[S] 34 points35 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

One thing I've noticed when traveling is how time and effort women take in getting the perfect photo (for Facebook?). That and the selfie stick epidemic.

[–]resnine43 points44 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

They are creating that perfect picture to create fantasy-land on insta, snap, twitter. They love it when they can both garner attention/validation as well as making everyone envious/jealous. To feel above and superior is a driving force for a lot of the insta girls.

[–]longjeep200518 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The fantasy-land looks ridiculous when travelling when you see these girls taking hours posing for photos instead of exploring and learning about new places

[–]resnine15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

When you are actually going with them on these trips and experiencing all the "SHIT" in between then you realize how they are just trying to create a false version of reality on their insta-accounts. It's downright disgusting and misleading.

[–]Chit-Chad14 points15 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Yup, from what I've read on TRP, girls love anything that'll make them look cool and edgy. Which is why tinder/bumble are full of bios of women who "love to travel". Plus, dem sweet sweet Instagram likes

[–]red_matrix[S] 18 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I think most Tinder profiles are set up for getting Instagram followers.

[–]htowntrav8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Definitely self promoting and to gain Snapchat and instagram orbiters. The more eyes equals more validation right?

[–]Chit-Chad4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Perfectly summed up, as we know validation is currency and social media gives you that for free. A whole lot of it - validation without effort. It's like if a man got sex by just giving out his snapchat or insta, why even actually bother pursuing women if that were the case.

[–]resnine5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not only that, it creates a measure for the guy to have to live up to. If her lifestyle is going to parties at mansions and going to exotic locations in we cannot even pronounce, they it creates a standard for men to date her. It's all pre-planned. They know the psychology behind it. It's a culling process, they know a lot of dudes cannot keep up with that lifestyle so the high-maintenance type is just using that as a culling process much like guys here cull girls with the "fuck yes fuck no" process. Guys want the sex, women want to lifestyle.

[–]PR0JECT_XIII1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Love to travel" but 9 out of 10 have never travelled.

[–]TryhardPantiesON9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I always believed, if you are traveling so you can take the perfect picture for social network sites, then you are traveling for the wrong reasons. It's ok to take pictures. They are memories, but you put too much effort in the picture that you fail to appreciate in a more profound level your surroundings, culture, food, music, etc.

It's just like when people go to concerts, only to pull their phones out and start recording, just enjoy the damn spectacle.

[–]resnine11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Insta-fuel*

Instagram is basically like fairy-tale land for women, they can create their own little world on there. I think of it as an extension of the princess-complex. Being worldly/cultured/high-class is just like how the princesses world would be. It's a way to garner attention/validation and appearing ABOVE and SUPERIOR to common-folk(the thing they despise).

[–]PrimordialXY5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Those that actually travel don't really brag about it, you won't even know they disappeared for a week.

Nah - it's not always for attention either. I'm a photographer and my girl and I travel to a series of countries every few months. If we didn't constantly brag about traveling then resorts and hotels wouldn't offer us luxury accomodation in exchange for exposure. I totally get what you're saying though

[–]Chit-Chad9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're definitely an exception to the case, I was mostly talking about your general population. Goals af tho

[–]TheLongerCon1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Those that actually travel don't really brag about it, you won't even know they disappeared for a week.

Says who? Honestly the autism on this sub sometimes blows my mind.

"If you post pictures of your vacation to Europe you're just a poser" is some of the most childish borderline hipster shit I've heard on here yet.

There is no thing as "actually traveling". People travel for all kinds of reason, weather, cuisine, architecture, language, to meet up with friends, to meet new people, appreciation of history, etc. They're all valid.

You act like these girls are getting off the plane, taking a selfie at Eiffel tower, and spending the rest of vacation in their hotel room checking their instagram likes.

There's nothing wrong with letting people know you're having a good time, there's nothing wrong with taking pictures to remember a well earned vacation. And yes, traveling is a status symbol, everybody likes to float their status a little bit, nothing wrong with that. Maybe if more people on this sub did it they wouldn't constantly be complaining about how "tinder is shit".

[–]TurgidMeatWand1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You left out the part where Instagram is basically like a lower effort YouTube and Twitch in a certain way, and a lot of these girls and guys are hoping to bumblefuck thier way into winning the Instagram lottery and achieve influencer status.

