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How is Germany? (self.asktrp)

submitted by iHoldAllTheAces

I can speak the language and want to travel abroad for a while. Is it a good place to do both pickup and expand influence(career and status)?

If this is not AskTRP worthy please delete and I apologize in advance.


[–]reditsdf2342320 points21 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

I probably get downvoted for this, but this is another opinion for you:

Its a pretty boring culture. Everything is regulated and so are the german minds - very predictable after you get to know them. Stereotypes do hold some truths, and for the germans its that they are not funny. They are efficient and ‚ordered’. You will see that on many levels within the culture. Yes they do laugh and you can have a good time with them, but it feels more like they were told to laugh so they laugh. In other cultures it just feels more honest and authentic.

Also the women are not very feminine - some other post mentions it already. And dudes are on majority on the feminized BB side. Feminism came from germany(??) together with the proudness of women wearing pants.

On the other hand germany had a strong porn industry and this business is not as shamefull as in other countries. So prostitution is normal and quite accepted. Nobody would admit they do it, but its not a big deal.

I could go on but it really doesnt matter so much. go and see for yourself, because your experience will depend on your current culture. Maybe you will like it.

[–]uebermacht6 points7 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Can confirm it.
As a tourist it might be all new-ish and exciting, however it's really boring on the long-run. Every small piece is regulated and the women are quite cold.
Especially here in Berlin.
Although it can be easy getting pussy in a good amont of clubs.

[–]abudun79[🍰] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

One got to add, that Berlin is one of the shittiest cities in Germany... in every aspect.

A child only a mother can love.

[–]julius42 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Which clubs do you recommend in Berlin?

[–]vodkasodalimez2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sisyphos

[–]blister3331 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Berghain

[–]LiftOrGTF01 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Kit Kat Club

[–]vodkasodalimez1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

If you like dick up your ass yea probably

[–]julius42 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Why, is it too crowded?

[–]Freenorthman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It is Kind of a Sex club

[–]seekere95 points96 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

can you speak arabic

[–]Helpcalculus5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Asking the real questions.

[–]dongpal2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

arabic, the new turkish here

[–]jiveraffe 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Depends where you go.

I was in Moscow a few years back during summer and then came through Berlin. Goddamn, were the Frauleins letting the side down.

Russian chicks were all summer-dresses and even some military academy girls I stumbled past were looking sharp. Then I hit Berlin and it was all dumpy, frumpy fraus with 80s mom jeans, undercuts, and scowls.

There were plenty of Teutonic hotties, but they didn't seem to embrace their femininity as much.

[–]satanicpriest1326 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tfw no teutonic gf to listen to thrash metal with as we reconquer the glory of Preussenland.

[–]dongpal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

women here let themself go like trash, because they can. the men look mostly like shit ( thats why they import them from syria ) and the men here go for everything, they are very desparate. most people are fat and ugly.

dont compare german women to russian or polish girls, thats a like a world of difference

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen22 points23 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

It's OK here. Tinder works very well. Everything is a little bit less extreme. Girls are more open about hooking up than in the US, because prudeness isn't really a virtue over here and slut-shaming is much less frequent.

AWALT nonetheless.

As a US-citizen most people will want to be friends with you and talk about US-culture like series, stand-up and maybe NFL and NBA. The majority speaks some form of English. Contrary to popular believe (even by ourselves), we are actually relatively open to strangers and we like to learn about you.

If you come in summer, Germany is also a nice place to travel can be very beautiful if you go to the right places. Cities you want to visit are Berlin, Hamburg, Cologne and Dresden. In that order.

[–]reditsdf234230 points1 point  (15 children) | Copy Link

„Relatively open”, yeah thats quite relative. You will find such people in any country on individual level. Germans as a whole are quite unsocial and do not mingle with others. They mind their own business. Speaking to others is forbidden and they will stick to their own circle. Ive been literally asked „why are you talking to me? I dont know you”. And it was not a shittest, their mind just shattered how such thing is possible.

NFL and NBA??? Lol, no german gives a shit about that. If you want to talk about sports you better brush up on german football, because anything else doesnt count. You will see how nationalistic germans get when it comes to football, and how proud they are as germans. Its not a bad thing per se, people can be proud of their country and culture. What is very amusing about it, is that this is the only time when germans are permitted(!) to be nationalistic. Because otherwise its forbidden.

But on the other hand you have LOTS of immigrants, in 1st or later generations which are usually not so uptight. (Which creates more and more problems on its own within the society.)

[–]uebermacht1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Can confirm every point you stated.
I live in southern part of Russia a quarter of the year due to family and vacation, it's completely different.
The more time I spend outside Germany, the happier I become.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen2 points3 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for teaching me about my country. It's nice to be educated by somebody who knows it better than me. After all having been living here for 42 years means practically nothing...

