TempestTcup touched on this recently, women girls who just don’t seem to get it. You can be a better version of you and still be you! You can still be you and attract/keep a high quality man. While we RPW talk about being sweet and submissive, we don’t often go into detail on how this is accomplished. So, I give you a how-to-guide in inspiring the man in your life to throw you on the bed and ravish you in a few, TRP endorsed steps.
First and foremost, be sincere. If any of this sounds stupid to you and you can’t do something with genuine intent, don’t try it. When I surveyed TRP about this, sincerity was the overwhelming theme of all the responses.
Do: Give compliments freely. You can comment on his physical prowess, size of his muscles, manly skills, or even his dick, but remember that sincerity is key! Just find something you really like about him and tell him about it. Having a hard time being sincere without feeling silly? /u/neurosis74 suggests, “I know it’s silly, but that was kind of hot”. Said while you’re actually feeling silly for saying it, and you’ve got a recipe for swollen, manly pride.
Don’t: Air your dirty laundry in public… and don’t tolerate others airing it for you. This seems to be a difficult thing for many women to grasp, because it’s not just about what you post on Facebook or what you say to your mother. I’m not entirely sure why, but when groups of wives/girlfriends get together, the tide of conversation almost always drifts to the husbands/boyfriends. And the conversation inevitably turns ugly. When your friends start bashing their men, at the least, refuse to participate. If you are taunted for your refusal, set the battleaxes straight. Your man is your Captain and you will not be guilty of disloyalty or sedition. If this is too difficult for you, then follow Thumper’s father’s rule: if you can’t say something nice, then don’t say anything at all.
Bonus points: Make your girlfriends jealous. Brag about him. Before the conversation gets nasty, get dirty. You don’t have to go into torrid details, but you can tell them about how hot he looked swinging the hammer while he was hanging the cabinets in the kitchen… and how when he got done the two of you played “carpenter”. You got hammered and he nailed you. If you get as flushed as I just did typing that, you’ll make the ladies blush. The next time they see your man, it will show on their faces, and then he’ll know you were talking about him, if you know what I mean.
Do: Be sexual. Though I’m constantly telling sluts to keep their legs closed, when you’re in a committed relationship, open your legs wide. It’s not slutty to enjoy your man’s more amorous talents.
Anyone can get sexy and wild on a chance encounter, but to do fun sexy things for your husband consistently and on a long term basis is not something a person can be caught up and swept away in the moment with. When practiced in a LTR it takes on meaning because of the sheer honesty it takes to find intense pleasure in repetitive sex with the same person…. I can tell if a woman loves me during sex. I can tell if it's lust or love or performed like a chore. ~ /u/trudatness
Don’t: Starfish. A corollary to the last point, I first heard of starfishing over at marriedmansexlife.com. Don’t know what I’m talking about? Imagine lying perfectly still, ignoring him, while he pounds away at you, slowly killing himself inside. Do this and you will kill his love for you. You will kill him.
Do: Let him be your White Knight TRP talks a lot about stupid blue pill White Knights and blah blah blah. Guess what? They all do it. Without thinking. It’s built into their DNA. So let it work for you. Let him kill the spiders, reach the highest shelf, and open the pickle jars. In return be his Princess Daphne. This is something else Anthol Kay taught me. Read the link, watch the video. It won’t even matter if he knows you’re doing it. Mr. Strom knows, and doesn’t care.
Bonus points: Game him. Feign weakness and be obvious about it. Get silly with it. Giggle. Blush. Ask him to open the pickle jar and pout out your bottom lip while you ask, because you’re just a weak little girl. Grip his biceps and tell him how strong and powerful he is. Rub his chest in wonder and awe. When the jar pops open, let out a faint “oh, my!” Now would be a good point to drop something on the floor in front of him so you can pick it up and wiggle your tushie for him.
Now for the final “Do”.
Do: Respect him Without respect, everything else is empty. There is no love, no trust, no lust, or companionship without respect. If you don’t respect him, why on earth are you with him? Think he’s an idiot who can’t make decisions for you and your family? You’re the idiot that’s with him. Think he’s a woman hating philanderer? Who hates women more? You’re the masochist that’s with him. Did you marry a real man, who pays the bills, cleans the gutters, and would lay down his life to protect you and your children? Then say it out loud, right now. “I have an amazing man that I’m lucky to have, and I respect him for all that he is and all that he will be.” Repeat this every day. Internalize it. Feel it. When you’ve finally given up on protecting yourself from the wonderful man who will protect you from your family, his family, burglars, bears, and rabid dogs, it will show in your deference to him. The respect he deserves will show in your eyes and in your smile, in every movement.
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