[–]TheLongerCon3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most girls who travel are not trying to bumblefuck their way to influencer status, anyone with any experience traveling would know this.

[–]TRPKiddo40 points41 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

People like to feel like they’re a part of something. These women realize they don’t have shit going for them so they try to act like they’re cultured.

[–]rebuildingMyself32 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women never cared about their host country's culture. They don't preserve it, they don't foster it, they happily fuck barbarians that invade their lands, and they only promote what's good for Team Woman, not Team Society

[–]htowntrav36 points37 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

They all want to be Dubai portapoty’s

[–]red_matrix[S] 11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I hear the pay is good lol

[–]rebuildingMyself2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

50k/deuce

[–]resnine26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

They are always in that fog/fairy-tale/fantasy world. It's pretty much like their default behavior. What does every girl want to be? A princess. Some girls never grow out of that, but instead what they do is expand it in different ways. Instead of being an actual princess (some logic kicks in, they know it isn't actually possible) it morphs into being superior over other people aka "being cultured" "being worldly" "being high-class", all like the princesses world be like. That princess-complex is everywhere in the way they dress like to what they eat to the way they speak. That need to feel ABOVE and SUPERIOR (cultured/worldly/high-class) all is an extension of that princess-complex.

[–]flee_market2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Externally, anyway - behind closed doors whichever Chad and his friends are gagging her on their cocks.

[–]Bear-With-Bit21 points22 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

It's social status. Even she's not broadcasting on social media, she still gets to brag to her girlfriends, sisters, mother, etc. Especially if she has a BB to foot the bill.

My ex wife who was barely on social media only shared pics of us traveling.

As we were getting into heated arguments over finances -- the main reason we split -- frantically she once brought up, "What about travel?!"

I shot back at her, "WTF does traveling have to do with saving our marriage?!"

With that question, I sealed my own fate... or rather, my own freedom.

AFBB, fellas.

[–]red_matrix[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wait - was your ex's main concern she couldn't travel if you split up?

[–]Tiway223 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Why did you split? Why would you think not traveling would save your marriage?

[–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It wasn't about travel, it was getting him to get back in line. She saw control slipping away.

[–]alisonstone 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

They were arguing about finances, so money is probably the issue (as it ultimately is in most cases).

[–]omega_dawg933 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

70% of marriages end bc of money issues... not cheating, not violence, etc. $$$.

[–]Iwannachokekatie2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Source pls

[–]askmrcia12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most women who claim they like to travel do so for attention.

I've been on two study abroad trips with mixes of guys and girls.

You can tell which girls were there for the actual experiences and which ones were there to brag on social media.

The latter, after the first three days were all complaining about how they couldn't wait to get home. Complaints were "the food was nasty, too expensive, the locals are racists, too much walking, too much waiting for public transportation, poor cellphone service, the hotel showers were bad, the beds were uncomfortable, ect...."

After the first three days where they took all their pictures at landmarks and visited a few clubs, they were ready to go home.

My younger sister was like this when she went tu China. If you followed her on instagram and snapchat you think she loved every minute of china.

If you heard her talking about the trip in person, she hated every minute of it and spent most of the trip eating McDonald's and other chain restaurants.

[–]zarathustrahhh12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

There's the ones who want genuine world experience. One of my former plates traveled through South America with a couple of friends, found little unknown towns and spent time in them. She saw some really interesting things and showed me photos only after I got to know her. Before that, I would have had no idea as she isn't on IG or Facebook.

Then there's tinder where I got really fucking tired of seeing this shit:

CH->JP->US->CA->FR->BR->WHO GIVES A FUCK

Wow! A picture of Times Square! So unique and special!

I think these are the girls who have never picked up a book combined with out of control #FOMO and dump their money (or mommy and daddy's money) into shit they think will make them interesting. When really I'd much rather have a girl whose skin isn't sunburned to shit or knees that are permanently scarred from giving yet another Luiz the poolboy blowjobs on an oh-so-generic trip to Brazil.

[–]fuckinboxershortsman7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'd say this is the best answer in the thread. There are plenty of women that want to do it for the social media and sex, but there are also plenty that do relief work or go to nowhere towns. Traveling for the right reasons can be a humbling experience and a reminder that the world doesn't revolve around you. Or it can be an excuse to party bunch and be basic.