[–]reditsdf234234 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Given your age im sure you understand its not as black and white but a spectrum.

But unless you moved to a foreign country with a completely different culture, learned the langauge fluently, learned the customs, absorbed the culture and spent some years in that foreign country becoming (almost) a native, you will NEVER be able to reflect on your own country properly. No matter what you tell yourself.

Every culture has its pros and cons. Germany has also its pros, dont beat up yourself.

[–]dongpal2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

and he had still more valid points than you. yes people want to know you if youre from US, but the whole NFL NBA (lmao I had to look up what it even was again) thing is just a big lie, I dont know anyone who knows one team or even one player (oh Dirk Nowitzki!)

also people are very uptight and since they are less slutty than US this automatically means they are less open about hooking up.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

(lmao I had to look up what it even was again)

Solipsism 101. Just because you are uneducated and ignorant, everybody else is as well, eh?

I dont know anyone who knows one team or even one player

Gleich und gleich gesellt sich gern, besonders in bildungsfernen Schichten.

they are less slutty than US this automatically means they are less open about hooking up.

Being open about something does not automatically mean being open for something asstard.

Germany is much less about halal in the streets and haram in the sheets than the US.

[–]dongpal1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

what bullshit, it's all about soccer. even our olympic swimming team had to go with the train because the sponsors dont "waste" money on a bus for underdog sports.

[–]1Terminal-Psychosis0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

You crazy son. German girls, especially east German, are very friendly.

[–]reditsdf234230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

True. There is a difference in east and west. East was influenced by russia, so the behavior is a bit different. Im talking about experiences in the west.

[–]uebermacht1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you work in the travel and tourist business maybe? :D

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I once got a handjob from an Asian tourist in a Berlin hostel, if that counts.

[–]DayGameChirality1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Whether it counts depends on whether it was a man or a woman.

[–]julius42 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

And why didn’t you take it further? Why only a hj?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

We were crammed onto a top bunk in a room full of strangers. Not long after I passed out on a table.

[–]uebermacht4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Been living in Germany almost my whole life and it's not worth it.
It might be super exciting on the surface as a foreigner, however a lot of stuff is going hardly wrong.
If you're in Berlin especially, which is the tourist town number one, I can recommend you some very good places you pretty much can slay with ease.
No need to learn German except for amusement mastery.

[–]Shredderick4204 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Go to Estonia to do pickup

[–]AkorTheKing1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Why?

[–]Shredderick4200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Estonia has the most models that have situated from one country in %. Really beautiful women here and a nice small country.

[–]anabolic921 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Been here 10 months, leaving soon anyways.

Lived in a small city 100k people considered one of the most boring in the south(thats what a lot of people said).

Some facts:

  • Girls here loved guys who talked English, like my British friend could open to any girl and pretty hot and they would be receptive.

  • People all over Europe: Italians, Romanians, "Turkish", Spanish...

  • Pretty cucked country: Single people pay 40% taxes of their gross income that go to Refugees and stupid shit mostly.

  • Refugees are a problem, people avoid the topic but they simply come here and don't work, get money from the government to fucking and have shit tons of kids. Met one who was been here for two years and has to yet work a single day.

  • Best way to integrate is learning the language, that compared to my mother tongue is a fucking mess and hard to learn.

  • If European and on the STEM field it's one of the best places to be work wise.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Germany is ok-ish. It's swinging a bit to the right side again (which afaik has alot of parallels with trp). It's still pretty affarmative action based.

In my opinion germany is a bit too regulated. So many rulea for everything. I guess that's what we are famous for, but it becomes annyoing very fast.

If you just want a european country with beautiful women, I can recommend poland, because most of poland is conservative. If you want to go to germany, because you can already speak german, you'll be fine. Just don't engage political discussions with anyone and you should be alright.

[–]iHoldAllTheAces 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Thanks man!

[–]DayGameChirality0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Also Poland is super cheap to live in if you come from more wealthy country. Think Ferriss' 4 Hour Workweek. Source: I live in Poland.

[–]seiretnemeS-1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

You live in Poland you are anti-guns? Shakin' mah haid.

[–]DayGameChirality-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm not anti gun. What the fuck?

[–]seiretnemeS-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

That's not what you were saying a day or two ago.

[–]DayGameChirality-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I said I am against weapons of mass destruction.

[–]seiretnemeS0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Then you compared guns to nukes.

[–]abudun79[🍰] 20 points21 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

If you're from the states you might be disapointed: You have to take care of everything yourself! People care about each other and the environment, you get awesome medical treatment although you might not need it, because nooone will shoot you. We have no safespaces and you still may express whatever comes to your mind (except for "sieg heil") and on average people of all ages are well educated.