[–]omega_dawg935 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

my ex and all of her VERY overweight friends actually traveled a LOT just to sight-see, take pix, and EAT, EAT, EAT.

they had a list of places they wanted to visit on EVERY trip, and EVERY place had the #1 restaurant to dine at while there. and they hit them all.

[–]CalvinRichland21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

RED FLAG. People obsessed with travel generally but not always have nothing going on in their pathetic life. Often fucked every foreign guy they met.

The funniest part is when they try to impress me with it and then turns out they know nothing about the country because fucking your way through europe and riding a train actually doesn't teach you much.

[–]Velebit8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

During history it was usually women who would travel long distance to be in a court of a noble, meet suitors or join the household of her new husband or to a honeymoon.

On the other hand historically men would travel only when thing would turn very bad. There was no food so they had to search for it while hungry, there was a lack of resources so they had to go long distance to chop wood or mine raw materials, there was a war so they traveled with an army or navy while their wives were left unsupervised.

All of this would have left very different evolutionary meaning of traveling which for men meant high risk of death and for women high opportunity of pleasure.

Take a look at most of Spanish conquistadors/pirates, most of them died in shipwrecks, battles, shark attacks, getting lost in jungle... even the men who led and had the power to tell someone 'you go first'.

[–]red_matrix[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Interesting take!

[–]remember_that_girl 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy Link

Good Lord, full moon parties in Thailand are the trashiest I've seen. Traveling there is not being cultured. Go there if you want to fuck a starry eyed 17 year old who drinks for the first time. Otherwise, read a fucking book at home.

Source: living in Asia

[–]TonytheNetworker5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Just Googled Full moon party in Thailand. HOLY FUCKING SHIT. Sounds like the place to be for instant fucking.

[–]trpppp1235 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Lmao I went to the full moon party on New Years expecting to fuck 3 broads in one night based on the hype that surrounded it. I'm glad I did it for a cool experience, and it was fun since I had a few friends, but was a sausage fest and I'd never do it again and not really recommend it. People getting into fights, pissing in the ocean, was trashy as hell.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is very true.

[–]Mr-Ed20913 points14 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

It's actually quite an interesting question which I've put quite a bit of thought in over the years. As someone who's travelled for around 4 years and managed back packers accommodation in a popular travel/adventure town, as well fucked a fair share of wanderlusters. It's mostly about shopping for guys, hopefully finding a foreign man from a country/culture which they've pedastalled as culturally superior to their own; as well as appearing to have a hobby/interest out of normal chick shit (Netflix, wine, pizza). Some women do go all out and sleep with a LOT of guys away from home. And for others (while still obviously sleeping with the occasional dude here and there) just the thrill of being in a hostel and around so many 'prospects' is exciting (it's the same for guys tbh) and something that is quite far removed from conventional home life.

It's also weirdly become a status thing for girls nowadays as well. For the typical middle class girl with nice teeth, it's almost a right of passage to go backpacking on fathers money after finishing her degree. The advent of Instagram and 'travel bloggers' has just made bored suburban girls all the more desperate to go out there and develop their own identity as 'world traveller'.

It exists because it's something that is easy to do (anyone can book a flight) and theres a big market catering to it. Also women seem to get 'credit' for what is basically going on a vacation. As if they're some sort of shit Lara Croft posing by a Thai temple which was all arranged for by their hostel tour operator.

[–]JunKunX 1 points [recovered]  (10 children) | Copy Link

Currently in Odense, Denmark. How do you fuck wanderlusters?

I’m skinny fat and broke so I’m going to lose weight, but then bulking is going to take some time. Reading up on game and dropshipping in the meantime.

[–]OneBrowUp8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Try from behind.

[–]trpppp1230 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

Stay at hostels, go party with them, approach.

[–]JunKunX 1 points [recovered]  (6 children) | Copy Link

You ever been to a hostel? It’s a sausage fest or retirement home

[–]trpppp1230 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

You're in a shitty city then or picking bad hostels. Ones I stayed in had plenty of chicks. Even if you don't meet girls in hostels, you should be trying to make friends. When you go out to a bar/club later, you can meet chicks there.

[–]450k_crackparty 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah hostels are the easiest place on earth to pick up. People who stay in them are usually travelling alone and are always game to meet new people. You show up, a group of all the randos sort of forms, you go out for the day, build rapport, hit the bar at night, smash.

[–]JunKunX 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

I subletted a dorm. The hostel from earlier was a sausage fest / retirement home

Bars / clubs are alcoholics and teenyboppers. I don’t drink or smoke

[–]AnjaJutta0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

You are in Odense Denmark not barcelonaromeparis, enjoy your stay

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I always thought it was a humblebrag status thing, with the growing class divide recreational travel is reserved for the wealthy (or at least those who aren't stuck in a regular job).

[–]Bing_Bang_Bam4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Travel is great but eating McDonald's in Hong Kong misses the point entirely. It's just fashionable right now. Birds of a feather.

[–]boom_bostic4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s all to do with social media. Majority of these chicks wouldn’t even be able to enjoy themselves because they would be too concerned with the best type of filter to use for a selfie. It’s like whenever you hear about someone falling off a cliff to their death...all because they were busy taking a sweet angled selfie.

[–]trpppp1233 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I traveled the world for the whole year last year and I saw some crazy shit. For me it was never about becoming more cultured though, but rather living it up while I'm young. I've got incredible stories to tell, I've done so much, seen what most people dream of, climbed active volcanoes in the middle of the night at 1am, trained with some of the craziest muay thai fighters in thailand, scuba dived with sharks, got into trouble with Thai police, fucked a bunch of different of women from different cultures in Europe. I would never give that year up for any amount of money.

Although, seeing as what women do when they travel, a lot of TRP concepts got ingrained so deep into me, I can't ever see myself getting married. But even worse are North American girls who are so damn entitled. I met tons of women, I'd say in the 100s (don't mean I fucked them) and I can count probably 2 or 3 that I'd consider were actually in it for a cultural experience and didn't want to party, and they weren't North American. The rest were definitely all travel sluts, pretending on Instagram how cultured they are meanwhile banging dudes left and right. The worst one I saw was where I was dancing at a club and I saw this one chick (fucking stunner) who literally made out 6 guys (that I counted) within the span of an hour. I even saw her being dragged away holding hands with some guy and stop when she saw another good looking dude, start making out with him while making the other guy wait still holding his hand. I remember when I was younger, this shit would blow my mind, but I've seen so much of it now it doesn't phase me much. I'm not complaining though, I had my fair share of fun. Bitches like dick just like we like pussy.

I came back and nothing has changed back home, everyone's doing the same thing, while I've got all these stories to tell. People ask me when I'm getting married and I lol at it now.

These wanderlust girls are extremely fun to hangout and talk with btw, but not worth anything more than FWB status.

[–]red_matrix[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

These wanderlust girls are extremely fun to hangout and talk with btw, but not worth anything more than FWB status.

At least now you know. Those wanderslut girls are all around you now back home, and you know how they truly act when no one is looking. It's a tough pill to swallow.

[–]trpppp1230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I actually miss travelling and shagging left and right now that I wrote that out lol... I barely go out at home because I'm so focused on career/fitness gains now.

[–]AceroInoxidable7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Seriously? Most of the answers are so blind... Most of you forget that traveling is actually very cool, and that foreign cultures are sometimes astonishing and always interesting.

TL;DR Besides all the "attention" they get for doing it, international travel is fun and therefore people, not only women, like it.

[–]red_matrix[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My gripe was the bitching people do about our culture, then travel to the other side of the world and do the same shit we do here, get drunk, eat fast food, etc then act all pretentious about how great 'Europe' is because "they don't drive" or something to that effect.

[–]topothebellcurve1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Agreed. There's more sour grapes in here than a winery. I wouldn't consider an ltr with a girl unless she explicitly wanted to travel with me.

[–]red_matrix[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I wouldn't consider an ltr with a girl unless she explicitly wanted to travel with me.

That's not what my post was about...but lots of girls want to go party/travel with their friends, not their boyfriends.

[–]topothebellcurve2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with your sentiment. Shitty American "wandersluts" (love that term, btw)

I was commenting on the flavor of the comments, which seemed to me as sort of anti travel.