But if you are white, you might find that a lot of people are interested in meeting foreigners. If you're black you might find women very much interested in you... lowest-class-women usually, but a hole is a hole, right?

In terms of picking up girls: We're not as fucked up as the US in terms of the typical female behaviors discussed here and you don't have to fear after-sex-rape-allegations. Our laws are still pretty relaxed.

For your career it will be a good booster, since we are known to be the one's who get things done at work. I think it works the other way as well. Even the lazy Germans are extremely productive and usually have a good attitude towards their work. That's one major reason companies love to hire Germans.

(This is a mixture of my experience in the US and the experience of Americans I meet/worked with in Germany)

[–]iHoldAllTheAces 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Thank you.

[–]ticklethegooch11 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I can confirm. Living in Germany in a student environment. If you are white and with foreigners, those foreign women (latinas, asian etc.) will jump on you immediatly. If you are not, then well, I never had a german gf if that helps because of the lack of attraction and I think they look/behave too manly. Russian women are also super hot here and you can find them everywhere because lots of families came over to country after the fall of the Sowiet Union. I never found german woman particulary sexy, because of their personality which is ordered and planned and somewhat not very funny. I have a friend from the US who wants to stay in Germany and loves everything about German culture, I still think the US is more shitty because of the libral movement over there and their hackling. If I could I would go and live in the UK or Canada. Latinos, Arabs and ohter ethnicities love it here because they feel the german women are gorgeous and since they are dark (which is a beauty standard here) they get pussy easily.

If you have balls to go for Turkish, Iranian, Arabic, African etc women, you will be highly rewarded. I say balls because most of those women are still very close to their "own culture". But fucking is super easy.

A gay friend of mine summed up the appearance of the german women perfectly: German women look so manly because after the war Germans needed strong women to re-build the nation. So only the strong, tough kinds would reproduce with the men that were not killed in the war and after a generation or two you ended up with women who lost all their femininity.

[–]LiftOrGTF05 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

German women look so manly because after the war Germans needed strong women to re-build the nation.

Literally lmfao right now.

Most women are so manly because most "men" are little bitches these days. Everytime I see a German couple, I can clearly see that she's the one wearing the pants in that relationship. He looks and behaves like a wimp most of the time, doing everything she's telling him to do etc etc. I am not even surprised that these are the guys who get cheated on or divorced and would forgive their special guuurl. These women know that they can do whatever they want with their bfs/hubbies because they got full control over them.

It's just disgusting to see how most "men" are these days. But hey, who am I... just an asshole who enjoys lifting, right?

[–]uebermacht2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Germany - Cuckland #1

[–]LiftOrGTF01 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

*Sweden

Western society is cucked in general, though. Enjoy the decline.

[–]ticklethegooch10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not saying you are wrong. I just shed light onto one element of the problem. Keep lifting!

[–]Herdsengineers2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

i spent a week and a half on business near Stuttgart. saw a bunch of stuff. i thought the local swabian girls were conservative looking but fit and attractive. very few ham beasts. the brothel in the town we stayed (schwabish gmund) only charged something like $79 euros. i didn't partake in it, but thought it was cool that nobody seemed to be outraged by the brothel right on a main street.

overall, good workers, efficient, had a "as long as it's victimless, let people indulge their vices" attitude.

i loved the visit and intend to go back and see more around lake constance one day.

[–]gaki1237 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is actually a very interesting question

[–]Jsieijejeieokkd3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Beer there is good! I prefer Munich and Bavaria over Berlin.

[–]JinSantosAndria1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I would say we grow perfect BBs. We also have very hard alphas and most of them own a business. So it's a very good place for both, because at some point you end up training with the upper managment at Pfitzenmeier (or even higher) while the hot shit leaves Vanice Beach (lower class gym of the same owner).

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Basically this

[–]BlackFire682 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Germany is fine, thanks. How are you?

[–]nrckprth0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Germany is alright.

When you are going to berlin expect a huge hipster cult.

Upside is that you can travel pretty much anywhere in europe super fast and cheap.

[–]Freenorthman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Every body Talks about Regulations but seriously when I read some of the shit going on in US then germany seems Kind of free. No one will hassle you if you do your thing. Every body says go to Berlin when the real germany is the Ruhr Area. 5 Million people are living here and Berlin is full of hipster fags.

[–]AmazonExplorer0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

As a short person, Germany, Scandinavia, the Netherlands are cancer for me

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

How short are we talking about ?

[–]AmazonExplorer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

5'6"

[–]AmazonExplorer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I spent two months in Hamburg, very nice city. I had a group of friends there, all ethnic minorities while I was white. They said they found the German people "rude", whereas I didn't get that. Some seemed stress, and there was indeed 1 guy who was rude but most seemed very polite. Perhaps they liked me?

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