[–]NotMeUsee2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Full moon party sounds dope

[–]red_matrix[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That's my point: talk about how great travel is and how much it 'cultures' and teaches you - by going to a beach full of westerners and getting wasted. Talk about hypocritical.

[–]flee_market6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The only "culture" those girls are accumulating is antibiotic-resistant gonorrhea

[–]ButMessiDeservedIt0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Can confirm, went in November 2017. What a fucking experience that was. Fooling around from 6-7am. Madness.

Edit: 6pm - 7am

[–]JW_21 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Just with random chicks?

[–]ButMessiDeservedIt1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup. I went with a friend.

Obviously didn't get very "lucky" but yeah, Asian girls were pretty receptive while the Western girls..... Not at all haha.

I'm brown haha.

[–]Herdsengineers2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

First - I do think international travel can be a great thing. Until you've experienced life overseas enough to get an idea of what life there is truly like, you don't really truely appreciate your own native home land. You also don't truly have a good idea of the pro's and con's of both your own home land and other countries.

That said, a guided trip with a selfie stick doesn't count. Tourist treks and other trips that don't expose you to real life there, not gonna be nearly as enlightening as say a mission trip where you live, work, eat and play with the locals. My advice is to take everything young girls post on the internet about how wonderful their overseas time is with a grain of salt. If it's all selfies of great touristy times, they really aren't getting out of it what they could, and they are just trying to inflate how great their lives are while getting "you go girl"s from their enablers and orbiters. For someone that has caught on to their act, best reaction is no reaction at all. Just pass by, same as you would pass by something uninteresting while walking by on a sidewalk.

[–]MakeMenGreatAgain442 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

In Europe everyone has wanderlust. Boys and girls.

[–]Zanford2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Wanderlust is a slut tell and red flag, yes.

It's a combo of factors:

  • Sex on vacation "doesn't count" and is less likely to affect her reputation

  • 'Grass is always greener on the other side' psychology, esp when she's surrounded by soyboys growing up.

  • US media and advertising, especially chick flicks and chick lit and the fashion industry, build up Western Europe (esp Rome, Paris, London) as fairy tale utopias of romance and culture full of wealthy, intelligent men and fine cuisine. (In reality the richest European countries are statistically about as poor as the poorest US states, and getting worse.)

  • US media does everything it can to shit on (white) American men - they are portrayed as either illiterate preps (South/Midwest), insufferably prickish twigs (Northeastern), or grungy vegan soyboy hippies (West Coat) and if they are muscular/alpha they are roid-rage rapists (frat bro or football player stereotype).

  • For men, traveling is a status signal (it signals wealth, leisure, ambition, curiosity, and possibly a high flying career and/or getting around sexually). Therefore, women want to meet men who travel. Also, b/c of gender projection, women think that if THEY travel, THEY will be more attractive to men.

  • Although they will never admit this to themselves, due to political correctness, women (especially white women, but other races as well) prefer white men, but at the same time feel social-political pressure to be 'multicultural' in some vague sense. With a chick-flick-archetype European man she kinda has it both ways (especially if he looks slightly 'exotic', like a super blonde blue eyed Nordic dude, or a darker swarthier Mediterranean-but-still-white dude.)

[–]red_matrix[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sex on vacation "doesn't count" and is less likely to affect her reputation

No one is around to know exactly how many guys she's fucked and how freely she gives it away. Go to the med, you'll see thousand of young American girls hanging out at cafes, thinking they are in a fairy tale, having locals show them around, living out their deepest erotic fantasies (two or three guys at once), there's no need for restraint, and no one will ever know. Spring break in Cancun is also another place to see women off the chain (not really wanderlust, but no one is around to damage her reputation).

[–]Zanford0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Preach. All very true.

[–]MRPFuckMe10 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

“(In reality the richest European countries are statistically about as poor as the poorest US states, and getting worse.)”

Lol, what? Go hang out in Hamburg, Frankfurt, Copenhagen or Zurich and compare it to Jackson, Mississippi or Birmingham and get back to us. This sounds like some alt-right Alex Jones bullshit propaganda to me.

[–]Zanford0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You have the attitude of a whiny child. You need to toughen up, and you have a long road ahead of you here at TRP.

Also the facts are not on your side.

http://www.aei.org/publication/us-gdp-per-capita-by-state-vs-european-countries-and-japan-korea-mexico-and-china-and-some-lessons-for-the-donald/

[–]sjdfhskdjfh2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Even though I've backpacked 45 countries myself, I stay away from these kind of girls. I've met a few and they don't consider it authentic travel unless they fuck a local in each country.

[–]red_matrix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha I've heard girls say this out loud when drunk.

[–]Senior ContributorMentORPHEUS2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think it's solipsism; they find themselves attracted to men who travel, so they think men will find their travels attractive in the same way.

In truth, it's a great slut-tell, especially when the woman's income clearly does not support her taste in travel.

[–]Elitevaz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Travel junkies are a turn off for me. Even if it's a front. I'd like a destination vacation here and there if I could afford it, but it's not a big deal. I've never been to Europe, I'd like to go to Spain, but if I die having never done that, it wouldn't be a big deal (not just because I'm dead either).

[–]SlappaDaBayssMon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think it has a lot more to do with adventure and removing yourself from your comfort zone than anything else. Sex just comes as a bonus.

Good looking women can get dick delivered to their door without needing a passport

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

They were sold this idea by the media. You don't need a man, you need to travel and raise a dog.

inb4 the next generation of women dies unmarried and childless because no one, not even soy boys are interested in putting up with the shit storm that they have swallowed.

It's about as basic as a bitch can get, yet they don't see it.

There are plenty of reasons for YOU as a man to travel, some of it is this culturing they are talking about. Most of it is the wisdom you will gain by getting out of your bubble. Too few men ACTUALLY cold approach women, too few men ACTUALLY go out to other cities alone and try to have a good time. Too few men are trapped in the 'someday' mentality never making the real gains they wish they were making for plenty of excuse supported reasons.

These women are actually on point, the value of the general male is dropping, most of us want something very simple at home. We want a job that pays enough for us to support a family, and a woman that isn't attracted to a huge amount of drama and fake robotic ideals shoved on her by the media.

It's difficult to find that too, we have plenty of low quality jobs that suck the life out of us, and the people in the quality positions know those positions are quality so they act right and retain those positions for the long term.

How many middle managers in the 30-40 year range do you know? Plenty, but that doesn't give any of the rest of us room to move up, no matter how hard you work, most companies just don't have the capacity to grow individuals.

There are plenty of them that do, but every company needs people in those bottom positions, many more of those than in management making it difficult for this population explosion to find meaning or value in the workforce.

The secret is simple: Invest your money early, as if you will be broke if you don't, because you will be. Don't buy dumb shit, don't buy expensive things, don't eat at expensive places, don't do any of that shit for years. Be broke, act poor as fuck and don't try to make slow strides towards having the home of the Jones's. Wait till you can flat out buy nice things, like a car, and a house, and a boat. Don't fuck with debt, leave your money in a high yield savings account and just keep depositing money in it.

Whatever you do, don't throw your hard earned money away. Most people suck at SAVING money vs EARNING money.

Compound interest. I have no solution to female problems, engage as many as possible, assume 99% are going to turn out shit, even the ones you hold for a few years.

[–]red_matrix[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Great post. The difference in traveling/partying for men is we don't get invited to crazy parties or clubs when we travel. We either have to host (not really possible when you travel) or try to get invited or buy your way in (kind of pointless). Our experience is vastly different: traveling as a guy is just harder, everything is.

[–]TheLongerCon0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude have you actually ever travelled?

Traveling is the easiest time to get laid ever. Just go to a hostel with a good bar crawl + pipeline on tinder as a backup. When I land in cities, I have multiple locals who I've already been gaming for a week online who have plans to "show me around".

If you can't get laid traveling, you probably need to reevaluate your social skills.

[–]red_matrix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Living as a girl is completely than as a guy, especially when traveling. It's like living life on easy mode. But yeah, I love to travel when I can, and getting laid is hit or miss depending on where you are, but you're right.

[–]bob13bob0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

you can always tell financially literacy by this: high yield savings account = noob low cost index fund = knowledgeable.

[–]bitterconsultant1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

In my experience, their "travels" are so superficial and they never actually grow from it. It's all about getting more attention by being "cool" for them.

Call them Basic Travel Chicks ...

[–]OPTIMUSL1ME1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's just another form of hedonism/indulgence, of which the western woman is well versed. Don't think about it too hard.

[–]wtg29891 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Went on a date with a girl who only wanted to talk about how she loved going to Europe. When she asked and found out that I have never left the country it was like game over was written all over her face. No second date lol

[–]Radkin0071 point2 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

I’m confused, are you saying you have no desire to explore the world and see everything it has to offer?

[–]red_matrix[S] 2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I would and do when I can. It's the complaining women do about how much our culture sucks, then they travel to the other side of the world and do the exact same shit that we do here (think McDs in HK).

[–]buddahbusted0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

They have noticed something, and that is that yes Virginia, American culture does suck. Not what a nationalist likes to hear, but it’s the ugly truth. Any well traveled person realizes it. And yes some people who understand this are also part of the problem.

There are great people everywhere, but our cities are soul destroying places, old world cities are centers for the community.

American exceptionalism is dead. Brussels or Moscow, you worship one or the other now.

[–]red_matrix[S] 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

The thing is - why have people all over the world bought into our culture? Europe and Asia are being 'Americanized', our music and media is all over the world. It's inescapable. Why?

[–]bloocher2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because money. I'm not able to find good statistics quickly, but US is the largest advertisement market, it's the place with the headquarters of most international corporations. And most of culture pushing happens through ads or marketable content, such as movies, music and TV. Thus the upcoming years we will see a lot more of Chinese culture.

[–]buddahbusted1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I feel like a thesis needs to be written on this.

Consumerism is inexacable, but i think our culture is deeper than pop music. It’s calling the modernists the best architects of all time.

Unfortunately what was good about our culture is being eroded by foreign enemies.

There is nothing inherently “red pill” about a provincial American outlook. When a man travels, it brings new experiences, and different understandings of culture, globalism, and the differences between peoples.

People are becoming more and more like each other. America became more Russian, Russia became more American.

There are things to learn from other nations. A diplomat can be just as “alpha” as a marine. What is silly is how foreign diplomats have completely wiped the floor with the USA.

It is this culture of ignorance that is proud of anti-intellectualism that even instagirls will notice when they return home. Yes many of them got quite a sampling of foreign men in their travels. But foreign alphas are still alpha, and American men can compete with the best the world has to offer, but listen to feedback when people critique this country.

[–]red_matrix[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It is this culture of ignorance that is proud of anti-intellectualism that even instagirls will notice when they return home.

Well said. And it's spreading and becoming more and more championed. Ironically, it's that very quality that's required to make it in this country. A bit of a paradox.

There's much more to our culture than meets the eye. It's sad we have thrown away the pillars of the west: starting with the Greeks and Romans. Heck, kids don't even learn civics anymore. Consumerism is leading down a dark path, I'm not sure where it leads but the nice thing is we can still find what we're looking for, but we have to be willing to buck the trends.

[–]buddahbusted2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

American society is sick and rotten. Liberal arts are what all men needed to be considered FREE men.

What’s been confused in this sub is that what is good for the top .001% isn’t good for the working man. I don’t begrudge the oligarchs for their class solidarity, if I was one I’d be no different. But as I wasn’t born into that class, There is nothing red pill about lowering other people’s taxes.

Part of the problem is that working class solidarity is broken by the matriarchy who push socialism for women. But a group of men who use their collective bargaining power to extract concessions from capital is the most masculine act in the world.

The minorities aren’t stealing your women, the oligarchs are the ones engineering your economic destruction.

[–]Merwebb1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Is everywhere, you can't escape it, it's on tv, radio, movies, fashion, entertainment.

Corporations did and keep doing a good job expanding.

Ask yourself as an US person: what defines your culture??

[–]JunKunX 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

There isn’t much man. Europe is very westernized, Africa/India/ME are fucked, Asia is the same as your local Chinatown

[–]bluechipmonk5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

yea you clearly need to get out of your town man.

[–]GainzdalfTheWhey0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I just like nature, so there's still some

[–]JaspersChest1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm full of wanderlust and think America has no culture and is booorriinnnggg. This isn't just a girl thing, I believe guys experience this as well. Women are just more prone to share the experience on social media. Some of them might be doing it for attention, and some really just like the adventure

[–]red_matrix[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My point was they bitch about our culture then travel to Asia to hang out with westerners doing western things.

[–]Gerstlauer[🍰] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Unrelated, but I've always used n-count without knowing what the 'N' stands for, could someone shed some light?

[–]red_matrix[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

N is just the name for a variable, in this case for "number of sexual partners".

[–]Gerstlauer[🍰] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

As someone heavily interested in both maths and science, I'm disappointed in myself.

Thanks for clearing it up!

[–]chaseexcellence0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I love to travel. Most of these girls see friends traveling on social media and get jealous. They want to travel, but they want you to pay for it. Bottom line. Go travel and see the world. It is amazing.

[–]red_matrix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree, do it, but don't pay for anyone else.

[–]TheLongerCon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

These girls talk about how shitty our culture is in America

1) Many parts of America do have shitty culture

2) If you had traveled much, you'd realize that there are young people in every country are cynical(sometimes justified, sometimes not) about their culture, that's part of youth.

McDonalds in Hong Kong

What's wrong with this? Not everyone travels for cuisine, nor does every meal eaten in foreign country has to be native cuisine.

is a wanderlust girl n-count = 100 ?

I sincerely hope this isn't a serious question.

they travel around the world to hang out with other westerners, drink, fuck, and do the exact same thing we do here and bragging about how "cultured" their experience was and how enriching travel can be

Really? Did you follow them around the whole time they were on vacation to make sure that they didn't do anything they wouldn't do in America?

I find threads like this annoying. There's no real question("If a girls like to travel does that mean she's fucked 100 dudes" isn't a question), there's just venting, and venting post should be made to the main TRP subreddit.

[–]Toxik60 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I never know how they afford it

[–]MRPFuckMe10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Traveling is a socially acceptable substitute for a purpose in life.

[–]earthmother920 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

She just wants the D. They all want the D.

[–]Mojiitoo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Travelling is just boosting your social interactions. Id love to go to south america and meet people.

You do the same, with different people in a different setting. Why not exploit the wanderlust of them? In one week argentina id kissed more beautiful girls in a whole year in europe...

[–]poochman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Who gives a shit what they talk about. Don't take what women say seriously, just as wouldn't take what a 12 year old says seriously.

[–]bluechipmonk0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Mods should remove this post seriously. Many commenters here sound like they can't afford to travel lol.

Traveling is one of the best and easiest ways to fuck girls and improve yourself. All these comments make me wanna unsubscribe. Y'll sound pathetic.

[–]red_matrix[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Did you read what I wrote in the OP? This isn't a thread against travel.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

nice knowing you. later.

[–]canyousmellechidna0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Some people just want to travel.

My boyfriend is going to school to work as a cargo pilot and I’ve expressed to him that I want to travel, as does he. My parents talked about travelling to thailand and told me stories about the monkeys there that would steal their snacks right out of their hands. I study biology and zoology, I would love to meet and study animals from around the globe.

Not really sure how people expressing the interest to travel affects you in any way. America is great, sure, but there is a whole world out there to see and experience. BF and I travelled to Alaska from our home state to work, because we want to experience the vast culture difference here. As well as the climate, the rainforest, the flora and the fauna.

Travelling is very fun and a great experience for everyone, not just women. I plan on road tripping throughout the 48 states at some point in the future, the ideal is with my future child(ren) and spouse because doing it on your own is not very fun. Why hate on people who want to see the planet they live on?

[–]red_matrix[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Why hate on people who want to see the planet they live on?

Did you read my post? I added an edit to make it more obvious what my gripe was. I have nothing against travel. This is just a trend I've noticed in recent years:

Edit2: they travel around the world to hang out with other westerners, drink, fuck, and do the exact same thing we do here and bragging about how "cultured" their experience was and how enriching travel can be

[–]canyousmellechidna2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know a lot of people who travel to other places and involve themselves in that culture, especially when many of these places are modernized and the only real difference is language and maybe food. But everyone partakes in the food.

Most people just observe and take in what their eyes see. When I see asians travelling here to the US, they’re with other asians taking pics, they’re not throwing on cowboy hats and doing the clog dance with Jimmy Bob from the corner store.

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